Exercise Is My Passion | Jarvis Reacts to The Button (Cut)

[@_leaf-3525]

I love how Bonco's entire personailty is just working out. literally straight out of a cartoon.

[@aldranzam3456]

Johnny Bravo with less charm (but tbh I'd do him)

[@yeemawheaver1387]

@@aldranzam3456 u don't work out enough

[@JupiHornet1]

@@aldranzam3456 Before you can do Banko you have to do 50 crunches

[@tildey6661]

So many people clowning him (mostly on other channels bc Jarvis audience are >>>), but tbh he just reads as someone who’s nervous and doesn’t know what to talk about, and has a very strong interest. Naturally that’s what he’s going to default to. Especially when it is something that can easily effect a romantic partner. Also, if he was acting in a more stereotypically autistic manner, I bet most of y’all would shut up about it

[@_leaf-3525]

@@tildey6661 I've got nothing wrong with just picking a topic you're interested in to chat about especially when you're nervous, but he also seems to reject pretty much anyone who isn't as obsessed with being fit as he is, which is almost nobody.

[@Reaganmayhaps]

I liked John a lot. He was clearly very sweet, just a little anxious which is 100% understandable. I'm glad Jarvis called out chat for judging him immediately, as someone who is neurodivergant it was pretty clear John probably isn't neurotypical, it was sad seeing chat get super aggressive about him not acting "normal"

[@nicki___]

FR!! Even from outside the perspective of being ND, he could've just been really anxious?? I breathe exactly like that when im expected to talk to new people for long periods of time. Plus, not much he can do abt his physical appearance so it was kinda rude of chat to say he has 'bad vibes' when he hadn't done anything

[@duckscitomaster1308]

same i immediately got autism vibes

[@shiannafoxx]

What made me mad was that as soon as Jarvis said he liked John chat immediately flipped and was sad he got buzzed out and only one person called chat out on their fake pity bullshit.

[@kathaai]

THIS!! as someone with autism I felt like he Def sounded like how my fellow autistics speak / neurodivergent people speak

[@MissMoontree]

Well, he might be neurotypical. I know plenty of people that would be nervous and be similar in that situation. He seems really cool.

[@froggy5748]

Yeah I don’t quite understand what else they expected him to compliment her on. They’re barely finished shaking hands when he gets told to compliment her lol

[@froggy5748]

Also saying that music like MCR is “old” is hilarious to me because I know people that are in middle school (my sibling’s friends lmao) who like MCR. My friends (almost in college) also love MCR. It’s not like bands like that are for old people, saying she looks like she’d like that music doesn’t mean he’s calling her old lol

[@rebeccameyer6612]

Yeah, it's much more a comment on style then on age

[@SieMiezekatze]

It was like an style thing not at age thing, they both seem of similar age

[@SomeBoyHere]

@@froggy5748 ikr i love MCR and I'm young

[@princessofhell4639]

@@froggy5748 me and my friends all love MCR and we are like 17/18 and my little sister is 12 and she and some of her friends like them too and have for a few years

[@JupiHornet1]

As a neurodivergent dude that's sometimes very paranoid about coming off as creepy, the chat's reaction to John was kind of upsetting tbh. Reminded me a lot of the Couch Guy situation that happened a while back

[@emmettvictor]

As an afab autistic, it’s so wild to me how allistics (non-autistics) have such a hard time distinguishing between creepy and autistic socialization. As someone that’s white and masks well(ish) I really feel for my autistic (esp BIPOC) kin who automatically get read as creepy when they’ve done nothing wrong

[@tofuwiener]

yeah it was disappointing to read :/ glad jarvis told everyone to chill

[@stephanieg7229]

Yeah I wish Jarvis had edited that part out. I hope he doesn’t watch this video. I watched this like 2 hours ago and it’s still upsetting me

[@HobieInTheBox]

@@emmettvictor there was a study done on this. Autistic people naturally give off uncanny valley vibes, there's not much you can do about it sadly

