John Mayer, 'Recovered Ego Addict' | msnbc

7-time Grammy winner John Mayer breaks a self-imposed exile from the spotlight for an uncensored interview with Ronan Farrow, weighing in on everyone from Iggy Azalea to Taylor Swift and explaining his journey to a brand new chapter in life.
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John Mayer, 'Recovered Ego Addict' | msnbc

[@dogoven.]

I’m a former Egg Addict. I was cracking up. My whole life was in a scramble. It was quite a heavy yoke to bare.

[@schroonsjozef]

Benjamin Gable lmao

[@evanacey1414]

Benjamin Gable One if the best Dad jokes I’ve heard in a long time.🌽🌽🌽

[@Canadian_Eh_I]

10/10

[@sueb2898]

LOL

[@srso4660]

Sounds like your brains are fried 🍳 I must say, that was an eggcellent joke! 🥚

[@bassinblue]

Do you understand how difficult it is for a star to get rich now playing blues? This guy made it.

[@mikemorgenroth4954]

David Harrison he got rich off of pop records. Don't kid yourself

[@bassinblue]

Mike Morgenroth From what I see, he kind of had a 'scheme' where he slowly introduced the blues to his fans. Pretty smart.

[@samhaokip9126]

+David Harrison hello Freddie we miss you

[@bubblevest1544]

When did he play the blues? Just playing pentatonic scales, doesn’t make it the blues. Can he play the blues? Yes. But that’s not where he made his living. Remember that really good blues song, “your body is a wonderland “?, said no one ever.

[@justinstevens4670]

This is nowhere close to what made him the icon he is today. Yes it was a breakthrough song, but continuum is what certified him as a legit musician. Thats a straight blues album. Its fantastic and its timeless. He isn't the lead for Dead and Co because of your body is a wonderland. Go sip your haterade somewhere else troll.

[@RijuChatterjee]

Well, a narcissist who acknowledges their narcissism is several orders of magnitude more tolerable than a narcissist who doesn't...

[@BrekMilo]

Riju Chatterjee one of the very defining keys of narcissism is a person who does not see their wrong doing.

[@antiochiaadtaurum3786]

Sometimes, often, in fact, they are more dangerous.

[@lizsimons9596]

Antiochia ad Taurum absolutely.

[@helenholt1161]

Unless of course you are only saying it because absolutely everyone else us saying it and you think you will look better if you say it yourself.

[@lostsol7613]

A narcissist does not acknowledge anything Is wrong with them. Please, let's say big headed lol

[@kallusedokc646]

Everyone is saying he likes to hear himself talk . Bro HES THE ONE BEING ASKED THE QUESTIONS .

[@zackvanhalen]

I'm a recovering Eggo addict. I used to eat like 6 boxes a day. And all that maple syrup...oh God were my hands sticky.

[@jengildz9104]

zackvanhalen LMFAO OOOOOOO

[@parastararts]

🤣

[@BigDaddy-zi3op]

lol.

[@kgisabeast]

“Ohh God were my hands a little sticky!!”

[@lmca08]

Lmao! Best ever, I’d fall off the wagon all the time if I was an eggo addict,

[@SteveGayMusic]

Lets get one thing straight. John Mayer didn't play with Ed Sheeran. Ed Sheeran played with John Mayer.

[@saamahlouis-jean5413]

I read the same comment earlier, could you explain to me what that means?

[@SteveGayMusic]

+Saamah Louis-Jean Well first of all John Mayer has been around longer than Ed Sheeran. And secondly, in my OPINION, John is a better player than Ed. :)

[@saamahlouis-jean5413]

Ah, okay. That makes sense.

[@saamahlouis-jean5413]

Ah, okay. That makes sense.

[@justinlee121]

uh just so you know. mayer played with ed. not vice versa.

[@kristab6981]

I just realized I talk like John Mayer when I’m really really high

[@cupcakeblood]

Krista Bee123 this is such a good comment

[@kristab6981]

slim shady 😂 thanks

[@GustavoRodriguez-ic7vb]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tiffanysmith9520]

Me toooooooo. Love it

[@tsyates220]

Facts

[@FlowerThePot]

I feel like he’s more honest than other celebrities tbh

[@estelaangeles2346]

Florence the machine is better

[@shkafishkafnjakboz4196]

I think the same.

[@TheoCynical]

Yeah. He doesn't make being a celebrity any less pretentious than it actually is but to just chill tf out finally. He used to be really ambitious and maybe just got tired of playing fight night with "best celebrity" bs. Sometimes, it better to say, "let's just call it off" with the music industry, perfectionism, and celebrity altogether.

[@shortfusedynamite5166]

Russell Brand takes the cake for me

[@danieldougan269]

John Mayer sounds like a man who is aware of his faults, went through therapy, and tried to better himself. That's all we can ask of anyone.

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

Uh no. Standards are higher than that.

[@themeatball7745]

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969can you explain please?

[@dabear7862]

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969I think what he means is that narcissists won’t change but it’s beneficial that he understands that he is one, and he needs to control it better

[@joerogaine7984]

Guitar god - 7 time grammy winner - pretty smart & clever guy - had a dream as a kid that he pursued and it came to life - has dated countless hot women Yeah i think this dude deserves to have an ego

[@ledgy69]

Amen

[@casey4602]

Milli Vinilli also won a Grammy also....

