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We Had A Scary Conversation | Finding The One #7

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Finding The One

Finding The One

Күн бұрын

Welcome to this week's episode of Finding The One, our heartfelt journey through the ups and downs of relationships. Today's episode is especially raw and real, as we delve into a challenging conversation that took place just 45 minutes before we hit record. Jen opens up about her recent feelings of resentment and homesickness following her trip to London, and we explore how Danny responded, providing support and space for her emotions.
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@sousoubouz
@sousoubouz Ай бұрын
It would be nice to move to London for her and let her have the same joy of experiencing her life back with her little family and origin family together ❤
@Soul_whisperer_
@Soul_whisperer_ 3 ай бұрын
The way Jen feels and her sadness are a perfectly normal thing. No matter how much you love someone - living on the other end of the world, far away from people and the kind of life you love isn’t an easy pill to swallow. Jen can’t spend time with her family and friends together with Celina and enjoy time together. She can’t just go for a coffee with her mum or with a friend. When she is sad she can’t just get hugged by her family. She literally has nobody except Danny and Celina. Internet can’t substitute personal connection. This has absolutely nothing to do with the ego. We are humans and not machines. I am very honest - I have done a similar thing once and I would never ever again leave my whole life behind for any man in the world who is not willing to do that for me as well. Right now there are so many things that you have to go through and hard work to do. But one day you will look back and realise how much you have accomplished together ❤
@bonnyhakimi
@bonnyhakimi 3 ай бұрын
Can you please make this podcast twice a week. You made me looking forward to mondays
@lenaashley
@lenaashley 3 ай бұрын
I agree 😊
@danielledaniels6749
@danielledaniels6749 3 ай бұрын
I thought the same. Twice a week will calm my anxiety to wait all month withing a week. Danny & Jen hit such an amazing sweetspot of truth and vulnerability when they decided to do this.
@blissGurl8
@blissGurl8 3 ай бұрын
I second this. Thank you for peeling back the raw vulnerable layers of your relationship for all of us to learn and grow from. ❤
@emanuelagratiela2739
@emanuelagratiela2739 3 ай бұрын
I’m on this too! I want more of this authenticity and vulnerability! Pretty please🥹🙏
@janettemuotio2371
@janettemuotio2371 3 ай бұрын
Hey, love your podcast!! I wanted to comment on this one - as a mom, I’ve noticed that whatever the mother is feeling is going to affect the child. Like you said your baby girl was reaching when you were, and when you were calm talking to your mom, the baby was smiling. Our nervous systems are linked and especially the mother affects to this, since it hasn’t been long when the baby was in your belly and part of your whole being experiencing everything that you experience… just wanted to share this and point it out❤ love you guys!
@rahilaanwar3621
@rahilaanwar3621 3 ай бұрын
This was such a powerful share guys and I can totally relate to it. I cried a lot when Danny was telling his side of the story. It’s beautiful and heartwarming to see a man being so vulnerable and open. I felt so proud of Jen’s wisdom and bravery to come out with it. Well done you two🙏🏻🙌😇❤️
@angelssurround444
@angelssurround444 3 ай бұрын
Go Jen! Love when you chimed in about the post thing! Truth! ❤
@debclark6026
@debclark6026 3 ай бұрын
I need to be clear about something. This podcast is not a “soap opera”. This is real life and beautiful spiritual wisdom! I know that you know that, and this is me calling you out on that in a gentle and loving way. Thank you for the work that you do! ❤️🙏😀
@theartistfelencia1148
@theartistfelencia1148 3 ай бұрын
This @findingtheone episode is "The difficult emotionally mature conversation" where it feels scary to face the fear and choice(s) of love. Thank you for helping my heart to understand and embrace what the free will of loving another truly is. LOVE IS - active listening, authentic acceptance, mutual respect, and always, always allowing each other to "be" free.
@lorimalachowsky9768
@lorimalachowsky9768 3 ай бұрын
Wow great episode. I truly feel if my ex partner had given me the space to share my fears we would still be together. Bravo to you Danny for allowing scary feelings to be shared in a safe space 👏👏👏👏
@nevermind5214
@nevermind5214 3 ай бұрын
Girl, run. Run fast. You're gonna be ok, you're safe and you're amazing, just trust your gut. YOUR gut.
