we accept the love we think we deserve.

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I love this and I hope you guys do too.
we really do accept the love we think we deserve, if we believe we are unworthy of love we will settle for something that isn't the best for us. why should we just settle for average in our lives? sometimes we have to be selfish and put ourselves first, and I know, it's difficult because believe me when I say I don't think I am worthy of anyones love just yet. but how can you expect someone to love you when you don't even love yourself? the most important kind of love is self love, try and start to love yourself and thats when you will realise you are capable of someone else loving you. then you will see why love is the most beautiful thing on this earth. you just have to find it. your time will come, you can't rush it.
------soz thats me just rambling deep in my feels late at night, love from evie
lots of different fandoms
song is the beautiful piece threnody by goldmund
colouring is mine
obz edit is mine
ppl keep stealing me edits like soz no hun x
love you all

[@sophiabeebeeboo4579]

Okay I did not check the KZbin channel before watching this video. I watched the whole thing and fell absolutely in love. Then I saw at the end that it was edited by evie may sellers and I sat there thinking, “Of. Course. Who else?” This is a masterpiece, it brought me to tears. Keep making videos like this because I love them and I know a lot of people love them too💓

[@eviemaysellars]

Sophia Pietrantonio thank you

[@sophiabeebeeboo4579]

evie may sellars np😊

[@Joker-uw2ul]

@@eviemaysellars thank you this video and your message in the description truly opened me up I also don’t think I deserve someone worthy but after this just opened me up thank you

[@Chloe-kq6en]

Have you found it yet?

[@janeelliot4732]

I did!! Now, he’s my husband 😂🤣😂 #howmanifestationworks #isntit?

[@basicscorpio]

Who else clicked because they immediately recognised the "we accept the love we think we deserve" line from "The perks of being a Wallflower"? ❤️

[@SGN_Maximo]

Me!

[@majandrak1706]

YESSSSSS I LOVE THAT FILM SO MUCH 😩❤️

[@hicereal6993]

I love that book so much!

[@trashnamedalana7524]

accept **

[@chey_nicol3595]

Me 💕

[@tazmeenzargar7017]

Charlie:-Why do nice people always end up with a wrong person? Mr.Anderson(Advanced English teacher):- We accept the love we think we deserve.

[@jukala_xd]

And later on Sam: why do I and everyone I love pick people who treat us like we're nothing Charlie: we accept the love we think we deserve And so on

[@louisgregory5539]

JuLiA who is Sophie

[@louisgregory5539]

JuLiA It’s Sam

[@alexblackfield6108]

um, what show or movie is this from

[@jukala_xd]

@@louisgregory5539 yea, I'm sorry. I mess up their names especially when I watch a lot of movies on one day and then you mess up names from different movies so I'm so aorry

[@madisonhollowell9429]

my biggest fear is never finding love and im so scared that im always going to be alone update: oh wow hi i did not know this comment got so many likes but i just wanna say ive finally made it to a spot in my life where i've fallen in love with myself and i no longer fear being alone. to anyone struggling with a similar situation as i was, please know love is all around you. whether its a friend, a pet, a book; love is always with you. theres more to life than finding a significant other. fall in love with yourself, with the things you enjoy doing, just fall in love with life. not sure if that made any sense but i hope u all have a wonderful day and i wish u all the best in life :)

[@flowertheone]

Madison Hollowell you won’t be alone, nobody stays alone forever

[@akasaint1602]

I feel the same... i used to cry everday but now i'm crying every hour because my ex has a perfect life and a happy relationship right now and i gained weight, my grades did get lower, i lost a lot of friends, my health is getting worse and i'm getting sick every week. I'm so tired of crying it gives me more headaches but i can't help it

[@flowertheone]

@@akasaint1602Gaining weight is not a bad thing... Forget about your ex, you are a powerful person. Don't wait for the perfect boyfriend/girlfriend, be your own partner, help yourself, stop crying and enjoy life. Romantic relationships are not everything!

[@maryajabali9001]

I feel you, it's my biggest fear too.

[@livelovelurk]

Thats a big fear of mine seeing so many couples and im all alone.

[@alyssamae8548]

I thought the 'we accept the love we think we deserve' line was trying too hard to be deep... Then 6 years after reading that line, and 5 years of trying to make a relationship work when I wasnt being treated well... I get it, it's true

[@_ileana777ileana5]

AlyssaMae I just got out of a 6 month relationship he treated me so badly like it hurts so much man

[@Jaypatel-up4jg]

Don't worry you will find a perfect person for you One day definitely.... And look if you loved a wrong person this much than think that when the Perfect person will come to your life how much you are gonna love him... My wishes are For ya.... I m bad at English sorry for mistakes

[@lancelotfabre3530]

Sorry for u, but also glad u finally had this realisation thanks to that line. 💕 I had not read this line yet when I was in an unhealthy relationship. But I read it after and it hit me hard. So true. It was a realisation that helped me understand many things, including how toxic my ex was. I went to therapy to work on my lacking self confidence issues. Now I've been with the love of life for 12 years. I tell this line to all of my friends I see being badly treated. I wish everyone the happiness I have.

[@child9125]

I still don't get it, but I really want to

[@lancelotfabre3530]

@@child9125 If it can help to rephrase and simplifiy: If u have low self esteem, u will accept to be treated badly - without being fully avare of it. When u have a better self confidence, eventually u will meet someone who treats u with respect. If still not clear, the movie Perks of being a wallflower can help illustrate... And living your life will also help u realise that.

[@lemikster3699]

Someday, you will find true love. It could be a while before it happens. True love takes a good amount of patience for it to happen. You never know when suddenly your heart will guide you to someone that's just right for you and a healthy relationship; someone that loves you with all eternity. If you ever struggle finding love, then don't fright. Because there is one person that always loves you, and that is God.

[@JUSTICE-dz8jf]

Everyone has a soul mate out there rather wait long than marry wrong

[@po_taylor]

Keep waiting for something amazing! Xxx

[@nxgsonmars9826]

A hamster can show you true love

[@shaheedabrahams6346]

Hope is a good thing, never give up. And no good thing ever dies.

