EXPOSING John Mayer: WOMANIZER and MANIPULATOR

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[@magicdragon9621]

He seems like a guy that genuinely doesn't try and make emotional connections with women and will act like he loves them until he gets bored of the sex.

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

And then get mad when they move on

[@missandry2669]

That’s most males they even say it all the time on redpill and Mansophere vids they want women to sleep with to boost up their insecure ego and that’s it!!

[@pweetyliciouse]

Sounds like my ex

[@SE-jn3cl]

​@@rosesweetcharlotte qq

[@SE-jn3cl]

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[@marcotisch2605]

Still can’t wrap my head around how Taylor was labeled an obsessive ex for writing Dear John meanwhile John Mayer got away with so much. Especially after last year Taylor released “would’ve could’ve should’ve” exposing how traumatic her relationship with him truly was and how she still struggles with the psychological aftermath. And she was blamed. Insanity.

[@haruno21]

omg.... so is this John???? (sorry, not a swiftie, but I like many of her more recent songs) That explains so much. But you know.... men always get away with murder and women are the "crazy ones". Especially Taylor who has suffered from this form of misoginy since FOREVER. She is always the "crazy", the "conflictive" one, the "b!tch" and so on. I'm happy that slowly we are moving away from this misoginy of ALWAYS blaming the woman on the relationship while guys are as$holes without consequences

[@ana______6567]

Really crazy, but that’s what manipulators do- they twist the story so everybody hates their target

[@michaelkeller5555]

Especially since she was a literal teenager 🫠

[@AyAReI00]

Women in the 90s were blamed for everything... Men got away with so much Thats why they trash femenist SO much, cuz know people dont side with them to victimblame

[@yaraitz63]

Asking myself the same question

[@AnneettaLife]

So he was too young to date Jennifer who was 8 years older than him, but Taylor wasn't too young for him who was 11 years younger than him? Interesting? We know damn well all of his relationships overlapped. He we would break up with one and go back to the other and on and on the cycle goes. But no, he sees himself of being an honorable guy because he never technically cheated. Also he once bragged on a radio interview that he hooked up with more than 500 women. But later said he was joking. I wonder why he backtracked on that "500 women" claim? What a charmer. I never understood the appeal with this guy.

[@mariaregina4242]

Me either. He must be very well endowed and/or have amazing talk game.

[@petercafrancisca4569]

How many popular celebrities are talking about their sex life so much? He is just good at bragging.I am betting he is actually short but the women have enough class to not talk about his intimate parts

[@smithdawn1]

I think he’s more appealing to older women, such as myself. I’m Aniston’s age (love her too). Just saw him in concert, my bestie & I were swooning NGL. He’s got that sexy geek energy. As a person, he’s a bit of a train wreck, but still Hot

[@AyAReI00]

​@@smithdawn1 nope, i'm older and i find Pedro Pascal adorable and Manly, not this buffon

[@ayukir11]

Lmao if he was too young why is he blaming these women? He literally decided to date them, no one forced him to be with them 💀

[@mandyylolo]

John Mayer has always tried to put out this “player/bad boy image” but I really think he’s full of issues/trauma and needs some freaking therapy

[@katybug6572]

Agreed 💯💯💯

[@katgreer6113]

Sometimes people just need a slap in the face honey.

[@laurab6165]

Yes exactly

[@MrMusicM67]

He's admitted this

[@jayvynmason6817]

Johns already going through therapy, he uses music as his form of acceptance with whats happened in his life and if you seen has even cried while apologising to the mainstream audience, how many times does a man have to apologise, can’t the guy move on from the past?

[@Peakaboo304]

So Jennifer Aniston was too old for him, being 8 years older, but Taylor Swift being a literal teenager and 12 years younger is completely acceptable for him. 🤮

[@niki1013]

13 actually... 'would've could've should've' said it best "And if I was a child, did it matter?"

[@MBlondeRebellion]

Yup. This Kind of men are like that. And it was a 13 years gap. 32 - 19 = 13 . Why would a 30 y/o want to be in a relationship with a literal teenager??? 19 y/o are fresh out of high school. They haven't experienced life yet nor have their brains fully develop (that happens around the age of 25)

[@kimberleymarkova3641]

SICKKKK-O 🤮

[@DrT0705]

@@MBlondeRebellion he knows that a teenager is easier to manipulate than a fully adult woman. Dumping poor Jessica Simpson NINE times is giving toxic and jealous of women with better musical careers than him. Ugh!