@danielleknoetze2210
@danielleknoetze2210 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your vulnerability!! I’m always looking forward to each new episode 🥹
@xtinauben1652
@xtinauben1652 3 ай бұрын
Great episode!! Amazing Jen .. and Danny, of course, but she is so young and already so so WISE !! Thanks so much for you insights you are helping a lot of people to step into consciosness, what a beautiful "job" 🌷
@BakeItUpwithLorena
@BakeItUpwithLorena 3 ай бұрын
And we are so grateful for you guys. I can't wait for Monday morning to come to watch your video! ❤❤
@maritanizam9124
@maritanizam9124 3 ай бұрын
Dear lovely Jen, I can certainly relate. Left my home country (Germany) to be with my now ex husband in Canada. He used to say I was a different person when I was in Germany. It takes time. When my kids were young I would have jumped at the chance to go back to Germany and build a life there. I would have packed my things and sprinted to the airport. Over time Canada "caught up" to Germany. I still go back every year to visit. I still have my good friends in Germany. But Canada is home too now and I would not want to leave. Saying goodbye after a visit gets easier. It's definitely harder when the kids are smaller because they change so much. It'll get easier for you too. 🤗
@Soul_whisperer_
@Soul_whisperer_ 3 ай бұрын
I am still a different person when I am in my country of origin and spend time with my school friends. I feel more safe to be “me”. Whether we want it or not - we naturally play a role that is “appropriate” to the culture and / or environment that we live in. Sometimes it’s only a matter whether we live in a big city or countryside. So we really may look inwards and ask ourselves which way to be makes us truly happy and just be that.
@danielledaniels6749
@danielledaniels6749 3 ай бұрын
Danny & Jen...I can't speak for the world but for me and my partner...you're right on time. We have done our own individual work and wanted an honest, vulnerability as our friendship is amazing. Thank you. Can't wait to meet you both, hopefully, at Awakening 🎉!
@josefinafajardo2356
@josefinafajardo2356 3 ай бұрын
I have been single for a while and am now ready for a beautiful relationship because I’ve done a lot of inner work. But this podcast from you 2 is the icing on the cake! Thank you! This is the most beautiful gift you can give your daughter, two loving conscious parents ❤❤❤
@danielledaniels6749
@danielledaniels6749 3 ай бұрын
I agree❤
@KG-bliss
@KG-bliss 3 ай бұрын
I am in the same boat. I would love to see how that work has changed or elevated parts of me in a relationship and what's interesting is, that attracted a man who is or who seems to be the kind of man that I want, bar one thing... and am thinking my manifestation of what I am looking for can't be short anything... but I also know what I want is still on its way... am just watching everything that the Universe is bringing to me but I like what's happening. I am becoming my best self and not throwing myself into what looks like IT... and it's peaceful, no drama. Bliss awaits❤
@Souhaird
@Souhaird 2 ай бұрын
Thank you … THANK YOU from the depth of my soul and heart … I feel truly humbled with how much courage you show in your vulnerability … I feel so inspired and I spite to find ‘my one’ and love this kind of true authentic LOVE you both feel, share and honor in one another ❤
@cynthiashouse4631
@cynthiashouse4631 3 ай бұрын
Really good series…. I see myself in the relationship I’m in while you’re telling your story. You’re giving me tools. I told him I want to talk about anything I’ve done that he resents me for. I want to unpack all that because it seems like we may be both anxious/avoidant attachment. It seems to be dying, but this is my last hope, depending on how tonight goes.
