Famous OnlyFans Model Who Became a Killer - Case of Courtney Clenney

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[@chojay13]

As a woman, it is so infuriating that "Women Support Women" seems to have been twisted into "Women Enabling Women" for some and it is disgusting

[@itz_animosity]

This comment resonated with me so much because I’ve been talking about this for so long on IG and Threads this is no longer “Women Support Women” it’s women enabling shitty behavior from other women and it’s turning into toxic feminism

[@velvetchiharu]

I can’t with them, I feel like those are narcissistic women who want to twist feminism into “me and me first because I said so”

[@Blakenew127]

No feminist is defending free pass for women to commit crimes. In fact, speaking to promote violence is a crime in itself and it is not covered by freedom of speech. Female killers exist all throughout history (in numbers way below men) and just like anyone that is caught they will try to talk their way out of it by using the best arguments available. Trying to twist the narrative to make herself/himself the victim to justify the crime is a strategy as old as time and definitely not feminism invention. Example, from single individuals to a whole political power system, Christianity has been used to justify their killings but that doesn’t mean this is what Christian faith is about. Feminism aims to stop specific gender violence towards women and not to give the group the right to kill. This perception is just a reflection of the systematic discrimination the feminists movements have been receiving online and in churches. And one of the ways to do it is by associating feminism with acts of violence that are unrelated to it and by discrediting the victories it conquered for women. This woman didn’t kill her partner because feminism built a society where the women is entitled to the men’s body and life. She killed him because she is a violent person and feminism didn’t pass a single law that obstructs the justice system from doing his murder justice and condemning her from her crimes.

[@emeraldrayv3n]

#facts

[@connorstephens7467]

Are you denying that doesn’t happen?

[@Sam-qr9ii]

Crazy how just by christian "charging" at her, the staff calls the police. But when she was slapping and yelling at him in public, nobody cared enough to call the police

[@SuperRedman76]

It's because he's a guy, and most times they call on her behalf if he's the one being the aggressor. It's a double standard for men tbh, and sometimes women too. but for him to just end up dead out of nowhere, and her being the only one, all fingers of question point to her.

[@sleeparalysisdemon1164]

Because they're all racist 💀

[@marvinogega2384]

​@@SuperRedman76not only a guy but a black guy that made them call the police

[@proverbs31university]

Women get away with a lot

[@thatasiangirl0_039]

​@@proverbs31university Right like you don't. One woman abuser doesn't suddenly cancel out all of the cases where men were the aggressor, talked about on this channel.

[@ldgdo4158]

Her parents were arrested without bond yesterday for being in possession of Christian Obumseli’s laptop. Courtney’s family even received tips of what the password could be from Courtney’s attorneys. I hope Courtney get a lengthy prison sentence.

[@velvetchiharu]

So a family of enablers then? Her behavior is like that of an overgrown spoiled child who can’t handle the “real world” aka that not everyone will agree with you and that not everything goes your way. Other people have breakups and don’t go screaming in the street having a breakdown, let alone attacking their partner on a regular basis, as that bystander said “that’s not normal.”

[@oldmanyoung7892]

Yea, he seemed very simpish. Who would whine she wasn't waking up happy after getting stabbed in the leg scenario? Was he attracted to the lifestyle or the ass? I mean honestly, he was bumming off her so he endured her insanity. He fell head over heels n simping to his fam right away. Guys stop putting pussy on a pedestal. Happens too often. Get to know the person passed the exterior

[@xBreannaBananas]

I was looking for this comment. They bonded out and their lawyer is saying these new charges are "troubling". That entire family doesn't know what accountability means.

[@ldgdo4158]

@@xBreannaBananas shush!! I want to know all. I sure hope one of the KZbinrs spills all the tea soon.

[@crisr303]

I hope she gets life in prison

[@sarahledford370]

Just started the video, and decided to look Courtney up on Google to see if there were any advancements in the case since this video…only to see her parents were arrested for evidence tampering TWO DAYS AGO. Wild.

[@moodysthenics4789]

Bruh. Even her parents are bad...

[@shaunicegainesdiy]

Yet, she’s the victim here 🙄🙄 yeah right! This is injustice smh

[@mariaromo2014]

There another video were he want to walk away from her & he is saying am leaving to calm down & she said no no I need to talk to you . When your partner want’s space to bring the heat down & they don’t let them

[@Little-miss]

You should seen the body cam footage of them being arrested, they think its outrageous and get treated with kid gloved it's sureal

[@madshader]

The fact that even her friends siad that SHE was the aggressor. And even an ex BF of her saying she would swing knives at him, kinda says it all.

[@fairy7101]

Exactly what I was thinking !

[@JadeBlakeVideos]

Nah exs always say shiz

[@fckyuh1234]

People online were saying that he deserved it cause as a black man he shouldn’t date white women and because he dated her instead of a black woman that’s what he got

[@icingcake]

The videos, cctv, audio recordings and his previous stabbings - yikes - that’s what you really need

[@mariahconklin4150]

Who the hell does that swings knives? 😂 Wow glad she’s locked up maybe should should have stopped slut around and going to bars and instead worked on her mental health. Pathetic

[@DJAnubisMetalTavernRadio]

The fact that she called her mom before calling the police after stabbing Christian in order to come up with a cover story tells me everything i need to know about who the guilty party is.

[@baybeetacoo8734]

The whole family needs to go to jail

[@davidschmidt2081]

While this chick is definitely guilty, I think most any time someone says something like: "[blank] is all I need to hear, they're guilty" shows a pretty big lack of understanding of people. Innocent people can do all sorts of shit that make them look insanely guilty, and guilty people can appear innocent, it's just reckless to assume guilt or innocence because of an action like calling her mom, or body language, or most any other singular reason.

[@DJAnubisMetalTavernRadio]

@@davidschmidt2081 - Yet you think she is guilty. Lol

[@SmilerORocker]

Wouldn't want any of you on a jury if I had to go to court 😅😂

[@DJAnubisMetalTavernRadio]

@@SmilerORocker - Dont kill anyone than you would be good. Lol

[@RoseEyed]

I appreciate you bringing up what Christian said about Black Women. As a Black woman, reading them was very discouraging (a preference is fine but bashing others in the process isn't). But how people think some mean tweets is equivalent to deserving to be in an abusive relationship where you're repeatedly emotionally manipulated, attacked, stabbed, and KILLED is beyond me. Seek therapy.

[@kimmiko84]

It ain't right.... but it's a mfer ain't it. That's some fucked up ass karma for self hate. Type of shit you don't even wanna look at bc its so ugly.

[@sjames5777]

Personally I think this came into play when his family was asking the black community to “help”. No one wants to help parents who raised a young man to be that nasty towards women in his own community. Get the community he loved so dearly to help.

[@liberatumplox625]

Maybe the idea that he belongs to a community, that is solely defined by race, is part of the same problem.

[@Earthssilhouettes]

Listening to her speak, I couldn't help but scroll through the comments to see if she would address this very point. And she did! While it's true that nothing justifies his brutal death, maybe if he had approached things with a different mindset, he might still be alive today. It's a tough pill to swallow, but personal responsibility and mindset do play a role in shaping our outcomes. I hope he's at peace now. 🙏🏾

[@theendofanerror4173]

​@@sjames5777 EXACTLY however, I don't think his parents raised him to be like that. Culture probably had a hand or two with his mode of thinking. Regardless, the problem is he wasn't the only one. So many black women bust their ass trying to get Stephan Clark his justice only to find out later he post many comments along the line of, and I quote "dark bitches bring dark nights" who the hell continues to fight for someone who thinks of them like that? Not me that's for damn sure!

[@manorama12]

Her whole behaviour before and after the murder seems like, she was raised by her parents to be super entitled. The fact that she was a repeat offender with various unlawful activities suggest that her parents never reprimanded her for her actions. She became like this because she was very sure, that she will can never face any consequences of her actions. An example of extremely bad parenting. I hope she given a life sentence for her crime without any possibility of parole. She is danger to the society.

[@carcher3279]

Agreed.

[@HeathenHeather]

His ‘love letters’ are definitely traumatic as hell. This man was gaslit and abused all the way up until he was stabbed.