[@emmettvictor]

@@HobieInTheBox I think I’m familiar with the study you’re referencing, and totally think the findings are accurate. It’s just hard for me to conceptualize bc to me, an autistic, there’s such an obvious difference between creepy incel vibes and awkward “weird” autistic vibes

[@nocturalTragedy]

Surface level compliments are fine imo so long as its something someone chose about themselves.. i just thought it was nice that he picked her hair, glasses and clothing to compliment rather than something to do with her face or body like a lot of people tend to do (which can end up being insulting)

[@nanoglitch6693]

He failed to mention and compliment whichever of the sponsor product she chose though!

[@rhinoinahat]

wasnt much else to compliment tbh

[@scrappydudes1783]

she was probably worried that he didnt find her physically attractive. i feel like the compliments he chose would be fine for an average sized/skinny person because they dont have to worry about someone not being attracted to them just for their weight. but for a plus sized person, such as myself, it feels more like he was avoiding complimenting her on her physical appearance because he doesnt find her physically attractive. plus sized people always have to worry about what people think of their weight when theyre dating so its very important to know upfront that they do find you attractive, and it just didnt seem like he did. i get how complimenting something out of their control can feel kind of objectifying, but imo for a lot of plus sized people they need that kind of reassurance that they do find them attractive.

[@allisonb8912]

@@scrappydudes1783 As a plus-sized person, I would have been super uncomfy if he complimented my body or anything like that. Not everyone wants to be complimented on that, so it's definitely safer to say things like hair and clothes, in general, regardless of someone's size.

[@tildey6661]

@@scrappydudes1783 soo you can’t compliment someone’s body/face, because it’s objectifying. But you also can’t NOT comment on their appearance because they’ll assume you think they’re ugly. I don’t quite see how that’s the fault of the person giving the compliment? I mean you’re allowed to feel like that of course, but I don’t think you can blame other people for that. It’s a completely impossible thing to manoeuvre around for the person giving the compliment, unless you’ve somehow already had this discussion.

[@Orange-tf3bf]

John buffering after he promised to say something interesting was so relatable 😭

[@lolalane69420]

As an ND person im really glad jarvis told chat to chill on John because he definitely seemed like he was ND and I don't love casual ableism lol

[@kotacaelum9428]

it is honestly disheartening seeing chat immediately react that way to a ND person. it’s these things that make me feel like i’ll never be perceived as a normal person🤷‍♂️

[@lolalane69420]

@@kotacaelum9428 exactly. i understand that people are still learning but this kinda hit me where it hurt

[@kathaai]

@@kotacaelum9428 this...

[@metallboy25]

​​@@kotacaelum9428They key to acting more natural is learning not to give a fk about what people think. The more you stress about other peoples opinions the more nervous and weird you will come off.

[@MirandaGood]

when bonko first hit the button, i immediately just thought "you just got bonked by bonko" and i think we should make that a thing for future episodes

[@joearnold6881]

Bonko doesn’t bonk anyone unless they work out

[@MirandaGood]

@@joearnold6881 factual

[@cozycasasmr4510]

I laughed so hard at this I almost threw up

[@MirandaGood]

@@cozycasasmr4510 i'm glad to make you laugh and also luckily not throw up😂🫶🏼

[@KayDazzle90]

Jarvis is so sweet "Lets leave John alone". What a guy ☺

[@TheOffensiveSenses]

1:27 the physical appearance complements were valid since they hadn’t had a chance to talk, *and* he complemented things that she chose: her hair style/colour, her glasses, and her overall fashion. So that’s a complement on her taste and personality.

[@adrianpink8144]

John appreciation post. Chat was being rude as hell.

