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[@jessicamoylan]

Hello lovely people! I hope you are well and having an amazing day! I was a little hesitant to put this video out as it’s not the usual vibe I want to go for but it’s real life. I had been struggling with a few things and just ran myself into the ground, I was going to cut out the parts where I’m not “super positive or productive” but that’s not reality and I don’t want to fall into the trap of putting on a show. I started this channel to share my journey and help other moms to not feel so alone. It is totally normal to feel up and down and have bad days too. SO if you are having a bad day too, I’m sending you a massive hug and a reminder that you are amazing ❤ breathe, take a step back if you can, and talk to yourself as you would to a friend you care about. Treat yourself with compassion and kindness too! You can start again you don’t need to wait for a new day or a new year to make positive changes in your life and shift your path. Do something that makes you happy & keep going 💪🏼✨ Have a great day my lovely KZbin family and take care of yourself 🙏🏼 Lots of love, Jess ❤

[@sophiasankar1540]

Sending virtual hugs your way ❤❤❤❤

[@jessicamoylan]

Thank you Sophia! Sending some right back to you too❤️❤️✨✨

[@chananjavandewaetere2213]

I feel you❤

[@asyadelmont]

I'm 11 weeks pregnant atm and really struggling to get anything done. My house is a mess 90% of the time and it's getting me down because I love to be on top of things and normally am. I guess we all need to be patient with ourselves and just keep going ❤❤

[@jessicamoylan]

Hello lovely, congratulations that’s such great news but I totally understand it can be so overwhelming especially with hormones all increasing during the first trimester I was quite nuts during my first trimester and I could sleep through anything the tiredness is such a struggle. You’re right we have to be patient with ourselves and you are doing enough growing a beautiful human inside you and that takes a lot of work and energy from your body 🙌🏼 Don’t worry about the mess it will be there when the energy phase comes and it will 😘 take care sweet ❤️ sending love and hugs to you!

[@Elishagamess]

❤❤I think this is exactly what the internet needs, honesty !! Xx

[@jessicamoylan]

@@Elishagamess Thankyou Elisha 😘✨ xx

[@JAN-o7b]

Thank goodness I’m not the only one , sometimes there’s just not enough hours in the day and I feel like I’m never gonna get done before I go to bed and I too get tired and emotional. I was just this evening watching a video about how influencers often fake their videos to make out they fit in more into a day than they actually do and sometimes when they edit they leave in evidence like the time on the clock in the background for example . Loved this real and honest episode ❤😊

[@jessicamoylan]

Hello love! You are absolutely not alone 🤗 I completely understand how you feel! Some days it’s just not possible to do all the things on our to do list and when you have emotional and exhausting days it’s even harder to tackle. I have seen a few, and I must say, I don’t agree with making it look like the same day I think it sets unrealistic expectations for us normal folk and it’s not fair what that does to us mentally ie, feeling like complete failures because we can’t keep up with these unrealistic routines that other women/moms do. I just want to stay true to my self and share who I am (even if that’s a bit nuts and messy lol) and it’s so refreshing to know I’m not alone either ❤️ I try to cram a lot into my videos especially because I want to help motivate and inspire but I don’t want to simulate that I can do it all in a day because that’s not achievable for me some days. And that’s why I always do my videos over 2 or 3 days and I’ll always say “this is the next day” because I just can’t do it all in a day and To put that pressure on myself and film it would exhaust me. I don’t want to make anyone feel rubbish at all ❤️we are all doing our best from where we are and that’s all we can do ✨ Take care of yourself lovely you are doing amazing ❤️

[@JAN-o7b]

Thanks 🙏 Yeah keeping it real is always the best policy for sure 😊 . Videos of people cleaning already spotless houses is not for me lol 😂, I like to see real life messes so I can relate 😊❤

[@jessicamoylan]

Then you are definitely in the right place here 😂🙈❤️ mess is always being created lol xx

[@JAN-o7b]

@@jessicamoylan 😊🥰♥️♥️

[@amilee9822]

Thank you so much for sharing❤ I'm so relieved that I'm not alone in the random mom blues.

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey there, You’re welcome lovely and You are not alone ❤️ thank you so much for your comment 🥰 I hope you have a great day and things brighten up for you too ✨

[@amyjohnson6934]

Thanks for being so real! You made my cry as can relate so much ❤ you are doing great girl! Xxx

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey Amy! Oh I don’t want to make you cry, but I understand how you feel and you are absolutely not alone sweetheart 🥰 you are doing great too! I’m sending love and hugs!

