Expats Moving to the Philippines/Why Is This Man Leaving Cebu?

Expats Moving to the Philippines/Why Is This Man Leaving Cebu?‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬
I spend some time with Chris, a 52 year old expat, who after a year, is leaving Cebu and moving to Dumaguete. Is he making the right decision?
Chris's KZbin Channel
/ @carefreechris

[@alextrodriguezz]

As 35 yr old living in Colombia believing these are my best years.. It’s encouraging to hear a guy in his 50’s say these are his best years

[@prestonphelps1649]

good choice. I initially went there in 2007... with long term intentions. Then realized. Oh No. I play golf and the golf is extremely limited there.

[@keithz6737]

I went to the Philippines the first time July 2022 and stayed 7 months traveling from Dumaguete to Siquijor Island to Alona Beach Bohol to IT Park Cebu and Business Park Cebu .Spent a month or two in each place met some of you at Ground Zero Coffee shop. I didn't hesitate at all I love the Philippines and visiting each place for a few months. Be back in December one way ticket making it my second home.

[@PaulOsborne-dp4fj]

Great interview. I landed in Cebu. Been here for two months. Chris is right on point. I live now in Lapu-Lapu in a rental house I chose Cebu for great medical care and I was right about that. Difference is I am old (79), don't drink, and eat out rarely. Just dumped two (yes 2) filipinas. I spoiled one and the other was just too young. Now I am seeking a Registered Nurse and/or a partner. Before too many jump by butt, I amambulatory and can pay for the nursing part and I will. I would love to meet Chris.

[@peterconnolly9828]

More money then sence

[@mikedoyle7300]

Wow 79 years old, a couple of hotties, good for you. Living the dream, hopefully God willing I'll make it that far. Sounds like it's been a good run for you. Take care, stay healthy. Enjoy.

[@_arman_]

Chris is a sharp and articulate guy. Really enjoyable interview - thanks guys!

[@RealGaryGibson]

Great interview with Chris! I met Chris in Cebu a couple of months ago and he's a genuine good guy and a great friend now. I agree that Cebu is a great soft landing for the new expat. And it's easy to travel to a lot of other places from here too by air or ferry.

[@CarefreeChris]

Hey Gary. Really appreciate your friendship too

[@CarefreeChris]

I'm gonna get a two bedroom so you guys can come down and visit sometimes and watch some F1:)

[@RealGaryGibson]

@@CarefreeChris That sounds great Chris! We're looking forward to that!

[@yowfolds5535]

I've been waiting for this interview Paul. Chris is a good dude, I've been following his channel for 4 months. Great interview.

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you:)

[@deltachris]

Good interview, Paul and Chris. Both Cebu City area and Dumaguete have their good points. Boots on the ground and take your time.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@makeyourlifeeasier5794]

Chris seems like a great guy with a real quality youtube channel that I frequently watch. Great interview Paul!

[@robertdavis7312]

if the USA is so bad then why do we have so many people trying to get into the country? To those that think the grass is greener in some other country I say then go there and live BUT they should not be able to draw their SS or pensions IF they reside in another country, plain and simple.

[@bunso726]

I am 51 and married to a Filipina for 10 years. We live in the States but I have spent enough time in the Phils to know what's up. I have been talking to the wife about relocating to Duma or Davao. Her family is close but not that close. We have a budget of around $3000 because we both know what we like and want. I know it can be done for way cheaper but I can live the same way I did in America for way cheaper. I am all in. Before people get all mad, lets agree that we can all live the way we want to as our means will allow. For me, I can live within my budget and still save money every month. Great videos Paul.

[@skaidimusic]

Nice to see Chris on your channel. I was told that all the tall beautiful women were staying in Dumaguete when I first came to the Philippines but that wasn't true. What kind of woman can you find in Cebu? I was in Cebu when I found my pretty wife in Ozamiz online, took me 40 minutes to fly there and convince her that I was the right man for her😊. Chris is 53 I understand and I was 51 when I arrived in Cebu first time in 2006 but I quickly headed for Bantayan Island. Chris says "Could I live here?", yes and no. It is easy to think you will live in the Philippines when you are in your 50s but when you get closer to 70 you start to think. Anyway, I think we would choose to live on Bantayan Island if it wasn't for our children because the schools in the Philippines aren't great.

[@deedeew4040]

You have the best channel on the internet, Paul. I hope more people subscribe to your channel. It is not about you, it is about educating people about the Philippines. I enjoy learning and I have a good friend from the Philippines, and she would never go back there.

[@dannystravelvlog]

Good stuff guys! I am watch both of you all the time. My ticket has been purchased for my first trip; doing Manila, then Cebu, then Dumaguete after that. Two weeks trip to get a feel for the Philippines. A good start. Maybe I can see you there. I have seen so many videos now I feel that I know you both already! Honestly, I can’t wait to escape this American way of life. It is not the same place I grew up in, not by far.

