Losing to my addiction on June 11, 2018 made me win... Jehovah thank you father.... Feels good to be drug free
@thapelonkululeko44985 жыл бұрын
Amen
@vonw655 жыл бұрын
Thank GOD for freedom from all additions 🙌
@C_Alleyne5 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing!
@tinahoward19265 жыл бұрын
Congratulations just continue to put God 1st
@neicynee59215 жыл бұрын
God bless you🙏🙏🙏
@klacy90008 жыл бұрын
My son introduced this song to me he told me Mom you should listen to Fantasia Lose to Win after 11 years of trying to make it work with his father he and this song, gave me the strength to walk away
@shawnpreston16398 жыл бұрын
Girl, good for you! That means that your son is watching you and paying attention to what mama allows in her life. I tried to help my mother years ago and she paid me no mind and stayed. My stepfather, in the end, left her for a much, much younger woman/girl. Now she and I have a fractured relationship because I witnessed too much sad and depress days from her. I moved on. So dont make the same mistake with your son like my mama made with me. If he is old enough to understand you deserve better, you are old enough to understand that you do too. Kids are watching. An unhappy mother makes an unhappy son. Dont make him unhappy because of your love of no good man. You got a good man that loves you: your son!
@athomewithrosa8 жыл бұрын
This brought tears to my eyes. I walked away and never looked back. I had to set an example for my daughters. Your son was and is a blessing. You got this!
@amandalee91788 жыл бұрын
+isis1969 im in the process of walking away with a 1 year old daughter and another daughter on the way. Its hard. But God is my strength and his promises are stronger than the hurt I feel.
@athomewithrosa8 жыл бұрын
+Pinkbuttons ! (Adonijah&Amanda22) You stay strong. Whatever the reason is, you are making the best decision. We have to love our children and ourselves enough to make the change. I will keep you in my thoughts. We all get that wake up call and have to answer it.
@tatianaallen91188 жыл бұрын
I'm 13 and gave told my mom to listing to this as well cause she going through sum wit my step dad and it helped her
@MrToshhhi9 ай бұрын
2024 and this song still hits to the soul. Love yourself first and always!
@evelyngaber1143Күн бұрын
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@dorothybutler13611 ай бұрын
You might have lost then but You winning Now, Thanks be to GOD
@puffalump766 жыл бұрын
She sings the hell outta this song..hot damn 😍😍
@annielee59025 жыл бұрын
Kiss my
@kamorarobinson90215 жыл бұрын
Yessssss girl sing it
@dalvinalcide99995 жыл бұрын
better than Beyonce
@juliem16743 жыл бұрын
Sometimes those disappointments can be a blessing in disguise
@missindie41993 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@trinikids13283 жыл бұрын
Definitely!!!
@humbleshana51363 жыл бұрын
Best comment!!!!
@somethingspecial14153 жыл бұрын
@@humbleshana5136 for real💯
@amazinggrace68813 жыл бұрын
So true go through your healing in your own time and keep your head up... it’s go be okay 👌🏽
@ebonypainter92748 жыл бұрын
She ain't never lied!! Sometimes giving up is winning!!
@nubianqueen96248 жыл бұрын
Ebony Painter That was deep.
@markcole87018 жыл бұрын
Ebony Painter yep
@Jdtheloner_18 жыл бұрын
That right
@shakiramaycock15367 жыл бұрын
i know i won!
@tiahaskins54177 жыл бұрын
Ebony Painter that's right
@Jai141092 жыл бұрын
This song still hitting hard in 2023 and will forever hit hard ❤
@atavierreed2267 Жыл бұрын
for sure
@serinachareka4404 Жыл бұрын
Yeah
@latashacopeland9137 Жыл бұрын
✊🏾✊🏾
@sharonblackman1499 Жыл бұрын
Truth
@RichelleChina Жыл бұрын
Most definitely ❤
@Mrfreeze0606 жыл бұрын
Ladies know your worth!! You are “Queens” expect nothing less than the moon
@nonjabulokhumalo49085 жыл бұрын
Ice Man thanks brother we appreciate
@shawnaross36185 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@jannagordon11485 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@kandypeters70715 жыл бұрын
Ice man on behalf of all the women thanks😘
@dahliadivabosslady5 жыл бұрын
Thank you bro.....❤
@tamarabostoncooks6 жыл бұрын
Losing a love you thought was the one after so many heartbreaks is the hardest thing.
@jasxabell93615 жыл бұрын
Yessss...
@tabathiajames6545 жыл бұрын
Yes it is
@Anisha..Alayna5 жыл бұрын
😫💯
@shiquitarome70925 жыл бұрын
Tamara Cooks you hit the nail on the head
@kriesha20704 жыл бұрын
That’s like being abandoned as a young 🧒 kid
@natashakapapa99885 жыл бұрын
Still my favourite even in 2019 😍😍 Who's with me??
@hoeslovejustina31505 жыл бұрын
me
@supaxox75135 жыл бұрын
Yes sis
@cherishgreen95895 жыл бұрын
Natasha Kapapa me
@kamorarobinson90215 жыл бұрын
Me this my favorite song I playing this all night and day until it get good
@lilyn6365 жыл бұрын
Me
@quinceybaker988819 күн бұрын
Who here In 2025?😂
@SlindokuhleGoqo10 күн бұрын
❤I'm here in 2025 January
@karencarroll24177 күн бұрын
Me 2025
@ColleenMedina-r4r6 күн бұрын
Everyone😂
@JacquelineLewis-qj6cu5 күн бұрын
Yeah me also ❤️🙏💪.