[@firstnamelastname061]

@@casey4602 there's a difference "a grammy" and "7 grammies"

[@ellenanderson9535]

Joe Rogaine whatever hot women PFFFT !

[@aaronsheps2280]

@Kaptain Kid says the dude who's commenting under a youtube page you must be great at life

[@NickB-md1oy]

To say “recovered” instead of “recovering” takes some ego.

[@estucamp92]

Exactly

[@theapplechapel]

@Yanni Xifaras you never fully recover, that's one of the lessons you learn on recovery

[@theapplechapel]

@Yanni Xifaras Fair enough. I'm not saying Mayer hasn't made progress, just that he doesn't appear to be fully recovered and the way he describes his current behaviour also suggests he's not fully recovered. He has realised he has a problem which is the first step so that's good, but he has a long way to go. I don't blame him either, he was shot into fame and success quite young and that could go to anyone's head.

[@janetwhite7786]

Touche'

[@ryanjensen4692]

@@theapplechapel stfu

[@JFairhart]

John is an intellectual and introvert who finally got comfortable with himself. The irony is his career was in an extrovert world that will always be a rub for people like that. Well done John. I also like Ronan’s interview skills.

[@peekaboo4390]

This ^^^

[@CesarClouds]

I see nothing intellectual about him.

[@sosukeaizen2723]

@@CesarClouds his guitar ability alone puts him in that category but you can also see how well spoken he is

[@CesarClouds]

@@sosukeaizen2723 I disagree.

[@CesarClouds]

@@jadedjimmy No, I just don't think he's an intellectual.

[@stinamanni]

I love this arrogant, musical genius.

[@lilboz90]

I love him more

[@stinamanni]

michael jordan you know nothing, jon snow

[@Fitz710]

mayer is doing really well with bobby and the dead... they invented the jam band

[@sixfoursoul2538]

me too !

[@stinamanni]

***** i laughed

[@JorgeAguilera]

I doubt you'll read this, John, but we're waiting anxiously for your new music.

[@user-cv5rb5cj1y]

Back to the blues!!!!

[@Bubby91]

***** yeaaa mr tutorial :)

[@ron57strat]

***** back to the TRIO!

[@angelopebs]

something like continuum

[@latenightthinker4737]

6'4, handsome af, one of the all-time greatest guitarists, has Victoria Secret Models on their knees, etc. Who wouldn't get cocky?

[@user-bm2vh9xs5n]

did he date with model?

[@JackR617]

Şəfa Əsgərova nope

[@Kuskoodo]

Şəfa Əsgərova I think Jessica Simpson is one and he dated her

[@YVNGSSPARK]

Same thing wit kanye

[@electropicks]

YVNG SPARK pardon?

[@Flo-qw4jr]

I think he’s just a kid in love with music who was bombarded with praise and money at a young age. Listening to him talk nowadays is absolutely inspiring. He’s a smart man, an amazing musician and generally one of the most talented people walking on this earth. It’s okay to have an ego and his ego seems pretty mild to me. He’s no Axl Rose. So get off his back.

[@privateprivate4378]

Mayer doesn't walk on this earth, he crawls around with his tale between his legs, wondering if he can afford a few more tattoos.

[@tiorimas]

This John guy is a true intellectual. Would he wear those glasses if he wasn't one?

[@thecatspyjamas1309]

+Pedro Ramos hahhahaha exactly

[@nickb3250]

+Pedro Ramos OTE Arnel 55's. Pretty sweet frames.

[@SethHarcrowmusic]

+Pedro Ramos Hey sweet prof pic bro

[@joshuapetersen2079]

This guy is a major talent. One of the best writers I've ever come across. I used to think Daryl Scott was the greatest, until I found this dude. He had literally taken music and dissected it and turned it into an equation and created the answer. if he seems cocky it's because he has every reason to be. Listen to the song "Assassin"... actually the whole album

[@joshuapetersen2079]

+josh petersen Battle studies

[@nickduggan3084]

"were rich people living out our dreams." finally a famous person who acknowledges it lol

[@theDJPeppy]

John Mayer being interviewed about himself: Talks about himself KZbin: All this guy does is talk about himself

[@YVNGSSPARK]

Fax

[@johntziannis359]

That's the point

[@peterashraf2717]

@Dude Sweet I see that everyone has insecurities whether it's having big feet or a dark past and that's fine so not having insecurities is hard to acquire...as impossible.

[@PatrickRob82]

You've got a lot of nerve expressing your opinion here in the KZbin comment section.

[@PatrickRob82]

@Dude Sweet did you listen to his first 3 albums? You may not have connected with them personally but I think calling them inauthentic is a little presumptuous, that is, unless you know him personally.

[@jamesgreen3185]

All of these psychologists in the comments. I would encourage anyone turned off by John to go to other sources to see his true self. This is an interview that is heavily edited and absolutely CANNOT capture who John is. He is a humble guy who just like us has problems. It takes balls to be honest about our faults in front of 1 person, let alone all the millions who have seen this / will see this.

