EXTREME DECLUTTER! Tips for Overwhelm & Where to begin | MR CARRINGTON

[@binfacelardgod1906]

Mr Carrington you are a friend that doesn't judge. You are good for Helen. Understanding her needs.

[@christinabrooks5991]

I could feel the anxiety it was painful. You have got such a wonderful temperament Mr C, I would have been filling the dustbin bags from the😀get go. Sorry Helen. Xxxxxx

[@missmeakat]

I would watch a hundred episodes of this! Lovely to see a realistic declutter, short amounts of time and little wins rather than the whole house in 10 mins 😂

[@suekey1903]

I think Helen is very lucky to have you as a friend 😀

[@jodieabbott7219]

I love how honest Helen is and that she is letting you put this up to help support your decluttering and help others. I love her even more now 😂. As always loving the videos xx

[@MrCarrington]

Yes I’m very thankful to Helen for letting me film, it’s a personal process but sharing will help others ❤️

[@terrioakley2250]

You were very respectful towards Helen . She will feel so much better when things are easier to get to.

[@brigidkeogh416]

Helen needs to visit your decluttered home, to feel how relaxing a tidy home can be. You are so patient and kind.

[@idid138]

Yes, and she needs an invite card.

[@traceybradshaw]

Helen definitely needs some treasure boxes or albums to keep her Ephemeral items in so she can access and look at them easily. It might be time to go through her bookshelves and donate books she no longer needs/wants. Papers, photos and books are the hardest items for me to declutter - I’m very sentimental.

[@laurat4977]

I agree. She could put so many things in albums, boxes, frames, etc. She has an amazing collection that should be preserved and maintained. Of course, lots can go away without any doubt.

[@amandahugo1421]

Helen has all my love. I find it very difficult to part with sentimental things. I wish I had a friend like you Ewan . My dad used to sort me out and he has been gone for 10 years so imagine my pain. I also love books and design magazines.

[@joyswindells4989]

Lovely to have a friend like Helen, she’ll definitely feel better when the clutter disappears

[@Jane-dg3rr]

I hope we get a part 2 to this - loving it 🌸🌸

[@bobbigaukel3860]

This was so good! As an American I’m sad to say I didn’t know Helen but I can see she is a treasure and genuinely needed your help. This video showed you in your element! Many of us would not have exhibited your patience 😊

[@Simplycharlotte-s]

Loved watching. Your reaction to the wonky candle was hilarious. Please please bring us celebrity sort your life out, how interesting would that be 🙂. Enjoy your Sunday!

[@fionalitchfield100]

How very generous of Helen to allow you to film. So many practical tips and ideas for us all. Starting in one small area is so practical and doable.

[@lexbreal]

I wonder if the sort your life out cast would be up for doing this with you. Would be lots of fun to watch! You all get on so well! Whatever something they need sorted through etc… give em a carring’over to the organisation world😊❤️

[@1605tanya]

Awesome idea 💡

[@pambetts7140]

My heart just breaks because you can see Helen really does want to fix things but it just is hard for her. Iwan you are the kindest person to help her. I love how mindful and intentional you are while assisting her! Loved this show. I wish we could get your show in the US.

[@hazels27]

Oh gosh, you have some patience Mr Carrington! Watching this made me feel that my home was quite tidy! So thank you for that.

[@TeriHargraveartist]

Helen's house reflects her creative mind for sure!

[@lexbreal]

I loved watching Helen in the 80’s ; she is just cool! I’m gonna have to have a listen to memory lane…😊 Thx to Helen for showing us your home and all the cool bits along the way.❤

[@kooltom4]

Loved Helen's character in Ab Fab, so ditzy and absurd, she used her beautiful big eyes to such comic effect. To this day I say "some lovely chairs" when lost for words - no one gets it but it amuses me.

[@vernafenlon1058]

Always a true non judgemental friendly approach to someone's home and lifestyles. Your professional attention to detail and knowledge is amazing. Hopefully, you will write your own book soon.

