Falling In Love Broke My Heart

[@yayshelbz]

falling in love is a very very scary thing

[@HollyHodges]

Joey Kidney **sees this a few days after I start dating for the first time* 😂

[@vinylagaze4785]

Joey in yellow is my fave kind of joey

[@saigeconnell1651]

I really love your uniqueness. These videos are so genuine xo

[@kaitlynherman819]

I asked a week ago, “How to get over someone you once loved”. You describe love as a feeling. I cannot agree more. Love was something that I experienced around a year and a half ago. I loved this guy, and I never fully admitted it to him. Sometimes I regret not telling him how I truly felt. I love too much; loving is hard. I know how much I also break after I realize that the other person does not love me. I think pouring my heart into another person after loving myself is so fulfilling. To love someone else fully knowing how much you have the capacity to love. I have written two books full of free-writing poems about this guy and it’s heart wrenching to know I have not talked to him in a long time. He was incredibly intelligent and handsome and lovely all wrapped in one. He was amazing honestly. I realized that my heart could break when he stopped talking to me. Although he was my first love, I felt my stomach drop to the floor. Someone that meant so much was torn from my life. It was like mourning for the dead. I felt shattered. I realize that love can destroy someone, but I’m glad I can learn from him. I can learn so much about myself and about how easy it is for me to fall. Thank you, Joey, you just completely describe my thoughts sometimes. No matter how chaotic or rambling you think you sound, your confusion makes so much sense in a weird way.

[@reCATHY]

I hope this doesn’t take away from the topic but your yellow knit sweater warms my heart 😭

[@lesliedeleon7426]

I️ absolutely love how selfless you are. Instead of focusing of what the negative outcome was you focus on what is on the positive things💛

[@andreajensen4662]

I love how you mentioned that mental health should be #1. Even above school, because you are right. When I was dealing with depression, I went from straight As to failing almost every class because I just couldn't seem to get the energy, or see the point, to even make it out of bed. What my parents didn't realize was, it wasn't that my love for school had left, or my love for learning, but my love for life had. It took them a very long time to see my perspective and actually get some help, but now that I have, I'm back to loving school, loving work, ext. Sometimes people need to take a step back and look at what is most important.

[@madisonschneider9434]

joey always has great talks we love how real you are xx.💛

[@GameFiasco]

Hey Joey, im so happy i found out your channel ! I'm kinda in the shit part of life and i relate so much to you from style to way of thinking. My first love broke up with me and the reason is what u just said - lost yourself because of love. I literally was doing everything for her and did not look after myself at all. Now we have more problems which are personal but its harder because we are not together. I was sad for about a week, thank god my friends are supportive af. As u said u need to change things up in the relationship. I guess i was comfy in the way the relationship was going so we didn't progressed much but because i was comfy now im kinda lost because my habits with her are gone and I don't know what to do. To see her message every morning, hear her laugh, wish her a good night before she sleeps... Listen people, if you fall inlove please don't forget about yourself. The person next to you will want to see you grow and progress, not making sacrifises for her/him just to show your love. They know you love them and they will be happy if you do well. I know its hard and if you lose yourself we won't judge. Everyone does it. But in the it hurts and there is no way of stopping it, you just gotta get through it.

[@Vloke6]

I honestly just love the emotional connection between Joey and his fans, it's so precious and special and rare!! I think just being so open and kind to people, as we can see Joey is, just makes people want to hear what he's going through.

[@maggiek2773]

Joey you are honestly the most genuine and real guy ever, and you truly make my heart happy. I'm glad to be on this earth the same time you are. thank you for everything.

[@nishikajudge334]

I love how everything Joey does and says I'm weird is everything I do in my daily life and it is just so amazing to see that at least someone is confident enough to show the real them on the internet. It is hard my self confidence is very lowly but slowly seeing Joey and watching his videos is making mine better.

