Every Manipulation Tactic in 16 Minutes

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[@sorrowfulnothingness]

You posted this video right after I ended a friendship that used almost all of these. Now I know that I definitely should have gotten out of there

[@Hashe-d6q]

People always use triangulation on me to bully me

[@evqngxline]

jesus dude. good for you, get the hell outta there! hope you find better friends soon ❤

[@Deleted-User12535]

​@@Hashe-d6q use it back at them, call your friends

[@vedant-hf8vi]

@@Hashe-d6q same some people use it on my friend

[@vedant-hf8vi]

@@Hashe-d6q the best way to escape it is to use some of these tricks your self. Fight fire with fire and make the user doubt himself.

[@deificatom3332]

Crazy how moms use all of these on the regular

[@lazuliisanidiot]

u ok?

[@cata0813]

​@@lazuliisanidiotNo

[@DHroaT]

Yep and then she s sayin ur the manipulator even tho she s one... crazzzy

[@MxPotato84]

Same. My ex mother did these to me as a kid too. And when I confronted her about cheating on my dad, she turned the tables back on me, accusing me of being a weekend whøre just for being r*ped in my teens and early 20’s. Freaking disgusting!!!

[@lericebowl]

​@@MxPotato84ok that's actually fucked up. Are you okay?

[@Lov3dscarz]

Some ppl are rly good at making this stuff “normal” or “not a big deal” 😢

[@paridhaxholli]

Because it is normal, every one does this subconciously because they want to appear as their best self, grow up

[@TheyForgotMySalad]

​@@paridhaxholliaaaaaaaand you just gaslighted this person.

[@Hello-There3658]

Yeah it is scary how normalized this really harmful behavior is. It’s verbal and mental abuse without you realizing it.

[@OmniNeon900]

Yeah, I’ve developed trust issues because of it. The way the world works is just like the internet. Anyway can identify as anything so take what people say about themselves with a grain of salt.

[@TheyForgotMySalad]

@OmniNeon900 100%! It's really strange for someone my age (who was a teenager when the internet was in its infancy) to have to learn, understand, and adapt to how the internet has evolved and how people use it to mask themselves.

[@AnyEnglishWord]

I just realized I do the silent treatment by accident

[@YoNose-bi8yi]

Same

[@ballzsack1640]

Now you got a chance to stop doing it

[@ik-hou-van-jou4900]

Yeah I do it so I don't say things in anger I only start talking when I'm calmed down

[@ik-hou-van-jou4900]

​@@ballzsack1640 how I want to change

[@melinn-bu6zm]

you must remove that habit of urs

[@SebastianHussey]

Silent treatment is manipulative damn Ive been manipulator all my life sorry Johnny from grade 2

[@Deleted-User12535]

Dear Sebastian, I am Johnny , from grade 2 . I just want to let you know that I gaslit you into thinking you're the one manipulating me , I'm so sorry

[@Ka1tolovesCro1ssanT]

Is it actually johnny

[@abdulnourr-Habibi]

@@Ka1tolovesCro1ssanT are you kidding

[@Ka1tolovesCro1ssanT]

@@abdulnourr-Habibi Idk :D

[@ivankasi9382]

And I just realised I've been manupilated in so many ways

[@hashtag_stop_twerking]

I have accidentally manipulated people so many times. I just need time when I get mad, okay? I'm sorry! 😢

[@NoSocialSkills_]

Real

[@vedant-hf8vi]

@@hashtag_stop_twerking my sister used so many of these in our childhood to the point that I have become numb to these tactics .Its easy for me and some people to find these tricks. But sometimes people do it with such charisma you can't even tell.

[@dynamic8192]

SAME 💀💀💀💀

[@ivankasi9382]

*Actually in all the ways 😂

[@korkukokusu8311]

me knowing every one of them because of my mama : "thanks mom"

[@beanburrito6036]

Same here, just with my dad.

[@DeepThinkingSadness]

My mom too but never anything serious, I love her 💖

[@CerebralTombstone]

I know how you feel 🫂

[@enz0vv0]

Same :/

[@lazuliisanidiot]

r u ok?

