Exes Argue over Wheels and Wedding Bands!

[@alxhades6231]

I like when stubborn people meet JJ in court. It fascinates me how many imes they say the exact same thing hoping to make it sound different.

[@highlander666]

😆

[@kolepepperstakeonit5283]

And oh, boy is she stubborn 🤦‍♀️

[@chirondalamaduka]

😂 ...right!

[@ameenahhorn9596]

💀

[@nancyhoward7005]

Me too

[@donmaduro5262]

She doesn't want the car but she doesn't want him to have it....JJ was trying to give her a hint but she didn't get it

[@simgalore7493]

it's her car, why give it to someone who you just fell out with, but she do owe him money for fixing it but shes not obligated to just give someone her car, that's in her name

[@taurussho86]

​@@simgalore7493she wasn't giving anything. She either gives him the car or pay his money back. The car is more than likely worth less than what she has to pay him now. She lost on both ends. She has to pay him for the parts he did to the car, on top of having a non running car. She bit her nose to spite her face

[@jemmaj2919]

​@@simgalore7493 lol lets see if a non working car is worth more than 400 😅

[@TheFlowerQueen]

@@simgalore7493 I think she was suggesting that it would be cheaper for the defendant to give the car to the plaintiff than to pay for all his repairs... she didn't get it I guess.

[@mthomas1443]

Because the show pays not her.

[@LWWM]

Never buy your own engagement ring. I don't care if he gives me a string to tie on my finger, that's what we'll do.

[@markbrandon7359]

I have some fancy string I'll marry you LOL

[@nkechionwuegbu4097]

100!!! That is what we will do

[@the_w189]

I love you so mutch, let's involve the government. The government wich cannot be trusted. Good idea.... Uch. Marriage always a bad idea

[@wamz9191]

Mûndû wa nyûmba, tuge ûna wî wî gûkû 😂

[@xoxjanjounxox]

In our culture, the wedding band is the engagement rings. We both wear it on the right finger. Now if the woman wants an additional ring, usually it is bought with the wedding band. Who pays for all of those rings depends on each couple. My husband and I, I bought them on my credit cards as he was paying for other expenses related to the engagement party. Some people it is the man's parents who pays as "they" are asking for the girls' hands on behalf of their sons. My inlaws didn't pay for our rings because they didn't have money. I did receive a gold necklace, though, lol Anyways... no engagement rings in our culture. Which is better that way.

[@jcr1382]

If you have to pay for your own engagement ring, that’s a sign you’re not ready to be married, just saying.

[@lordtomosdecree]

Most women shouldn't get married then, because they rarely buy their own rings

[@Momo-po5tn]

🤔

[@erickanew]

Yeah I was confused about that when he said it. Lol who pays for your own engagement ring as a woman

[@8213apice]

@@lordtomosdecree you sound still. You’re a dust bucket.

[@lordtomosdecree]

@@8213apice and you sound poor, especially if you can't buy your own ring

[@TheJeanEffect]

She really just rather let it sit there & not be used at all than to let him have it. Wow.

[@Nevaeh1]

Someone else might be driving it lol

[@Teddybizz]

Typical… I’m not surprised by the pettiness

[@lu_re7198]

That’s probably what all their mutual friends are thinking. 😏

[@dorianfranklin1399]

Why would she just give him a car?? They aren’t together anymore!

[@Chosenones572]

She's mean

[@adrianachong9029]

JJ tries SOOOOO hard to give people a chance to not be willfully ignorant and cut off their nose to spite their face. She left her nose in that courtroom. So stupid

[@veileen4027]

Girl is not very bright, now she owes $1066😂

[@highlander666]

😆

[@Mybpeterson]

@@nathalieperreault2592 True, but what is she gonna do with the car? Sooner or later she's either gonna have to get it fixed or pay someone to tow it away for junk. It may not cost as much as the judgment, but giving it to him would cost nothing at all.

[@letchumytheresa8970]

​@@MybpetersonAnd be the bigger person for it....

[@Mybpeterson]

@@nathalieperreault2592 Maybe it's not the punishment she deserves, but she's still punishing herself. By keeping the car, it will be a constant reminder of the break-up. She may believe that she "won" as you say, but it will be only serve to keep her bitterness alive.