[@saraspandalife8519]

It could be every day so try to be happy every day:)

[@sergioguinac6701]

Someone once told me: Love is like a cookie. Everytime you "think" youve fallen in love you give them a piece to share. But after every piece the cookie gets smaller and smaller. Until you have nothing to give to the person that is right for you. If you're lucky though, they accept it. And share theirs with you.

[@denisetheur5641]

Wow. 😲 This is so insightful.

[@mayeighteen2812]

Here’s another one; the right person makes consistent deposits in your heart, and sees you as a long term investment. The wrong person makes withdrawals and leaves you emotionally and mentally bankrupt. True love doesn’t leave you empty. True love leaves you full. ❤️

[@visi7891]

this isnt right. bc what happens with others who fall in love and give pieces of their cookie to you? so you still have a whole cookie to give to the Right One. but it's just.. made up of the Right pieces this time. chocolate, macadamia nut, red velvet... all the different cookies pieces because a delicious multi-flavor cookie of the perfect recipe to give to your Final Partner.

[@jordiruiz3793]

There is no right person. There is the idea of a right person, which is always influenced by hormones.

[@Oktaviii]

Step 1: have a healthy idea of love within you Step 2: be ok with being alone until a person who matches that healthy love comes into your life. Step 3: don’t settle down for someone who you don’t mutually love and who doesn’t match healthy love idea Step 4: develop love not only for a person but for art, nature, and the universe Step 5: if you never meet the person who you mutually love and who doesn’t fit your idea of healthy love, be at peace, and develop even greater love for all living being, nature, arts, knowledge and the universe Step 6: don’t be afraid of being alone, don’t be afraid of being alone, don’t be afraid of being alone. Being on your own and sharing love with the universe is better than settling down for an abusive and mean asshole. I bet you know what it feels like. It’s not love, it’s abuse.

[@zin6730]

Thank you! Very well said ❤

[@Lina_903]

Im getting better. Yet im watching this video feeling some kind of confort in the sadness. Its very familiar to me. Almost like i miss the sadness. The sadness made me feel lonely but yet i miss the feeling of the depression completely taking over me, like there was some kind of warmth in the depression whilst it was making me feel so empty at the same time.

[@belkaexe]

i cried while reading your comment because thats exactly what i feel for weeks by now and couldn‘t realise until now. thank you.

[@aastha2693]

same💕

[@nadabarbou1785]

Its like you read my mind

[@nicoleberesford9926]

This is so true and it's so strange

[@calculateddisaster7803]

I feel the exact same way. It is so strange, can anyone explain it?

[@sistershookt4796]

Love is pain... but the best kind of pain you'll ever experience

[@Cedesthegemini]

sister shookT the saddest too

[@ms7HD]

Love can't be pain , attachment to results are pain . Love never was pain , pain is always about attachment and not allowing life to be , When you love someone you start thinking that human being complete you because you feel incomplete by yourself . I mean you made yourself incomplete now you seek everything to fill that incomplete self . In a moment you decided to get happiness and completeness by someone else PAIN must happen if they leave . Is that simple , I mean even ant would understand but somehow only we humans feel incomplete all the time . I red article about cats matting , can you imagine how simple they are ? How male cat got signals from female and then come to her and they mate for idk 1-9 minutes and then its stated " after matting is done male cat walks away and has nothing more to do with female " . This means that they fulfilled biological need that nature cause them because on physical level you are either male of female so you aren't complete there , after such level is done you should feel complete same as cat is . You should feel complete , that's natural state . After you eat your food and sleep well and have sex when needed you should not feel any damn incompleteness . So question is not about falling in love , but why we feel not enough on our own ? This is big time question . If you ignore looking for answer on this question , you will always do all the wrong things to get outside source to feel good . Simple question : Why I feel Not Enough right now ?

[@sistershookt4796]

Y'all got so much to say 🙄 I made my comment in accordance to the video I ain't attaching this to nothn

[@salsabilahawa5021]

I wish I never fell in love

[@selmah1206]

love doesn't cause pain.. loving the wrong person does..

[@channybananny1991]

The way a man looks at a woman with a certain look in his eyes like Leonardo DiCaprio through the fish tank ... That's the most captivating thing I've ever seen a man do twords the woman he loves .... That made my heart sink

[@l.adodg3r70]

He's a great actor cause in reality he hates her guts

[@delilahp9784]

What movie is that?

[@tas7842]

@@delilahp9784 It's Romeo + Juliet the 1996 version :)

[@Ariana_80]

@@l.adodg3r70 really? Jaja

[@isa-leandrahms4156]

the last words "why isn't love enough" and I started crying

[@ViankydooBidoo]

"But when you love someone..you work it out, you dont just throw it away, you have to be careful with it , you might never get it again..." Damn , 100%

[@aimennaz2759]

Movie?

[@miriamhasham6785]

@@aimennaz2759 nocturnal animal.

[@danica5748]

Whoever reading this,you’re beautiful,your worth it,don’t let anyone ruin your day because they ain’t worth it ily🥺💘!

[@shutup1877]

i understand that this meant to be a sweet comment, and i in no way want to bring anyone down, this is just how i feel. It isnt "anyone" ruining my day. It's me.

[@skinni_the_P00hBear]

200 subscribers without no video Thank you 😊☺️❤️

[@nehagautam9448]

Thank you

[@paulocorleon5780]

I am not but thanks

[@12.kharismacitra65]

I think I fall in love with him. And I hate that I love him because I can't even tell him how I feel.

[@HazelGrey.]

kharisma citra why not?

[@taylorhen9856]

just do it, I promise you, you won’t regret it.

[@shineyjoseph4821]

Do it to feel liberated. Not be in confusion of what ifs or why I didn't ,at least you'll get closure.

[@AB-zm5ps]

If you’re lucky enough to have found that special someone you should go ahead and tell them

[@missmaria1956]

Tell him and if he didn't appreciate you fuck him you are beautiful and special you don't deserve a man to make you feel complete you deserve just simply a happy life

[@jaara1705]

I hope I’ll experience this form of love in this lifetime. I hope we’ll all do.