[@mikellemyers]

srsly?? theres proof that she was the aggressor.

[@kimisab2227]

@@mikellemyers they didnt say she wasnt ?

[@blep2491]

⁠@@mikellemyersHow did you get that they said she wasn’t???

[@emilia6014]

​@@kimisab2227 I think they misunderstood the comment

[@haziqq981]

Except the violent acts my mother has very similar situation with her new boyfriend. He can make himself look very friendly for everyone around him but when he is home he is literally mentally abusing her to the point where she also started drinking alcohol to "escape". So I could see her being the ultimate victim even after seeing this video.

[@plushwishes]

Never ever any excuse for you to call your partner of another race a slur! It's a violation and shows you don't love them, she also had a fetish for blk men vs loving them as an individual

[@Heyitschy03]

He literally was disrespecting black women. Who cares, he praised white women & got murdered by one.

[@Nikki_Catnip]

Right?! It’s so disgusting. My boyfriend is a different race. And the idea of ANYBODY using a slur against him enrages me. This young man deserved so much better.

[@plushwishes]

Right it was so sad

[@parkyunhee2461]

Without mutual respect, the relationship is basically dead

[@noturjiminjams._.9005]

same for any slurs. it’s shows their inner feelings abt wat they truly think u r to them

[@Flamingobat]

I must have watched 50 of your videos this past month and i should say you're one of the best story tellers around.

[@SeanWilsonMusic]

Literally me fam. Clicked a video on a whim (don't even know why it was recommended to me. I don't follow anything even related to true crime here) but was hooked instantly. I love her delivery and cadence.

[@julietmoore9778]

Courtney having bruises after Christian had been kicked out and then seeming to the cops like she was intoxicated: bruising can be caused by drinking (especially excessive/prolonged drinking) It's also fishy to me that she yells at Christian like he never takes responsibility and is the problem. He apologizes to her and specifically explains which behaviors of his were wrong "I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said that. It's not okay." I've not heard her apologize to him once in the clips. She's literally throwing tantrums

[@julietmoore9778]

and her insistence that Christian not speak to other women, and constantly having his location to the point of being furious when it's off, she's absolutely sus

[@quinnie_here]

She claims that she threw the knife from 10 feet away..? Is she a ninja? This woman is just something else. I hope Christian’s family is doing well after all of this.

[@nikkis7375]

Even professional knife throwers said it’s physically impossible for her to do that and where it was hit and how deep it was.

[@heresourplan7521]

nahs man, next thing she’ll say is christian slipped and fell on a knife

[@chelskaf]

LOL a ninja

[@glfxfa5452]

Her mother gifting her knives for christmas was a bad omen. Weird.

[@carcher3279]

@@glfxfa5452 it's a lot more to do with the build up to m*rder than most people understand... And she was on the phone to her mother in TX the entire time also. This brings a whole new level to the term "facilitator" and "enabler".

[@watchoutforthebiggirl1565]

As a woman that was in a reactive abusive relationship, this is NOT that. She was the aggressor, most definitely.

[@jillscheer3677]

Same and I was thinking the same thing!

[@Xaixiu]

Men are always the aggressive ones tho so🤷🏻‍♀️

[@basildasil]

​@@Xaixiuwhat a disgusting close-minded way to think about the world

[@Xaixiu]

@@basildasil it's true tho. All men are violent and disgusting monsters. They will take advantage of you I given the chance. The date proved it. All men are evil.

[@joyshreve1621]

​@@Xaixiuno. Fuck off with that. Feminism = equal

[@veronicabutler1230]

It's February 2024 and the trial still hasn't happened, but her parents were just arrested for taking her boyfriend's computer and having evidence.

[@theendofanerror4173]

Thank you for this post. December 2023 something was supposed to happen trial wise but I was never able to find anything. I chalked it up to they rescheduled or she stepped up to end all of this and said she was guilty. Now reading your comment I find I'm stupid to actually think it was the latter.

[@scarlet16moons5]

​@@theendofanerror4173don't be so hard on yourself. You're ok. It'll just take a bit longer before the trial can start now because they need time to look through the computer's data.

[@1rjs]

that audio recording brings so much anxiety it hurts my chest. That's exactly how my mom acted & screamed during my teenage years, down to the way she responded throughout & even the part where she threatened to un*live herself. all bcs I disagreed to her opinion during a supposedly friendly discussion on how to solve a trivial problem.

[@tablescissors67]

It’s a full blown, untreated personality disorder (on the Cluster B spectrum) throwing an adult tantrum.

[@scarlet16moons5]

I hope you're okay now... I'm so sorry for what you went through. I'm so glad you're here with us today and I hope you no longer have to deal with your mother's abuse anymore

[@angelacrouch4129]

Your mom?! Shit

[@bloodymetalangel287]

Honestly how dare anyone try to justify Courtney’s abusive behavior and her racism?! That is disgusting beyond belief. In interracial relationships, there is absolutely NO excuse to use racial slurs on your partner EVER!!!

[@carcher3279]

She was slumming, and she didn't really want or love him it was just some gutter s*x jungle fetish nonsense... His lack of respect for himself made ever escalating levels of disrespect from her inevitable. 😑🤦🏿‍♂️

[@anaphillips2788]

totally agreed

[@DumbBunnychic]

I don't think it's ok to call anyone a slur ever. period.

[@bloodymetalangel287]

@@DumbBunnychic I agree. I apologize for not clarifying that.

[@jocey5591]

yeah that felt so fucking disgusting on her part. I cannot see how anyone can think she’s innocent in any kind of way.

[@dopeyunicorn]

its actually insane how many women get away with abusing their partners literally because of the social stigma of men being the ones abused :

[@ChefNourhan]

Unfortunately they do because men are more likely to be so which hinders many to see that it’s not one sided.

[@eveelee4152]

Right like it obvious that she is the aggressor but you know how the system go

[@symone6871]

dont forget the race issue too

[@taylahgill2087]

​@@symone6871 THIS TOO!

[@janeemflores]

Yup. Look at what Amber Heard did. If it weren't for the proof and the recordings --- people wouldn't even find out that Johnny Depp didn't abuse her. It was the other way around.

[@bloodandempire]

It's hard to understand why people stay in toxic relationships until you're in one. The man who abused me was the most loving person. I didnt see that he was slowly taking control of every aspect of my life. At the end i was so isolated that i had no one to call when he split open my skull. I passed out and woke up covered in blood. He carried me to the bath and washed it all off. I was so confused and concussed. Its horrifying how quick things can escalate after they take away your support 😭😭😭😭

[@tash17kids]

I used to say the bruises go away....(scars not so much). The isolation is just as painful and abuse and the embarrassment and shame you feel keeps you from reaching out as well. I'm glad we both finally got away from that existence. Xx

[@leaha8602]

She's guilty AF. I hope she is charged accordingly. So Courtney claims he pinned her up against the wall and began choking her.... but every time we hear a recording or see a recording he is trying to defend himself without hurting her??????

[@7heTexanRebel]

He probably headlocked her like the elevator video. 100% not a choke/strangle

[@kixkicks139]

It’s so sad bc he could’ve been saved ! She obviously didn’t want that to happen. Men can be abused too and it is not forgivable .

[@Heyitschy03]

He literally was disrespecting black women. Who cares, he praised white women & got murdered by one.

[@blackviper6030]

8

[@oqp489]

no one said men couldnt be abused, only men say that

[@renaria3160]

​@@oqp489 no it's crazy actually...ppl rlly believe it.

[@renaria3160]

Not only that, but the medics and the fucking police. I don't experience racism all that much in my country, or atleast i don't see it as much, so in my head it's like it doesn't exist. But god, the thinfs that black men has to go through wtf.

[@Lxeaxn]

“Is love going to kill me?” broke my heart especially since it did in a way

[@mrblanedyt9931]

Exactly. It’s like he knew his faith

[@Lxeaxn]

@@mrblanedyt9931 reall glad u agree

[@GothicSoul]

It's like he knew she was gonna kill him. 😔 So sad.

[@lastsanitystreak8443]

No part of this has love in it.