[@wamz9191]

JJ was literally trying to help her. Went right over her head 😂😂😂

[@michaeltrapp1985]

My dumb ass looking for a part 2 of this case not realizing JJ wrapped this up so fast like Santa was running late on Christmas morning.

[@marizdelapena2464]

😂😂😂

[@harryrob8221]

JJ is asking her why she won't let him have the car if she has no use for it rather than letting it just rut away. But in her head, what she is hearing is why he has no right to the car. Talk about being too emotionally triggered that you can't understand a simple question.

[@Sunshine134chick]

She won’t let him have the car because she was being Petty 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Meoknet]

She's just bitter towards the plaintiff but she's doing him nothing. He's going to get back his money and she's going to be stuck with a vehicle she can't use. Bitterness is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. The only person you're damaging is yourself.

[@arnellataylor3310]

Well said! But some people dont see it that way. Your own bitterness will destroy you!

[@Feed-My-Mind-Not-My-Ego]

Yeah, learn the lesson and move on.

[@8213apice]

I would be bitter too if I always almost married to a bum. But she can do better than him. She need to move on and find a more quality man.

[@Meoknet]

@@8213apice But seriously, whose fault is it that you almost married a bum? Did you not choose the bum? I've never held a grudge against any of my exes because at the end of the day, I chose them. So if they were a bum, or ridiculous, that's partially on me because out of a sea of people, I chose a bum, I chose a ridiculous person. So if I want to be bitter I would have to bitter at myself, but I've always chosen to look at it as a plus because I got out. If they're really a bum or ridiculous or whatever, they did me a favor by leaving... why should I be upset with them?

[@letchumytheresa8970]

​@@MeoknetFrom both your comments you come across as a strong and wise person...we have to be responsible for our choices we make in life and take it as lessons learnt and try not to make the same mistakes again because life is a journey and we are all pilgrims...and I wish you all the best that God and life have for you

[@janus9824]

This is too funny. Defendant goes and buys her own wedding rings for the marriage shows she wanted the marriage more than he did. As for the car its clear that she doesnt want the car and at the same time does not want him to have it as she let it sit for 6 months outside her mothers house and she kept saying she would let him borrow it. There is no borrowing from each other when preparing for marriage but it looks like her mindset going into the marriage was "whats mine is mine"

[@letchumytheresa8970]

She's just selfish and mean When there's a, what is mine is mine and not ours is not a good sign in marriage

[@GoddessPower777]

marriage doesn’t mean you can’t have things solely for yourself. husband’s and wife’s have their own vehicles in marriage. she very well could have decided to let him borrow it.

[@cindymann3673]

He mentioned a layaway for the ring, but that she didn’t like it. Maybe she bought her own because she was impatient.

[@twofoursevenbeauty]

He had a lucky escape, then, lol

[@CookingwithCj319]

The defendant was a real idiot in this case😂😂😂😂😂 Judge Judy was trying to give her a pass, but the defendant didn’t catch on lol. She could have agreed with Judge Judy and said “he can come pick up the car.” Instead she said “the car was never for sale.” Omg girl now you have to pay him $1,066.00 😂😂😂😂😂😂 She didn’t use common sense at all lol.

[@JohnDoe-1956]

You are assuming she had any common sense.

[@sonnix31]

I think the car is worth more than the amount he requested because he put in extra stuff. 😊

[@venettajackson5028]

Lol

[@nilnil7325]

I'm not certain, but I think the show pays the verdict.

[@MagdelanaRodriguez]

The show pays

[@mikeaddison5697]

She didn’t want to see another woman in her old raggedy car😂😂😂

[@catherineeckstein2705]

Plaintiff dodged that bullet

[@6ftwalka783]

The defendant is VERY IRRITATING!! To the plaintiff….as JJ would say “🗣️YOU DODGED A BULLET!!!!”

[@blueknight07]

The defendant really despises him, they must've had a very messy break up

[@elvickRULES]

Or she dumped him and he got a new girlfriend faster than she liked. Plenty of reasons

[@nowirehangers2815]

Maybe he is married now

[@snsn7251]

She better thank God and go work on herself.

