Stop Being EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT On People: Part 3: BK Shivani: English

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[@prakashmungekar3119]

Don't waste energy just for strangers on the road . Bless them that they reach home safely .. that was very powerful . Thanks very much Didi, Om shanti .

[@yasmineamirodine2073]

Didi please I am afraid of driving. I cannot handle thé stress. I easly get panicked. What should I do?

[@wonderwellplayschooldumka777]

Yes

[@Priyanka_Singh02]

Not on road in life also sometime its not necessary to make them right. Let it be and don't waste our power on others.

[@prakashmungekar3119]

Very much agreed madam . Thanks very much .

[@nishabagri4498]

​@@wonderwellplayschooldumka777 ,

[@LiveOmkar]

This maam saved my life when i was in my worst phase in 2017/18 god bless her

[@jumisaaswatilahon1585]

My worst phase is going on. She's helping me so much🙏🏻🙏🏻❤. God Bless Herl❤🙏🏻

[@LiveOmkar]

@@jumisaaswatilahon1585 sending prayer's for you my friend ❤️🫂

[@ashwinih.y593]

@@jumisaaswatilahon1585 q

[@N00PURA]

Her voice is so calming ❤ plus she’s speaking facts!

[@divyapoduval4402]

Yes she is an angel a free therapist

[@ManiGupta49]

I guess this video came in my feed at the right time. I have been emotionally unwell from last week due to an incident which made me feel.. powerless, worthless, and someone who can be shouted at with no valid reason. I spent 2-3 days thinking: did I deserve that? Why it happened? Why is it always me who can be made feel invaluable? Why people don’t empathize with me? I knew i was being emotionally dependent and giving control to other people on how to dictate my emotional state. I knew I was being victim. Yesterday, I shouted at my brother since he is always engrossed in gaming and mobile, the moment he wakes up till the time he sleeps. In return, I was rebuked. And I slept feeling worthless, powerless again. I have decided to behave indifferent as anything I say, is either misunderstood or is invaluable to anyone. I gets lectures for saying little things or suggesting something. I have decided to be a speech minimalist, the least I speak, the least I am judged, rebuked, or lectured. I know it’s difficult doing what is being said by Shivani ji, but I’ll try my best to conserve my mental energy by not reacting to situations and become indifferent to it. That’s how I see it.

[@javeriashahid8121]

Same with me

[@desibhukkadsindubai]

Our almighty knows when we need his guidance the most🙂

[@shrii827]

Same will me

[@g51661]

I had similar incident few months back. I then connected to God through meditation, bhajans etc( like listening bhajan alone in my room/while travelling etc). I started spenidng time alone for positive self talk assuring myself that everything is peaceful and good and God loves me. God has unconditional love for all. My life is peaceful and happy now. I focus on my own peaceful state over others. Those who used to behave with me in a certain way which they shouldn't also now treat me with respect, peace and love. And some unhealthy elements also automatically sided away from life. Good things ( maybe good lessons through incidents which help us grow spiritually) automatically follow up when we connect to Divine. I pray you have a happy and peaceful state. Also each one has their own personal experience so we must have patience😊

[@bhawanab4653]

Saw your comment and realized that I've been going through the same kinda pain for the last two days and now I'm trying to get better.

[@JunaidKhan-xd7ti]

She is very clear and so sorted ....respect you sister ...

[@papaya6191]

I have already watched thousands of videos about emotional intelligence and independency but still have unclear thoughts. And I'm a person who gets irritated and sad easily by people's actions especially people I love. Because of you madam, feels like I think i can also control my mind. Because I am the one who makes me feel sad, angry and depressed, not them. So, I accept that fact and create my power to be stronger and more mature. Thank you so much Madam. Your video saves me and a lot of people.

