EXTREME DECLUTTERING MY HOUSE! *mental health has entered the chat* |Messy To Minimal Hostessware Ep

Gorgeous gorgeous girlies priortize their mental health… which is why I’m doing a little stress-reducing prep for the holidays NOW by decluttering and organizing my hostessware!
On ANY given week (not just the holidays) we can be serving 10-25 people in our home, and getting my collection of serveware under control and re-organized is on the top of my to-do list!
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[@CherylSpang]

I think a long piece of stained wood would make an amazing topper for your buffet 😊

[@kims914]

I thought the exact same thing. Maybe to match her beautiful table.

[@carolyn1580]

Agree!

[@lilyshapiro1697]

I'd love to see a video where you walk through one of your menus and talk about the ins and outs-like what you feel like is something you can that can wait to be warmed later etc. I know you've talked before about your menus but I guess what I mean is I would love to hear about how you schedule it out, why, what things you feel like are still good but made a few days prior etc. I guess like the logistics of your menus?

[@NatalieBennett]

Sure! I’ve made something similar to this as part of a Get It All Done with me video a couple years ago: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jZ-VeKd6rbtkgK8feature=shared I’d also like to make a video going more in depth! Hopefully I’ll be able to soon!

[@lilyshapiro1697]

@@NatalieBennett ❤️❤️ I thought I had remembered something similar! You're the best

[@lisapoulsen5452]

One thing I do to avoid getting stressed about prep is making a to do list with approximate times!! I start with the time I want to serve everything and work backwards from that. I make as much a couple days early as possible. Easy pumpkin pie recipe (everything in a blender and voila!!) goes in a mason jar in the fridge, etc.🥰🇨🇦

[@NatalieBennett]

Yesssss!!! My mom and I shared this in our Hosting 101 video!

[@morningsidewithkelley]

As a person who loves to host as well, I love the sentiment of blessing and not impressing the guests. I will keep that on repeat in my mind. I tend to strive for perfection while hosting because I love the details in things, but often find I'm stressing out way too much. I've been getting better at not sweating the small stuff, but it definitely takes work for me. Thank you Natalie, and thank you to your lovely Mama!

[@cynthiaslebodnik6945]

I'm not much of a hostess. It does stress me out. I like to have impromptu get-together. We do have friends over each Saturday where she brings the food and we provide the setting we live out in the country with lots of space to walk, and they live in the city so this is there get away place. Nothing fancy - paper plates a must. They feel so comfortable that they know where to get drinks, silverware, and serving spoons. She even likes to wash up the dirty dishes. That's my idea of hostessing. No decorations or fancy food. We do host Thanksgiving for friends. No family in the area, except of course our son who will join us if he doesn't have plans with his friends.

[@NatalieBennett]

That’s ok! Everyone has a different personality and desire for hosting! ❤️

[@jayembee7067]

I love friends like that and am glad I have some too as mobility is an issue for me. Mind you I used to host a lot in my younger days as we too had the setting for large gatherings. Blessings to all. ❤️from Australia 🇦🇺.

[@kr6484]

​@jayembee7067 blessings to you as well ❤may the Father bless you and keep you. And whatever you are going through, you will get through. Just trust in Him and all will be well ❤

[@janicerepass6996]

The third storage cabinet along with the artwork and the sconces really make for a beautiful buffet area!

[@heatherdressler6603]

I get excited on Tuesdays when I realize it's "Natalie day." :-) You have done such a great job creating community with your channel. It's so nice get a project done with a friend as I'm watching or if I'm tired just sit and be blessed be your great content, peaceful videos, and cheerful attitude.

[@NatalieBennett]

Oh this comment warmed my heart so much! I LOVE this community. You all are the best! 🥹

[@hannahhensley8497]

Tuesday is my FAVORITE day

[@aturner047]

I'm the same as this, and the week that you don't post I'm sad

[@katiehamilton3915]

"It's like the stinkin Zaboomafoo closet" My 90s kids heart DIED XD and then the chocolate orange wrapper?! :D day = made thank you for being relatable!

[@saragress2344]

I throw the linens in the dryer and use wrinkle release. I try to decorate the tables a day or more in advance so I can focus on food. Housing birthdays for our kids, I'll take turns with my best friend and her kids during the party running the refills and clean up so the hostess can engage with her party guests. It's such a blessing!

