Evening Routine: calm or chaotic? Flylady Real-Life Case Studies!

[@DianeinDenmark]

How's your Evening Routine? Calm or chaotic? Any tips? Or what do you need help with? 🖐😀

[@DG-pu1lp]

Hmmm, what is the level beyond chaotic??? 🤣 Thanks Diane, love these videos! So interesting to listen to case studies.

[@karlo8731]

I realized with your TOTH (top of the hour) I can take it a step further and reset my day at anytime as well. This is so useful if you’re dealing with depression or a difficult relationship and you just feel down. I don’t t need to wait until tomorrow or when i feel better, even if I’m in my pajamas at 3pm i can decide to reset my day in 15 minutes. 5 minutes self-care (brush teeth, wash face, clean lounge wear&shoes, water w/ electrolytes), 5 minutes in the kitchen for a room rescue (always the worst), a 1 minute bed making, 2 minute swish and swipe, 2 minute hot spot (likely the living room coffee table where I’ve been procrastinating all day) that ends the 15 minutes and i feel so much better. This breaks the cycle and provides the momentum needed to recapture your joy and life.

[@lmack6596]

YES!! :D That's really been helping me too. xx

[@nellg3240]

Yes, this is perfectly summarised, thank you!

[@alisongregson4740]

With my unusual work schedule, 4 nights of the week I don't even walk in the door until 9pm. What has saved our family is a meal kit service. I felt guilty about it initially but it has made such a difference for us. My sons have learned some great cooking skills following the recipe cards. My husband readily digs in and prepares a meal on his own without prompting. I plan 3 dinners a week for the nights I am home. Fed family members are happy family members so this is what works for us!

[@DianeinDenmark]

Yes, those are great for working families, Alison...and everyone can pitch in and make the dinner! Go you!

[@annettemurielle]

A huge part of my evening routine is "putting my kitchen to bed." I heard that expression and just love it and just like Weekly Home Blessing it has become part of my life. I'm a wordy soul, so words and phrases touch me and stay with me and these two really work for me. 🙂

[@cynthiacrumlish4683]

I have been doing the Dressing Your Truth thing for about 5 years now. I tossed 80% of my wardrobe back then and have not looked back! What a relief.

[@DianeinDenmark]

Go you, Cynthiaa

[@cherylthomae-barnes7852]

Dimming the lights after the "work" part of evening routine so I internally start to slow down is very helpful. I need to be able to wind down so when I go to bed, I can fall asleep easily. My incentive to keep going...get it done...is having time to be able to read a book or listen to an audiobook with a cup of tea. This feels like a reward to myself for getting everything done as early as is possible. 💐 The last part of evening routine, my husband and I pray together.🙏 End on a high note feeling refreshed to start again in the morning. 🌞

[@Drestic]

I am beginning flylady and I have found the app to be helpful because I like checking things off. I was doing well, my sink was shining, I was on top of Mount Washmore, I was swishing and swiping......but then due to an event I got completely behind. It has taken me 1.5 weeks to start feeling back on track. But this morning my sink was shining and I smiled because last night me gave a gift to morning me.

[@virgierutledge3004]

Ladies who have children, work full time and attend extra Ed. classes for job. You can do this. Diane is a great down to earth best friend. I wish I had her back in my working days.

[@ΔΕΣΠΟΙΝΑΠΑΠΑΪΩΑΝΝΟΥ-β5μ]

Step one (after dinner) tidy the kitchen and the sink, wear my pjs, watch a movie and then read several chapters of the book of the week My advise for an easy sleep reduce screen watching time i.e. TV, laptop, mobile etc. I am relatively lucky because we are only 3 adults living at home so we all contribute to cleaning I suspect they mainly do it to get off without me telling them "do this do that". Also for a good night's sleep please try not to worry for things that you cannot fix and for things that you can fix. Thank God that you are safe and healthy at your place with so much international unrest and the pandemic.