[@tellsudha]

Emotional independence & protection from other’s drama is the key to our own peace.. 💜🙏🌹

[@AnshuSahu-jee2025]

Thank you Shivani di i am dependent on myself i dont need anyone . I protect myself , my future is so bright , God is always with me , i am strong and powerful , loveful . I love myself , i take care myself , My thought my choice my destiny thank you ❤❤❤

[@VanshikaMehta_16]

" I have to create the right thought in response to their wrong behaviour" ... exactly defined what we needed to listen.

[@mallikaj3240]

Your car is been rammed by a stranger out of no where now what is the right thought that you would create please let me know

[@divyapoduval4402]

How to ? Because they hurt us is it so easy to forgive them and subside that anger and still respect them

[@jayageetharoy4127]

Shivanididi you make us realize how simple life should actually be....but how complicated we ignorant souls have made it! Thank you for your presence in this world! We arw blessed. Om Shanti🙏

[@SU9Pakistan]

What a peace in her voice and satisfaction..❤️

[@udayamudari3888]

Wonderful, inspirational and life changing 🙏

[@mousumibhattacharjee4461]

Good morning Sister Om Shanti stay healthy your teachings make me peaceful soul ❤

[@ainabrunetginard873]

Om shanti, Sister Shivani ❤️❤️❤️. Always, with love and Gratitude….. Thank you, thank you, thank you… ❤️🙏❤️🙌😇😘🌼🌺🌼💐☘️🌎

[@healthymotive3651]

I m just looking her face amazing glowing skin without makeup.... It's all about super natural power..... She is really pure soul.........

[@user-ci1eh3ip7s]

Absolutely correct

[@sarmistharoy-wn7gj]

Om shanti...10 years ago when I was in class 9 i watched awakening with Brahma kumaris daily..every evening i just waiting for the program...my childhood become so beautiful..and now i am 27..after 5 years of marriage everything is going wrong..i starting to watching again and things going to perfect... I found my peace of life.. thank you shivani di..u r shiv Baba's most beloved child ❤

[@tpb1006]

did you divorce?

[@iconprajith3224]

​@@tpb1006😂

[@Nameles305]

@@tpb1006Possibly 😂🤣 If want PAECE of mind 😃

[@kamlesh_kumar707]

Just like you I also used to see that show but because kiddish nature I am not able implement such knowledge. But now I want control of myself. That's why I m here

[@Randomyetchaotic]

​@@kamlesh_kumar707Good luck to you mam. May you succeed.. Om namah shivay ☺️🙏

[@yashkapadiya5414]

Thank you sister for guiding us on our daily problems Thank you so much for bringing this real and relatable topic in everyone's life.

[@chitragodar4367]

OM SHANTI BK SHIVANI SISTER 🙏🌹

[@user-zi8dl3mp2f]

I am speachless ,Gods way of making us understand .

[@rajpsms]

wow, how nice how right ..i never listened to her before. But i love every word she said

[@dr.shivanii]

Thank goodness I came across this video, As I spent my two years being emotionally dependent that drained my soul, I am ready to follow emotional independence ❤

[@gregmcqueen4540]

You are a very enlightened individual! Thanks for your lecture, it’s very valuable to everyone in every society! You’re doing much better than any government I’ve seen lately! Everything is of mind!

[@Vibi-cy9xf]

Thanks with Gratitude Sister, brings me tears, right time watched....God Bless

[@sushmabhalla243]

Thank you so much Shivani Maa for changing our precious lives ❤️ lots of love. Stay blessed everyone.

[@poornimaswamy2376]

Loved the way you said. I felt you are saying all these to me only. ❤❤

[@lakshmimeda7732]

Simply superb no words. Will follow from today

[@farahnaz8885]

Om shanti didi 🙏💖😊 Shivani didi you make life so easy and special…. When I listen to you I feel so happy and good 😌

[@guriya.....7870]

Om shanti thanku shivani dii ,now i don't depend emotionally anyone... I am strong 😊

[@Shanayas_talk02]

Thanku mam...listening you is just like a flowering on me and I'll try to do right thing not wasting me power to unnecessarythings

[@ashok1776]

Simply superb msg.... Thank you sister.