[@sabrina.a.31]

I wish it was the full interview

[@danramos6192]

Exactly lol it was so biased

[@wanderingtrader7604]

at this point i feel like confident people are being labelled cocky lol

[@conduitofthegospeldarrellb9154]

The man had the greatest blues/pop/RnB album of all time: Continuum

[@conduitofthegospeldarrellb9154]

Just a brilliant piece of art that album is. He's a incredible musician and I'm grateful to be of age to witness and comprehend his artistry in real time...

[@neogen50]

really? only simple whiite people think he's the greatest. as a musician i think he is mediocre at best

[@conduitofthegospeldarrellb9154]

He's far from mediocre but I wouldn't go nearly far as calling him "the greatest ______"

[@neogen50]

Kazbur eric clapton will say anything to stay relevant son! i consider clapton great, his day has come and gone thou. enter the age of lukewarm musicians and the people who don't know any better

[@conduitofthegospeldarrellb9154]

I don't know what vendetta you have against John Mayer but to say he's simply a popular artists and not a skilled musician is bs. What's your argument against my claim

[@CrayZJo3Davola]

As a John Mayer fan, he still has a huge ego. Maybe not as bad as before but it's there. But who cares? We love him for his music, not his personal life. Understand that he is highly clever, creative, unique and a guitar god of this era.

[@jeremiahfernandez9161]

a lot of people don't look at him that way, unfortunately

[@nickdavenport3848]

+Basho doesnt he also bring up good points? I think that were all trying to be famous and we wont admit it.

[@gvif]

+Basho He does create amazing music and is an amazing guitarist, but the ego does still matter. Especially when young guitarists are looking for role models to follow to. Young guitarists don't just take styles from famous guitarists like Hendrix or Clapton or Slash or Mayer, they also try to adapt an attitude. Young guitarists are encouraged to watch as many videos of their role models as possible to learn a style, but as they watch the videos, they also learn the artist's attitude.

[@gvif]

+Basho He does create amazing music and is an amazing guitarist, but the ego does still matter. Especially when young guitarists are looking for role models to follow to. Young guitarists don't just take styles from famous guitarists like Hendrix or Clapton or Slash or Mayer, they also try to adapt an attitude. Young guitarists are encouraged to watch as many videos of their role models as possible to learn a style, but as they watch the videos, they also learn the artist's attitude.

[@MisterFuturtastic]

+Basho Having a huge ego is a sign of insecurity though...

[@colievalette]

He’s a compulsive intellectual. A lot of people can’t take it and don’t have the propensity to understand it. It doesn’t release him from bad decisions but I sympathize. I understand the chaos and loneliness of having that mind. He’s a poet and musical architect and I still respect him and love his music.

[@zpacify]

Nah, he's pretentious. He thinks he's an intellectual but there are real intellectuals and there are some that have dabbled. But yeah, he's a great musician.

[@cbmlgia]

@@zpacify this interview was a long time ago dude. He has changed quite a bit since this

[@cbmlgia]

@@zpacify still has an ego but he has definitely grown :)

[@zpacify]

@@cbmlgia Yeah, I guess so. He's just annoying. He reminds of some people I know that's all. Lol. You guys probably know some like this. The worst ones are the ones that achieve some kind of success. They become more annoying. Lol.

[@tsunamisun2369]

Ugh, when someone uses a word like propensity when it's not necessary it's just stinky.

[@lastben5007]

"I think it's terribly dangerous for an artist to fulfill other people's expectations. I think they generally produce their worst work when they do that" -David Bowie

[@Budd1234]

Wow. That’s a fantastic quote.

[@KyleWilliamsMusic1]

"I check the mirror.. the original twitter.." good god that was deep.

[@nora1427]

Kyle Williams I actually didn't understand what he meant. care to explain please

[@Mikkelsapiens]

I think it means that in the modern society we base our self-worth on the opinion of others and it's much more easier to do that when we have apps like twitter where people can follow you and "like" what you say, therefore creating a false sense of self-esteem. While in the past we looked in the mirror to validate ourself. or something like that idunno

[@ArnoldMontes]

+Daniel Olaya yeah because Twitter came out in our era. What a "burn" sir...

[@Matt-bg8xw]

Millenials are like 30 years old now. What are you, 90?

[@jlebina]

The oldest millennial should be around 18 years old.

[@VK-pk8uz]

Christ, the editing... So many sentences unfinished.

[@jaren29]

"theres nothing you can tell that kid" is the most intelligent self aware answer he could've ever given and i love it.

[@paulplal2522]

John Mayer is the Tony Stark of music. . . . (edit: thanks 4 so many likes)

[@atticustay1]

Cringe

[@yoj312]

Well Tony is more likeable, IMO

[@ayuheartphotography]

*YES*

[@ArnoldMontes]

ehhhh thats a bit far fetched. i love john. the person he is, his music. He's definitely a legend. but that comparison is cringe

[@maddoxbromley6426]

Shedding the Ego is tough even for a nobody. I cant imagine being a thinking dude like JM with all that popularity to go along with it. Good luck brother - you are on the right path

[@TerrapinPhish]

+Maddox Bromley He is on the best path he possibly could be, ATM. God Speed to Mr. Mayer; make Jerry proud.

[@SelfHealingGod]

Well the guitar is enough, we don't need drama.