[@nevermind19700]

This🙌 just one of the many reasons John Mayer is known as a douche bag. Read the entire Rolling Stone Interview - it's a whole new level of conceit & misogyny.

[@christinajackson3461]

"I used to get more a$s bc now I don't like jumping through hoops." So he takes what should be connection and playfulness and sees it as jumping through hoops to get laid. No wonder his relationships don't last. He has no empathy and can't focus on anything other than what he wants that minute.

[@babylej]

Can famous people just not be manipulative assholes? And while we’re at it, not date minors or have weird age gap relationships???

[@beautyandbrainz]

I agree on everything, but I think age gap relationships are fine as long as it’s legal, consensual and the older person doesn’t have ill intent or intentionally prey on only 18-20 year olds.

[@littlegreengamer]

@@beautyandbrainz Agreed. I don't have a problem with age gaps, as long as there's no abuse and they're not dating younger women just for the sake of having power over them or anything else superficial like that.

[@Woozy.0]

I think the obsessive need to attack age gap relationships is an odd way for gen-z & and millennials to intentionally infantilize women. It seems pretty anti feminist (in the egalitarian sense) and really removes the agency from what is ostensibly an adult decision all because one person is younger. At 18, you know that dating a 26 year old is not the norm, but it doesn't make you a victim.

[@jacearmor5274]

Didn't Taylor Swift date a 17 year old at least twice while she was an adult??

[@lizduffy9825]

😂😂😂

[@lindaduncan5541]

John can never really love any woman….he’s too in love with himself.

[@smithdawn1]

Sadly, tho I’m a fan of his, gotta agree w you there.

[@haruno21]

narcissism , anyone?

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

Which honestly isn't such a bad thing so long as you are honest with yourself and don't take this out on other people

[@demetriuswashington2818]

​@@rosesweetcharlotte love u

[@gems8582]

​@@rosesweetcharlotte I agree, and if only he was honest and straightforward with them too. It would've been better if he'd just told them upfront from the beginning that he feels he's young and not emotionally ready for a serious relationship or commitment right now. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ana-nim]

I'm wondering how anyone can even agree to date him? I would be terrified of someone who slept with so much people (especially male since they don't think about safety). We should start to hold males to the same standards they hold us to. If those males will get rejected by everyone maybe they will understand that being a player isn't a flex.

[@Butterflieslove2]

Very true.

[@cotevallejos7230]

And he’s horrible! 🤮

[@jamangel]

Fr

[@propheticxsar]

One of my ickiest celebrity interactions… I was with a group of girlfriends at the Roosevelt in Hollywood and John Mayer was in the booth next to ours. His security came over and asked if we wanted to “dance in front of John” 🤢😂 “NO THANK YOU!” 🤣🙄 yikes!!

[@karinaf8326]

That’s awesome 😂 his ego was probably hurt

[@laladoglady]

This makes me happy to think about ☺️

[@KaiAstraStylist]

Ewwwww creepy!

[@Skedadlee]

Say sike 💀💀💀

[@GodLoesUgly]

Oh dear lord haha 🤢🤮

[@minicolic4927]

it's funny how men get away with this so easily. if it were a woman who dated a lot of men...

[@missandry2669]

Then they will be like she’s for the streets hypocrites!!

[@minicolic4927]

not to mention how open these men are with sharing sexual experiences when their partners didn't consent. and men get angry when someone says their dick is small 🙄

[@missandry2669]

@@minicolic4927 Lol anytime a woman is openly sexual males degrade them on the comments and use fatherless jokes to degrade girls but when a guy does it he’s a ‘Chad’ hypocrisy!!

[@Holmnielsen-]

like Taylor Swift............

[@minicolic4927]

​@@divinecommerce3912 definitely!

[@maddymarie4075]

*Still trying to wrap my head around the fact that he was even able to pull these women* 💀 AND treating them like trash? He ain’t even that cute lol he needs to take several seats

[@kimberlywhitmore1342]

Agreed.....I thought I was the only one who thought he was gross from the get go 😂

[@jalesaisback]

Honestly I've only ever heard of John Mayer bc of his relationships so maybe this is his tactic to be seen

[@maddymarie4075]

@@jalesaisback True lol I guess he’s the “bad publicity is still good publicity” type of person 😂

[@kayleekidman4751]

I mean, he’s actually a very talented musician. I used to be a fan back in the day. But yeah he’s kind of a scumbag to women. It’s really disappointing. Narcissists come in every shape and form I guess.