@titazirvj
@titazirvj 15 күн бұрын
This episode was so powerful and vulnerable... It's true that very little couples would be on this dynamic of willing to go into the scariest parts of them in front of the other one. Listening to your podcast from the beginning, it's helping me to realize that my values getting into a relationship were always right, and that's the reason why I'haven't been in a successful relationship ever. Most of my life I've been alone, working on my self and, not finding that few OK human (as Jen would say ;)) to have a conscious relationship with. So, thanks so much to both, for making me conscious about the great values in me and the huge work I've already done with myself to align every time closer to my truth and therefore, the partner I deserve. 💝
@gioiamusc
@gioiamusc 3 ай бұрын
this episode was amazing guys - you literally helped me heal, IN REAL TIME, my wound with my parent’s relationship. it’s their individual responsibility to take ownership over their lived reality - no one is making you do anything!! you have a choice, as much as the other person, to consent to the experience. OR NOT. hit right home. big love to you both
@angelamccold1104
@angelamccold1104 3 ай бұрын
As a Gemini, I can relate to Danny😂😂 I feel terrible for my boyfriend sometimes because I just cannot help myself. 😂
@user-gp6ts5dp3h
@user-gp6ts5dp3h 3 ай бұрын
I cried watching this episode There is a lot of courage in Danny's words when he says I'm ready to let you go❤
@Kassi-lc9xb
@Kassi-lc9xb Ай бұрын
Love this so much! Jen, I resonate with this 100%!
@Gpeidav
@Gpeidav 2 ай бұрын
Jen is so beautifully aware ❤
@gnicoleg8888
@gnicoleg8888 3 ай бұрын
Beautiful just beautiful ❤
@elenaangheluta
@elenaangheluta 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this opportunity to understand this kind of connection , it isn’t rare as people may think is just we are so full off bulshit and trauma we don’t recognize it ..and this is because we are wounded
@neshtes
@neshtes 3 ай бұрын
I love this podcast so much. Every episode is better than the last one. I started following Jen when she was at evolve you then I started following Danny because of Jen 😅. Best clicks I have ever done 🙏 I love your content and most of them resonate so much with me. Today’s episode was so good, the way you communicate and allow each other to express each other it’s so amazing. I can’t wait for the next episode.
@julie-christinedumont6829
@julie-christinedumont6829 Ай бұрын
You are both incredibly transparent and so full of love for each other. 🩷 Thanks for sharing.
@user-ql8de4hd5j
@user-ql8de4hd5j 3 ай бұрын
Can't express how much I loooooove your podcast!! Thank you so much! Please continue ))) It helps A LOT! Greetings from Russia )❤
@charotorres4737
@charotorres4737 3 ай бұрын
Since I've been watching "Finding the one" podcast, I've learned a lot about myself. There are so many "coincidence" in things that you both experienced with my life that confirms that God keeps showing me the path that I need to follow whenever I asked Him for guidance. Thank you both. Keep doing this. Romantic relationships are beautiful but not easy.
@lidiagiubilaro8784
@lidiagiubilaro8784 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story and being so real , you are helping so many people 🩷
@Gringavaitecontar
@Gringavaitecontar 3 ай бұрын
Wouldn’t be loving her just taking the decision to go with her to London ??? And live there together ??
@Kathryn-wq8qh
@Kathryn-wq8qh 3 ай бұрын
I'm sure if he didn't have children he'd do it in a heartbeat
@nehayamuaket
@nehayamuaket 2 ай бұрын
Ugh, how comfortable i am right now..witnessing the part of us by seeing you guys❤️ I am grateful for the internet and my phone and everything between that had brought me to you (which eventually brought me to me🙏)
@MonicaAlvarado19
@MonicaAlvarado19 3 ай бұрын
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE! Thank you guys for being so vulnerable to your audience! It truly helps seeing the "real" in things. Jen is the sweetest soul ever! Much love
@BoulderZumbaQueen
@BoulderZumbaQueen 2 ай бұрын
WOW, this is so powerful!
@mariasaravia_
@mariasaravia_ 2 ай бұрын
The whole podcast was super enlightening… but the question about infidelity for Danny at the end was the most valuable. I admired you had the courage to decide to talk about it so openly and share from a man’s perspective and emotionally structure what drove you to act in it. I would love more subjects on infidelity because I feel like that is a real issue in relationships - and because it’s not a nice feeling for men or women we tend to avoid understanding WHY it happens Most people believe infidelity is the problem but really, it’s just the cause for a lot more going on deep inside and THAT is what needs to be shared ✨
@sharonbarrerogarcia
@sharonbarrerogarcia 3 ай бұрын
Another great one 😍. This helped me so much as I've been resenting moving country to live in an isolated area for my relationship but I've also felt guilty because he supports and provides for me financially so I was feeling that I'm not being grateful. This has helped me just by seeing I'm not the only one and its not about being ungrateful. Thank you both for how vulnerable you both are 🙏❤
@antoinetteadame0526
@antoinetteadame0526 3 ай бұрын
This was a very powerful share from you guys. Confirmed what I need from a relationship as well as you both sharing from a really vulnerable place. Thank you!