[@terrirojas]

I really appreciate your clients who are willing to share their stories - these case studies videos are my favorite 💕

[@DianeinDenmark]

So glad you like them, Terri!

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

I agree - they are helpful and inspiring

[@glendaslanina9939]

Hi Diane. Just wanted to thank you and let you know that between you and Steph, the Secret Slob, you have changed my life. My son and I have our morning and evening routines and we use Steph’s Weekly Cleaning Schedule to list and check off. I also write my Daily Focus, zones and menus. So I use your methods and Steph’s checklist because My son likes a visual all in one place. My free time has increased. I now walk my dogs several miles a day, have weekly lunches dates and best of all, I’m reading several books a month. Thank you.🌸🌼🌷🦋🐾

[@KM-yi4br]

I combine Diane's and Steph's methods too...they complement each other so well!

[@DianeinDenmark]

That's wonderful, Glenda! Steph started out by watching my Flylady videos (her Mum recommended them) and we often chat 👏😃

[@angelahodgetts107]

I love making sure the kitchens tidy and preparing for the next day every evening. I empty the dishwasher, get the cereals, bowls and cups out and the lunchbox things so there is no rush in the morning. It’s hard sometimes when you are tired but so nice to get up to an organised tidy home 😊 I also get my outfit ready the night before thanks to you Diane!

[@DianeinDenmark]

Brilliant, Angela - you are a routine superstar!

[@azlizzie]

My evening routine has fallen off the radar. Spring break and job hunting consumed my brain last week. Working on getting my morning routine back in shape too. It feels like it’s an endlessly active process. If I don’t see my checklist, I completely forget my intentions, so nothing is automatic yet. Eventually I hope to overcome 36 years of not having routines and that it will get easier.

[@karenley7356]

I love the evening routine thanks to you Diane. My husband looks after the shiny sink at the end of the night. He swears by it😂 another great motivational video. 👏

[@singsings464]

I love the timer to get stuff done with the whole family. I forget it’s not only for me.

[@amy6627]

Thanks so much Diane - I'm really enjoying these case study videos! I've recently made a change to my evening routine, inspired by you, that has made a big difference. I used to leave clearing the kitchen 'til the end of the night, just before bed. I never ever go to bed without doing it, but I would find that I was so tired at that point, the thought of all the work I still had left to do would feel so daunting, I would delay getting up off the sofa to start, ironically making myself even later for bed when I was very tired. I've now changed this so that I clear the kitchen and prepare tomorrow's breakfast straight after I've eaten dinner, when I'm less tired, and then make myself a cup of tea and can relax and enjoy the rest of my evening, knowing it's already done. I'm finding it much easier to stick to my intended bedtime (something I've struggled with for so long) because when it's time to start getting ready for bed, I don't feel overwhelmed at the prospect of how much I still have left to do and actually get up off the sofa! I simply re-set the living room and I'm ready to head upstairs. Thanks so much for helping me make this change. I'm interpreting all your advice as best I can for my own situation but I'd love it if you did a video sometime please for single people who live alone. I know people with kids probably think we've got it made, and I know I'm lucky that the only person I have to clear up after is me, but the flip side of that can be that there's nobody else to do anything but me! It would just be really helpful and encouraging to hear your advice for people in that situation, but I'll also keep doing my bit to interpret what you say in a way that applies for me. Thanks so much for everything you do to help and inspire us!

[@DianeinDenmark]

You are so very welcome, Amy, and thank you!

[@sibongilethwala7080]

I've been watching you for years but the skinny dipping and in cold water still blows my mind?!