[@temptressgothicca]

this is NOT love, she’s horrible and he did not deserve this. 😕

[@synesthesia.aesthetic]

I really feel racism contributed to Christian's death. Like not just the nature of racism itself but the way she comes down on him in the videos of the abuse is like a plantation owner, like he is her property, he exists to worship her and how dare he even breath in the direction of another woman. Once again, Rotten Mango, you tackle the tough, complex, heartbreaking stories with eloquence, empathy and deep insight. Thank you for all of your hard work.

[@bbyrooo]

I agree. She should be charged with hate crime and domestic terrorism.

[@reethe_potato]

Coming from a black woman, it’s narcissism first. Yes racism or race fetishisation plays out but those are symptoms/ traits of her narcissism.

[@reethe_potato]

Coming from a black woman, it’s narcissism first. Yes racism or race fetishisation plays out but those are symptoms/ traits of her narcissism.

[@reethe_potato]

Coming from a black woman, it’s narcissism first. Yes racism or race fetishisation plays out but those are symptoms/ traits of her narcissism.

[@Green_Goddess]

Imagine being 'jealous' when he said hi to someone but being on onlyfans for the world to see ya 🤮

[@emeraldrayv3n]

Right her parents completely failed to teach her that " modest is hottest"!!

[@mdm1829]

THIS

[@taylordidomenico182]

@@emeraldrayv3nokay she is a horrible person but get out of here with your purity culture christian bullshit u weirdo

[@elephorofonius]

even without the onlyfans thing, being jealous about saying hi to someone is crazy 😭

[@Green_Goddess]

@@elephorofonius exactly!

[@kitt.thomas]

As a black wxman, I really appreciate how you spoke about and talked about the racism points with such importance and depth!! Thank you, stay safe everyone!

[@poeticjustice7371]

It almost brought a tear to my eye, she really didn't have to have that much consideration that it's so much deeper than any outsider could try to understand looking in, especially being a product of mixed love, I have such a hard time with that topic as well.

[@Ghost-un6oe]

Fun fact Christian didn't like black women, he spoke openly about it so your black woman sympathy for him is pointless.

[@oliviajoelle]

that's why i always return to her videos. so much truth, honesty, and emotion

[@essencesims4773]

@@poeticjustice7371 same here 😢

[@elegantgarbage5940]

Didnt he dislike black women?

[@Nanalooloo]

the entire time i felt like she was calling him the n slur, then you comfirmed it. shes a fetishizer and our community lets these girls get away with saying slightly off stuff and get confused when they look down on us. “i only date rich black men” is not something someone who’s normal and level headed would say.i wouldnt be suprised if she hurt him because she barely sees him as human. idc.n then the nerve to pull the “ i dont feel safe :(“ card in public, girl bye.

[@baybeetacoo8734]

In one of those recordings she said "those dogs are more important than you". She didn't see him as even a loveable pet , he was beneath a mere dog, sheesh

[@you_R_kenough]

and the fact that she would spit on him all the time, and im sure she knew that people were more likely to believe a white woman than a black man I cases of abuse

[@cortneyfisher2630]

Preach. I told my boyfriend when we first started dating im not a fetish so don't dare treat me like one cause I've seen some people in your community do it. He acknowledged my concerns cause he too had seen it. This girl was allowed to abuse this man so freely its wild. Rip

[@sina7256]

Yep I had the feeling to :/

[@jackliit8251]

i gasped so loud when i head that part! the first clip were she clearly fetishizes black men already gave me the ick but omg the audacity of this “woman”…. so disgusting. christian really didn’t deserve any of that. i pray he gets justice. 🕊️🖤

[@venusfletcher4537]

I love how you paint a picture of the criminals you cover. It helps me separate the person they are vs the things they have done. Sometimes it helps me get a better understanding of why they did what they did.

[@marsnavarrocasas9354]

these videos help me clean my room…

[@erinarchey5329]

Same

[@pixistixrs]

As a White Woman, seeing people online defending her after everything she had said to him is absolutely disgusting. Even if they are both abusers, that never gave her the right to stab him and cause him death, the fact it took her 10 minutes to call for help is really clear that she didn't want anyone to know what she had done. And also the fact that it took them so long to arrest her, really shows that men being abused aren't taken more seriously than women. People defending her and bashing on Christian about "shoving her" is really concerning for the future, what if there are more victims of abuse and when the victim pushes the abuser back it gets turned on them because they PUSHED them, I honestly find it really disgusting how other white people are on her side and calling him aggressive from a push, shows the racism tbh. No one ever called her aggressive from the LITERAL Camera footage of HER abusing HIM, even though she was literally abusing him, they still are pointing out that he was smiling and that egged her on, I cannot believe this reaction tbh, to it's truly just disgusting and sad for the men that have to go through with any kind of abuse from their partner and not being taken seriously by anyone.

[@C-SD]

Unfortunately this is something that happens already, both ways. Women have injured themselves and blamed it on their partner, or women that killed their abusive husbands in self defense going to prison for life for murder. Its horrible.

[@btb554]

​@@C-SD Yeah, people on social media can sometimes be really insensitive. And it goes both ways too. People have a tendency to blame the victim no matter the gender. There was a viral video of Chinese men beating up four women who were friends. Like really beating up. Stephanie had done a video on that. And there were a lot of comments blaming the friends who were the victims.

[@btb554]

@@avamasquerade there are people who do ask that online

[@tThisNThat]

You can't both be abusers, it's just not how it works, it's one or the other person. IMO The person being abused can fight back and it looks like they are abusing, but they are not, they are fighting for their safety and sanity. How anyone can defend this pos woman is beyond me.

[@limboland4103]

No one cares what colour skin you have. Im so sick of that being the start of comments. NO ONE CARES

[@dameneko]

She sounds like a raging cokehead. I don't think he was as interested in partying that same way, as evidenced by his letters. Coke is a terrible ego drug. I worked in nightlife for many years and have witnessed some truly unhinged rage and brain rot and soul rot coming from regular cocaine users. If you have any propensity to be aggressive with others, it can amplify it 1000%. I feel so bad for Christian's family. He didn't deserve that.

[@JennJadeTran]

Thats what i was thinking, at one point.. I was like yup she on drugs. I lived with roommates who did coke and the rage was random but def happened.

[@firebomber221]

A raging coked out racist

[@raspbvrry]

u can even just hear it in her voice too!

[@kawaguchie]

She was probably on steroids too. Seems like roid rage

[@yoshlol8101]

I've seen cokehead rage too and its literally terrifying. It feels like they're going to kill everyone in the room.

[@gravy069]

No matter what mistake a partner might’ve done or what they might’ve fucked up, there is absolutely no reason to treat them like this. You can calmly express your emotions towards what they did

[@kirstenschell8702]

Dude when she started saying that he made the mistake of not agreeing with her when she was having an argument with somebody else I had flashbacks and then the following argument that happened literally it's like I was back in my 8-year long travesty of a relationship

[@rivkathegreat]

She's so incredibly abusive, it's even scarier to realise this happens alot behind closed doors to women and men not daring to speak up in fear of what she did. Just Google her name.. the picture of her in handcuffs.. looking all bloody. She definitely has mental health issues beyond reason. People should've stepped in.

[@octogonSmuggler]

The majority of men who are abused by a partner do not speak up. Why would you call 911 to tell them your wife or lover is beating you or sexually harrassing you when you'll just get laughed at? Men being raped or sexually assualted or harrassed in general is never taken seriously unless it's being done to them by another man. If a woman is the perpetrator, then there's not going to be much done. It's extreamly sad.

[@rivkathegreat]

@@octogonSmuggler exactly. Which is why people outside of the relationship should've stepped up or helped him. He didn't deserve this and I know how hard it is to get out.

[@RicochetForce]

@@octogonSmuggler Laughed at? In most states the police HAVE to arrest someone at the site of a DV call, and they'll take away the man regardless of evidence present. It's example of a well-intentioned thing going very, very wrong.

[@layladavis02]

I feel like what makes me sick to my stomach is the fact. Her abusive long him would’ve never went this public if he wasn’t dead. He had all those recording and evidence. But I know he was still too afraid to speak up. Throughout this whole video that’s all I could think of. How he probably in those few moments of bleeding. He probably wish he would’ve spoken out sooner. And for that I just hope anyone that’s in an abusive relationship. Mental or physical. Just look at this story and understand that time doesn’t change a person. Just makes them worse. It’s best to find a way out of the relationship now then wait later on. Reach out for help.