[@Sisiphus-prime]

Best way to deal with guilt tripping -ok -womp womp

[@JakeSon-s1r]

Womp womp in big 2024 September 💔

[@animeaddictJZ]

Or "quit wining"

[@TrulyFailedReal]

Or even more agressive “Im calling 911 it seems like you need a wa wa wa wambulance

[@Alwaysbemyself11]

@@TrulyFailedReal haven’t heard that one in a while

[@sauce7489]

Tbh this are counter manipulation tactic

[@dooey2933]

Time stamps: 1. Gaslighting ( 00:00 ) 2. Guilt tripping ( 01:37 ) 3. Love bombing ( 02:55 ) 4. Silent treatment ( 04:23 ) 5. Triangulation ( 05:50 ) 6. Projection ( 07:20 ) 7. Blame shifting ( 08:30 ) 8. Playing the victim ( 10:00 ) 9. Stonewalling ( 11:30 ) 10. Mirroring ( 12:54 ) 11. Love withdrawal ( 14:16 )

[@ohkori9574]

Thank you

[@MrLocust4]

dude gaslighting is the second in the video not the first

[@Kitysgacha]

​@MrLocust4 No it's first watch the video again

[@glitch6376]

​@@Kitysgacha Oh I guess u don't want to hear our voices 😢

[@MrLocust4]

@@Kitysgacha it’s literally second. stop being crazy 😅

[@Mr.TwoFaceGuy]

Gaslight Gatekeep Greg Hefley

[@D0ppel..g4nger]

DIARY OF A WIMPY KID MENTIONED❗❗🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@quandaIedingIe]

Actually the story about the gaslighting is wrong. The term 'gaslighting' comes from a story about how a wife let the gas stove open for too long and the house went on fire and after getting evacuated from the house the wife convinced the husband it was his fault because he was the one who left the gas stove open for too long and not her. Hence the word 'gaslighting'. We learn new things everyday. The source is that I made it up.

[@sur.viv.e]

good one

[@stay_madlols]

Quandale dingle

[@Dori_xan]

I feel like this made up story illustrates a point that it's not always used as a long-term technique used to create a sense of dependency. It shows it can be used as a way to completely dismantle consequences/responsibility

[@Deleted-User12535]

Was about to believe that until you said your last line . Good one , you just gaslighted me

[@Deleted-User12535]

Real

[@godfather855]

I think these are manipulations that are used in everyday activities and some of them are used even without noticing ,even the one who manipulate here doesn't know what they are doing, its happens like a defense mechanism. But the problem began to unfold as one began to do this regularly or in great scheme level, other than that more than half of these are just human nature.

[@eunomiac]

100%. So little of our interactions with others are even done fully consciously --- everyone has a social autopilot they can turn on, especially in conversations they want to escape.

[@ProfessionalBugLover]

my biggest fear is me venting to someone and them thinking i'm manipulating them 😦

[@toomanyblocks8448]

If you're venting about a bad day, it's fine. If every day is a bad day and your issues never end, it can make the friend feel horrible for what isn't their fault. They shouldn't have a responsibility to comfort you, you should be responsible for yourself.

[@A-Problem-Child]

@@toomanyblocks8448unfortunately this is what I go through basically everyday, I constantly have to hear her stories about every single problem in her day and it’s so damn exhausting

[@loneshewolf74]

Somebody once accused me of gaslighting. I told him, "That's crazy!".

[@chimaunao]

i thought you were the evaluator and i got so confused LMAO 😭😭

[@RavenOffical_YT]

LOL SAME I WAS LIKE “WTH HAPPENED TO THEIR VOICE!?”😭

[@Deleted-User12535]

They're run by the same channel though

[@chimaunao]

@@Deleted-User12535 huh.

[@Deleted-User12535]

@@chimaunao I mean same person

[@chimaunao]

@@Deleted-User12535 how do you know??

[@Danymok]

"Political party I don't like:"

[@getnoobed6203]

3 likes no comments? let me fix that.

[@SkylarYukah]

oh hi danymok

[@RainbowProCat]

Bot

[@getnoobed6203]

@@RainbowProCat no im not lol

[@RainbowProCat]

@@getnoobed6203 I'm not talking abt you

[@bodyaksbooks]

Stonewalling and giving the silent treatment is often a good way to defuse a volatile situation, such as when a person with a choleric temperament is getting riled up and aggressive. Since there's no back-and-forth, there's nothing to "light the fuse" even further, and the conflict eventually dies down.

