Every Conversation Can Change A Life | Pat Divilly | TEDxGalway

The story of how one conversation between two strangers led to thousands of lives changed.
Pat Divilly is an Irish author, speaker and fitness expert whose client base has grown from 5 clients locally to 5000 clients nationally in just three years.
Pat prides himself on building powerful communities, instilling belief and promoting authenticity. His groups have raised over €250,000 for local charities in the last 12 months.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

[@LadyVamp6669]

I totally agree with you. I work in a petrol station and instead of doing the cliche 'hi, how are you?' or talk about the weather, I ask how their day is going and start a small conversation and smile and try to cheer them up. It never ceases to amaze me how surprised people are by this and I can guarantee that every single person that leaves the shop has a smile on their face. All it takes is a few seconds more and to actually listen to what they have to say

[@DrewKF]

Awesome :)

[@TariqKhan-xt5qs]

You can tell this guy is in it to help people, you can tell he truly believes in it and that he is genuine because he almost starts crying a few times throughout his speech. That is true passion

[@murphyslaw580]

Pat, after watching some clips here on youtube looking for something with meaning, may I say thank you so much for you wonderful words rather than saying well done. I felt your humbleness as you spoke. The tremble in your voice touched something within me. In a world filled with so much contempt for mankind just to hear a young person with a heart is very refreshing. You are a credit to your parents and to yourself. You also make me proud to be irish. d’fhéadfadh Dia tú a bheannú (The Power of One)

[@justingough2625]

Just starting out with making a difference in peoples lives and it's all down to YOU...I bought your book (21 Day Jump Start) strangely enough on Christmas Eve for myself as a pressie..I needed something...I gave up my job and studied Fitness the following March 2014 and it's because of YOU and your words. I want to make a difference and empower people to be the best that they can be..Self belief. My new group is small in numbers but big in heart and passion to change. You continue to inspire me every day. Aishlinn, Balbriggan, Dublin.

[@justingough2625]

Aishlinn Byrne sent this..

[@sammy_lynn]

Anthony Trucks brought me here, glad I came. Forever changed with this renewal of my mind. God bless.

[@EwanCorlett]

Bravo brother. Truly moving and inspirational

[@annemariewiegand6200]

Pat only well wishes for you - your video shares not only how far you've come but what you've experienced and learned along the way. Thank you for sharing you're story as your words are so true for all on us.

[@jeansmith3367]

That's very profound - but very, very true. Never underestimate the impact you can have on someone's life.

[@gauravpandey2614]

Word comes from heart

[@blingvn3479]

Reading this moments after finishing your book 'Upgrade your life'. A real inspiration and brought me close to tears. 6 weeks to go in the journal - Day 1 starts tomorrow. Thanks Pat.

[@vobulate]

Brilliant talk, you are an inspiration, I hope your message reaches far and wide.

[@AlanCrean]

You absolutely rock dude! I will send this on and share it so much. I said to to you a long time ago, i will say it again now, and more in the future....YOU ROCK! Keep on, keeping on!

[@zeminar6908]

Phenomenal Pat, and fair play to your parents and Mark - support is like a blood transfusion for the mind. It's so true that 1 small act, one good intention executed can have an incredible impact, as long as you are open to it. Looking fwd to November even more now.

[@unicorn_bob4192]

Such a great talk Pat, I love the view of the world as a mirror. So delighted to see you given this platform well deserved and so inspiring , you have a way of sparking inspiration from people when they are in the dark. Congratulations and thank you!

[@marydivillysheehy3794]

Well done Pat, I am so proud of you. Can I share these few lines, in keeping with you theme, It was only a sunny smile and little it cost in the giving,but like the morning light,it scattered the night , and make the day worth living. These few lines were repeatedly quoted ,by my late, loving husband, one of the most positive people I had the privilege to meet Mary Divilly Sheehy

[@PatDivillyCoaching]

+Mary Divilly Sheehy Thanks so much Mary

[@DrewKF]

Lovely... Thanks for sharing, Mary! I'm sorry for your and the world's loss. Thank you, too, Pat; it's too easy to forget what really makes others and ourselves feel good, and it's brave of you to put yourself on a platform like this and actually open up and not just tell the world the glossy parts without the tears... lots so much respect for you right now, bud. You're doing good, and that's awesome :)

[@deirdrescanlon9674]

What a truly inspiring talk,thanks for sharing your experience Pat

[@annetteflynn9577]

So inspiring. Thank you. I'm loving your podcast too. It's really uplifting, thought provoking, motivating yet succinct, and you give really palatable examples of what you are talking about. Once again, thank you.

[@mattm8765]

Good honest talk with a simple message, thanks man.

[@evonneoneill]

Amazing young man. Such an inspirational speech.

[@debbiemiller7849]

Thanks so much for the nudge Pat. You've just inspired me to go the extra mile.

[@PhoebeM1]

What a great message! You are truly an inspiration. I loved your message - it's simple and powerful, the best kind. Keep up the great work!!! :)

[@niamhduffymusic511]

This is the first time I’ve seen this talk and what better time than the January of the new decade to take this advice on board

[@jackiesparx1975]

drives home an important point too many people overlook today. Helping others is fulfilling. Changing someone else's life, can in turn change your own... selflessness is a gift we give ourselves. almost a paradox...

[@AngelaWright]

Pat you are amazing. So pleased we met. Keep up the great work.

[@easyfix1]

Love this, great message! Well done Pat.