[@floordragt2168]

You have such deep thoughts, it really makes me realize how much I’m messing up my life by just living without really thinking about everything. My life is a routine at the moment and I really need to stop that and start really thinking about everything around me. I don’t know if this makes sense hahahah

[@roronoavinsmoke]

I just broke my own heart around an hour ago. I lost it when you said “don’t lose yourself in love”, because I feel like I’ve completely lost myself falling in love this past year. I placed my heart with that person completely and based my entire energy into them and got nothing in return. Thank you so much for this video

[@ManasaAechuri]

i feel like when many people approach a quote they don't understand the true meaning of it and forget about it, but the way you look at them and what you take from a saying or a quote is just so amazing and so inspirational

[@madihakonswa2602]

when im always having trouble with love or life in general, I always go back to your videos, your words and simply just you sitting and talking like its a normal person conversation not just a youtuber with a camera makes me feel relaxed. like im not the only person feeling this way, so thankyou for making me feel that im not alone, that its okay to feel this way once in a while and that im loved and that you always need to get back up. just the little things in your videos makes me smile, from the bottom of my heart, thank you Joey :)

[@maceyfranklin9712]

Thank you so so much for all the compassion in your talk Joey!! Your tips about actively loving yourself and giving energy in everyday to show some self-love is just amazing

[@kensieelese549]

I find his voice so relaxing, is that weird? He is so genuine and unique. Truly amazing

[@nishikajudge334]

honestly when I talk to other people about what is going on in my mind for a while it relives me soo much and I think that Joey is doing the same thing but to us and I'm honored

[@amandafinger5015]

I love his deep conversations and thoughts

[@archangelagabrielle]

I swear whenever I watch your video or Danielle's with the colour yellow, Im like "wow thats pretty" but after that its like a blinding brightness that attacks my eyes with its foreign positivity shining directly through my dark soul and I cant handle

[@KathleenKetchumxx]

I love that you represent what you preach. Stay you because you’re a beautiful human being Joey.

[@mariam_lr]

Okay, I cried when you said "don't be yourself, stay you " this video is amazing. I love you.

[@sexyneck3409]

I mean, love comes where you least expect it. You can never be prepared, can you? Thanks for the video, Joey. This stuff really does help me :3

[@Sajidahaddad]

So true. It is easy to lose urself in ur relationship. Keeping ur individuality is very important and difficult

[@sall_j]

I keep crying when I watch your videos because it makes me reflect so much on myself and how much I want to make myself and the others around me happy. I just need to find the balance between the two. xx

[@lauraarribas2019]

love u joey! haven't been in any relationship but "fell in love" a lot and the worst thing is that I notice when I lose myself sometimes and I just let it happen, it's a fight against myself. ty for this video

[@tanyade1342]

I have been facing dilemmas and this video is the best explanation for my curiosity and also my mental peace overall. I have watched all your videos and I cannot comprehend in words, how much your words have made a difference in my life and brighten my perspective about a situation. All I can say thank you and I will always live by the line 'Stay You'. 💛

[@gabriellenicastro4493]

Thank you Joey. Staying myself is something I’ve lost since the summer. I really your videos and listening to you talk about you and your life. Thank you

[@shotbyserenity]

u are a beautiful soul, joey kidney 💛

[@aspenschilz1857]

'I've placed my heart into a lot of things that don't reciprocate' the best thing I have heard in two weeks. Someone else in the world has realized that falling in love, not only with a love interest, but even with things like people who are constantly supporting you or those few people in the world that make you feel less alone. And as terrifying as it sounds, those heartbreaks hurt just as bad...

[@kaylenleverenz9632]

I love your energy in this video, its contagious. Like when people talk about something that they truely love, and you can see it fill them, that's how this video was. And I loved it. So thank you

[@florec7690]

I think Danielle is really lucky to have you ...

[@camillecarrington8144]

Flore C I thought he was gay...😳 sorry not sorry

[@florec7690]

Camille Carrington ahahahah well 🤷

[@isabellahickey9424]

Joey, I have never related more to a video. This has opened up my eyes in so many ways. It has helped me to realize some things in my life that I was so so confused about and lost over for months now. Thank you so much, your words are inspiring.