[@annarborthenorris5455]

You are indeed the bright spot in my day. This one has helped me recognize why evening routine fail more often then not. I am exhausted by 6 or 7 pm. Dinner and dishes can be done, seldom other items, so I pupa when I get home, set out my clothes as I put away laundry, landing pad is where things get dropped as I enter house, so no looking for stuff, and add anything else that needs done to sometime earlier in the day. And I don't feel guilty if something gets missed, It is better than before, and perfection is no longer my goal, which means my life has more space for happiness. Thank you for all your great advice and happy attitude...you add uplift to my life ❤

[@ellenh278]

Also, making a list for your kids keeps you from being "the bad guy'. I found when my son was little that when he had a list of what he was to do it was the list telling him, not Mom. Instead of me having to say "do x y and z" , he was accountable to the list (checking the list to see what he forgot instead of mom telling him). My overseeing things became minimal and helped us both. Works with husbands too 😂.

[@ellenh278]

@@user-nt7dv8ep9m I found writing a list of things that needed his attention better than mentioning them and many times repeatedly mentioning things. Because often when I'd think of something to mention it wasn't always the best time for him to be really listening. I write it down when I'm thinking of it, he reads it when his attention isn't elsewhere.

[@heartquaked]

I live with my husband and my brother.. I made a list for bathroom cleaning. It DOES work I can confirm 😂

[@doccox27]

Yes, it works with husbands. I write up to three household jobs that need attention during the week and invariably he does them all with no reminders. I’m careful not to write more than three 😂

[@sallycroft2191]

Thank you, Diane. I would love to make my evening routine, so there is more of an evening. I have let it slide getting dinner ready at a reasonable time. Through lack of planning and carry through. It is 8:30 a.m here and I am going to take something out of the freezer for dinner. Empty the dishwasher and do dishes in the sink right now in preparation for tonight. Thank you..

[@rebekahphillips2334]

Fly Lady routines are seriously helping me be less scattered and frustrated, (fellow type 1 here). I love you videos, they are so encouraging and happy; BUT I also like that you say JUST DO IT! 😂 My kids and I say "Let's get off our bahookies and get started!" Thanks for your time Ms. Diane 💐

[@amybee40]

I love most of these tips. Can't see myself ever "setting the table for breakfast" right after dinner though. The table gets cleared off and then used for homework, puzzles, board games, crafts... I'm a morning person, so I have no trouble doing all the breakfast-y things in the morning. And I could never sleep for thinking of the dust settling into the cereal bowls overnight...

[@caracook587]

The evening routines have really helped to give my next day a lovely jumpstart. We clean the kitchen, shine the sink, get the coffee ready and plan our lunches. Now I get up and get on track for a great day because everything is ready to go! Thanks, Diane!

[@saintinlower48]

I love hearing "ra-ra-ra" and came here specifically to look at the routines. I need to update them again. My evening routine used to begin at 4:30, but now it's later. And was such a help to my whole family. Love your videos Diane in Denmark! Love the name too!

[@vickiemendoza9252]

I absolutely love that color on you, Diane! Really enjoying the case studies, very helpful! My favorite part of my evening routine is running the dishwasher and unloading before bedtime. I love waking up to an empty dishwasher so it's set to load after breakfast. It's really been a time saver for me. :)

[@natachagos7607]

Chère Diane, Vous êtes vraiment un soleil précieux pour nous toutes et tous! Mes quatre enfants sont de jeunes adultes maintenant mais j'aurais tant eu besoin de vous entendre et d'avoir vos conseils parfois! Merci pour ce que vous êtes et ce que vous partagez avec nous ❤

[@DianeinDenmark]

Merci, Natacha - t'es toujours un grand soutien pour moi!

[@patdennis2586]

Une grosse bisse pour le Français!! J’aime beaucoup!

[@janetwormack3163]

Thanks as always Diane! This week for some reason I overslept by 40 minutes. BUT, because I had completed my evening routines which includes prepping for my morning routines (MR) (dress, breakfast, PUPA, swishswipe, calendar checked, meals ready, etc.) I was ready in a flash. I made it to work on time. I was not frazzled and confused because I had my plan and completed the major MRs. 😃

[@hettiesimpson]

I'll try this! I'm always making dinner in a small messy apartment kitchen. If I do all the things for dinner that need the sink and then fill it with wash water, this will work great I'm sure!