[@usersubscriberSC]

Baby Boomers will be at home in the Philippines because of our values and belief system. I personally am aghast at the rampant looting in high-end shops by gangs in San Francisco! What is happening in SF? Besides, in some cities US$ 3k a month goes to rental only. While in the Philippines, $3k a month in the provinces will afford a luxurious lifestyle. Just take care of your health/medical needs.

[@jackgb6969]

We grew up in the pre-Reagan years in America!

[@coderlicious6565]

I wish I didn't mind humid weather. I tried out orlando, moving from idaho, and couldn't take it. I can imagine Philippines even more intense than FL.

[@rounder400]

Humid 365 days a year, 24/7

[@CarefreeChris]

So cool. Thanks Paul. Really appreciate it.

[@leonardmarlin4330]

Good video again Paul been back in the states for 2 months after living in the Philippines on Samal Island for 2 years and can't wait to get back home. I love America but hate living here.

[@Joe-mz6dc]

Good interview Paul and Chris. 😎

[@garyburgmylifeandtimes6354]

Another great interview Paul. You always get a difference story / opinion. love it. Keep 'em coming!

[@allenbest1768]

I don’t know Old Dog but I’ve been living in Siay for about 9 months now and I believe anywhere you decide to be in the Philippines you will love it because of how nice the people are here.I want to think you all because watching you in the States made me want to be here.I’m now married to a beautiful Pilipino who I’ve known for about 4 years and she takes great care of me .Good luck and always have fun my friend .

[@RetireandGo]

Siay, interesting I learn about new locations through these videos and comments all the time I like Dumaguete and I have friends that retired there I’ll have to put Siay on the visit list !

[@robpeacock2929]

Good interview Paul, ...Hi! Chris again.

[@BrentBarclift]

Really enjoy your show! Thanks

[@MarkGray-u4i]

Carefree Chris is a great guy. Thanks for having him on, Paul. Mark in Dallas.

[@CarefreeChris]

Thanks Mark. Really appreciate it

[@gregpraetz5342]

Paul... I must apologize buddy. Early on I didn't believe that you were very good at interviewing people and i even commented on that. I am so happy to say how wrong I was. I love your channel. Keep up the good work. Please forgive my stupid comment several months ago. You are rockin it my friend.

[@RonIn-yl2md]

Hell even Old Dog can get lucky sometimes. Just watch the next video and he will smile into the camera as he asks THE CAMERA his in-depth and provoking question.

[@enzopastore5811]

Hello boys,Chris is becoming a KZbin sensation,your up there also Paul,hehehe

[@Florida_007]

Great interview Paul!!!

[@ellvtv2314]

Why does this guy talk like a victim? In American, we are free to say whatever you want. Free to turn off the news. Free to move to any town and enjoy everything that America has to offer. Foreigners would love to switch places with us.

[@robertdavis7312]

agree totally

[@martypoll]

We are free to move overseas too often living a better quality of life.

[@plantworks100]

Hey Paul my dear friend, here you go making another awesome video again 😊😊😊😊😊. Thank you for sharing brother. Love you and Baby Mae always ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thanks so much!

[@thomassmallwood7518]

Chris appears to be a high character human being. I only disagree with one point, in IT Park a foreigner can live off of $1,300 US to $1,500 US if you cook alot of food in your condo and eat out only 1 to 2 times per week with your Filipina. As Chris said he eats out all of the time so that is why his budget is a lot higher.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah man. I eat out a ton

[@tmangeles7575]

That was my thought, too @@CarefreeChris--$2k-$3k seemed high. But a) lifestyle choices matter and it sounds like you make good decisions wrt spending/saving; and b) maybe a bit of inflation (I have been monitoring Cebu/Duma prices for a couple years) and/or if the exchange rate goes the wrong way.

[@dsrrellgriffith1161]

yup,,,,u can find a studio in IT park as low as $280...Most foreigners do not cook, so they spend a lot of money on food and girls. Some also drink a lot,,,,,I am paying in IT park $363 for newer condo, and if u cook healthy food at home u save a lot of money. But most foreigner here are fat and old, and they do not take care of themselves. YOu need money saved for medical emergencies also

[@jamesavakian4977]

​@@tmangeles7575pretty sure the only the top 1% earn more than $2000 per month.

[@rickpineo2588]

Another great video Paul. I’ve been to the Philippines twice and I land in Cebu and stay for two days to acclimate to time jump. Cebu reminds me of Boston USA and I’m a New Hampshire country boy. My lady and I always spend most of our vacation in Bohol and Siquijor which I find far more comfortable. So I’m trying to narrow down places to retire. Hopefully I’ll include checking out Dumaguete but we are focusing on getting her to USA first and see how she likes the culture changes for her here. Love your interview videos to get other people’s perspective and experience. Thank you

[@jetd9716]

If you take her to the USA, kiss your Philippines dreams goodbye.

