Explaining Your Saturn Placement | Saturn in the 4th House

[@FARBOAA]

I have Saturn in my 4th house, and wow you really just blew my mind. I watched your video like 3 or 4 times. I’ve been planning to leave my family behind, and go on with my life. It’s just that I feel so guilty for wanting to get away of my toxic family. Is that normal? Although, these people have hurt me deeply. And it’s so true about what you said about us suppressing our emotions. I think that’s why intimacy is so foreign to me. I don’t like that I struggle with that. It’s challenging. This placement is beyond hard. I use to say I didn’t want kids for years, but I just realized I don’t want kids because I don’t want to fuck up. Which is why I must heal myself before I settle down with children.

[@Auro77]

Healing and releasing those old patterns are very important with Saturn in Aquarius 4th house, I carry similar mindset of having family only once I'm healed so that my kids in future don't have to go through what I went through and possibly the fact I went through that kind of toxic childhood is because my parents did but they never consider any other possibility. In their view, that is how families are (toxic to each other). I used to worry about settling down because in my community girls are married before age 24 but now since I know about this pattern I'm pretty grateful that I didn't. Healing first !

[@TrueBrilliance]

Saturn in the 4th 9:19

[@arielletricarico3950]

Connections I’ve seen with my Saturn in the 4th house -emotional neglect during childhood -very chaotic childhood -very strong ancestral trauma and generational “curses” -struggles with racial identity and discrimination -mother is a Capricorn -my moon is in Taurus (earth sign, like Capricorn) -I have Saturn in Aquarius and my father is an Aquarius and was also very strict -my first brief return to Saturn this year was very volatile & I defined hit rock bottom (I actually filed for divorce but have postponed it)

[@LiztheAlchemist]

I also have Saturn in the fourth house but under Aries. Pretty much everything you mentioned I'm struggling with and to top it off I'm currently on my 23rd profection year. Mom is also a capricorn and I am a rising capricorn with my brother being a capricorn sun mercury and venus. Do you find yourself having similar placements with any other family members? I've heard some theories about it being connected to past lives

[@Ava.Luna.Bellatrix]

Same, everything you said except Father is Capricorn, but parents were very much playing gender reversal roles.

[@Freenix9]

Holy cow this is spot on, literally all of these patterns apply to me as well just with different placements (like my Saturn is in Aries and my father is an Aries; I have a Virgo moon).

[@cinziakaze7071]

Video starts at 9:24 if you already know about Saturn and want to know about the 4th house 🏡

[@keyunadeshay5259]

“Try expressing your emotions” makes my heart sink a little. It’s true I’d rather separate myself all together and deal with my thoughts and feelings alone. Still healing from childhood wounds.

[@agentsmith5653]

Saturn in the 4th, just had my Saturn return and my mother needed me to nurse her back to health after a major unexpected spinal surgery. Tough ride also a toxic / unstructured childhood for sure. I forgive and live & let live ✌🏼

[@wengelkifle880]

Wow, I have this placement too and my mom also had unexpected spinal surgery which made me feel like I had to set aside my plans to move out to take care of her. And I super feel you on the lesson to live and let live. Im learning how to be less attached to my mother’s and family’s toxicity as if Im gonna save them from themselves. I cant and I gotta let them be so I can really have the room to live my life

[@dianac949]

spent my childhood worried about my parents problems and was always my mother’s shoulder to cry on . now as an adult ive learned what my wants and needs are and i express my individuality and my mom looks down on it . i get angry when my parents tell me to grow up or act my age because they haven’t realized that as child i was never acting my age i was a mini adult with anxiety worrying about their issues . my saturn return is in aquarius and is coming up in December, i’ve actually been looking forward to it ! also i’m a taurus sun, scorpio moon and rising, so i’m no stranger to hardships 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lenkat.4620]

I feel this💗

[@ksworld9116]

I have been going through a karmic cycle of feeling unwanted and not safe in a home space. My household growing up absolutely harbored a lot of emotional tension. As I grow older, I find myself having a hard time creating my own version of “home”, as I have been trying to cultivate it physically within my space. I am finding myself being so aware of how my mind used to correlate the present with moments from the last, and over the last 3-4 months, I have been mothering myself in creating a nurturing space that honors my emotional needs. It’s a hard placement to have, it hurts more than I can explain but if you know you know! It’s calming to hear that this means I will become a master of this house because I have always wanted more than anything to have a dynamic and healthy family with many many children.

[@Tamara-dv7vo]

11:04 I've heard others mention that with this placement, mother is tough and strict, harsh etc. That can be true but it's nice to hear you say that instead of that, maybe the child watches mom go through a lot of hardship. My mom was nurturing, non-harsh but I saw her go through so much - actually much of the same things that I ended up going through too.

