EVIDENCE THEY DIDNT HEAR FROM GOD BUT TOASTED THEIR WIVES

[@mathewc.e.2620]

God does not choose for us, but if we trust him, he will guide us in the right direction

[@thespectacular9826]

That's the truth. However sometimes God still guides people even if they don't know God or trust his leading. What I am saying is that God still works behind the scene in our lives, irrespective of who we are

[@ronkeadenekan423]

Aunty Adunni you don’t draw far reaching conclusions on a snippet that is inconclusive Or else you will be said to perpetuate falsehood. Engage Evang Bamiloye on those issues. We are all imperfect and marriages are not perfect they have to be worked upon. Concerning Christian marriages there are guidelines laid down by the Entity who created marriage. Pre marital counseling has gone way past the position you are stating pls get yourself informed.

[@mathewc.e.2620]

@@thespectacular9826 very correct

[@lolaadedokun8104]

100%

[@joynay444]

Still wrong. PEOPLE guide themselves. First it was that holy spirit will choose for you, now it's that holy spirit/god will guide you...PEOPLE choose and guide themselves. Let's stop.

[@alakeoroyinyin4754]

This happened to me. I was very naive. I prayed and waited and waited in vain to hear from God when a lovely brother that I really liked proposed to me as a young girl. I sadly declined because I didn't hear God. I regret that decision today and everyday of my life. Women, pls follow your heart.

[@joynay444]

My own is like the opposite but same outcome. A Christian man courted me and I believed God spoke to me about him. In fact, there were better options but that one was more on fire for Christ (LOL)...In the end, he disappointed me and honestly was not a good partner. I was SOLELY focused on the "things of god" and what would please jesus, so much so that I denied myself of opportunities to really go for what I wanted and it's not just in that area but every area. I regret it so much. I should have followed my interests and heart instead of worrying about biblegod.

[@oluyemi]

True ma the children even said it themselves that they got connected through their parents. If you are a lady still waiting for your pastor to give you direction including man then you are not born again or you have identity crises you can say you are born again and not hear from your father( God) yourself pastor will not stay with you in that marriage even pastors too are encountering many challenges in their marriage, just ask for God direction and he will lead guild you through, your spirit will bear witness with that of his.

[@nuhumaishanu6944]

I know a few girls whose lives were ruined when they told them that God had told them that the men they intended to marry were not meant for them. They have been waiting for God to change his mind until they became old are now desperately looking

[@giftedchild9490]

They told them is different from you heard yourself

[@joynay444]

I can relate and I also know women in this situation. Very sad.

[@Ologun1]

Agreed ur right too much arangee in the church or the prophet arranging Prophecy for members to join together.

[@emmanuelbakare4079]

So Auntie Adunni Psalm 25:12 says who is the man that fears the Lord ? Him shall He teach the way he chooses….. Because there are many options in front of of us , we need God to guide us to make the right choice for us. This is also true in Marital Partner. Yes God leads us to the right person for us if we allow Him. Yes we can choose anyone we want, but a wise man will ask God to direct Him. And even when we think we have chosen, Iwe can get ot wrong because we are human. And that also doesn’t guarantee a lasting relationship or marriage. The issue of people in their 30s or 50s still single is not because The women are picky most of the time. There must be other reasons. If no one comes to them, then they can’t marry. For men dating so many women, I think it is not necessary . If Ian only marrying one woman. I don’t think it is tight to be doing try and test, when I can ask God to lead me to my woman, and He will. God didn’t bring multiple women to Adam to choose from. He only brought 1 woman made from his rib. He still does that today if we allow Him

[@nnekairoegbu2360]

God doesn't tell you whom to marry, but go tell those ones in Deeper life, MFM and the rest of them. Una go wait tire. These people do March making for their own children especially daughters. Shine your eyes ooooooh.

[@pojaword]

Hmmmm. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom of saying nothing but the truth.

[@mathewc.e.2620]

It is also possible that Pastor Mike proposed to those ladies because he was naturally attracted to them but God didn’t let it happen and guided him to the sweet woman he eventually found.