[@gemox3225]

I've been to both Cebu City and Dumaguete City a number of times. He's right - Ayala Mall and IT Park area is pretty good in Cebu City. Dumaguete is much smaller and quite noisy for a small city. I prefer Cebu City.

[@RetireandGo]

This is interesting I appreciate this information I have not yet visited Cebu Only Dumaguete I’ll have to check Cebu out in my next trip

[@LeteciaBoedecker]

Good luck to you guys, whatever you do and myself am planning to go back in there. Thanks for sharing, i enjoy it God bless 😊

[@scottmullis4230]

Paul another Great Show!

[@Philippine-Life]

Hey Paul, you guys just confirmed my plans and thoughts, learn to fly in Cebu away from Manila and then explore places like Dumaguete etc. I look forward to meeting you and baby Mae before I even think of settling down. I need Maes' approval of the Filipina I'm hanging out with first.😄 Thanks Paul & Chris

[@scottmullis4230]

That Cebu sounds great. I have been here in the ILOILO City area.

[@thepassdude5173]

Good info Paul👍. 😂 important indeed to check for an Adam's apple too just like in Bangkok. The polarization I'm beginning to think is by design in the USA 😢. In addition to most speaking English in the Philippines I have been told by many who have immigrated to the USA that they remember that General MacArthur came back to help liberate the region from one of the toughest of Axis powers. Nice they haven't forgotten like most have in Europe.

[@AnthonyCataldo-b2q]

Love your advice on preparing for relocation. A checklist might be cool for a future episode?

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

great idea!

[@egovorch]

I did find one one line that can be really helpful…don’t remember where I found it but it has provided some great info…I will scan it and email it to you…you will be able to add to it or change it as necessary

[@stanleyboothe4893]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 As i told Mike, an EXPAT RETIREMENT for DUMMIES is a good video series from starting at US to getting to find a good location to live in Phils - !!!

[@PWNLordFTW]

#1 put ur own boots on the ground and look around. do a few exploratory trips. definitely don’t sell it all and just move. That said, a check list is a good idea

[@just_facts9713]

The usual hangout location for quick pick up’s is TGIF in Ayala..it’s hilarious watching these old dudes acting as if they were ballers or Hugh Hefner at TGIF..then what’s even funny is when they walk around the mall looking like grandpa and his grand daughter..

[@dsrrellgriffith1161]

I also love the young guys who cannot find a girl in their country, then come to the PI with there zero personality and zero education. hahaha,,,Most are tattooed up losers, just having sex with many girls then going home.

[@victortan4191]

One of your best interviews. Thanks Paul.

[@jamesb777driver]

Love the channel Paul, I’m in my early 30s have a filipina other halve. I’m bought into the Philippines beautiful place and awesome vibe. I’m an airline pilot in Middle East and I love flying to MNL

[@SpiritRobert-gq3pl]

Great interview filled with useful information!

[@HumbleTravels]

You are not going to notice the division unless you watch the news, KZbin, Facebook meme pages or go to church every Sunday which have become political centers these days. But as far as work and going shopping, there are no divisions. Yes, if you go to a poor urban area. Yes, if you go to a hillbilly town. But otherwise it's not noticeable except during a presidential election year. Glad you kept it real by immediately mentioning the cost of living...which is the real reason other than females, that middle aged and older men go to the Philippines. Everything else is just justification/rationalization whether true or not.

[@Manila-sb3sn]

Good interview Paul.

[@HexFlex-ss9rm]

My 2 favorite guys together 🎉 , when you need a couple smart honest regular guys. You 2 inspire me and make me feel like I’m not the only guy in the states that thinks, ……..I’ve bought had enough. Your energy, personality’s, and knowledge is refreshing. Thanks guys , glad to see you know each other. ❤❤

[@Go4Corvette]

Thanks for the interview, Paul. You guys are right, it's hard right now living in America. Am 62 and retired. I only receive social security, so $2000 would be the max I could afford. I'll hang in here a little longer and make a decision by the end of next year. A lot will depend on how all these wars work out. A friend of mine just retired from the police department L.A.P.D. and gets $7000 a month, sounds great but he's worried about his pension plan being cut or going broke so a lot of his life is on hold. Too many ifs or maybe right now in the U.S. Good luck, Mike, in the USA

[@garyzies3486]

The problem is that too many foreigners are moving into the bigger Phil cities, driving up prices of everything. $2000 bucks is not going to get you very far in a place like Cebu City anymore. On top of that, the dating scene has changed dramatically with so many Americans in competition for the same girls. Ladyboys are very common there now, if you are interested in that.

[@2000ViperGTSsubscribe]

@@garyzies3486 I agree 2K is nothing for me to live on there, I need like 4-5K a month in PH.

