What to Do When You’ve Been Waiting 8 Years for the Diamond

[@mrsturner8532]

She is probably already pretending to be a wife without the strings of marriage.

[@jameswinslow1651]

She needs to move on if she wants to be married. After 8 years he doesn’t plan on marrying her.

[@natalata1435]

EIGHT YEARS?!?! He's gonna end up leaving you and marrying someone else.

[@DZJ0595]

Thats the worst

[@penlavits3305]

He still not sure eh ? Maybe he is held back by the law and how it goes in women favor. But then again,he can marry her with the condition of a prenup. Hmmm... can't think of any other reason other than she is not the one. For him to not be bewitched by her says a lot.

[@devonlovemusic]

At 32 you can dump him and get married to someone else around 34-36 be able to squeeze in having a baby. 8 years is too long he's had time and if you live with him time to pack up your things.

[@fahmishaibi5063]

Marriage doesn't always solve the problem to be in commitment relationship. If She loves that way but if she Force them may end breaking up.

[@strawberrycheesecake7912]

Leave him boo 8 years is way to long

[@garysincliar]

Some men just don't believe in the government system of signing papers to clarify his relationship and also the stress of getting married can be too much for some men. A guy like that probably just need a quiet wedding, Just the bride & groom with a witness, I guaranteed he'll agree to that.

[@mattm7378]

Women initiate 70% of divorces. So they should be the ones asking for marriage to prove that they are serious and committed. They should have no problems signing prenups - because if they love you and themselves, they should want everyone to be protected right? If she won't sign a prenup, then that is a red flag she's out to profit off the marriage

[@thooffee]

If that letter was from a guy saying the same thing about his girlfriend. That conversation would be way different.

[@despicabledeplorablemgtow3837]

Today's women are more concerned about getting married (the ring, the dress, the wedding, the status), than being and staying married (partnership, effective communication, commitment, loyalty, sacrifice.) To the young men out there: never get married, never cohabitate with a woman. No wife, happy life. No woman. no cry.

[@penlavits3305]

What does he gain from signing a paper. He is already getting everything without being married. That includes problems that marriages have. Nothing changes for a man when he is married, especially when the sex ain't good or one not getting it on a regular basis. So i would say being single/ a bf is the best way for a man because it ensures sex on a regular basis or she will lose the guy believe it. When women get married they do the whole bait and switch. So i wouldn't marry if i were him. Especially if he's getting VIP treatment with out ripping a hole in his pocket.

[@hollowaymiles]

Amen!

[@khadijakin5755]

I know a lot of couples who are not married n are together 30 years and above sometimes marriage is not always r guarantee of a lasting relationship if they love each other they can start a family together n life goes on marriage is just a paper

[@tashawilliams8093]

After year five years...... ✌.

[@gilberthpavon6725]

It's all about money omg. Women change it up golddiggers

[@dominicpersaud1155]

Lol, guys dont ever get married

[@BettyBr29]

Keep waiting, what's another 8 years? Seriously.

[@Raptor2607]

Marriage is a load of crap 70% end in failure I'm with my girlfriend 10 years she just got her diamonds but no marriage I'd rather travel the world than pay for a big party that we both agreed 2

[@Raptor2607]

@Nattie bubbles not all women but most women like a big wedding I've no problem with this it's just not for me or my girlfriend Thailand here we come

[@Raptor2607]

@Nattie bubbles I like that be my kind of wedding if I was ever to marry glad u and ur partner ar happy I say the smaller ur circle of friends the less drama there is but that just my opinion wish u and ur partner all the best in the future

[@acethegreat2946]

@@Raptor2607 divorce rates are really high because of dating. In the USA, divorce rates in the 1930 were between 10-20%. Nowadays, almost 50% end in divorce. Why? Because of dating. People are now able to freely mingle around with everyone else, so why commit to one person, right? Oh, and for the men, those darn feminists taking half our wealth and all of our children. This is one of the reasons why I’m satisfied with Islam. We need to get married before we’re even allowed to see each other’s beauty. Hence, why we try to get married early on.

[@ninidecoss2633]

but who said you need a big party whats wrong with signing a paper

[@Raptor2607]

@@ninidecoss2633 nothing wrong with it just not for me

[@xxxSabrinaroxxx]

The most I can wait is 2 years..

[@dominicpersaud1155]

Tf