[@doqofwar]

"Why do nice people choose the wrong people to date?" "We accept the love we think we deserve" "Can we make them know they deserve more?" "We can try"

[@anaswarafathima6393]

'Perks of being a wall flower'

[@joanieri8484]

@@anaswarafathima6393 thank you! I was wondering why that sounded so familiar

[@paris8341]

I love these videos. It helps me express the emotions that I don’t understand. Thank you

[@raghadazizi5605]

I'm the 777 like.

[@addisonbonin813]

love doesn’t hurt. someone abandoning you while you obsess over the thought of them, is not love. that is rejection. that is falling for something that was never meant to happen, and never will happen. love will never hurt. love will only make u greater. love can only bring two together.

[@sophiec3592]

Well said

[@jordiruiz3793]

You eventually lose everyone. Either through a falling marriage, the constant corrosion of two personalities evolving, a stranger in a bar saying the right thing at the right time or death, in the best case scenario. Love is a trap, because it shows you what you can never achieve: eternal happiness.

[@ditrinipersian901]

"when you love someone, you work it out, you don't just throw it away, you have to be careful with it, you might not get it again"..... - i felt that....

[@mariumkhan9521]

Just watch Blue Valentine. Shapes up what love is. That film broke me because it showed all my worst fears.

[@maralove3346]

MK Niazi27 is it on netflix

[@bellam6567]

@@maralove3346 Yes!! I know they took it off at one point but I just checked & it's back up now. Definitely recommend it. Worth a watch :)

[@mariumkhan9521]

@@maralove3346 you can search it up, idk for sure

[@jessicah9311]

MK Niazi27 that’s a depressing AF movie

[@mariumkhan9521]

@@jessicah9311 reality is often depressing.

[@santanahibbler]

The movie LOL is so underrated, Its so good

[@ivyjames8121]

Santana Hibbler the real version (French one) is even better

[@Moondustsmellsfunny]

It's one of my favorite movies ever

[@amylorrimer6210]

I watched it when I was around 7 (was probably too young then aha) but it’s stuck with me ever since, I remember it so well and still love it

[@vidpid2113]

True..i love their chemistry and miley is just so amazing

[@madeupname3008]

@@kirarao-poolla8003 it's also called lol

[@isa-it6yo]

who knew four minutes can change a whole perspective. time will tell.

[@pardisarjmandi8889]

I stopped settling for less than I deserve and I’ve been single for a long time. It’s lonely but peaceful

[@natalierose1072]

My biggest fear and I worry my future reality

[@biancavivien3828]

it s better that way

[@7000Leafs.]

Love isn't just enough. Sometimes two people are not right for each other.

[@muzlimmfake7770]

It's just the time which isn't right

[@IMMORTALSYMPHONIES]

Well loving yourself is the first logical step to love others. There is a Rabbi who says correctly that true love is the love of giving and not taking. In the sense, when we love someone we invest a part of ourselves in that person. And since we all love ourselves, we love that person because he/she holds a part of us which we love. Its a shared identity. Maybe that's what sharing the soul really means. The most difficult thing about loving ourselves is that we have evolved. We have evolved into having a self conscious brain which constantly picks out our flaws than our gifts. So self-love can only grow when we are at peace with our shortcomings and believe that we have to do the best with what we have.

[@petrisorbadea4423]

Abraham

[@IMMORTALSYMPHONIES]

@@_haileysmall Why would you love someone unconditionally if it didn't give you emotional satisfaction? You feel good loving other people because you feel happy in their happiness. So deep within it all comes back to us. We are designed to gratify ourselves eventually. As far as hating yourself goes, its pretty easy to succumb to your insecurities than tame them. You hate yourself because maybe you are afraid that your demons will cause you pain once you are happy. Its a defensive tendency to avoid emotional pain. Once you rise above that fear, there's no need of hate anymore.

[@memoonacheema1476]

Reading Your comment made my insecurities go away Thank you ♡

[@IMMORTALSYMPHONIES]

@@memoonacheema1476 Glad I could help. I wish you all the best in dealing with whatever your porblems are. I think our insecurities can remind us that we can always try to be a better version of ourselves, not according to other people but to ourselves and stimulate growth. Don't get rid of them completely but neither should they get the better of you.

[@memoonacheema1476]

@@IMMORTALSYMPHONIES dangggg!😭 ♡♡♡

[@craycray5258]

I think we don't accept the love we think we deserve. we actually give the love we think we deserve

[@natalierose1072]

Yes 100000%

[@Afrin_Ali]

True

[@srilekhaloganathan1035]

Someone said it right finally.

[@mcgil8891]

Wow this is accurate

[@missclotheoverbros]

That’s 💯

[@beatrizpinheiro5064]

love isnt enough. thats the most sad reason to end a relationship

[@deniserunyon4473]

"Why isn't love enough?". Damn, that one came straight for me with a spiked club bro.

[@jennimorales7361]

I love him, he knows I do he keeps feeding me the affection and attention I desire but, doesn't love me. Has feelings for me but not entirely doesn't want to lose me but wants to have his own life. Says he loves but isn't in love with me. I knew from the beginning it wasn't going to be a relationship. But I decided to try to get into this stubborn mans heart. Even when he told me to stop loving him. I stuck around, bc I wanted to prove to him I'm not like the others I'm me.. And all i want is for him to love me back the way I love him..

[@chloeearl5586]

jenni Morales I know exactly how you feel :/

[@iwonapedziwiatr1989]

Me too. But... He will never love me, that's the sad truth. He kept me around until he found someone else. Now he's off enjoying his new relationship and falling in love, while I'm here crushed, not able to pick up the pieces. For once in my life, I thought I could be like everyone else and have that love. But that was foolish. I'm not made to be loved, I need to remember that again.

[@bellab4185]

jenni Morales I felt this. I’m in the exact position you are. It’s hard to let this guy go even tho he is a compelete asshole to me.

