Ex Wife Served Divorce Papers After Cheating

Today's story is about OP discovering his wife cheating so he divorced her. Take a listen to his journey.

[@makifaale8325]

She only told him, cause she knew somebody else was.

[@wilcee238]

FACTS

[@marcus6775]

This wasn't the first time she slept with this guy she got caught by one of her friends who hates cheaters, who gave her a ultimatum either you tell your husband or i will, and then she came out with the trickle truth.

[@MacBailey]

So many of these stories, everything is going great and then the cheater just nukes their life and relationships for a thrill bang. Damn.

[@TheForkOnTheLeftist]

"everything is going great" = some loser not knowing his chick is easy

[@donsmith9194]

It seems to be in the woman’s handbook, if things are going well bring in chaos.

[@Hey_OverHere]

@@TheForkOnTheLeftist- “… not your gu.rl, just your turn…”. His turn was over.

[@geoffn54]

You can never trust your woman 100% fella's. She could go out bearing some small grudge - like this wife - or bump into a co-worker, or want to know if she's 'still got it', or see a stranger who reminds her of her college sweetheart, and for some unfathomable reason she'll step over the line. She probably won't even know herself why she does it... but it's not a mistake. There'll be at least 10 moments she could have avoided what she decides to do.

[@danielduran201]

Your right. You don't just have a couple of drinks and suddenly decide to jump in bed with someone. Cheating is a lot of smaller moves. And each one sets off alarms and whistles.

[@Hey_OverHere]

But wait… Isn’t that “controlling”?

[@johnkarlik8290]

Honorable respectable women don't go to bars without their spouse. On town bicycles go out without their spouse.

[@bennyfugazzi1054]

She planned that shit

[@Hey_OverHere]

Exactly. 100%. And it wasn’t their first time together.

[@Hey_OverHere]

She had intent to sleep with this guy and set up the circumstances so she could make it happen. She had also slept with him many times before. This was no one time incident.

[@danielduran201]

You're right about her asking to talk with you, you should have said NO! You guys out there, stop being so manipulative. She did what she did. She knew what she was going to do. It's ruined. Send her to Max. This "girl's night out" s__t is BS. Married women have not business in Clubs, not even as a designated driver.

[@SCOTT77100]

Women and alcohol, going to clubs, bars, parties etc.....bad news all the time in these stories. Better to stay home, ( if you drink) and drink with your partner. Can't make this up, story after story. Time to move on and don't look back.

[@boogitybear2283]

I don’t drink alcohol and if she drink alcohol, no thanks. I don’t tolerate the stuff anymore.

[@El_Fonzo]

Don't blame alcohol for the choices and decisions adults make. That's what they do.

[@kellygreenii]

They are finding what they are seeking. They are going to these places in search of the thrill they get from male attention. The rest is reputation management.

[@SCOTT77100]

@@kellygreenii They seek and find and they watch their whole world fall apart and crumble only to be devastated and ruined to have to start all over again. No one's attention is worth losing everything you have that's already in place and established. Not good decision making. I personally tend to blame guys more for this mess, in some of these stories, it's mind boggling how easy women get deceived/tricked. There is something mentally wrong with those who will risk losing their marriage, relationship, family, kids hating them, their careers/jobs, possibly ending up homeless for a nonsensical thrill as happens in a lot of these stories. Play destructive games, win destructive prizes and watch their world fall apart and crumble.

[@SCOTT77100]

@@El_Fonzo I've read from women that they say even being tipsy/drunk they know what they're doing, it just makes them feel more comfortable. Yes alcohol is no excuse.

[@m0korvac]

Good for Dude, it was tough, but he was smart enough not to take that cheater back

[@salvadorgalaviz9755]

too bad move on. if it happened once it will happen again. whats the next reason?

[@alihaydaryalnz6118]

OP claims that the marriage was perfect before. You need to ask OP, "Your marriage was perfect, so why did your wife cheat on you?" No marriage is ever perfect. By the way, if you trust someone 100%, you know what kind of gift you'll ultimately receive.

[@tkcdac]

Glad to see that you are at least adding human voice in the end. Was worried it would all be AI.

[@kountzanthony7021]

None of these cheaters think about the consequences of their actions only thing they do is living in the moment getting a little jollies. When the ACT is over then life hits them in the ass. There's no going back to the way life used to be that marriage is over their life have changed drastically from that day forward.

[@Chris-xc4rv]

Nah, she thought that out. She assumed he'd just accept it.

[@kountzanthony7021]

@@Chris-xc4rv that's probably true because cheater thinks on three lines. One that they would get away with it. Two they would not get caught. 3 because they believe that they partner will forgive them.

[@robertjohnson6601]

His wife compared to others was rather decent. I am not excusing her behavior but she didn't try to destroy him for divorcing her. I hope he successfully rebuilds his life.

[@mgtow-balance3409]

lol she met up with him one YEAR before she actually had sex with him? c'mon now

[@Hey_OverHere]

Yup. I’m sure there were many times before that and many times after that. One of the gf’s gave her an ultimatum and she had to come clean.

[@xavier32421]

The woman playbook being exposed ,and no longer effective

[@associatealpha1166]

Did the argument on purpose- premeditated most dudes refuse to see things as they really are

[@JohnHoffman-t4v]

Alcohol opens the legs.

[@phillipsinclaire]

No point in hating cheaters here! All these stories reveal the same bottom line! Men! Do not get married! Do not ever trust any partner blindly! Always keep parts of your assets in a separate banking and chequing account! If you are confused get professional help! Because you might be sexually compatabile does not mean you are in love! Do not live with any partner unitl you really know them. And in the end you put out what you receive in a relationship! Nothing wrong with causal relationships or Friday or Saturday Night one night stands! Many women are doing it today, and it appears that is the new norm now! Remember there are no unicorns out there! If you want more than one night stands you have to realize you will probably never truly find that special someone!

[@Hey_OverHere]

Overseas bro. Get a passport. I got mine and was blown away by the difference. The only reason women put up with this is because they don’t know that they have a choice.

[@chandanborah5318]

She planned that story 🙏

[@ronhall5395]

I think she had been fantasizing about Max for years. When a chance came she was excited to do it. Not thinking she was going to ruin her marriage until the next morning. Only then did she remember she was married and he fling with Max was nothing special. The rest was all damage control. She was not drunk, she was just a bit lubricated. She had two glasses of wine, a cocktail then whatever it was Max stuffed her with. I doubt any glasses were even taken out. She eventually admitted I was consensual and she went to his apartment knowing it would happen. I guess she figured she was too hot to divorce? Without trust there is no marriage. I feel bad for him. Her? Not so much. She could have insisted on being dropped off first. Having ng boundaries means never putting yourself into a position of temptation. She failed.

[@davidedbrooke9324]

I wonder if she then dated the max guy.

[@turtletouche]

GOOD VIDEO

[@raypendergrass694]

Divorce!

[@mr.crippy3749]

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[@douglasbaty3097]

Oct2024: Wife is exceptionally eager and cooperative about sex. She just hops into position and presents herself! Wow. That is unheard of. As well as having sex daily! Outside of a honeymoon I have never heard of such stuff. She is open and uninhibited. Husband will never find another like her. It might be worth it to put up with occasional sexual "slips", assuming your ego can tolerate that. This gal is god's gift to man. Lucky you. Retired in Sacto.