[@RicochetForce]

@@layladavis02 Yup, always remember that it's never worth being with someone that does not respect you. Period. It doesn't matter how much they say they love you.

[@sparrowwilson4514]

Omg. This woman is literally horrible. She was abusing him and brainwashed him into thinking he was the cause of his own abuse. She’s a monster. That poor man. I want to cry I feel so sad for him.

[@Danovio]

Thats what my Ex did to me " you just piss me off so much that i balckout and hit you, you know how bad it makes me feel?" she could say after she beat the fuck out of me for not cleaning well enough

[@wisewillow5731]

​@@Danovioso sorry you went through that 😢

[@gravy069]

@@DanovioI’ve gone through the same, I just remember asking myself why I could never do anything right

[@Danovio]

@@gravy069 aye... and what was worse is that i cleaned, cooked, preped the kids for kinder/school and went and left them there, i went to the store to get all grociers, i picked up the kids, cooked food, prepped them for bed, and then went to work night shifts, did this for atleast a year and she still said i did not help anything at home....

[@gravy069]

@@Danovio that’s awful I’m so sorry bro

[@sidytav3120]

She was the one gaslighting and abusing him. She has anger issues. My heart breaks for his family.

[@kristinehudgens2300]

It is weird knowing that someone was born in your hometown and turned into someone like this and never hearing about it until now. She was not the victim Christian was.

[@mysoookhee]

my heart dropped when you explained the way christian’s mother found out about his death. losing a son is hard enough, but imagine if one moment you think your son is alive and well and the next moment you get a call about DONATING his dead body. i would be devastated!

[@averysspookshowspectacular6205]

Can you imagine being the person that called her? It would be so awkward but also must have felt so heartbroken and guilty for it. I'd have started crying on the phone.

[@GenericUsername1388]

This is just such a bad situation. I hope the family has made peace with it and I hope Courtney never leaves prison. Rip Christian. You seemed like a genuinely sweet guy.

[@bs4e]

How can anyone think he was abusive? Every instance is him just pouring his heart out and apologizing for accidentally making a mistake. Everything sets her off and he sounds like he's always walking on eggshells. And she calls him racial slurs.

[@carcher3279]

Yep, and he STILL doesn't leave! I strongly get the sense that it seems he had a strange emotional and physical dependence upon her. A weird codependency.

[@celeste7469]

Listening to the audio was hard. She was straight up scary. They were not married they had no kids together why the heck didn’t he leave!? I’m not victim blaming I’m not understanding. No one deserves to be treated that way.

[@lenasydnetyy]

@@celeste7469 Love makes u blind

[@dyamondwomack549]

@@carcher3279 he couldnt leave. he moved away from his family to be with her if he left that mean hed loose his house where would he go?

[@Mandalaaxo]

I also feel like the fear Christian experienced is multi-layered because he's black. Imagine a hysterical white woman and a black man trying to placate her, he must have been terrified of getting the cops called on him whenever they were out in public fighting. She sounds like an absolute nightmare. And it appears that her drug and alcohol abuse really just exacerbates mental health and/or anger issues. However, him sleeping in the building even though he was kicked out - that is a little sketchy. I'm sure there was friends he could go to, or go back home. It seems a little threatening.

[@carcher3279]

Ikr..? I remember watching the interview of the Obumseli family on the Dr Phil show and they tried to make themselves out to be such a close-knit nurturing family who could rely on each other but in reality they should have been the main ones seeing the red flags in his choice of partner but apparently they jumped at the news that the two were together, they just accepted her instantly and with no questions asked. Also Christian recorded a video message dedicated to his mother on the day that he was killed but never tried to go back to his family in Austin. Also it has been revealed that he was r@ped or sexually assaulted by his own late father and so that may have been a factor as well.

[@TheIluvmindlessbehav]

i don't know i found it weird at first too but then i was thinking that's just further proof of the abuse he was under. that's like a prominent part of the abuse cycle, financial abuse and isolation. she said she pays for everything, and because he's a man the perception is 'oh he's a bum' but i think that's just another reason he couldn't leave. also remember they were in another state, and all of his stuff was still in the apartment so he couldn't even like sell things to get a plane ticket or something.

[@accessdenied5262]

He should have thought about that 😂

[@madisondaniel412]

Its honestly not weird from is POV bc she would kick him out all the time...also as a black man it would probably hurt his pride to call his family and let them know this women is abusing him, so he leaves until she calms down and lets him back in... if anyone with a brain and heart put 2 and 2 together like hearing them scream and argue and courtney being aggressive and then seeing him sleeping out on the couch multiple times it's clearly domestic abuse at the hands of courtney

[@4courtneyb]

It’s not until you start explaining something like .. the concept of mudding that I am reminded how differently we all live everyday. In fact I have a shirt that says “if the mud ain’t flyin, you ain’t tryin” 😂

[@aprilmartinez8558]

Christian was the victim. the recording reminded me of exactly how some of my worst relationships were. The apologizing bc you just want them to stop and you’re embarrassed bc they won’t and scared and regret doing whatever made them mad. you can’t fake that.

[@bernderbernder3087]

YES YES YES literally same tbh. "I should've never asked you to apologize and made you feel bad." That is someone who has had their emotions devalued to the point where they don't feel like they're allowed to be hurt or angry because it's been treated like that is completely unreasonable.

[@carcher3279]

Yep it is difficult to replicate in a controlled environment. It's raw situational emotion.

[@celeste7469]

I’m the audio sounds so scary. I feel so bad I’m sure he was terrified of her but who could he confide in? Who would believe that this pretty little white girl is abusing him. My heart breaks because I think he knew his life was in danger which made him start secretly recording.

[@celeste3100]

@@celeste7469 I thought the same. Once you feel the need to record, that's a huge red flag. I did that once in a really toxic relationship. I just wish he took off back to TX when she kicked him out. I had to do that once. I'd rather look like a b*tch running for my life than staying and having it end really bad. Nice name btw.

[@IamOffline.i]

​@@celeste3100 is it only me but once you've actually been in scenarios like this, watching things like this give you a weird stomach or reaction feeling? I find myself skipping certain parts especially the letters. it is so weird most notice how many " flag" there after they've left the relationship. The need for him to apologise for asking he to apologise immediately let me know she's guilty. I hope his name doesn't get left in vain and they do charge her. I hope all of you who have been through anything remotely similar are in a better place now. Peace & love💚

[@hayleyvanbenthem6216]

This is truly heartbreaking, hearing him begging courtney to stop hitting him brought tears to my eyes. How horrific

[@alisinger007]

Thankyou for covering all the cases that you do, with such humility and professionalism.

[@vhoy7899]

He was badly abused. There was no argument he would've won with her.

[@joannaquan177]

I genuinely feel so bad for Christian, the fact she called him the n-word slur is SHOCKING to me like omg the disrespect toward her OWN partner. And the poor man having nowhere to sleep like my heart is absolutely broken for him.

[@MelxncholyMermxid]

As someone with a white mom and black dad, it's unfortunately very common for them to go that low in an argument. Obviously not all interracial relationships, but the fetish-y ones.

[@dokidokidokidokidoki]

really? is it that shocking? it's literally the most mild thing she's done

[@joannaquan177]

@@dokidokidokidokidoki what is shocking to one person doesnt always have to be shocking to another, so yeah it is shocking to me

[@carcher3279]

He was a PLAYTHING for her... I am not convinced of her claiming to ever love him. Plus I think to an extent he fetishized her also.

[@tomohawkcloud]

@@joannaquan177so her repeatedly stabbing him, lying saying she abused him, her being the abuser and aggressor, her not having remorse for what she done and going back to doing OF, none of that is more shocking than saying the n word.

