Family Dynamics Uncovered: Navigating Boundaries, Roles, and Traditions

[@thepinkbeanbag4112]

Topic suggestions: 1. Forgiveness: Is it easier to forgive others or easier to forgive yourself? 2. Sex: What was it? What has it become? Has it lost its value? 3. Submission in relationships: How does that look like? (it can address all types of relationships) 4. Can men ask for their money back if the marriage failed? (it may have an obvious answer but I had a chat with friends about this and the response was not what I expected so maybe there is something to be said about it) 5. What is your childhood trauma and how has it affected your adult life? 6. Vulnerability: What is it? How does it look like? How do we practice it? 7. Identity: Do you think you know who you are and what informed that? (can include nature vs nurture chats) 8. Relationships and money. Are men comfortable having their partner (female) making more money than them (and being the "bigger" provider)? 9. What are important "talking stage" questions? 10. Why has dating become so hard? 11. Are people inherently selfish? 12. Does unconditional love exist? 13. Friends over love (relationship) OR love over friends? 14. What does a healthy friendship look like? 15. Staying in abusive (friendly, romantic, personal, family, work) relationships 16. Is it important to you for your family to love and get along with your partner

[@DHOPEKGARE]

Wow 👌 👏

[@lolwethusodela1746]

A segment with your sister would be really cool, you guys should consider it. A nice conversation with all three of you ❤️

[@austin_XXV]

I love how Lebo knows how to articulate his thoughts, emotions and lessons.

[@pinkhappynesslady5331]

I love this podcast,I hope it never ends. It really lifts my mood every time I tune in

[@tumelobokaba6880]

Topic suggestions: >Watching your siblings get better parenting from your parents as a first born. >Inflation in South Africa >Death and how it is a contentious topic yet it is inevitable. Also painful to those left behind. > Mentally preparing for a break up with someone you thought you would do forever with >Building committed relationships and how daunting it can be to start a new relationship with a stranger.

[@NhlamuloHobyane-q1u]

Seemah speaks her mind. She says things that everyone is thinking about but don’t have the guts to say and we love her for that❤️

[@Penelope-Lee]

What happened to thought digest?

[@zainRaphael]

genuine question actually.

[@SimplyMondy]

Lol maybe we should move on guys 🤷🏽‍♀️I don’t know

[@preciousonpurpose2363]

Im so proud of you Thato, it shows that you are growing being concerned about such things as culture transfer. You've spoken a lot of growth talks today from bettering yourself as an individual to being content alone as a person without validation of the outside world, to culture transfer, that's commendable.🙌🙌

[@MaketaMeela]

Topic suggestion? I'd appreciate it if we could talk about the problem we suffer as broers of suffering from the fomo of getting an apartment, getting a car and all that as soon as you work. 😩

[@wakunyambomwalusi6484]

You guys look handsome , the barber man did his thing 😮‍💨

[@OnlyCC1018]

What about me?

[@nellykekana3829]

lebo😩🥺!!

[@pheladimokoena3006]

Thank you for the vulnerability. This is an insightful conversation!

[@nyashamachipisa2702]

Guys I have been loving these previous episodes there's been a depth to them and I'm here for it

[@SouthAfricanhotNews]

8:20 it’s okay to cry Thato😭

[@goitse3097]

My therapist put it like this "so you grow up in an all experience paid hotel" accommodation, food, clothes and education but there was no emotional support and a lack of nurturing. I go agree that it gets better for the siblings that come after. I really appreciate a conversation around the different generations and how they navigating different aspects of life eg the Silent Generation, Baby Boomers, Generation X, Millennials, Generation Z, Alpha Generation

[@rosemgoswana5980]

Your parents did a really great job in raising you guys. I sometimes picture myself in couch with you guys and just have an amazing conversation because in every episode I have something to add 😊

[@NifftyLee]

Same iyho,their content is always relatable 😢

[@Relo233]

A topic I suggest is CHOOSING TO FOLLOW DIFFERENT RELIGIONS AND SPIRITUALITY which differ from how we were raised by our parents. Is it a must or is it still wise to follow a family tradition in terms of religion and spiritual journeys even in our youth days? Like do you have to attend the same church you grew up in for example even though it's not fulfilling you spirituality? yeah that's my chat

[@mogauzan94]

Thought digest?