[@909lena5]

+Maddox Bromley " Shedding the Ego is tough even for a nobody. I cant imagine being a thinking dude like JM with all that popularity to go along with it. Good luck brother - you are on the right path" You said Brother. Are you allegedly arrogant as well? I mean, people say John is but I don't see how he is different than any other musician.

[@andromedalasso]

Maddox Bromley Excellent response. 100%. Couldn’t have said it better.

[@belindaingoz1055]

Maddox Bromley yeah

[@helllo110]

It seems that people are confusing confidence with arrogance. John Mayer knows how skilled he is as a musician and makes jokes around that. People now like to knock others down when they show confidence in themselves out of what seems to be jealousy or some other instinctive response. It is a huge shame that you cannot be honest about certain things without someone getting offended and creating a hate train

[@mattyballgame6643]

Garden Chair Well done.. Such an eloquently worded statement.

[@uriteimwrong7317]

Garden Chair no ur confusing conceitedness with confidence.

[@pawelzabicki7785]

I know that's the old comment, but also John is an intellectual and self aware creature, whereas a lot of people are not. Also he has a broader view and understanding of the music industry.

[@pawelzabicki7785]

@GW76 M False claim, through the years I saw many interviews with him and can't agree with you. In his twenties, especially at the early stage, yes, but he was just a kid. He's been discussing this subject many times.

[@pawelzabicki7785]

​@GW76 M Can't agree again, he is one of the most versatile guitarist I've seen, through all these years I'm still finding new things that amazes me, and what is important, he's not repeating himself, he's still trying to discover a new ways and approaches (which I cannot say about lot of artists, even the top one, and those I admire the most).

[@kirchb]

John Mayer is so talented and intelligent. I love when an artist can stand back and take a good look at themselves... anyone for that matter. I’ll always be listening to his music.

[@PositiveMommaLife]

He’s growing up. Mad respect. “I want to run thru the halls of my high school, I was to scream at the top of my lungs!” Great musician, song writing and delivery. Don’t let the disgusting media ruin you.... glad you found peace in Montana.

[@conduitofthegospeldarrellb9154]

Somewhat of a polarizing figure but whether a beloved personality or not, John Mayer still stands as one of the greatest artists of the current generation. Can't wait to hear his next project

[@rustyshackleford7984]

I don't think he's realy that egotistical. I'm egotistical, he's just an intelligent person who knows who he is with a strong personality.

[@mossion]

YES..THIS

[@herkuskaminskas1409]

Exactly man. Everyone in this comment section is freaking out about his supposedly huge ego, while I'm just seeing a pretty level headed guy, who is also quite wise as well. I think most of us enjoy our ego being stroked, but if you hide it and never mention it and no one ever notices this, you are considered to not be egotistical. However, if you are anything like John and you expose parts of yourself that aren't that great, and aknowledge the existence of certain things within yourself that are maybe not as noble, everyone is super fast to put you down. Same with acknowledging your talents - yes it's great to be super humble and what not, but sometimes looking at yourself in an objective manner like John does is even better, because it shows a certain level of self-awareness he has developed, to be able to look at himself from the side and come to an objective realization, that ''yes, I am talented''. Where acting humble is not really that hard, most people can do it whether their behavior is actually genuine or not. I personally put an objective assesment that might not be convenient for everyone above a more convenient but subjective one.

[@thejack0fhearts43]

He strikes me as the type who’s just hyper-self aware, it drives you kinda crazy sometimes and people tend to mistake it for ego when you’re stressed out and totally exhausted from all of the self critical internal dialogue.

[@willritter4076]

exactly... people bein' jealous because John is a highly evolved human being with a lot of dignity... I'd be honored if some John Mayer fans would take a listen to my acoustic piano & vocal performances of his early masterpieces CLARITY and QUIET on my YT channel in tribute to the boss. Live acoustic with no digital editing. Thanks and peace out.

[@VeronicaKulchitskaya]

100000 per cent yes

[@PaulBenjaminJenkins]

"What have you found in Montana?" "I've just found HOME, man." **Cut to photo of John wearing 17 different colored shirts on a plain.**

[@Godrocksandyousuck]

To everyone watching this now, it’s clearly evident he’s changed now. You can just tell by his demeanor. His clothing is much more relaxed, his music is very positive, and he’s collaborated more with other artists. Age comes at you in a way with a humbling approach. He definitely wasn’t a recovered ego addict here, but he’s definitely at a better place now.

[@ajakennedy6072]

Man. He SPEAKS like a songwriter. This man has such a way with words.

[@enjoy-joey]

“I’m just not interested in the things that won’t last forever.”

[@vulgr5076]

he probabbly meant music wise haha.He really did make music that will last forever

[@leerothman7570]

John is perhaps one of the best adjusted musicians that are well known out there. His level of talent is miles beyond most and at the top of the game. He deserves to enjoy his life as he wants it. He's earned it.

[@planet_rasberry2913]

He’s also an asshat. Not a good person

[@Amar1338]

“Mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit them”-Bruce Lee

[@Kostas1601]

From these interviews I feel like what John's always wanted to do is become really popular, but without having to simplify and downgrade his art, or do that at the smallest scale possible. He found that you can't do it. As much as you want to, you can't force the general public to think something is good enough even though he and his fans clearly think it's more than good enough. It just can't be done and that destroys him. His younger self thought it could be done and he couldn't be stopped, but I feel like he's now found peace with it. If you ask me John has already achieved legend status. Can't wait for what comes next; it's going to be clearer and more pronounced John than ever before.