[@hanniflowers]

Yes! I was feeling so bad about how chat was being, I was so glad Jarvis said something

[@winonarose7488]

I mean… he mansplained preschool to her, but yea they were waay to mean

[@djponez]

@@winonarose7488 I am almost 100% sure that John is autistic. that want mansplaining, it is very common for people on the spectrum to explain things that they are interested in

[@ethereallovebugz]

@@winonarose7488 how did he mansplain preschool to her what 😭

[@joearnold6881]

@@winonarose7488 he did no such thing

[@pinkbourne]

I liked how john was so passionate about his job John appreciation group.

[@maximumdinosaur]

I love John, he's so nervous and relatable

[@xero1119]

bruh idk the first guy just seemed so respectful i feel bad, like as someone who has SA trauma it felt so comfy to hear choice based compliments. anyways, thanks for the upload, i lost my dog an hour ago and i needed a distraction

[@xero1119]

i love john goodness gracious

[@tofuwiener]

i hope you find your dog

[@mrs.samuel.L.jackson]

Hey how are you doing? Hope that you're good! Just checking in to make sure.

[@rockyember]

not the subtitles saying that his name was “Ari” and “Arikta” 😭 he literally said multiple times that it was “Adi” and “Aditya”. Cut needs more brown employees

[@anarkizt]

Or to literally just have their names written down on a piece of paper and verified by the contestants. But they might be autogenerated captions.

[@jasminhabib5065]

Yeah you're right I was wondering why tf I couldn't pronounce it the same as them with the subtitles. Pretty fucked up ngl

[@packrat2004]

Aren't they autogenerated captions? That's not Cut's fault

[@jasminhabib5065]

@@packrat2004 they might be, but isn't there an option to fix them?? Honestly not very tech savvy lol

[@rockyember]

@@packrat2004 they arent autogenerated, you can tell the difference between autogenerated captions and ones written by the producers

[@LilyShimizu]

Glad to see so much love for John at least within the youtube comments. He is a kindred spirit to me for sure. The neurospicy anxiety is palpable!

[@xletragedyx]

"Neurospicy" I like that!

[@Letmebool]

New video from Jarvis, kurtis and nick all in the same 2 hours? Life is good

[@Pokemonfan612]

@@OldManYellsAtClouds Nickisnotgreen

[@joannamcdonald6985]

KZbin knows me too well, Kurtis new vid is going to play right after this one

[@SxdHxrmony]

@@Pokemonfan612 wtf ur right it’s actually main channel i’m shocked

[@lorenedwards6427]

Seriously!!! It’s a very good day for KZbin lol I have like 6 back to back videos rn because im counting Chris James, GunnarTV, and Jacob Sharpe’s upload from yesterday lol

[@Letmebool]

@@lorenedwards6427 jacobs new video is like full of nuggets

[@enias3294]

Chatter: purple and blue don't match Me, crocheting a purple and blue sweater: *sweats nervously*

[@isthatachicken]

Ooh how far along is it?

[@shellierobillard3917]

John is just the definition of lawfully good and people were not ready for it 😌 glad we got to see him haha

[@alexare6655]

I dated a guy who speaks exactly like John and was definitely having aspergers and he was *not* a good guy. Let's not assume okay.

[@tofuwiener]

​@@alexare6655 just because you had a bad experience with an autistic person doesn't make all of us bad... why don't YOU stop assuming

[@alexare6655]

@@tofuwiener lmao you're butthurt. I'm literally not assuming. I'm saying there is no way to know if he is a good or bad guy. Work on your reading comprehension dumbass.

[@shellierobillard3917]

@@alexare6655 hey, I'm sorry if this was triggering for you, of course I'm not saying that everyone who has aspergers is an angel. What we got to see from John tho didn't seem to be anything bad, he seemed like a nice person. Not every person who's aspergers is an angel, but not a demon either. I tend to assume positive stuff about people until proven wrong. I truly hope you can heal from that unhealthy relationship tho, doesn't seem to be easy. Good luck!

[@alexare6655]

@@shellierobillard3917 thanks for your kind words. Yep am just saying we should neither assume good or bad!!