[@dickiebanks]

go listen to clarity, gravity, wheel, really any album of his. he is leagues above most musicians nowadays. even better than TS. and i like TS. but JM is a better lyricist, guitarrist,

[@ayukir11]

It's just weird how still it's so normalized for him to be such a player. We all know how this all would be damaging if this was a woman doing that. It's not fair.

[@rgg6383]

It's weird seeing this type of comments when he was always criticized for being this way. I haven't seen anyone being like "fuck yeah, John Mayer is my hero for being a womanizer!" ever. Where do you people get this idea that most people think it's find with him doing this type of stuff? Or what did you expect? People to stop listening to his music because he is an asshole and a womanizer? It's his personal life and it's not like he is doing illegal stuff like the Motley Crue guy who literally killed a person and caused brain damage to other 2 people and got a slap in the wrist and then his band received him with open arms and they are still touring

[@Swiftly_Wi1d]

@@rgg6383no one needs to say he’s a “hero” for it to be normalized. The comment never said he gets praised for it. It’s pointing out the different level and extent of slutshaming that women receive when they’ve dated “too many” people. Men don’t get the same criticism. Women are far more defined by their bodies and sexual choices than men are.

[@niraxlevi9930]

​@@rgg6383you have severe comprehension issues , when we say double standards we mean that if a woman did it she would've lost her career literally while nothing is happening to him, he's not praised but other men are

[@pawelzabicki7785]

Him being seen as a womanizer is due to the media that created this narrative, which people blindly follow.

[@the.lizardking]

Fun fact Vanessa Carlton wrote 1000 miles for a girl because no way in hell is anyone even walking 5 feet for John Mayer 🤢

[@noemistephanie93]

Lol 😅

[@wonderwalledit]

Aha true 😁and to think I used to like him 😬😩.

[@karicleveland7888]

😂 nice!!

[@elizabethm8982]

LMAOOO

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[@amarie1001]

sloan: 32 is not that young me: cries in *37* 😭

[@TheJulithegreat]

Crying at 47😢😂

[@taylerrauch349]

@@TheJulithegreat Crying at literal 32* 😭😭😭😭 STOPPPPP… pls don’t say it 😔

[@Butterflieslove2]

It is not compared to 18. But compared to lenght of life it is.

[@reyrats]

Heart palpitating in 22 because I have problems with existentialism and time is passing faster every day

[@hayaen6878]

@@reyrats girly just enjoy being 22! The same thoughts have only come to me now at 26 which I know is young but also ..not that young ahhhh it becomes very reeeal right around now

[@nativeskin7819]

So Jennifer Anniston is too old for him but he wasn't too old for Taylor Swift or Miley Cyrus🤔

[@lucystrauss2989]

Double standards.. he’s a hypocrite!

[@lucystrauss2989]

@@MyLife-ij4tf he dates way younger women, but then ridicules Jen.

[@michaelvarney.]

Yeah… so creepy that Taylor Swift dated an older man… same for Miley!

[@KamisKisses]

He comes off as a narcissist and what we would call "community *ick" he has nothing to offer to these very successful women, so he uses psychological abuse to eat away at their self esteem etc.

[@renee9985]

Love it

[@Jess-kn8vl]

Absolutely!

[@SmartStart24]

Community Dick indeed 😂

[@MaddieSchnitzel]

Looks like he likes controlling and dominating women in a relationship, manipulates and at the same time is a hypocrite with double standards... very toxic! He is so full of himself 🤮 Why did they fall for him? Following rules? Is it a relationship or employment?

[@lucialopez7702]

17 - 18 years old is really really young, these rules on a relationship might have seemed odd but since they probably didnt have much relationship experience, they brusshed it off as "this is what a relationship must be like", "its probably not as odd/uncommon as I think it is", etc. Common trend amongst manipulators is going for girls with little to no sexual experience so they can exploit their lack of knowledge and say things like "this is totally normal in a relationship, if you dont do this or that, means you dont really care about me, us, etc.".

[@CATZ1LLA]

I honestly don’t know what women see in him. Sure he’s got some alright songs, but come on, the guy has permanent baby teeth. He’s really not that attractive.