[@pojaword]

I think that was what happened. God has assignments for him and he can't just allowed him to marry anyhow for God's purposes for his life to be fulfilled

[@mathewc.e.2620]

@ good talk

[@kellaboola]

And Chris Oyakhilome proposed to only one woman and God let him marry only for the marriage to scatter few years back. My brother, leave this matter... E go tear your jersey.

[@Amos-y6n]

People pray and God guides them. God can show you who to marry if you have a personal relationship with him and he has been guiding you on other issues b4. However, human beings can change later in marriage. That is the reason why pastors will not impose their opinions. All they are interested in is to ensure that you are marrying a fellow born again Xtian.

[@realtalkAuntyAdunni]

So God guide them to people he knows will still change and divorce them?

[@realtalkAuntyAdunni]

Many fellow born again christians are beating themselves everyday in marriages. Go and verify . Nothing about being borm again

[@Amos-y6n]

@@realtalkAuntyAdunni A backslidden Xtian can behave worse than the unbeliever!!!! Even the Bible tells us that a person can end up with worse demons if the one that is cast away comes to find the spirit of the man empty. However, as long as a person is subject to God’s Spirit, his/her marriage will thrive

[@Amos-y6n]

Those that graduated from our school fellowship in 1990 are mostly happily married ma. Up to 95%. They were truly committed to Christ. They did not just join a bandwagon or do the fashionable thing.

[@Kantz1]

@@Amos-y6n How do you know they're "happily" married? Just because you see them from afar does not necessarily mean they are happy. There are many people who put on a show, enduring the relationship but not really enjoying much of it. So be careful; the grass is always greener when looking from a distance!

[@mondayogunfeyimi6825]

Of a truth, God doesn't choose a wife for anybody, he tried it before, and man blamed God for that by saying it is the woman, you God gave me tha. t deceived me(Adam and eve case). So since then God refused to choose for anyone but can only tell you things about the woman or man but not everything. Because the choice you make has consequences either Good or bad

[@Nkoti-Ooks-tv7xv]

...but GOD chose Rebecca for Isaac ....and HE still does, as HE sees fit, for His purposes in certain people's lives, though most people find, or meet their spouses one way or another.... nevertheless your point is valid, being the existing state if affairs in some denominations. I think it may come down to people listening & obeying doctrines more of the doctrines, or teachings of their local pastors, more than being more obedient to the commands of Holy Scriptures, which is sadly very common. May the LORD help us all, & grant us discernment.

[@Kantz1]

Did you really read that story? Was it Isaac that God chose for? Wasn't it Abraham that sent his servant to go find a woman from among his (Abraham's) own people (the very people that your pastor would call unbelievers today). Please read again. Rebecca's people did not join Abraham on his "God called me" journey, remember? They remained at home! Rebecca was back home! What did I miss?

[@lolaadedokun8104]

You missed nothing. 100%. People that don't know their Bible will be easy targets for manipulations in thses end times.

[@henrywilfred2211]

God only guides those who seek his guidance and directives. I have seen some of those things they are doing

[@Kantz1]

@@henrywilfred2211 Can provide indisputable evidence of that? That the pastors that have now divorced their wives were or were not guided by God to marry or divorce their wives? Which one?

[@volobig5558]

Thank you

[@kenojokoji]

He has one of the most beautiful, humble, faithful and calm woman of God.

[@adeseyeadebusuyi5753]

All I know is people asking for leading and guidance in whatever religion or society they belong. For example, to choose a king (in yoruba land) they consult ifá. That's guidance by what traditional worshippers believe. When there's a failure an adage in yoruba also says "e bere lọwọ orí ibí ọja gbe n'ta" i.e why didn't you consult gods before taking steps. To build house you consult professionals in building industry; sick people consult medical experts etc. Therefore it's same in Christianity, you consult the Almighty God who knows all things for guidance. However one is at liberty to follow his mind yet God still help and direct the affairs of His faithfuls.