[@persussle-]

I honestly think John is amazing and I'm sure he is a fantastic teacher

[@omnomiism]

Chat immediately calling John a creep was rude and sucky but I'm glad Jarvis stood up for him :))

[@samuelgehm5149]

Exactly, just because somebody's bad at socializing doesn't mean they're weird. People confuse me.

[@metallboy25]

No, they are just being honest. Most people would still think that without saying it.

[@mari12052]

I really liked John, but he was clearly nervous... I get John. Anxiety is... Something else

[@alexare6655]

He has aspergers.

[@spaghettifiedman]

Banko said "Chushka" which means pepper in Bulgarian (чушка). I am Bulgarian and I love board games and I haven't heard of this. My guess is it's something he made up on the spot so that he can throw her off and press the button first.

[@margaritabogdanova7089]

heyy a fellow Bulgarian watching Jarvis

[@genderender]

He needed to deflect to ask about working out

[@cozycasasmr4510]

This is so fkn funny if true 🤣

[@metallboy25]

He said "шушка".

[@metallboy25]

​@@cozycasasmr4510 Its not true.

[@Beeseee]

THE WAY JOHN HIT THAT BUTTON😂😂 I’m weak

[@tofuwiener]

*BAM*

[@alecroberts9271]

Thank GOD you called for chill on John. I Stan John

[@christinesmith1827]

The only joke I ever remember on the spot is SO STUPID, but that's where my brain goes when I'm put on the spot for a joke 🤦‍♀

[@turntechgodhead1975]

go on christine. tell us the joke

[@SomeBoyHere]

^^

[@princessofhell4639]

What's your joke

[@four1629]

we're now peer pressuring you for the joke. feel pressured and tell us the stupid joke, christine.

[@juiceboxfromthevoid]

Say the joke

[@lunavioleta001]

If you just met somebody, all you have is physical. You can't compliment somebody for their personality if you don't know them.

[@sophiathefurbst]

and he went with things she chose to represent herself!

[@metallboy25]

She rejected him before he could reject her.

[@princessofhell4639]

Tbf to the first guy there was literally nothing else he could've really said other then maybe some stuff like you seem friendly but that would've been so impersonal cus they just met. Also I love it when people compliment my hair and glasses. I think he deserved better but at the same time I can sort of understand her reasoning just she needed to think more about their situation at least he tried to point out her style instead of being like "you're beautiful" 3 times like idk he really did the best he could in that situation. Maybe I'm just biased tho cus hair and glasses were the 2 things I would've said and I couldn't even think of a 3rd...

[@nanoglitch6693]

I feel like there could be days worth of delving into the nuances of just those few seconds lol. I liked that he complimented aspects that she *chose* about her appearance but I could also see her taking that as "he doesn't like any of the natural aspects of my appearance." Or she could've just reflexively hit the button and then had to retcon a reason why. Who knows? 😂

[@metallboy25]

"I dont give compliments to fат chicks. 🫳🚨" 😂

[@hirtisrandolph4843]

Ken's attempt at a handshake look like he was trying to wind-sweep her out of the room.

[@brkh96]

FINISH HER

[@kaicapone8189]

I loved John! He seemed very sweet and honest wish we could have seen more of him ❤

[@caroline2978]

Banko be like "I'm sorry 💪🥺 🫳🚨"

[@CosmicVoid_S]

Glad Jarvis was on John's side because obviously we can't assume anything, but he read as autistic, based on what was shown (this coming from someone who's autistic). The fact that people associate those traits with being creepy really sucks, because if you look at the things he was actually saying, he was very nice and respectful. He just seems to have a hard time with tone and expressions, which is why he might give an unnatural vibe, compared to an allistic, or an autistic who masks more. It's good to unlearn biases that make you think that traits of neurodivergence or mental illness are signs of danger. And of course, always look for real red flags that someone actually could be a danger to you (manipulative/controlling behavior, inability to accept criticism, not listening to boundaries, not keeping important promises, shifting blame) One thing to know about interacting with autistic people is that we may say or do something that makes you uncomfortable, without knowing or intending to, because social ques are hard for us. But most autistic people will listen to you if you set a boundary and explain why something made you uncomfortable directly. We will work things out, we just need to be communicated with. The red flag comes when someone (autistic or not) refuses to listen to your needs and try to understand your feelings, and instead invalidates them or expects you to cater to theirs with little to nothing in return

[@metallboy25]

From what Ive seen, women associate nervousness with being "creepy".