@nicolechevalier6923
@nicolechevalier6923 3 ай бұрын
Such a great show……so raw and honest. the potency of watching you communicate with one another in the present moment is absolutely priceless….. life lessons in what communication can be in relationship. Thank you both for your incredible generosity….. in opening yourselves to us all can we in turn learn how to do the same in our own lives. What a gift🙏🏻
@kristelvandergrinten
@kristelvandergrinten 2 ай бұрын
Wow, this was so beautiful. And for me really recognisable for the situation where I am in. Thank you for your true honesty.
@dulcermz4937
@dulcermz4937 3 ай бұрын
Love this episode. I love how honest and open it was. As a mom I feel for Jen, being a new mom, and handling postpartum and moving to a whole new world. Definitely give yourself some grace beautiful Jen and remember you matter too. As mom we forget ourselves continue to create a new exciting rhythm that flows best for you. You have a very supportive partner that gives you the space to do that. As a single mom it is challenging to not have that support and handle things alone while still pouring into my cup. Embrace the new changes and find your new identity in this new light. Many blessings to you both!
@Julie-pd2jn
@Julie-pd2jn 3 ай бұрын
So real so vulnerable. Thank you for sharing and helping me find clarity. ❤
@St3f4n13cy
@St3f4n13cy 3 ай бұрын
You give me hope that it actually is possible for things to fall in place after being in limbo for years..thank you for sharing your story ❤️
@dimitylane9021
@dimitylane9021 3 ай бұрын
Danny is always just so lovely to Jen .. sometimes it feels like he’s chasing something she may not really want ?
@davidtrig
@davidtrig 3 күн бұрын
10000%
@ChiaraSpadafora
@ChiaraSpadafora 10 сағат бұрын
Not at all 😅 he didn't even say babe let's move to London
@Souhaird
@Souhaird 2 ай бұрын
Thank you … THANK YOU from the depth of my soul and heart … I feel truly humbled with how much courage you show in your vulnerability … ❤❤ When I watch you, I feel so touched, inspired and in fact validated in my own pursuit in finding ‘my one,’ in way where I honor my true feminine- (as I have been doing the inner work for a long time) - so I know and what kind of human and kind of feelings I want to be living with… bearing in mind the fact that we - as humans - are a ‘work in progress … and I promised myself not to compromise .. May God Bless this kind of true authentic LOVE you both feel, share and honor in one another ❤
@LauraGonzalez-lb2uu
@LauraGonzalez-lb2uu 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for going with the flow and sharing a real time example of what you’re going through instead of forcing yourself to stick to a scripted/planned topic/episode. I’m going through the same thing with my partner - feeling resentment but trying to find the courage to speak up about it and trusting that he will be able to receive it without getting defensive. This topic was right on time and I just feel that it’s a collective energy. Sharing it when you did, matters. Also, side note: hearing Jen talk about life in Austin made me want to move to Austin to become a friend and a part of your new tribe in America 💖 Sending you both, & your partnership, so much love ✨🤗
@secretosdeyanely
@secretosdeyanely 3 ай бұрын
Loving you is being able to let you be you even if that means you being without me ❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽 thank you guys for sharing your story
@katherinsohrabian2848
@katherinsohrabian2848 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your venerability and being so authentic ❤
@preeths86
@preeths86 3 ай бұрын
Indeed it's a scary conversation!! Mind blowing Danny and Jen❤❤ as always how beautifully you portray vulnerability and authenticity of your relationship and how beautifully u hold space for each other is just way beyond words..Today Q and A was bang on🔥🔥 Deep thoughts, self reflection, deep acceptance, deep self awareness..everything you guys are taking inside into us literally deep and powerful ❤❤❤ you guys are healing relationships beautifully by asking us to handle our own shit..love you guys for doing this podcast❤❤❤
@Gringavaitecontar
@Gringavaitecontar 3 ай бұрын
Great episode 🎉❤I love you both🙏you are such an example!
@osnatika1
@osnatika1 3 ай бұрын
This Podcast is the real deal ❤ thank you guys.