[@nikkifroese5012]

This is honestly crazy. Mom always in and out, struggling with addiciton. I was raised by my dad extremely strict. Moved out at 15 and never looked back. It is really eye opening to watch a video like this and feel comforted through the ways in which we can all heal this energy. My heart goes out to anyone with Saturn in the 4th!

[@jasminecarr88]

I have this placement and everything you said was true. My Saturn return has been about relearning healthy emotional boundaries, reevaluating the responsibility of parenthood, and creating a foundation for my future family to thrive both materially and spiritually. This whole video connected a few major dots for me. Thank you.

[@stell-i]

Same here!

[@malteserb1875]

Sameee

[@stephaniepaints]

Definitely didn't have emotional nurturing growing up, which I am in the process of grieving for. I have this in Sagittarius. It's been a hard journey but I can see where I've made incremental improvements in self-parenting and loving myself since the beginning of my Saturn return. I still am emotional about it and need to purge those tears from time to time, and it feels unfair, but since I learned how painful it could be, I work hard to make sure it doesn't happen to other people in my life. My partner has this placement too and he had absent parents. Nobody deserves to be neglected as a child or made to stuff their emotions down for the comfort of a parent. Saturn in the 4th, who knew that was going to be a major theme for me...

[@janaydanielle292]

Saturn dominant with Saturn in Aries in 4H… BOTH parents are Aries and they have the same saturn sign. 🥲 The amount of things I endured but hid my emotional struggles from my very best friends and peers is insane. Now, in my 20s I just have to cry and mourn for that little girl. Great video!! 💛

[@CosmicGrind41jXq]

OMG me too but just my mom. She dominated my dad and the whole family. I have found myself having to face my emotional pain alone. As I grow I'm turning into a cancer like person because I'm so loving and mothering 🥰

[@sf2892]

I have this placement. My mother was extremely strict when I was growing up & I was happy when I left.

[@liveyourlife495]

The best part is when you said we can start a "support group".. 😅 We really need one. Lol. I have Saturn in Scorpio in the fourth house. My mother is also a Scorpio... Let's just say it wasnt easy.. Luckily I have so much Jupiter in my charts norhing kills my spirit❤💚💜💙. Love your intuition..

[@TrueBrilliance]

Saturn in Scorpio is a whole other beast on its own. I will do a video on Saturn through all the signs.

[@liveyourlife495]

@@TrueBrilliance You hit the nail on the head...🙏Thank you so very much.

[@dominique4432]

@@TrueBrilliance I'm excited for this cause I'm not sure I understand Saturn in my sign or house. I'm like what do I do with this planet or what should I be doing for it😂

[@PaulaRuhl]

i've got saturn on my mom's sign on the 4th too, I've seen some stuff(?

[@marasysophie]

the app the pattern totally feels like a support group based on astrology 😉 found some very similar people there

[@SEMAJHCIR]

SMH on how accurate you were describing my life in the 4th house,, I need someone to talk to to express my emotions and let go some past things, only thing is I don’t trust no one, I’ve been stuck at this point for years

[@correioanacabral]

Wonderful video, TB, thank you so much

[@meganhopkins9788]

Yup. All resonates, I don’t know about getting pregnant I just simply dont want kids. Along with having 3 other planets in my 4th house toxic is putting it nicely. Especially with mars being there. I recently moved far from my family and it felt like it took me forever to do it. Anyone else feel like they can’t get away from their family? Even after moving out? I had to go to a shaman last summer to get cleansing from my mother in particular off of me. Best thing I could have done for myself

[@clarissecatelynn946]

Whats katana?

[@meganhopkins9788]

Clarisse Catelynn sorry! It suppose to say cleansing lol

[@shaystuh]

Wow I think I may need to get that type of cleansing. What did the shaman do?

[@Aidhab2222]

I feel you i got mars in the same house and moon too. I used to not want children but it was actually a true desire waaay deep down to have. Im slowly accepting the fact that i MIGHT. Cos obviously the trauma is the reason i dont want it. They say our children are going to trigger our deepest desire nd shaddows so it gotta be worked out before getting them. Just my opinion 😊

[@meganhopkins9788]

Aida Habte the trauma isn’t why I don’t want kids. I just don’t like them, I find them to be an inconvenience. I’m a Sagittarius moon I’m not tying to be tied down to that 😂

[@angelinnerg7272]

Wow. Spot on. I have had both a too structured and unstructured family dynamic. Very confusing.. I have had a difficult father-daughter relationship growing up too. I have had to learn to nurture my own emotional needs. I do find that I need to ground my emotional nature a lot because I could have occasional lash outs if I don’t. And just last year I was working with a energy healer and we did ALOT of work on my sacral chakra. He told me that I carry a lot of generational family traumas in my womb so that part where you mentioned that blew my mind. Thank you so much for sharing. Very liberating!