[@jack-ww1yc]

I love how he shows that addiction doesn’t necessarily have to involve tangible things.

[@peternewman1179]

Mayer is the James Taylor of our times. Dude can write great songs, plays the guitar like a monster! Glad he’s in this world! Keep ‘em coming John Mayer !

[@caseyquintin5774]

The amount this man has changed, progressed, GROWN just in the last 7 years is amazing. He no longer has to *talk* about the fact that he's a "recovered ego addict" because it's so apparent when you hear him speak in interviews that he has gotten past all of that. He has let go of the need for approval as well as the need for everyone to think he's funny and it's a fantastic look on him.

[@mail2fhs]

John's humor is beyond this interviewer's iq level.... most of it was him being sarcastic. I'd recommend his Instagram stories and current mood on IGtv. I love how he just remain authentic to himself regardless how people perceive of him. Peace.

[@msgr9499]

You have no self knowledge if authenticity if you Actually Believe he's being real or true or humble. Fake asf!

[@VeronicaKulchitskaya]

@ Roxie Be quiet and stop annoying people, before I tell your mum on you.

[@Willl_b_]

Peace bro

[@doobieddooo]

Farhan Habib Ronan Farrow graduated from Yale Law School at 21 and is a Rhodes Scholar.

[@mav_3rix354]

his Ig stories are soo intelligent like the humor soo witty and intelligent and comes off without any effort

[@adampassman]

that interview was cut so poorly, it barely made sense!

[@dylannolan7454]

Its msnbc what do you expect?

[@korganrobb1771]

I literally was about to post this comment omg. What is happening???

[@therugburnz]

Adam Passman I posted the same thing sorry but I guess all of us saw it.

[@GilangRamadhan53]

thank God I thought I'm the only one

[@Gretsch0997]

It made perfect sense...you missed it

[@Idallis8640]

Society: Be more confident in yourself! Be more happy in who you are and what you do! Society: omh you think so highly of yourself, you have such an ego.

[@beigestallion2929]

Thanos said :"Perfectly balanced, as all things should be" You need to be confident but as soon as confidence outgrows your character it shows an inflated ego

[@gh7834]

You ever seen the video of him playing with bb king? He acts so arrogant.

[@jimmiemclovin]

@@gh7834 no but i'm gonna watch it, like now. thanks G.

[@euphoricsounds4988]

Gosh your beautiful!

[@euphoricsounds4988]

Your welcome, it's my pleasure hun!

[@alexandrawinters5077]

How do you not love this guy...through his authenticity and magical metaphors, we need John Mayer

[@jakonjoss]

"And I'm just not interested in the things that wont last forever" AMEN

[@jakonjoss]

Oh but a few things do, we can all turn back the clock as far as we're interested too

[@gx217dc]

Then dont be interested in life.

[@jakonjoss]

thats what we know that you must not, life is forever

[@mattyballgame6643]

Jacob Clark What a great line!

[@emilbrandwyne5747]

I understand this dude. I had a similar thing going in school. I kinda neglected my friends at this period but when I reached my "goal" I decided to go back to the old me. Was a nice trip.

[@adriamillasluque]

John is an artist and a hard worker. These both things make him naturally struggle between balance and imbalance in self-love matters, because he puts almost all his energy in his art. I don’t know anyone who is either of those things that does not have that struggle with themselves. He has a great impact on me musically and I feel thankful to him for that.

[@anitaanil6333]

He is an extremely intelligent introverted soul, who is comfortable with himself. It's just that most of the people really don't understand him. He is a legend and I have a great amount of respect for him.🙏🏼❤️😁

[@Rekkesque]

He's honest... Everyone in their nature wants to be famous and he's addressed it and lived it. And he's trying to get to another part of his life. Every celebrity is like this. Some just more than others.

[@zadkovichraj3246]

This comment is it

[@rockstarnurse2693]

I still feel like John hasn't FULLY recovered from being an "ego addict." And the truth be told, people with big egos are just using it as a front to protect a quite fragile, sometimes insecure being. But I'm glad he's on a his journey of growing up...creative people are a sensitive lot anyhow; so the way he's so affected by everything is really quite natural.

[@weathamorris4251]

So what, we are all on our journey....

[@rockstarnurse2693]

Weatha Morris Uhhhh, yeah. So we're saying the same thing.

[@weathamorris4251]

Okay!

[@patiencejewel]

News flash: we all have egos. We need an ego to organize our internal life. Without an ego, we could not function.

[@joyC182]

Hes still egocentric but not so addicted about his ego, and tries to be self counscious about it...he says it and shows it clearly yeezz

[@aw4925]

Glad this man is in the music industry. Intelligent, thought provoking conversation and an all round honest guy. Knows his ego...it's part of him .

[@PotatoeChipz]

If we had his singing voice and guitar skills, we'd all be current ego addicts

[@PositiveMommaLife]

Po Tato one of my favorite songs of his.