[@sandraholland5663]

Hi Mr Carrington. Lovely to see you helping your lovely friend Helen out by helping her to declutter. She’s such a funny lady. I loved warching this and you’ve inspired me to me to declutter so thank you both. I can’t wait to see you decluttering more of Helen’s house. Helen definitely needs a memory box. I wish I had a mr Carrington as a friend to help me. Have a lovely day ❤️

[@lyndamcdougal5335]

Such a lovely time watching you with Helen, you are such a nice person and this could be the beginning of Mr Carrington, helping with the Stars. I know how hard it is to just make that initial start, years of life. Thank you loved watching. Xx

[@artssygrl]

What a dynamic person Helen is, it's been a joy watching. She reminds me very much of a close friend who also has a bit of memorable clutter in her home.

[@idid138]

Same. She reminds me of an old friend I've lost contact with. Artistic, funny, and vain, while also being humble and real. Such a nice package for a friend.

[@heathera3258]

This could be a tv show

[@donnawaldron3261]

Defo. Or each week or so a celebrity de clutter or win a deal clutter. Must be something in it for him though for all his hard work and effort even if it's just cooking him a lovely 😊 meal or take him to dinner in a nice restaurant or pub restaurant, where it could be filmed as well. It would be publicity for everyone, everyone a winner.

[@tracypatil8841]

Loved Helen since the 80's, this was such a good idea!! Hope Helen finds it therapeutic 😊 Your kindness and non judgemental attitude always shine through. You show true respect for Helen which is lovely to see❤

[@joane5777]

I just love when you have Helen on Iwan!! I remember when we were in her basement last. I definitely feel her pain with having trouble getting started. I'm getting better at it finally. It's hard getting rid of memories but she's so lucky to have a friend like you ❤ Have a good week!! Joan

[@Steffie8110]

It's hard to look at anything else in a room with Helen in as her eyes are hypnotic. I love a good clear and clean. You are a sweetheart lwan ❤😂

[@JeannieMcSweeney]

This is brilliant, whilst I’m sure it must be fun doing all your travel vlogs and cruises etc this is you at your best… a kind non judgemental friend, doing the life stuff. We all want a pal like you coming round!,

[@geraldinemallon1043]

We need a part two!!!!! You and Helen are a great double act. Lol

[@karengodfrey6183]

I live with someone who collects, I call it hoarding. I'm the opposite and declutter every time I can. I love a good declutter. Well done, Helen and Mr C.

[@sunshine-bs2jx]

I struggle with looking at clutter . 2 in my family are hoarding I don't know how people can look at it each day .

[@rosemarymee]

@@sunshine-bs2jxI think they don’t see it any more. It’s just as Helen says -“ a collection of shapes”. Mr C is wonderfully tactful. Every sentence I would utter would begin “ Oh ffs!

[@sunshine-bs2jx]

@rosemarymee omg me too id get so cross and impatient

[@LynsAlteredArts]

@@sunshine-bs2jx it’s called clutter blindness.

[@sazzydaffy33]

One of the best videos I’ve ever watched on KZbin. You are so kind and gentle with Helen, which I really appreciated as I struggle with holding onto things, and would really benefit from such a kind approach. You are amazing. Hope for more videos just like this! 😍

[@flohough1870]

It's so easy for things to get out of hand, especially since we live in times where some have so much. Lots of good tips! I watched this just before I started a major declutter/organize/cleaning project in my living room. I have learned to throw things out and donate anything that isn't serving me, it used to be so hard. Good for both of you to share this process!

[@SkyBlueWooHoo]

*GASP* Im obsessed with Helen. Such a wonderful woman. You are so sweet and love how gently you are helping her along.