@b0lliez5 күн бұрын
Im here
@natarshasmith81004 жыл бұрын
I would never put nobody before you again God
@livelove19694 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏🏾
@nataliemorris80064 жыл бұрын
I Swear I Felt This In My Soul. Amen😔
@e.l.l.e.tierrablankaa4 жыл бұрын
👻
@GodIsLove7xFold4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Shimyralove4 жыл бұрын
In The Name of Jesus, I felt them Words “I WOULD NEVER PUT NOBODY BEFORE YOU AGAIN GOD”🙌🏾🙌🏾😭🙌🏾🙌🏾
@hannahrollings39889 жыл бұрын
Sometime in relationship you have to think with your head, not your heart, then you can see the picture better, when we think with our heart, we can't see the bigger picture...
@memerosario6039 жыл бұрын
so true
@reneehestick55479 жыл бұрын
+Meme Rosario that is so true
@memerosario6039 жыл бұрын
+Renee Hestick yes
@Jeff_Thomas9 жыл бұрын
+Hannah Rollings SHOUT OUT TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO KNEW SHE SAMPLED THE "commodores-nightshift".....
@LadeOla9 жыл бұрын
so true
@princekp14 жыл бұрын
This song, this woman deserves so much more attention!
@joannemcmillan92012 жыл бұрын
She can out sing so many.
@lydiasowell19922 жыл бұрын
She sure do. Play this song over and over.
@vybzkartelradio.2 ай бұрын
Classic song. Love you tasia❤
@Love-ju3bv2 жыл бұрын
You know i thought i was loosing when i walked away from a fifteen year relationship but it took almost three years to realize that I won and found the man of my dreams and expecting my first baby . You will always come out on the top .
@ToYAHofZion1442 жыл бұрын
HalleluYah!💯🔥
@eugeniafields79012 жыл бұрын
My honey purpose to me from 12years ,but he really didn’t mean it.He said you’ll never find another guy like me.Well Well! I found somebody better.
@SkegeeAce2 жыл бұрын
Praise God!!
@penelopethomas11202 жыл бұрын
@@ToYAHofZion144 ++q+
@azolampepo85702 жыл бұрын
Wow 😳 I love your story
@kirarozay20663 жыл бұрын
Sometimes what we consider a loss is actually a BLESSING IN DISGUISE!!! Just another way of God protecting us when we are blinded by love or what we think we want!!!
@dazshcheatham277 жыл бұрын
THIS SONG WILL NEVER GET OLD NO MATTER WHAT YEAR WE IN ❤️🤞🏾💯
@marlogray90802 жыл бұрын
3
@miguelthompson92862 жыл бұрын
2022
@aneesahm4301 Жыл бұрын
Currently losing but I know I’ll win again! Can I get an Amen?!
@pinkiehairguru427111 ай бұрын
Amen
@dorothybutler13611 ай бұрын
AMEN
@healingwithchrissy11 ай бұрын
Amen
@pamelacoleman868510 ай бұрын
Amen!!!❤
@natoyawhittaker108210 ай бұрын
Amen
@spirituallyyoung52955 жыл бұрын
When you're going through it you can feel this song in your gut.
@cocovernon83945 жыл бұрын
Yessssss, but honey when I come out of that state of mind....MY GOD!!! I'm a force to be reckoned with. Coco flavored HOT ICE. Js
@lovelyrich545 жыл бұрын
@@cocovernon8394 Yaassssss hunny...Blessings to you for sending motivation my way sis🤗
@valeriealexander70154 жыл бұрын
Yesssss
@gretalawrence35484 жыл бұрын
Ive been there done that...when your in that state of mind dont nothing seem to matter anymore...ive damned near lost my mind trying everything to make it work..things just got worse...but honey i went to My God and asked him to deliver me from all my pain and troubles and never look back...he answered my prayers...GOD IS GOOD YALL AMEN🙏🙏🙏🙏
@louronforde46594 жыл бұрын
Ukr😭😭
@tamekashontae77794 жыл бұрын
"When you've been broken, you feel like no one can fix it" I felt every part of that! It's so true.
@michellehendrix71356 жыл бұрын
I wonder how much better off we would be if we put the same amount of energy into ourselves, (being healthy, wealthy, and happy), as we do in these relationships. Man ole man we would be the shit
@princewilliams93886 жыл бұрын
This statement is so thought provoking.. thanks..I needed to read this 🤔🙄😌
@lesliemarshall59806 жыл бұрын
So true
@islandgirl016 жыл бұрын
BAM💥
@Faith-s1f6 жыл бұрын
Words
@candyxoxo196 жыл бұрын
And I love when the message is about anything but relationships. It's not the only thing you lose to win. Losing,quitting jobs, changing fields, getting sicknesses and overcoming it to value your life, getting evicted then becoming a home owner, getting fired and starting a business, repentance and giving your life to God. Changing friendship circles.etc and etc.
@reznakhatun9572 Жыл бұрын
After being in abusive relationship for 25 yrs I stayed single for 6 yrs and prayed to god now I’ve met my twin flame ❤
@yelaywright72677 жыл бұрын
Listening to this song give me the strength to walk away from a relationship that was not worth fighting for and I feel so strong and happy right now thank you Fantasia❤❤❤🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🥰
@richardsonlaura546 жыл бұрын
Me too
@irisochoa41946 жыл бұрын
Its true bin there done that💔💔
@marthatabane71526 жыл бұрын
I really wish I had your strength. Still contemplating...
@aaronwright10035 жыл бұрын
queen of hearts not in the caedrs 4 me $
@brsugarbabe5 жыл бұрын
Martha Monyela Girl, there is always a rainbow after the rain. Close the door to Mr. Wrong, so that Mr. Right can come on in.