[@meaghansoria3336]

This resonates 💯% wow. I have Saturn, Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn 4th house. Just finishing my Saturn return, its been a wild ride.

[@LyssieLysse]

Same here! These last 3 years drove me mad, but I’m glad this return is over. I learned a lot about myself, allowed myself to feel my emotions, and figured out where all this toxicity came from in my family. I don’t wish this placement on the weak because it brings out everything from the past and if you think you forgot about something, it shows up again too.

[@KingGuyton]

I just finished my Saturn return as well. I get it’s all about our own individual journey but this return isn’t for the faint of heart.

[@reub771]

ahh I just started my saturn return in pisces in the 4th house so I want to share my thoughts so far even though its only really been a few days lol. It's sooo true what you said about getting yourself into bad situations as a consequence of having ignored your gut feelings/intuition. I gaslight myself repeatedly because I was always gaslit by my family. I never felt like anyone was on my side. In my most formative years, my dad was absent emotionally/mentally/spiritually and even physically as he was battling addiction, made himself homeless temporarily, went to jail, went to rehab, was in and out of the hospital etc.... and I had to watch my mother try and keep everything together for us and deal with her own pain while trying to raise us. It blows my mind looking back and thinking about everything I had to deal with with no one to comfort me, check in with me, or give me love and attention. To my mother, providing for me materially should have been enough and god forbid I expressed any malcontent. I remember always feeling like such a burden. There was never, ever comfort for my tears. I always felt like the adults in my lives were my enemies. I was always met with restriction and disapproval. All of this I have internalized and have built a life based upon self abandonment and self hatred/betrayal. I have already been on a healing journey for a few years now, but I can feel this intensity doubling down as more is being unearthed. I crave stability, I crave self-trust and self love, I crave a stable home to support my future as I have never been able to give these things to my self previously. I crave forgiveness- for myself and to forgive my family. I am not a burden.

[@queenvalqueenval]

This was ON POINT ! I have saturn in 4th house in Sagittarius and conjunct with Uranus. I am having some hard time to figure out what I am suppose to understand from this conjunction. Definetely feels better in my own place than my parents, Saturn return was so so so hard but got through - what stands out the most for me is the feeling that I am dealing with something that’s « not even about me » but i am living through a generational curse or something. Weird! Nice video!

[@finbarmchugh3421]

I have a very similar placement with a lot of trauma being passed through the generations. Since my Saturn return I’ve expanded so much, using my psychic abilities to read energy and be of service to others (and my family) helping clear the generational pain - it’s been some tough work but I’ve learned so much. A very grounding aspect now that I’ve gone through it. Feeling so much more secure and a maturity in understanding how these patterns repeat until we become conscious and learn to choose differently. It’s all so fascinating but damn it’s been a roller coaster… love how much more balanced my life is now 😅🙏 and I hope yours is too these days 🌅 xx

[@elise8561]

Heavy restrictions on starting my own family. Finding a healthy mate. I'm 35 now and I am still working at this

[@chelciedaniel6963]

Saturn in the 4th house Aquarius and this was on point. I’m 28 now and emotionally I’ve been going through hell. 😩😩😩 my mom was very avoidant

[@Oracledeborah]

You completely nailed this. Even if i found this information out years ago, I would have denied it. So, it’s best to get it now. I’ve already gone through years of heartbreak. Now, I am facing my buried emotions and healing all this past karma, some, as you say, is not even mine. Thank you.

[@Jay-lo8bt]

This is spot on, I've had issues with toxic family environment and emotional abuse. Makes so much sense... thanks for sharing this 🙏

[@codeman7348]

Relating to the video and these comments. Saturn is in my 4th house of Pisces, trining my moon in Cancer. Harsh, emotionally unavailable mother. Didn’t have a father until she remarried when I was around 10 years old. Never felt safe at home because of the maternal abuse, threats, and violence. It was ridiculous to experience as a kid. My classmates always told me I seemed emotionally unavailable. When I left as an adult, I moved in with my boyfriend at the time and was miserable there. I wanted to leave so badly and start our own life independent of family. Stuck it out for six years and eventually I gave up because to him, “moving” was getting the house across the street from his parents. It seems everywhere I go, there’s constant fighting. Angry drunk roommates, abusive people. Or there’s other hostilities like mold and pest infestations. I felt depleted for so long. Staying inside the home drains my energy. It’s a blackhole I try to escape. I can’t honestly say that there’s more dysfunctional toxic people out there than good people, because it only seems like I’m around people at their worst in the home. I would like the fighting and hostility to end. I would like to trade impatient attitudes for patient ones. Well, my return is coming up. I guess I have work to do.