[@lindamercer1736]

OMG what an AMAZING VIDEO. Iowan you are such a lovely friend and person, and you are so thoughtful and respectful of Helen's feelings and you make the whole process fun. You will be such a great help to her, and I think she will feel so much better with all the chaos gone. I Hope you will be able to show us more of Helen's progress. Thank you xx

[@kaybowen3456]

Your such a lovely person Mr.C you helped Helen with so much thought and understanding, loved watching ❤

[@penelopebridges7305]

I absolutely love Helens canvas over her mantle.😊😊😊

[@vintageprue8728]

You are a very kind, understanding and tolerant man. Many “ helpers” lose patience and yell. It is hard to give up some items, even when we know we must.

[@emilygilbert9892]

This is SO relatable, and Helen is awesome, we WANT MORE!!! I am at this stage and would love to see how to put photos cards etc into memory boxes, journals etc, this is something I am just thinking about doing but does not seem to be many videos online about it, only relating to travel journals etc, but I wanted to do one for life periods and also for paper memorabilia etc.

[@tinymouse.travel]

A fab video. We need this to be a series so we can see the basement finished and all organised.

[@rachelmemory2759]

In an upside down and stressful world, you are a very kind and calm person. I enjoyed this episode and looking forward to part two! :)

[@rumdo5617]

It’s always a pleasure to see you and Helen

[@islandgirl1818]

Mr C you are patient! I've had to help some friends declutter their homes and it's hard to see them struggle to part with things. You're a wonderful friend ❤

[@ginak921]

I hope Helen continues with the positively about the declutter as she has done well so far. It cant be easy to let go sometimes. I don't have a clutter issue myself but i do know a couple of people who do and find it overwhelming to even start and always say no to any help offered. Hang in there Helen.

[@denisew.123]

I love a good decluttering video, especially cause you‘re always so real about it, very relatable! x

[@mariabaker9201]

It's so much better and easier having someone to help you declutter. It's great to see you helping Helen.It's easy to deal with electrical items now. Currys will take them and they give you get a £5 voucher to spend as well. I use Alex TLC charity,as they will come and collect any donations, this makes it so much easier to declutter and all for a good cause too! Would love to see an update with Helen, see how she gets on. 😊

[@MrCarrington]

Those are great tips, thank you!

[@janicegardner5027]

I love your patient and non judging attitude. She is so relatable - not sure where to start - overwhelmed by it all!

[@Angie-cm4si]

I loved how supportive you were and as the declutter went along Helen was able to let stuff go. Note to self just focus on a small area every so often instead of trying to do the whole lot in one go...This was fun Iwan thanks for sharing ❤💜❤

[@jillep4668]

Everyone need a friend like you!! Your so kind.. and give such the best advise.. We all have those spaces we never get around too. Love your friendship together 🤗🙌

[@kelliewithanienotay]

I loved this. ❤ please do more videos with Helen. I'd love to see her home clutter free for she. She's such a lovely person x

[@ehpeachylove]

Good morning from sunny, going to be triple digits this whole week, Northern California Iwan. So nice to see Helen again. What a remarkable, talented lady. Iwan you are so kind hearted and calming when talking with your friend on how to handle her sorting out in an empathetic way that did not disrespect or show no regard to how all this was making her feel. One of the many reasons why I love you even though we’ve never met. Being a friend to so many that follow you is a gift. You share so much with us all that encourages and makes us want to be better to ourselves mentally and emotionally to. Thank you for taking time with each video sharing your days no matter what the topic. Have a beautiful week ahead. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@AlisonHardisty]

I love your relationship with Helen. She’s wonderful. Old school comic

[@Raquel_Tejera]

Hello Mr. Carrington! There is a word in Swedish that is about the ritual of decluttering when arriving at a certain age to make it easier for family members to get through the stuff once a person passes away. It's döstädning. There are quite a lot of books about the theme to help us declutter our stuff. You could make more videos of this kind every now and then. Also videos helping with cleaning tips. Have a great Sunday!

[@sharonbagnall4160]

Loved this so tactfully done. A beautiful wooden box for those smaller photos to keep and place back on the mantle. Helons can take them out and look through them as and when. A decorative card holder would be nice for the more precious invites. Definately photo frames for those precious letters xxx

[@karenupton2550]

I’ve really enjoyed this. Helen seems so lovely in person, she’s just so creative and talented. Great job Euan xx

[@suzannejohnston7212]

I enjoyed this video so much! Very nice of you guiding Helen through the process of decluttering. You were so patient and nonjudgmental.