[@iconicon.d]

I think she realized he’s a bum afterwards

[@SoulDelSol]

I don't understand how there can be a clean break up. One person is invariably hurt and often reacts from a place of emotional pain

[@jamesdietz29]

While not blatantly saying it, JJ was offering the defendant the opportunity to let the plaintiff have the car and call it even.

[@berywildbrielle]

Buying your own ring is CRAZY

[@JohnDoe-1956]

So you would agree that a man who buys his own wedding band would be crazy.

[@alphaomega5909]

Hey,lol. We all know over yrs JJ isn't up on Cars. But she Knew about Boes speakers, rims, tinted windows!!! Good on her,,finally. 😉🤣

[@Jeajea433]

Spite cost her $1066

[@emlachictogolaiz]

It's so unfortunate how much this lady is desperate to get married to the point she went and got her own engagement 💍 ring. So pathetic. The length people go to be miserable 🫣

[@lulling_soundsasmr6713]

I bet she went there thinking......" woman to woman she'll understand!!!" To her, the law is something that was made to favor her even when she's wrong

[@JohnDoe-1956]

Well, the law usually does.

[@kaymarshe]

I'm not finished watching this clip, but even halfway in, you can tell both are emotionally tired. Hope they find someone they are both compatible with.

[@8thst.garage144]

The defendant sounds like that one supervisor that will never admit hes wrong

[@tatattaylor]

Super-fast episode. I would of just gave him the car, especially since she purchased a new one. Not only did she purchased both rings, now she has to pay him over a $1066.

[@shannonbrice8012]

I was thinking the same thing....now she is paying him for a car that is not working. Should have just gave him the car and be done with him.

[@tatattaylor]

@Shannon Brice Yes! I wonder what happened between them? I can tell she had some pain in her eyes.

[@MLife1972]

Why did they not swap the rings for the car in the first place rather than drag their little break up story on to TV?

[@MLife1972]

@Sllort I thought they both get an appearance fee. The money comes out of the appearance fee. I could be wrong.

[@MLife1972]

@Sllort Agreed. The rings were the most important part of the case and she was right to fight for them. I think she was hanging on to the car to get him to return the rings. Even though the car is hers, it sounds like a piece of junk and she doesn't need it.

[@justprettycarly]

She really refused to answer the question 😂

[@Mary-pg3lu]

The defendant didn't say much to defend herself, when the Judge asked her questions....all she said was "I don't know"

[@shannonbrice8012]

If the car isn't running, then give him the car. Probably not even worth the 1000 dollars she has to pay.

[@tails300]

Well technically she doesn’t have to pay, the show does.

[@badyellat]

Geez just answer the question..WHY DONT YOU JUST LET HIM HAVE THE CAR!!?!😂😂

[@BNR_248]

The defendant should just admit she's being vindictive and doesn't want him to have it. Instead of dancing around, makes her look worse. "I don't want him to have it because we broke up, I'm obviously emotional and don't want to be splitting hairs over who owns who's stuff". I'll admit it would be tough to come up with proper responses while JJ is giving you a spray.

[@miko_28]

No body lend a non operational car to anyone. So how she can come with this stupid argument to court?

[@betterthanemril988]

thank you for uploading outside Business days ✊🏾

[@hmonstergal]

She doesn’t listen. Probably why they didn’t work out. JJ was trying to save her over $1000 🙄

[@cindymann3673]

Agreed.lol

[@ashesash9010]

She is sooo stubborn that she will not let him have a broken car that she can't even sell or drive herself....

[@rlowethewitch8417]

"Are you having trouble hearing me? I'LL TRY TO KEEP MY VOICE UP."

[@MrConnorTV]

He dodged a bullet. lol

[@Rushyesgenesis]

She’s having a power trip

[@papalegbasson2447]

She's petty! She feels he want be driving another woman around in my 🚘

[@Nevaeh1]

She should've just let him have the car

[@harryrob8221]

Too vindictive, I guess

[@shannaholmes833]

Yeah cut her off because either she doesn’t listen very well and understand what you’re asking her or she just doesn’t want him to have the vehicle. Even though she isn’t using it or seems to want it.

[@r828realty]

He looks like a good guy.