[@joshwilliams6517]

fire your editor

[@avjake]

Probably some producer's idea of an engaging interview, not the editor. Just my guess, as a former TV editor.

[@TurtleRocker12]

Josh Williams is it jumping around/cutting too much?

[@BryceRogers_]

Yeah clipping is horrible. Also they blew it on the Paper Doll audio wtf

[@jqyhlmnp]

Eddie Jeanveau THANK YOU, no one else made this joke :D

[@bencabestuff]

I'd like this comment twice if I could

[@CaribSurfKing1]

He is displaying all the signs of somebody who actually is incredibly self doubting, hence his drive to not be what he thinks he is. No matter how much success he has, he will always doubt himself This is the heart of his "issues" Unfortunately, it has made alot of people dislike him, which feeds his deepest problem He could be wired this way, or have had experiences as a kid that shaped this

[@VeronicaKulchitskaya]

Yep. 100% this. Hes a very clever, very insecure, very sensitive and very tortured man.

[@juliaeffertz4617]

A self-aware narcissist. They say there is no "cure" for narcissism (or "narcissistic personality disorder", but I don't know if Mayer is diagnosed), but it sure is good that Mayer is aware of his destructive patterns and that he's trying to do better, to not hurt people, and manage his condition. Great musician - I wish him peace and a calm, content life.

[@austinmorrow5147]

The John mayer rabbit hole is amazing

[@TheNerdRapper]

hahaha currently in the hole! didn't know it was this deep

[@MaxRichardsRealtor1]

The interviewer looks like Ellen if she took testosterone

[@pyro7602]

Ellen is a dude.

[@euqul]

Just a little bit of testosterone

[@bensblues]

she doesn't?!

[@clemsontigz1]

🤔🤔.....😂😂😂😂

[@GardnerDJames]

Cool

[@alexjolly5604]

How pleasing it is to see an artist with so much talent and wisdom be so humble and content. His music is incredible. Continuum was one of a kind, and the release of Born and Raised and Paradise Valley, portrayed this incredible versatility and feeling that very very few artists possess. But he doesn't care if you think that. For him, It's purely about the music, and enjoying what he does.

[@juancpgo]

Alex Jolly No, for him it's about his ego, what others think about him. Didn't u watch the interview? I'm not judging him though, and I'm a big fan.

[@PnG0407]

Juan Gonzalez i personally believe ego is a very important thing for sucessfull people. provides confidence, motivation, determination to carry on etc.... but now i think his ego is focused just on music and we can hear the difference. and about the whole taylor paper doll thing is just bs. he didnt write that song about her nor did she deserve a song from him. although i like them both. just country taylor tho. not this pop taylor.

[@alexjolly5604]

Juan Gonzalez I did watch the interview. I wasn't really commenting on any of those issues raised. Purely just my thoughts on his transition through his career.

[@samme79]

Juan Gonzalez did YOU watch the interview? He basically said he doesn't care if people don't like his new music anymore. It's all about musicality from this point and he shows that. Paradise Valley wasnt #1 when it released and he said he didn't care anymore. His at a point where he just makes music because he can and I'm not complaining

[@marissavoss3547]

john has a huge ego, but i think it’s the fact that people expect him to not have one that makes him look like a bad person. he’s hot, tall, has great humour, and is one of the best guitar players in the world…. how can he NOT have an ego? I mean come on.

[@sallysimpson5096]

As a DeadHead who logged 10 years and 123 Grateful Dead concerts from 1985- 1195 (RIP Jerry), I was skeptical when Mayer began touring with Dead & Co, but I enjoy his guitar playing. John is "easy on the eyes" when seen live. HOWEVER, I have a tough time watching his intense facial expressions as he shred the guitar on the jumbo screen at shows. I'm grateful to Mayer for turning a new generation of younger, free spirited individuals on to the DeadHead touring tribe. The younger generation of Dead & Co fans assimilated fast and enhanced Shakedown Street parking lot vending scene, reminiscence of the Jerry Garcia era! Very cool, kind, intelligent and fun folks make up the Grateful Dead sub culture community. We aren't, for the most part, even interested of what Jerry called "the Lame America". DeadHeads epitomize the American Hippie subculture, we relish our free spirit, LOVE ROCK AND ROLL, are adventure lovers, enjoy travel and are having fun touring to see the Dead & Co shows each concert season. Thanks to Mayer and all band & crew members of Dead & Co for reminding/puzzling members of the "Lame America" what the true adherence of a life of Liberty, Freedom, and the right to pursue happiness is!

[@jenrutherford6690]

Surely anyone who can get up in front of an audience of millions has to have ego . Hundreds of talented people never play to more than 5 people . You have to back yourself to get where he is.

[@benchang1022]

Humility is knowing exactly who you are.

[@mollers92]

As a musician, that comment about social media and performing self consciously really hit close to home... KZbin comments, twitter feedback... I did a video for a singer a couple of years back on an online thing that got panned, and more than did well but the feedback is so addictive and destructive. This was helpful.

[@carpenoctem7307]

"Recovered" but who cares hes literally a musical genius. probably my favorite artist across genres

[@henriquefs]

I watched all John Mayer interviews available on youtube. This is the best one I've seen. I often come back to it. Ronan Farrow is on point. Genius.