[@TheJulithegreat]

I don't get it either. He's not easy on the eyes. His music is like Kenny G with words.. Boring

[@makayla1374]

I never understood his hype 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kimberlywhitmore1342]

Right....I've always thought he was gross

[@aliensinthecabinet9111]

this hurt my feelings ngl😂😂😂

[@tinasdivinepower]

Back in the day, he was a bit better looking, he looks puffy and hasn't aged well. Taylor on the other hand, grew into a goddess, and Jennifer still has a banging bod and is pretty. Poor dude ain't getting anywhere these days. His music is dated, and he's looking more froggy than my profile pic.

[@CEAsfg]

It’s so rare to find a genuine guy nowadays because all they seem to think about is the sex and the body count

[@georgia4113]

These women are all way too good for him. Gross!

[@haruno21]

*I KNOW RIGHT* !!! such talented gorgeous ladies with him? who is a 5 at his best

[@angelascharmedlife]

​@@haruno21 at best for sure

[@demetriuswashington2818]

All those women chose him. Women choose who they have sex with. Blame them

[@ana-nim]

@@demetriuswashington2818 John, is it you? You're everywhere in this comment section. It's okay John, go to therapy, sort out your mommy issues, it's never too late to ask for help 😉

[@demetriuswashington2818]

@@ana-nim SMH You tried and failed, Sugar. Fact of the matter is Ana if I(john) pursued you right now in this moment you'll entertain it and become another one on the list just to say you dealt with a man other famous woman have. 😈

[@lenegelbe-hauen9009]

"All the girls that you've run dry have tired, lifeless eyes 'cause you burned them out" That song is probably one my favorites by Taylor Swift but what he put her through at nineteen is probably just traumatizing

[@KeenKoala115]

Ironic how when Taylor brings emotion to the table in a song he gets upset but then goes to talk about his sex life with Jessica like it’s nothing. The man has no depth.

[@alkimiyaa]

Sloan, you kick butt! You crank out so many videos and do such a great job on each. Excited for your podcast!

[@Trinsolo]

Seriously, I look forward to his videos everyday for the tea lol

[@rheab43]

John is the creepy always single older guy, he really shouldn't be dating anyone..

[@djwalkerfemaledj]

He’s 45 years old sad

[@sirenofcups]

I agree 💯

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

DAMN NOBODY AT ALL ? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

​@@djwalkerfemaledjIM OFFENDED IM 44 YEARS OLD .. 😳🤔😂😂😂😂

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

​@@sirenofcups😂😂😂😂

[@darian-meow]

Sloan you are god sent😭🙏🏼 Always coming through with the hottest tea!! We appreciate you and all your hard work daily🥺❤️

[@TheDarkRaven]

I wouldn't date him. He has no respect or class. Why does he have to air his relationships out like that. Poor girls.

[@Little_Duck_]

Finally, someone's talking about that narcissist already!

[@BombshElle_7]

People have been talking about this for the past 20 years... Where have you been? Sloan used clips from a TV show that doesn't even exist anymore.

[@mincho7573]

In John Mayer's song, DAUGHTERS, he talks about how parents should be good to their daughters. Why couldn't he be good with any of his girlfriends.

[@lisa-dj3tf]

😮😮😅😊

[@melaniepimentel9150]

Funny how Jennifer Aniston is to this day an A list celeb with a ton of hit movies under her belt and he’s like where???? 😂

[@SatyamNeelkamal]

Seven grammy awards

[@jayvynmason6817]

Appearing on numerous albums not limited to mac miller, Shawn Mendez Charlie puth, Billy eilish, Leon bridges, khalid, ed Sheeran and Jacob collier but we’ll just remember jenifer Aniston for dating brad pit and an out of date 90s show since then she’s fell of hard

[@AngiO-f1s]

I saw him play with the remaining Grateful Dead members as Dead and Company in 2018. Meh. Never thought he was anything great. But he's definitely still doing his thing.

[@caroldurham893]

Exactly!