[@ZardashtSalih]

This is so sad

[@thehulk687]

Same here I have been loving him since he had a gf rn he is alone still i love him .i am happy that now he atleast pays attention to me maybe he cares but ik he dont love me . I can give him all the time he want but what if he chooses someone over me? What about me? It hurts so much to love someone so much and dont get the same feeling in return but halfway . Idk what to do i feel sad and i feel i will be out alone . Love dosent hurt ik but loving someone who dont love you back like u do hurts and you never know what u deserve :,(

[@lucielafraise6782]

When you truly love someone, you can't unlove them. You just learn to live without them and sometimes it's for the best the breakup, even how bad it could have been.

[@idkwhatimdoinhereshawty]

“because I love you” “then stop loving me” “I CANT!” THAT stung so bad oh my god

[@katerina3902]

“Why isn’t love enough?” ... “why isn’t love enough to keep people together?” I asked my husband. His reply “Because the world can be cruel.”

[@jasminehaule7294]

he doesn't deserve me, I've never dated anyone and he's played so many girls and then I started to fall into his trap but slowly with the support of my friends I'm digging myself out and letting him know that he doesn't deserve me

[@jasminsteiger8176]

Jasmine Haule you can do this just keep going its hard but in the end its worth it ☺️ you‘ll find someone better than him someone you deserve and someone who deserves you💗 just dont give up

[@superflashshazam1896]

Help me out i tried but failed ,all the moment we spend she says she never loves me its was not new for her its breaks my heart i don't know what to do.

[@jasminehaule7294]

superflash Shazam you can't make someone love you, I'm sorry but if she doesn't feel the same about you the way you feel about her then don't spend your time on her and maybe start spending that time on yourself for the better. Then maybe you'll forget her or maybe you'll find someone else

[@superflashshazam1896]

@@jasminehaule7294 i can't love anyone again all i see her face everywhere i go

[@jasminehaule7294]

ItsOver. Actually, he said that I'm the only girl he wants and that he actually cares about, I believe this because he treated me differently than all the other girls but I keep saying no to him because I know I'm too good for him, he's not the type of guy that deserves someone like me because he's hurt too many people

[@bblancacg8616]

The quote is from the movie “the perks of being a wallflower “😍😍

[@aariyahmckinley5635]

I found someone who makes me a better person he doesn’t change me but rather helps me reach my full potential it feels amazing I hope everyone in these comments finds someone who deserves you😌

[@organic_angel]

Awww happy for you ❤️

[@aariyahmckinley5635]

Zombiie Crush thank youu♥️♥️

[@fairysnow8279]

Love is blind Love is deaf Love doesn't have a mind It's crazy Love don't have nothing Yet....*why do we feel it brings us everything ?*

[@xXCrazy1oO]

you tried the bold text at the end 😂 you have to get rid of the space between the question and the question mark

[@bignath1987]

This. This sums up me so much right now. Recently I’ve completely fallen out of love of myself, lost sight of reality and lost enjoyment in most of the things I hold dear. Like life is worthless. All of this self-pity and despair has lead me to become disoriented and lose a great woman in my life, the one who will probably love me more than anyone I’ll ever know. All the joy she used to bring, has been clouded and is now lost, forever, like a ship at sea. If you don’t love yourself, love will find a way to play a cruel game on you and leave like you wish you never knew the joy of love, because the pain of losing it is so vicious. One day I will come out of this darkness and into the light once again, but never forgetting how I let myself tear apart what I held so dearly and brought incredible love to every corner of my heart.

[@annie372]

God i felt this so hard

[@liar8645]

for all of u.. i give u a virtual hug

[@btsomarmy7884]

Love is not enough You need Respect on it You need to be understanding , you need to be flexible with any situation And the important part is To Accept each other with Pros &cons ( No one is Perfect ) *This is LOVE and Love is Not Perfect*

[@theunderdawg.]

This should have at least 1 million views. Seriously.

[@catalinajamett6001]

que pelis son? what movies are?

[@jemimamarcos7247]

It is now

[@RazvanSuioganTiberiu]

To those here saying “you’ll find someone” “you’ll be loved” “if it was meant to be it will be” There’s children who die of cancer, slaughter, diseases etc and those children will never experience any of this “romantic love” that people throw around so carelessly. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself and try giving false hopes. Tell the truth. The truth that it is ok to be alone if there’s no one out there for you. Once you accept that. And you are lucky to live, then life gets so much easier. Beautiful video though ❤️

[@user-ws6ic6lz6h]

I love this. Love doesn't have to come romantically. And it doesn't have to come from people. But I feel there is someone always loving you. It might just be God. 💜

[@LaurianeBL]

There are also people who don't have disease but are impossible to love because not everyone can be loved. It's a harsh truth and once you have accepted that you are ready to live your life and only rely on yourself. Not everyone needs affection either.

[@RazvanSuioganTiberiu]

poupig394 very well said! 👌🏻

[@loveverythingbooks]

The problem is that I don't know how to be alone

[@RazvanSuioganTiberiu]

c de vaan that’s normal trust me! Hard but normal. Focus on people rather than yourself. For me personally knowing that family and friends are healthy and alive and able to share moments with me, my stupid video games and hobbies, those little things keep me contempt. Maybe try focusing on the little things?

[@Lenina_Gbny]

It's not even love we receive when we think we deserve to be lonely, to be sad, to be miserable.

[@ainursofeatalib5781]

I’ve never dated anyone before my whole life and im 18. its not that ive never been in love or no one likes me. im just scared of the idea of falling in love and being committed to someone and ive never met anyone that convinced me to take the risks

[@imperfectmind8846]

Its not weird that you havent dated yet. Most people don't date seriously until they are an adult and are mature enough. Don't be afraid of love though. It's beautiful.

[@ainursofeatalib5781]

@@imperfectmind8846 tbh i also dont think its weird the fact that i havent dated anyone yet, turning 20 this year and still not dating anyone hehe ill be only focusing on my uni studies and mental health at the moment and im fine with it :) also thank you for the advice!

[@divyagoyal4832]

The perks of being a wallflower!! My favourite movie.

[@marmitechickenlegs8331]

Things do get better, I now watch this in nostalgia. I miss how silly I was in love, I don't miss him. I am now in a better place so trust me it gets better.