[@Readrevolutionhub]

I am feeling blessed today because of this video 😇, thank you so much

[@laxmipatel6653]

Feel blessed to hear ur such powerful words 😇

[@CuriouslyBrave7]

This is the second podcast I’m listening to, I’m glad your video crossed my path: You’re an amazing speaker, thank you for your knowledge. ❤

[@shilpanandy8704]

Om Shanti didi🙏🏻 I am a powerful being I am a peaceful soul I am calm and stable always I am always happy Thank you thank you thank you Universe

[@ZakirShobuj]

Definitely this speech will ease my day..my life

[@kadrimustafa8383]

Om Shanti My Sweet Sister Didi 👑 Sukriya BABA 👑 thank you very much for Energy today 👑

[@sanchalishaw5412]

Thank you so much Ma'am. Your words works like medicine to stable my uncertainty and insecurity.

[@bhanuparameswaran]

Shivani di's voice & words are so intense it penetrates throughout the body holistically.Thank you for your unconditional love🙏🙏

[@dikshajadhav1122]

I find it randomly because I need this Thank you Universe Thank You Angels 🙏🌼✨ for this love you Hare Krishna 🌼🙏

[@TalesandTales]

I literally needs to hear it

[@jhumachattopadhyay6707]

सबका जो सपना हैं .. मेरा वो अपना हैं.. प्यारा वो कितना हैं... मुश्किल हैं बताना... उस रब का शुक्राना.. उस रब का शुक्राना... ओम् शान्ति बाबा.. ओम् शान्ति दीदी ॥

[@perpetuakanyutu2610]

Om Shanti.. shukriya Didi..

[@user-fz7qb9qu9r]

I Cant tell you how much positive energy all these words have given me.. This was much needed at this point of time in my life.. Thank you..

[@iyouweubuntu]

Didi.... Ultimate solution for everything....🙏🙏🙏

[@BadalKaushal-yx7kg]

Absolutely amazing talk 💯

[@Mischa337]

Youre the best ❤ just what I needed to hear! Thank you 😊

[@user-zd2ti2wz2b]

Now we are ready to give peace and happiness to those who are lacking 😊

[@fatimak6440]

I love the perfect example she used on traffic, it was the best use of the talk and she even suggested how to use your mind to reduce that one irritation. it was wonderful homework. we've all watched hundred of KZbin videos about inner engineering but I think when you can immediately use a take home example like this one, you can actually start implementing the talk LITERALLY on that same day..

[@jasminejoseph8715]

Bless you... God blezz

[@shubhadajha3416]

Thank you sister Shivani .

[@Psychewithoutsoul]

Your words make me feel ,yes,I can... Even though, I have failed in life situations thousand times, but,You help me to gain confidence in myself... I can,I can,I can.

[@priyyyyyaaaaaaa7304]

Just going through a lot at this point of time, but atleast now i know that i was the only reason behind all my sorrows and " I" am the only one who can reduce this.... Can't thank you enough for making it so simple🌸 More power to you ma'am.

[@mudasirarif1678]

very soft spoken like flaws of river .

[@manishasharma7018]

Thank you. Om Shanti

[@deekshagupta953]

Thnku so much Didi for guiding us...

[@manikandanm3876]

I am listening to this video every morning. Simple to follow yet very influential 🙏

[@nadyakhuwaja6842]

Very well said👏🏼

[@dhwi]

grateful for this🙏🏻

[@kiranmaheshwary0045]

Lovely.. you gave me peace of mind

[@yogyatajaiswal4915]

Thank you so much Shivani mam. This came on my feed when I needed it most. Love you didi ❤❤❤

[@Itsme__265]

Shivani didi is Divine.🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@samilarungapamestry6466]

Awesome..i am master of my mind n my body..i am ready to give power to everyone..om shanti

[@krishnaenterprises8218]

OM SHANTHI AND HAPPY MORNING DIDI...

