Expressing Love, Infidelity & Masculine-Feminine Polarity | Finding The One #4

Welcome to this week's episode of our relationship podcast, Finding The One! In this week's episode, we continue the story from the last episode, and dive deep into topics such as Jen's personal experience with expressing love at home, thoughts around infidelity, and how crucial it is to understand masculine-feminine polarity in relationship.
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[@mariasaravia_]

Until the masculine that is meant to be with me for the rest of my life, enters my life… the masculine is me. The part of me that is going to PROTECT the feminine in me ❤️. How beautiful! Perfectly explained. I’m LOVING the podcast ✨🫶🏻

[@cynthiashouse4631]

I love that….. “I don’t see the obstacle, I see the solution and what I want”

[@eleonorarusso3481]

I felt a little bit of sadness for Jen. It’s so beautiful that she wants to give you love. My husband drops anything for a kiss and a hug 😂

[@emanuelagratiela2739]

I felt that too…I also want that kind of relationship where we can make time for some kisses or a hug, even during work. But then again, no matter how great a relationship is, it will still have its minuses. Maybe this is theirs. And that’s totally fine. But I personally wouldn’t resist in a relationship without these small gestures of affection throughout the day. 😁

[@desirefordessire]

A woman's intuition is everything. From a very young age I was told not to trust myself and to trust the adults around me. This is why I have a hard time listening to myself and validating myself. I need to find myself and put trust in the Universe and in myself.

[@Alkemiss]

A man is at his best when hes providing fully for his woman! Jen is such a light ✨️

[@chaony9]

I freakin love this podcast. I look forward to it every Monday 💖

[@user-dd3ep6sx9e]

Showing raw vulnerability takes guts!! When we reach that level is truly magical!! ❤❤

[@Soul_whisperer_]

When we are young, we so often define how our partner should be based on what our friends, our family members or whoever in our environment consider to be right. The same case is with our jobs, our homes, things we “should” possess etc. And this is actually a tragedy of so many destroyed partnerships, families and dreams.

[@brendab.508]

Something from this conversation especially towards the end about the man’s role. I didn’t realize how much I was in my masculine energy. The biggest revelation I discover from watching this podcast was that how unsafe I felt all my life. And the fact I had trouble depending on other people because I didn’t want to be a burden for them. And that’s my same mentality I have with the thought of a man providing for me. And when Danny said we’re attracting our fathers xyz. The biggest financial burden my dad took on for me was co-signing on my student loans. But apart from that growing up we always struggled with money. My father didn’t know how to manage money well. I held that in my subconscious, so I didn’t feel financially secure, i didn’t feel safe. And that evolved into not wanting to feel like a burden on others.

[@queenchiomaofficial]

This is really powerful. Oh Danny pls let her give him a hug and a kiss as work will always be there. A few moments of TLC is so healthy. Meet in the middle. End of the day is awesome though…but pockets of time in the day are good too. Because we women need to feel loved multiple times a day. ❤️😊

[@biancameikim]

I always lived my life more in masculine energy because I learned in my family that I have to fight on my own and that I can't rely on others. I always felt so unsafe to ask for help and tried everything to not be dependent on others. After 2 years of my selflove journey and hard decisions I am now dependent on other people but I experience that it is safe for me to ask for help and that I am being provided for. It is so healing and like Jen said this feeling of safety feels really really GOOD!

[@randischulz-kallenbach54]

I love your authenticity sooo much. It feels so real and not constructed. Thank you and please go on with it. 🥰

[@titazirvj]

This episode was beautiful guys! I love this podcast 💜 The couple thing is meant to unravel the deepest parts of both human beings. That's the true intimacy that not everybody is willing to share!

[@xtinauben1652]

Totally agree with Danny in keeping our femenine energy pure, in intimicy and if in contact with intuition, we women know if we are nurtured or not. Sex doesnt get me hot, love does !! LOVE TURNS ME ON, SOUL LOVE is very different that human love, and deep inside I think that it is so for every woman. But we all have different journeys that takes us to the same place. Thank you so much to both of you and for sharing such an honesty and transparent journey. It´s very much appreciated and needed these times !! LOVE YA ALL !! We will all have a better world !! We create by sharing !!