[@andreeailie9053]

I still can believe that September is almost over and we only have two months until the holidays season 😮😮 Just yesterday it was June and children were at home 🏡 Great idea to start decluttering and re organizing things so early ❤❤❤ Thanks Natalie 💖

[@LilCraftyNook]

I know right?? (My kids are grown but yeh…)

[@mirjamvancooten1192]

I would use that lazy Susan as a decor item. In the middle of the table or like what you have in your kitchen, with a vase and some decorations. Love the wood!

[@Chell1496]

I like the phrase-Happy Spouse, Happy House 🥰 lots of info packed into this nice video for hosting. Thanks Natalie!

[@NatalieBennett]

That’s a great one!

[@sunnygem21]

That's great, I must remember that phrase!

[@user-3l1]

Great inspiration, I just moved to a place 3 times smaller and had to declutter a lot of things, change furniture for smaller ones... I still find things that I can declutter as I organize the new apartment 📦📦

[@susanmakiha9838]

The wooden tongs are good if you have to get toast out of a toaster without electrocuting yourself 😊

[@debbiepalmer1094]

I'd love to see videos of you decorating the table for hosting, you always do such a beautiful job. x

[@terryruiz7417]

There is a difference between entertaining and hospitality....an important thing to understand.

[@daisybuchanan5378]

In my 20s I learned from a friend that less is more when entertaining. Fewer dishes, streamlined menu, etc. it’s served me well.

[@angela_flute52689]

I love the "blessed vs. impressed" mindset.

[@michelleanderson8449]

This is exactly what I needed this morning. I’ve been very sick but I need to deep clean my house this morning, so I was scrolling my feed to find some motivation and this notification came through in that exact moment. I can always count on you, Natalie. I feel like you’re my inspirational speaker/therapist/friend/sister all in one person. Thank you 💕

[@NatalieBennett]

Awww get better soon! 🫶

[@barbb.7028]

We do a fare amount of hosting also. Yes, it is work but the bond created between our guests and us is priceless. I'm a simple kind of gal when it comes to table decor, etc. I have some but rarely use it. I feel our guests feel more welcome when I keep things on the simple side. Your cabinets are such great storage and I think the candle sconces and picture is very pretty. I respect and admire you for all that you are. I'm thankful God created you and that you are willing to share your life and your family with us.

[@laurarysedorph7200]

I needed this so much. I need to prepare my home and mindset for the holidays now as well. We have so much happening between now and then it will definitely be here before I know it. Thank you

[@maggieschuttler1726]

I love your videos and really look forward to them each week!!

[@jnichols7886]

Natalie! I’m SO happy for you that you found a pair of jeans that don’t cause you pain! 🙌🙌 They look adorable on you! 🥰

[@beelastra4901]

Love that! "Focus on blessing them, not impressing them!" We LOVE hosting and our parents would always host big parties as we grew up! No matter how big or small our houses, we still manage to host and bless our friends and family! I agree on the plain white servingware being sooo versatile! Although, i must say i have a large shallow bowl that has a lovely christmas scene painted in the middle that i use it throughout the year 😅

[@megand576]

Love buying my hostess items from the thrift store! Giant glass serving trays, beautiful glass bowls for dips, vases for flowers- I love it! Plus, if it breaks, no biggie as it was cheaper!

[@szmartin]

Love watching your home decor updates! Everything looks great 🎉

[@bethpowell43]

Love the declutter videos, gets me motivated! The huge lazy Suzan is good for the middle of the table for family gatherings-salt and pepper, salad dressings, anything that needs passed around…it’s a great function for

[@rebeccahaeren9902]

I love how open and honest you are in your videos, thank you ❤

[@hannahbentson9374]

I love the holidays! We’ve been so sick that it’s nice to just relax and watch you work lol. Someday soon I’ll have the energy to clean my house. 🤞🏼

[@eydiegarcelon8889]

I love all of these videos. The tips, tricks, ideas, the motivation, etc. I do absolutely LOVE to entertain, but now, some limitations after an injury.... so simplifying is KEY!!! Thank you Natalie 💜

[@mirandakh17]

Books & blankets are definitely 2 things I overlook & keep lots of! ❤

[@katmccoy34]

Always love your declutter videos!!

[@CULady]

Thanks for this video!! So blessed to have you prompt me to add this to my list! I have 2 areas I need to declutter and organize!❤ God Bless you Natalie 🙏 ❤️

[@nikkys3168]

Love this so much🥰 this will be my first holiday season hosting the whole fam (it’s our babies first holiday season❤️) so I will def be watching your hosting for the holidays videos🥰

[@asianangel5400]

such an encouraging and helpful advice today. Enjoy the rest of your summer and by all means have fun hosting and making memories with your family and friends.