[@notyourboi4076]

God, John really got jumped on by chat

[@kotacaelum9428]

yeah that was an unreasonable chat moment. they think it’s fine to joke about peoples looks and energy as if there aren’t people in the chat like that.

[@danteward-hunt6038]

so glad to see Jarvis defending John, no casual ableism on this channel

[@safehaven717]

We love John omg Jarvis’ chat was on crack John appreciation for life 😭💕

[@matthewpool6508]

LET THEM TALK ABOUT ENGINEERING, BUTTON. I'm trying to figure out my fricking major here.

[@alanscott2517]

I'll say this for this show, they feature people of all shapes and colors. There's none of the usual dating show focus with fairly interchangeable super hot people.

[@cephynight]

16:52 the way she says bachata here, and how the button says it later is killing me 😭 i’ve only ever heard it be pronounced the spanish way, and i hate mispronunciation, so hearing this makes me want to cry

[@areyoubewhy4457]

"buhchaduuh" **plays tostitos salsa music**

[@theinventiveidiot]

"I'm looking for personality" *Enter Bonco*

[@shirin9452]

Idk I thought John was brave as hell like he put himself out there so much good for you John I am a coward about such things despite being an extrovert

[@RandomNoobbbbb]

13:42 as someone with anxiety, I could tell John was probably anxious. As I sometimes do this, I like how Jarvis told chat to give him a break.

[@WhiteLabelSolt]

aw im so sad john got rejected i really liked him :(

[@rosenmael9724]

Damn…. Bonko said the reason he didn’t like Alex was as because Alex wasn’t his “type”. And then he said he needs someone that works out, literally assuming that Alex, as a fat woman, doesn’t work out. He literally asked her no questions about exercise and working out. There’s no way that he didn’t make that call on the fact that she’s a fat woman and somehow couldn’t compute that fat people could go to the gym. Idk like, she could go to the gym just not as often as him. Like you can go like 2-3 times a week as a fat person idk man. I am frustrated with Bonko cuz while maybe he doesn’t mean harm he assumed based on how she looked with no exercise questions. Like bro, that looks some type of way cmon 😭

[@spunchbopsquarpant]

bonko is very critical even when someone tells him that they also work out. ATP he should just find a bulking weightlifting gym bro because thats all he really wants

[@emmettvictor]

so much ingrained fatphobia and imo ableism

[@fordsrest]

as a fat man, Bonko is problematic, BUT he's still my silly guy. i feel like he does make a good gym instructor, and i believe he should clone himself and be in every gym so i can meet him. i understand he'd be pushing me way too hard for who i am, but his name is bonko, what could possibly go wrong?

[@jijitters]

Yeah, losing weight and staying in shape is very difficult. Bonko only looks like that *because* he devotes 100% of his time to working out. Even the average regular gym-goer doesn't look like Bonko because it's not an obsession for most people like it is for him. It's entirely possible the girl he rejected works out, just casually, but he wants someone who makes it their #1 priority. And honestly if that's what he wants, he should just ask out a girl at his gym lol

[@joearnold6881]

John was sweet. People just have trouble with first impressions with some types

[@JohnnySantanaAwcom]

The way they said Bachata killed me inside😂

[@isthatachicken]

✨Ba-chah-da✨

[@valentinecore]

ok yeah john was very clearly neurodivergent im actually surprised the chat didn't pick up on that since they talk a lot abt being nd sometimes. all i can say is maybe we should be a little less harsh on ppl that haven't done/said anything wrong instead of going on """vibes""" lmfao

[@kotacaelum9428]

literally! he sat down and chat immediately went into “i don’t like him”

[@ashleyaubergine2610]

Bonko didn't even ask the girl with the purple hair if she works out or not! It's clear he meant "I don't like fat women."