[@shantelllindquist2810]

I adore you two! Enjoying your podcast soooo much🌝 Thank you for your raw authenticity, humor, wonderful information, and light🙏🌻💋 I have been on my celibacy journey a little over a year now after leaving a 6.5 to 8 year toxic relationship. This gives me something to look forward to and affirms this is real and I can have what I truly want. Amazing power couple you are keep it up👍 Blessings and Namaste🧚‍♀️

[@AG-nz4pj]

Danny i am proud of you you are the man in the notebook building the home with his own hands 😊❤️

[@user-ud3me8st5t]

When I learned all those nudges and inner "no's" were worth listening to - it changed everything! Too often we aren't taught to value that over our mind, culture, status etc. But our intuition is guiding us towards OUR unique life, not a formula.

[@babychristian6640]

I love what jen said about a women's intuition. I feel it all the time and still override it. I want to learn to embrace it even if my logic tells me otherwise

[@mitz.arellano]

I want to express my gratitude to this amazing couple. Thank you for the difference you make in this world by spreading awareness about relationships and the work we need to do in order to live a harmonious, happy life. This is now one of my fave podcasts to listen to. Sending love from New Zealand ❤

[@MichelleDouglas-ft1yk]

Absolutely loving all your podcasts finding the one!!! I appreciate the rawness and truth from you both. Alot of lessons for all of us!!! So thank you so much to the both of you ❤️❤️

[@BakeItUpwithLorena]

Come on now...I can't wait for another week. 😭😭 I freaking adore you guys. You guys are what we need to balance things out from where we came. Women are tired and men are confused. Staying together became extremely challenging. We must find a way.

[@sydneyangel5134]

I just listened to all four episodes all in one day lol, I was intrigued. I really loved how vulnerable both of you were in sharing your stories and the realness of you both. Something thats so important to touch on that alot of women dont share is that how scary and off putting a man showing up fully ready to love you, choose you, provide for you can be when youve never been shown that from another, nor yourself truly. Another point Jenn got at as how women we are multitaskers and thinkers and then when it comes to the beginning of a relationship we can tend to overthink our present moment in the fear of the future/shit from the past.... Then we get scared and get the ick and it freaks us out, but when we are faced with a masculines grounding nature we can surrender into our feminine feelings rather then our logical mind and come back to the present moment, what feels good for me right now, can i melt into that? This episode was gold thank you

[@summmer77]

14:40 the more you unravel the more you get closer together because you get closer to your higher self- Wow. I am just going through this now. Thank you❤1:00:00 I love this- be your masculine first

[@yoli_zee8]

I loooove this podcast!! You guys are so raw and real, very refreshing! Thank you! 😊❤

[@clarabritton4564]

58:00 to 1:00:50 is a really precious advice. Communication is the key. Also, setting clear and honest boundaries with people you like is really important to know and decide thoughtfully who you want to be, what you want for yourself and what is allowed to enter in your life experience. 💫

[@michaelpolyviou7967]

Following instagram models!! Why!!!?!!! Thank you for that conversation and justifying and explaining my personal issues around that and then being called jealous and insecure because of it! ❤ love Yvonne

[@tatiananugent8434]

Absolutely love your show! I can relate to Jen in so many things, especially in regards to when both partners working from home. Amazing! 🥰❤

[@forestfairy6]

Been watching the podcast the last couple days and resonate with the content alot.Ive been on a spiritual journey a while & healing my inner child and childhood woundings, coming back into my body and embracing my feminine . I can see and feel my soul mate close to me and in my dreams and in my 3rd eye tho still haven't meet him yet :(your relationship shows me its possible even when not fully heal :)Thank you Danny and Jen, big fan here!!!XX Looking forward to the next episode :)

[@katherinsohrabian2848]

Love this podcast. I look forward to it every Monday. ❤

[@humaarsh2285]

Makes a lot of sense! I know what I feel and I know what I want. Your podcast was just there to confirm to me what my mind had been doubting.

[@marialgonzales68]

Thank you, Danny and Jen love this podcast. So much to help me to understand about what a real relationship or partnership can be like! Feeling so grateful to have come across this podcast 🪷

[@tabithabocook4593]

I absolutely love Jen. She responds with her whole hearted truth. She isn’t processing or thinking for anyone else but her self and being who she is in her own reality moment of every moment. 🫶🏼

[@rotembeneli1767]

Wow! What an episode !!! Loves the questions, the honesty and the bravery to speak your truth guys thank you❤

[@carlamoreno1435]

I just to say… that I LOVE you guys!!! This is being helpful for my healing journey and learning so much on the but way!!! Having you both in this space explaining both sides is easier to understand the way!! Thank you both!! 🙏

[@ideletdejonge8773]

Love the bravery and authenticity! Beautiful, makes me think… courage and vulnerability… loving all of it!