[@dirk9306]

This definitely couldn't go horribly wrong

[@lazuliisanidiot]

im not sure if this makes sense but im afraid of being (accidentally?) manipulative so imma keep these in mind

[@NiennaFan1]

That is great! I think some of these can be done accidentally so good for you! Just don’t let your fear rule your life and remember that you are capable of being non-manipulative and a good person and you do do good stuff!

[@lazuliisanidiot]

@@NiennaFan1

[@Blessom]

We're becoming Master Manipulators with this one.

[@Kilo_915]

Yessuhhhh

[@terranceaddison4599]

Yeah...until it all comes back at ya. I wouldnt do it.

[@uncommonusername]

Eugh it stinks

[@MedKad2]

We're different. I'm merely analyzing and interpreting manipulation tactics and dark psychology, all for being able to pinpoint manipulation when it happens, you know you'll only be able to manipulate a specific type of people, the more innocent that is

[@Blessom]

@@MedKad2 Same brotha, it's just a joke. 💀

[@aaranlei1144]

its not gaslighting its gaslamping gaslighting doesn't exist

[@chicken7471]

haha you're funny

[@paridhaxholli]

You're trying to gaslight me, i get it

[@IsabelaisCRINGE]

Your right... Did you just gaslamp me?

[@Some_Kid11]

@@paridhaxhollidude. No. Also its gaslamp not gaslight

[@Bunbunblossom]

@@Some_Kid11no it’s gaslighting

[@JamesEnriquez-i7g]

50 seconds 5th like

[@eunomiac]

lol "Love Withdrawl" is just "she's pissed at you". Not wanting to have sex after you just had a fight isn't a manipulation tactic, it's called "being angry"

[@Linoo12]

Not when it lasts for days on end and when she makes that sex (or any physical connection at that) is something that she feels obligated to engage... That is the end.

[@little1133]

Exactly 😭 like what

[@silverpuppi1827]

My parents used all of these manipulation tactics. I can’t express how I feel about them, or else they’ll just pin the blame on me or play the victim.

[@ShellyNooby]

We can all thank our narcissistic parents for this video!

[@MimiTheStudent]

This is making me realize that the reason why I had no friends till I was grade 9 was because I was a horrible person. Thank fuck my friend of 22 years managed to stick with me long enough that they opened my eyes and truly changed how I treat others. I will admit that I'm still not the greatest person ever, but I like to believe that I've been doing better. I now have a lot of very kind friends who will stay with me and tell me off when I make a mistake, and will be proud of me when I take their lessons and put them to good use. I'm not the best, but I'm thankful that I've at least gotten better.

[@eunomiac]

Let's not forget about the power of a little self-reflection in situations where one might be tempted to accuse others of these tactics: A person who is "Stonewalling" you _could_ be selfishly avoiding a meaningful conversation... or, they _could_ be trying to escape an uncomfortable interaction with you. In such cases, we should try to see whether our past communications would give them a _reason_ to be uncomfortable: are we often combative, emotional, or dismissive? Hopefully not, but possibly so.

[@EmperorArashi]

Shift blaming are we?

[@eunomiac]

@@EmperorArashi Not a fan of self-reflection, are we?

[@EmperorArashi]

@@eunomiac hehehe I love being a hypocrite it's funni

[@EchoTheMusicFreak]

The silent treatment hit hard... A friend started ignoring me for seemingly no reason and now I know why

[@diamandcharme-kerhorest7221]

My ex gf gave me the silent treatment for two month before we got together because we apparently got close too fast.. Red flags? Never heard of them

[@abnormalchickennugget]

I get that, my ex best friend did that to me. It absolutely broke me and now she’s trying to use triangulation on me but also dropped all her other friends, so instead she just says I’m racist to the 3 people who still tolerate her and anyone else she meets :)

[@furina-slash-focalors]

something to realize is that some people who just unconsciously do behaviors similar to love-bombing and mirroring can also just be neurodivergent! im bad at gauging things you need to tell someone and things you should do for someone, for example, and oftentimes over or undershoot it unintentionally. i dont understand sociality _at all,_ and that's my personal experience with autism. i subconsciously might mirror some of another person just because deep down i need closer connections, too. if i hurt anyone, i will make it right. some things are just in peoples' nature

[@kanalmimi]

If you do it without bad intentions then maybe

[@furina-slash-focalors]

@@kanalmimi the whole point of my comment is that not everyone has bad intentions and its good to keep that in mind, even while also being cautious of real bad actors?