[@CatPayenDreamDigitalLife]

Pat this is such a stunningly amazing push along for me - at precisely the time I needed to hear that phone call. Afester thanks xx And wow what a good job you did... Your talk spreads hope to us just walking on the beach

[@EpicFace5050]

absolutley phenomenal

[@baudrick7]

Fabulous speech Pat. Very inspiring and great motivation for us that want to reach out and help others but might be slightly nervous about it. Thank you!!!

[@gillcarroll3133]

wonderful words wow inspiring

[@joshuamarcano1605]

Excellent. just brilliant

[@agilealopex247]

Oh My Thank You for sharing this its really inspiring!!

[@petersteimle2185]

Thanks for the reminder, Pat, and for being yourself. I inspire and train unemployed people at job fairs, homeless shelters, schools, jails and such. I'm just starting out so I don't earn much yet financially, which makes life hard, and so it helps to be reminded that some of those listening could change their lives beginning the day of the "conversation" I have with them (because the best public speaking is really just a conversation with the audience, even if you're the only one talking). Carry on. :-)

[@ATPL327]

A nice guy. Hope he continues to do well!!

[@RichardMaguire_RichardJMaguire]

Great TedX talk Pat, very inspirational, honest and open.

[@lizgallagher5059]

thanks for sharing.. WELL DONE

[@tomr4376]

Brilliant Great inspiration, well done

[@lizhickeystyle]

Wishing you continued success.

[@homefromhomeireland3538]

Fantastic Pat, great life messages in that for us all. joining pdf was the biggest turning point in my life, eternally grateful!! 1 % everday.x

[@DawnDelVecchio]

Love you Pat! You're an inspiration and a gift :) Keep up the awesome work!

[@LeandrosCY]

YOU ROCK BUDDY!!! Well said !!

[@kevinmaddens10]

Pat you are different class.such an inspiration to me to be a better trainer.

[@DushyantJoshiNewZealand]

Brilliant Talk! Thanks for this. Best wishes from Auckland :)

[@ferris98]

Pat Divilly, I am delighted for you that firstly you have the get up and go and secondly and more importantly the brains to listen to other people. When things are not going right we need to find hope in something or someone and this talk proves that. Long may you continue to do what you do best. Warmest RegardsShane Ferris

[@PerformanceyogaIeOrla]

Class Pat. Inspiring and enlightening. Thank you. Orla (Tipperary)

[@deansinnott1378]

Well done Pat. Very inspiring. 👍🏻👍

[@Rleatfitness]

I relate to this a lot!

[@aisling_90]

Best TED talk. WOW x

[@me_meyou_youus_us]

Great story!

[@marionkiely]

Inspirational talk, which will no doubt influence others as to how they can play a part in changing other peoples lives for the better. Keep up the good work Pat! :-)

[@TheEamonKeane]

great talk Pat!

[@BretSimmons]

brilliant. well done

[@paulaodowd1668]

Wonderful!

[@ellendonohoe101]

So true well done to u and.markjust from phone call even just even hello well done x

[@lindaosullivan9315]

Top ted talk to listen to !

[@kimingleby]

Great stuff Pat, shared with my Tribe, they love it! #teampossible, brilliant

[@nataliavoutsina4203]

thank you ☺

[@emmanif3376]

Incredible 👏

[@TomHowardMedia]

I feel i've heard from you before, have you been on Ben Coomber radio? True inspiration!!

[@vimal-cliobconsulting]

I love galway accent

[@smileen17]

Pat I don't know you, but I think having heard your story you've inspired me to go find my third place, thank you!

[@oln3678]

"I set out to try to be the best part of their day"... "I said I'm going to pass that forward to these people" - nice one Pat

[@deniseflattery]

Awe-inspiring 😉🤔

[@horizonqa1099]

Very good :-)

[@MrGrapha]

i have to say it;s not importend about the fitnes the money some more but bringing those people together that intreaks me out in the open and every one who wonds to bringing people one at the time more and more that is what intreaks me

[@MrGrapha]

every country should have some purpus for every one who needs it together in a giant groop whereever they wond you get the money and take the trip every day and take a day off live is not only being together but what a show is that when tentousend are there with the same purpus

[@MrGrapha]

give me one part to work on and i work my ass off

[@NealHeneghan]

So people payed 75EUR a month to attend classes with a 100 to 1 instructor ratio, on a beach that you don't have to pay rent on and with no facilities. That's terrible value for money.

[@curonevans]

+Hot Pot If it makes you thinner, stronger, healthier, happier and with a great camaraderie, support network, and a space to escape your problems, then it sounds like a good deal to me. Each to his own, I guess. Training on the beach is awesome btw

[@thetopofthelist]

You missed the point of his talk mate. It's not about the fitness.

[@NealHeneghan]

I payed 100EUR a month for small group personal training(8 people to 1 instructor) in Dublin 2. I had access to 3 top class trainers who all had experience working with professional athletes. Compare that to working out on a beach with 100 people to one trainer with questionable credentialsI. I've know Pat Divilly for years and he is a con artist.

[@thetopofthelist]

By any chance, did any one of those trainers care about how you were doing outside the gym, did any of them inspire you to start up a business, write a blog, or write a book like Pat has to so many of his clients. I think not....

[@NealHeneghan]

no, thats not what you pay a personal trainer for. Pat dangles the promise of all this personal development and growth but it's always served up with the caveat of "if you are not willing to work hard", giving Pat an easy out when all your dreams don't come true. He's basically selling you nothing more than a few inspiration instagram posts. If you really want to #beyourownhero you should start by not giving money to people like Pat Divilly.

[@noorabuobaid4406]

Guys ..i wanna learn English who can help me !!!.. i need people to talking them

[@Theirishkop666]

75 euro a month what a rip off