[@juliapelc6726]

I do think that race, wealth and pretty privilege have something to do with the fact that she wasn't detained that same day. I just feel so bad for Christian's family. And his poor mom, the way she found out about his death was unacceptable,

[@carcher3279]

It's just how America is... The way that it has always been. I'm not surprised. I live in the UK and it would be roughly the same here. His longing to be in an unequal relationship and a violently toxic one all at his own expense had cumulative consequences in the end and for me that is the teachable takeaway here.

[@babycakesface27]

It very much is. And I hope she doesn’t get away with it. She’s a horrible human being.

[@lolitahaze02]

Pretty? Where? 🤣

[@froggydoggy9579]

I think all those things are exactly why this all happened and why she was or became the horrible person that she did ... I don't know any dudes or people who would've held it together and not hit her back when being pounded on like that. He didn't even say mean things or call her names when she was!

[@00SuperA]

Not so much race as wealth. If she were filthy poor and white, she would've been 100% detained. Money talks, unfortunately..

[@DH-hs8ic]

I ALWAYS appreciate your comprehensive storytelling and your emotionally intelligent approach. You are awesome!!

[@sololondon2159]

Thank you for your detailed report and objective assessment as well as stating the obvious things others try to negate in this horrible case. I really do appreciate your ability to do what you do at such a high level with respect and intrigue for telling these stories. You are one of one, and probably the best at this.

[@choosynotsushi]

I got tired listening to Courtney screaming. OMG. It's obvious there's a gender and racial bias here. Since she's a white woman who killed a black man. The idea seems unlikely for the police to accept other that "self defense". SMH. We wouldn't know if he could have been saved if EMS are called immediately or not and how fatal the wound was. The authority is not putting much effort to this crime.

[@janice8514]

They are just waiting for the trial now.

[@christenm3200]

Right! I have such respect for him.. I really don't know if I would have been able to keep from punching her directly in the head the first time she started screaming at me like a f*cking lunatic because we're having a disagreement? This is what people who don't learn how to appropriately regulate their emotions as toddlers and fry their brains on drugs turn out to be. So damn sad.

[@Pulapaws]

I hope she goes to jail for at least man slander. You keep letting monsters walk around more people become monsters and than you start seeing as we already starting to see people take things into their own hands, and say f## the justice system I get my own justice. He should have left when she stab him. That a clear sign she willing to kill. But he didn’t want to let her go because it was the lifestyle and plus must have believed he could change her. But even if someone abused you but it very, very clear he wasn’t because if he was she would have been like Tina Turner jumping if she thought she even said the wrong word. I seen real women abuse by a dangerous man and they knew to listen to him. There was a true crime case where a woman plan her escape from her crazy ex. The court system work against her and she had to pay him but she keep moving around and keep her son safe. She was right about that but because he couldn’t get a hold of her he killed six of the people that work on her case. She wasn’t really being abused and I bet him pushing back was self defense, or they both was hitting on each other but it clear she was the aggressor because it seem he was getting afraid of her. I got someone guy that was getting beat up by his lover to get out, that not normal and I know your mom says not to hit on a girl but get out before you end up dead. I witnessed this twice and thankfully both got out of their abusive relationship. This is pure murder and it clear she didn’t love him because she not taking responsibility of her actions. That a purely evil person and people defending her I bet wouldn’t want their child dating her, or even date her for long because this will repeat itself. Like the woman that killed her first husband and got away with it just to turn around and kill again, and only got catch because she wasn’t fast enough in killing her daughter in the hospital. She very dangerous to society and she clearly needs help. Besides she only beating up on him because she knows she can get away with it and that deep down inside she hates herself and how she don’t have control so she kicks the puppy or the next person she think she can. She hiding her pain and the drugs not taking the sadness away, the shopping sprees and the frame isn’t bringing her happiness but a short live quick fix. I hope she goes to jail but even if not she going to go down that dark hole all by herself with no help and it’s going to get deeper. Karma is knocking at her door.

[@akarisawada1]

They literally just need Christian’s hospital records of the stab wounds the face slash and the texts of her admitting that she did do those things… she has a history OF STABBING!!!

[@carcher3279]

Yep she stabbed her previous boyfriend back in TX (pre Obumseli) Rolling Stone magazine tracked down the guy for an article on the case.

[@Westgirl277]

For those who accused Christian’s parent of not caring for him because he chose to sleep in the elevator room rather than go back home, you don’t know Nigerian parents. They care for their children and will do anything to help them only if they were aware. I am sure Christian hid all his issues from his family because he knew his mother will not support the relationship if she had even a clue of what was happening and he will not want to outright disobey his mother, knowing he still wanted to be with his abuser. My heart and prayers go to his family. I know they will fight on behalf of their son, and Courtney will get what she deserves.

[@JBoog-hk4cj]

About the sharks in the pool… I was a lifeguard at a couple of resorts. The first day I became a lifeguard, I was promoted to lifeguard supervisor. So not only was I responsible for lives but also the lives and safety of my own lifeguards. I always had stress dreams that the ocean was pouring sharks into the pool water. I’m wondering if it’s a swimmer thing.

[@lashondawright455]

Nah. She’s a pure murderer. I saw another KZbin channel that basically showed her many run ins with the cops. And from the bodycam footage to the interrogation footage of her run ins she’s definitely got a track record of abusing the crap outta that man and he just kept taking her back to his demise.

[@JDsayslol]

did you watch the whole video?

[@MaiAngelTv]

Sad it’s the type of “love” he wished for.

[@sin3358]

I feel so bad for him. Racism and men not being believed for domestic abuse are a huge reason why this had to escalate this way :(

[@JustMe-vs1kj]

honestly not respecting men comes with that type of work, i mean would you really respect a man if you dont even respect yourself enough? or if he doesnt respect himself enough to demand a woman to be private for him only, besides that the desguisting man on these websites also distort a womans view on man. ive heard many adult actress talk about that, that they would never be able to see a man as not disguisting or creepy or weak

[@keyanddracaryskillua6187]

@@JustMe-vs1kj she was abusive before she did this work. She broke a guy's jaw.

[@thiaokeke]

‘Christian has the tendency of documenting the abuse from her side’ but Christian is the only one who has been to the hospital multiple times? Christian is not the one who went to jail for domestic abuse?

[@mikaaaa146]

ONG

[@bloodymetalangel287]

I’m confused but I understand what you’re getting at.

[@Spamhard]

That was my thought too. How many times did she have to go to the hospital for being stabbed or physically abused? And if there's complaints he's only recording his side, she had every right to start recording too from 'her side' to ensure all angles were documented. I'm not saying Christian is necessarily entirely innocent- i absolutely do klnow of abusers who are very good at acting 'rational' and apologetic etc when they're being watched- but from what's been revealed of all this so far, the guy certainly sounds like he was heavily abused by her. It doesn't help that, in a lot of these recordings and body cams, she sounds really intoxicated and/or high which adds a whole extra level. Any sort of aggression + substance abuse is a recipe for disaster.

[@venusabigah5920]

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[@Danovio]

If christian had hit her she 10000% would have called the cops and said " that nword hit me"

[@bakoziel6909]

I've watched many of your videos, and many videos about similar matters, but this one hits different. I literally cannot finish it, it makes me sick to my stomach that someone was treated this way, and more so by the person they loved so much even being stabbed and on a verge of death they thought of them first. What kind of monster do you have to be to put someone through this.

[@michellep3443]

Thanks for covering this story in such a comprehensive way.

[@toria2079]

As a DV survivor, her texts to him def bring back memories of my experiences of lies and manipulation.

[@Laughingatyouu]

Same

[@That_simson_is_here]

Apologies but what does dv mean?

[@reynaatzi7400]

@@That_simson_is_here domestic violence

[@JohnStockton7459]

You're not a "survivor" lmfao. I know, being a victim is fun, but please just stop. You're embarrassing yourself

[@That_simson_is_here]

@@reynaatzi7400 thank you

[@AI-zt9pb]

i've been in a relationship with a girl like that and she was also white. during a fight she would literally spit out racial slur just like courtney, and would quickly play victim when you're aguing back. but when you stay silent and give in she'd make it worse, intimidate and gaslight you more. the cycle repeats.

[@samiayunus6882]

Omg I’m so sorry, I hope you’re safe and away from her now.