[@wamz9191]

Lady, you're not the sharpest tool in the shed, are you... 🤣🤣🤣

[@hamnchee]

1066 is when William the Conqueror invaded England and won the Battle of Hastings, dethroning Harold Godwinson and taking the crown for himself. It's also how much it cost to get the car running.

[@KayB-l5h]

The problem is she don't have common sense. Number one buying her own wedding rings. Number two judge tried to tell her give him the car thats not working or pay him. She just wasn't picking up what Judge was putting down.🤦‍♀️

[@dd60622]

When I first heard judge say they were engaged but she had to give him a car I said "I'm sure she paid for the rings" 🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭

[@billiismith6054]

If u buy ur own ring, UR MARRYING... URSELF😂😂😂😂

[@MoWorld2003]

She was so focused on trying to prove he was only borrowing the car which was pointless because JJ already said she didn't believe that. Now she has to pay him $1k for a car that's just sitting in front of her parents house and not operable.

[@EliBelcherBeatbyeli]

Buying your own ring is a dead giveaway of what’s to come 😂💀

[@poincianacouponing1622]

No one lets their FIANCÉ borrow anything. You give it to them. Don’t buy your own ring. He put the ring on layaway bc he wanted to pay for it but couldn’t afford it. She was impatient and rushing to the aisle.

[@timeframehq]

Defendant was lying. You know the car is running. Someone in her family is probably using it. If it doesn’t make sense it isn’t true

[@Ghost-ch6ik]

Would have cost her nothing to let him have it 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@xerikl]

JJ was going to give him the car which would've cost her nothing but she is so stubborn she'd rather keep a dead car and pay 1000k lol. I know the producers pay the judgement but still

[@Kaboomboo]

People on this show should know that if Judy wants to see something, she's probably going to give it to the other litigant.

[@jdspreest]

It would’ve been cheaper for her to just have given him the car

[@JohnDoe-1956]

That would have been logical and she had no capacity for logic.

[@girlee0303]

She’s just tryin to stick it to him. Good thing he didn’t marry her

[@kenttegneskog]

She is soo bitter

[@mrbear1302]

I wish the defendant would have just admitted that she kept the car to be spiteful.

[@tonyhoward7004]

Next time you watch this, take a shot every time she says “when I let him borrow the car”.

[@CookingwithAfton]

She should of just give him the car

[@rosesarered2285]

She’s silly, just give him the car

[@bridyyc]

That woman not the sharpest knife in the drawer....

[@taurussho86]

That girl slow. Judge Judy is asking you is the car worth $1066, if not, give him the damn car.

[@mjremy2605]

Its not a 'messy breakup'. She has a messy character. Imagine being married to this passive aggressive female. Awful.

[@melaninduh7962]

🤣🤣She Ain't Want Him To Get The Car She Didn't Give AF If It Wasn't Working 🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅

[@Trusturtastebudzz]

You know why I’m here!!!! #afternoonfix

[@MadisonPaige]

😂 Asian woman behind defendant when JJ said: you paid for this one too?! 😂😂😂

[@corderodukes]

JJ was trying to help the lady by saying give him the car then she would not owe him the money that he spent to fix the car. She was set on him not having it 😂

[@orynthia90]

she seems petty and ditzy

[@GloriaYtuarte]

She was meant to be in the real one 😂😂😂

[@CJSmallz41]

Never be with a man that WON'T pay for the engagement and wedding rings. I was with 2 deadbeats that wouldn't buy the rings. I had to buy them

[@amyc2546]

How does she not remember when the relationship terminated.

[@gprincess428]

GURL, lol, she was trying to save you the money lol

[@Gissified]

She reminds me of Nia Long, her features, voice and mannerism are very similar to Nia's.

[@lynnettelove11]

Why did she keep saying "I let him borrow it". This was someone she was about to MARRY. Where, unless either of them signed a prenup, everything was going to be one in the same and the only way to separate it would be to go to court. No way her man knows how to work on cars and she said "babe once you fix it you can BORROW it". She wasn't even using the car. She's just holding on to it now to be petty. Also, don't buy your own engagement ring. If you've agreed to go the traditional route and have him propose don't rush it by paying for it yourself. It's almost like you're forcing him into it.

