HOW TO SECRETLY TRANSITION MTF TRANSGENDER GUIDE

[@fairyprincesslucy]

Thanks for watching the video

[@mahmoudsalaheddine8358]

Hi lucy! I luv ur videos! Thank you for making everything so easy to follow! I just was gonna look at your voice tutorials because im genderfluid and I wanted to know how, but your videos have me questioning if I’m actually trans! I luv your channel so much and i really wish I could donate! ❤❤❤

[@StarBlastSnow]

Cashier: “Why do you look so nervous holding those girl clothes” Me not wanting to get outed: “Uhh uhh uuhh im stealing-“

[@thatcatthatalwayseatsyourchees]

Better than being outed am i right

[@N19htcat]

I am stealing it... but legally, as I am gonna pay. JUST DON'T TELL ANYONE!! Stealing is bad!!

[@Emma-Queenofhell]

"I hope my sister likes the gifts i give her."

[@Kelly_Jane]

​@@Emma-QueenofhellLegit got me a gift receipt the first time I went fem-shopping 😂

[@oneiroagent]

@@Kelly_Jane LMAOOOOOOO

[@ManegrIs3n]

the cis urge to watch a video on how to secretly transition instead of sleeping

[@AllWeNeededWas]

real

[@fairyprincesslucy]

okay but after you watch be sure to sleep

[@IsuiGtz]

The most cis hetero normative comment I've ever read. Yeah. *explosion*

[@superStarshines]

​@@IsuiGtz Lucy jank explosion!! :000 woo!^-^

[@Hanaishere11]

Very real sis...

[@hotdogbrained]

17:40 *family Is out for the whole day *new clothes arrived yesterday *dress up fem and mentally celebrate *doomscroll for 15 hours

[@powerstationgaming2002]

I don't know you, but u looked cute in that

[@montrealbreakcore3241]

lmao that hit hard

[@The_Spectacular_Spider-Brock]

Real

[@KikktyIsWeird]

Felt

[@AliaK-i1e]

Haven't been able to cd in about 2 years, finally get some alone time, every two minutes someone comes banging at my door needing something. Haven't had a single visitor for about a year before that, but the second I put on some lipstick.. lol

[@lit_kzh]

master trans woman passing down eldritch knowledge to newbloods and totally cis eggs

[@UPGAX]

I'm a new trans woman have any words of wisdom?

[@rocket396]

A trick I use in shopping is go with a list in hand and behave like I'm shopping for others. Often I am, but I digress

[@Bejeodiehrubridjehfoekdjriwknr]

100% this. I line it all up in the stores app so I can even get help if I need to. If anyone questions it, I'm a support worker (my actual job) doing some shopping for a client. Even though the last part is a lie, this puts me in the working headspace and I lost all nerves whilst shopping, even when close to home

[@AliaK-i1e]

Yes, also mouth "tf is a chemise" to yourself, even though you know full well and already have 4 of them

[@advega]

i legit have to act like this regardless of gender cause idfk how to act in a shop

[@skellious]

​@@Bejeodiehrubridjehfoekdjriwknr well no, you're supporting yourself, so YOU ARE the client.

[@helenacoolkid]

unironicaly thinking about building the light yagami desk mechanism to hide my cute fem clothing lol

[@rouguedissidia]

But first...as a distraction... I'll take this CHIP AND ILL EAT IT!

[@urlocallazerbird8531]

hahahahahahahahahahaha, humans are very interesting

[@Nikowo1610]

Wait oh my god you're actually so right

[@Nikowo1610]

Okay so like, I genuinely think I'm gonna do this thank you so much for the advice If I actually do it and it works, I will update all of you

[@Nikowo1610]

MINUS THE FIRE MIND YOU

[@archiedelacroix880]

Me still sporting a moustache, holding only a skirt to the shop clerk: "yo can you unlock the changing room please" 😅

[@JustAChannel_13]

"It's for a costume/themed party"

[@ThatPersonNamedJune]

"My twin needs clothes and wears the same size as me"

[@rexlur.]

I still have my moustache ;-;

[@So_ImErin]

I have a full blown beard. Better yet, I have pitch black hair..

[@MaxDaStubid]

W comment. Keep winning!

[@sillybritishbomb]

I love watching trans tips that i will never manage to muster the courage to get close to using

[@Hanaishere11]

You've got this!!! Take your time! But please don't put it off too long. (I'm in the same boat)

[@silverthedruid4754]

bestie, we're big girls now (I assume, these are mtf tips). It might take us a second to build up that courage, but we can do it, okay?