[@Kari_B61ex]

Love Helen - she reminds me of one of my best friends. My mum started a big de-clutter a few weeks ago and said the same thing as Helen... I didn't want to hear it as I don't want to think of her not being here.

[@MarionTindall]

Love the video so English and fun 🇬🇧❤️

[@sophyO-r7r]

Such a lovely video Mr Carrington ❤ showing genuine friendship and a very gentle approach to dealing with being overwhelmed with possessions 😊 Looking forward to reading Helen's book, I've been a big fan for many years xxx

[@dulwich1233]

There is an American KZbinr who helps others deal with clutter, etc and her mantra is (and I am paraphrasing) "one hour better, not perfect" - doesn't need to be an hour but as you've suggested even 15 mins - won't make your space perfect, but it will be better, and doing this regularly over time will make a huge difference.

[@mindsjanne]

It Dana K White

[@kayalford6746]

Helen you made amazing progress! I hope you are able to keep going just a small bit at a time so it doesn’t get overwhelming. How nice to have Mr. C to help with talking things through and for muscle!

[@dumpsterdivingqueen]

What an insight into a creative mind. Glad you could help Helen. Love her work. Met her a few times and she's lovely so glad she's getting help. Definitely need Celebrity SYLO ❤

[@swan96]

Keep cards/tags from gifts and flowers etc- I threw all mine out and deeply regretted it - when you're old/ill you then have good memories to look back on and savour them. Put them all in a large pretty box and store them for a day when you need an emotional lift.

[@carolbarnes7825]

You are so good with Helen , I was having palpitations looking around at all the items and the items mean so much to Helen . It’s going to take a long time but bless you for helping her x x

[@heidiavera5071]

Your a wonderful and inspiring person so caring for Helen

[@MrsL1211]

Excellent as always 😊 Helen is wonderful and you're a super friend to help her declutter and reorganise. I'd love to see that 'spooky painting' next time you visit!

[@MrCarrington]

Yes next time - we ran out of time! 👻❤

[@vintageprue8728]

Helen is lovely and I just love her quirky but tasteful style. Thank you Mr Carrington.

[@d.b.595]

This is one of my favorites I like the humour you used with her while you are helping her. I hope we see you both together again.

[@deniseowen9424]

Been doing some of the same this morning, i wish you could come help 🤣 Made me laugh all through with your humour , and that's so needed when doing these tasks 😆🤣

[@nickybookz222]

On my mantelpiece I always have a group of three things on the left or right side and the rest is empty. I have an old French fireplace mirror above it and it's busy enough. In any case, whenever I put something decorative somewhere, it is always a variation of three things. There can be three plants in different heights and if the leaves of the plants are decorative, the pots are neutral; if the plants are not particularly special, the plant pots are very colorful and playful. But always everything in groups of 3 and the rest quiet and bare. Let a beautiful plank of wood or a beautiful cupboard do the talking. But you also won't see beautiful things if you cram everything full.

[@anghul7243]

This is really fascinating to watch and shows such genuine side. Lovely lady.

[@EggandSp00n_]

Loved this! Please do a series of decluttering! I would nominate Nadia Sawalha for your next “victim”! That would be a hoot!

[@annbannister1118]

Wow look at you ,with the very lovely and Funny Helen,❤ what a treat ,❤

[@lully381]

I thoroughly enjoyed watching this! Thank you Iwan and thank you Helen! A useful tip I have always found when sorting through lots of clutter, is to have a box or a black sack on hand for donations, rubbish, etc.each time you find a book or something you know you want to get rid of, the pop it in the box or bag. Eventually after some time you will have a full box or bag to dispose of. I found it interesting as you sort things as I do myself, pull it all off and as you put it back thats when you decide what to throw, keep and dispose of. Keep up the good work guys x

[@lizmurphy6295]