[@karlavedder3139]

I always look forward to your videos. You have me cleaning cabinets now lol !

[@Sonya_Barnes_On_Move]

Love the sconces! Hostess ware organization really does help, especially with planning and prepping since you have what you need and use.

[@daisybuchanan5378]

I deal with linen napkins by air drying them. I shake them when I take them out of the wash, drape them in a clothes drying rack, and they come out beautifully. Works well with clothes too.

[@kalfaro58]

Thank you for another wonderful video and content! Your channel has always been very inspirational to me and has changed the way I think about hosting and overall looking at my home, it's been a blessing ❤

[@kims914]

This turned out so well. I love the sconces!!

[@connierush4563]

Looks fantastic! Thanks for all the tips and suggestions. Remaining stress-free does translate to your guests. ❤❤❤

[@BriannaNorman-pf5tj]

I love the chocolate orange on the platter idea they are always a crowd pleaser ❤

[@smellthelemons]

The Zooboomafoo closet!! Ugh that brings me back. I loved that show. Thanks for the little trip down memory lane lol.

[@jenniferlumia9892]

I just want to start by saying how much i love your videos. Im looking forward to see all of your fall and holiday stuff. Makes this florida girl remember there is hope for some cool weather.

[@shittletonmiddleton]

This is perfect, I’m probably gonna start binging your videos at this point because I’m due with my second daughter beginning of December so we aren’t hosting anything but I am in full on nesting mode!

[@katyrichardson9046]

Love the idea of bless your guests vs impress your guests! Such a wonderful thing to remember. ❤

[@kima260]

Hi Natalie, Can’t believe 🍂 autumn begins on Saturday. Your place is looking great! Keep up the good work!🙌🏻 Watching from Michigan…Kim

[@sopjoplop23]

That disposable silverware,napkins, plates basket is amazing!

[@ponchotheunicorn5288]

Your intro gave me big feels. Because i have the 4 holidays standing between us meeting our baby boy! It's helping the pregnancy fly by but it's also making me realize HOW MUCH I HAVE TO DO!!! Decluttering, deep cleaning, organizing, decorating, AND nursery prep and design. I need to get in gear!

[@alexandriavr6665]

Me to! Our boy is due right after the holidays and I'm so excited that people are putting up fall and Christmas videos, it means it's getting close 😆

[@staceyepperson6315]

I remember that video with your mom! I think it was the one where she suggested getting a notebook to plan and then have notes to look back at, I took her advice! I got myself a notebook just for party planning, so helpful to see my to-do lists and I go back after the party to make notes to myself of what did or did not work 😂

[@erinsnead4560]

Oh man I just found this -- I love it! That hostess basket for paper products is a dream! I'm definitely going to be on the hunt for one for our summer cookouts! :) I love the entire vibe of this hostess video -- I can't wait to watch the video with your mom!

[@mika72.-Bois]

In the southern hemisphere; Christmas & holidays are on a different timing & vibe. 1) The 🏫 school year starts late January or the first week of February. 2) Long summer holidays are December/January. 3) Christmas 🎄 & New Years Eve 🎆🎇 are warm/hot! 🥵 & in summer! 🏖 🏕 🏝

[@veronicabush9844]

Lovely and very helpful video. I love that you always seem so happy ❤❤❤❤

[@pinkroses135]

I've just started going through my Christmas stuff this week (a distraction while hunting for my fall items) so this is well timed

[@user-bp7hf4qj1g]

I just bought my family and extended families Christmas presents the last two days. It was the first time I did it so early and OMGoodness. You know how many things are on sale in September? It was like God just whispered to me "it's time," I took a look online, and BAM it was seamless. Very proud of my selections and have that checked off!

[@rabbitila7685]

Homegoods and At Home have good items as well. You are definitely my type of minimalist.

[@SoWhatImASlytherin]

ZOBOOMAFOO CLOSET!!! epic reference. I need this inspo this week.

[@Justmyeverydaylife7]

I loved your outfit and the little candles! We usually host with paper plates and make people microwave their food haha. I feel better about it since we found compostable plates. Haven’t hosted in a while, have been craving to do so, but dreading the work. Thanks for the motivation!

[@angiebrownharris8078]

Zaboomafoo! I have not thought about that in years!

[@daisybuchanan5378]

The buffet area with the new cabinet looks beautiful !