[@Jestrath]

I think you warm up to it little by little. I started out cross playing at conventions then gradually moved inti dressing femme in public. Eventually I made the big step of hrt

[@ELIAHAVAH]

I tried to secretly transition; but it didn't work. I discovered self-love, and ended up just coming out instead. Damn estrogen! 😫

[@jimmypatterson9854]

How didnyou try to do it secretly? Just take hormones while in the closet?

[@MaxDaStubid]

This is the path I'm on... I've tried several small things and already I'm a happier person.

[@jimmypatterson9854]

So you're saying if I try hrt I might not be able to secretly transition.

[@AllyTheWimpyBear]

This video made me realize how intimidating i am to people who know me. I just started making changes that were very visible such as nails and nobody was willing to ask questions. Stay safe out there my lovelies and remember you all beautiful 💚

[@Botryoidal_Bracteole]

I'm playing this game with my emotionally repressed parents. I guess it's a win-win, either they won't bother me, or they will be forced to talk to me about something personal of their own volition.

[@jdatlas4668]

heh I feel this, I just showed up to work in a skirt at one point and nobody even commented

[@Codiac300]

​@@jdatlas4668 Done this as well. And pretty much had the same reactions. I even got compliments on my wig. Even if it's a cheap Amazon one. :)

[@JoeOverleas]

lmao same, as an overly masculine man who was closeted in denial, the transition to my now muscleless (took 2 years 😢) body painted nails, and cute little fem self, completely shocks those that knew me before yet nobody has a single nasty thing to say. Will be keeping the boxing gloves tattoo😽

[@rapturite7237]

"Even if it's a secret now, it won't be one day" the way i almost cried

[@katyungodly]

I secretly transitioned, my family never found out even after 2 years HRT. when I came out they were all shocked, and I'm glad I did it secretly because none of them were supportive!

[@alek4ever646]

I know the clothes store feeling. I wasn't completely stealth, I had one person that knew. My aunt. So she brought me shopping for feminine clothes. And instead of presenting confidence (I would if I was alone), I played the role of the "bored out of my mind guy while the girl shops clothes", when she was mostly picking out clothes for me.

[@LinkMorganM]

that is so sweet, shoutout to your aunt

[@IsuiGtz]

The intro got me thinking: you are turning into your digital self. You are goals. Edit: double tap rewind as soon as the video begins. Over and over again. You're all welcome. ❤

[@superStarshines]

goals^-^

[@Billiisnotcool]

I do that whenever yt tells me that subtitles have been turned on WHICH COVERS UP THE SUBTITLES so I just spam it and it's hilarious

[@Illogical.]

If your inconspicuous clothes are folded neatly and you have enough of it, pick some pieces you never wear, unfold them, put secret clothes inside the inconspicuous clothes, and fold that, and put it below all of the frequently-worn clothes.

[@steelbones7509]

great tip, works like a charm for me for years O:)

[@wztly7368]

WE GETTING OUT THE CLOSET WITH THIS ONE 🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥

[@riverchampeimont]

At clothes store: "It's for my girlfriend" but reversed, cashier told me "I'm sure she'll be happy". Me embarassed "yes sure that's for... her yes".

[@tigerspirit1917]

For the clothes, the best option I found was thrift stores. Not only will you usually have a much wider variety of options, but you also won't have to have awkward conversations with staff. Beyond that, new clothes are expensive. At the thrift store you can get clothes for a few dollars that otherwise you'd be spending a fortune for... And if they don't fit or they aren't really to your liking, you aren't out all that much.

[@TyphoonBeam]

I definitely just clicked because of the Elite Penguin Force headquarters in the background, not because I've been trying to figure out how to make any progress in transition but being scared of being noticed.

[@Webmage101]

I'm in this comment and I don't like it

[@danaharrington6561]

What’s elite penguin force?

[@Webmage101]

@@danaharrington6561 The secret organization from Club Penguin.

[@CVZen]

Oh the struggles of being anxious about dressing up fearing you might get caught even though no one is going to be home for the next 3 hours

[@fairyprincesslucy]

Felt haha that's why i learnt speed changing at the time, get good at changing back FAST and you can dress fem more

[@Mozart380]

I for real feel like a paranoid schizo lol. Everytime i dress up i pull down all the curtains, lock all doors (just in case), turn off/obscure all camera's, and grow hyperaware off all sounds.