You're such a understanding guy,I know how difficult it is to declutter ,treasures memories.Also tricky when your creative,just love this Iwan and Helen ❤

[@kerrywoolford4699]

I love this Mr C . Helen is so lovely but obviously finds it hard to part with things . With your help I'm sure she will get there. X X

[@mecraftytoo]

I think everyone needs a friend like you Iwan, you are so kind and o not judge, would love to see the end result. Helen seems like a lovely fun friend to have, think I must get her book. x

[@GoldGlitterGiggles]

❤ Helen is so lovely bless her heart and you Mr C are a wonderful friend to her by helping out... I think you were very respectful to Helen's need for wanting to keep certain items... the mantle looks great and now houses precious momentoes that show Helen's character... looking forwards to the next declutter and your great tips... thank you for sharing... hugs from Jacquie xx

[@MsBelle-cv3mu]

Currently having a clear out too that’s been long overdue bit at a time but feel like Helen said “ Overwhelmed “ 😢wish I had someone like you to help me

[@poppysydney3564]

Well done Mr Carrington - you have a good energy for this task! I hope to see episode 2 and even 3 hopefully in the near future lol❤️ 👍👏

[@stephluvsdave]

Helen mentioned hobbies and it reminded me of my recent office/craft room declutter and clear out. I've collected so many things, David so many scraps, thinking I'd craft something with them. I finally decided to limit my hobbies to one to three things and only keep things related to that hobby, such as yarn for crochet. I stuck to this and made such a headway in that room. Everything is in clear containers so I can see what I have and it's much more pleasant working here now.

[@vivmatto725]

What a wonderful video I feel for Helen so much as I too find it hard to let go of things ... Helen did amazing and with Mr.c. with her all the way she won't go wrong ... much respect and much love 🎉

[@abundantlyinspired]

The hardest part is to start and Helen has done that so bravo!!!!!🎉🎉❤

[@lollys9041]

Loved this hope there will be a part two, love Helen.😻🙏❤️

[@laurat4977]

I love decluttering! You two did a great job. Helen has some amazing items. It was fun to have a tour through her mantle. She's delightful. I have a rule of thumb for post-declutter: when something new comes in, something old goes out. It's a great way to make me be intentional with my purchases. Thanks for the great video!

[@WeLiveByTheSea]

When decluttering, my late mother used to have three boxes. One was for things to be binned, one for things to be donated and one for things to be kept. Right from the outset there was the reassurance of the 'to be kept' box. One doesn't have to throw the baby out with the bathwater and there will be items one will want to treasure. That takes some of the fear out of the process. Helen will feel so much better when it's done but then it's important to keep on top of it. Every few months, at least twice a year, I take a bag of things to the charity shop. I don't allow the clutter to accumulate which makes it much more manageable. I'm sure that, with your assistance and guidance, Helen will have this done in no time. Helen, you've got this!

[@natalieharrigan8328]

I love this video and would absolutely love to see more like it. Celebrity sort your life out would be awesome! It’s so refreshing to see the normality of hoarding things and finding it hard to declutter being represented like this. Even something seemingly simple like sorting out a mantle piece can be really anxiety provoking. Our homes are such intimate, personal spaces and their familiarity can be so comforting. I really enjoyed this video, it makes me feel validated for my own little hoarding quirks ❤

[@HonkyTonkSinger]

Your channel/this episode has been a great find! Assisting my family (and my own journey through clutter) has been very much like this-frustratingly slow going for small areas! While there are a few areas of large items, the big time suck and frustration of decluttering comes from the small items- cards, ornaments, photos, and fiddley bits that have made a life…things valuable to almost no one other than their owner, things that should go elsewhere or a ‘home’ needs to be created for them. It’s easy afterwards to collect like with like, putting in order to find again. But first it’s a trip down memory lane (remembering events, a life well lived, bad times as well) that the helper must patiently walk beside the one decluttering. You then have the unenviable task of finding a way to encourage a release of the thing without losing the memory or retaining the thing for sentimental purposes. That’s something that hit home! That office is going to take some time! I look forward to the next episode.