[@kcarter142]

Sad that people will spend money and lose a lawsuit just to spite someone. She clearly doesn't want the car, but just doesn't want him to have it. So now she owes him $1k just to prove a point lol

[@elizaleroux9173]

Borrow a broken car..

[@bjohnson1149]

I LOVE that JJ made this woman pay. I'm not sure why she thought she was entitled to anything other than the ring. Why would any woman pay for her own engagement ring? I'd rather not have one.

[@briannerucker1071]

Heyyyy judettes. Happy Saturday! Where is everyone checking in from?! GA!

[@thad8899]

I’m in PA now

[@hectorjinx3433]

Massachusetts

[@TiphAnee1212]

SC 😊

[@vidamccurdy9764]

Foothills of the central cascades in Washington state living in an historical coal mining town..

[@TNKabouter]

France 🐸

[@meggun4643]

Why i find it desperate to buy your own engagement ring?? Lolz.. she's bitter, just because the wedding is off she taking the car back also.

[@christineb1464]

That defendent was not picking up what JJ was putting down. 😂

[@taliahali9827]

Not her buying all the rings and 😂 having a husband was never THAT serious

[@petrofjday]

She was just being petty at this point.

[@kolepepperstakeonit5283]

He put all that money into getting that car right; at the same time wouldn’t pay for the rings outright… well that’s partly why they’re here, I imagine

[@jdsiv3]

Nope, he said she should wait a couple of weeks on the ring and he would buy that too but she was impatient. A running car would benefit them both far more than some rings. Anyway she now has some wedding rings that are not worth what she paid for them, a non-running car, and is out 1066$

[@mooreflava]

​@@jdsiv3 I agree with you

[@Tahiha]

as usual another bitter woman just rushing headlong into blaming the man without listening to what was actually said in the case. He said she declined to wait a few weeks and went and bought the rings. That was HER doing, that wasnt him not wanting to buy the ring. So now she has a car that's gonna sit there and rot, and three rings she has no use for, and has to pay him 1 grand. All because she's bitter and stubborn, You women will never learn.

[@kolepepperstakeonit5283]

@@Tahiha The CAR was a priority to HIM. The RINGS were a priority to HER. It seems clear to me thats partly how they ended up in front of JJ and not walking down the aisle and in a marriage. I have good listening skills. There’s no need for you to be insulting.

[@anndeecosita3586]

@@jdsiv3 And did you miss where they also said in court that he spent money on a bunch of frills that weren’t necessary to get the car running.. JJ even made clear she wasn’t reimbursing him for that. So actually they are both losing money because he spent more than he was awarded.

[@sothathappened]

he's lucky he didn't marry her. she's the type of person who won't give a straight answer to a simple question. good riddance

[@tashakim5387]

She probably didn't say "borrow" or "have" but instead said, "...you can USE it"

[@milesjohnson5487]

Byrd has such an important job.

[@zureyaodula5348]

This was a helluva messy break-up 🤣

[@ryana3679]

That woman is toxic as hell.

[@nancyhoward7005]

Good judgement letting the man have the money

[@crpsaiyan]

It's obvious the defendant kept the car on account that the engagement was terminated. Otherwise, the plaintiff's entitled to the money he put into it after she told him, "if you can fix the car, it's yours." Nice try, lady.

[@misssharon6718]

😅😅😅😅😅 defendant had no defense

[@PartyOf8Please]

If you have to buy your own wedding ring … 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃

[@wavynaturalista]

It’s clear that things have to be her way or else. He dodged a bullet.

[@edwindelgado8775]

Good call JJ

[@rosanaaramayo4831]

The judge knows the gang talk very, very well.

[@Warriorking.1963]

I've often heard of taking a horse to water but not being able to make it drink, but JJ didn't just take that horse to the well, she stuck it's nose so far into it, she almost drowned the beast, and STILL it wouldn't drink. Result, pay him $1066.

[@JohnDoe-1956]

Spite is very unattractive but sadly very common.

[@ytiruces100]

Ppl keep saying she didn't catch on. To me, it seems like she just does not want to give him the car.

[@TheDarkSide46]

that dude had a lucky escape

[@JohnDoe-1956]

Very lucky.