I tried to be kind to unkind people for so long but it left me depleted and depressed, I have had to learn to let them go. Because I have been friends with these types of people for so long, I started to become unkind myself. So isolating myself from these people has helped me heal and rediscover my heart and be able to have the energy to give to other people. But I am never mean to them, I just distance myself from them.
@Googoogonzalez3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the kindesst thing you can do & the hardest to accept is to walk away from an injured person & let them go inward to heal themselves
@DrRobertPuff3 жыл бұрын
Peace, blessings and love
@color20663 жыл бұрын
Dr. Puff…. I found your book Anger Work in a little local bookstore this past summer. Something about it intrigued me. Well I just finished it tonight and I wanted to tell you how grateful & appreciative I am to have crossed paths with your teachings. I took so much goodness & positive health & mindset from your book and I’m sharing it with everyone I can. And the cherry on top is learning you have an active KZbin channel! Thank you again, from the bottom of my heart. Cheers!
@DrRobertPuff3 жыл бұрын
Peace, blessings and love, Color
@PeacePlease. Жыл бұрын
What a lovely concept!! The Dali Lama says: "Be KIND whenever possible - And it's always possible!!" Life has taught me, that righteous is good, but I'm pretty sure if one should choose kindness over righteousness, one is making a good choice - ✌!!
@christineabercrombie7316 Жыл бұрын
Not many do. But yep I pray for my abusers.
@aaronscott99742 жыл бұрын
Being kind towards unkind people has always helped me. Thanks for sharing!
@belle9184 Жыл бұрын
Subscribed
@mortenrl19463 жыл бұрын
I'm not particularly big brain, but I reached this conclusion on my own. People treated me like crap when I was little, but even 15-year old adolescent angsty teenage myself, managed to realize that I didn't want to be like them.
@DrRobertPuff3 жыл бұрын
Peace, blessings and love, Morten
@kumarbantawo Жыл бұрын
kindness brings happiness not now but later surely.
@SmtChannel14 Жыл бұрын
IT DOESN'T WORK ALWAYS!! It greatly relies upon the receiving person's perception, ability to absorb the aura of empathy and reciprocate it back, and their mental condition which feeds upon negativity. There is always a limit to being kind, we can't be kind by killing own soul and mind. We can't change anyone in this world other than ourselves.
@nonexistenty4152 Жыл бұрын
Oh God what a beautiful video, really! I cannot tell you how grateful I am for this video. 🙂😊
@Beherenow-p5e Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Robert Love your videos. Really appreciate you sharing them 💚
@Happydominic11 Жыл бұрын
I agree but too hard 😢 people use to hurt me cuz lm kind to them karma is real soo I wanna be kind to me and them on God
@ashaarun8290 Жыл бұрын
I want to hear this word's again & again.
@normitavargas3941 Жыл бұрын
Praise and Thank GOD for this your video Doctor, sometimes I failed to do so when I am becoming in bad mood,, Jesus help me,be with me and i can do it, for Your glory.
@7777777roma3 жыл бұрын
God that is so difficult for me to do - for many people to do. Thank you God
@DrRobertPuff3 жыл бұрын
Peace, blessings and love, Kathleen
@mildredfranklin63582 жыл бұрын
I said I love your personality Energy what can I say 🙌🏽
@janjust4205 Жыл бұрын
So hard- my mother is very unkind & toxic- yes, lots happen- good & bad but she is very blessed but she concentrates on her misery & enjoys creating chaos for everyone around her 😫
@Vedant_Chawla3 жыл бұрын
You're right "be kind to unkind people"
@DrRobertPuff3 жыл бұрын
Blessings Vedant
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
I do I will even pray for them
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
I as a human being understood that
@RudyTheInternetGod Жыл бұрын
Long live to the Tainos🙏🏾
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
I keep messing up in life some how or some way
@louisaisthankful4603 Жыл бұрын
Unless you're married to someone who has/is Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Leave. Just get out. Do not return.
@susangjun Жыл бұрын
Good
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
And mistakes because I'm not perfect
@noreenebostick9593 Жыл бұрын
Being kind to myself allows me to be kind to mean people which allows me to have joy inside. I am 66 years, one month and 12 days as well f my comments. If I was unkind to others, I would be unhealthy these days and times. I do not wake up to be unkind, therefore I remain kind for God’s goodness sakes. The world around me can be unkind. I still desire to be kind. Why? Because not being kind is unnatural for me. Smiles
@DJAmir7611 ай бұрын
Rana ji send healing words to me in your heart. I am sending healing words to you, shah ji, malik sb & space bro. Our pain must be healed. We are a family. You know what family means? God's best gift, best thing in life.
@oceaneyes7540 Жыл бұрын
Hurt the people who hurt you hard! Because if you don't, they will hurt you and they will continue if you don't stop them. Their problems and past negative experiences are not your problem. They should go and fix their own problems, and not take it out in you. There are therapists these angry people can go to, , we don't have to be a dump ground for their anger!
@naturegirl9680 Жыл бұрын
You’ve learned nothing
@oceaneyes7540 Жыл бұрын
@@naturegirl9680 experience over 61 years taught me what I know today.
@akhamp1943 Жыл бұрын
1st hurting others more because they are unkind to you, accomplishes nothing but adding to their hurt and pain, and you lower yourself to their level. 2nd it doesn't mean you have to continue being a door mat for others to continue being unkind to you. But to try understand why and where their hurt is coming from. We all can relate to being hurt sometimes throughout our lives. I myself have come across a person that no amount of kindness I showed them mattered at all. And I had to just walk away from them. My thinking is what ever caused them to act that way, must have made them very bitter. It to me is very sad. Kindness is always still best to be to others regardless cause they obviously expect more of the same....so why not surprise them and let them see that their are those who are not against them . You just may change the rest of their day! Scripture even tells us to be kind and love one another! Can you imagine what this world today would be like if all showed each other kindness?! Just food for thought.😊 Be the better person !!
@oceaneyes7540 Жыл бұрын
61 years taught me to set boundaries early in a relationship.
@hemlatasonara12703 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@DrRobertPuff3 жыл бұрын
Peace, blessings and love, Hemlata
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
But the reality is that I think I am a nice person
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
Because I'm not perfect
@Michal189093 жыл бұрын
beautiful
@DrRobertPuff3 жыл бұрын
Peace, blessings and love Michal
@nelj3376 Жыл бұрын
Welcome to 50N Sub! 🌹❤✋👍
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
I'm a really nice person at ❤️
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
I just make bad choices 😮
@mildredfranklin63582 жыл бұрын
I know I made this mean man laugh today I said will you like to try some Mary Kay skin care lol he laugh 😂
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
They had their problems in life
@mildredfranklin63582 жыл бұрын
I’m one of a kind lol
@ivantovar19882 ай бұрын
I am a nice guy😮
@Caballero-tn6zi Жыл бұрын
Jesus🙏 I'm walk away to all🙏 but God father, is missing me, oh no....... 🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩🧩God father, jesus🙏.................