[@sara.g9455]

adding allan watts to anything makes it a lot better

[@summerville6505]

Your first love is a crazy ride. You fall hard and so unexpectedly. You only really realise how hard you fell in hindsight. Your first love is where you find the worst things about yourself, the deep seeded needs that you have, but its also where you find the best of things of yourself. After it ends for better or for worst, you come out of it a little wiser, now youre ready to love again, and this time youre love will be mature. Hang there, theres always someone for somebody.

[@kaijumecha5766]

Love is not only sad or pain, but also inner peace and joy! We deserve all the love in the world...

[@julespayton1525]

I wasn’t in a good mental headspace when he first admitted his love for me. Despite struggles and certain obstacles, I finally felt okay and trusted another person again. I’ve fallen in love with him and I cannot imagine, cannot fathom being with anyone else. It physically hurts when I imagine a life without him. I feel so stupid for not being everything he deserved when he was completely in love with me. I was scared and sick and foolish. Now look, I’m in love and all I can do is hope that he loves me as much as he claims to.

[@connorbeaudet4013]

Are you guys still together?

[@baylee8659]

Found this on Valentine's Day and now I'm crying

[@viet7612]

Here for youu 🖤

[@baylee8659]

@@viet7612 Thank you ❤️

[@s0n0fw0lf_9]

She was... something else. You hear that a lot, you hear people say "Well they were different." But the way she made me feel, while we both still loved each other, was nothing short of magical. There are so many things I miss. Still having feelings for her after all this pain and heartbreak just makes me hate myself more. Why do I still care?! How delusional am I? Always making up some excuse for her actions, or blaming myself. I don't know if I deserve better, but I want to be better. I promise, I'm trying. But I still miss falling asleep by her side, holding her, doing the most mundane things with her 😔

[@maxinesellars6553]

Friends, The Notebook & audio from The Holiday...no more words needed! 👌🏻👏🏻❤️

[@3catt77]

I cried throughout the entire video. I love this person so much. And I can’t do anything about it. I can’t fight it anymore.

[@becho6871]

To the person who read this, It’s been hard for you, I know, and it makes me sad that you don’t see yourself in the way I see you. Sometimes they are things in life that cause us to loose ourselves, and the way you have is so unimaginable painful. I miss your smile, the way your eyes light up the whole room just by the sound of your laughter. I miss the way you accepted the way you look in the mirror without cursing yourself out about how ugly you look. I miss the way you didn’t think of yourself as a failure because everyone makes mistakes, we all have flaws and we all aren’t perfect. It’s painful to see that no one around you seems to see the pain trough your eyes, but, stranger, I do, I see how heavy your heart is and how comforting the sadness for you might be, how afraid your heart is of happiness because it disappears in the end, right? You don’t know how much impact you have in this world and it’s sad to see that your demons fight against you and want to take over you. Because you do make change, it’s something so simple and little that brightens up someone’s whole world, it can be a small smile from your lips, the way you look at things you’re passionate about, the way you make yourself eat even though it’s been hard for you lately, the way you zoom out and go in your own world, you brighten up my world by reading this, it means a lot to me that you’re here, existing, but I don’t want you to just exist, you deserve to feel alive. You deserve to get up in the morning and feel good about yourself. You deserve to feel something- to feel every damn second alive in this lifetime. It’s heartbreaking that you think you’re not capable of being loved, because you are, I love you trough all my words and I hope you let it happen in your heart. Love is scary, I know, maybe you heart had been broken once and since then you wanted to be rather numb than feel ever again, it hurts me how you punish yourself, does it not deserve love? Because YOU DO deserve love, please forgive yourself, it’s not your fault that the demons want to take over your beautiful heart. You’re not a bad person for distancing yourself from others, but you deserve someone to talk to, you deserve someone to listen. I am listening, you can tell me what’s wrong. It’s everything, isn’t it? There’s something pulling your heartstrings on the ground and no one seems to understand how misunderstood you feel, it’s heartbreaking to know that I am behind the screen and can’t give you a hug, that’s why I will give you a big warm virtual hug and send you lots of love :). You matter. You are worthy. You are loved. You deserve good things. You deserve someone to listen. You deserve to eat and drink. You deserve to feel good and alive. You deserve to smile. You deserve a hug. You deserve to be all the things you want to be, because you deserve to have and feel good things happening to you and have a fulfilled life. I know I might not know you personally but I care about you so much, I write this because I want you to stay here with me, I want you to hold on a little longer because you matter so much to me, because I will not let you give up on yourself. I want you to see that you should not give up on yourself because you DESERVE GOOD THINGS. I want you to look back on the time when you were a kid, you didn’t give up when you tried to swim for the first time, you didn’t give up when you tired to walk for the first time and fell, you never gave up on yourself, you always kept on pushing forwards, so why can’t you now? I know it’s tiring, your mentally tired, but dont your younger self deserve good things? look back at your eyes that used to be full of hope, look back on those dreams. Don’t let yourself fall, you deserve better. We will both fight, I will fight for you. I won’t let those demons get to you. You can hold on to me, I won’t let you down :). Whenever you feel lonely, then look at the sky, I always look at it and think about you. Yes, you, because it makes me happy that there’s someone looking right back, maybe we can’t see each other but I can feel your presence here with me and that’s enough for me, because I am glad your heart is beating and you’re still fighting. You’re so much stronger thank you think, you didn’t leave your spot on this earth even if you wanted to, you belong here, even though it doesn’t feel like it, when you don’t feel like belonging than build your own home here, put all your love in it and dreams. Think of you as a star when you feel alone, you shine because your heart is good, no matter what mistake you made, no matter about the past you had, you’re one of the stars that shine bright in the universe because you’re heart is beautiful, that’s why the demons in your mind wants to have it. As one of the stars you see others stars, maybe they have felt the same way as you do at some point in there life, but they lighten up the universe with each other’s presence. You’re a star for me, maybe you don’t see it yourself but I can see it, you’re beautiful from inside and out, your body is beautiful the way it is. You make me happy by reading this, you make me feel something by your presence and when you can make me feel that way than you also make other people feel that way about you too. I hope you stay for yourself and don’t let your story get written by others but by yourself, it’s your story not theirs. As you can see, I say a lot of “I hope” because I have hope for you even if you don’t have it for yourself, I see hope in you even though you might want to give up. That’s why I hope you won’t see the world in darkness and will see it colorful again, I hope I will give you a glimpse of hope and make the world you see a bit colorful for today. My favorite color is yellow, and I hope the next time you see the color yellow you will think about my words. If someone left you than don’t blame yourself, don’t think you weren’t enough, don’t lower yourself for someone who couldn’t see the awesomeness in you. If you lost someone I am so sorry for your loss, they want you happy, I hope you don’t feel guilty or regret because you were there, you spend enough time with them, they want you to be happy. They are in a good and safe place now. If someone broke your heart than I am so sorry that they couldn’t see the way you look so beautiful because of the heart you have. Anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). If you aren’t accepted at home or in general than I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone/ something you shouldn’t be ashamed of, I accept you and support you, I accept you as a human being no matter what race, religion, nationality, skin color, or sexuality you have. You’re safe here with me :). You’re not useless, you’re not a burden to anyone. You’re not a problem, you’re human and your feelings are valid. You’re not being dramatic. Please don’t starve yourself, you deserve food and to drink, I know it’s hard. It hurts to see that you’re in so much pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I am sorry no one is noticing, I wish /hope I could take your pain away for today or even for a moment while you’re reading this. If no one told you, I am so proud of you, you’re reading this and it’s enough for me to be proud of you because you’re here and that’s all that matters to me. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water everyday in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re so strong for breathing despite the pain, I know you will make it :) I believe in you. All I want for you is to stay here, I really mean all my words, even if there is a lot of unsaid things I want to tell u and my text is getting longer and longer,I want you here. I hope one day your smile will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. You can let go for today, I got you, you can cry your heart out as much as you want, but don’t let it tear you down and let your emotions control you by giving up. Crying is not weakness. If you still feel alone I dedicate you a song as your friend. “Dusk till Dawn- Zayn feat. Sia (I prefer the slow version)” I hope you can think of me and will remind yourself of my words, I will for sure think of you. In case no one told you and you’re unsure yourself, you’re a good person and I am so happy you’re here. I hope this is enough to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. Enough with beating yourself up for today, okay? Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one. If you read all of it, until tomorrow my friend :) have a good day and great years. I love you so much and am so proud of you, I hope you will remember my words- becho, the stranger that cares more about you than anything :)