@lyvlyfe
@lyvlyfe 3 ай бұрын
I need to have a SCARY conversation with my guy. I've been putting it off, but with this episode, it's telling me if I don't do it, I'll just be stuck. Thank you so much for your bravery and truth.
@ningairline
@ningairline Ай бұрын
I can totally relate to your authenticity and vulnerability. As I’ve grown in my own journey I recognized that I want a partner whom I can speak to so openly where we both hold a safe space for each other like you both do. You guys have really shown me what’s possible and it’s not just a “fairy tale” that so many people have told me I’m living in. With the right person who we both feel safe with each other, I’m willing to have these hard conversations ❤❤ thank you for sharing your story so I know what’s possible in the 3D world!
@andreajohnstone9269
@andreajohnstone9269 2 ай бұрын
Thankyou for sharing your life together. And the realness and all your vulnerability. Bless you all .. ❤
@sylwiakusek7045
@sylwiakusek7045 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story 🎉❤
@beelbrands
@beelbrands 3 ай бұрын
Love this podcast so much! ❤
@Ro-pw8mo
@Ro-pw8mo 3 ай бұрын
Can’t even begin to tell you how much this helps my journey of healing for myself after a really hard divorce. I keep loosing myself when I’m feeling certain pains that come up. Feeling loss and feeling like I’m not worthy of everything I deserve but when I hear the both of you explaining to go through the pain and not around it, it helps to understand it takes time and compassion and that I’ll reach the other side. Thank you!
@billiondbabie
@billiondbabie 3 ай бұрын
You are both the best 🙌
@TracyVarendorff
@TracyVarendorff 2 ай бұрын
Loved this! After Awaken, Reunion and Discover I’m single as I know what I want, don’t want, and who I am. Sharing your communication helps me see the energy I want to live in. Thank you! MUCH love to you both!!!
@mariopineda3895
@mariopineda3895 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@Sarra-fm5wf
@Sarra-fm5wf 3 ай бұрын
Every episode, there are things you say, and with the way & energy you say it, I pause, I reflect on myself, on my relationships, and the emotions I'm going through.. Thank you for being here, thank youfor allowing this space, and for your vulnerability. God bless you ❤
@yarasweet22
@yarasweet22 3 ай бұрын
literally Danny is the most Gemini man ever and Jen thinks men are complicated but no it's just Danny being a Gemini lol! and also I'm guessing Jen has Pisces in her chart cus of the way she tries to translate her thoughts into words + her features.
@ideletdejonge8773
@ideletdejonge8773 3 ай бұрын
I honestly love your vulnerability and true authenticity- it is so raw and it really makes me want to be a better person. Thank you so much ❤️
@gtaminez
@gtaminez 3 ай бұрын
I want to give Jen a hug! I became a mom at 26 and it was so hard. I lost so much of myself in the role and relationship. You are also dealing with postpartum hormones and then add leaving London, her community…it’s a lot. And the only way is through it! You are so mature and strong and Dani is a good partner.
@tonyatrotman3369
@tonyatrotman3369 3 ай бұрын
Blessings to you both Danny and Jen!! As I am listening to the podcast, I am thinking, maybe, Jen's personal power is calling for manifestation, where she is able to express her own creative energy with your support Danny. Regardless of where it is, London, Texas, the moon.... that way, she connects with a community or even builds a community that caters to/supports where her life is at present.
@Wisdomofself-love
@Wisdomofself-love 3 ай бұрын
You guys are best.❤❤❤
@melidelgado2836
@melidelgado2836 3 ай бұрын
I am not in a relationship and my first thought when you launch finding the one was like "I am ready for this?" And so grateful I found it. I can understand Jen so much with Texas home situation since I am currently at home but deep in my gut I know this is not the place. I don't feel inspired, or conexion at all with my neighbourhood and I have a deep desire to move. So while I navigate those feelings connecting with mysef: finding the one, and the highest self is helping me to step into my power🔋. So grateful for that. ❤❤
@charlottemacdonald4167
@charlottemacdonald4167 2 ай бұрын
You are both lovely people. She has just given birth (orobably is extra sensitive), and moving into a new house and then realizes she misses her family. They need to settle into this new development, and go into silence a little, and be the friends they know they are. Chill. Timing is makes a difference.