[@mommymcdermott5573]

This is exactly how I'm feeling this morning 😢 woke up, had an emergency EHCP meeting, got to do our home school plan for the following few weeks, whole house needs cleaning and tidying, 6 baskets of laundry to sort and put away, and I'm overdue handing in my coursework for college which I'm way behind on, I feel ya lovely I really do 😢❤ it's refreshing to see a KZbin the real rawness of life and motherhood, so many people post just the good days and the positives, thank you for been real x

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey lovely! Gosh you’ve got it all going on too! Life can be so busy sometimes and feel like a loop of doom but hang in there. If I try to do one thing on my list a day it’s an achievement and it usually makes me feel a bit better. I hope you’re feeling g better soon and things slow down for you ❤️ hang in there mama 💪🏼😘❤️ lots of love your way!

[@mommymcdermott5573]

@jessicamoylan thank you Jessica 😊 🥰 same to you lovely, helps to just be still and take a breath sometimes don't it, hope today is a better day for you x

[@MummyCleans]

Thank you for sharing this Jess. I’ve been feeling like this a lot recently, there’s always just so much to do and not enough time isn’t there! Sending lots of love ❤

[@AmyKing-s5z]

Keep going your doing amazing lv ❤ your a super mum 😊 X

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey Amy! Oh gosh you are so kind! Thank you for your comment sending love to you ❤️

[@shorsecroft5277]

You've got this girl!! I'm totally in the same headspace (it usually comes out every month!) I love any type of content you put out, you give me some escapism from my own life but I have to say I really appreciated you being raw and real this week as it lets us know we are all in the same boat. I truly believe you will one day have enough saved from YT for your future home! Keep up the hard work Hun and it will all fall into place....but also know that when you need time to refill your cup we don't care if you need a week off from us ❤❤

[@jessicamoylan]

Hello lovely, thank you so much for your comment you are just so sweet and kind 🥹 we are all in it together although it can feel so lonely being a mom some days. We are not alone ❤️ Thank you so much for sharing and your positive words 🙏🏼 Sending so much love and hugs to you ❤️❤️

[@christinatelfer3196]

Awww hun I know the feeling! Thank you for being so real and honest hope you are ok ❤ xx

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey Christina, thank you so much for your comment 🥰 I’m feeling much better! I hope you are having a fab day! Lots of love ❤️

[@clairelouisegibson5060]

Bless i turned 44 last Sunday and ive cried everyday think ive held it in im fulltime carer to my youngest daughter weve had multiple appointments lately then ive got health investigations going on lady things which have swept me of my feet as i went drs over something completely different ans something else got picked up on i also have homeschooled for 8 years life lately is lifing i mean it always has but theres just so much to do constantly swnding u love ❤

[@Claire-mp7tp]

@clairelouisegibson5060 Sending you SO much love and hugs. I too and 44 and the lady things really kick off at this age with perimenopause and all the things! It sounds as if I may have been/currently be in a similar situation as you and so I wanted to encourage you and say that you are not alone. And if you feel like a teenager again and want to cry at any and every little thing...that's normal! Sending you a huge huge through the internet.xxxx

[@jessicamoylan]

Claire you have been through a lot and you are absolutely not alone, life is tough but so are we. Sometimes things seem like they’re all falling apart and we don’t know why but then everything aligns and is rebuilt better and we become much stronger for the things we have been through 💪🏼 Be extra kind to your self and happy belated birthday sweetheart! You let those tears out it’s OK to cry and it releases built up hormones (apparently) so we mustn’t hold them in. I’m sending you so much love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@bringingupthebostocks]

Oh Jess you broke my heart then 😢 so sorry you’re feeling so crappy, it happens to us all, us Mom’s are superwomen and it’s so normal to feel this way. I’ve felt so similar going from 1-2 but from 0-1 I was fine! The overwhelm is real. You can always message for a chat if you need to ❤ xxx

[@jessicamoylan]

Hello lovely! Oh I know it really is hard work but totally worth it and we are superwomen 💪🏼 It’s a big difference isn’t it, having more babies to worry and care for split your time with and your are so young still and sometimes What works for one doesn’t always work for the other and it can be so draining doing the same thing day in day out the phases seem to last for months at a time when you are in them. You are doing amazing though so please don’t forget that! 😘 Thank you hun 🤗 I’m Sending lots of love and hugs your way ❤️❤️❤️

[@bringingupthebostocks]

@ absolutely & right back at you. Well done for highlighting it xx

[@mariannehewitt6605]

That cute kitten will boost your subscribers which will hopefully get you that big house! 😂😍 Sending hugs from a new subscriber xx

[@jessicamoylan]

Hello lovely! Oh you may be right there, he could have his own channel he is such a cheeky character! Thanks so much for your hugs 🤗 I’m sending hugs back ❤️ Have a great day!