[@paulkane5254]

I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

[@paulkane5254]

He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

[@paulkane5254]

Whtsaap him**

[@paulkane5254]

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[@luminkan8922]

Thanks for this message it helped me today .

[@silverrose9172]

Love , where is it ? Where is this love ? I can't feel it , i can't touch it ....

[@pragyayadav2408]

Which movie is that?

[@silverrose9172]

pragya yadav movie : Closer

[@jellybeanie9190]

I can relate to that? Didn’t get a crush on anyone or love anyone for so many years. I'm tired of waiting :')

[@silverrose9172]

@@jellybeanie9190 it's hard to give something you've never got, as it is hard to feel something u don't know, i still don't know what love is.

[@jellybeanie9190]

@@silverrose9172 shit that hurt 😭

[@singedunicorn]

This video speaks to me on so many levels, you really know how to visualise what goes on in my head, love you girl ❤❤

[@eviemaysellars]

thank you angel

[@hamishkay3010]

This is an important video for me to come back to as I am getting into a relationship, I need to know this. Thank you Evie you're one of the best people on KZbin. You're videos bring reason to the table and I'm truly appreciative by that

[@eviemaysellars]

awh thank u so much!

[@shilpaa3983]

I truely loved people and in return i got pain and their mean and selfish behaviour. Thats the biggest lesson of my life. Now i want to love myself and be a better version of myself and enjoy my own existence. I am ready to give my love to people bz i am a human but this time i am not going to lose my self respect.

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

It's better to be single than with someone who thinks you're hard to love.

[@annie372]

You are amazing, thank you for making this. This portrays all the pain and all the emotions and all the love I’ve felt. This is an exact visual of what i can’t put into words, what i wish i could tell my ex. What i wish he knew. What i wish i knew before. I love this so much.

[@lachimolala7976]

I feell like im a weirdo because i never have felt true love. I never had crush. I have a felling that nobody wants to fell in love with me. Let's be miserable together

[@laylaamuhammad598]

You will feel it one day and it'll be amazing

[@Flix.9097]

My fiancé used to say the same thing

[@dzina9740]

Omg same

[@nightshadeblood3184]

Your not the only one, we are part of the forgotten ones, that's what we should call ourselves...:)

[@lachimolala7976]

@@nightshadeblood3184 sooo true

[@abbyb7445]

I clicked on this video because I saw it on my recommend and thought it was gonna be awesome but it’s more than that it’s a masterpiece. You just earned yourself a new subscriber.

[@azninjasani8639]

I really needed this. Thank you.

[@juliafunke2827]

this is my favourite edit, it's the most beautiful thing

[@nimbuscloud380]

I've never been in love. I don't know what true love is. I'm afraid of a falling in love and I'm afraid of falling out of love. I've never even been in a relationship and I think it's fine to be alone to just work on myself and my goals, but at the same time I'm lonely and I long for someone. Damn emotions.

[@IMMORTALSYMPHONIES]

I just love the power of discourse within this video. Its an immense food for thought. One could potentially have a conversation for hours without getting bored. Unfortunately, in times of small talk, such company is hard to come by.

[@kaanchi1452]

I felt it so deeply that i don't know what i am feeling ritenow, on every dialogue i was feeling something terrible.. it beautiful and painful at the same time. Thank you for making this ♥️

[@anonymouslee4470]

Isn’t LOVE real when it’s only a memory of what was? I remember when I used to say love was a choice to continue to give love regardless of what is returned! It may hurt when not reciprocated, however I now believe it is still real. Our best attempts to show someone our heart must be real. If I can hang onto the honest intentions to demonstrate love regardless of the outcome I may find a return for the investment one day. If I don’t find the love that leads to a soulmate maybe I can say nice guys might finish last, butt this one did finish the race!!