[@life13525]

this is a hot topic...I as a woman hate to be dependent on a man...fear of feeling inferior and overpowered by men

[@hellosunshine53]

Thank you for this podcast. It's empowering and inspiring and provides so much clarity about what a truely expansive relationship is. Which from my understanding is really what we mean when we say soulmate.

[@estherrosenberg815]

This episode is incredible! So eye opening into these subtle subconscious insecurities we have🙏🏼

[@1111gba]

Love the content! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story, it’s sacred and helpful! ❤

[@darlyballestrini4275]

I love all about your podcast. Thank you for the advice of the last question you received, that was SO GOOD! ❤❤

[@secretosdeyanely]

Loved this episode so much!!! Those last words at the end!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@nailsideasforyou]

I love your conversation full of flow and genuine truth! ♥ thank you for these well-spent moments

[@desertstars1000]

Love this podcast 💖 Was wondering if you can delve more into the subject of Danny holding back on the affection 😍

[@breaubry578]

This was an amazing episode! Dropped so many gems!!! Thank you for sharing ❤

[@bhavyabhat1791]

Such an eye-opening episode! Amazing ❣

[@loraineloozen7085]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I hear so much I can relate to. So beautiful how you share so authentically. I do want to add that I don’t agree with the woman needing to adjust if she wants to give a hug or a kiss. It seems more like an ego thing from the man. Just as if a hug is going to keep you from doing a good job. Letting in a vibration of love I think can help you do a better job. In that moment you are not able to let love in it seems.. a hug or kiss is not an hour long conversation.. or that might be the fear that it turns into that. I don’t know, that workmode seems more like stress mode 🙂 I can relate and I am not adjusting to that, I can honor my husbands time, but a brief moment of connection seems healthy for everyone. ❤🎉

[@eselenakalinnikova]

Thank you guys ❣️so true what you’re saying…and intuitively I feel for about a year that I want a man fully provide for me…but when I think about it…I feel scared, because it’s also about trust. But really want to find a special one to whom I can fully trust and experience this magical moment of being in a real feminine energy and fully trust to someone ❤❤

[@BoulderZumbaQueen]

Fantastic episode! VERY helpful! Thank you both so much!

[@Christines-gt8jq]

Your podcast is soooo good! I look forward to every episode🎉

[@dalreenjoseph446]

Loved it, guys. It resignated with where I'm at in my relationship with my partner. Thanx ❤

[@ChristinaKM]

Love love this show, I look forward to it every week

[@callhermel]

I loved this one sooooo much!!!!! Thank you both!!!! EVERYTHING was very helpful!!!!!

[@user-gp6ts5dp3h]

I'm not in a relationship but the broadcast helps me find the one❤❤

[@user-gp6ts5dp3h]

This is an amazing podcast.Thank you so much❤❤❤

[@danielledaniels6749]

My favorite shows: 9-1-1, The Originals, Supernatural, Charmed, Finding The One with Danny and Jen. And I am healthily and unhealthily attached to this podcast and I don't dive and follow podcasts in my 40s. As Jen stated, 'This is great shit'!

[@summmer77]

Being brutally honest: “I like your content 😉” IS MAJOR RED FLAG FLIRTING. But! This is what my intuition is telling me Jen: he quickly realized he fucked up and grabbed his arrogant ego validation neediness and received a cold shower with your reaction and he immediately understood WHAT THE F AM I DOING WITH THIS TRAUMA PATTERN out of insecurity HAVING THE GODDESS I HAVE BESIDE ME? And so he learnt and corrected his behaviour which is very admirable. But did he fuck up first? Yes. So, keep working on that cause now you know where devil has access to you, D. Much love. We are all healing.❤

[@emanuelagratiela2739]