[@studiomacleod]

He’s such a incredible guitarist it makes up for everything else

[@watchuwatching1286]

He's not that great really.

[@watchuwatching1286]

@@amf198 Thanks for the useless lecture, Dork. 🙄

[@watchuwatching1286]

@@amf198 P.S, Moron, Hendrix did do the impossible... You are not in the realm of 'us who know what's going on'... Get over yourself. My guess is.. You are a 'rote' player. Look it up, Soulless Typewriter

[@justok3702]

@@watchuwatching1286LMAO that’s wild

[@joscamp25]

I feel like this interview kinda got me a little more into John Mayer's head, and now I can understand why he's acted a certain way in the past and made certain decisions. I can respect him. It's really weird to see how different people handle success and fame.

[@Redbirdgirl88]

Well said. Agreed

[@terkelterke]

The most egoistic interview I have ever seen and he says he is a recovered ego addict now, just shows he learned the term but not the lesson

[@janetwhite7786]

I realize how old this is bt its new to me. Congrats to you, John, for seeing yourself. I couldn't stand you when you first came out. Your ego just pulverized everything. Way to go on the insight. Long may you wave.

[@Adipsia1]

A very smart and spiritually connected guy,... and a stunning interview. I'm sure that - like all of us - he'll fail many times on his spiritual journey but based upon this interview he's a trail-blazer.

[@jamesobanion5114]

"There's this other side you get to--and you don't get there very often--I call it this other side, where while you're writing, you're speaking so much of your truth that you're even learning from it." I love that description.

[@bobbyfrostful]

this interview is really weirdly edited

[@mikeskriloff]

Holy crap, I thought I was the only one who noticed this. It's so awful. It seemed like he was really trying to fit an agenda.

[@dolan5102]

Mike Skriloff I was wanting to hear a little bit about the new album and some other subjects but the guy couldn't help but do the same exact interview and ask the same questions everyone else has asked over the past few years

[@AwesomeCat2012]

Well, John Mayer didn't edit this, so don't blame him. lol

[@createone100]

Ronan is really a first-class interviewer.

[@leaveitorsinkit242]

“I’m going to be as strange as they think I am.” That pretty much sums up his whole hiatus during the late 2000s. He played into the role of a playboy. He relished off the idea of becoming the playboy figure in people’s minds. In hindsight however, he realizes he made a mistake as he would much rather be known for his music and storytelling.

[@xlottedeboer]

God i love him. Don't turn away just because you think he is annoying. Listen to his message. He knows he is good, yes, but if he didn't know, then he would have never been able to share his music with all of us. Try to interpret this message the way he means and you'll get it ok. Fame does something to people, and he realized that now.

[@spiritandsoulareone]

There is a great deal to be learned from the experiences of others. Thank you, john, for sharing.

[@brendanpeahl7055]

Not being a big fan of his music, I respect him as a musician. Based on his outlook on the music industry by being brutally honest about everything and the fact that he is literally a guitar god.

[@holskitchenCanada]

I clearly have to find more of Ronan's interviews, he's ever so good.

[@joshp777]

Editing Sucks, something feels off like, the interview feels artificial.

[@04Mscentrum]

Josh P mscentrum04 Sadly.....this man is LONELY, and lacks even a modicum of self esteem.He needs to cease talking about himself.Both the interviewer and the subject of the interview here---seem shallow,and this interview or "session," or whatever it is? Will seem dated,self centered and pitiful, even a month from now. Who cares what Mayer is wearing, or how many awards he gets,or doesn't get, or who foolishly idolizes his ilk?I wish him well.

[@metusbatmanv4569]

04Mscentrum Shut up, moron.

[@dannytoots6635]

MetusBatmanV4 in ten words Josh P said that haha

[@metusbatmanv4569]

Danny Toots Learn how to use KZbin, moron.

[@dannytoots6635]

MetusBatmanV4 Do I waste my time bothering to work out what your angle on life is or not? Moron

[@LightGE]

1. I love that phrase "You abuse the ability to express yourself." That says so much. I like that a lot. .. 2. Are they truly self-aware? I think they're moreso hyper-aware; which is in direct opposition of self-awareness. ... 3. Never been a huge fan of John Mayer. Don't dislike him, just never got the hype, and I know very little about the scandals or negative image. But, I truly enjoyed this interview.

[@Kattungi]

i'm sure you have, but i hope you don't mind me asking. did you give his music a shot?

[@LightGE]

That's a fair question. Honestly, No. I don't know many of his songs, just Wonderland. Just never been drawn to him. But, ya know what, I will now, just for you. I'll check out some of his stuff and let you know what I think. Fair?

[@Kattungi]

***** That's really awesome of you, you know that? I think he's a weird person to get into when you hear him speak before you hear him sing. I had a similar experience where I only knew Wonderland and his Free Fallin' cover, loved that, then heard about the TS drama and everything that followed that and was so majorly turned off by that, that for a long time, I didn't give his other music a shot. I'd love to hear what you listened to and how you liked it.