[@1llustrousking]

Its called abuse she probably is a narcissistic abuser

[@dirtyfiendswithneedles3111]

Sorry nigga

[@carcher3279]

Glad that you survived it, in this life one lives and learns.

[@maraujo600]

Its disgusting how we, as a society, still try and minimize domestic abuse against men. If the genders in this case were reversed, no one dare to dispute or attempt justify the abuse.

[@martinarodriguez3568]

Great summary! Thank you!!

[@sophehe]

off topic but, it’s beyond freaky to know that courtney was watching christina randall’s channel and her intro goes “make sure to be kind to everybody, everywhere” courtney heard that then 30 or so minutes later killed a man, it’s CRAZY. it just shows how inhuman and cold she is as a person, how could you hear a story of another victim & then create another.

[@JordanEndTimeServantOfYah144]

I KNOW! Christina even talked about it in a video bc so many people were tagging her about it 😢

[@JustMe-vs1kj]

drugs alters your mind to a point that you cant think straight and healthy and often toxic situations involve drugs. its not an excuse (because its peoples choice to take them as well) but its deffenitly an explanation as to how and why these people can do such evil things

[@nevenapalibrk4000]

There is a movie that came out last year on literally the same topic…it’s called Sissy a horror/triller…the girl in the movie said almost the same thing at the end of all her videos and was an influencer…the weirdest, campiest shit I have ever watched but it was sooo good…

[@Pulapaws]

To think this crazy woman want to have children. As soon as she can’t completely control or they make she mad them she going to kill them and try to cover it up. You saw so quickly she didn’t care for her dogs and than got mad at him about the dog. Imagine that with a child she would be the mother from pure hell.

[@lynnolmsted4698]

Yes!! She is a true MALIGNANT NARCISSIST!!

[@Amandavg]

Someone who threatens to end their life is in an argument far more likely to end your life. This is not normal, please remove yourself from these situations entirely.

[@chandanidayal4810]

This is a sick weapon of abuse. Abusers do this, they have no intention of ridding the planet of themselves.

[@erinahara4115]

My heart goes out to Christian & his family. He deserved way, way better. This story is very tragic. May Christian rest in peace.

[@huqunmowlid7628]

Totally unrelated but I love your voice. It's calming, even as I listen to you go over horrific details of a murder

[@heyitsmonique_]

This is so sad; many women get away with abusing their partners because of the social stigma that men are the abusers and women are the victims. Thank you, Stephanie, for talking about this case.

[@speccysquaregolike9629]

you literally just copied another comment almost word for word ???

[@randomthingstodo5218]

​@@speccysquaregolike9629 true

[@supMELINA]

A

[@oqp489]

its men saying this not women

[@hotsexyangel]

its not a stigma, its just facts. women are more abused than men AND men are the biggest perpetrators. BUT male victims are just as valid and deserve justice.

[@minaluv214]

Their relationship was extremely toxic and excruciatingly exhausting. My condolences to him and his family 🙏🏻

[@riverathebean]

She is the one alive so above their relationship being toxic. She needs to be in jail.

[@lynnolmsted4698]

This is why the VICTIM is too exhausted to leave...The minute they start to recover from the trauma, it starts up all over again!!! AND, if you finally do have the strength to finally walk out the door, they will breadcrumb you back in with their love bombing of false hopes and promises. It's an insidious form of brainwashinmg.

[@Seamphony]

Not yet but I will make one soon

[@lolitahaze02]

It amazes me how people can live in a relationship like that. People really need to love themselves more not be so dependable.

[@KittyPop]

Me and my husband love watching you! Thanks for sheding light on wild situations that can happen in the real world.

[@fernandallanos233]

Watching this video 2/1/24 just to find out her parents were arrested for tampering with evidence pertaining to this case two days ago In Texas on 1/30. I pray for the victims family that they get the justice that is deserved to be served in this tragic case. May Christian forever rest in peace 🤲🏼🕊️🙏🏼

[@AMissTries]

I've noticed a commonality or correlation between fetishism and abuse. Most stories that I've heard of abuse involving a fetish have this same structure. A person with the fetish verbally, physically, and emotionally abusing the person with said idolized features. It's almost like from the start the victim was never a person, their only value were their features.

[@dokidokidokidokidoki]

yes. the person is strictly an object and not a real person. I went through this with my last ex, i didnt realize how much i was abused until after contact with him stopped. i started standing up for myself and he started gaslighting me so hard. i called him out on the gaslighting and he blocked me because I wasn't under his control anymore.

[@AMissTries]

@@dokidokidokidokidoki shid crazy, sorry you went through that

[@carcher3279]

It is good that on occasion I will come across individuals that understand how this relationship dynamic operates, but when will our people start getting it collectively as a group?

[@tahira1]

I remember this case. Courtney is so evil. A pretty face doesn't mean a pretty personality.

[@chopsticksforlegs]

It's literally all makeup. Look at her photo in court. She's plain AF

[@claudia3539]

Make up on the picture without make up she's doesn't even look pretty . Thag is the real you without make up not with make up.

[@elithestoopy]

That just looks plastic

[@meelo8439]

She’s not even pretty

[@Ichigo-dh9rd]

She's just white and blonde. The photos of her getting arrested and in court makes her look like a nobody

[@nancyferrer4386]

You are such a beautiful young lady with amazing communication skills. I am so happy I found your show. You can tell and explain a crime like no one else.

[@Danovio]

"smallest comment, smallest body language" my ex used to make up anything to fight about, if i was nice to her cousin during a party and talking to her i was flirting, if i looked at a woman for 2 seconds because they walked passed me, i was accused of cheating.

[@Unholy__grace]

I think the Vegas trip is where she learned that she needed to make accusations against him if she was going to get away with being violent. She started “exposing “ a pattern of abuse to lay the foundation of her alleged innocence.

[@carcher3279]

Yep, I agree it seems consistent with the timeline and it is when she first started to get arrested and so because she intended to continue being violent towards him she needed to offset this by creating her own abuse narrative... I saw her on the body cam footage and she seems so taken aback that she was even being arrested in LV, Now Fast forward to the building lobby footage back in Miami and she says something that's crucial on MPD body cam asking: "How can she file a court restraining order against Obumseli BEFORE him because she wanted to get there FIRST". all part of building a victim narrative for herself. Not to say that I am a mind reader but I suspect that she at least partially planned this. Plus there is the audio recording by Obumseli recording where Clenney says that she "literally wanted to unalive Obumseli but said he didn't take her seriously." = Premeditation.

[@lianoid918]

So much to unpack and digest. One important thing I want to mention is that even though he recorded conversations, arguments, etc., the level of self control required to stay calm that entire time would be incredibly difficult to maintain. I genuinely believe he did it for his own peace of mind or protection. Who knows, maybe he recorded it just for himself to clarify in his mind whether he was somehow gaslighting her or if she was the one gaslighting him. Overall, it sounds like it was an incredibly unhealthy relationship but I get the strong sense she was the abuser and he may have reacted in less than healthy ways at times.

[@hotsexyangel]

yea no shit she was the abuser lmao its quite obvious

[@lianoid918]

@@hotsexyangel I understand your opinion, I was merely sharing mine and some potential insight into his actions. Your response simply sounds like a reaction and doesn't add anything to the conversation.

[@riverathebean]

He had to do that, how else do people believe a man who is being abused? She could've easily spined the narrative on him if he did not have proof.

[@keyanddracaryskillua6187]

He was a black man with a white girl. He had to start recording for his protection as a man and as a black man.

[@tThisNThat]

Not really, she is a mental. She is an abusive druggie alcoholic, narcissistic killer. Pretty simple to me

[@lauriechadwick]

I love this channel. New subscriber. So glad I found it.

[@juliestephens1348]

I love your empathy and watch all your stories great job and bless you 💞.

[@ryanthomas6418]

The role of race in this case is so layered and insane

[@Mr.WestcottX]

Agreed.

[@carcher3279]

It's America and it's the same here in the UK.

[@Mr.WestcottX]

@@carcher3279 yeah 🇺🇲🇬🇧

[@dimpledsunflower]

I feel like Courtney has anger issues, like with things that are not that serious to typical people, she escalates to unbelievable irrational anger and violence. It was also mentioned that she said she felt angry back in high school. She has been taking substances which could have exacerbated her anger issues. I wonder how aware of the toxicity of their relationship their families were since both of them were close. I think their families should have helped advise both of them to stop the relationship.