[@copycat9670]

This is the best..so personal..so calm..I feel like I get comforted by a friend. Thanks for this Joey. This really does mean a lot to me.❤️

[@happycows10]

Hi Joey, I watched this a few days ago and have felt inclined to comment on it ever since. I absolutely love this video. It was raw and real and you just said it how it is. I feel like it's a topic everyone can relate to on various levels, however most of us have a hard time putting it into words. I love your content, from the visuals to the commentary, to the music and the humor. Thank you for doing what you do, stay you.

[@beeeeeboooop]

Thank you so much. A reminder to stay true to oneself is never a bad thing! Very eloquently put, Joey. Thank you!

[@kaylabecerra2012]

Your videos are so incredible Joey. It feels like we are two friends having a heart to heart whenever I watch you! Love what you are putting out btw I'm glad you're happy with it too!

[@gelseypierre3267]

joey you talk just the right amount :) and yes you are making perfect sense because i've realized within myself that its time for me to find my way back to me. i've lost myself in loving so many other guys that at the end of it all i dont have any love for myself ( or not much). Falling in love is a scary thing and i think at the moment that i didnt want to love myself because im not used to it or because ive been avoiding it. But i do want to try. i want to wake up eventually and feel proud and loving of myself because i would finally make it back to me.

[@larsensister1234]

This video saved me. This is what I needed to hear right now. I couldn’t thank you enough for everything you have said. I love you so much and please know you saved my life.

[@sofiaghisleni5230]

I've been watching some of your videos, and honestly, YOU'RE AMAZING!!! The world needs more people like you.

[@meganmarissa597]

I love how genuine you are Joey! Your videos are so pure and laid back. I LOVE THEM! Thanks for uploading content that you truly love!! 💛💛

[@marriah256]

so sweet 💖 i feel this so much. i feel as if i lost myself as well and i didn’t know people also felt this way.

[@Hollina-]

This makes a lot of sense!! Thanks for opening up my eyes to more things about love! You truly are an inspiration joey.

[@emilyowen503]

Thank you for making this video. I love your sit down and talk videos. They make me realize more about myself and I’m thankful for that. Stay you, Joey 😊

[@just0Glee]

I could just listen to you talk all day, I swear

[@CosmicAxolotlQueen]

Thank you Joey I needed this. I lost myself i fell down way too hard i changed & i lost myself to where i was a person that wasn't me & because of that I lost the the guy that i love & care bout because i did some things i regret highly. & after that I don't want love anymore because i hurt the guy i love & ik i can never do that again. All my life I wanted love but now is scary & there's more too it than flowers, rainbows, happiness. So thank you again Joey. I agree falling in love is scary...

[@caitlindottyy]

I love this video Joey and your message is incredibly relatable! Falling in love is easy to do but we need to remember ourselves along the way.

[@saliha.km7]

This is favourite sit down and talk video 💛 ( I love that everyone is blending in with all the yellow ness)

[@meaganmac398]

this made me cry, Joey I appreciate you so much. Thank you for always staying true to yourself💛

[@coramusser1133]

I recently moved all the way across the country from my BEST friend. She is my life. We spent every day together. Watching this made me realize I need to take care of myself most importantly. I still think about her every morning and say hello to her every day. I miss you Aleena❤️❤️❤️

[@juliawhitten5041]

i just broke up with my boyfriend of three years yesterday and it was the hardest and most painful thing i've ever done. Everything you said in this video was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, Joey.

[@fayst9797]

" Don't be scared to fall in love " (from one of my favorite teacher )

[@augustinenthenge2854]

Once again you never fail to impress Joey thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, I love that you are unique and so down to earth about how you feel and thanks for sharing that with us

[@bethany_kristine_]

Thank you for making this video. I've been struggling with the issue that you mention in the vid for a long time now. This is exactly what I needed to hear

[@carolinecc2222]

Your heart is so so so pure and whole, I love it! xoxo

[@niharikasharma5894]

This one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen, this is why I love you, Joey❤

[@lovemecom3832]

We thought falling in love is the reason why we became broken but in reality love is a wonderful feeling, it only happen that we expect too much. I know how hard it is to have an unrequited love but loving someone means without expecting in return.