[@banannarama]

Poor John, I hope he finds love and he goes on to become a great teacher

[@metallboy25]

Women are incapable of love. Its all about the tingles/butterflies they get from lust.

[@violentvixen592]

Thank goodness Jarvis chilled chat on John. I really liked him, and it was clear immediately that he isn't neurotypical (from one neurodivergent pov). Chat felt super rude and aggressive about him not being "normal" :/

[@joearnold6881]

People are still learning. My instant first reaction was “weird vibes” before I caught myself, at which point he quickly seemed nice. It’s been drilled in by culture and we have to put in the work to change the expectations.

[@lyswenn]

I'm autistic and he seemed likely to be ND too. He was clearly very nervous though.

[@Crimson_Knight004]

I’m so glad I’m not the only one who thought that! He gave me ND vibes (basically acting exactly like I would if I were in that position), and he definitely seemed nervous. But I really dug his vibe and he seemed sweet. Though I get that he probably came off as a little intense at first, and one of the bad parts about commenting on a livestream is that people type their first thought without thinking it through, it’s just first instinct. I think most people would adjust and understand if given a little time, but first impressions can be brutal.

[@jericakez6813]

I was gonna say the same thing! They were being so ignorant.

[@phoenixc8328]

i blame the amount of incels online blaming their bad vibes on their autism because there are actually too many

[@humanintelegence]

as someone is kinda a slow thinker (especially abt myself) i relate to John

[@Kcajminecraftandmore]

That is very relatable

[@susbedstain2900]

Dude I love john

[@NbaLive4ever]

But why would the button ask that question to him if they just sat down?? Of course he’d fail at that point!

[@metallboy25]

Because its all for views?

[@Darksk1ngothgf]

Earring guys rizz was unbeatable

[@TheBookSkeptic]

“Bonko’s looking for one thing.” Yeah, himself

[@hamsaessam]

i just finished a reaction of cut so this timing is perfect

[@crow457]

Oh, boy it's my favourite KZbinr Johnvis Jarson

[@jessicaholscher4097]

Aww John is so nervous. he's so adorable.

[@lovrboi]

jarvis’ lives are my favorite this is one of the best ones yet i was laughing so hard the whole time

[@jinnbell4017]

Dipper be looking different today

[@sarahlovee4229]

Banco is straight flexing every muscle he has the entire time he's on screen 🤣

[@emmettvictor]

I love how Bonko immediately assumed that the board game developer doesn’t workout bc she’s not straight-sized 🙄

[@ambersmith2612]

The strongest female athletes on the planet are ALL not straight sized too… if he wants someone with a passion for what he has an Olympic body builder is def it but he just wants a skinny aesthetic insta model

[@sarahappleby1800]

John seems cool.

[@jacktadash]

John was unironically the hottest. I didn't know chat was all basic normies lol.

[@jacktadash]

Point proven: after all that, shock horror, the two most normal looking normies hook up. Gasp.

[@metallboy25]

Nah.

[@mightbeagiant]

I keep missing the live stream, but I wanna send my support and hope that you keep doing these, I'm loving watching you watch this show

[@thepokekid01]

I wonder how much are they really giving away for this "All expenses paid 2nd date"? I mean, are these people covering a 5-star restaurant date in Paris, a weekend brunch in Bali, or are they giving you $50 worth of Coffee at Starbucks? Maybe $100 to go watch Avatar 2 or something at the cinema. Despite I've never really seen any of these people win a date, I imagine because it's Cut, they are like "you have a $500 limit" or something.. (maybe $2000, max) I don't know, I just don't believe anyone really gets on this show hoping to find a date. I feel like they go in with worse intentions than the Bachelor, lol.