@shanikamcfarlane46808 жыл бұрын
i have lost so many times when will it be my time to win??? sighz only God knows
@shakiramaycock15368 жыл бұрын
he's got u covered
@bettymoses72318 жыл бұрын
sometimes you gotta lose to win again....#SoTrue
@ciku-ciku71948 жыл бұрын
Shanika McFarlane Faith sister
@tareezterrie70328 жыл бұрын
Shanika McFarlane..... everything will be good in GODS tym
@shanikamcfarlane46808 жыл бұрын
I am praying and holding the faith
@rutendomujuru55355 жыл бұрын
Lord am tired of singing this song for comfort every time please may i get a win this time around
@acgillis15 жыл бұрын
Amen
@sayhuhsaywhat69915 жыл бұрын
You will
@foxbat4735 жыл бұрын
zvichaita
@lorrainebanathyasharahla11955 жыл бұрын
Rutendo Mujuru I had to take a X-Ray of myself on the inside first. Had to ask God to clean me up and I was fed up with Toxic So call friends and my life style which did not include my heavenly father. That was years ago. I Repented and started gaining True Knowledge to who I am and my role as a woman / Holy Woman. My life changed and I have been married to a holy man who taught me so much regarding the Holy Bible Kjv and more. We dated for 2yrs and married 13yrs. I had a lot of mess in my life that had to be DUMPED. YAH ( God) sent me my husband and it was a long hard struggle thru first 3-4 yrs but we did it 😀🙌. I guess you can say " That's The Way Nature Planned It". I am 10yrs older than he is and we love each other very much. Much Respect for my husband 💪👍✊. Your time will come. Just work on yourself inside and out. Inside first 💯. Men require and demand RESPECT FIRST / LOVE. Something I had to learn.
@triviasmith11515 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up baby. Remember that GOD makes no mistakes! Whatever it is that you are going through is just a test of your faith. Hold on tight when prayers go up blessings rain down. Your season is on the way or may be right in front of you. Be still and let him work.
@zehdashimus Жыл бұрын
I just discovered this song today and it has been on repeat for HOURS! This truly hits when you’re actually going through it. Left a toxic relationship and now met someone that treats me so much better ♥️
@tanny9367 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@brentjames6049 Жыл бұрын
Can't build with toxic people stay single
@londonspark86958 жыл бұрын
THIS IS ME!!!! SHE HELPED ME MOVE ON FROM A 8 YEAR RELATIONSHIP NOW I AM WINNING 💪💪💪 THANK YOU FANTASIA!!!!
@aniasuniverse7 жыл бұрын
London Spark u go girl
@dmeingojohnson25707 жыл бұрын
London Spark she helping me to 8 years for me to and its over
@palesashweshwe50977 жыл бұрын
Go gurrl!
@jasmineegiselleee7 жыл бұрын
Stay strong
@patrinasumair97697 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you
@nurturingresiliencemahalia42336 жыл бұрын
This woman is epic , talented, stunning and naturally beautiful beyond degree
@sleumastv7123 жыл бұрын
This song hits different when you have to let go of someone you truly love
@miletetsegay19613 жыл бұрын
I love him but all he do is cheat on me hang out with his friends after 7 yrs 3 kids all I wan for him to watch his kids at night wild I’m at work be he wouldn’t do that I have beg him watch his kids.I’m tired
@J000008763 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we all got to lose to win again! We women are queens and we are strong and some men cannot handle that
@gloriafletcher2273 жыл бұрын
Oily
@2thankfulnGrateful3 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@marquelewing1833 жыл бұрын
Seriously 🥺🥺💯💔
@sweetiezoe51277 жыл бұрын
This song speaks volumes to me. Went through this in my marriage. But I found the strength to leave and it was so hard but I made it. I found myself in a relationship with someone who truly cares and I found true love. So the lyrics are so true to life. Anyone going through this don't give up on yourself and accept what's not right for you.
@kondrawest83136 жыл бұрын
CheriCheri thanks this is what I needed I filed for divorce today I'm tired of him mistreating me
@racheldennis57366 жыл бұрын
CheriCheri I sorry babe you all the best as the song said gotta lose to win
@mishkahenry86726 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing.. listened to the song before doing my divorce papers!! And a calmness came over me!
@krystingrant62926 жыл бұрын
My current situation I was so scared. I'm so happy to be free
@akwenisegibson91716 жыл бұрын
I'm here praying for that day when I gather the strength to leave
@joshuamcdowell57829 жыл бұрын
Fantasia needs to do a live album. A live album is long overdue. Fantasia is one of the best live performers of this generation. She commands the stage. She sings with so much passion and soul.
@ISaidiCould9 жыл бұрын
I agree. ... to hear her vocals to a live band! No studio mixes!YEEAAASSS HONEY!