[@ashuuu5505]

this is way too real

[@charlesroyal5125]

3 hours isn't enough

[@CyberGamer1539]

lol hi cvzen (do not question why i am here)

[@IzzetNilson]

I'm in a position where I can comfortably practice transition at any pace, but my job is very exposed to the public, and the general community is awful. I appreciate these discreet tips. I shaved my arms once and it felt nice, but I felt self conscious about them when walking out in short sleeves. it felt nice not having hair there, honestly, and I'm def going to make the most out of shaving this autumn/winter. Been meaning to give my legs a shave. That's next on my list of things to do.

[@superStarshines]

that stinks... I'm sorry:c good attitude I think tho!! you got this!!!!!

[@hardgay7537]

If you haven't yet, do it. Smooth legs sliding through clean sheets like glass is a joy like no other. It feels AMAZING. Just prepare to pretend you're a swimmer if you're planning on wearing shorts, and brace for that excuse not working. Why it doesn't, idk, but own that shit. Athletes are stereotypically confident, after all.

[@mishtrong]

If any questions arise, just say that you like running and hair makes you less aerodynamic. Or any other sports work. Bouldering, cycling, etc.

[@Nikowo1610]

I've been doing my nails all the time for the past 16 months or so, and I'm not kidding when I say that I've gotten over twice the compliments from strangers about the color of my nails in those past months, than I've gotten compliments from strangers about anything else about my body in my entire lifetime combined

[@catcatcat_5]

This is so real for me cause after I started painting my nails it’s not to uncommon to get compliments about it and it’s always so nice

[@leevv5745]

I'm late 50s, so not quite a girl anymore, literally a TransMa now. I absolutely love your energy and the way you deliver your content, so refreshing ❤

[@WILD4X4D]

I did a bit of sneaky transition for the first year. I still didn't come out till a month after people started asking about the long hair and noticable growing boobs.

[@annaaquitaine4225]

I’m thinking about going about things this way. I look forward to the conversation “are those… are you… never mind… hold on”

[@WILD4X4D]

@@annaaquitaine4225 my favorite was saying back. "I've always had tits!!"

[@icqme8586]

I also didn't tell anyone. I started to male-fail about 1 year into HRT at which point I decided to transition socially and stop trying to hide changes.

[@Jestrath]

My boobs aren't noticeable unless I wear something that makes them stand out. It's been over a year and I'm not even a full A cup.

[@Jestrath]

​@icqme8586 lucky. For me its been over a year in and I have to make an extreme effort to been see as female. I'm only passable when everything is on point. Male failing with no effort feels like a pipe dream to me

[@Slaaneshy_Concubine]

Best advice for growing hair: Just be a metal head UwU Edit: That applies to colored nails and maybe colored hair as well, depending on how accepting people are around you. Your presentation can be part of a sub culture or just a style you like. Not everything necessarily has to be gendered. Like, there are cis men who color their nails, shave their body, color their hair, ... just because they like it (many bodybuilders shave, men of subcultures like punk or goth sometimes color nails and hair, ...). As a transgirl, I think this could be a good argumentation to slightly transition while still staying closeted. I will certainly do it this way + use Lucy's sneaky ideas on top :3

[@nolestrono]

The youtube trans space has been nothing but amazing so far. People just sharing their experiences has made me feel so comfortable and unconditionally accepted, and like all the guides/advice videos are genuinely life saving

[@stygianoatman]