Minute x53, so accurate, Jesus. It literally just happened to me. I was talking to and seeing this extremely great man (the first man I was attracted to, I had a long history of always being into and involved with wounded boys) since a few weeks with whom I was having a great connection, mentally, and also emotionally and spiritually, of course, as much as it can evolve in a few weeks. And the first weeks since I met him i was constantly in my head, asking myself and God if it’s going to be something serious or not. I wanted it to be serious, but at the same time I was aware that I’m not ready for THE relationship now. But I was feeling that God sent him to me. So it was a constant conflict between these two sides in my mind. Then a few nights ago while I was with him, I literally asked God to help me receive what I need to receive. Then during the next day which we spent together, I could literally feel in my heart how he’s not for me and I am not for him. But what I found extremely interesting was how at the beginning I was constantly worried about being chosen, but as soon as I opened my heart, I realised that what I am searching for. And also it’s extremely interesting that as I started to open up about why I don’t see us working, we ended up having the most honest and vulnerable talk (as many other before) we then were able to understand why we both needed each-other for this short period of time, which were the lessons of this interaction and ended up having the most constructive and positive closure (at least for me) in the world.

[@Barb444]

I am loving these conversations ❤

[@moncyliu99]

You guys should start a dating app for the people who follow you and your students so that we can meet like-minded people that are on the same page with your teachings. This would save us soooo much time😅

[@albertinemackz3927]

Thank you both❤❤ this gave me a lot of aha moments.

[@nataliakmiecik7254]

Thank you for the answer on last question ❤❤❤❤❤

[@DuarteFialhoPT]

Its amazing! Thank you so much for your sharing both 🙏🙏🙏

[@DuarteFialhoPT]

Thank you for your honesty, straightforwardness, for your sharing. I felt so many important topics for me were talked about, if not all. Thank you for both perspectives it helped a lot in my journey as a Man, great insights about being the Provider (and so much more to come) and to reinforce and go deeper about the understanding of what I want on being in a relationship and what was my relationship. Thank you so much 🙏

[@Auvesa9]

I’m a feminist and totally agree with what Jen said about going back to the feminine energy. Because to me being a feminist is that women should have equal rights as men, the right to choose and the right to have the same salary as a man for the same job. And the right to choose if they want to be provided for or work. Also keep in mind that not all women have the opportunity to be provided for (divorced women, single women, etc)

[@venustilgus8659]

Beautiful topic 😍

[@andreasandiegorealestate]

Love you two. I’m so in my masculine, of necessity. And I would so love to not need to be.

[@audreyboissonneault6475]

Wow so much value to what you say ❤

[@DavidVelasquez9]

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it.

[@user-er9hv4pl2u]

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@DavidVelasquez9]

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

[@gnicoleg8888]

Great episode 🤗❤️

[@infinity-8888]

Thank you loves...for this all vedios

[@erickaalferez8312]

Love you guys and ur energy.

[@KarenH8]

When you asked her the questions at the very end, I was able to answer with NO so quickly..

[@nataliakmiecik7254]

Hahahah ❤❤❤😂😂😂 love the beginning of the Podcast ♥️

[@dietante494]

This is so amazing..ah! 🙌😍

[@lornasuttle2801]

You two are awesome ❤

[@conniebatesramos591]

I’m loving #FindingTheOne What would you do to cultivate your daughter’s feminine energy as parents? Is there something we can do?

[@user-zr7zk1dg8h]

Love the content ❤

[@Doin_Life]

I love that you address the ‘shit’ men. I actually just got more respect for you Danny. Relationship standards, so important.

[@SRTsoulsessions]

I love you both 🎉 thank you 😊

[@mooses06]

Namaste❤

[@cynthiashouse4631]

I am so much like Jen was…. 1) my boyfriend doesn’t look like my “type”, but I’m attracted to him 2) choosing to love instead of get mad about the piddly shit (dishes, shoes, etc) 3) to allow myself to drop into my feminine. To trust him with everything, including to take care of me and be there for my young adult children.

[@anitajozsef7324]

I dont see much age difference! Danny looks as young as Jen!

[@tash9pm]

❤❤❤❤

[@AG-nz4pj]

Very beautiful💗

[@xtinauben1652]

you both are so cute !! 🌷

[@theugandanaffiliate]

I know you have a lot going on or planned at the Morel Global Empire, however in future can we have two episodes a week? And I understand, there is a young family that needs dad and mummy, business as usual to run etc. But give it a thought. Since its not a live podcast, record them at once and have them uploaded twice a week. In Jen's voice and accent; 'This is my only ask'

[@karinbejo3135]

12:50 ❤❤❤

[@karinbejo3135]

& 34:00 ❤❤❤

[@lukasgisler]

Regarding making love: Should one wait with having sex until one gets married, or is this also some kind of a limiting belief? Because this is what I live by, to wait with sex until marriage...