@kaylajohnson50569 жыл бұрын
She does them I went one to one of her concerts and she did this whole album and some of her songs off the second to last album
@joshuamcdowell57829 жыл бұрын
Kayla Johnson Fantasia have never done a live album or a concert DVD
@kaylajohnson50569 жыл бұрын
+Joshua McDowell yea she did
@joshuamcdowell57829 жыл бұрын
Kayla Johnson A regular concert and a live album is the not the same thing
@alyciamichelle51676 жыл бұрын
*Cause when you’ve been broken you feel like no one can fix it.*
@willettdeloatch16535 жыл бұрын
That's me
@lovelock19945 жыл бұрын
My mood now 💔
@shaniecethomas63265 жыл бұрын
It's a Doll's world! I no
@derricktb965 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@_iamshanya_13735 жыл бұрын
TRUEEEE
@CaRoLina-Girl8 ай бұрын
Believe it or not this song helped me get through a heartbreak. I’m winning in 2024❤❤❤
@junniegilchrist80597 ай бұрын
God is good my sister keep smiling and keep the faith
@CaRoLina-Girl7 ай бұрын
@@junniegilchrist8059 ❤️
@naniadennis62687 ай бұрын
Same here
@GeorgetteJohnson-yp2cg7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@antoniowilliams7565 ай бұрын
Definitely possible
@esthersammy32404 жыл бұрын
This song helped me regain my self worth during a toxic 3 year relationship and thank God because you saved my life. Thank you Fantasia
@lakishajohnson1722 жыл бұрын
dealin wit it
@poppagBallZ972 жыл бұрын
@@lakishajohnson172 hopefully you are going to be out of the toxicity 🙏🏾
@twooda14 жыл бұрын
I've lost so much this year, but God is going to help me win again!!!❤
@a_duchess4 жыл бұрын
Yes he will
@marliabrahams38683 жыл бұрын
Yes ma'am.
@memeshindjabuluka45963 жыл бұрын
indeed he wiil.
@reginasecrets54933 жыл бұрын
Amen
@godaboveeverythingfamily7073 жыл бұрын
Be strong
@FullLeeCommittedJones5 жыл бұрын
Shout out to everyone that felt unfixable. It didn't break you it just bent you. Keep winning on purpose!!!!
@straighttalk49885 жыл бұрын
Well said Ms. Jones. Blessings to you🙏🙌🙏
@DJRenee5 жыл бұрын
If I can't say a word I'm just gone wave my 🖐.
@FullLeeCommittedJones5 жыл бұрын
@@straighttalk4988 Blessings to you as well 💜
@FullLeeCommittedJones5 жыл бұрын
@@DJRenee Alright now!!! Amen
@kandypeters70715 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot jones well wishes on ur end too🤗
@justchel106210 ай бұрын
This song gets me so emotional 😢... still listening in 2024.. alot of men hurt some really good women.... the part that hit me was when she said" some of you know what feels like , caught up just in his life font want to try again thinking what's the difference "😢😭
@adoRebelstyle6 жыл бұрын
This lady is anointed.
@sash88433 жыл бұрын
Reading comments and listening to this song at the same time is giving me so much strength to move on from a relationship that is just toxic. You all are motivators.
@marywatkins94382 жыл бұрын
Hope you followed through, honey. Nobody is worth your peace.
@carmenscott5916 Жыл бұрын
So true move on to a better life that worth it.
@jennyhorn7871 Жыл бұрын
I do hope you too you walked away and happy with someone else or with yourself..self-love most Important
@luckeshajohnson8657 Жыл бұрын
Do it better now that later🙏🏽
@nonhlanhlaanelisamokoena8000 Жыл бұрын
Am with you in that
@princessnosa24383 жыл бұрын
Had to give him up 11 years ago after all the beatings and mind games. Left with my pregnancy but today i am healed, have 2 degrees, have a fantastic job and most of all a beautiful son. Sometimes letting go is the best
@lataunyawagoner74143 жыл бұрын
CONGRADS!!!! SMOOCHIES....
@lataunyawagoner74143 жыл бұрын
U SAID THAT PERFECTLY... ONCE AGAIN.... CONGRADS.... SMOOCHIES....
@mstalkatalka-fortheloveofm71902 жыл бұрын
@soleillalune Жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you sistar you are amazing and so strong ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@damainepowell25869 ай бұрын
😔 man dis songs is so powerful ❤
@charmainerolle-hunt98804 жыл бұрын
This song is still hitting me deep in 2020. Know your self worth ladies! Don't be afraid to walk away and leave all the negative behind😢.
Lord knows I needed to hear this song today. Just broke up with a person who I thought really loved and cared for me. It hurts when a relationship that you really want to work out...doesn't. I fought hard for my relationship, but it takes two people to make it work. I know it is going to hurt a while, but it's okay. But like Ms. Amazing Fantasia said, "sometimes you gotta lose to win."
@odysseusscaife10736 жыл бұрын
Mira Kings stay bright the devil gives you perfection but god give you a tought lesson for the next
@agnesbailey72218 жыл бұрын
This is a girl that went through so much and came out on top so proud of her .💔💔💔💔
@madisonshavers64066 жыл бұрын
Love it
@paigerobin80339 ай бұрын
You are a beautiful strong woman I’m old school but I watch Tayler talks yall are awesome keep going god bless your entire family New Orleans 👍Louisiana 🎶🎶🙏🙏
@shaylasmith28907 жыл бұрын
I cry every night over this boy I'm tired of fighting for this relationship😢
@dalenegeorge56836 жыл бұрын
Then stop. Its not worth losing yourself.
@laquashahemphill16836 жыл бұрын
So where are u now?
@virtuouswoman58676 жыл бұрын
Queen i had one to break my heart well shattered me so bad till all i did was dranked myself till the point of no return ...i was finish so o thought but lo and behold God stepped in and changed all tht and that happened to me the year of 2016 i were healed...God put all the pieces of my shattered heart back together...the end of 2016 November the man that did'nt realized that he had a good women came back begging now most well a lot of women know we fall weak but i fell weak to a point...my wall was built thicker than Donald Trump wall😂 but i still talked to him to all alone not wanting to go down that road with him again....i FORGAVE HIM AND NOW TO THIS DAY HE IS MARRIED TO SOMEONE HE IS UNHAPPY WITH BEGGING ME TO COME BACK HOME UMMMM NOPE I TOLD HIM YOU SHOULD HAVE KELPT ME WHEN YOU HAD ME...SORRY NOT SORRY😁😜
@krystingrant62926 жыл бұрын
Then stop. Aftee 4 years I did Thursday I'm scared but I know it's a blessing
@melg31326 жыл бұрын
@@krystingrant6292 it's ok to be scared that can be a good sign you will stick by your decision. If you were numb it might be easy to go back to the situation. Js
@peb66 жыл бұрын
She wrote this for me. Im crying listening to it. I'm at the end of my rope. That's it for me. I've never felt more ugly, unappreciated, unappealing, and unloved in my entire life. I'm going to lose, and hope I win again...