[@faheemaraheman7288]

A guy who loves u and wants the best for u , will always think u deserve better than him

[@ggadams3452]

this is so beautifully done. honestly one of the best edits i have seen

[@Dr.Jekyll_]

I needed this today. Thank you for making this. ❤️

[@thegammeryoutube9828]

Love your videos made my day 1000000000000000000 times better thank you keep doing what you do

[@freetobe1001]

This is gorgeous! Loved seeing some Effy and Freddie love in there! They're so undervidded these days! This video is magic!

[@emiliem-r2940]

this was incredible. so moving. please keep making more. wow i needed this more than i thought

[@esmeraldapaniagua9861]

Thank you so much for this, this makes me cry, but i trully needed this

[@hotarushulamite6461]

She loved him but she thought... She didn't deserve the pain she got when he didn't feel the same way, when her love and effort was wasted, when she fell for him.. When he smiled at her, which she thought it had meaning on it. When she thought she was something special to him. When she thought it could be maybe something more. She deserved more than just a silent answer. An ignore. A smile. A rejection. She deserve more than one-sided feelings.

[@milo_thatch_incarnate]

Honestly, this made me rethink how I was defining falling in love. I've always thought I never have. There was this one man... we had this crazy chemical connection, like you see in the movies. That was real for me. We were instantly mentally in-sync, and came to love each other as individuals *so much...* but we could never happen, because he was already married. Married way too young, and to someone who didn't really love him (which he didn't realize till later) -- but married all the same. We ended our friendship simply because our connection was too strong to remain just friends. But I never thought it was *falling in love,* because that's an irrational crush, it's butterflies and being blind to the person's flaws (which is what usually leads to divorce/breakups later); something I had not experienced, nor did I want to. I always want clear sight and a clear mind. But if falling in love is simply losing control of your heart just by being around the person... if falling in love is simply "surrendering yourself, completely, to another person"... then I DID, fall in love with him. Woah. I didn't fall in love with butterflies and rose-colored glasses and heated passion. I simply met a mind and a soul so like mine, that I *could not have done anything else* but surrender to the instant chemical connection. Like I said, we recognized that, and did the right thing, and stopped seeing each other ever, because it was wrong... but it's still a revelation to me to realize that, in my own way, I have truly fallen in love. I just hope I can find it again, and that that wasn't my only shot... because it would be unbearable to have met and lost my one Great Love, my one Twin Flame... because he was married to the wrong person. I can't believe that. I just pray that I can fall in love like that again.

[@tamarintxis]

This video is absolutely beautiful 💛 good job!

[@redeyepete8818]

i really need this today thank you

[@c_rsedx]

it's so rare to see Skins in these types of videos, I love Effs and Freds so much. 😭🖤

[@hardcorepapaspeirs8494]

i fell in love with this boy... he's so smart, he's good at everything, he dances like an angel, and i love his voice, and his eyes, and the way he says my name... i met him in may, he took my hand and invited me to dance with him. it was so much fun. then i saw him again in the end of june in a fest. it was just the two of us. we sat on the beach from 9am to 11am, and we talked so much! oh my god, i never ever felt such a connection before with anybody else. we could talk about everything, and... and he told be all about his poems and he read my stories and it was so amazing, i never felt like that before. but i felt bad. i felt so bad because i knew that he had a girlfriend. we went back to our tents to put on some warmer clothes becauee it started to get colder. we shared a lots of hugs, he was so soft like a cloud or a big bear (god i'm so pathetic). he said he would like to write about me, and well, i wanted to write about him too... we agreed that we should be platonic lovers, and muses for one another. we went to a concert after that, and talked a lot again. i wasn't in love at that time, i think, it was our first longer meeting, so i don't think it was possible to love him so early... well, maybe. because as the days went by, i straight up fell in love. one day there was a big storm, and all my warm clothes got wet, it was horrible, i was so cold, and i shamelessly asked for his dry hoodie. he gave it to me without a word, and i didn't want it to be romantic because i knew he had a girlfriend and there were no romantic intentions from him, but... it was such a good feeling, wearing his hoodie, sleeping in his hoodie. we went to a concert again and i watched him dance. it was mesmerizing. he wanted me to go and dance with him but i refused... the day after that he needed to go home, because he was there with his friends and his friends decided to go home early. i gave his hoodie back, and i almost cried when he hugged goodbye me and kissed me on the cheek. i knew i was pathetic, but i couldn't deny my feelings. i wanted to stop them, really! i felt so bad about the whole thing. but about half an hour later, he came back. i was in my tent and i actually cried a little because of him, and he just called me by my nickname and asked if i would like to go to the current concert with him? of course i said yes. i watched him dance again and he was so beautiful. the way he moved, he gave all of him to the music, his eyes were closed... i felt like i could watch him forever. but sadly, he only had half an hour before he needed to go home again (he and his friends just come back for a little while). but he wanted to spend that little time with me... we went for a walk, cause i asked him about one of his poems that he didn't read for me. i couldn't even looked at him. i felt so bad, like a sinner because i loved him, knowing he had a girlfriend. he told me that he knows i want to tell something to him. i said it would destroy everything... but he was like, it's a stupid thing to say, you can't destroy anything cause nothing is perfect. i still refused to tell him. he read his poem for me. it was fantastic but i didn't say anything (i feel so bad about this, too). then he got a call that he needs to go. he gave me lots of hugs and he still asked me to tell him what i wanted to. and i told him. i told him that i'm pathetic, cause i know he has a girlfriend but i still love him. he was okay with it. he hugged me, told me that if i think it's a sin it's really just not a sin at all, and he asked me not to deny my feelings and just enjoy the feeling, enjoy being love. he was so nice with me i couldn't believe. i told him that it's okay if he don't want to see me ever again, and said i'm sorry. he was shocked, and said that he never wanted me to feel sorry about my feelings and he's the one who needs to apologize. and that he wants to hang out with me sometime, but only if i feel okay with it. i told him that i'm going to write about my own feelings, for the first time in my life. he was so happy for me. we hugged eachother goodbye, and after that i went to the bathroom and cried like a baby. i was literally in pain because of it. i didn't talk with him for a week and a half, but then one day i was so happy and was like why not, and send him a message. i regretted it hours later but i couldn't do it back. we talked a bit and it was a little odd, it was so much easier in real life. i felt so much regret after every message i sent... i felt so pathetic again, cringey even. he was all nice though. i sent him an apologizing message because i didn't say anything after he read his poet for me on the last day we met. it was the day before yesterday, and he don't even see it... i'm so mad at myself. why can't i just... wait for him to message me first, if he ever wanted to talk to me again. i fucked up everything. i never wanted to dissapear from other peoples' this much. to dissapear from his life. from my own life. maybe he's my soulmate who wasn't meant to be? (edit: sorry for my bad english, i'm not a native speaker, i'm still learning)