[@eddy-currents]

If the genders were reversed, you'd wouldn't even be talking about the murderer's anger issues

[@rezq9109]

​@@eddy-currents every crime story video about male serial killer explains how he was abused in childhood etc. and what sort of mental health issues he had. Your take is bs.

[@eddy-currents]

@@rezq9109 But not in a way to insinuate that other people should have taken responsibility to stop the murder

[@Randompotatoes-qs7bm]

@@rezq9109 the backstory helps but I blame her 💯 in this case. She called him names based on race and abused him. She’s 🗑

[@elizabitch0979]

@@eddy-currents nah actully ive watch alot of true crime. They do put in the backstory and the anger issues and the killers, rather their male or female. Tbh it is a valid question to wonder if the families knew, if hers knew how abusive she was to him, if his family knew how much danger he was in. If the roles were reversed they would be talking about it. Especially since their anger issues can be even used in court to prove how abusive the killer was in the relationship. Since if unmanaged, they can become abusers . watch more true crime on male killers it's kinda the same way , they explain even the sexual abuse the killers go through. I'm not saying that there's a difference of how male and female abusers are treated, after all men are considered to be more angry while women are just "emotional" in everyway and weaker . So people often make it seem like only men can abuse but that's not the case . I'm just saying that ur kinda wrong in this situation.

[@user-hk2fu6ie3u]

Hi Stephanie I have subscribe to all your channels I enjoyed watching you how you narrates stories and interactions with your husband it's like I'm hanging out with you 2 while listening to you telling stories ❤

[@CindyLKReich]

I absolutely love your content!

[@mrsp8635]

The way you deliver information so delicately yet factually, but with compassion and empathy is very refreshing.

[@Dreams_while_awake]

Wow how is it that this is the first time I’m hearing about this case? I really must’ve really been living under a rock. Thank you Stephanie for covering this case!

[@it-ke9od]

She's beautiful and a troubled soul. She's needs therapy

[@error404webpagenotfound]

I've heard of a case where an OF model killed her boyfriend in "self defense" but I just started this video so idk if it's the same case yet or not. Edit: same case. But Stephanie is covering it so I know I'm going get way more info on it.

[@Dreams_while_awake]

@@error404webpagenotfound my husband had told me about one and I believe it’s a different one than this one but I really have to look into it to remember

[@lukeiamyourfather666]

​@@it-ke9od w h a t?

[@it-ke9od]

@@lukeiamyourfather666 I'm saying, she needs Better Help!

[@VictoriaPratt1028]

I need to know when you make the update video when the trial starts!

[@charityhopper1430]

Anyone who doesn’t back this girl 100 percent, I’m so thankful you’ve never been with an emotionally abusive narcissist.

[@Ciana2024]

I don't know how anybody could look at this case and be like "He's not a victim".

[@ffffff41]

he is not

[@Animeyani991]

​@@ffffff41 nah, he was. Only he stayed in an abusive relationship.

[@jujubeanzzz5413]

Thay both were abusers

[@lynnolmsted4698]

Exactly, I hate it when they say he was abusive too!! NOT TRUE!!! HE has a RIGHT to defend himself!!! SELF DEFENSE from a CRAZY NARCISSISTIC ABUSER!!

[@lynnolmsted4698]

This is why he recorded these events!! It's because it's so hard to explain the craziness without being a witness to the insanity!!

[@janeemflores]

She should be in jail for the rest of her life! And the way she treated her boyfriend --- the accusations, abuse, hitting, etc. There's a special place in hell for people like her. I hope she doesn't get away with this or there's another victim in the hear future. She's a psycho!

[@lesliebayas1]

This has been the best recap!

[@GwydionFrost]

It's stories like this that remind me that in nature it is the prettiest things that are the deadliest.

[@barbiezack9425]

As a black person/African this case pissed me off. I watched the interview where she says she only dates black guys. Her calling him the N word. Her beating him. Her mistreating him. He was basically a slave to him. Don't get me started with him saying he doesn't like black women. He really didn't like himself and the fact that he is black. His family failed him, he failed himself.

[@montana9131]

Stop that nonsense just because he said something years ago is irrelevant of him getting stabbed to death… I’m telling you this as a fellow African.

[@Leezy24]

@@montana9131 No one is saying it’s relevant in the case of the actual crime. But it is relevant on who is actually going to defend him.

[@montana9131]

@@Leezy24 no it should not be… people keep bringing up those tweets as to blame him for his own passing… that is not right. You shouldn’t have to base your compassion for someone who wrongfully died on what he said as a college student. It was despicable yes but that’s the past and this is now

[@hafsamohamed3555]

@@montana9131 an african in africa and an african in america is not the same. if your american and saying that you probably think like that too

[@montana9131]

@@hafsamohamed3555 I’m African born and raised… and it’s honestly sad that the community of black people has become like this. You die and everyone Carries social media tweets on their head… like is this supposed to be normal behaviour or did I miss the memo?

[@anathema444]

being a nigerian who was born in dallas, this story spread in the community like crazy. may he rest in peace

[@rachymn7883]

This man though was know for his xenophobia 😮. That being said I think this woman deserves Jail

[@marcmielke]

@@rachymn7883 Wasn't it xenophilia that got him? Xenophobia is fear of outsiders. Seems to me he valued outsiders more than people in his ethnic group. He shouldn't have been stabbed, no question.

[@rachymn7883]

@@marcmielke if one is racist towards there own people from another walk of life. They are a Xenophob. Idk. But this man was a dic. Edit- it's both. Since he hated mainly African American women. Still a dic

[@Westgirl277]

@@rachymn7883that is actually the opposite of xenophobia, try harder

[@Westgirl277]

Also a Nigerian and a parent of a young black man, this was a very emotional case

[@user-yc4rw3hj1j]

i LOVEEEE the intro on this vid

[@lukeskywalker6641]

I still don't know why the Mango is rotten.

[@maeleenassssssssssss]

I live with someone like Courtney, but she’s abusive even to our parents. It’s scary, one time I accidentally brushef by her in the kitchen and she (21) went and tattled to my foster dad. He then came and told me (16) “you’re lucky you got away with that, usually you wouldn’t. I’m just trying to keep the peace she could have snapped and it would have been all bad” it’s very disturbing how even her parents are scared of her.

[@mikamikami1]

hey, i know its easier said than done and you may have tried all of these things but please try to do something about this, get some distance from her or call the police on her ( maybe your family can also back you up on it? ) because it sounds like a very emotionally draining and dangerous environment. i know its not that easy but i really hope you and your family get away from her and she gets the help that she needs.

[@adrixvicent]

Please go way, stop being with this perdón. Take this video as cautionary tale

[@tahira1]

Realise you're in danger bring around this person. Study hard and get away as soon as you can. Until then stay below her radar as much as possible.

[@arlenemadrid9525]

please get out and cut her off people like her dangerous I work for the state on NJ in the court system and I watched this behavior too many times and she will be volatile to whom ever she meets but leave without tell her and get a restraining order right away

[@maeleenassssssssssss]

@Oof I wish I could but I’m a minor I can’t go anywhere

[@Inyourpalms]

I have borderline personality disorder and am also a mental health care worker in nyc and come to conclusion that people that experiences childhood sexual trauma will behave like this in adulthood, especially when they do drugs too and haven’t had pivotal learning experiences on how to manage their emotional disregulation. I used to be like this in my early twenties but years of therapy helped me no longer physically harm my partners. But during those days I felt like I was the one abused, hurt, and isolated and had to harm the person that made me feel so beaten. Only through support did I learn that what I feel does not make it the reality. I appreciate you a lot Stephanie for bringing light to these situations.

[@charmiebermido5183]

I love that how ur now in the mental health field! Full circle moment yknow. I've been diagnosed with CPTSD bc of prolonged SA and child abuse throughout my childhood and now I want to work at a daycare bc I now know I have the tools to help nurture these kids of tomorrow!