[@allthingskate1420]

I was lead me to your to channel yesterday and I haven’t stopped watching your videos since! Girl you are dropping JEWELS! I will definitely be reaching out to you for a natal chart reading! Yaaaaaaas Queen! ❤️❤️♋️☀️♈️🌙

[@Lovingly_Lenise]

9:23 4th house

[@KJ-oe7cf]

Iam MsJames thank you! Lol i was like omg when is she going to talk about the video title lol

[@Feathered_Moon]

I really relate to your description of this. I'm also Saturn in Cap, which is why I found your channel, I'm glad I did.

[@juliamlnk4960]

I have this placement from the Moon. And I’m one of those who really was raising sooo free, and it was lack of control and discipline.. So, I always late, postpone things, I’ve done a lot of mistakes bc I didn’t have enough understanding what’s good and bad, parents thought I’ll understand everything by myself 😅 And I did, with a painful experience. But my friends always thought I was happy to live as an independent teenager. The result: I feel myself strong and independent, bc I went through a lot by myself. And in the same moment I made so many mistakes bc of doing so much by myself without mature guidance. And I don’t really understand my emotions I guess.. my Virgo Mercury makes me live in the head, but not in the heart..

[@sandrallewellyn2632]

*Guurrl, this. was. so. on. point!!* Thank you. I KNEW a lot(pretty much ALL-ESPECIALLY healing generational "curses") of what you said to be true, but it's affirming to hear it be confirmed in my chart. In addition to being in my first Saturn Return and a 6 personal year(which also deals with home, family, nurture, etc.) I also feel like #4 & Virgo-like energy is me all around. I'm a 4 life path number born on Aug 22, which also makes me a Leo/Virgo cuspy(even my last name Llewellyn means lion-like lol), with rising AND moon sign in Virgo, and my Venus and south node in Leo. It's tough, it's been tough, I never felt like I had a place to rest and be loved and nurtured-just always seen as a problem, always being moved around, feeling distant from my own family, kind of absentee father and love/strife with my mother(who was an Aquarius) who suddenly passed a week after my 19th birthday in 2009. Creating a home for myself and connection with my family allowing my self to emote and experience intimacy and healing from childhood & adulthood sexual trauma, all of it, has been up for review these past few years, in away that I can longer avoid. Somehow it feels reassuring that it's for sure a part of my journey in this incarnation!

[@osiriswills6749]

Love these videos by the way. Patiently waiting for Saturn in the 10th House 😁

[@hettijayne]

Saturn in my 4th house, my Saturn return began this year. I turned 30. And my dad passed away in February suddenly. No warning or anything. And as well as heartbreaking this has bought up SO MUCH stress, anxiety with finances and my mum. My dad had no will and we are trying to work out how my mum will be okay financially. This has been the hardest year of my life.

[@Thechosenone92]

I’m glad I clicked on this video, it truly resonates & made me cry. I used to keep my emotions bottled up as a child living in dysfunction. I lived with my aunt (my dad’s sister) My mom was in & out of my life & my dad was there but i feel like it wasn’t in ways that I needed him to be. No one taught me self love or nurtured me so I struggle with that & I see how it effects my relationships with others especially romantic partners. I tend to put others before myself. Leaves me feeling like how do I connect with my inner child & see what she needs. At age 14 my mom got custody of me & my younger sister & she died about 7/8 months later. My dad passed 3 years ago & I just had so many questions that were left unanswered, I just chuck it up to them possibly having their own trauma & my dad thinking that he was doing best by letting my aunt have custody of me & my 2 sisters. After he died all of these things started to come up for me, maybe a few years before but I never got to ask. I can say I have been doing so much better with my expressing my emotions. 🥺😢 Thank you for helping me understand! 💜

[@neelim708]

It resonates a lot... grew up with a very strict mother, but as i grew older I understand why she did what she did though. When the father is not around she had to toughen herself and the kids. She did her best.. i basically took care of myself and sometimes my sibling and grew up fast. We didn’t struggle financially but emotionally ,yes .But as i grew older, now in my thirties everything has turnout fine .I wouldn’t raise my kids the same way but i do appreciate her for raising us the way she could . It has made me more understanding of other’s emotions ,very strong and independent emotionally . So , everyone who has saturn in 4th take it as a blessing in disguise , be patient ...as you age, you will be emotionally wiser and empathetic.