[@lomiquela7387]

hardcore papa speirs any updates? :(

[@hardcorepapaspeirs8494]

@@lomiquela7387 nothing... :( i feel so miserable.

[@Crystalbomb321]

That sounds like infatuation since you hardly know him and just met him. Also he has a gf. Don't go there.

[@hardcorepapaspeirs8494]

@@Crystalbomb321 i know, it's stupid, i'm so stupid...

[@emygillet1456]

hardcore papa speirs no you are not stupid ! You are perfect just the way you are . You love him and there is nothing you can do about it and that’s ok to have feelings even if he has a gf it doesn’t mean you can’t love that person you just can’t be with him

[@nobody-eu5kw]

I will always, honestly, truly, completely love you. *that* *line* *spoke* *to* *me*

[@i.8803]

I’ve been crying for the past 10 min thank you very much

[@ravishworld2671]

This is why I detach myself from my feelings. I don’t like dealing with the withdrawal of being use to someone that’s now gone... Love hurts, no matter how you want to look at it. Love hurts.

[@ariasanti]

the best love i ever received.... love myself

[@peachykeen_paige]

I just watched this like 10x, you did an amazing job on this video. It really pulls on your heart strings 💔

[@OA2605]

when I read the comments now, I see I was once like this. Afraid of never falling in love, never be loved....it took me so much time, loneliness, sadness, and what not, to appreciate truly what I got now: love. I have found love of my life. With her I feel complete. And you, dear stranger, you will also find that someone soon. I promise.

[@paulkane5254]

I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️

[@paulkane5254]

He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

[@paulkane5254]

Whtsaap him**

[@paulkane5254]

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[@natalie8347]

shit, why do your videos always make me cry?

[@avaliu5917]

When you say you deserve more than this, it means I don’t love you enough.

[@lilem2200]

this is truly beautiful.

[@oo0sofia0oo]

I once loved someone so much to say the least, Unrequited love. He knew about my feelings. But it didnt make him feel less alone nor did it make him feel loved nor appreciated. It hurt me so much depsite doing my best to give the most noble unconditional form of love wanting nothing in return just for him to be happy ... he still was uncapable of receiving anything i gived. Love is fiction , he often said And it hurt me to hear that. To feel this little that nothing of what i did mattered anyways. From this I learned two lessions: 1) Unrquited love is like spilling all the water you need for survival into the ocean. Giving love 'you need most- to someone who won't even feel it. Its like your most valuable posession is traded with nothing. It doesnt make the world a better place. It just makes you miserable. Love should forever and always be reciprocated for it to make the world a better place to live in. Don't spill out your emotions and love . Save them for someone who needs them and wants them. 2) Love is always present , we are just not naturally responsive to it. We are only responsive to the people we "see" . And that's the sadest part about human nature. We are designed to feel more alone than we actually are. We can look for more love . Great romantic love . Or we can choose to see the love we have that we are conditionned to not appreciate.

[@torimahabal]

That quote is from the movie/book “the Perks Of Being a Wallflower”

[@glassfireactual9207]

Yeah. Got dumped by it lol.

[@alondras.5948]

Heh... I only cried because I want to a date a girl that my mom won't approve off... She won't approve of any girl because I am a girl. She believes girls and girls can't be together same with boys and boys. That they are not capable of loving like straight couples can and it makes me cry because I can't be with her the way I want to I can't hold her in public, I can't kiss her without feeling guilt and anxiety, I can't proudly talk about her to my family because my future will become darker. Heh... They think they know what is good for me but in all honesty is just hurting me in a way that I will need a therapist maybe not a psychiatrist. If there is anyone going through a similar experience I hope things get better and don't stop yourself from loving, especially yourself. You are worth so much don't decrease your value. Do not let others limit you, be you. I don't care if you identify yourself in the LGBTQ+, just be you. I don't care if you are agender, asexual, masculine, feminine ( effeminate boys, masculine girls), straight, aromantic, demisexual, intersex, or just queer you are you. Be the best you

[@jaydenhigh]

Stay strong, love is love, keep your positive mindset and you can do anything, including love who you choose to love

[@yahanijayasinghe9694]

You deserve to love who you want just as much as everyone else. I hope that one day you will be able to hold the hand of the girl you love in front of other people without ever having to feel guilty.

[@priciancenkomazana6377]

Aza Ellie Quiñero l feel for you l hope you find love

[@alondras.5948]

@EMPEROR ITYOPP’IS Ž £THIOPIA I doubt it, she has a lot of prejudice she isn't really open minded.

[@alondras.5948]

@@priciancenkomazana6377 thank you

[@sparrowhawk5673]

Reality is that love is not enough for a happily ever after in relationships ...sadly some people learn this lesson the hard way. *Powerful Video! Good Job*

[@NehaPhookan1]

I love this so much. It just made my morning.

[@peacefulleagle]

we accept the love we think we deserve those are unsconcious believes attachtment and co dependecy. Love is somethinge else. To love one self we need to thrive to become the best possible self

[@lav7728]

i feel like i just watched the most beautiful movie ever

[@blueberries4771]

Yesss

[@teresafortuno1291]

thank you because this video is absolutely amazing

[@bryanna3246]

Understand when it’s toxic and when you need to let go even if you both claim love for each other understand when it’s time to leave and move on no matter how much it hurts