Some other things I'd like to add about hiding a transition, if on HRT it's probably a really good idea to either see your family (or anybody you want to stealth around) either often, or not at all. Like if someone saw you only every 3 months or something, they're going to more easily notice the changes to your body because it won't be gradual for them, whereas it would be if it were daily. Though you should also avoid any situation where being with them might involve them taking pictures (like going to the beach, holidays, other social events) because that picture now serves as a reference they could use to more easily notice. And you should also avoid letting them touch you since HRT will definitely make your skin feel smoother. Edit on that part: Also worth keeping in mind that if any children notice changes from your transition, there's a decent chance they'll say something about it whether they/their parents are accepting or not. Kids don't really have inhibitions and often say what's on their mind. So if you had extended family with kids, even if they're accepting, the kids may expose you if they pointed anything out. Hasn't happened to me but worth considering. For getting HRT in stealth (or as much as possible), at least if you're in the U.S and an adult there's Planned Parenthood and informed consent, which means they provide information and allow you to make the call as an adult capable of their own decisions. You can basically just make a digital appointment (even if people live with you, that digital meeting might not be too bad, though best to schedule during time safe and alone) and maybe even pick up a prescription the same day like I did. It's also good to ask about financial assistance and stuff if you need that. Estrogen is luckily pretty easy to get actually, or at least easier than testosterone since that's a controlled substance. And for hiding HRT prescription itself, if you take them as pills then you could keep like a week's worth at a time in a pill organizer. Some people might not already be taking any medication, BUT you could pretty easily justify it by also getting some supplements, like vitamin C, vitamin D, iron, zinc, magnesium, omega 3, B vitamins, etc. although hiding the actual bottles for the HRT may still be something to consider. Lastly this might not be an option for everyone, but if you're into cosplay or some fandoms like Star Wars/Harry Potter, you could replace the simple dysphoria hoodie with full body outfits like a black robe, which would hide a ton. Tell people you're just being a Sith lord or wizard. If they know you to be nerds for those things, it probably won't raise too much suspicion. Edit to add: Also a REALLY good way to voice train in stealth would be signing up for a choir, if anyone has the option. I took choir for like 2-3 years when I was in school and I feel it helped tremendously, even with what little voice training I did. Choir will not be specifically for getting a feminine voice of course, but you will learn a lot about how to control things like pitch, resonance, etc. a lot of techniques you learn in voice training will be taught in a choir class. It's not unusual for anyone of any gender to take choir classes, and if your family thinks it's feminine there may even be a choir in your church (if you have to attend one). I would say the only downsides to a choir class are that you'll probably have to lean into your deep voice, even though you expand your range, if you are a bass then they'll want you singing bass. And of course, you need to be able to afford it. If your education is being paid for by your parents, it's a great time to get credits for graduation while picking up a skill useful in transition. Choir is also just awesome for learning to project your voice, you will find it easier to speak with authority and rizz as the kids might say.

[@steelbones7509]

oh, that's a good one! very true :)

[@vanilla.icescream]

This was a good read and very helpful!

[@nhasirduck3500]

for shaving legs I recommend using an electric razor initially if you have one, its way faster but the shave is not as close but it makes close shaving easier

[@superStarshines]

oh fesure, I'm lucky to be pretty hairless, but electric all the way yyyy, initially at least

[@SayoriDDLC.]

Woah, this couldn't have been posted at a better time. Perfect thing yo watch at a sleepover-

[@TraderRobin]

Another great tip for those who wish to keep their alter-ego lifestyle private, is to get a private storage unit near your home, where you can keep all of your feminine attire, books, magazines, etc. I did that for many years before I came out! I kept a card table and comfy wheeled desk chair in there. I had a makeup mirror w/light, and full length mirror. I placed remnant carpeting on the floor. I would always go there to get 'dolled up' before trans support group meetings (which I had founded), and other outings with friends, and then go there to 'undo' afterward! Keep a jug of water and paper towels in there (they help, trust me)! I screwed an electrical adapter into the light socket, and screwed the light bulb into the adapter, which gave me non-grounded power for a small fan, and a small radio, etc. But be careful on the power usage, as those sockets aren't rated for much power (maybe 100 watts). You'll also want to keep your clothes, shoes, wigs, etc. sealed up while inside there, as they would get nasty if they're left out. Also, make sure your storage unit is accessible 24/7, otherwise you may be in for a rude surprise after a night out! 😧😧🏳‍⚧

[@TazukeiOtakai]

WHATS THIS?! PEAK CONTENT THAT WILL AID ME WONDERFULLY?!

[@ahawdjkmwodjikma6543]

satisfactory

[@IsuiGtz]

beautifully

[@Illogical.]

If the 'friend whose body is similar to yours' is in the hospital and/or its their birthday soon, that gives a reason why it is so urgent and why they can't do it themself, but why despite being nervous, you insist on doing it, and the nervousness will be read as embarrasment by onlookers.

[@mythornshaveroses6472]

When I was thinking about how to start transitioning, I could not decide how I would tell anyone close to me. I'm more afraid of their reactions than embarrassed of myself. My decision was to keep it secret. Only a couple close trusted friends and one very supportive family member knows what I am doing. While I can't say much about the social aspect of transition, I have been on HRT for almost a year. I feel so much better about myself. That may not work for everyone but, for me, it has been lifesaving. At some point, the people in my life will take notice. When they do, it may not go well. I can imagine their feelings being hurt. Nobody likes to feel left out. Maybe they will feel that I didn't trust them enough but, it's not about them. I'm not doing this for anyone but me. If they would have been supportive before, then they will be when they find out. Nobody else's opinion matters to me. Be confident in yourself and good people will take notice.

[@EnneaIsInterested]

Do lots of hard cardio exercise to get closer to your ideal girl body, walk into the store, when they ask you who the clothes are for, just go "ME!" and give off that generic exercise glare. That works, too.