[@joannamgodwin3072]

Omg I had to use hypnosis to get in touch with my emorions ! Which was a major life saver!

[@dijaouija]

Saturn in the 4th (Aquarius). Currently have multiple fibroids, one around 6 inches in diameter. I’m 28, childless, and probably will lose my uterus. My mother & grandmother both had hysterectomies. My mom was a very young single mom and very Saturnian/Disciplinary, even though she is sensitive like me and took it easier on me than my sister, I was still traumatized by my upbringing. I have damaged relationships with both my stepfather and my biological father, who were not in the home the majority of my upbringing. Funny thing, I am very afraid and intimidated by women, but also identify as a lesbian. Most of my clients are women, I frequent women oriented spaces a lot. But women enthrall me and scare me more than men ever did. This year, I had to take care of my grandmother and read that if I didn’t, I’d have trouble with my second return around the age of 60. My family all want me to live with them but I’m dying to get away!

[@BitZ948]

I have the same placement. Did you ever able to leave your birth place ?

[@ChapstickChunx]

Loved this. Thank you 💚

[@francescaali8782]

Best explanation ever! Thank you! But LOL @ the support group... we really do! Hi I am Francesca with my Saturn in Leo in the 4th house!! Lol!

[@YasmineHarema]

Great video was great - so informative

[@clariceelizabeth]

I have Saturn in the 4th house along with my Sun Venus and Pluto and Mom died when I was 5 I was raised by my dad wow this blew my mind I did a lot raising of myself and I'm 44 with no kids I could go on but I'm.a stop here

[@KISKA227]

Clarice White oh how I feel you! 💞

[@ambercarroll5421]

Saturn conjunct pluto in scorpio 4th house. My dad died when I was 13. He had Sun, Venus and Jupiter in Scorpio.

[@TheDivineEmpresss]

my daughter has Saturn in the 4th house. She is 3 right now and Idk how to handle this. Her 4th house is also ruled by Sagittarius but more like capricorn because its @ 38 degrees so you could really say its in Capricorn. Wooh. This is a lot.

[@Josiah-X]

wOw, True Brilliance, this explanation really described my ex-girlfriend almost 💯%. She is a ♎️Sun, ♋️Moon, Saturn in the 4th house. I wish I knew this information a year earlier, I coulda tried to be a better help.

[@gratefully_]

Josiah X I have the same placements

[@nmangali107]

I have Sun in Virgo, Capricorn Moon and Saturn in Aquarius in the 4th at 0° degrees (Critical degree)

[@meredithbrady4693]

my boyfriend has this placement and I literally gasped when you talked about all of it! I always thought that his mom was always too hard on him and was overbearing because it reflects with all of his relationships with women throughout his life. he had been in some toxic ass relationships and one where it led to a child being born under terrible circumstances! i always noticed he loves his male friends deeply but whenever it came to women he always seemed to have issues emotionally there. this has messed him up more than he knows but I have noticed considering I am a strong feminine presence in his life, I always would think what the hell did him do dirty to have these issues in this part of his life. ah this video was well explained!

[@meredithbrady4693]

he moved away from his family because he is not super attached to them and hates when they visit, he keeps so much from them. he doesn’t respond to his mother when she reaches out but will talk to his dad, he’s very indifferent to his father but doesn’t have a problem. reallllyyy interesting.

[@kk6787]

that’s me !!

[@rauliuxaa]

I have Pisces saturn in 4th house, and this is true, but it's not true about the kids. I want them, just not right now, when i'm able to provide the home and the things i want to provide so i could actually help and have a family that i myself didn't have. Cancer Sun Sag Moon here. I have Scorp Asc, North node, Pluto and Jupiter in the 1st house tho, so i think these deep placements helped me to analyze and understand my emotions and live thru them, i don't verbalize emotions that much, but you can see when i'm sad or happy, and i find the outlet for sadness or anger if i feel that. I def should listen to my intuition more because i have this 4th house saturn and also all these scorp placements make me reall good at noticing and seeing people who they are, but i simply don't trust that and end up being right about them and either being used or hurt in the process. Not really stuck in the childhood anymore. I know the damage it caused, i learned to accept that and get over that, but my mother to this day is the same person and acts the same way , i'm not angry about her about the past, but i simply won't keep her in my life because she's not the person i want in my life, unless she changes in a healthy way. Her actions to this day keeps me at bay, even tho for different reasons.