[@jaxbartlett138]

10:00 Basically 97.5% of all KZbin apology videos

[@Halfmoon301]

My ex girlfriend literally did every single of these and shes a cop totally tragic and ironic.

[@dumptruck_babs]

Who asked

[@ShrimpyJam]

Look a white knight ​@@dumptruck_babs

[@maxicrash]

@@dumptruck_babs I did, now go cry somewhere else This is the internet

[@meike6725]

are you okay now?

[@kokopuffs4597]

How funny is it that I found this right after my own mother sat me down and did almost every one of these tactics while talking down on me 💀

[@suli4143]

That’s rough buddy

[@suli4143]

That’s rough buddy

[@ByFireBePurged_]

I study psychology about manipulation on my free time. Now, I am using that knowledge that serves both sword and shield

[@eunomiac]

Re: Mirroring -- Your definition is way too broad. Mirroring as a psychological tactic is generally limited to subconscious things: speaking pattern, tone, gestures, body language. It wouldn't include feigning the same interest in basketball, or a politician pretending to share the same life story.

[@Mcree4]

My question is what would you want to do if you have to share something with someone but don’t want it to be misinterpreted as a manipulation tactic, like say you have to explain yourself and why you act the way you do and your doing it to genuinely care and explain yourself but you don’t want it to look like you’re trying to manipulate them?

[@ramenrarity]

I love gasoline

[@the_potatoe789]

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[@Mr.TwoFaceGuy]

Same. I drink some every day.

[@Evilraptorus]

No you don’t

[@D0ppel..g4nger]

Me too

[@mattgieslerrocks]

You mean Gasoline by The Interrupters?

[@langstonclark8796]

hmmm...This could be useful...

[@leoliska2638]

🤫

[@lethal_disease02]

💀

[@Transgender_rebel_freak]

Me suddenly out of nowhere at 7 years old

[@blitzkri860]

tHIs coULd bE uSeFul

[@thegreatgamerberg4631]

sigma sigma on the wall, who's the skibbidiest of them all? It's you, yes it's you

[@Lemonn685]

I love to use these tatics specially blame shifting I infact do not do this

[@Idont_eatcrocs]

Dude you need to chill with these videos

[@GalvanizedJVo]

Video idea: The electromagnetic spectrum explained. Like so the analyst can see this!

[@Evilraptorus]

The electromagnetic spectrum doesn’t exist

[@ComptonFunk]

Great video amigo!🫶🏽

[@MxPotato84]

A lot of these makes me think of my ex mother and a certain orange felon.

[@DSMusicParodies]

Help I do this accidentally

[@NiennaFan1]

That’s great you realized that! You can have a conversation with someone you are close to about how you think you do this and would like to stop, or do research and see if there is anything out there about better ways to cope than doing X, or if you’re really worried seek out therapy?

[@5gearz]

So Projecting is similar to Blame Shifting

[@Deleted-User12535]

Nah , projecting often include your own insecurity

[@kanalmimi]

I think projection might be unintentional While for blame shifting you'd be aware

[@myrusEW]

It’s very hard to be manipulated when you don’t care about others perception of your life. Okay you think I’m crazy? I know I’m not. Manipulation failed. You play games to get me to obsess over you or give you more attention? You’ll get the attention I feel like giving you regardless of what you’ve done for me. Manipulation failed. You are much more desirable that way as well, since people who aren’t manipulating you will see that you’re honest, stable, and consistent. Live your life your way, don’t let others influence your emotional/mental state so much that you act out of character or break your own morals or do things you wouldn’t do without their influence.

[@beelzeszel]

So your telling me if i ignore somebody just because it want to do so i am manipulating 😂 bro thats madness Maybe i just dont want to see that person Ever hear or smell it near me

[@A-Problem-Child]

If it’s too protect your own ego then yes it is manipulative, but if you just want time for yourself then no it’s not manipulative

[@mattgieslerrocks]

Everything that was shown in this video is part of why I don’t want to see my parents anymore. When I got big enough to defend myself from their spankings as a child, they resorted to fear and manipulation to get what they wanted out of me. The only reason why I haven’t left them yet as an adult is because of a financial predicament I’m in and I need to find a better job to completely support myself

[@marina3934]

0:55 if anyone is thinking about watching Gaslight, do it, it’s a great classic movie and the plot is so much more than the husband dimming the gaslights. The wife hears strange noises coming from the attic of their home repeatedly and the gaslights dim and flicker each time this happens. There’s a huge mystery involved and the acting is really good.