[@DM-ss4fm]

You are inspiring. I started getting our vitamins and breakfast glasses and dishes out before bed so I do not have ot find them in the morning. It is little, but saves some time. I also clean the sink at night before bed. My husband likes to snack at night and goes to bed after me and gets up before me so I pick up the kitchen and give the counters a wipe when I get up in the morning before I start breakfast. I would love to go to bed with a clean kitchen and it stay that way, but my reset in the morning works to get me started on the right foot.

[@annem6778]

I wrote down everything I was doing as part of my morning routine and it was a huge list. Seeing the list helped me realize why I was so stressed in the morning. Moving a few tasks like unloading the dishwasher to the evening helped me somewhat balance the two routines.

[@EmeryShae]

I’m still recovering from the dreaded C virus from a couple of weeks ago, so my routines have slacked a bit. Especially in the evening. I’m just so tired! So today I made a list of the most pressing chores and I’ve been checking them off one by one. It feels good to be productive again!

[@MsAwesomeGiraffe]

I'm on day 6 quarantine and can relate to the tiredness, ive ha e very mild symptoms but I'm so exhausted all the time! Thought I'd watch some of Diane's video to motivate me again 🤞 Glad you've recovered well!

[@edelinprogress]

The main thing that changed my nighttime routine was relabelling it as an evening routine. The earlier things get done the better! It's 8.00 pm here now and all I've to do for the night is get ready for bed and relax! Thanks Diane. Your idea of a short pick up and put away time for children has worked with my daughter. I play Peggy Sue and she knows what to do!

[@mrsmichelledaniels]

Woah I didn’t even think of this,have them help make the dinner and then tidy before eating!! Game changer!!

[@elizabethharrell8707]

I just love all your ideas and advice..I have for years now when baking I use my ingredient and put away immediately because I get interrupted a lot and couldn't remember if I put something in..now if its not on the counter I used it. Much love from AZ

[@amybee40]

I do that too. Very useful.

[@owllover5462]

Great tips! What i have found to help me is making extra meals when i cook to freeze so it makes preparing and cleaning fast and easy. For example, if i make lasagna- i’ll make two and freeze one and while i’m at it, i will brown extra meat and put with a sauce to freeze for a spaghetti dish , tacos, shepherds pie ect. It takes an extra 5 minutes but saves hours later on since i all i have t do is reheat mostly when ready. I will follow your Facebook. My personal Ig was hacked and I can’t get it back so if i lose the one i folllow you on now, its nice to know i have Facebook to keep up 🥰

[@lovepeace29981]

2 hours a day... Whoa... You are doing a very good job Diane! Love and Respect 🙏

[@jaynewman9340]

Hello Diane, I really look forward to each new case study!! 😊 xxx

[@MsAwesomeGiraffe]

I came here for some motivation today as I've lost my way, I had a 10 day holiday in UK visiting my sons and grandsons first time since BC (before 🦠 and leaving hubby alone in what was a lovely clean home, until I came back 😕) but I also got Covid during my travels! Now it's almost 4 weeks out of any routine and I'm due back to work (first full season starting) but everything is 🙃 I'm going to watch your refresher video's (and Steph's - the Secret Slob) while I make a start on the kitchen, I'm just so tired all the time that I think I'll have to do 5 mins ⏲ when I can, as a starter 💪

[@DianeinDenmark]

Go you, keep it simple, sweetie!

[@judymarkel8029]

I have been consistent with my evening routine and my husband is starting to help. Yea!

[@DianeinDenmark]

Love that, Judy!