[@LightGE]

+Asi Kla Hey, Asi. So, I checked out a bunch of John Mayer's music. As it turns out, I know a lot of his stuff, just didn't know it was him. What I heard was cool, I'm just not really drawn to it. Actually, I do find that a little weird. It seems like I would really like his stuff, because I really like that style. That introspective, observant storytelling by a guy whose guitar feels like it's an extension of his existence in the world, sending musical messages across soul waves in the atmosphere. I love that stuff. It's my driving down the coast and resting on the beach at sunset kinda music. I know "Gravity" and like that lot. I did really like "Clarity" also. Just a coincidence that those two song titles rhyme. :) In any case, I'm glad I gave him a chance. Maybe I'll listen again sometime when I'm not fast tracking through them. Thanks anyway for challenging me. I like being challenged and I love finding new music. This was fun. Love Light

[@Kattungi]

Hey Light. Thank you for getting back at me, I was eagerly waiting for your opinion. I definitely know what you mean. I think his music is best enjoyed when it sort of just "comes to you". For example I recently had the "Born & Raised" album on while I was sorting through stuff at home and I felt connected to every song and went on this kind of journey with it. So lovely. By the way, this was most definitely the sweetest thing I read all week and I've never heard a better description of his musical personality then "That introspective, observant storytelling by a guy whose guitar feels like it's an extension of his existence in the world, sending musical messages across soul waves in the atmosphere.". You defintiely get it. Thank you so much for that! Have you heard of a guy named "Paolo Nutini"? He's another singer/songwriter and if you liked John's style, he might be worth a shot too. Much love, Katje.

[@theultimate577]

I think he's pretty smart and self aware to recognize he's an ego addict, and is working to change that. I personally wish to detatch from my ego as well

[@andreachristian6976]

What a great interview . He has definitely found peace and contentment

[@AwesomeCat2012]

I would love to sit down with him and chat about what he's learned about life. He's gained a lot of wisdom over the years. I can't believe how far he's come! I still LOVE John Mayer!

[@noahbenge8649]

Best interview I have ever seen. Great questions! I am so glad that John Mayor is at this place in his life and I also hope that he continues to find happiness.

[@joy-115]

I think his relationship with Dave Chapelle has probably really helped him!

[@timhallas4275]

All that talent and charisma focused in one spot, always lights a fire. It takes a really cool personality to live in that flame and not be consumed by it.

[@atllzable]

Great interview, John. Keep goin'..!! Great stuff..!!!

[@atravismoore]

This is atrociously edited.. Can't follow.

[@vicdjz]

The problem is not social media (which can definitely hurt), the actual problem is every individual's self-love and SELF-ACCEPTANCE in the Occidental world.

[@jalisianikole]

I get him as an artist. He’s not egotistical he’s just an intellectual who seeks validation. He’s highly self aware. He just wasn’t mature in the past. Any one of us would make similar choice given the correct circumstance. Live and learn.

[@greencurtain1718]

In the 21st century perspective with the rise of social media, being an ego addict is quite commonplace. John's level is different of course. Thank you for being honest. This brutal honesty is very helpful.

[@nygreece]

I totally agree. Today’s society is extremely egotistical. The only difference is that John called it out and recognized that social media makes you an ego addict, if you let it.

[@whynottalklikeapirat]

Recovered ... mmmh ... right

[@bwc12minus38]

Still seems like an ego maniac

[@whynottalklikeapirat]

pengo242 Knowing is half the battle ... Not.

[@fatninjacatmatt]

+whynottalklikeapirat recovering... at least he's trying

[@whynottalklikeapirat]

fatninjacatmatt We all are. Bring out the spotlight.

[@alanjarrar]

+Randy Durger Well, who isn't? :) I know I am :)

[@5LittleDoggies0831]

Great interview with a music genius! Despite all our human differences and constant judgements and opinions towards one another, I still get it that this guy simply wants to grow and get better as a human being, musicians and communicates with his fans through his musical genius. Big fan !

[@lancelotlink6545]

John has settled in nicely to the role of guitar hero for a couple of generations. It would be hard not to have some ego with the talent and success he's had but at least he's developed the perspective to know that it was a problem for him that could be managed. BTW social media is a test for all of us- you can find out a lot about your own weakness for approval by how you deal with social media.

[@KitKatToeBeans]

2020 John: still plenty of ego to go around.

[@SolaGratia.]

If this is what John looks like as a recovered egomaniac, thank God I missed the full blown version.

[@uriteimwrong7317]

stephiecs0 lol. Be thankful. He’s just so in love...with himself.

[@blackngoldcuttlefish3390]

lol stephiecs seriously

[@bryanoatridge3726]

@@Tommy2shoe811 you have wayyyyyyyyyy too much time on your hands sir

[@marias7599]

Stephie Calligraphy Haha

[@petet6851]

@@bryanoatridge3726 why, how is sharing an opinion & an experience with this artist is having too much time? I don't understand why you think that...?

[@sinnder]

I honestly can't believe any of this. He isn't a "recovered" ego maniac. He's an egomaniac who has finally admitted it.

[@paulaweadon8130]

First step is admitting it.

[@FadedDream6969]

Two men I respect and admire the most. Thank u John and thank u Farrow both of u appreciate and respect your craft and are both artists of a kind

[@heyitsjewlz]

y’all....if i was john mayer i’d be talking about myself like that too??? he’s a genius and he knows it :*

[@MJ-iy8mw]

Talents don’t define you as a person lmao