[@CC.R0Y]

For shaving body hair I'd recommend a double edge razor like Henson. They're usually marketed as unisex, replacement razors are way cheaper and its a lot easier to avoid cutting yourself (you can still cut yourself if you're not careful but you don't have to worry as much about it). I use a Henson razor to shave my body and facial hair and I can get a really close shave relatively easily/quickly.

[@Slaaneshy_Concubine]

Interesting. Definitely looking it up. For very cis reasons :3

[@relentlessvoices]

Had a friend gift me a vintage adjustable double edge and it makes shaving so much better. Went the entire vintage route with the badger brush and shave soups. Totally worth it.

[@Nomaaa-]

I have to say...luckily I don't need to do it secretly, but clothes shopping alone made me very nervous, especially because in literally 6 stores there wasn't even one skirt 😅 But...speaking of skirts...if you can't buy one, but you have an old shirt, you can make a skirt yourself! You need to check if the shirt fits around your waist when it's upside-down, then cut either before the holes for the arms or below them to create an opening to step comfortably into. Then just put it on like it's a skirt... if it's too loose, then try to tie a knot with the fabric, which is too much for you. It won't look perfectly, but it will do its job ^^

[@jade_switch]

For the shopping thing it’s like 99% of cashiers do not care what the f you buy and if you go into small alternative stores the probability is high that the cashier is queer too and really excited to help you out. It’s happening quiet reliable to me

[@Gumpys_]

The cis male urge to watch this video all the way through

[@ghostmalone6154]

Im just starting my trans journey (mtf) at 26... your videos are such a big help not just with all the helpful information but my confidence is through the roof 😊 so I'm watching everything from the beginning trying to learn as many tips as possible. Lots of love from the Uk ❤❤

[@kR-qj7rw]

19:00 you are helping a lot of people woman great job

[@Iyashikei-t4u]

Another tip: buy things that look like mens clothes but are actually womens. That way you can wear those clothes 24/7 without anyone noticing. Sure it's not skirt go spinny territory yet but you don't have to be that sneaky all the time. The skirts and dresses can come later when you're in a safer space.

[@kristengreystone4107]

Literally everything I wear aside from the graphic tees is female clothing, socks, jeans shoes, and underwear. Graphic tees to me the ones I like are not available in female so to me they are generic even though technically male so that does not matter. My family has never noticed. I am completely closeted and only my wife and my sister know the truth. The kids are 17 and 18 and have no idea that dad is trans and cross dressing full time pretty much. I would love to be fully out and wear what I want but I worry about how the kids and my Mother in-law that lives with us will react.

[@GavHern]

i love me watching this while being completely out lol. btw for everyone wanting to learn vocal training but doesnt want other people to hear, you can still watch videos to learn what you’ll need to do, plus a lot of the resonance stuff can be practiced while whispering :)

[@ricardomunoz8988]

Pro tip: while buying moisturizer put a pregnancy test box on top of your shopping cart. Onlookers and cashiers will be too shock to ask any further questions. And while scamming items leave the pregnancy test behind or say that you won't need after all, any nosy one will just assume "well a decision was made that day"

[@GDRhythmic]

Thank you so much for this ❤ I knew I was trans for a long time, but now I've gotten over any denial I've had. That's mostly thanks to wandering son, (a 2003 manga) and a few clothing items I bought while thrifting. Relating to those characters that much is... Well it's not very cis of me. Also been a fan for quite a while and I can now confirm you're very cool :3

[@neppy199]

i boymodded for like 2-3 years back i nthe day until psych had to tell my family im t so it was fun hiding stuff in plain sight is always the best honestly having a ton of online friends i later in life become irls with helped alot also as ex (or still kinda boymodder dont really present overly fem just girlboy thing ) diy hrt is really what saved me

[@AttenuatedNecronym]

I don't need to watch this because I didn't do anything about it until i was 37. I'm a lil dense -.- I do think it's fascinating to learn about though. So while not a need it's still enjoyable

[@rulesofimgur]

Another tip for getting clothes at a store; get a gift receipt if you feel nervous. If you ever say "it's for my girlfriend" they could be skeptical but if you get a gift receipt it's more reason for them to believe you

[@Cleverconveyence]

Watching this to pass along all this information along to anyone that needs it. Yes.

[@skutela32]

Im still closeted but im starting (diy) HRT soon, hopefully i can just keep it up and then if i get questioned on it then come out. But the goal is slowly transistion myself! This video didnt help me much because i already do these things but its a great idea!!!