[@luciegallagher2710]

So lovely to see you today and on Facebook! Writing a list of things I needed my boys to do each evening was a game changer for us. Xx

[@adrianadigioia2779]

PM routine is so important. Hard for me to tidy up the living room. But the kitchen is under control. I am tidying up the living room as l listen

[@jeannebowes2898]

I make sure that freezer items are defrosting in the fridge for the next night in the evening. I unload the dishwasher, and set the coffee pot for the morning. I have always readied my clothes for the morning, with my gym bag packed to go. Tomorrow is Anti-procrastination day with my plan written out for the day. I have begun on reinstalling the window screens for spring.

[@anastasiatassillo7248]

That's a beautiful color for you Diane!

[@TeddiUndTrudi]

I started to have an evening routine after watching one of your videos and I can honestly say, that it improved my life so much! In the evenings after work I am usually tired and worn out, so before I left stuff until next day, thinking that tomorrow will be better, until things piled up so much, that I got overwhelmed (which obviously also did not help). With your evening routine, there is just little things to do each day, which makes it quick to do them and I feel so much more relaxed the next day, because everything is already prepared. Thank you so much for your videos Diane!

[@lmack6596]

Same here! Also, I used to think "I haven't got time to do it 'properly' so there's no point in even starting". But now, thanks to Diane, I set a timer and do what I can in the time. I don't always finish, but it's way better than it was before, and these 10mins here, 2mins there - they're manageable, and they add up :)

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

So easy to fall in that trap that we’ll have more energy tomorrow.

[@DianeinDenmark]

Brilliant, Katha - well done!

[@monikamarsollek3493]

@@TheDriftwoodlover well said! I’m stilll waiting sometimes, but tomorrow always comes and more energy doesn’t …on the contrary: if I’ve done the tiniest things in the evening, I feel more energy in the morning!

[@monikamarsollek3493]

Hi Diane, thank you for finding the weak points…one of mine is evening routine. I’m tired, we (mostly me) prepare dinner in the evening and the kitchen will almost always be done after. That’s it. Clothes will pile up easily as well as books, knitting projects… too tired to decide what to wear tomorrow or to put away the clothes from the day. But I’m working on it. I’m in Denmark just now and have less clothes, wool, books and projects 😉… choices are easier. Hilsen, Monika❣

[@Elizabeth-490]

Making sure clean dishes are put away promptly, washing as I go and not sitting down to dinner until everything is washed or in the dishwasher, running dishwasher after dinner every night and finally following Diane’s flylady menu plan system- these have transformed my evenings, kitchen, meals and mornings! Thank you!

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

I appreciate that you’re posting on FB. I do have Instagram but rarely go there as it can really suck me in. I do enough of that here and on youtube. 😉

[@jessicahallowell8350]

Super helpful for my situation!! Thank you!! 😘💕

[@lovejoypeace7288]

Oh my goddness. Your techniques will change my life. This video could have been about me 🙈 Such simple things like, put things back in the cupboard immediately after using them and making sure everywhere is cleared before serving!....my new policies now! Thankyou x

[@DianeinDenmark]

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[@nicolahearn4134]

Hello...you're always such a tonic! I'm sure you help so many people - this video is so full of sound advice. ...And I so enjoy hearing your cheery, encouraging voice and seeing your lovely smile. Looking fab as always btw 😍 🖖

[@debbirtalan5499]

Thanks Diane. This actually makes sense.

[@richards512]

Your videos are always so practical and helpful. Thanks.

[@kimberlymcmurry9338]

You're always a light in my day. Thank you😊

[@cherylmayers5236]

I don't always clean as I go with dinner, it is definitely a work in progress BUT it does work and makes cleaning up go very quickly!

[@lmack6596]

Diane...! I'm watching this while washing up, for a little extra motivation, and you're already inspiring me to spend another 20mins to progress some other tasks I've been putting off before settling down for the evening. BUT, with my butter fingers washing up gloves on - I just accidentally pressed the dislike button, and with the new system, I can't "un press" it - and in fact possibly pressed it again whilst trying. I am so sorry. Please know it was an accident. I think your videos are fabulous. xx

[@DianeinDenmark]

Don't worry about it...and go you, on doing the washing up! LOL!