[@susanlawson5926]

I’m so glad U got the additional cabinet! Nothing I hate more is to have less room and start stacking items on top of each other 😮 I have to move everything to get to something else, I know it’s trivial but it frustrates me SO I am all for additional cabinet. 🎉

[@Tipywos]

I really love the Nora Fleming Hostess ware. All simple basic white but you can interchange the "charms" or minis for each holiday, season event etc. Weddings birthdays, st Patty's, valentines sports you name it theres a mini to match.

[@GLOWwithJennifer]

Designer/decorator here…I would totally leave some of those wooden pieces out on top of your buffet as deco until you need them. The round tiered for example would be so cute!

[@NatalieBennett]

Thanks for the tip!

[@findingaway5512]

Yeah..... I love Fall. It is always busy with kids back. October is a good month with fall fun and the sudden smack Christmas stuff! 😮

[@claireb3578]

You made me feel in this video Natalie that despite my limitations of energy and mobility, perhaps I could actually host...starting small and remembering to focus on bless not impress guests. Thank you so much 💗 I decluttered a lot of hosting items by donating but with the knowing that if I need them in future what I need will appear

[@ladyhawk2562]

Would love to see how you setup your table and buffet and what types of things you like to serve!

[@jeannine-tf1nx]

I used to have different dishes for holidays. A few years ago I went to all white. Plates and all serveware. Best decision. Works for every holiday. I accent the holiday with my table linens. Great place to start an all white collection is thrift stores. In my area there is a lot of Pfaltzgraff at thrift stores.

[@darlaford2593]

I learned real fast to buy none wrinklie and water proof frabic table clothes. Its been a life saver. Love this video Natalie ❤

[@katieebendick2631]

Everything looks great!

[@melissataylor5187]

I just want to say thank you for adding to my vocab. Since watching you the last 3 years, I now say "fall time" instead of fall. Lol it's definitely not a southern phrase but you've influenced me ❤❤❤

[@lindafabiano3312]

I love watching your videos, they are so calming and inspiring. Can I ask where did you get your padded/quilted storage bags from for your dinnerware & flatware?

[@marinalessig6683]

The majority of my hosters ware is clear glass. I think its even more versatile than white Love your videos Natalie and enjoyed your tips!

[@SauerPatchGardening]

I have some little tongs like the wooden ones you decluttered and I use them for relishes and charcuterie boards. I love mine! Lol. Just shows we are all different and I actually wish I had more. 😂 I also use all white serving dishes with splashes of things for whatever event I'm hosting. I have a beautiful pumpkin tray, a red crystal Christmas dish etc... and white looks great even if the pieces were bought separately, or years apart.

[@amahler7]

Looks amazing! Maybe cut a long piece of wood as a “tabletop” of sorts to make it look more built in!

[@cathywhitney5974]

Happy wife, content hubby, loved children make a very happy home. It’s about the whole family. Never about one . Love your serving ideas. Most of all love how you open your home to host large gatherings.

[@priscillaramos3033]

Love your credenza!!😊its beautiful!:)

[@adunne1104]

This buffet is such a great idea. Why have I never thought of buying this furniture piece 😂 Our kitchen is so small, our dining room has super old corner cabinets that don’t fit much. This would be such a great solution. I’m pretty minimalist and still feel like we’re busting at the seams.

[@NatalieBennett]

When you enjoy hosting, it’s OK to prioritize for extra things to serve your guests and practice hospitality! Don’t let the minimalist trolls tell you otherwise! 😉

[@jennylhenry78]

God Bless you too Natalie! 💓

[@rebeccarendle3706]

Lovely chatty vlog😊. Funny what you declutter, I use every time.😂 I use my wood lazy Susan for sauces and condiments or ingredients for eg self made wraps, rice rolls, tacos, etc on a table.. they all stay together and people can turn it to get what they need. I use my 3 tear glass plates for nibbles, treats, afternoon tea during the holidays, birthdays and celebrations.. we love it. You are a "cosy minimalist"😊.. just not an "extreme minimalist".. but most people aren't extreme minimalists...and wouldn't want to be!. ..and as you always say "and that's ok!"😊

[@CardsbyMaaike]

being organized and prepped always pays off. stews and or slowcooker meals can be done in the morning, prepping the veg to go in the crockpot could be done the evening before, oven dishes like shepherds pie, lasagna , moussaka of whatever you like, can be done in the morning afternoon and just bake an hour before guest arrive, when I watch home make over or house hunting shows I always giggle at we like to entertain, we need a big kitchen, but noone wants to see you cut up steaks or the pile of dishes in an open kitchen..trust me ;-) been there done that. Nathalie you've done well with the decluttering and whatever works for you is the best way for you. I have a ting for little meusli bowls and I decluttered many, but still have many, cos they're pretty and I can use them as individual soup boalw, icecream, meusli, dips, sauces, cut up veggies, just cos it's meant for soup on the label doesn't mean you have to use them as a soup bowl, might put cat food in it if I want to, basically I trying to say: your house, your rules, do what makes you happy

[@carolyn1580]

“You better watch out for the bowl”. Omg I’m rolling on the floor 😂

[@whitney5581]

Yes only a couple more week s until thanksgiving here in 🇨🇦 We typically don’t host, but love to bring what we can to help out!!