[@neeleshwarneeleshwark298]

Thank you for your help with this matter

[@nisrin653]

Thank you so much ❤

[@AmitSingh-oy7gq]

It is much needed.. Thankyou ❤

[@rasangikanarangoda1358]

Don't know how to thank for your wise words. After listening to your videos I gradually developing the are of staying calm. It really helps to empower my family to sort out their own problems. I practically experiencing the results and try my best to develop that calmness. Thank you sister ❤❤

[@tenzindolker2655]

Thank you so much for this , such a pewerful talk and very helpful .

[@nityadevi5141]

Thank you sister for guiding us

[@laisamohan3189]

Good teaching gbu nd lead u in the everlasting way

[@g51661]

Please keep revising these things everyday 😊❤

[@misbahlatif5499]

Her way of speaking is just soothing..love and respect fronm Pakistan

[@user-be_authentic5]

Thank you sister Shivani

[@premavallipuram4922]

I’m Shanti Sister. You will never know how much this helps me.

[@srivani991]

🙏🏼 Thank you to Shivani for this wonderful discourse. We Hindus are fortunate for someone like her to share such beautiful, sensible, logical talks. I see these talks so different from the talks given by Muslims and Christian leaders. I don’t see baseless, illogical directions from books. Our thoughts are spiritual logical and critically thought out.

[@Sayantan_Official_]

My guide for a healthy mindset.

[@kaberikalita5107]

Very helpful and positive thought..thank you so much ma'am ❤️

[@subhadrabanerjee1820]

Om Shanti sis ji 🙏 Gratitude

[@legaleagle8078]

Still remember this great lady watching on television. Such a soothing voice she has.

[@preethysatheesh685]

Thank you so much Sivaniji❤

[@shreyagd7747]

I seriously never reply to any comments but after listening to this ma'am it made me become a real human being thank you for spreading this much of positiveness may god bless you

[@ukgukg9524]

Beautifully said 🙏 om shanti

[@manasimotgi5483]

Om Shanti Shivani didi 🙏

[@jchristy8384]

Thank Universe because today The universe allowed me to hear worthy speech. I have always wasted my power while I was driving. Best Quotes I received that you mentioned to pray for them ❤.

[@yetridey8220]

Much needed session for me ❤️

[@theblissfrequency]

Feeling blessed to have come across her videos after buying the self mastery card by Brahma Kumaris. So grateful for all the wisdom so I can master myself and set myself free from cyclic suffering.

[@Abul_Azad]

Awesome Advise . Thanks a lot

[@shrur3527]

Tq so much ma🙏🙏❤️❤️ Ur words are very soothing 🙏🙏❤️❤️ Grateful to u🙏🙏❤️❤️

[@user-tj2gk4ee7w]

Ifeel so relaxed and keeps My mind cool god bless

[@aroonkunwar8643]

Thankyou dd for your speeach ,ur motivatation change my life

[@shilpadube9522]

Everything Sister Shivani speaks is gospel truth ❤

[@anuradhaprabhu6524]

Superb such an informative session 👏 👌 very much needed thank u so much sister for this wonderful advice

[@vijayanand1019]

Thank you Ma'am. Thanks a lot.

[@RAMANCHOURASIYA]

Thank you DIDI.... THANK YOU I WILL CHANGE MY THOUGHT....

[@sreelakshmi6718]

Superb mam I will correct myself thankyou for your giving energy 🎉

[@beyourown9787]

This is so apt at this moment

[@thesparkoflife4947]

Thank you mam....eye opener

[@nxrlive]

Needed this, 🙏

[@dipshikhadas7398]

My mind was asking for this 🙏

[@Im-not-alone-Im-full-of-myself]

Positive thinkers like you we need way more in this world, mam.