[@garyzies3486]

@@2000ViperGTSsubscribe At 4-5K USD your status is elevated into the upper-middle class. Inflation will catch up with you in a few years.

[@HairyPixels]

don't wait you could be dead in a few years!

[@craigsmith2755]

@@garyzies3486 I think you will find it's the rich South Koreans that are really bumping up the prices.

[@jamestopeka2236]

I love the Philippines and the people , Riding motorcycle in the mountains is so refreshing 😌 going on 9 years with my Philippina .

[@kendal690]

Having a good filipina with you is always a asset.

[@CarefreeChris]

Totally agree

[@richsadventures1889]

Great interview, i think i saw Chris at Ground Z the other day.

[@benshephard5573]

I am 31 and definitely qualify as a minimalist. I spent 2 years in oahu hawaii in a bus conversion. Last 2 years in san diago doing the same. Been watching you for a long time. So far i got 250k saved in investments. Going

[@benshephard5573]

Going to be making my first trip down around February. America is a great place to earn your financial freedom but I am helping southeast Asia is where I want to spend it.

[@benshephard5573]

My math is 360 k after taxes on a modest 5 percentage interest will give me 1500 a month. If I need more I will go back and work but that my game plan

[@ottowokeninger9617]

There are risk-free returns in money market funds and HYSA now around 5%, but those rates will fluctuate. The general market outside the top 7 in sp500 has been bad for the past year and a half. I'm down about 12% over that time. It's difficult to know what to buy now, since the market may keep trending down or sideways.

[@Mjolnher9]

I am 34 in a similar boat although I prefer living in US and making periodic trips overseas for vacation. Definitely helps to invest early and often.

[@charlescox2840]

Great interview! Chris seems to be a alright guy with his head on straight. Gives me new options if my old lady ever passes and I become a free person.

[@CarefreeChris]

Thanks Charles:)

[@jasonstokes7567]

Finally, a guy that is honest about how much it cost to live comfortably in Philippines. I lived there so it always irritates me when I hear people say "you can live like a king for a $1000 a month". A monthly income of between $2000-$3000 is a good assessment but probably closer to $3000.

[@MarkDahildahil2005]

After 10 years in the Philippines I have found I live well on just over 1 thousand a month

[@FinstaDaMinsta]

This applies to you. If you can’t live on 1000 usd your just a spoiled foreigner.

[@carmelaelliott227]

$3k is gooooood. Anything lower than that is ( living locally and still okay, but better to have to budget $3k if you can afford that lifestyle is gooooood. I'm a Filipina, was married to an American guy from Michigan for 42 years lived in America to different States for 16 years and lived 26 years in Philippines till he passed away before COVID hit 2019, we lived happily in the Philippines but didn't live like the locals, maintained an American/expat lives.

[@MarkDahildahil2005]

@@carmelaelliott227 If you think I live like the locals I don't I own and run a car and eat the best food and sometimes buy important items

[@in10citty]

It does not cost anywhere near 3k a month to live anywhere in the Philippines, not even the cities. Otherwise, the entire local population would be homeless. I think you just are unwilling to take in the culture and still have too much of a western mindset.

[@erwinzado1515]

Start 28. November to Cebu !!! Enjoy your talk !!! Regards Erwin

[@jerrystanley6820]

you guys are great trying to talk myself into the move sometime next year never been out of the US hoping to have my 1st visit with some family who own a home over there test the waters great information guys

[@frankmancuso4065]

I was in Mactan Newtown for 25 days 10/3 to 10/27, my son acquired me a condo in the place where his is 570$ so that was nice , tho have to come out again sons moving to Bacolod in Dec and I wanted to check out Dumaguete next time . I was a truck driver T.T. and it was an experience to watch people pass on their motorbike into oncoming traffic , either side really ! Yea that would take a bit more patience for me , but very doable , and as you say Paul just take your time . Have a nice day and thanks for the informative video .

[@gregpraetz5342]

Life begins where your comfort zone ends. The problem is many people will never leave their comfort zone.

[@kabysummit5801]

True words You have to live your life and not somebody else’s

[@robertbouvier4813]

Great interview. I’m really on the fence about retirement in another country outside the US. I agree with allot of what I heard about how the US is changing and not for the better. But even if that wasn’t the case it’s more about the financial situation. I could afford to stay in the US but I would really have to live minimally. But minimally here in the US is much lower standard than minimal in the Philippines. I live in California and the cost of living is crazy high. I’ve owned homes in California and had my own business. I’ve always made good money. Now in my 60’s I look forward and I don’t see that bright retirement that I envisioned when I was younger. I’ve traveled the world but never the Philippines. These videos are enlightening and give me hope that it is possible to turn the clock back and start fresh in a place that has promise of a less stressful and happier life than what I’m experiencing now. So again thanks Paul and Chris.

[@miker5352]

Chris hit it right on the head, the US is so divided with everything its truly pushing people away, I know its pushing me away probably within the next 2 years I would like to go to PH.