[@thespectacular9826]

Let's understand one thing here... God is a spirit and has his systems which is in no way a static method. What I mean is that God has no particular system through which he does things. To say God tells people who to marry and preach it as a gospel, is wrong. To now say that God doesn't ever speak or show spouses, is wrong too. God can use any method to guide people to marriage, whether believers and unbelievers. There are situations in the lives of particular people where God will lead you through certain circumstances, peoples advice, visions, even premarital relationships. God can still lead someone to marry the actual person meant for them through a relationship that would lead to abortions. You will look at it as sin but God defined it as his means of bringing both persons together. See how he brought Judah and Tamar together. See how he brought David and Beth'sheba together. It's God that did it but the sin part was the making of the people involved. Then in the case of Hosea, see how God did it through a direct prophetic instruction.

[@cescajohn8429]

well said, if God can order our day to day lives, then directing us to the right person to marry can never be a huge task for Him. He has no particular way of doing things because He is God indeed!!

[@Kantz1]

First of, it depends on the relationship you have with God. God can guide but it largely depends on you - your readiness, your expectations and what you've been taught about how God guides. If you apply the wrong formula to how God guides, you'll still think it's God guiding you while all the while, it wasn't. The second point I'm going to make here is this: even if God guides both of you to one another, how you manage your relationship matters. Many homes that have broken today is not purely because God did not guide them. (There are many unbelievers who have better relationships than some believers who have not managed themselves well). So all in all, how you do in your relationship has to do largely with how you grew up first of all, then what you got taught when you became born again and what you decided to adopt when it was time for you to form a relationship. It's not all about God; everything in your life contributes to whether or not you have a nice life and relationship. It's never just automatic.

[@princerahman9419]

God I love the Bamiloye family .I saw both daddy and mummy in America inside Atlanta International Airport when they are traveling maybe out of state or back to Nigeria ❤

[@andrewgiantmam1425]

Greeting of the day Aunty Adunni, I agreed with you. The problem with Nigeria xtians is that many of them do not understand the scripture. God stopped marrying wives for men since Adam blame him after the incidence at EDEN, when God asked him why he ate the forbiden fruit, he tactically blamed God by saying the Woman you put here gave me the fruit. From Genesis to Revelation, all men chose their Wives.

[@henrywilfred2211]

Let's Watch the full videos for ourselves and analyse for ourselves. This is just a part of a full clip

[@ChiomaAmechi]

God does choose sometimes...

[@SONOFFAITHH]

𝒉𝒐𝒘?? 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒊𝒏

[@pojaword]

​​@@SONOFFAITHHdo you ask God for anything at all in life? If yes, why then? If you can't ask Him whom to marry you don't need to ask him anything cos you can find your way.

[@Olabosi]

And he’s one of them that are giving young ones template for choosing partners! Wicked church-shrines elders! Then, I remember, young ones made their private proposals to whichever girl that was attractive to them. And if the ladies agreed, that was it! Then, no any man of gods came in-between them….. Yoruba, we have lost our spiritual inclination to all these occultic men of gods!

[@reginaokwechime102]

I can’t understand this church people. How can God tell you who to marry or not to marry, How can I wait for a nonsense pastors to tell me who to get down with or when to kerewa. Aduni am senior to you but it’s true our time we don’t have any problem during our days . 😂😂😂 we go for school debates inter house sports go to clubs no problem. Life don bajeee.

[@joyimonikhe7241]

God bless you mama

[@alabaadeshigbin7135]

Truth well said, ese, eku lakaye ati oye, ese

[@lolaadedokun8104]

Pray but marry people you are drawn to and be ready to defend your actions with your full chest. So that there wouldn't be regrets.

[@Kanjuabenko]

So, pastor Bamiloye was randomly proposing without God speaking to him until one gelled .So oh boy , you go just toast randomly nio

[@mohammedogunola8145]

Aunty you are confirmed ! Mumu is far away for you.God increase your wisdom.