[@leighedwards5464]

Came across this earlier this morning and it was such a relaxing watch. Thanks and big love to you both!

[@soarinpanda8walker563]

What a wonderful job you are doing for Helen.You made lots of progress.Really enjoyed all your helpful tips and the process for decluttering in an organized manner.TFS

[@juliemorrison7477]

Wow you’re so kind and patient with Helen I chuckled all the way through as you were trying to be diplomatic. I’m sure you will help her a lot My mantlepiece has brass candlesticks at each end fresh flowers in the middle, 2 ornaments n room for cards birthday etc which I do get rid of lol

[@cazzaa5012]

I totally relate to Helen’s situation. This will be an interesting journey, hopefully you’re going to make it a series and keep us updated on Helen’s progress. Just a thought about the sentimental towels..if they’ve been in a black bag in the cellar she hasn’t used them for along while. So maybe get rid of most of them and keep one or two in her linen cupboard to use occasionally ? Believe it or not, I have a “special towel” that I bought on holiday years ago. Over the years my bathrooms changed several times so it doesn’t go with any of my other towels, but I’ve hung on to it. Every now and then I’ll use it and the memories come back of where and when I bought it xx

[@helendavenport7298]

Extreme ADHD here! So sympathetic…..the paralysis is real……..well done to both of you ❤

[@findingaway5512]

I have ADHD too and I am very sentimental and visual .... But I also need things simple and easy to function right. I also see that she has lots of meaning in things tied to ideas and people. I think ADHD makes us worried about forgetting things so having visual cues for memories it helps us access them. But also there is also fear of doing the wrong thing or being overwhelmed with the right way to dispose of things. I am planning on doing a yes no approach in my basement space because I know there is stuff down there that can go but I'd I get hung up on the what am I doing it with it all it is going to slow down my momentum. So I'm planning on making a no area and then dealing with say accordingly. Obvious trash can go. But those weird items that make me freeze I am hoping that helps.

[@dawnyarrow3795]

I really enjoyed this video. You and Helen are so great together and you were so understanding during this process. Would love to see more of this declutter and organise.

[@rachels9598]

It'll take numerous sessions whip it all into shape. Baby steps are a good start!! She's got the best guy to advise!!

[@rachaeljones5767]

Loved this , so much easier to de clutter when someone helps and takes time to listen to all the memories before you let things go . You must do some more visit's and show us the progress with Helen - who I must say well done for biting the bullet and starting this journey x

[@annh8921]

I always think a collection of photos of mantlepieces would make a great book. They are always fascinating and personal to see - a bit like an "altar" to someone's life.

[@rosemarymee]

Very well observed. I’m just looking at my own mantle😮

[@MillyHol]

Aaw I loved watching this, Helen was so honest and will be so relatable to others and Iwan you were so calm and kind. I think you've got a great TV show opening here for yourself, I hope someone from the powers that be were watching too. Your advice and diplomacy is refreshing ❤

[@wendyzazgad4418]

Waiting for the next one guys we need to see the whole house done come on Helen you can do it ❤

[@sootyginger4388]

Love Helen and her home is gorgeous. You are so lovely with your approach to the declutter having respect for her well loved treasure. I look forward to the finished result. 😊

[@Amarylis185]

Mr C you were so funny doing the decluttering with Helen!, You kept me amused! Very kind and understanding too. You have lots of good ideas too! 😅

[@julie_uk_]

I've just finished Helen's audiobook yesterday, what a great listen 😊

[@hannahg2672]

Your patience is amazing as I don’t have it when it comes to mess and clutter. Still too much on the mantelpiece. Either people feel comforted by the clutter and having lots of stuff and then there’s me who would feel stressed with everything unorganised. Unless you’re doing it with her I don’t think she will do anything when you’re not there.

[@AlexandraKozub-tp7fe]

Good job mr thank you for sharing hope your time is 😢appreciated. Hurrah!