[@redbutterfly1115]

My moon is in Capricorn and my Saturn is in my fourth house in the sign of Aries. And yes, I am emotional neglected as a child. Right now, I am seeking help and opening myself up emotionally towards my closest friends. And I try to nurture myself the love and care I need the most. It is truly accurate! I also distanced myself from my mom, but when I am better and emotionally stronger I will come back.☺️ It is also very true whenever I don’t listen to my intuition, I get paid for it. So I am trying to listen to it and I feel at ease doing that. Props to you and thank you for the video. It gave me a clarity to my actions that I am on the right track. ❤️

[@suneelrana8331]

Get good with Saturn and he will show you how to rise above negativity. Shani mantra’s for the win.

[@angelnichelle7194]

Capricorn moon AND Saturn Aries 4H . Definitely felt when you said “they’re strong because they have to be”

[@CosmicGrind41jXq]

OMG me too. It's also my chart ruler. I discovered that I am a loving and caring person, despite my painful, lonely past

[@Aidhab2222]

I wonder what is going to be crazier - the saturn return or the 27past years with this placement... I sure lived with the hardship but when i started working on it frfr a few years back... Goddamn. That shit was not easy. Lol but its going so much better now!!💚

[@halfers83]

What is your Saturn in sign, house, planets and degrees?

[@Aidhab2222]

Halfers 83 1 degrees aries in the 4th H.

[@halfers83]

@@Aidhab2222 Look through and read my comments with my Saturn 29° retrograde (R) in Libra 4th house.

[@reflection8599]

Accurate and informative thank you :)

[@cyndelsol]

Wowww this was so accurate and really enlightening. I have Aquarius, the moon, and Saturn in the fourth house. I definitely grew up in a dysfunctional & broken home, def have dad issues and even mom issues, I don’t have a relationship with my dad and oldest sister, and def don’t have a connection with my step dad either. Also watched my mom go through heartbreak and I felt her pain at such a young age (6-7yrs). Whewww. I def have had to go through womb healing from hormonal imbalances & irregularities, and I’ve had to learn how to heal myself naturally which has lead me to start selling my homemade yoni steam blends to help heal other women too. I haven’t tried to have kids yet, but with my past hormonal irregularities I’ve developed a fear/insecurity about being infertile and having a family of my own is something that’s really important to me. Only time will tell, but until then I’m always going to stay positive! I now have a new understanding of why I’ve faced so many struggles and trauma dealing with my home, childhood, and emotions. It made me tear up when True said we are very strong and resilient people because we’ve always had to be and factssss. I resonated so deeply with this on so many levels. I will become a master of this area of my life and I intend on passing down my wisdom! Thank you for being encouraging True B! 💖💪🏽

[@joecaseymoreno2275]

Spot on, spot on, spot on. Thank you and bless you !

[@Shakiraswayyyy]

Thank you for saying it’s a place to become a Master of that house and not making it sound like it just sucks! I see it as great bc I am mastering that house and every other one that I manifest intentionally ❤️. Healed ❤️

[@KISKA227]

You described my life to a 👌🏻... Sick Mom, passed on at 47. Two failed marriages, one very abusive. No kids. Sicknessess. Taking care of father as well. Cap moon too!. Saturn Pluto and Mars in the 4th. Learned quite a lot for my 35 years. I just want to be happy.

[@MirMirlifeline]

I’m an Aquarius with a Cap moon with Saturn in my 4th house and this helped me a lot

[@SaminSays]

ha! my mom is a cap, dad an aqua. i feel that

[@nashastonie2761]

Omg we’re the same 🤗

[@Sadistically]

I grew up with a mother who has schizophrenia but I do actually get along with her; but I used to have nightmares about my mom being in a white room with a straight jacket on even before she showed symptoms. I don't usually follow my intuition but only because I often can't tell if it's my intuition or trauma speaking! It's difficult. I have had a very difficult family life that has taught me what good relationships look like and I knew exactly what I DIDN'T want to build in my relationship with my partner. But everything negative I go through with my family has improved many other parts of my life, to the point that people are surprised by my emotional maturity, my skills in relationship building, and other things. Another thing is I feel it's my duty to transform my family's situation to one in which we create new relationship dynamics. I often say if I can learn to create peaceful and harmonious relationships in this family, then I can do it in any family. I'm right in the middle of my Saturn return and things are actually becoming much more difficult, but I am so proud of all the changes I have made in my life to try to bring the family together rather than create more disharmony. This is incredibly accurate!