[@miaemilyd6479]

Anybody else think the dog was a blanket or smt until it started moving

[@ri1570]

the button lowk makes me so uncomfortable like some of these questions are so inappropriate and out of context and the flirty voice makes it so much worse-

[@jeremywaygay]

kelvin has that donnie darko confidence, i think is what it is

[@Brett276]

John seems like a sweety

[@iamalittler]

I’m sure Bronco will react to Alex with elegance and grace. And board game development? I’m crushing.

[@solangelo_shipper2630]

I love John BECAUSE he's nervous, bro. How dare you Jackie?!?!

[@quwandathornton]

I feel like she wanted more than just an "apparel compliment" but an appearance compliment like her eyes, lips, and nose. Also, the buzzer went off way to soon, they didn't even have enough time to get to know each other. Also assuming she doesn't work out cause she is fat. Bonco, being a muscular gym head; with the name Bonco. Classic boomer slapstick humor.

[@issecret1]

John doesn't even need to be neurodivergent to speak like that. He could just be nervous. I've done almost the exact same thing in the past and if the person you're with is not part of this stupid chat, it's not even that much of a big deal

[@metallboy25]

Well, women find nervous men unsettling, weird and creepy. While when they are nervous its called being shy and cute. You are simply not allowed to be nervous as a man.

[@paige._.659]

I have watched this video at least 3x and I will keep watching it as creators keep reacting lol

[@cargo_vroom9729]

"I'm really looking for someone based on personality" Says the person who slaps the button one sentence into every conversation.

[@djtoxicdhg]

We gotta give Banco some props here hes a man who knows what he wants and he will not settle for anything less Amen.

[@iamalittler]

John looks like a retired emo bass guitarist

[@gentry991]

chat calling john creepy when he was very obviously just exhibiting nd behaviors and acting nervously..... disgusting behavior

[@ella0-0bella]

“Alright” (ends)

[@worldwidelarry]

this was my first the button stream with jarvis 🥰

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

Cut looks like they have uncomfortable chairs. Only a few people looked comfortable. Even in the area where everyone is gathered. The chairs that are provided look old and hard. The chairs on set look like they have no support for the butt and back.

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

Their postures make my back hurt.

[@sethg2179]

Its also people anxious and tense asf knowing they are about to meet someone and either reject or be rejected in under 10 seconds usually 😂

[@persephonessibling]

Ive spent so much of my adult life surrounding myself with other autistic people, that sometimes it shocks me to remember how other people perceive our behaviour. I dont necessarily think its neurotypical/allistic peoples faults though (at least some of the time); i think its partially just the nature of being neurodivergent, and partially the media for so frequently depicting neurodivergent people that way.

[@MayhemOsprey]

Jarvis helps me fall asleep thanks for helping my insomnia lol also amazing content as always ❤

[@honey_euphoria]

the person who said those bands from /our youth 30+??? excuse me? i’m only 23 and i listened/still listen to so many of those bands? as do a lot of ppl my age? where did they get 30+ lmaaooo

[@UmbrellAce]

Fr so many people who arent even 20 listen to those bands. Do they think music is like, limited to the "era" they're from or something lmao

[@jijitters]

Well, you acting like 30 is so old is also weird lol They get people up to 40 on this show.

[@honey_euphoria]

@@jijitters when did i say anything about 30 being old? if anything the original person made it seem like 30 is old by saying that music was from their youth as if they arent young/mid adults.

[@tofuwiener]

why was the last person john talked to speaking about him as if he wasn't right in front of her?? "he just seems a little nervous..." girl tell that to him he's sitting in front of you

[@matman283]

That first joke was top notch

[@dizzylilthing]

I feel so bad for judging based on looks but John horrifies me, like hes been kept in formaldehyde

[@astralshore]

The V.A.T.S. sound effect tickled my brain.