[@emilysmith2784]

Oh I love those tiered wood and metal pieces. Might keep an eye out for some like that. We never host other people, ever 😂 we were actually considering getting rid of some of our plates as we never reach the ones at the bottom, I started rotating them so they don’t get dusty but I don’t know why, I should just donate them. We do however do what we in NE England call a ‘choosy tea’ quite often. Which is basically a table filled with snack foods and afternoon tea type food which you just pick at from brunch to supper so a lot of the serve wear we have comes with lids. Great for leftovers in the fridge afterwards too, for when our eyes are bigger than our stomachs 😅

[@user-hb3fz8ql5s]

Hey Natalie. I was a real lazy bump today. But excuse i am on my period so i don't even feel bad about it. But your video and the previous one got me up to clean the kitchen and make ketchup from my garden tomatoes and steamed cabbage from my garden. Thank you for your motivation Natalie.

[@leslycorrales1444]

So excited for the video bestie

[@NatalieBennett]

I’m so glad! I hope you enjoy!

[@catharinab8860]

#patreonfam,love the video as always Natalie. Can’t wait for the holiday season 🍂📚🎅

[@catherineross7776]

We use one of those divided dishes when we are making tacos - one section for lettuce, one for grated cheese, one for diced tomato, one for mince and the centre for salsa or guac. Easy!

[@MissingMayberry]

I was JUST thinking I need to get all my gift wrapping things together and organized. I’ve started some gift shopping so I need to organize that too!

[@edencaouette3881]

I love the nesting tiered trays!! Do you happen to have a link for them?

[@whittneybaldwin2267]

Not ready for the holidays yet, but as a family who celebrates a liturgical church year we prepare early for Advent and the 12 Days of Christmas. I have a liturgical book that I have different things in for the year. It helps knowing what we need to do for each thing.

[@trishawall9619]

This was a great video! You are inspiring !

[@user-hb3fz8ql5s]

In our church we have Thanksgiving on October 1st. Because we decorate with mostly our own harfest and by the time real Thanksgiving comes by everything is canned already lol we also have a big feast in church so this helps to cut down the cost as we are using a lot of harvest to prepare the meal

[@anniecostello2969]

I am with you. I am not trying to rush summer but I have started (and finished) some of my Christmas DIY's for this year already. I would rather start them unseasonalbly early, enjoy the process and pack them away until December than rush through them and stress out closer to the holiday. Separartely: TONGS...After the entaining video with your mom, I too went out and got extra! Suggestion for your teeny tiny bamboo tongs (and the credit for this might go to Lynn White): they can be used to get toast un-stuck from the toaster. Love your channel and I am digging the jazz background music you have beeen using. Happy Fall! 🍁

[@mariahartisch9514]

My favorite serving dishes are the family's simple white pizza plates. They work for everything from cakes to sushi to Christmas roasts and dumplings...

[@meagangassler6722]

So agree with white serving pieces!

[@MsK_in_CA]

For those just starting to purchase serve ware and want some festive seasonal items. Nora Fleming has a line of basic white serve ware with changeable charms. They have every theme you could imagine. I think something like that might be nice for a wedding registry.

[@alohamaud5905]

Thank you for sharing all your tips 😊

[@karenstairs8273]

I took a picture of what my cabinet looked like with everything neatly in it. It helped my family figure out my "Jenga" way of storing everything. LOL

[@SauerPatchGardening]

I used to get really stressed about hosting. Then i realized that all the people ive invited into our home are people that i love. They have hosted before too! And know sometimes things get a little crazy. And in all honesty they are just happy to be there, hanging out. Glitches don't matter. Making memories does. Enjoy it.

[@NatalieBennett]

Yes!!! All of this!

[@nancyblackwell9818]

The little wooden tongs that you were going to declutter…I think they are for taking toast out of a toaster so that you’re not sticking a metal knife or fork or something in there to grab your toast if it doesn’t pop up far enough. 🍞