[@RS-ls3vy]

i like ur statement - master of the house... yes have to move away from toxic people

[@cutecalmcozy]

This is sooooo true thanks beautiful 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑

[@LoLTgreene]

I had a very traumatic childhood. I had a single mother and we really struggled financially (I have Pluto in the 2nd as well) of which I was acutely aware. I had to help my mother manage finances and always felt like I was trying to find a way to fix our money shortages. My mom and I are super close though. I've never known a stronger person. We moved a lot and I never had a stable home environment. All I want in life is a nice, cozy home of my own. I've always kind of just known this probably wont happen until my 40s. I'm the type that I'm not going to buy a home until it's the one I've always wanted and the last one I will buy so I'll need to be in a very stable financial situation. Seems like textbook Saturn in 4th after watching this video. Thanks for the insight!

[@sagchipkwe31]

I just turned 41. Nov Saturn 1st house. Things are changing

[@sagchipkwe31]

Virgo 1st

[@charmingdollie]

Yes!!! On point to the core my moon Is in Capricorn ♑️ and forth house as well double whammy not to mention Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn ♑️ too!! Toxic doesn’t cover it more like the devil energy At it’s finest

[@MrAnimelover269]

9:40 is where the video starts

[@minuit6305]

Mars and saturn, 4th house in Sagittarius. My mom was batshit crazy evangelical fanatical Christian. Extremely strict for no reason. Cold and blamed EVERYTHING on Satan and his spawn who was apparently me. I'd be reading a book and she would walk into my room and tell me her angels were telling her i had demons in me. I developed severe ctpsd and religious trauma syndrome and eventually had a 3 strokes in my 20s! Father was useless. I have noticed though that im pretty chill and the whole situation may be burning down and ill sit down and drink some ☕. Im literally that dog in that meme.

[@dassmeisterwerk]

Spot on! Looking this up bc my return is coming up and I have it in the fourth with a cancer mars. Literally everything hit home. The part about nurturing the self hits the hardest since I feel I don’t have a true model for it? But great work! Thanks!

[@skinnyminnieog]

I have Saturn in Aquarius 5H but I find myself resonating with this video and Saturn in the 1st video as well...

[@TheMimyrg]

My boyfriend has this placement and our number one fight is always about how emotionally stunted he is... he is incapable of intimacy and talking about his emotions :( it’s really putting a strain on our relationship and I don’t know what to do.

[@elise8561]

Émilie Rochon-Gruselle Im sorry for your situation. I can tell you for me as a Scorpio Saturn in the 4th house I had to stuff my emotions as a child and since I practiced this throughout my entire life due to a very toxic family, I do not allow myself to be emotional especially in intimate relationships... it's fear of betrayal. Be a safe place for him and he will open very little at a time

[@TheMimyrg]

@@elise8561 thanks for the advice :) the issue though is I don't know how patient I can be... if this takes years, you know? I feel like I am so much more emotionally in tune with myself that it would take for ever for him to get to the same level.

[@AnonyMous-do5vl]

i absolutely hate this placement, my parents both have Scorpio moons and let me tell you it aint easy! i have been working on expressing my emotions but its like talking to a brick wall with them. Thank you for the video though its very helpful especially during my saturn return!

[@guardian7keys]

Thumbs up I have Saturn retrograde in 4th house. Significant delays in all areas of my life. I am not sure if Saturn is telling me to work harder or take a step back and just enjoy the ride?

[@NieoviAsh]

This all really resonated with me.

[@MissBanks777]

You should make a Chiron series too... I have Chiron in cancer in the 4th house

[@TrueBrilliance]

Yea it will be similar to this but instead of a blockage it will be a deep wound

[@MissBanks777]

True Brilliance a deep wound huh but can my home situation ever be normal again? If not then it is a blockage

[@TrueBrilliance]

Rebecca Philantrope yes I healed my Chiron. It’s whatever you believe. If you believe it’s a blockage then that’s exactly what it is!

[@AngiePleasee]

This was on point...all of the women in my family miscarried their first child. My mom, sister, and me. My family isn’t necessarily toxic but I’m like the black sheep. They’re very judgemental. I haven’t lived home since leaving for college 10 years ago. I need a lot of space all the time.

[@Nicole-ld6ev]

What do you think about the link between astrology and the law of attraction?

[@independenthoney1]

Very interesting question!!!

[@ambercarroll5421]

Saturn conjunct pluto in scorpio 4th house. My dad died when I was 13. He had Sun, Venus and Jupiter in Scorpio.

[@023poseidon2]

“So Saturn in the 4th house is very similar to having Moon in Capricorn.” Well damn. Double whammy. It was doomed from the beginning. 😂😂 I’d love any tips for a Saturn 4th and Moon in Capricorn you have for me (I’m Libra Sun and Scorpio ASC).