[@dvader812]

Hi I just wanted to say that I'm 12 and my parents don't support my transgender identity so these tips really helped me and im now feeling more euphoric than ever after following your advice! :3

[@fairyprincesslucy]

I've been there! When I was 12 my parents were super unsupportive, just remember not to give up being you and know that things get better

[@TheAtomique13]

I love that you used Pangya music, so relaxing to listen at the same time~ 🥰

[@larskaiser8131]

This video is giving me mixed emotions; on one hand it's a very important one for all of us out there who live in unsafe environments to deal with our issues... at the same time I just wish for a time where none of us lives in an unsafe environment to begin with... 🥺

[@therideneverends1697]

You can acknowledge the situation is wrong, but whats important just aswell is to help people in those situations work with the tools they have, which is a huge public service

[@larskaiser8131]

Yeah, that's true of course. Some people don't have a choice, and for some even DYI can be out of reach... I still hope that the number of these people will shrink dramatically during the time I'm alive.

[@therideneverends1697]

@@larskaiser8131 They will, simply because younger generations are hugely pro LGBT, 10 or 20 years and most people haveing kids just wont care

[@larskaiser8131]

Let's hope for the best...progress is not a straight one-way street, if you compare the late 60s and peak hippie culture with today for example. But we can only hope and do our part.

[@lmnk]

The "do makeup right before showering" tip is BRILLIANT! A tip I can provide: people may (and eventually will) notice you shave your legs, but barely anyone will notice you do so with arms. And even if they do (which ever happened to me ONCE throughout all the years), you can simply say your arm hair is genetically very short, and they're gonna eat it up.

[@Ember-Rodriguez]

Finally started HRT this year at 26 but I knew I was trans and wanting by 11 so I had many years of being sneaky. I always thought about passing on my tricks, excuses, and stories so I love that you are making this kind of video. My favorite thing is manufacturing a socially acceptable way to dress up. One such time was when I was in 6th grade I was part of a dance trapeze class (school below dance studio). The theme was night circus so I started saving up my lunch money for a whole month so I could buy sometime, I had to walk downtown but I found a shop selling a black and red tutu I bought "for a friend who was sick". Come the night of the performance I realized it was obviously an audience of school parents but thankfully I had the iron clad excuse of we needed to match/they made me. With that ready I could use hairclips in my " longer Justin Bieber hair" and some eyeliner and go on stage and perform. Best of all was after me and the girls got to run around downtown at night dressed up. With the protection of not wanting to embarrass me other parents never brought it up and my parents never knew.

[@prestige_rusher_3500]

watching for totally cis reasons!!

[@jennygiese2186]

When I was younger around 8 I did these techniques Alot due to not being able to come out but thank you for the content you are amazing now I am living out as my true self all of the time and for everyone out there you are loved I love you and care shine like the sun it can bring love light nourishment or when mistreated can burn you I love everyone cis and non I want all of you to know that everyone needs to know that they are loved muah 💋💋💋

[@DeSalle553]

It's illegal to prescribe HRT here so I just go into the pharmacy with all the confidence I have, quickly take my hrt, pay and bail. I only got kicked once. I also love to order the thing to the pharmacy so when I come in I say: -Hello, order 6159. -Here. That'll be $23. *Pays and leaves*

[@DeSalle553]

Just bought HRT.

[@TomiThemself]

@@DeSalle553 I want to know how to do that... but here... we don't even have them in pharmacies :c

[@SunnyStarzgirl]

Lovely video, thank you for spreading these tips. But as a cashier who works in an international clothing store, let me tell you, we don't care. I'll repeat that for the people in the back of the closet, WE DON'T CARE! As long as you buy clothes in those supermarket clothing chains, (think primark, h&m or similar) nobody gives a damn about what you buy. We are more concerned about our lunch break than we are about what you have in your shopping bag.

[@_vcctv_]

4:50 been there as far as that context note goes 💗 thanks for making this

[@remboldt03]

This video made me realize I’m further then I thought and I love it

[@remboldt03]

• I take hormones • I have a scheduled permanent hair removal • My mother knows • I am happier every day But: I still dress and appear manly, because it would still look a bit off

[@Saxophonin]

How I wish I had this video a few months ago, particularly for the clothes part.

[@ll.3701]

I am a cis white male and I am here to say I support all of you! ❤ I am sure transitioning is a scary time and not everyone will approve but as long as you are doing what makes you happy while not hurting anyone go for it!