[@kelseyalexander3602]

I know this is off topic, but can we all just take a quick moment to admire Sloan's beautiful eyes😍 It's like staring into an Ocean of crystal blue water, clear as glass❤ If I had those colored eyes, I wouldn't know how to act😍

[@ainslita]

Agreed, Sloan is beautiful like a Renaissance statue

[@goldenaura949]

Exactly! He looks like a Greek god

[@cyndigooch1162]

Kelsey Alexander I totally agree that Sloan has beautiful eyes and imagine that he would receive compliments about them regularly, especially when he's out and about, which is only natural! He could get a T-shirt made referring to already knowing about his eyes, if it ever got too much for him, though. Lol. On that note, a popular rugby league player in Australia called Reese Walsh has beautiful eyes as well and I smiled when a group of tough acting male commentators on the radio all agreed that he has the best ones in the sport. It's lovely to hear men complimenting other men and they were even discussing the most good-looking player last season. 😊

[@elmin82]

yes his eyes are very pretty

[@JoRN1222]

Wtf did Jennifer Aniston see in him??

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

Jennifer Aniston has always struck me as the type of person who doesn't fully realize how wonderful she is so she ends up dating losers.

[@shae9364]

Could you cover Sarah Jessica Parker? She's a shady shady person, that always tries to portray herself as an amazing person. I've never heard a pleasant thing about her. Allegedly, for entertainment purposes only. Lol.

[@Hand_Of_Doom333]

Oooh i wanna knowwww 😂

[@helenkapetis8869]

Yes I am intrigued to know more because we already know about her poor treatment of Kim Cattrall.

[@overcomerbtboj]

Yeah i never could stand her or her appeal sorry just have never liked her one bit

[@Shush379]

I personally knew SJP she is a nice lady and very genuine.

[@AllThingsTashy]

Totally off topic but Sloan, you are so adorable- I love your empathetic nature, beautiful eyes and curly hair ❤

[@spdadventurer1754]

Yep, recently i realised Sloan resembles Darren Chris...regardless i loved sloan's personality, face etc since i saw his first video..and not to mention the rare empathy, sensibility, maturity Sloan has in him in such a young age...truly a precious human being

[@belindarocky961]

18:22 I'm just realizing I haven't seen this man in a decade. That bitterness really aged him I guess.

[@bruna8663]

Serves him right causing people so much hurt and pain would eventually catch up with him.

[@MrMusicM67]

He's been around for a while lol

[@stephaniem805]

I went to high school with John Mayer and will never forget when he got booed off stage at our schools pep rally. He unplugged his guitar and ran out of the gymnasium.🤣 Times def have changed

[@Jakecaseyy]

Dude tell me more I’m so interested

[@stephaniem805]

@@Jakecaseyy he planned on performing the national anthem for the whole schools pep rally. He started playing his guitar and messed up so he started again, then messed up again and the whole gymnasium started booing him and heckling at him. Next thing we know he unplugs his guitar and runs out of the gym and refused to play. He was definitely a loner in high school so it makes sense why he's going thru all these A list female celebrities.

[@Jakecaseyy]

@@stephaniem805 dang that’s wild did he have any friends?

[@ggbellz]

oh so that’s what the external validation he’s overcompensating for is all about got it

[@Jess-kn8vl]

It reminds me of Napoleon Dynamite running off stage in moon boots after his performance 😂

[@abbyc.4458]

Not sure if anyone has mentioned this already, but also once Jessica had moved on from John and was seriously dating Tony Romo (I think?), he would go over to her parents’ house to hang out with her parents both without her and at times he knew she would be coming over 😟 her dad would be in her ear about getting back with John and he even proposed to her in front of her family if I recall correctly. It caused problems in her relationship.

[@abbyc.4458]

Edit: Just double checked online… not certain he actually proposed but he basically professed his love for Jessica in front of her family and asked her to get back together.

[@erinnhamilton5914]

He did not call Taylor Swift “cheap”. He said that Dear John was cheap songwriting.

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

CONTEXT MATTERS .. FACT 👍🏾

[@wiccanmoon0001]

I honestly don’t get why women think he’s such a catch. He’s just so icky 😒

[@ericamaddox5497]

This is old information like 2 decades old. This man is 46 now and was at his peak fame in his 20s. If all of our dirty laundry was on display from our 20s I don't think any of us would look good in 2023. He's admitted fault and has done a lot of work on himself. Watch a recent interview or go to his solo tour he's eloquently spoken and adores his fans.

[@omgitschantiii1748]

💯💯💯

[@kwoylee5617]

No, he was a grown ass man in his 30s when he dated a 19 year old Taylor Swift. He was in his 30s when he blabbed to journalists about his sexual relationships with other women. He wasn't a kid. He is STILL well known for propositioning young girls - some underage - at his concerts. The way people (often women) give men brownie points for doing the bare minimum annoys me, usually when it's just PR to save their careers after - finally - being called out for their appalling behaviour. His "eloquence" was also what he used to manipulate, btw.