[@janet_dada]

The Bible's said yee shall found a wife ,awon yoruba ni lowo ori ni ,God help us.

[@ritadaniel7132]

They really deceived us. 😢😢

[@adegokeadeyemo5329]

Aduni, you are talking about childless couples? What do we say about you ,who became a widow in your thirties? Didn't you pray before you married or God hadn't been good? No , God is good irrespective of what happens to me or you.

[@thepenhealer3273]

😄 😄 😄 would started that behaviour of telling people God will show you explicitly who to marry. God can lead you, but to choose for you na lie ohh😅😅

[@Divinity11112]

Reality

[@SAYMoti]

Jesus loves you give your life to Jesus

[@SAYMoti]

Because God Choose for him that's why he was not able to marry does people he proposed to before her the step of a righteous man her ordered by God stop flaunting your heresy

[@abbybeauty4923]

You are right auntie but are you saying there is no need to pray to your maker (God) before choosing a patner The story of bamiloye marriage is more than this clip,have read his full story on his marriage God choose for him As he said in this clip ,he nearly choose wrongly then

[@Here-for-comments1023]

Brain. Brain. Brain

[@sunshineblessing2040]

is this a preaching of the gospel or entertainment teaching . what a life .

[@imevbore]

May be one of those ladies would have been better than this his wife. Who knows?

[@pojaword]

Was he a pastor when he proposed to those ladies he mentioned. Some people has problems and bitter that their sense of reasoning are blurred. If pastors expected a man or lady to seek God's approval in marriage was it a bad thing or was it the intention of pastors to keep them single indefinitely. When pastors want ladies or men to seek God's face in marriage I think it's toward having a peaceful home on the long run. Anybody can choose how and who to marry, whatever happen will be their cup of tea in the end. Hell was created for the devil and it's daily been enlarged because his children are greatly on the increase through bitter gangsterism on social media.

[@FolashadeAdegboyega]

Have u been to hell before...na question I ask o

[@pojaword]

@FolashadeAdegboyega no oo and I don't want to be there. Have you been there or you want to be there to tell us how it's like? I just ask o

[@omobaoruniyaewe7745]

Hunnnnnnnnnn I only pity d innocent ladies and guys that will follow adunni councel by d time they will realize it’s better to choose spouses under the guise of God am sure it would have been late then and mind you wrong marriage is destruction of destiny take it or leave it by d time you follow adunni cancel you go know say life na per head but if you love urself don’t listen to Adunni ooo follow God’s direction period and iya adunni se bcs mike bamiloye said that it means their marriage na 100% abi 😂😂 dey play my friend there is no perfect marriage Ogade I beg don’t mislead young ones Yoruba says (Emafi Ori We Ori) I come in peace 😂

[@kingamar8780]

Hmmm very sad.

[@sharonadetunji_Onile]

Bamiloye is a liar as well!

[@D_Chief.]

Kindly share one lie he told and the evidence to counter it.

[@pauljones7798]

@@D_Chief. You're absolutely correct.🗣💯👍✌💪

[@echooscar1914]

After he don gbensh them finish he’s now coming out to talk crap. GTFOH

[@oluwafemifalola1688]

Lmfao 😂

[@amagranma]

What he said DOES NOT mean God doesn’t speak to people. He was the one that missed hearing God😡

[@adegokeadeyemo5329]

Aduni,or what do you call your name? Go and look for something edify to do.

[@SundayAshiedu]

People perish for lack of knowledge. Those that have ear let them hear. Those that have eyes let them see also. JMO

[@oluyinkaadeyinka7488]

God does not choose for us who to marru.He can only guide us.

[@oluwatobilobaokunola4960]

You know it's funny how you love to drive traffic to your blog with things about Christendom. This is an old video of when he was celebrating his. Madam what can we learn from your own marriage. Follow this woman at your own peril. What i know is hear God for yourself as a true child of God concerning every issues of life.

[@oluwafemifalola1688]

Abeggii 🙄

[@henrywilfred2211]

You are right