[@RetireandGo]

I made the move man. I love the US but it’s not for me anymore I’m enjoying Asia now retired

[@rayray2076]

@@RetireandGo same here, we moved back to the PI. fed up with the leftists and biden

[@americanedokko2782]

@@rayray2076- 💯💯💯

[@GBU61]

It is a broken society that hates men. Any guy over 50 is being blamed for all the problems in America and with the high cost of living a comfortable life, why stay? Asia, Latin America, Africa and even parts of Eastern Europe are much better options.

[@chaos_baron]

Basically Democrats hate Republicans and calls them nazis if they support Trump. Just a fact.

[@georgebridge8867]

Great talk guys. I just watched one of Chris’s videos. And damn. Here’s Paul. Talking to him. 😂.

[@CarefreeChris]

Thanks for watching

[@helenbeltran6420]

I'm from Cebu and a subscriber of Chris. Dumaguete is a smaller area closer to nature and beaches and a peaceful safe place. I wouldn't wonder why foreigners or expats would love to live there. 😉 Btw, I enjoyed your conversation. Very good advice to check the bones in meeting girls. 😄😂♥️🇵🇭

[@humpy936]

Just say no to an Adams apple, bwahaha!

[@bayareatanders]

Make it Cebu! The city is very near an international airport and better hospital facilities.

[@scottar3181]

“It’s kind of fun, I thought, to flail away at it, and fail” I agree Paul. And also with the soft landing in Cebu.

[@nottelling620]

Hi PAUL , another great interview , TY . This gentleman said a few things that struck home for me and maybe others. It is VERY SAD that I , as an AMERICAN , would think to leave a country that IS or WAS possibly, the best in the world.... I would be in the PHILS right now but for various reasons can t and SADLY may never get there. Since I watch various VLOGS dealing with the PHILS , I see that several guys have returned to the USA for different reasons but are back in the PHILS or will be returning soon. I mention this because I think that ,depending on where in the USA you used to live , the change both economical , political and prejudice , violence etc etc , is MORE visible. I have rambled to much here . TY GOD BLESS CIAO

[@l.rongardner2150]

America may be the best country to make money, but for men without millions of dollars to burn, it's not the best country for "the good life." I've got a multi-millionaire bud with four mistresses, each of whom he pays $600 - $700 a pop. But for those of us who aren't rich, we need to go overseas to enjoy that kind of "Hugh Hefner" lifestyle.

[@craigsmith2755]

@@l.rongardner2150 The best country with the worst healthcare.

[@SuccessSynergy404]

Great Video!

[@gina_borrman]

Hi Paul! Finally subscribed to your channel , after watching a few of your videos. Got interested to the subjects or topics you featured. Learning and knowing how men come over to the Philippines, and shared their stories, experiences and not knowing what life would be ahead of their journeys. And for sure, I’ll check Carefree Chris channel as well. Nice watching/listening to your video here. You made me laugh out loud when you say” you might land on the same sex” person🤣🤣🤣! That’s a good one 👍 Watching here in Jacksonville Florida USA🇵🇭🇺🇸

[@ricksdestinationcebu]

We plan on traveling the entire Visayas before we settle,,good perspective..

[@bemcorrales5358]

Welcome to the Philippines 🇵🇭 ♥️ I hope and pray you guys will have an awesome life here and find happiness and contentment in my country 😊 GOD BLESS 🙌 🙏🍀🩷🤗

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you so much. I’m so honored to be here

[@151mcx]

I find it interesting... that he says you'll need between 2~3K to live (closer to the 3K side)...then he will follow it up that the cost of living is "Nothing" compared to the states. Hmmm, I don't know, I can live in the states...own home and new car cashed out. Own an RV to go traveling up the coast with every year for well under 2K a month. Matter of fact, I can live in the USA pretty darn comfortable for under 1500 a month and still manage to put away a few bucks into high yield savings. So... If I gotta go fly half way around the world to spend close to 3K a month. Double what I budget in the USA, why bother? To be honest, the Phillipines wouldn't be my first choice to live, and the #1 attraction was that I kept hearing you can do it CHEAP, and still live a good, safe, healthy lifestyle. 3K? Nope.... For a vacation maybe. To me, it seems like the cost is going up and up... Or they see the white man coming and everyone just see's $$$$$. .... Let the party happen. I'm not into that. I just renewed my visa, and never have been to the philippines, I've traveled around Korea, and UK. So, it's not first time out of the states. I plan to go to Malayasia, then I am going to go to thailand and the philippines. See how I feel about it all next year for the summer months. Spend at least a month in each place. I'll probably be way over my budget, but.. I'll be seeing pretty good chunk of SE Asia. If I like a particular place, I'd have some wiggle room, to spend a month more there. If I don't seem to like any of it, I'll be booking trips to Singapore and Cambodia. But living half my life in Hawaii, I already know the deal. Over half my life have been with asian woman. Started off with a Thai/Chinese woman, then a Chinese Woman I spent over 10 years with. One day I'd like to visit China... The idea of moving to another country to live forever is really intriguing to me. However, my budget for me right now is 1500 a month. Maybe later when I get my SSI, and cash out 401K's and retirement I'll have a different view. I figure, if I sell it all I'll have well over 1 mil in savings. I suppose then, I could afford to live pretty much anywhere. But, that's another 7 years down the road.