[@Nickaelovable01]

Same here. Taurus Sun, Cap Moon, Scorpio asc

[@BrownEdenAstro13]

Thanks for this, I have always wondered, why me?

[@Innerancestralwhispers]

I have gemini in saturn 4th house. What does that mean exactly i cant find any videos explaining this

[@chinawhitesworld7592]

Cancer Saturn in the 4th house horror story… my dad overdosed when I was 10, and before that was in and out of jail my whole life yet I was extremely close with him. Mom is extremely emotionally immature which lead to emotional and verbal abuse my whole life and it just got even worse after my dad died lol it truly takes gods work to be a cancer Saturn or 4th house Saturn 😭

[@ICU306]

I have Saturn in Taurus in the 4th house and a Capricorn moon and Capricorn rising 😭😭😭

[@TaylorKingLive]

So I’m a cancer moon and I have this placement. I am an over emotional version of what you said

[@a_thing666]

I have this too, I have a both moon and Saturn in cancer 4H it's hard as hell

[@dominique4432]

My sister has Saturn in the 4th in Aquarius, I have Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th. I consider my mom toxic. Very controlling. Single mother of 4, an Aries. My mom was never really a safe space for communication and self expression. It was what I say goes. Back talk me and your head can end up in the wall, look at me wrong your head can end up in a wall. Me and my sister both have our Moons in the 8th house. I think my mom is a Scorpio Moon. I have no idea what my younger siblings placements are cause I can't find the time they were born. I'm a Mars/Mercury in Scorpio so imma look at you wrong and have something slick to say.

[@itxelramirez4154]

Lmao I always say I didn’t fully develop emotionally

[@MG-gd5qv]

Saturn in the 4th, Leo rising, Virgo Sun, Capricorn moon. Mom is Capricorn rising Pisces sun gem sun, step dad is Capricorn. And I have PCOS humm

[@PixelGod240]

Oh I like ur hair now!

[@joannabarcikowska6409]

Saturn and Pluto conjuction 4th house Libra. What do you say? Turned 40 this month.

[@theashleighasthetic]

Not me with Saturn 4H Pisces and Capricorn Moon 2H 🥴 I’m going through the repatriating part now. I am having to create structure where I need it. Not everywhere so I’m finding the balances

[@Infjjenny]

Spot on!

[@kezmenflowers8691]

I have Saturn in the 4th and I do have a rough time with my family

[@crystlehaisley]

Cap sun moon and mercury.... Saturn in the 4th house in Libra

[@stell-i]

Wow very accurate!

[@ljph_1995]

Capricorn moon Saturn in the fourth Cancer Lilith Cancer and Capricorn not present (interception) WTH?? Help me out 😊

[@2babyangel5309]

I have a hard time with connecting with woman my age or younger. I get along well with older women or mature women who carry masculine or Saturnian vibes. Older women (50+) do take me under their wing a lot but prob cause o have moon conjunct Jupiter in 12H. I think my home life was pretty balanced but 4H Saturn is playing out for me where I have to create structure within my household (moved a lot with an aqua 4H)

[@Sterrenlichtje]

Saturn with Mars in the 4th of Virgo......

[@insertnamehere3971]

i also have neptune in the 1st (scorpio moon too) so i am very sensitive. sometimes i don't really feel strong for this reason. i honestly feel like i'm barely holding on and i'm only 20 :/ but i guess i'll try i have jupiter in the 4th too (they're conjunct) to so idk i wouldn't say that i had a lack of emotional nurturing? i was actually rather privileged in some ways, my parents are awesome. but i think a part of me has always felt really lonely and isolated, it can be consuming

[@purple.fantasy]

That’s so true about Saturn in the 5th… but 40 is sooooo late. Is Saturn also about karma?

[@jridablack1808]

Capricorn 4th house contaning my North node Aquarius 4th..and i 👀 Saturn returns like its time for a change

[@QueenofBluntTruth]

Saturn in the 4th for my son, and mine is saturn in the 6th

[@queenlovehappy25]

Both my daughters are the 4th house and mine is in the 6th house.

[@far6311]

My intuition is telling me I'll be brutally attacked/murdered. I'm terrified.

[@charmingdollie]

How can Saturn punish you for not listening to your feelings and intuition when they purposely wrecked that house and made you want the opposite?? Ironic I hate Saturn 🪐 also have my moon in Capricorn ♑️ fml

[@abbyflorez5172]

Ima cancer moon, with Saturn in the 4th house

[@LaLunaLinda]

So am i

[@sf2892]

Me too!