@keishafletcher96765 жыл бұрын
You will win again.
@antoinetterich42285 жыл бұрын
You a strong black woman and you very strong and it a reason why you are going through what ever it is because God have better plan for your life put him first and seek him and watch what happens. God Bless u!!!
@kimduck85875 жыл бұрын
You will get more than you lost.
@janeanfrancois21175 жыл бұрын
We need an update
@anitrapollard75295 жыл бұрын
You've already won.
@qweenb27677 жыл бұрын
When you've been broken you feel like No one can fix it!!! 😞💔😢
@nicolecuff34376 жыл бұрын
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@princewilliams93886 жыл бұрын
Big FACTS but, after listening to this I did!!
@bigtwan8036 жыл бұрын
Nah the right one can always fix it
@Linae6795 күн бұрын
God will fix anything we go through in life and just have to believe keep the faith God bless.❤
@edwinamaxine5575 Жыл бұрын
After all these years,this song still hits differently 😢
@mellery238 жыл бұрын
love this song. i had to get to a place where my focus was loving me more than someone undeserving. letting go never felt so good.
@darealdivaify7 жыл бұрын
I love her so much..This was me..A man can really allow u 2 b scared 2 move on..U will NEVER know what a good man feels like until u had a bad one..God is soooo Good
@ruthporter52606 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Harris-Elbourne so very true!!
@ririgang55616 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Harris-Elbourne amen
@dawnbentley88596 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Harris-Elbourne Amen sista!!
@shemikiaross22686 жыл бұрын
Kimberly I like your statement"You will never know what a good man is until you had a bad one" Amen Amen and I'm still trying to adjust to the wonderful man that I have because he is just that...Wonderful!!!
@nickki_bossbabeforbes18306 жыл бұрын
So true
@sugerbiskits5 жыл бұрын
You can feel the pain and hurt in this song. The passion in her voice and the storyline in her lyrics are unmatched!!!!! LOVE THIS SONG!!!!
@MsTachi6 ай бұрын
This is motivational baby! No matter what you going through..love, grief, loss of a job, financial hardships or health issues. You are going to be ok and going through a trial but you will Win! You gotta lose to win again. I had forgot about this song but found it today. ❤️
@BeautyQueen795 жыл бұрын
Listening to this as I lay in bed in the sleeping arms of a new man that treats me right and reminiscing about hearing this song and crying when I first heard this song 2 years ago that woke me up to leave a guy who was using and disrespecting me. Thanks, Fantasia!
@janae34144 жыл бұрын
This song made me feel better when I wasn't happy with my ex. I moved on and have a new man that is treating me right. We shouldn't settle for less and deserve someone who will treat us better.
@BeautyQueen794 жыл бұрын
Janae Happy for you and so so true! Settling with someone is the worse!
@islandtreasureshopandstraw61574 жыл бұрын
Wow, that is me right now. Every word you said, I felt. Thanks Tasia!!!
@taemason41344 жыл бұрын
Great job girl this song is so moving. Anyone who has been through this will feel this to the core....
@lisab.85208 жыл бұрын
I WENT THROUGH IT, LADIES KEEP YOUR FAITH IN GOD HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH!!!
@carolynmcdowell656 жыл бұрын
Lisa Brockenberry amen
@BMWBOIZ696 жыл бұрын
Lisa Brockenberry And Men!
@Kate-ni2ht2 жыл бұрын
9 years later and this song still speaks to my soul!! 💔
@nswilson54802 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@elizabethedwards4234 Жыл бұрын
For real a positive and powerful song
@sonialoves Жыл бұрын
Same.
@GenovevaHaubas Жыл бұрын
This song 😢I lose to win
@huguettejean-ndongo90109 ай бұрын
This song came out finding me going through an ugly divorce. At the time, I thought my life was over because I had given that son of a B 15 years of my life just to end up in divorce court. I did nothing but cry and be bitter at the whole world. My sister sent it to me one night. It spoke to my soul, and I knew I was losing at that moment, but I'd win again. God is good. A year later, I met my now husband, who treats me like I'm the only woman in the world. We are preparing to celebrate 6 years of marriage in 20 days!! 🎉I won again❤..thx babes❤❤
@TheLadyzanetta8 ай бұрын
Ain't GOD good.... I'm celebrating the same. Thank GOD for giving beauty for ashes, my beloved sis.... I wish you all the happiness.
@problems97392 жыл бұрын
This made me understand my wife’s feeling . This song made me break down . We almost separated w 3 kids . That was 3 years ago . We’re better than ever . When I see Fantasia I wanna thank her so much .
@deepdarkcocoa79562 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. We living in some sad times. And people need to realize we don't have long on this earth, so whoever you're with, stick it out. Because it's even sadder when you're in this crazy world alone. Peace and blessings. May God continue to bless you and your wife.
@phoneiciatolmaire9952 жыл бұрын
So a song helped you understand someone else's feelings when if you as a person should have been more concerned with her emotional well-being before you even stepped your foot out the door to think about marriage .🤔
@romeocooper6216 Жыл бұрын
My husband (i'm on his phone) just stormed out
@problems9739 Жыл бұрын
@@phoneiciatolmaire995 I’m still happily married ( 21 years ) Sooooo what were you saying ?? Bet your not married . Get off KZbin and go find love .