[@user-sr6ti8re5c]

this video is amazing because it hits so many points that are so true and a lot of what you said is what we dont realize always when we are in the relationship until after . like the whole "routine" that can happen. thank you for making this video!

[@hanenkj1558]

What you are saying is so important and so mature. We should have the courage to focus on ourselves and love ouselves first to be able to love better the others. Your fan from Tunisia 💛💛

[@Bribriii]

The fact that this video set me thinking is easy, i have been in love with a guy for two years now. Litteraly Only Me, he knows me, he knows i love him. He just doesnt love me. And he has been using me for a year, not like sexual. But for School Work.We sit in the same class together so he would come up to me and ask me for a Pencil of Food or even Homework, he is so happy about that, that he only comes up to me if he needs something. And thats where the ‘loosing yourself’ hits me the most. I recently felt depressed in a surton way. I realised that i have been used and i have been manupitlated by him. But then again, i love him, he gave me hugs (mostly cause i wanted one and my friend told him) and at the end of the day, him talking to me is the reason i smile that day. Recently he has been avoiding me, he talks to my friends, he stands next to me but he just doesnt talk to me. So i began to realise that every hug and every talk was fake. And now i don’t now what to do with it, i tried forgetting him like a million of times, nothing works. Some of my friends believe that i don’t know myself anymore because of him. I believe, that i do know it very clear, but that i just lost a part of me by loving him... Sorry if this is like really boring to you or you don’t undestand any of this, i’m from belgium so i try my very best, and i just wanted to tell my story. Cause i feel like i’ve lost a part of me by loving someone. And i can’t forget him and i miss him...

[@francescam8790]

I have actually been thinking about this subject a lot lately and everything you just said was soooooOOooooooOOOO true. Thanks Joe.

[@totallyorganicmama7153]

I love this video so much... especially regarding the routine of love leading to a falling out of love. I do believe you stay in love from those atypical moments that catch you completely out of nowhere. It’s the moments of pleasant surprises that keep your heart going for someone. It has nothing to do with money, anyone can swipe a credit card. It has to do with someone surprising you with the most amazing thoughtful actions you didn’t know existed. That is love ❤️ great video you have an amazing way with words especially pertaining to love. You are gonna do big things in life.

[@domy8627]

Matt is truly talented. And thanks Joey I'm almost certain my day will be good now.

[@thetimerunner203]

You are so unbelievably genuine. U honestly helped me clear my mind. I love this video. It shows when people are doing what they love and you are obviously doing what you love. I hope your life is filled with amazing moments that outshine the bad. Everything you say relates to me in many ways and I can’t Thankyou enough. I have big dreams and I’m scared to achieve them. I’m scared that what I do will be bad. I have no idea why I’m saying this but I did so no turning back now. Thankyou for the great videos I can escape to. C :))

[@elizaabrams9335]

Yes!! Such an important message and something we all need to work on! love love love

[@celinepledger4141]

I love when you get real Joey,, you're like a big brother just trying to look out for us. much love

[@amandamucha3369]

I've not watched your films for some time because I don't have time for that, but today I saw this movie and decided to watch it. It was exactly what I needed now, these words. thank you for reminding me how important it is to remain myself. xo

[@imogen9167]

Yellow is my fave colour and this video aesthetic makes me happy

[@hannahpug9235]

Over a year ago I thought I fell in love with someone, and he absolutely broke my heart, but over a year later I've moved on and I'm doing so much better and you're so right, falling in love does break you a little and luckily I've fallen in love with my best friend. Stay you Joey, I love you and your videos so much, they've really impacted me in the best possible way, thank you so much

[@patricia4165]

I love you too joey! My wish is that i hope we hopeless romantics never get tired of being ourselves.

[@rxbeccarose]

this was so helpful and insightful, i find it very difficult dealing with my interests in things because im always scared to get too involved as i dont want to get hurt by anything. I love your videos so much keep it up!