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

Oh dear … I’m not alone in doing that by accident 😵‍💫

[@bedanava]

Yay!! Love your videos! You have helped me so much

[@DianeinDenmark]

Thank you, Beda Nava!

[@gabyhofmann4679]

I will try it out! First clean up quickly and then ear dinner together. Put away together!

[@aishwaryasworld1906]

Hi Diane I love watching you my friend and you are a constant motivator to keep going with the fly lady system. Some ups and downs with the system and it is a process and bit by bit it progresses and gives you immense satisfaction. Way to go... have a nice day Diane

[@Scottishgirl754]

Our routine has been slacking due to various reasons so I need to tighten this up. Great tips!

[@jeannebowes2898]

I love coral on you, look so pretty!Staying with my routines are essential. It was what got me through working life and parenthood!

[@virgierutledge3004]

Great reminders Diane. We always pour dish water and clean up as we go when we have company. We have a large dine in kitchen so that makes it look better and the cleanup is easier. Duh, why don't we do it daily? I will start this. Also,, the hint about spices etc. while cooking to put them away. Amazing.

[@niveslawer9119]

Thank you, love your Facebook excerpts best. Stay well 👋🇦🇺

[@dorzopen]

Love you Diane

[@ed7519]

I just subscribed, looking forward to your videos on overcoming procrastination! :)

[@DianeinDenmark]

Welcome here, E D!

[@ellenh278]

👋Diane has a lovely positive community. She has actually made me love Mondays so I'm convinced those pom poms are magical.

[@ashandu]

Happy Monday Diane! I hope you have a wonderful week.

[@sandraprodoehl7932]

Definitely need to stay consistent-having trouble with that and meal planning and prepping

[@maryhardison2840]

I would say complete madness but I’m the only thing consistent about our households week. I’m lazy and tired, and probably have some attention deficit problems. Husbands schedule is constantly changing and whew. I may need a coaching session.

[@nk-oc7ui]

These case studies are really helpful. I especially liked the TOTH technique because i can do the important things for a hour and then go do the things from the routine quickly. Earlier i used to do the routine things non stop and then i wouldn't want to do the important things right after it. Thank you for sharing these techniques:)

[@susanbartlett3421]

OK, so what is TOTH? Googleing it brings up some unpleasant results.

[@karlo8731]

TOTH?

[@DianeinDenmark]

Yay, so glad you are enjoying Top of the Hour!

[@DianeinDenmark]

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[@DianeinDenmark]

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[@MyMerryMessyGermanLife]

This was really helpful, Diane! Thank you!

[@DianeinDenmark]

Hello here, my friend! Hope all is going well with your Ukrainian family!

[@nancycerreta5629]

Being retired and at home most evenings, my routine is basic. Sometimes after dinner though I'd like to sit down and watch TV. If I do that then I'm Really tired a couple hours later! I just say to myself, one foot in front of the other.

[@sable747]

Yay! Perfect timing to address evenings! 2hrs! Wow! I am going to start setting a alarm to remind me about the next day prep my girls and I need to make lunch/pick out clothes. My husband is oot and one of my kids has a stomach bug. When do you just throw away certain linens? I feel like I might not catch up. I have a small washer that can’t handle big comforters/large loads of towels. Any tips or advice? I have done a few loads to completion of pillows and clothes, but I have a huge mountain in the laundry area.

[@DianeinDenmark]

Hi Sable! I have a whole series on laundry with tips...here's the link for you! kzbin.info/aero/PLxIYCyTLBED-MohXOhL0F1RX1ZTw7hs6k

[@brookerohner1460]

I don’t have a dishwasher in my current home and if we have guests over for dinner or game night I get left with a huge amount of dishes at the end of the night that carry over to the next day because it’s impossible to get them all washed and dried and get to bed at a decent time. I do try to use paper and plastic where I can but my husband likes to make cocktails in glassware and various other dishes get dirty along with entertaining. Any tips?