[@Clownbunnycosplay]

I love how it says, ‘All expenses paid second date’ that means literally noting 😭

[@irene_in_progress]

This was my favorite one so far 😂

[@avabrandel2151]

chat speedrunning the experience of meeting someone who MIGHT be neurodivergent (or just awkward) and going from "ew he's probably a serial killer" to getting called out and immediately switching up, armchair diagnosing him, and babying him-calling him a "sweet soft boi who needs to be protected" is expected but still deeply unbearable to watch

[@maylen9299]

13:01 Its like a circumstantial joking like wit. Like playing off of what's going on around you that's funniest. Can't just throw out a joke from 100 knock knock jokes.

[@bec7080]

I feel like Jarvis only does these so he can use his promo code 🤣🤣

[@little_nail_bomb7929]

Arikta be taking all the sound waves with does mickey mouse ears 😂😂

[@lvcie.s]

bonco is the real life version of popeye

[@sethg2179]

A common comment about John is that he is on the spectrum and I am unsure how to feel about it. I understand where people come from saying that as I know many people and have some friends who are on the spectrum and they act similarly, but it could also simply be social anxiety. However, his very informative and knowledgeable delivery of things that lacked the "flare" (or personality some would say but it seems much more insulting to people on the spectrum to phrase it that way) that people commonly have when talking also CAN imply hes on the spectrum. The point? ITS NONE OF OUR BUSINESS DOESNT MATTER AND HE WAS A VERY KIND AND NICE GUY!!! Edit: i would only like to say it is none of our business because he himself did not bring it up. Nothing about any sort of autism is negative or has any downside to being brought up IF the person in question brings it up themselves. You never know how comfortable someone is with discussing it, especially with someone they dont know, ESPECIALLY online, that is the reason i posted the comment in the first place.

[@princessofhell4639]

Hi, as someone on the spectrum I just wanna say it could really be either way like I can definitely see why some people would think that. Also saying that we "lack flare" is one of the funniest way I've heard of phrasing it lmaooo 😭😭I think the word you were looking for is monotonous

[@sethg2179]

@@princessofhell4639 IT WAS SPECIFICALLY FOR YOU I'VE TALKED TO MY FRIENDS ABOUT IT MULTIPLE TIMES LOL Edit: One of my friends was insulted and told he must be a skeleton without a personality and his response to the guy speaking was he must be an explosive with all that flare😂

[@lolalane69420]

I totally get where you're coming from but I think for me the thing I'm focusing on is how chat responded to someone who shares a lot of my traits as a neurodivergent person. Even if he isn't (which isn't our business, you're totally right) I think these comments are coming from a place of being upset at seeing someone who shares our characteristics being insulted :)

[@TinyGhosty]

I think only autistic people can have an opinion on this. Autistic people are working very hard to destigmatize autism and let people know it is literally an unchangeable neurotype and it is not a mental illness, which is a very common misconception. An autistic person thinking someone else is autistic is not the same as "diagnosing" a mental disorder for many reasons, it is sharing the love for autistic people and autistic traits. I am autistic and see nothing wrong with autistic people saying "AYE I spy some autistic traits." Having allistic (non-autistic people) telling us not to suspect others being autistic feels like there is some negative reinforcement of how autistic people are perceived and how it is not something to be proud of. Many autistic people are proud af being autistic and would not want to change regardless of the struggles we go through.

[@JupiHornet1]

The thing is that neurodivergent people (like myself) can generally tell very quickly when someone else is neurodivergent because we share a lot of the same traits and "quirks". It's not just people making things up out of thin air

[@kuzcospoisonthepoisonforku2607]

"I love reading" he's giving "Latinas 😈"

[@Beeseee]

John is so adorable🥹🥹 I think he might have anxiety or something else so let’s not be rude

[@amazinchiik]

He was def bout to hit that button

[@jeremywaygay]

kelvin and john my beloveds