[@martinsmith6971]

I don’t know about Cebu but I did like Dumaguete. I intend to return to the Philippines this winter and will spend a month in Dumaguete plus a few weeks in Manila. I enjoyed the people in Dumaguete as I walked with my lady friend meeting people I would love to meet you at some point since I like your videos Marty

[@stevenphillips3466]

I want to go to the PI for sure ...but I hate the thought of leaving my quads , Classic truck, Motorcycles. Firearms , Friends ..... but the adventure of the Philippines is calling

[@Bill-hy6qc]

Never think of a day as a failure. Just a learning experience. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. My saying that I live by; If I wake, it's going to be a great day and everything else is trivial. Thanks again Paul for a great video. Stay safe and keep enjoying life

[@Matthew-gz4oh]

Great interview, and love Chris's channel. I wonder which dating site has the group chat. Cool idea,

[@Michael_Lane_Fishing]

Cebu and surrounds are a winner for me

[@CarefreeChris]

I’m a fan of Cebu City. Back here now for the next couple of months and happy to be here. Just ready for something a little different

[@wrafl]

Good interview Paul, I stumbled on hus channel and followed him. I enjoyed the video hes ptoducing because he appears not to be holding a camera abd I thought hes using a drone in front of hin when he video himself.

[@eddie9076]

Agree completely guys. Also, I feel that the Philippines value older people more than they do in the US. The respect the Filipinos have for senior citizens is beyond compare. The culture just dictates it I guess. Even when falling in line, they have a dedicated line for senior citizens. In fact for older Filipinos they get a senior citizens discount for travel, lodging and in restaurants. Even in the airport they have a senior citizen line dedicated for gandma (lola) and grandpa (lolo). Respect !

[@mariolibertad9972]

Agree, I was directed to a special line in customs in Manila airport

[@MrBurns-j7g]

@@mariolibertad9972 which one , the line that girls pick the next victim from ? Did you get your 4M card

[@RetireandGo]

I noticed a real compassion and respect for the elderly in the Philippines It was nice to see Great people :-)

[@mariolibertad9972]

@@MrBurns-j7g Si, verdad. Que culero

[@anneb3170]

There’s lots of elders in Philippines living alone even if they have children because I’ve seen. it on charity blogers

[@JohnnyLawrence293]

chris seems like a nice guy, but acts like he's some expert after living in a bubble area for 10 months and snagging the first girl he basically dated there. 3k needed for a monthly budget?? lmao. maybe when you eat in ayala mall 3 times a day with your GF

[@mikesimpson9997]

I subscribed to him on you tube. See a fresh view point from my regular vloggers I follow .

[@kevink1214]

I agree that IT park could be good for a lot of guys. Cebu IT park is really an island so to speak. It is like being in another city in the west that has everything a foreigner should need. Once you leave IT park area, it is like any other city in the Philippines, and you will get more acclimated to Phil life.

[@margaretkinkele1011]

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[@garyzies3486]

IT Park is getting very expensive with so many westerners flooding in. Paying 150 pesos ($3) for a simple cup of coffee was unthinkable just 3 years ago. Rents at IT Park have gone up by 30% since last year and there's no end in sight.

[@kevink1214]

@@garyzies3486 I agree, it is not an inexpensive place to live at all

[@garyzies3486]

@@kevink1214 The more this place is promoted, the less attractive it becomes 🤣

[@kevink1214]

@@garyzies3486 I understand what you mean

[@MikeHoncho884]

I joined Chris’s channel when he first got here and started vlogging. He looked a lot more like Bruce Willis back then than he does now. Lol He’s a genuine guy you can tell and he got a cutie because he’s a genuine guy. He scored big I wish you guys the best of luck. Hopefully I’ll be joining you there at some point I have to finish my career in the next two years. Get my pension started and I’ll be over there or in Thailand or both shortly after I retire. Before I sat down roots, I’m going to Malaysia, Indonesia, Vietnam, Cambodia, Laos, Thailand, in the Philippines. I’ll start out Hua Hin Thailand and a little bit of Bangkok I don’t think I can stomach the big city too awful much. Definitely have to check out Cebu. Great video guys two of my favorite channels!

[@mypov4343]

Philippine monthly rental + round trip ticket to Philippines and back is equivalent to monthly rental here in Southern California. I keep thinking about that....