[@sleepyspoons]

Sigh, I had BPD too and as soon as I realised I threw a plushie to my boyfriend when I was upset and that means im toxic, I signed myself up to therapy, saying Im toxic and want to change that. I hate seeing her hit him as if feeling invalidated justifies physically harming someone like that... Not to mention the racist slurs! When she was questioned by police after she was concerned about how terrible her day was which leads me to believe narcissism is in play too

[@lornforlorn4867]

This is a reasonable and wise thing to say. The story is so emotional. It is hard to be reasonable and wise. It is still true "Hurt people hurt people."

[@mashakakusaka]

I was dog walking at that building that day. A tall black guy with huge muscles asked me:” Can I go in the elevator with you? I am scared to be here alone,” He told me the story and that she was out and in the building. The story is chilling, and that huge guy looked so scared, too. I got a better job offer shortly after, so I never returned. But it is weird to see this story on KZbin now 🥶

[@asteroidnix9908]

Her behavioral pattern reminds me so much of people with borderline personality disorder (BPD). Her childhood trauma and the cocaine use likely contributed to it. Cocaine abuse itself can change one’s personality towards many symptoms of BPD. She obviously needs mental help, but what happened to Christian and his family is truly heartbreaking. I’m also very disappointed at the people who jumped to conclusion solely based on race and gender in this case. Thank you Stephanie for covering this case.

[@JustAdude291]

Well said

[@kadencelynn8723]

i hate the correlation between bpd and abuse. theyre not related. not one statistic says people with bpd are abusive. she doesnt show any symptoms of bpd besides impulsivity and big emotions.

[@b0ngb4bez]

i live with bpd and the way she goes through her emotions reminds me a lot of myself when i’m very heightened.

[@Hua.-]

​​@@kadencelynn8723This. Armchair therapists in the comments of these videos love to say anyone that's volatile "must have bpd." I don't link her to enough symptoms to diagnose it and as someone with bpd never related to her at all in this. But people will always be disappointing and stupid, just ignore them. The above comment does nothing but stigmatize and demonize us :/ people should not diagnose someone with a mental disorder from a true crime video, especially if they are not a therapist, especially because they don't know her personally and haven't properly done any tests or observation.

[@sanchitagolder]

@@kadencelynn8723 i understand you’re coming from a place of protecting bpd from becoming a cruel, negative and dehumanising stereotype. i get it, i am her and she is me. bpd does not make people *inherently* abusive, but perception impacts reaction. more specifically, perception, *filtered through the sense of an individual person’s ethics and moral compass* , leads to reaction. so what i’m tryna get at is that *bpd does not make you a bad person.* but a _bad_ person with bpd thoughts, behaviours and reactions can become lethally worse. add to that her particular bpd being aggravated by substance abuse, a clear constant unmedicated delulu manic episode (while insanely strong mind-altering chemicals are dictating her brain at this point), and being treated like a princess by her family who could do nothing wrong, no consequences? the bpd would just be the fuel to the fire. i can say this with conviction because,,, although leagues and leagues harmless compared to her menace, i had a manic breakdown last year for about 3-4 months. i don’t recognise her, that person cannot be me. my worst crime would be being convinced my ex was being abused by his mom, ask him to move in with my family, and not giving him his phone back in the middle of the night- running crazy on the street with it, because i genuinely believed he was in the most atrocious and dangerous situation ever with his mom and she’s manipulating him to come back with her, and if i give him his phone back he will spiral deeper into abuse. i somehow convinced myself that was what is best for him, that nobody else knew what they were talking about. and that’s what unmanaged manic bpd does. changes the entire truth or maximise tiny reactions into explosions that destroy everything in its path. for a decent human being, it’s “i’m so sorry i jumped to an unhealthy conclusion and spiralled into emotional dysregulation because i was upset”. for entitled, unhinged individuals like her, it’s “you think i am wrong? well i guess i have to defend myself by stabbing you with a knife because you deserve it for making me upset” i’m sorry it’s so long. i just wanted to illustrate very clearly why bpd is a neutral entity, that is either a butter knife or a machine gun depending on the person that has it. not inherently bad, but not harmless either.

[@kittyb275]

I'm a woman and men should be legally allowed to fight off any psychotic woman attacking them like this.

[@Mr.WestcottX]

Indeed for self defense.

[@relight6931]

I am pretty sure anyone is allowed to do self defense. Problem is we are much, much stronger, it's pretty easy to over do it, or, faced with a crazed women, hurt her, because she is moving recklessly or is threatening with some sort of weapon. As soon as there are a few scratches or bruises on the woman, she can easily claim he was the one abusing. Also, the problem is if the abused, doesn't have a place to stay, they are renting together or whatever. I am just thinking of practical reason, that aren't "..but I love her".. for not just straight up leaving the same second the other person becomes violent. If I found my "perfect" lady, beautiful as an angel, with all the character traits I value the most, and her only downside would be random bouts of violence, uff... I don't know, I got a spare bedroom, so I guess, I would be ok living with such a person if I could lock myself during sleeping. I wouldn't be able to sleep, if she might stab me during my rest. But she would need to be perfect, and that just doesn't exist.

[@HS-ie8tj]

@@relight6931well you can just push them away from you… easier said than done I know but creating distance is ideal. And then leaving the scene.

[@relight6931]

@@HS-ie8tj yeah, but I want kids.. My condition is to find a women to which I am attracted to and vice versa, both physically and mentally. I have my own apartment and after a few months of dating and .asking sure we are on the same page about kids, I would ask her to move in with my. My condition is simple. We need to spend at least two years together, through up and downs, to really get to know each other. I am not repeating my mistake with last girlfriend who could never spend more then night or two.. it turned out she was a pathological liar, and if it wasn't for same female friends we had, and me knowing those friends for much longer, also her stories presenting me in such a cruel light, so much so, that they felt obligated to tell me, I would lose much more then half a year.. she lied flawless, but she was also malicious.. She would break up people.. Also don't want to do what my parents did, I was barely five when they divorced and it was borderline violent.. So either we live two years together, hopefully go through some major turmoil and comeone stronger, or very break up. I am not doing to my kids what my parents ( from best intentions) did to us.. Made me play messenger from 6 to 15 since not even a phone call could pass without shouting or cursing.. I still got scars on my soul from that..

[@celeste7469]

Agreed. Then get the heck away from them cause you’ll end up dead or in jail. Men who are victims of abuse need to speak up more so that other men are aware of the signs and feel supported coming out.

[@Ih8danhumphrey]

Omfg that letter triggered something in me so bad. I had a boyfriend years ago, he cheated on me, and when i found out it was an endless night of sobbing pleading and trying to understand. By the end i was so emotionally exhausted that i sat on the floor a tried to make sense of why someone would treat me that way, and since i was so emotionally and mentally exhausted, i couldnt accept that he just did something bad because hes an asshole, instead i blamed MYSELF for EVERYTHING, audibly, i explained to his face why he did what he did because I was a terrible person. I explained that i manipulated him (got him to date me) r*ped him (made out with him while we we high), stole money from him (asked him to to buy me groceries for valentines day) and the worst part was he dat there and listened to all of this and didnt say a word, therefore proving to my demented mind that i was right and a horrible person. That was the night thoughts of unaliving myself first came up, i was hospitalized that night simply because he couldnt just say that he was the asshole, i struggled with thoughts and attempts of unaliving myself for three years after that night, because when someone is abusive you start to blame yourself, and the worse they treat you the more you feel you deserve it, and then you start to wonder why you deserve it and how terrible of a person you must be. I feel so bad for christian, the fact that she ripped that letter up where he says stuff like “i dont love you enough” and “i gaslight you” just reminds me of my situation, self blaming and reassurance from the abuser that you are worthless.

[@janetrawlings1691]

I really like your style 😎 and the work you do. I could listen to you all day 🎉❤

[@alexquertz2999]

If she doesn’t get arrested, I give up of humanity. This case is just insane, the victim isn’t alive to tell his side of the story. The level of disrespect the victim’s family got from the police/detectives is nothing like I’ve heard before, it’s just enraging.

[@user-os8xr8om6e]

Same here

[@dokidokidokidokidoki]

i gave up a long time ago due to Casey Anthony :')