@jessicaerby4861 Жыл бұрын
@@problems9739 I’m so glad that you fought for your wife and your marriage! This world tell men and women it’s ok to give up everyday!… if they aren’t happy or just feel like it anymore and the best one do what’s best for you movement 🤦🏽♀️ me and my husband are separated right now his choice and when I saw your comment I broke down because where most ppl see this song as saying it’s ok to walk away I see it as you did. Stay fight and sometimes you have to lose to win your marriage again! Blessing to you and your family❤
@kalibeckles8 жыл бұрын
this song really makes me cry cause it hits home its like she got in my head !
@ladydread9228 жыл бұрын
yes yes yes same here
@nataliewalker13817 жыл бұрын
This song is so true
@MeekeeKobellaDrNP2 жыл бұрын
2022 Fantasia, this song is the only thing that speaks to my heart during these trying times. Thank You, from the bottom of my heart!!!!
@ramondeerr365610 ай бұрын
March 2024, here listening with tears rolling down my face.
@maraxcellent49119 ай бұрын
I hope things get better.❤
@delisa4925 жыл бұрын
This song help me broke up with with my boyfriend after 7 years cause I know I could do better and I did 😍😍😍
@FullLeeCommittedJones4 жыл бұрын
Proud of you sis
@ronitaboatwright98954 жыл бұрын
I need that courage 😥🤷🤦
@sgl2k1754 жыл бұрын
Don’t u want to be with him no matter what
@Kaliiiibby4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
@akaliabrooks1524 жыл бұрын
@@sgl2k175 don't you ever think back you made a choice a decision dont you for that
@tileartist595 жыл бұрын
Most underrated video out there... her voice is full of power and angelic... take us to church my Queen (Quite Unique in Every Essence of Nature)
@antoniob60566 жыл бұрын
Black queen priceless 💎💎💎💎💎
@nidolpompey7375 жыл бұрын
I really like the song
@straighttalk49885 жыл бұрын
YES. YES. YES. 🙌👑🙌
@nirikabartley7644 Жыл бұрын
I heard this song for the first time live last night. She song her heart out in this song, touched me and my fiancé’s heart. She even started crying while singing it. Such a beautiful song, sung by a beautiful soul❤
@JolisaBlount-l3f Жыл бұрын
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@shadinkins8455 Жыл бұрын
are yall still together?
@librasoknowsbestlibra8 жыл бұрын
loose to win is the definition of my life! when you behold something and you don't appreciate it , you shall loose it! however with strength and beauty this graceful warrior will win again!
@PLAYDIRTY100010 жыл бұрын
Talk about it Fanny. I didn't lose a thing...I just got rid of the loser. I was the fool for awhile, but the joker played his hand one too many times. My heart is full of joy now that I that fool is out of my life. Time healed all those scars. He now realize what he lost and that he can never get it back. He had the nerve to ask me if we could give it another chance and my response was "There is no chance in hell that I would ever take you back." I did thank him for opening my eyes so that I could see that I was too good for him. All I have to say is I am smiling now. GOD IS GOOD!
@MarieBai10 жыл бұрын
God is great! Good for you my dear
@vsophia868910 жыл бұрын
That's how I feel but it's hard in the beginning to not go back but I always knew what was up but I thought things would change but no more boo boo the fools here
@donnikaedmonds688910 жыл бұрын
Marie Bai
@MaarriMaarie10 жыл бұрын
I love ❤ this sonnng 🎅 loose to win 🏆 fall down 👇 but get on up 👆
@tabsperspective282510 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I just cut a loser off too! I'm so tired of and I'm so much better than mind games!
@msamaye24 жыл бұрын
2021 and this is still beautiful. Fantasia is definitely winning now. Blessings to her, hubby, and the new baby💜. I’m looking forward to my own winning that’s coming. 😊
@shenekaamerson89683 жыл бұрын
Claim it🙏🏾
@michaellamount60722 жыл бұрын
😌Hi💜😎🌷🔥♥️♥️😍💖💖
@simonegordon60042 жыл бұрын
2022 and it sounds so new and fresh. Cheers to the queen.
@andrebutler13712 жыл бұрын
@@simonegordon6004 you deserve it more than anyone
@eugeniafields79012 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you Fantasia.
@nolimitkk27156 ай бұрын
I don’t care what anyone says, this song is a GOSPEL song, nothing but a WORD..
@jewelwebb21414 ай бұрын
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@debrasharp53013 ай бұрын
YES IT IS🙏🏾🙏🏾
@AphiweNodada-zw7pwАй бұрын
Gospel according to R n B
@shenizaphillips43837 жыл бұрын
i really love this song who still listening to this ☝☝☝☝☝🙋🙌🙆
@pyschonashe2106 жыл бұрын
Sheniza Phillips meh
@cassandramozley78586 жыл бұрын
Sheniza Phillips I do
@lyndonwilliams52156 жыл бұрын
That really real
@boycesheldon93936 жыл бұрын
Me and u😍
@daynacox81596 жыл бұрын
Sheniza Phillips me it is a really nicr song
@claresamorris67316 жыл бұрын
2019 I'm Still Enjoying this Song.I 💘 this Song.a Beautiful Masterpiece.
@Exotic_pet_company4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the brightest light comes from the darkest places.
@sabrenathompsonАй бұрын
Underrated artist and song.