[@zoranapelemis7566]

You're so damn right. I love the way you're thinking.

[@imlikeokay]

Thank you... thank you for this video. Its like youre talking straight to me. I need to start living for MYSELF. Not put my whole life into one persons hands. I want to learn to love myself. I am tired of hating myself and everything about me. I WANT to go back to living. Not continue to let life happen around me. And watching your videos such as this one is another inspiration for me to keep on learning to love myself. To not give up. Thanks Joey :-))))))))

[@cambreestark4589]

i lost myself loving someone. they changed me, in a very bad way. i lost all my faith.even though i'm very young it still hurts. so Joey this helped me so thank youuu ily

[@juliaventura8186]

the point is i get it on my mind, on the theory, but it seems doesn't work because i'm always so sad and always thinking about the person i love. anyways, i'm rly grateful for your words, keep doing some of those pls big hug

[@katec4655]

Thank you Joey for making me feel better 💛 and I love your talks, it’s a chance to be real.

[@kaitlinconn9699]

I've only had one boyfriend and I totally know what you mean by losing yourself in that one person. Glad I'm not the only one who felt this

[@ashleykerr3163]

I really appreciate your videos Joey. Thank you for always being real.

[@tessjanelle7373]

I love you Joey. It’s amazing how you can be so deep and clear without a script

[@nishthajain2644]

I'm left with no words! Like all this is so true, I can just say a little but big THAAAAAANKYOUUUUUU, I hope it means something to you when you give us so much!☺❤

[@zuziasiwy2362]

You make me cry so often! But it’s good, it’s in a good way:) I love you Joey, you’re one of the most intelligent people I’ve ever seen

[@leonies2390]

You’re so inspiring 🙈 “stay you” is such a beautiful and meaningful phrase 🌸love it..

[@elizaleonard1291]

Any type of video you make I love whether it's your vlogs,your talks whatever it is,it makes me happy.

[@bellesandwhistles3866]

thank you joey this talk was so amazing. thank you for being such a light on youtube. you are changing the game. stay you joey!! xo

[@gracealpers7978]

Joey!! I love when you sit down and talk!! I love it so much

[@dagmarvelderman3154]

i really related to what you were saying and putting it in words i can 't find when i lose myself thankyou for everything♥️

[@charlotteashurst5331]

You’ve matured so much you’ve come so far ❤️

[@HanSan17]

This is a really awesome video, Joey! I loved the intro & what you talked about. Mental health is my number one priority too! My belief is that you need to take care of yourself in order to do the things you love & help people the best you can. Love from Iowa!

[@elinatammeleht1685]

I have never been in love, but I think mental health really are number one. I really have to sit down and think about it and maybe write down what I love, what I love myself. This is really good advice, I try this. Thank you, Joey! 💛

[@mirelacaloianu168]

Such a great lesson, good job Joey, you are an inspiration💛💛

[@rachelklotz6538]

in my last relationship i lost myself falling in love. it sucked. i let all of my boundaries go and i lost what i believed and what i thought was right. i’m glad you made a video like this it was helpful. ❤️

[@brennapaige5390]

this has really made me realize that i need to stop trying to please everyone and not doing anything for myself thank you for being my youtube therapist lol but i'm glad i found this channel, that's all:))

[@celicas17]

Brenna paige Same 😔

[@abbyspencer1743]

Joey is so amazing.. I love him. He makes amazing videos. Always talks about the best topics💘

[@weelassfrombritain6708]

Yellow is such a bright and happy colour ❤️

[@soraialucas7426]

You deserve the best, your mind is so pure and true ...

[@theblueflamingbutterfly]

You're a beautiful person Joey! I hope you take time out of your day to love yourself, because it's clear you love so many things in life. Take your own advice , I'm struggling with this now and you always bring the whole topic down to earth in a matter of minutes. Stay you , too :)

[@lizzieroberts6540]

Love these sit downs and the content you’ve been putting out❤️

[@chynagriffin8561]

I love Joey. Everything he says is true and he inspires me so so much