[@abbyadventure5689]

I am a victim of projection/blame shifting/stonewalling and mirroring manipulation in my family, it was alwas me getting blamed even thouth i didn't do anything. Im alwas the problem or villain in my family eyes, if i ever have my own family i won't be treating my kids how my family treats me

[@FAT-PIG3ON]

The video your watching isn’t real.

[@AverageCommenterOnYT]

I didnt even know the silent treatment was manipulation apparently im a manipulator😭😭

[@SaucyWolfTaco]

Ahhh okay so THIS is the ripoff channel that uses AI for content

[@ennardthefuntimepuppet6456]

Gaslighting doesn't work on me 🍪

[@sethry_crunch_real]

I regularly use at least four of these tactics and now i feel like a piece of shit :(

[@princeasiamah4726]

This video made me realize how a little bit screwed up we all are

[@noobiechessjxwyspl]

whats the difference between blame shifting and projecting?

[@ebel-mt2dm]

Projection doesn't need to have an event while blame shifting does. Blame shifting is if you spill a cup of milk and say it is the fault of someone else. Projection is accusing someone of going to spill a cup of milk because you feel like you are going to do that.

[@realPlerby]

politics in 16 minutes 😭🙏

[@magicfish8213]

Gaslighting isn't real. You're just crazy.

[@ShemeshTV]

I know one specific people who love playing the victim. Hint: There name starts with a P 🤐

[@packjackisback]

Pd-files?

[@KassRose820]

Not Pisces right? 😂😂😂

[@_moochaa]

I always thought everyone does these kind of things???(only a very few of them)

[@Editor_Catnap]

I thought that too!

[@budget_kanao]

ye like srs everyone ik guilt trips like it’s normal

[@noobiechessjxwyspl]

great tutorial thanks

[@elitalks258]

Gaslighting? Guilt tripping? Projection? Blame shifting? Playing the victim? Stonewalling? Mirroring? Are you sure this isn't a video about your average politician?

[@crazymulatto8981]

Unfortunately, I've been a victim of every one of these manipulation tactics. Also, I won't lie, I've used some of these tactics for revenge as well.

[@Dapperberrytalks]

OH. MY. GOD. IM NOT CRAZY thanks for the validation my friend has been doing the triangulation manipulation just in a different way thank you for making this video as im starting to undold some things about my "friends" and myself sadly. Thank you

[@oneannoyingjester]

I know it’s not healthy to WANT to be manipulated, but my aromantic ass would love to lovebombed. I get free stuff, and I’m not even effected in the end.

[@Heavenly_16]

I did the first one by accident one time….but that’s bc I actually genuinely didn’t remember saying something bc I was in highschool and my friend brought up something I said in 7th grade 😭…eventually I realized what she was talking about….the funny part it she was manipulative too 💀

[@envycoolstuff]

lol I js realized my ex bestfriend used like 90% of these, uhh so that’s not great !! I’m happy that I’m not friends with them anymore

[@raetemple9167]