@nurturingresiliencemahalia42334 жыл бұрын
Honestly can't stop commenting, just so proud to be black
@kailawiltshire9453 жыл бұрын
Its true girl
@jainabrown34553 жыл бұрын
Same ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
@shenellephillip3 жыл бұрын
✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
@Arnoldman-ep9gw14 күн бұрын
Being black is overrated
@Exotic_pet_company4 жыл бұрын
This song actually helped me let someone go. We weren’t right for one another... life’s too short not be honest with yourself
@Biddie742 жыл бұрын
Big facts
@phoneiciatolmaire9952 жыл бұрын
So a song helped you see red flags that you as a person could've spotted yourself yea ur weird🤧😶🤔
@ezzylafaith1100 Жыл бұрын
So true ❤❤
@kenhymarmitchel6368 Жыл бұрын
@@phoneiciatolmaire995don’t judge. Sometimes songs, videos, a book or even someone you speak to cam open your eyes to many things.
@makyahhairston28278 жыл бұрын
Still listening to this song in 2016 but I still love it
@georgewingo78388 жыл бұрын
but.
@gilberthawkins1247 жыл бұрын
Makyah Hairston 2017 im still listening
@joycecunningham87857 жыл бұрын
Makyah Hairston listening in 2017
@NamesRissa5 ай бұрын
The "Nightshift" sample is giving!! Huge Commodoer's fan. Love finding gems like this
@Saindran24 ай бұрын
😂 I was waiting for " Nightshift " Can't beat the music of the 80's!
@SleazzyM8 жыл бұрын
I love Fantasia, she's my favorite idol winner of all time!
@beckyswagged88508 жыл бұрын
Fantasia is a very talented singer!
@MsEccentriK8 жыл бұрын
What you said!👏👏👏
@amarehall6898 жыл бұрын
she my girl
@jaydajones238 жыл бұрын
right
@amarehall6898 жыл бұрын
Shut up reset
@beccag.34111 жыл бұрын
I totally understand the lyrics of this song... If a relationship is falling apart at it's seams but you're in so deep (you love too deep, too much; too strong,) that it requires more than yourself to do what you know is best, sometimes you just have to take courage within yourself, and dig deep and find that courage to lose and let go of what you truly want, know or have grown too familiar with (the two of you,), to give that person time to truly reflect on what he's really not been appreciating. It's a big risk and a gamble at times knowing you want to salvage things and/or that your heart is still very much in it. But sometimes it may just be exactly what is needed or required "to win" (-win in the sense of either to win it all back and things turn out as you originally desired; you guys being together and you are better appreciated, or to 'win' in the sense of having found your inner strength to realize your inner worth and walk away knowing fully within your self and with the positive and right self concept that you TRUELY DESERVE Better and ought to be treated better than that. So you wake up from the lie and illusion of the situation in the present relationship, to truth that you are worth it, can start a new beginning, and you don't have to accept the BS, and you are/become/ end-up stronger for it in the end.)
@lanekastokes763410 жыл бұрын
Wow this is so real.. You said a lot..
@youiloves124210 жыл бұрын
Yes, so true
@beccag.34110 жыл бұрын
I totally honestly love this track; it's raw truth and it gets you at the core (-speaking for myself included)...
@JeannieTurner-s5u Жыл бұрын
❤
@Sharie142 жыл бұрын
This song opened my eyes and helped me to make a decision to leave someone toxic and no good for me. It motivated me to move on from him because I deserved way better and he was not worth it. Thank you Fantasia. I had to lose to win again.
@phoneiciatolmaire9952 жыл бұрын
So a song helped you realized that you had been abandoning your own emotional-well being and probably physical too for a person just a person just like you .🤔🤧
@NANCYNA-h5e2 жыл бұрын
@@phoneiciatolmaire995 Learn to mind your business . Why are you replying and judging people ?
@queenalex7827 Жыл бұрын
@@phoneiciatolmaire995 so this comment section made you realize how miserable you are in life and how talking shi makes you feel better? 😅🤬🙄
@elizabethedwards4234 Жыл бұрын
You comes first
@Ken_ci_ya Жыл бұрын
Who's still here in 2024❤
@latanyaebanks911811 ай бұрын
Meeeee🎉🎉
@lindafoster218911 ай бұрын
I’m still presence
@mlle_b398211 ай бұрын
meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
@tabathamiller-fd2hk11 ай бұрын
Meeeeee
@claron.brendon11 ай бұрын
MEEEEEE
@sohnleewalker86536 жыл бұрын
"Maybe it a take someone else, to show me better. But I don't wanna leave you". 😥🤧😩😭😢🤞 Felt that part in my soul. And that entire last verse. 🤧🤧🤧😢
@hibiscuscumberbatch1834 жыл бұрын
And as she sang that verse, I was readying this comment..on God.double shocking to my gut!!
@jamacierodney24968 жыл бұрын
Sometimes you gotta lose to win 💜💜
@daday87357 жыл бұрын
She's very beautiful 💜
@andremcdavid85156 жыл бұрын
Yes
@towandalee61576 жыл бұрын
My aunt
@paulinekoster74386 жыл бұрын
UI h
@AkajouIsReal Жыл бұрын
Dope song written by Andrea Martin, I can hear her in the background vocals. A legend! RIP Andrea!
@felicityntanjana55748 жыл бұрын
fucken one of the dopest tracks of her_this women is real, i love her!!!
@amandablair8158 жыл бұрын
real talk
@jamyajordan94347 жыл бұрын
felicity ntanjana that right
@haveaniceday16925 жыл бұрын
Thank You God for being there and when i feel like i lost ,You are making it work together for my good.