@kw2300
@kw2300 3 ай бұрын
OMG, Danny, what an answer, thank you. You have articulated something that I have been trying to put my finger on for the past three years. Amazing. Loss for words.
@loveyourszleona
@loveyourszleona 3 ай бұрын
Yesss yesss yess!! Jen 👏🏻 Sooo glad you're speaking up more and sharing different perspectives in a more gentle and receiveable way...I can see how more people can be reached through your delivery. Thank you both. ❤ 38:15
@mauratenhoopen
@mauratenhoopen 3 ай бұрын
Deep respect for both of you, your openness, vulnerability and reflections. And doing this in front of a camera even to share with many. I’m sure this is helping so many people feel understood, less alone… including myself 🙏🏻❤
@mayrapiloni
@mayrapiloni 3 ай бұрын
What a beautiful and vulnerable share. Thank you both! 🙏🏼 I lived in London 10 yrs and so I resonated with Jen. ❤
@colettecurrier7276
@colettecurrier7276 3 ай бұрын
Thank you both for showing us true authenticity and vulnerability. It gives me a frame for what i want in a relationship with a partner. 🙏
@hippie_pilot
@hippie_pilot 3 ай бұрын
My favorite episode so far, thank you for showing such a good example of how to handle a grand scale difficulty from each side. Thank you a thousand times over for choosing to be so vulnerable on social media so that we can learn. Thank you.
@lizzbierman5090
@lizzbierman5090 3 ай бұрын
Jen, you are amazing. I love your clarity and awareness.
@user-gp6ts5dp3h
@user-gp6ts5dp3h 3 ай бұрын
I wait for this episode every week Thanks for this wonderful podcast🩷
@maiam3396
@maiam3396 3 ай бұрын
Love your authenticity so much! Thank you for sharing all this with us!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉
@MMB667
@MMB667 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for all of your vulnerability and sharing your real true feelings. I love hearing about your story, it's very simular to mine.
@lindsy6875
@lindsy6875 3 ай бұрын
I eagerly await each new episode!! I absolutely LOVE it. A podcast that isn't only heard, but felt 🙏🏻💞
@polinapravdina86
@polinapravdina86 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for doing this. I love you guys. Love how you give each other space to talk and space to yourself to think without rush, love the pace of your voices. I am starting a new healthy relationship and it feels like so many things intertwine in our stories. Learning something with each episode. And can’t wait for every Monday really. Please keep going! World needs more couples like you/us ❤️
@sarahdrousseau
@sarahdrousseau 3 ай бұрын
I’m really enjoying the two of you and hearing your story. This episode was probably my favourite. Loved it when Danny said Heal your sh#t, or something similar. It’s sooo healing for me to listen to you Danny and get an honest and wise male perspective. You’re both helping me fine tune what I’m looking for. I did find my One albeit later in life but he sadly died just 16 years later. So, I’m thinking if I found a One once, I’m positive I can find another One. I have to say though that being in my 70s and looking for another partner is the scariest effing thing I’ve ever done so far. I started my own spiritual journey about 40ish years ago and as a result was able to manifest my husband and allow him in. Thank you both for sharing such a personal journey and I’m looking forward to hearing the Italy story. 💚
@Anna-kt9fu
@Anna-kt9fu 3 ай бұрын
Danny, you're a bit naïve. Most women are happier and feel a stronger need to belong to a tribe, more so than men; it's in their DNA, and evidence of this is everywhere. You also have no idea of the power of the North London J 'matrix'. It provides history, religion, safety, meaning, identity, status, opportunities, and is tightly knit. It feels good, and there is nothing wrong with that; it's not just a city thing. Consider reading "Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging." What you've done is moved Jen from a 'superior' matrix to an 'inferior' one. If you want to solve the problem, the new matrix or tribe she's entering needs to be 'better' than the one she's leaving. Honestly, this will be difficult to surpass, given the advantages I've listed. Most people are completely unaware of what the 'matrix' she comes from is like. I would suggest contacting the local Chabad and becoming more involved where you are. The alternative is an uphill battle, which involves coming to terms with 'exile'-a process that can be more painful for women than for men-or reframing the old tribe as 'inferior' and letting go of it, which is a tough ask given its benefits. As a man, I would immerse myself in her world in North London, feeling and seeing what it's like, then devise rational strategies to recreate and better it where you are.