[@michimatsch5862]

For clothes I am lucky enough to just have a date that went shopping with me a week ago. It was scary, it was dysphoric but we went to a state capital so who is gonna remember? And now I got skirts, shorts, and skorts. And the skirts go spin :3

[@Yoyleblob2]

My eyes lit up so brightly when you segwayed from leg hair to leg wear

[@Its_Squiddd]

i dont need to transition secretly my parents are supportive but im a sneaky lil girl so ima be using this :3

[@thegenderlesscloset]

As always an absolutely amazing video. Lucy you are doing wonders for the trans community and we thank you so much. Keep it up!!!

[@RickDean-v2t]

Great video. I also just wanted to say is... your voice is Absolutely Perfect!

[@fatalinsomn1a182]

Thanks for making our day better.

[@Reyan_Salli]

1. When going to shopping bring one of those paper bags that people use for presents. 2. Go shopping during holidays, such as women's day and valentine's. Nobody will find it weird.

[@goodbit11]

You'll reach a point in life where you stop caring what others think. I didn't realize I was trans until shortly after, and as a direct result of reaching that point.

[@Bone-HeadYT]

Thnx pal

[@qtpaulie]

your hair is so pretty today!!

[@americandingo1109]

This is something I'm really struggling with lately. Thank you!

[@Vixensu]

Me watching this because I’m too afraid to come out to my whole family but can’t take all this waiting anymore…

[@SpacePianist]

Thank you so much. This has been really helpful!! My parents are sadly pretty transphobic, and I was looking for nice ways to hide from them, and this was perfect. Thanks a million :3

[@nhasirduck3500]

I was literally JUST talking about this idea to my doctor and therapist

[@arianaponytail]

girl i just think you look so cute in that outfit! also love the cute jump in the beginning. also i love your hair!

[@LovesMassEffect]

Thanks for all the tips. Im hoping the one day will be sooner rather than later

[@KiraKiraK1lla]

i got jumpscared at the beginning lol

[@ItsRanu-]

You a Time Traveler

[@chaoslabj]

​@ItsRanu- of couse they are, I mean...who else would go through puberty more than once? XD

[@Hanaishere11]

​@@ItsRanu-probably watched when the video was privated

[@KiraKiraK1lla]

@@ItsRanu- not only am I a time traveler, but I am also a proud member of the fairy princess Lucy channel

[@Pannlicker]

Cropping my old 'boy graphic tees' was a game changer

[@Emily_Terra]

For nails there's something called "easy peel off" nail polish that'd I highly recommend. It's not quite as nice looking as real polish but you can literally just peel them all off in like 30 seconds if need be. My sneaky days are long behind me but that was definitely a product I used to use frequently.

[@easonstats69420]

I really need this. This is really useful. Thanks Lucy

[@theodorebarton4256]

I failed at the very first hurdle, and that was before I even started questioning my gender. At the time, I had a buzz cut and I told my parents that I wanted to try growing out my hair to shoulder length, just to see what it was like. THAT WAS THE ONLY REASON. Nevertheless, parents asked my CBT therapist to tell me to talk to by psychotherapist about why I wanted to grow out my hair. About 6-8 months later, still growing out my hair, I began questioning my gender (kind of).

[@fidelcatto4732]

Need this more than ever

[@miyahollands6136]

sometimes it's better to buy man-stuff - razors are a very good example. lady razors are normally at least double the cost, just because they are pink. that pink tax is a pain in the ass

[@TraderRobin]

Also, if you pay for clothing items using CASH, you can buy them, then find a restroom to try them on, and then return them to the store right away, if need be (otherwise, using a debit or credit card will require a day or two before you can return items). I always purchase a few different sizes closest to my own size, that way, I can get just the right fit, and return the rest. I will also then buy extras of the items that fit, such as blouses, skirts, etc., because I know I will need them for MANY years to come! I have bought THOUSANDS of skirts and blouses in public places over the years, and NOBODY has ever given me a hard time (even when they KNEW why I was buying them)! It's FUN!!

[@cayman9873]

Start with a womans flannel blouse, people will not notice the buttons. Pantyhose can go under anything. A camisole is so comfy.

[@spiderjerusalim]

I want to be a feminine and joyful girl..... but just based on my character, I'm as depressive and silent as possible, who cares more about the inner world than the outer manifestation. I try to make the transition, but because of the depression I get tired quickly and I immediately feel like I'm putting on a show for others. But without that performance... because of my personality and lifestyle, I'm not much different from the rest of the guys. Just if I was a girl from the beginning... there would be zero questions for me, but I'm not stupid... I understand how I look and how I sound. It's all weird, and I don't even know how to put it all together and present it to you as a comment. Maybe other trans girls have similar feelings? Thanks for what you do, your voice videos have helped me...really I've given up on the whole thing. Maybe someday I'll find the motivation and reason to get back into it.