[@paballomanastro7269]

This segment of content creators is really cool, please continue with it❤

[@LivingwithHlokoi]

I honessstly feel like we share parents 😂😂😂😂😂 I relate every single time! Papa’s advice killed me because I literally got unsolicited advice 30 minutes ago from my dad😂😂😂😂

[@Aphex96.]

Yoh that explanation of your dad switching on the TV seeeeeaaaaled me 😂😂😂😂

[@lebomokhele766]

Lebo Rampedi is definitely on he’s way up…the lad is self aware

[@HareaiphaJack]

gotta show appreciation for the consistency.

[@glowingupwithkenako]

I love this podcast so much!!! I look forward to these conversations

[@morwepatoko7481]

Whenever I hear us talk about our parents (their shortcomings and and) I always wonder what our kids will say about us? 🤔 And also What our parents think our shortcomings are as their children. How we've hurt them, not only as our parents but as human beings.

[@goitse3097]

As per request Topic Suggestions Do black people think the same: -Thoughts on traditional food -7 colours / braai -Do black people act differently around people that aren’t black Etc…

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

Traditional food can be a touchy subject 😆 I second that conversation.

[@CloverTV888]

I love the social media segment, let's definitely keep that going. Episode ate! So relatable especially is a first born. Also Lebo out here looking a little thick😙...

[@tlotlontshidi9154]

new episode of thought digest??

[@liisaimmanuel]

Everything here was so relatable. I love the new segment, keep it

[@girly_kaise]

I am here for the consistency 😊love this!!!

[@reshoketswemogwaneng7354]

PODCAST IDEA: Does your mom watch this Podacast? because you can then invite her or your dad once awhile to discuss some of these topics because this can also help you get closer to them. you can get 4 episodes out of that Lebo with mom - Lebo with dad and Thato with mom - Thato with dad for fun you can get 6 - with the sister

[@nnonhle]

I love y'all's relationship & the podcast 10/10 keep up the good work guys. ❤️😢

[@charllottembhele1492]

Love the new segment ❤

[@NeloMali]

Lebo is so funny 😭😭 "There's no Tashas in this area?"

[@miss_twalo]

Being an only child is a full time job, having to entertain yourself on a daily is crazy 😂😭

[@MentalFacility-u7o]

Where the cousins be at?

[@miss_twalo]

@@MentalFacility-u7o they’re not around everyday, see them once in a while

[@thepinkbeanbag4112]

There are two different ways of looking at the Seemah point. The first way is what Thato said. The flip side is that people will always see Seemah as authentic and real because she speaks her mind. I personally am more likely to be influenced by a Seemah instead of your "perfect influencers" because I know Seemah is authentic and real so I know whatever she is "selling me" is something that she probably also rates/believes instead of it just being for the bag. But, at the end of the day, whatever it is also has to align with her brand.

[@rose-xb1gr]

Where is though digest!

[@Geegee-r1n]

Your arents aint perfect and they did a great job with you guys❤❤

[@maphalemahlatse7797]

I LOVE THIS SPACE PLEASE

[@tshxpang._]

Love the consistency 🥹🩷

[@thebemphahlele4773]

I like the new segment

[@sashap-qz2cu]

Lebo is effortlessly funny🤣.

[@gamegaseleme1186]

Thought digest

[@motlatsi219]

I wish I had a brother to unpack things with. I’m just out here alone.

[@kobebennette]

Duuuuude like fr

[@tiffanybrooks3244]

Much appreciative Gents ❤️

[@ellahchipumho6542]

thato is looking good with them glasses

[@SimplyMondy]

Whatever happened to thought digest?

[@NifftyLee]

Yes we would like an inside of the industry as upcoming Content Creators we would learn alot

[@BusisiweHlatshwayo-sj5cz]

We need to cut our parents some slack they also doing life for the first time I honestly think they try and they bound to make mistakes it's their first time raising kids and doing this life thing

[@AndyKanv]

43:13 please continue 🫶

[@reabetswemoleko8413]

Yoh, I relate to your sister. Such a play now, work later. I need a break.

[@lebonatasham8019]

I want to be Spur in my next life 😌

[@p.h.i.w.e__]

An episode on thought digest?

[@mpumelelozakwe0]

43:23 continue

[@liisaimmanuel]

Is southern comfort available in Namibia?