[@craigsmith2755]

Fixed and variable costs will be cheaper the longer you stay. For example, stay one month and pay $1200 air fare ($1200 per month), Stay one year ($100 per month).

[@MontyCrew-h5s]

Awesome

[@DaveT-Suise]

Hi Paul, this is a great real talk with a very cool and so articulate guy like Chris. He is not only a smooth talker but he also nailed all of your questions. I don’t know about you Paul, but I’m learning a lot from Chris! 😅😅😅. Anyway, my future plans probably seven years down the road, will be heading there in Manila or province as well. As a wise man, I shouldn’t be feeling guilty or awkward for leaving the U.S. and live there. I would do what is best for me . Have a good day guys!!! 👍👍👍🙌

[@joshyddog2054]

I met my fiance online then met her year later! Haven't looked back. next year be my third time in the Philippines and i love it so much. Im only 32, so wont be able live there until my 50s if im lucky. My lady live in area i dont see much anyone else like expats and i love it! People are so friendly. You just got be smart what you do and how you plan. Use common sense

[@saulgoodman7221]

Woooo Good evening Paul !

[@edgarlozano5022]

I agree with you guys, right now here in the U.S. there is a feeling of hate every where you go and is very uncomfortable feeling, it was very different 30 years ago 🇵🇭🇺🇸

[@MrBurns-j7g]

all you guys have to get a little tougher .

[@wildbill7081]

All depends what part of the US and if you are in a big city........There are still many areas that have not gone to S***

[@Mjolnher9]

Welcome to getting old. Nowhere is the same as it was 30 years ago.

[@douglasscovil3447]

the politicians and the mainstream media in America have done a great job of getting everyone to hate each other, and it is likely their only "achievement." right now i would not want to live in a large city in the U.S.

[@sarahrizon7059]

It’s depend if you are in the city it’s more hustler, you down south or north province people are more preserve.

[@GlenDoer-gq1rs]

Best think is to get her ID Address Check it out to see if ID is genuine,,So when they scam you have details

[@elliottrubenstein1746]

Great talk.

[@just_facts9713]

From a guy from the US, that’s my take on the visual..

[@mattsnider5904]

Scouting trips...sage advice! Low risk and you dont have to sell everything until you are confident the Philippines are where you want to be.

[@taterrhead]

that building is rediculously beautiful ... like someething you'd see off the coasts of Greece or Italy

[@davidkelly9833]

Great interview! The reality is, in US, at least for right now, all it's problems are unresolvable, all of them!

[@SteveCHICHINSKY]

I have been in Cebu 5 years most guys come here for 2 things girls and cost of living but in reality there are so many places to live in other countries with far better infrastructure. that are sanitary and safe . My filipino wife & I are moving to Puerto Vallarta Mexico for its great culture, spectacular beaches , friendly locals, great dining and 2.5 hrs by airplane to the US.

[@deeferguson9272]

Very interesting !!!! You should make some videos about life in Puerto Vallarta - I’d love to watch. Best Wishes to you both !!! Mabuhay !!!!

[@nzsl368]

*that restaurant is so beautiful* just asking, what's the name of the resto?

[@jaymarquis1913]

I’ve know Chris for a little over two years and he is such great genuine kind hearted guy great interview guys 👍🏼

[@CarefreeChris]

Thanks Brother. Hope you’re great there. Look me up when you get out here

[@hamishmacphersom7807]

You're looking so well mr paul 😊

[@biff9999]

I find it interesting that so many older men are looking to bail out of the U.S. now. Just to be clear, I'm also in that cohort, but I think that my motivations are different from what I see in the comments. The U.S. is my home, it's where I was born, and I will always love it no matter what. I'm a permanent resident visa holder in another nation but it's still my home country. Comments here on this channel describe all this constant strife, but I just don't see it, frankly. There is a small percentage of people on the left who are very loud, very vocal, who insist that everyone needs to go along with this absurd make-believe world they have fashioned for themselves where a man can have surgery and hormones and literally become a "woman" and it's a world where almost everyone has been treated badly, either currently or historically, and now deserves to be compensated mightily in some way for that. They insist that everyone needs to join them in this ridiculous theatre of national self-flagellation. There is a slightly larger, but still small percentage overall of very loud, belligerent people on the right that who wrap themselves in the flag and hold a bible above their head, while angrily espousing violence and hatred towards other Americans, because those "other people" are not real Americans, and America is being destroyed by everyone except them. These phony patriots and phony Christians also have an alarming appetite for lies and completely unhinged conspiracy theories. The people not in these two groups, the big middle, pretty much just want the people in these two extreme camps to shut up and let them live their lives. The perception that the whole United States is in some constant state of mayhem and imminent destruction is a false narrative. You want to go to another country to live, to retire, to do something different? You should do that. Get on the plane tomorrow. It's a blast, I've lived in 4 different countries, it's a great experience, and if you choose well, you can get the same (or even better) quality of life that you have in the States, but for 30%, 40%, even 50% less than what you pay in the U.S. It will change your life for the better. All I'm saying is that it is not wise to base your decision to leave on the premise that America will soon have a civil war, or, is in danger of collapse soon.