[@mariannehewitt6605]

@jessicamoylan that's a really good idea! He's such a little star! 😂😂 Hope you're having a better day today xx

[@jessicamoylan]

@mariannehewitt6605 I really am feeling so much better. Thank you so much for asking & I hope You are having an awesome day too 🤗❤️

[@mariannehewitt6605]

@@jessicamoylan I'm so pleased to hear that 😊 Take it easy 😘 xx

[@Nbvcxt]

Could you please do a vlog about homeschooling and how u do it will be interesting to watch and helpful x

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey there! Oh Yes I would love to! I will speak to my son to see if he’s on board 🥰

[@user-dm6cf4wj6d]

Hi, I'm new to your channel ❤ what colour have you painted your living room wall? It's very nice & subtle x

[@sjrbbm]

Much ❤❤

[@jessicamoylan]

Thank you 🙏🏼 and ❤️❤️to you too😘

[@lindanewton1142]

Bless you sweetheart love your videos 🩷 sorry your feeling so down hope your feeling better soon take care x

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey Linda! I’m feeling much better now thank you, it’s like a fog has lifted 🙌🏼 I hope you are well too ❤️ Thank you so so much for your lovely comment ☺️

[@lindamurphy2332]

❤You're doing great don't worry everybody has low days tomorrow will be better

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey Linda! Oh bless you are so kind, thank you so much for your kind words ❤️ I’m feeling much better now 🥰 I hope you are well too!

[@lynneelder485]

Jessica Ur kitchen is like mine when we get r groceries delivered there all over the place. X

[@jessicamoylan]

Hey lynne! Oh yes it drives me a little crazy when it’s all over the sides and it seems to take forever to put away too. But I am so grateful for the food I have to feed my family ❤ thanks so much for watching lovely ☺️

[@lynneelder485]

Sweetheart U can only do Ur best if I was there I would give U a big hug 🤗🤗

[@jessicamoylan]

@lynneelder485 Thank you Lynne and I’d give you one right back ☺️❤️

[@lisarussell2970]

Jessica sending hugs,my kitchen looks like this after grocery shop , hope your feeling better x

[@jessicamoylan]

@lisarussell2970 Hey Lisa! I’m feeling much better thank you so much! Oh gosh does it take you all day to put it away too or just me 😂 Hope your doing well love ❤️

[@chloeruane5630]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jessicamoylan]

Thank you for the love Chloe ❤️🙏🏼

[@JulieAmanda-yp9ci]

Loved the video❤from julie

[@jessicamoylan]

Thank you Julie ❤️ have a fabulous day ✨

[@sezinmetin4042]

💐❤️🫶🏻🙏🏻

[@jessicamoylan]

Thankyou for all the love ❤️ 😘🥰

[@leeanne7481]

Ah bless you beautiful girl, maybe you're hormonal? Nothing to be embarrassed about, I love your channel, much love ❤❤❤❤

[@jessicamoylan]

Hello sweet, I’m honestly not quite sure 🙈but this day was just real cloudy for me. Thank you so so much for your kind comment and I’m so happy you are here ❤️ sending love your way 🥰

[@karenhill3161]

Why don't you take your grocery bags to the door?

[@jessicamoylan]

Hi Karen! I used to take the bags to the door but found it to be better for me with the crates straight into the kitchen, as I’m not packing at the door then having to carry them to the kitchen to then unpack when the driver is gone.I just unpack straight onto the sides then put all away it seems to have worked better for me that way. Albeit a little overwhelming some days, especially when the little one keeps blocking the doorway in our tiny hallway 🙈 Have a great day lovely 🥰

[@alibracegirdle]

This video is just what I needed to see this morning 💛

[@jessicamoylan]

So glad to help lovely 🥰 I hope your having a great day ✨