Here's a list of manipulation tactics that I know of and been collecting from different sources over time. Keep in mind that a few of these are only considered manipulation in certain scenarios and situations. Shaming The manipulator would shame the victim for something and destroy their confidence. Playing on Insecurities The manipulator could learn of an insecurity of the victim's and bring that up to destroy their confidence and make them more insecure. Aggressive Jokes The manipulator would make a joke that would hurt the victim and continue play it off as a joke. Over time, this can destroy their confidence and make them more insecure. Infantilization The manipulator would treat the victim as if they were a child, as if they were less than them. This can destroy their confidence as they start to believe that they really are less than them. Triangulation The manipulator brings a third party into their relationship, and uses the lack of communication between the victim and third party to remain in control. Projection The manipulator would claim that the victim is manipulating them, thus confusing the victim and making them start to believe that they were in the wrong. Threats or Coercion The manipulator threatens or coerces the victim into getting what they want. Guilt Tripping The manipulator would guilt the victim by expressing their negative emotions at a decision the victim is making. The goal is to get the victim to feel bad enough for the manipulator and have them make the choice the manipulator wants them to make. Invalidation of Feelings When the victim brings up their feelings or experiences, the manipulator would invalidate their feelings, perhaps by claiming that it's "not that bad" or "irrational", or brushing them off and dismissing them. This can cause the victim to feel unimportant and irrational. Passive-Aggressive Behavior Passive-aggressive behavior can come in the form of subtle digs or insults. The manipulator may bring up something that they know will hurt the victim, but do it in such an indirect way that it's hidden under a mask of politeness. Comparison The manipulator would compare the victim to another person, making the victim feel bad about what they lack in comparison. This can chip away at their self-confidence. Insinuation The manipulator may insinuate something bad about their victim, but wont elaborate. This makes the victim question what the manipulator may mean, and in turn, feel bad about themselves. Backhanded Compliments The manipulator would insult the victim, but hide it under the disguise of a compliment, thus getting away with insulting the victim. Love Bombing / Hoovering Love bombing, or hoovering, is when a manipulator gives the victim plenty of love out of seemingly nowhere. They might give them plenty of gifts, spend plenty of time with them, love them, understand them - it'd seem like their dream. This is the manipulator trying to pull the victim in, or trying to get the victim back into their life. Gift-giving Gift-giving is usually a good thing, but it can be a manipulation tactic. The manipulator may give their victim plenty of gifts, and then expect the victim to return that affection back. Or, it could be a sign of love bombing. Mirroring The manipulator would copy, or mirror, the victims thoughts, feelings and behaviors as a way to make the victim feel more understood and comfortable. Isolation The manipulator would, over time, isolate the victim from the rest of their family and friends. The manipulator could try to convince the victim that their family and friends are bad people, or even threaten the victim to stop spending time with anyone else. Silent Treatment / Love Withdrawal The manipulator would suddenly stop talking to the victim. Or, in the case of love withdrawal, might stop giving them affection. Ghosting The manipulator would ghost the victim. Discard / Reverse Discard The Discard and the Reverse Discard are two different things. In a Discard, the manipulator would adruptly end their relationship with their victim and "discard" them. But,sometimes the manipulator will do what's called a Reverse Discard and love bomb their victim in an attempt to get them back. Stonewalling The manipulator will give their victim no substance to work with when talking with them. They may give short, to-the-point answers and never truly converse with their victim. Shifting/Moving the Goalpost After achieving the goal the manipulator set out for their victim, the manipulator would never give them their reward, instead they'll set an even higher goal for them. Changing the Subject When the victim directly confronts their manipulator, the manipulator would simply change the subject and avoid having to give any answers to them. Blame Shifting The manipulator would blame someone else for their actions. Playing the Victim The manipulator, when confronted with something, would claim they are the victim in an attempt to get sympathy from others. Fake Moralization The manipulator would claim/believe that they are morally superior as a way to justify their actions.

[@benedekborvendeg32]

Thank you, I'm taking notes. Hopefully I can use these to their full extent!!

[@Ex0tic_Cat_nah]

2:04 LMAO my mom XD

[@etcetera1995]

Seriously people, gaslighting is a specific type of mental abuse. Stop calling something gaslighting when it's just lying.

[@MimicksRiot]

My mom was lovebombed when she was younger, people told her not to be with him, and then randomly kept pressuring her to be with him, he was pretty bad years back, its better, he's a bit of a narcissist (not full but a bit)

[@MuizAjala]

Projection : My Mum Guilt tripping: My Grandma

[@bradenaustin5482]

You know what's even worse? Often, toxic and manipulative people also know all these terms, so they can use the little "system" of identifying the problem to their advantage and tag their victims with these terms.

[@fuschia-draws]

reminder this video is also here to help you recognize when YOU have been manipulative in your life. it might surprise you when you really think about it

[@doth2471]

Just realized my ex probably kept trying to gaslight me by trying to make me believe he never said a bunch of stuff (usually to justify his actions or to justify unfairly limiting my actions). Unfortunately for him I have great memory and could always find a written record or evidence of him saying/ doing the things he says he doesn’t “recall”.

[@Ali-in-Wonderland.]

A.k.a. a list of red flags of everything a narcissist stands for. If you find this video to be very normal to you and you don’t see a problem in any of the behaviors you’re probably a narcissist and go get some help and I say it with love😊

[@Gl1tch3d_K33gan]

I feel like my mom has been gaslighting me into thinking that I’m faking being sick in the mornings. Every time I have some type of stomach problem in the morning, she always tells me “it’s all in your head”, “you’re faking it” or “it’s just anxiety”

[@ikmalanuar1440]

It's not even that I want or like manipulating people for bad intents, it's that I'm very stupid and sometimes make people question their mind because of my wrong answers.