[@Justagirl497]

Okay we hear you guys and we love you❤ But where is thought digest?😢

[@TraceTheFace62]

Exactly 😭

[@nellykekana3829]

lebo is so hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭🤣

[@kamogelomasike7300]

Lebo is speaking facts about being the middle child😂😂

[@deliachigwende6229]

I don't think the new part about talking about what's happening on social media is great. I believe we came to your podcast because we want to hear something different than what majority content creators are doing out there, but that is just my perspective. It would be wonderful to add "ask Thato and Lebo a question" where you can give us advise or respond to/comment on some of the prior enquiries' tiktok or KZbin comments.

[@nondumisomazibuko2867]

On this episode Thato was a big brother. 😂😂😂

[@Lebogang_Bogosi22]

Personal suggested topics >Facts and myths about Virginity. >Dating a virgin or Is waiting for marriage a good thing ? ❤

[@reabetswemoleko8413]

I had a revelation that I don't remember the bad days. The days where I felt like the world was going to end don't even matter today. So, if that's the case, today's bad day doesn't make it a bad life.

[@kattsomething]

This new segment of talking about the industry same wy MacG, Sol, Seemah, Zille and the rest do... I don't know if you guys will be able to keep it up because yall always play safe. Is it easier to talk about Ghost Hlubi and Seemah because of how others also perceive them? I think you guys are brand-cautious (rightfully so), but is controversy the new direction yall wanna take?

[@Seeynoh]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@refiloetshabalala4800]

30:28 😭😭Lebo is soo funny yoh

[@nolusaphonyaku3945]

I dont see this on spotify

[@WetsoMogorosi]

Thato and Lebo asking us to go to our families that time i come from a single mother household and my brother left long ago, doesn't come home at all and technically i am the only child😂😂so its just me and my mom.

[@ofentsesebaka3485]

Where did your brother go to? And why is he not coming home?

[@zox.music.006]

is it flu or weed ? thato?

[@Botse.m]

THOUGHT DIGEST?

[@liisaimmanuel]

Seemah didn't say bad things about you Thato she just said you have alot of female friends, which is kinda true because that's what we see and mind you I'm all the way in Namibia. But since you explained that it's a female community not just friends, we're are cool we get you. But sorry you feel that way bru.

[@tebogomashilo6]

rutang bana ditaola🙏🏾 "even us ,our sepedi is shaking", that can be corrected. speak more sepedi and less english , bala dibuka tsa sepedi. from one mopedi to another , youll be fine❤ theres telenovelas tsa sepedi that you can watch.

[@NeliswaZitha]

😍

[@sandilechiliza5919]

Rampayday

[@Phemelo_mansa]

SOMETIME CAN WE TALK ABOUT EGO AND HOW MEN LIVE OUT TO THEIR EGO AND THEIR MASK THAN WHO THEY REALLY ARE

[@austin_XXV]

Is Spotify videos exclusive, maybe only for apple users? I'm from Zambia, and never seen any Spotify videos

[@KelebogileMpho-ov6xn]

1 hour Lebo with oxtail 😢😅I don't wish to try it

[@miss_twalo]

I’m a new KZbinr, it’s not easy 😂😭 I could use some advice

[@lesedilethale]

I just want to know Lebo’s oxtail recipe, that takes 1 hour to cook 🤔😭

[@laronathembelihle8163]

I'm sure the one of the ingredients is magic😂😂😂

[@ML_Kylie]

Lmao Thato is mad because Seemah said he has a lot of female friends? She did not lie, why are you taking it personal?

[@CrownYourself20]

😂😂😂

[@mzansiafrica7254]

Nna i miss your vlogs le Kamo❤

[@gracemaranke6684]

They not together anymore

[@nyashamachipisa2702]

I dont like the new segment😪

[@karabophillipine4454]

Consistency 🫶🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@nyashamachipisa2702]

For the game all the only children raised in a single parent household we can camp here🥲

[@Ugandapixels]

Y'all always trash your Parents, "thought digest" as well. You must think of giving them a chance to respond. Say this to their face and let them tell you how they feel about you and their challenges having you as a child. @paul_wagana

[@prettymngomamngoma6461]

I don't think it trashing. It JC speaking the truth and sharing. Which helps others. Face their own difficult Nd learn to rise above them. Y do I feel like u want to silence them? Worse thing ever

[@SibsM93]

Bathong wena

[@WetsoMogorosi]

yooh hebathong?😂😂

[@nyashamachipisa2702]

Guys I have been loving these previous episodes there's been a depth to them and I'm here for it

[@E.N.D02]

Thought digest?