[@DianeinDenmark]

Hi Brooke! On special evenings like that I wouldn't worry about getting them all done on the night if it is stressful for you. Enjoy your guests but keep to your routines the other days 🖐😀

[@jbobkat4742]

Please help! Fly baby here. 👋🏼 I have allergies pretty bad (probably cuz my house is chaos). I'm looking for a solution to dusting quickly that doesn't kick up everything into the air, for the weekly home blessing. Feather dusters are an absolute NO! The dust flying in the air feels like my house is trying to kill me. Usually, when I dust (being honest isn't very often) I get a wet rag take everything off the shelf or whatever, wipe it down, then wipe everything off as I put it away. I can't do this in 10 mins... I guess I could do one shelf a week but that doesn't seem very productive. Just looking for some suggestions so I don't obsess over something so little and I can get this house under control.

[@DianeinDenmark]

Hi there! I haven't had that problem when feather dusting but if you aren't cleaning regularly then obviously it might fly around. Perhaps wear a mask and use some kind of swiffer cloth the first couple of times, until you have it under control. (We dust once a week which is sufficient for our home.)

[@jbobkat4742]

@@DianeinDenmark Thanks for the tips! Yes, my house is very out of control. I started fly lady 2 weeks ago so I have a long way to go.

[@diegeferenbach8065]

I'm so guilty of complaining its always me! How come no one ever helps! Apparently when the kids help I tell them it's not done properly and I do it my way. 😔

[@DianeinDenmark]

Perhaps time to change things up a little, Diege - you are a great Mum!

[@mj44190]

My mom does that too and it makes us feel like there's no point in doing dishes because we'll just get criticized

[@robincreason7690]

I remember making a job chart with my three girls🤔

[@DianeinDenmark]

Kids love chore charts, don't they, Robin?!

[@janebradfield2373]

Diane, I am a Type 3 in the Dressing Your Truth group. I tend to set up a system and don’t follow through. Some days when I’m busy I take items that don’t belong in the family room and toss them, (imagine throwing a frisbee) into a closet or another room. I tell myself I’ll get around to organizing that other space another day. Any recommendations for Type 3’s?

[@DianeinDenmark]

Hi Jane! Assign a special basket or tray for those items (a "catch all"). You empty it once a day to the correct area. Bi more random flying objects or dumping things behind doors! LOL! Hope that helps!

[@jamieflanagan5029]

What is a "rota"?

[@DianeinDenmark]

A list showing when each of a number of people has to do a particular job. For example, a "cleaning rota". Same as a schedule, list, timetable, roster... 😊

[@susanweicht5548]

I just can't seem to get in the habit of cleaning up my kitchen in the evening

[@susanweicht5548]

This is probably my biggest down fall

[@DianeinDenmark]

What are you doing to make it a more enjoyable task? Playing music while you work, lighting a candle or using a diffuser? Rewarding yourself afterwords with phone or tv time?

[@rosmarieberchtold4519]

💕😘🤗

[@DianeinDenmark]

Always nice to see you here, Rosmarie!

[@rosmarieberchtold4519]

@@DianeinDenmark oh thank you 😍😍

[@nadialunghini8110]

Hello top woman🥰

[@DianeinDenmark]

Thanks, Nadia!

[@CB-jh1pt]

What happens if things take longer than 5 mins / 15 mins etc (even with focus and doing things?). Forget kids, I don’t trust myself OR the alarms and timers 🤣 Single and trying my best 🙈

[@SchwarzerEfeu]

If things take longer, you simply add more 5 / 15 / whatever mins sessions for that special purpose. Which doesn't mean you do more within one day, but over time. Your place didn't get messed up within one day. So do not expect it to be straightened out in one day. ;-)