[@ryorai5804]

Ok so I have a lot of issues with a lot of these. Stonewalling, silent treatment and love bombing should hardly be considered manipulation. Stonewalling and silent treatment are completely a personal and boundaries thing. Like if a person doesnt want to talk to they dont want to talk to you. They have no obligation to talk to you. Love bombing, the times this happens generally the gifts arent really appreciated then when the person giving them doesnt feel like theyre appreciated they back off but still kinda have those feelings. I dont really like these specifically because calling these manipulation gives ammunition to actual manipulators, the kind of people who care so much about other peoples supposed manipulation but not their own.

[@little1133]

remember that things like lovebombing and mirroring are red flags, not red lights! some of these are manipulative no matter what but others can have valid reasons, so remember that you can have things that set off alarms without being a deal breaker on their own (red flags), things that set off alarms AND are deal breakers whether or not there are other issues (red lights), and things that dont set off alarms at all (green/beige flags)

[@lullabychannel5400]

Speedrunning these

[@LivandLearnMusic]

Fascinating how my ex fits all these categories :’)

[@xvrlw]

maybe i just dont get it, but from what you said, projection doesn't really seem different from blame shifting. i actually thought projecting was more like assigning something that you don't like about yourself to others and pointing it out even if it isn't true

[@puppygamer7578]

i have this thing where unless i know that Its my fault for sure I accidentally play the victim because in the moment I genuinely feel like the victim, and there have been moments where I do a 180 and go from feeling like the victim, getting more info and then realizing it was my fault and I take the blame

[@joelaustinherable]

I feel like my brother has always guilt tripped, given me the silent treatment, used triangulation, used projection, used blame shifting, played the victim in fights he caused, and has used stonewalling to make me feel like I'm the wrong and has used all of these to make my sanity feel like its not real. Thanks brother, I love having to question myself with everything I do and having to feel like I'm the idiot! 🙃

[@exoticjadeyyy]

The way my ex used half of these😀

[@cps6949]

Good thing it‘s your ex then.

[@occidziggys9496]

I find it strange that triangulation can be used as a reference in terms of some school cliches or genuine clicks where they are in group's and the only reason why they let in another person problems with another with the entire group or some in the group is because "Well we are a group we should know each other problem's and work together" with it being usually the one that is kinda the unnamed chief of the herd pinning others against each other i find that it usually happens when the chief got a lot to hide Like genuinely a lot. (PS i'm not saying that's about all group's, your relationships issues aren't really my business if you want to complain to me that i got it wrong or even insult me, it's just an observation i've had from certain experiences and memories)

[@f1rebreather123]

I accidentally gaslight because i doubt my own reality sometimes.

[@koroshiya_1]

I've experienced these, but I've also done some of these tactics 😢 I feel bad for that, but I'm in therapy now and trying to be a better person ❤

[@PhantomQueenOne]

Although grey rocking (stonewalling) is the best defence against people that are narcissists. They finally pick someone else to get their narcissistic supply from and will leave you alone. I've gotten several narcissists to leave me alone doing this.

[@veretxnerd983]

Somebody is deadass using projection towards their mother

[@otimelyofficial8146]

Love when youtubers steal someone else’s previously completely unique style! I just love it when (smaller) youtubers cant be creative on their own so they decided to steal someone elses creative style!

[@Ichigo_the2nd]

I didn't know silent treatment was a form of manipulation, cause usually after I find out someone is talking behind my back or they don't like me anymore or they never did, I try to go radio silent assuming that they don't want anything to do with me anymore so I won't be a bother And now this just sounds like guilt tripping

[@Sir.Games-A-Lot]

Why would you put in gaslighting everyone here already knows what it is (gaslighting you hehehehe)

[@RealBasil143]

if you dont like my comment you're going to be the reason for my sadness >:( :( :(

[@dal.21]

didn’t think going silent was manipulative. i usually do it to avoid saying some bad things while i’m still angry

[@aracoixo3288]

Socrates ❤

[@Editor_Catnap]

whoa- i accidentally use half these on ppl 0_0

[@randomperosn771]

19th viewer???

[@klaus.sfc01official30]

I don't know why i got this recommended but i am curious how much of these fit to my Ex best friend.