@solitairedoll3 жыл бұрын
She used that “Night Shift” sample in the RIGHT way! Love Fantasia so much ♥️
@tamekavaughn86332 жыл бұрын
Yep for sure
@Outre7 Жыл бұрын
Exactly..lol..on tha nightshift
@PulaneMokgele-t2l Жыл бұрын
True....👌
@bethannpinto3029 Жыл бұрын
Was awesome though, she appreciates the classics ❤
@britanniabritneymerritt40784 ай бұрын
Who’s here in September 2024?
@irocquealfred762 ай бұрын
October 2024
@jonellet2952 ай бұрын
November 2024
@jennifercruz44994 жыл бұрын
I remember listening to this song again and again after my ex got married behind my back apparently it was an arranged marriage. I did everything gave everything to this person there wasn't anything I wouldn't do. After I left I honestly thought I would never find anyone ever ever again I was emotionally traumatized but after some 2 years of healing and getting my shit together and working on myself a beautiful man from the inside and out truly showed me what true love really means and I can say I'm happily married now have been for 3 months..this song has truth sometimes we don't know in that moment why bad stuff or people in our lives are being so shitty always know you deserve love. never settle for less and that there is AlWAYS light at the end of that tunnel Always!!!
@almightywallace3 жыл бұрын
Sorry hope yu find love again
@jennifercruz44993 жыл бұрын
@@almightywallace I have I'm a happily married woman my our one year anniversary is coming up soon
@almightywallace3 жыл бұрын
That wonderful new I wish yu the best yur story touch me I know what yur going through
@jennifercruz44993 жыл бұрын
@@almightywallace thank you so much 😊 I hope your heart heals soon cry if you need to cry but don't keep crying being sad because my dear life is too short to be living life in sadness I hope you have family and friends who love you and support you I promise you will be okay and you will come out stronger and wiser you're special person is out there waiting for you
@almightywallace3 жыл бұрын
Thank yu
@kentonscott22044 жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter how old this sound is, once u get your heartbroken and u listen it, it’s like she’s speaking to you😩some word of advice👌
@tabathastaples78844 жыл бұрын
Shepherd's Chapel Network !!!!!!! Pastor Murray is an Anointed Servant of GOD who teaches the Word of GOD with Authority!!!!!!!
@nicketathompson77993 жыл бұрын
True
@shelishawilliams65363 жыл бұрын
First time I felt a man and felt for lies and lust from him I final getting over him. If only I can face the truth that I still love him.
@melanieharp76333 жыл бұрын
Very true in 2022
@lifetime23707 жыл бұрын
I just never thought I leave but I was forced to being neglected so long i was breaking my own heart
@tgalloway84616 жыл бұрын
Well said
@krystingrant62926 жыл бұрын
Same. It's time for better you deserve it.
@nyashawilliams-gj5ht9 ай бұрын
Went chu hell with my child father ... now I'm 10 times more happier with someone else i prayed for ❤❤❤❤I'm inlove ♥️
@CowboySunday9 ай бұрын
J Cole love yours ❤❤❤
@simonechippy65423 жыл бұрын
2021 still here this deserve over a billion views
@kevjones20054 жыл бұрын
This song touches my soul before it reaches my ears
@jolainedecoste46864 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@darnellgraham20563 жыл бұрын
Straight up bro 💯💯
@patriceWilliams69699 жыл бұрын
No one is loyal and faithful anymore ......sometimes it better to be alone .
@shannonglynice11429 ай бұрын
A M E N❣️ Ain't nobody got time for all that lying, cheating & drama. Give it to God & consecrate yourself. The sanctuary of solitude with Him is so serene & satisfying. He is all you will ever need. The One true soul mate. 🎚️🕎✡️😇🙌
@NYCVocaldrama7 ай бұрын
What a powerful message.
@delldior72784 жыл бұрын
Never felt so ugly, Pretending that he loves me Sometimes it's just that money, Never had to afford me Now I'm sick and tired of You, just taken right off Know when I forgive you You ain't here for dinner Like I'm a beginner, I loved you for your inner, inner, inner And the next guy is out there Somewhere, But you won't dare, 'cause you're too scared Have you ever Needed someone so bad? But he ain't willing to make it last Sometimes you gotta lose to win again. If it makes you cry, cry, cry And all you do is fight Can't get no sleep at night? Sometimes you gotta lose to win again. Ever felt this sorry? All you did was worry You didn't want nobody, Thought it would get better But it's fallen more than Oh it's fallen more than Ever I just hoped that we would 'Cause you're always up to no good Maybe it'll take someone else, To show me better But I don't wanna leave ya Oh, ey Have you ever Needed someone so bad? But he ain't willing to make it last Sometimes you gotta lose to win again. If it makes you cry, cry, cry And all you do is fight Can't get no sleep at night? Sometimes you gotta lose to win again. Some of you know what it feels like Caught up just in his light Don't wanna try again, thinking what's the difference? Why am I not interested? 'Cause when you've been broken, you feel like no one can fix it Yeah Have you ever Needed someone so bad? But he ain't willing to make it last Sometimes you gotta lose to win again (Win again) (Oh and if it makes you cry) If it makes you cry, cry, cry 'Cause all you do is fight Can't get no sleep at night? Sometimes you gotta lose To win again Oh, sometimes you got to lose, You got to lose, to win again, yeah Have you ever Needed someone so bad? (Have you ever?) To make it last Sometimes you gotta lose To win again.
@TyrekGSilasAE4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the lyrics 👌👍
@mandasedway81153 жыл бұрын
Wowwwwww
@lily23durant663 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@bostontraxler10363 жыл бұрын
Life is what it is sweet 💙. And then we learn. We still here. See the 💡