[@HessianAssociator]

civil War is not likely because most people are cowards. they will allow this nation to continue to degrade. are actually slaves taxation greed. Inflation has destroyed the economic future and well-being. murder, rape and theft is everywhere and continue to get worse.. freedom is constantly at risk. don’t care about anyone they treat you very rude and there is no safety net here. This nation has rejected a moral culture of decency. apathy is everywhere people don’t care about what others are going through. If you live here in America and you don’t experience this, then I would say you’re blind. people don’t go to church and they don’t put the values of morals first in their lives. America is on the decline. there is a lot of Islamic influence in this country right now we’ve got Palestinians in Congress. Bad people. look at what the universities fostering teaching hate and antisemitism about Israel.

[@RodneyJames-t2s]

I agree completely and most of this men are looking to date girls 20-30 younger than them which they can’t do in the USA.

[@TWCH]

He seems like a nice guy. But I'm clicking off now that you got to the "hate culture" in the US.. I spend 2 to 4 months a year in the US. The kind of division he is talking about is online mostly. In real life, and I spend most of the my US time in NYC, people are friendly and doing pretty good. So I'm avoiding this argumentative perspective I see mostly in online conversations. People get caught in their online bubbles and are constantly outraged by opposite online bubbles. It is not what I experience in the real world.

[@ottowokeninger9617]

They do exaggerate it or mislead. Half of it comes from the fantasy media, as to make it seem everywhere and affecting everyone. Division is normal (natural) in a place where different distinct peoples are forced together. It never really works. That's the way of the world, has been for ages. It's hard to say more on here with all the censorship about these topics.

[@robertdavis7312]

Yes there is a great divide in the US that is why I watch BILL OREILLY, he is 73 and has most of the same ideals that we all grew up with. It is no secret who is causing all of the presumed chaos in the US, personally I do not listen to all the noise and rarely watch the news.

[@chachi5975]

​@@robertdavis7312lol😂, people like Bill O'Reilly are fanning the flames! If you only watch one source, you are the definition of living in a bubble. Get away from the negativity!

[@robertdavis7312]

I watch Oreilly he is an Independent and because he is my age. But I also watch Newsmax and Megyn Kelley periodically. Notice I do not watch NBC< MSNBC< CNN or CBS, I used to watch FOX NEWS until the 2020 election was stolen. Now days I rarely even discuss politics because it is a waste of time.

[@chachi5975]

@@robertdavis7312 it wasn't stolen, you're just a loser 😭🤣

[@AlvinUselton]

Thumbs up 👍

[@bradrose9407]

DONT GIVE UP YOUR HOME

[@peteranderson217]

What is an air B&B? It was mentioned several times but did not explain what it is.. Cebu or Dumaguete THAT is the question (Shakespeare may agree).

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

It is an app to find short term rentals

[@leroyybrown]

I was a bit underwhelmed with Cebu IT park. Yes it’s convenient and renting a condo is easy and you got a mall but it lacks any excitement. The old town is OK down by Colon St and Magellan’s Cross but again nothing exciting. I found the laid back vibe on Panglao to be something a bit more special. Easy to ride a scooter around with picture postcard beaches. If I was to stay in PH longer term then Panglao would be my 1st option and it’s affordable. Also it’s got an airport with direct flights daily to Manila. Probably don’t want to live too far from an airport when you’re new in town.

[@bayareatanders]

Panglao is ok but in my opinion Moalboal, Bantayan and Malapascua can offer more. Bohol is a conservative province. Notice they won’t allow SM, Robinson or Ayala malls. But maybe not for long.

[@garyzies3486]

Rents at IT Park are going up very quick since so many foreigners have flooded into that area. There isn't much to do except for sitting at a coffeehouse and overpaying for pastries and coffee. The "Social" nightspot has become a place for foreigners who are in competition for gold-diggers, scammers and ladyboys. Colon St and Magellan's Cross is overrun by beggars, thieves and ugly prostitutes....what more is there to say?

[@leroyybrown]

@@bayareatanders I really liked the SM Aura Premier in BGC. Everything you needed under one roof with great restaurants on the roof. Sophisticated design was impressive and prices OK.

[@globalismoblackman]

I can imagine Panglao is now expensive as it was dirt cheap when I visited from the UK in 2010.

[@garyzies3486]

@@globalismoblackman You bet! It's becoming a 'tourist trap' and prices of everything is skyrocketing.

[@ChristopherKnN]

My plan is to live in the Duma area and do weekends in Cebu City/Davao. Date and have fun until I find something serious. The "don't poop where you sleep" plan.