[@overcomerbtboj]

@@kwoylee5617💯💯💯💯

[@bonniejanedrake7303]

Thank you!

[@pawelzabicki7785]

Nope, he is not known for propositioning women at his concerts, such a fake info. He was portrayed as a womanizer by media, and he is not the one, he was only with a few women in his life. This was corrected so many times.

[@kateruckus]

It seems like it's pretty easy for him to forget that he isn't the only human being in these situations.

[@PunkySpunky]

Finally someone does a video on exposing him for what he real is because Taylor is not the only one who said he was a jerk because Jessica said too

[@imdoneplus]

Oh, I get it now. John didn’t want to be a cheater, so he’d dump whoever, and then get back together with her after he slept with someone else. There’s your story.

[@jonightshade2252]

I’ve been waiting for this one.

[@jeffdiggs7030]

Who’s worse John Mayer or Adam Levine

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

😂😂😂😂😂 ADAM LEVINE AND JOHN MAYER IS THE FUCKIN MAN

[@GlamDrMona]

I can’t even imagine how many STDs that John Mayer may have had! 🤣😂

[@narcole]

yes expose this man!!! He is from my hometown and he's known to be extremely rude and I have heard horror stories from peers who are closer in age with him. His family was neighbors with my aunt and uncle and they're no better. Just not good people

[@macymayo4849]

What were some of the stories? and what was he and his family like?

[@gbecks3672]

I still remember when your body is a wonderland came out and I was so obsessed with him. It was not long after that he did something nasty and I never listened to him again.

[@rosesweetcharlotte]

Come to think of it, that is a pretty creepy song

[@EmiAngelic]

​@@rachelmartin5187 yeah waiting for the world to change for him 🤣 so he can control it! True Narcissist

[@Morticia1313]

Jennifer Aniston is such a sweetheart. The nerve of Hohn saying she's too old. I know a lot of much younger guys who are crushing on her. Then he says , it's not about age?🤔 Make your mind up!

[@stacykeller3812]

He thinks his fame and money give him a pass to insult whoever he pleases. What a joke!

[@maxnzy2823]

He doesn't care what you guys saying he's living his life peacefully 😂

[@Astrapricity2]

GIVE HER BACK HER GIRLHOOD JOHN.

[@dieterdelange9488]

Is it confirmed that "Would've, Could've, Should've" is about him?

[@Holmnielsen-]

Amen!

[@Astrapricity2]

@@dieterdelange9488 Noppe not by her since she doesn’t name names. It’s just heavily implied especially with the line “at 19” since he’s who she dated at 19

[@dieterdelange9488]

@@Astrapricity2 I see. I've always wondered about that, because at some point there was a debate amongst fans about who was the guy she gave her "girlhood" to (either John or Jake [the "Red Scarf" from ATW]). At the end of it all, it's only for her and the man to know. She's in a good place now in her career and personal life and Jake's also doing fine. I don't think she holds any grudges against him. Plus, I can't deny it: he's aged into a very attractive man.... =) The funny thing is that to this day I don't know a single one of John's songs. I'm not even sure if he still makes music. I don't really believe in karma, but his now being a flop sure is a form of justice. XD

[@Astrapricity2]

@@dieterdelange9488 Yeah!! We know All Too Well is about Jake because of the whole scarf incident where he was seen in public wearing her scarf and then also since Taylor mentions being “21” in the song (the age she was at the time of dating Jake.) And while it sounds like her and Jake were much more serious and Taylor may have actually given it to him, John really tore at her heart and soul more. Based on those songs she wrote at the time of being 19 and how she feels like her innocence was taken away from her. It probably has to do with how disgustingly he used her and then talks about women he dates. Someone put it in a way that made a lot of sense to me: “Jake was bad at the relationship, John is just a bad person” and after all the things he’s said and all the women’s experiences, I absolutely can agree and see that. I know I’m going off I just have learned these random things along the way of being a Swiftie 😂 I honestly just enjoy seeing where the art/inspiration comes from and the meanings of her work :) It just feels even more relatable!! And before anyone else says it, yes Taylor is actually on really good terms with some of her ex’s! She’s really close friends with Joe Jonas and his wife, Harry Styles, still gets along well with Taylor Lautner (him and his wife even are going to see her on tour), and her and Tom Hiddleston seemed to have ended on good terms since he still follows her. Just adding this stuff because many people like to jump to thinking SHE is this toxic crazy serial dater person lol

[@robertafetch6953]

It’s getting so tiring finding out that all our idols are doing terrible things…💔

[@ericamaddox5497]

He did this stuff in his 20s geez

[@LisePlansandJournals]

Stop idolizing people, here’s a thought.