[@Nikowo1610]

The whole "fake it till you make it" mindset does really help for me with stuff like that, even if acting completely different than how I typically present to others feels unnatural, and part of my brain tells me I'm just putting on a performance, it just feels so much nicer to act that way and that makes me able to set aside those thoughts

[@Nikowo1610]

And I know that as long as I keep on acting like that, it will slowly but surely become more and more natural to me, and eventually it's pretty much my base personality

[@Louisejames23]

When I was « stealth « I bought a wedding dress from a charity /thrift shop & the lady asked me if I wanted to try it on 😊. It wouldn’t have fit anyway but basically I don’t think the majority of shop workers care, they’re there to sell clothes not criticise the customers ❤👍

[@ThatPersonNamedJune]

I advise for clothes, if you are for example too young to do any of this, or too scared, big hoodies are your bestie, primarily in cold regions. If they're oversized and baggy, I know I do prefer tight fitting clothes physically, but mentally, it feels like a dress. It's long, it's big, it's cute, and won't call for much suspicion.

[@someonesomewhere7403]

Good luck to you. I really wish I can find someone as nice as you one day.

[@kamrynsikes]

3:00 hell I’ve been using an electric razor since the very beginning. It’s one that has different attachments, shears and the little three spinny razor one, it’s worked great!! But of a learning curve on how to not nick with the shears but you learn after one or two nicks lol.

[@kamrynsikes]

After all of my deprogramming it’s so weird to me how parents will essentially lock down their child from the outside world, give them zero life’s experiences, then when they go out into the real world the parents act shocked and like their child has been “corrupted” by the forces of the world…. Like, no ma’am, those are ripped jeans, they come like that from the store.

[@kamrynsikes]

10:30 my hair growing out story is crazy. I went to a private Christian school. Uniforms, chapel, the nine yards. They also had a clause that boys hair could not be longer than 3”, and they measured it. I always fought this, protesting hair cuts, “I don’t care if I get expelled,” dying my hair so my parents were forced to let it grow before chopping it, etc. My senior year my school began illegally recruiting high schoolers for its dwindling football team and they bought this Jamaican kid who had dreadlocks. I GOT CALLED RACIST FOR SAYING HE SHOULD BE MADE TO CUT HIS HAIR, multiple times, from my friends who agreed that the rule was bullshit. Did it have something to do with being in “The Buckle of the Bible Belt,” and this being the… 3rd black guy they’ve ever known on a 1:1 basis…? After this it became apparent that the hair rules were simply in place to fulfill the sick fantasies of the losers who ran the place, girls had a minimum hair length…. MINIMUM. I started growing out my hair that school year and went an entire year without cutting it, and since then I’ve been going 6-14 months between cuts to grow it out over time and I’ve gotta say, my hair looks damn fine. Also my school got suspended for two seasons for violating recruiting laws, which is very funny to me.

[@AnotherLocalRed_Fox_Therian]

Electric razor?

[@BookMagic2K]

Looking confident really can let you get away with anything. Ppl won't say anything if they see you don' giving an f. And for a case they do, just practice your "R u dumb or what?" face and "Ye, what's the problem?" phrase.

[@KateKrystal]

Last night I fell asleep in my skirt and fem outfit, I woke up and grabbed my phone and walked past my mother… I should’ve leveled my sneak skill, im gonna go cry into my blahaj and listen to underscores

[@Kiwikid-zy7rg]

How did you forget??? Did your mom notice.

[@davigamesp53]

Dang, i hope it turns out well for you

[@Travelbythought]

A pair of plyers works well on body hair. The first time is hard and takes a long time, but over time it gets less and less and eventually just stops coming back.

[@southernprojectsyt6340]

there's an easier way than going to the store in person to buy clothes... TIP for some like minded as myself. amazon sells ..... you guessed it womens clothing..... NUFF SAID. edit... unless you open your clothes package or tell anyone you purchased womens cloths ONLINE. no one will know what's in the package but the seller.

[@northernlghts]

thank you for making videos like this, they are really helpful

[@chaoslabj]

Yaay! It's the superhero episode

[@Liquorsnurf]

Thank you for this videos. I’ve been closeted for many years and I just started small steps. Shaving , painting toes and skin care. I am so afraid of buying makeup because I’m color blind and need help. Ugh