@abbymackenzie9916
@abbymackenzie9916 3 ай бұрын
I am so grateful for this episode. I can really relate to Jens message at this point on her journey. Your vulnerability is inspiring, I hope to tap into that energy myself and step forward with bravery. Bless you both ❤
@bursacbr
@bursacbr 3 ай бұрын
Thank You ! ❤ I've learned soooo much about deepand true love from both of you... and I'm so grateful bc you live your core values and give all of us the example of ....beauty of live. Thank you 🙏🫀
@chania80
@chania80 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your authenticity. I am here from Spotify. This ep was super powerful and deeeep!! You're helping many of us grow in the way we love. Much love from Kenya!!
@AnnaL.-jy3lz
@AnnaL.-jy3lz 3 ай бұрын
This episode resonated so much with me, thank you for your honesty (Jen in particular!). I left home in London for my American husband, moved to the US, and felt exactly like Jen, isolated in the middle of people that did not vibe with me. I wish you guys were 10 yrs into the future : ) I eventually felt so out of place in the US that I moved back to London, and we are still married but live apart. I’d love to know how you would find a compromise that allow you to honour your truth (say Jen one day comes back home to London) while still allowing to have a meaningful romantic life - long distance for years is not fun. Hope you guys will succeed in your wonderful relationship and not let resentment eroding it slowly like I did.
@MsSmeza
@MsSmeza 3 ай бұрын
This was an amazing episode. Thank you for being so transparent and REAL!
@huntertsilva
@huntertsilva 2 ай бұрын
I believe all young mothers want to be with their mothers. It’s so important.
@bhavyabhat1791
@bhavyabhat1791 3 ай бұрын
This episode is so intense! So many takeaways and reflections. Thank you for this :)
@valenloren1
@valenloren1 3 ай бұрын
So raw and real ! love this episode . It shows how much work you need to put on your relationship. Thanks for all the insights . love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
@vuongthi
@vuongthi 3 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing your story, I have learned a lot from your podcast. I love how beautiful your energy is together
@dalreenjoseph446
@dalreenjoseph446 3 ай бұрын
This episode gave me sadness. To letting go for the sake of love ❤
@sneskobelic7878
@sneskobelic7878 3 ай бұрын
You two are so sweet, thank you 🤗🌸💖
@manuelavuolo2526
@manuelavuolo2526 3 ай бұрын
This was Great, thank you to share. I think every topic in the couple can ve summed up with this. Wonderfull ❤️✨
@elinabek2373
@elinabek2373 3 ай бұрын
Great episode, thanks for sharing with us ❤
@H2-lk6ol
@H2-lk6ol 3 ай бұрын
You both have totally hit many deep nerves in many positive ways with these truths. I needed a box of tissues for this episode. 🤧🥲 The accuracy will be very relatable to many couples! I believe communication can be scary only if you allow it to be restrictive and predictive. If we can learn from it, to listen more, and apply from it, rather than be scared to approach it, this would be so gratifying & fulfilling as couples. 🥰❤ We can’t wait to see you both for your June Awakening in Miami 🙌🏽 Lov you both! ❤️
@sandrasophie222
@sandrasophie222 3 ай бұрын
I love your videos guys thanks for being so open and unfiltered!!
@Teresita-ls1eh
@Teresita-ls1eh 3 ай бұрын
She’s leaving her matrix becoming a matrix herself
@michellecampos7455
@michellecampos7455 3 ай бұрын
You are THE MOST honest real transparent couple. 💕
@tinaaime
@tinaaime 3 ай бұрын
Thank you Jen , you kind of remember myself and going through thoughts and d confusions I m french nationality ( lived all my first 20 years in Paris France )and , i moved to Greece to be with my love.. You expressed so much all your feelings like if there were mine , between your home/ London( as the daughter of your parents ) and home / austin ( the mother of your daughter ..) The difference ? Is that my man was not an awakened person as danny ! You are two precious energies and Selena is a BEAUTIFUL gift Enjoy LIFE
@melsulemani2103
@melsulemani2103 3 ай бұрын
I love this rawness…
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