[@haemogoblyn]

I’m pretty sure he thought he was paying Jessica a compliment

[@RochelleLong924]

Men who are manipulative are usually controlling and they usually do it because they are SUPER insecure and have low self esteem. He clearly cant connect with women emotionally because he has the emotional depth of a kitty pool and thats why he goes through women like underwear, he dumps them before they find out he’s as interesting as a stool. And as for saying terrible things about these women is clearly just him projecting what he thinks about himself. Smh John your very sad.

[@jayshah9967]

And Women Absolutely Love it.

[@lindsaykat]

Me being 31 hearing 32 isn’t young: *speechless pikachu face* Jk I agree with Sloan, grow up John mayor!

[@endisnear306]

Well in some countries 30s r very old. 😅

[@lindsaykat]

@@endisnear306 very true. growing old is a privilege

[@Gabbify-p2p]

John reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where Elaine dates the bad breaker-upper and ends up attacking him with a fork lol

[@annaf6648]

Do a video on Macaulay Culkin..he always seemed like such a mystery.

[@paulinejeann4058]

Best friends with Seth Green, and Mj. Very interesting indeed.

[@AyAReI00]

I agree

[@ChristianFrates1997]

Home Alone is great!

[@selrox879]

@@paulinejeann4058 oh hell no. Seth green is a paedo

[@HaltWhoGoesThere]

Yes!

[@scream4bee420]

Everytime you post my day is instantly better

[@adrianna6916]

Thank you Sloan! You always have the content I didn’t know I needed! 🎉

[@taylerrenee9710]

Oh my LANTA! I’m so excited you are covering this topic! Eeeek! I didn’t know how he was until I read jessica Simpson’s book! Not read listened on audible lol 😂

[@daniellemelendez3544]

I personally feel that if you’re 32 and attracted to someone that young then you have mental issues

[@nevaehmystic5254]

“John definitely has a way with words”🤣🤣

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

💯👍🏾

[@emmakasparek2988]

taylors song about him was such a slay honestly. like she tore him up and its one of my favorite songs of hers

[@thearinbear7316]

Taylor Swift was like "oh no you aren't gonna get away with hurting me" and the rest is history

[@ails_imo]

His comments about sexual napome (sic) is actually a compliment in his sick mind I’m sure…

[@emmagardiner8890]

I am a huge fan of the Grateful Dead (thanks to my parents) and when John Mayer joined Dead & Company, I recall everyone being so pissed off that he would be lead vocals / guitar for the remaining Dead members. (Minus Phil). Anyways, it’s been several years and now dead fans respect his vocals, guitar skills and showmanship and actually enjoy seeing him play. He is a great artist but person…not so much.

[@evelynneleven]

That skincare actually looks really nice

[@ashleynagy3617]

I saw him on an old episode of rob and big (rob Dyrdek show) this guy was a total mess drunk and falling over himself being an obnoxious ass. Btw thanks I'm guna have Vanessa Carlton stuck in my head now I keep hearing the piano music 😂

[@marydaigle1445]

Nightmare guy!! Thanks for all you do..watching from Cape Breton Island canada 🇨🇦

[@robincastro6000]

32 year old men stop dating teenagers challenge

[@KrispyKrunchee]

I asked myself for years what happened to Jessica cuz I followed her journey as a teen myself and always thought she was a good southern gal. Now I see how John abused her emotionally and treated her like dirt. He’s done for in my books. 🤬

[@candaceranahan1971]

John Mayer sounds like a hot mess and that’s being nice.. I don’t have a lot of social media but I love listening to your “let’s get into it” videos I find your voice and your demeanor to be relaxing.. sending you prayers and best wishes from New Hampshire ❣️

[@GinushJan]

SLOAN be like "YOU get EXPOSED, YOU get EXPOSED, YOU get EXPOSED" like Oprah 😆 And I'm here for it!

[@cucucoco]

oh my God thank you so much ❤❤❤ you listened!!!