[@Magdanellen]

Hi! I have a question. I just watched episode #4 of finding the one. You talked about the masculine providing. So in my family dynamic my husband is a stay at home dad. Childcare fees did not make sense against his salary. He was a teacher and I own a spa. With that being said, I was bringing in double or more what he made and we decided it was best for him to stay home. He takes care of most household duties and he nanny's a few kids. So he has been able to monetize being home and is bringing in close to what he was making as a teacher. My struggle is, is I am still the provider and I feel like that Is having me tap into my masculine more than I would like. What are your thoughts on our situation? I asked him last night is he ever feels like he is emasculated in the dynamics of our family and he doesn't. I feel like, I would like to fall into my feminine more, but as the main provider it puts a different stress on you. Do you have any advice or guidance on this?

[@xtinauben1652]

I have a question: You always recall your butterfly experience and message while sitting with the sacred medicine.. Is this like that for all? Was that like that for Jen? Thank you for being!!❤❤

[@alexanegron3303]

I would really love to ask if Danny can share the name of the person who does his psychic readings?

[@tabithabocook4593]

I don’t think it’s scared to get hurt, or scared to be alone. Bc I can handle hurt, and I love being alone. I think, for me, it’s more about finding that I gave up parts of myself, to this other person, and now I’ve waisted time on my life holding back my own excitements, for this other person to do something that feels like, I made a mistake on you. I want to live in my highest excitement all the time. Aka my joy. If my joy is to come kiss you, I’m going to come kiss you. Work will always be there. My highest excitement for that kiss I crave, I want to have and share that. That’s living. Being in relationships are hard for me, bc I feel weighted down by boundaries and expectations I feel isn’t natural. I want this person, but have to wait. I want to do this, but I have to converse first with someone else. I get if someone else is involved of course, but If I see they are just holding back for whatever reasons they may have I want to change that for them too. -ex: friends leaving on a weekend and I want to go. But he’s a guy. My husband can’t go but man I would love that and have a great time. I have the time. My husband does not. I trust myself. This guy is trust worthy. But then I don’t go. Bc it’s not “normal” I absolutely love and adore and wouldn’t ever change who my husband is for anybody, but I still want to be free spirited. I’m happiest in my freedom self. Relationships change that. So when something doesn’t go “right” by them for me, as I honor them, losing a part in my own excitement, I’m feeling it deeper bc I’m the one sacrificing my Own excitements. Even if they are honorable reasons. I don’t think men realize how much we also “tame” in our “feminine” to be in a roll, bc honestly what is actual pure natural, is we do what we want when we want when it brings us our most excitement. - I’m an amazing leader. My masculine is fire. And I absolutely love people. But I also have to not “steal” energy away from him. Even though I’m not stealing anything I’m just being in my natural power. My feminine is when I come hm. When I’m with my man, when I’m in the bedroom. That’s when I want to submit. Their is a time in a place of balance in the dance of life, but then their is also all these honoring bs things to live in bc it’s part of the human race. This has been indifferent. Bc even with a rich husband, I want to be in my power at work, and In my feminine power. There is nothing in having to ask or worry about if I can or can not have or do something. It’s strange to be an adult in this situation, especially coming from a childhood where that didn’t exist either. My dad trusted me to move freely. I want my partner to do that to as I do for him.

[@Karkar_8]

❤❤❤

[@hellosunshine53]

question: how does a feminine woman harness some of that masculine energy to protect and provide for herself until she does find that healthy masculine who steps up for her?

[@dietante494]

🙏

[@AaronShaneBartell]

Thank you for this video. I'm curious what is your age difference?

[@elenaperez9687]

❤

[@ashleyysaks63]

Who is that pyshic of your plz

[@CdUB2542]

Omg a psychic actually predicting the truth is wow

[@ferngoodman9163]

I think it should be okay for Jen to " pop" in and give Danny a kiss throughout the working day. It would be best u both work on this. Danny allowing and receiving and Jen not feeling Danny's inability to receive has ANYTHING to do with how Danny feels about her or her value.

[@KingJulian_111]

❤️🦋