[@lechanneldemysterieuxmante1807]

Even if vulgar and/or objectifying, “sexual napalm” was meant as a mind blown swooning compliment for JS.

[@Mistyfaery]

It is a compliment, but that's absolutely not something you disclose publicly about a lover, current or ex. It's extremely disrespectful in general, but especially to someone like Jessica Simpson who he knew damn well is more reserved and religious. So was it a compliment, yes. Was it exploitative? Also yes and that latter over takes the former.

[@aliciarae8509]

That’s why he’s 40 something and still single lol

[@jpmackey1607]

This made me think of this lyric from his song “New Light,” “Pushing 40 in the friend zone.”

[@pcarebear1]

This is the same guy that wrote "Your Body is a Wonderland" based on Jen Love Hewitt. He just met his match with Taylor (karma is a b*) It bothers me that he fits the type to date "ideal" woman like a PokeMon trainer and they ALL end up emotionally affected enough to show it in their worklife.

[@PopTartMan-dk2qq]

JOHN DONE NOTHING WRONG FREE MY BOY🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🔴🔴🔴🔴🔴🔴🔴

[@beth-bi9yv]

That is so gross......he was 32 when Taylor was only 19...... And she got so much flack about it. Double standards much?

[@alejandrapinto7391]

It isnt a cheap songwriting!Its a masterpiece!He wrote a cheap song named paper doll!!!!

[@samanthawentz1868]

You are on fire today! 🔥

[@ericadavis5177]

He has some nerve to be angry at Taylor Swift for writing a song about him when he wrote "Your Body Is A Wonderland" about Jennifer Love Hewitt. The audacity.

[@itswhat3v3r]

he didn't write that about her he said it was his highschool love. the song came out before he dated her

[@gabriellar9576]

Sorry just gotta say I"M SLIVING FOR SOCAL SLOAN SKINCARE LETS GO SPONSORRSSS! Really proud of you babes! 💖

[@Gforu81]

The best part of Jessica Simpson's book are the parts about John he was definitely a total ass to her!!!!

[@smithdawn1]

My husband actually met Jessica a few times, says she is super sweet & nice to everyone. He hates John, but still bought me tickets to go w my bestie cause I like him. Lol

[@Gforu81]

@@smithdawn1 I like John too. Apparently a lot of people do and that's part of his charm and manipulation clearly lol

[@photadyta]

John Mayer played at my prom in '04 lol I honestly never liked him because he seemed so ...smug

[@athenaaguila5867]

Massive predator vibes. Major red flags. No other way to put it.

[@lavendersunsets7066]

Oh he is one of those guys who gets with women and later judges them. Sounds like he may not like women really. He needs to come to grip with his real self.

[@willbainbridgedrummer]

John has done more than enough to make it clear that he isn't this person anymore. It's not 2009, move on.

[@melissaroldan7137]

He dated Jennifer Love-Hewitt, too! She was annoyed by “Your Body is a Wonderland” bc it was rumored to be about her 👀

[@ukmary1968]

He wrote that before they met

[@made-line7627]

Sloan, you know we need a full rendition of A Thousand Miles now. ❤

[@Shesallbusiness]

The things he said about jen aniston were SO shady omg.

[@michellemadison2539]

Ew "in 2010 I'm going to get more us weekly mentions then ever " and then you know...dates the biggest upcoming artist who is just young enough to fall for it. I'd throw up but karma works so it's fine

[@celiab2307]

I never saw the appeal with him, plus he said some derogatory things about black women in a Playboy interview. Very basic and operated individual

[@AyAReI00]

Really?, What did he said ?

[@etherealintrospection]

About time someone came for him lol

[@Popculture.shorts729]

This is hilarious. Let’s continue to talk about the decisions someone made 10 years ago when they’ve clearly changed

[@fancychancey9253]

I remember years ago after John Mayors first number one single, he did an interview on MTV(?) where he said he wanted to be a, “bad boy.” He knows what he’s doing and he doesn’t feel bad for it. He’s for the streets!

[@faithintheunseen1294]

I thought crazy in bed was supposedly a compliment 😂

[@Champ1988]

Dude is a writer. He was paying Jessica Simpson an emphatic compliment. But it was definitely tastelesss.

[@alicebrown1108]

I thought the same… he was saying she was the bomb in bed and he was addicted to her. That’s what I took from it.