Minimalist Baby Essentials- Baby Checklist

[@Colley_co]

I’m not even pregnant and I feel overwhelmed by how expensive society makes everything be, especially having babies! But you make it so much more relaxing and attainable, thank you for sharing.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Definitely doesn't have to be expensive! Congrats!!

[@iXoXoMaddi]

Ashley Colley that’s why people complain and say they don’t want kids, cause they’re „too expensive“. I even was reading in a forum that they bought a new, bigger car so the stroller could fit in. Wow 🤦🏻‍♀️😅

[@TS-tv2ik]

Amen!! Thank you.

[@mariakara2419]

agreed! my sister is having her first baby in 3 weeks. i’m finally going to be an aunt!! :)

[@angelascott8173]

@@mariakara2419 Being an aunt is great. I was an aunt when I was born, a great aunt at 23 and a great great aunt at 47.

[@micaelameister]

This is the first "minimalist baby essentials" video I've seen that is ACTUALLY minimal!! Thank you so much. This was super helpful!

[@strawburybounce]

Im expecting my second and Im so glad I found this video. I was on a budget and short on space with my first and I found that my baby list was a lot like yours, no crib, no changing table, etc. I loved multitasking items so I would use my exercise ball to bounce on with baby (instead of a glider), changed baby on the couch/bed/floor with receiving blankets underneath, used a soup thermos filled with hot water as a bottle warmer, and a $7 shower caddy as a diaper caddy that I could move around the house. A baby bath sponge and an inch of water in the tub meant I didnt need a big ol baby bath either. Before baby could roll, he was swaddled in a laundry basket and I would bring him inside the bathroom while I showered lol. My parents thought that was strange lol but it works fine. Moms are so creative and we dont need a million things. As long as baby is fed, safe, and comfortable they will be ok

[@jessicas5381]

Love this

[@ashleynikolenko]

Great idea with laundry basket

[@valisesgourmandises2571]

Absolutely love this too! I'm 9 weeks pregnant tomorrow and live in a one-bedroom apartment. I want to own as few items as possible and thought I needed a changing table, but happy to know I don't! Just wondering if there's no crib, where do you put the baby down for its nap? I actually found gorgeous second-hand woven baskets for around €20 and thought of using that, which you can move around and even bring to outings since we don't own a car and won't be using a car seat! 🤗

[@strawburybounce]

Valises & Gourmandises for naps, I primarily used a kid size Japanese floor futon that my mom has from when I was a baby. Some other ideas are a pack-n-play (great for travel, folds compact for storage, and you can purchase a mattress separately to make it more comfy), a memory foam kitchen mat (you can roll it up after youre done with naps!), baby swing (not necessary but we got one used from a friend) and your bed. A basket is great idea while your baby is still small. After my son gained the ability to roll over, I felt more comfortable placing baby in my bed (peel back your blankets and sheets so baby isnt surrounded by fluffy items) since it is low to the ground and placed body pillows around him as a barrier. This second time around, I will be using a secondhand dock-a-tot for naps and co-sleeping and the pack-n-play. Prob will still utilize the floor for naptime as well. Do what you feel is comfortable and safe for your baby. Congrats on your pregnancy!

[@strawburybounce]

Valises & Gourmandises and absolutely dont need a changing table! I don’t even know why people make them a “musthave” item. Towel/receiving blanket/anything washable that you can spread out underneath is enough to absorb any accidents if they occur. You can easily add them to your wash and it gives you the freedom to change baby anywhere in their house. Most babies have at least a few poop explosions where their backs and onesies get soiled so I wouldnt want to change baby on a precious mat. Just an old towel will do and then immediately into the wash lol!

[@i.destiny]

Glad I saw this...totally deleting a quarter of my registry. I live in a 1 bedroom apartment and I want the baby in my room for at least the first year. Definitely don't want all the extra toys, gadgets and clutter.

[@roxannesantos8918]

I DESTINY theidestiny the american pediatrics association recommendations for Safesleep is at 6-12 mon in your room (not necessarily your bed). and if you think about it you can guess that this is how its done in most countries around the world. a "baby room" is an invention of high income families in the western world

[@fearkzockers8412]

Thanks

[@elzatabi6358]

@@roxannesantos8918 thanks

[@rachellecastorillo7282]

I DESTINY theidestiny my babies are 3 and 1 and they both still end up sleeping in our bed and either I or my partner end up sleeping in their room 😂 or we all just still sleep in one bed most days. Definitely never bought a changing table.

[@NeverStopLovingMe]

First baby checklist I've watched at 20 weeks pregnant and I'm not gonna watch any more :) I'm expecting my first so it's all very confusing, but as we get ready for her we found ourselves decluttering the whole apartment like crazy! I'd love to stay clutter free with baby as well, and I figured that I won't need too much, but your tips are incredibly helpful and reassuring!

[@taratroy3826]

I’m 31 and having surprise baby #1! I find clutter so stressful. All my previous baby shower experiences and Pinterest lists of baby gear had me absolutely terrified! I can’t tell you how your videos have calmed my fears and made me more confident as a soon to be mom. Everything about your ideologies feel so close to how I didn’t even know I felt - until I heard you say them! You really lifted a huge weight off my shoulders and now I’m obsessed with all your videos! 😭 bless you minimal mom- you’ve gained a truly sincere fan!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Aw! Thank you so much! I am so glad my videos are inspiring you :)

[@RIRaclaU]

I love how practical you are! I was looking for someone who can tell me what essentials are actually essential! Thank you for this video!

[@MizzC625]

I'm scared to ask my parents what "essentials" that had back in the 80s...the pointless essentials that are on some of these moms list is out of control. Thank you! This gave me such relief.

[@maghouinbeg5011]

One essential for me was a lingerie laundry bag for the breast pads. We had a front loader washing machine, and the breast pads were thin enough to slip out of the drum and get caught up in the mechanism of the machine. But even with a top loader, it would be useful to have a laundry bag to put little things in to keep them together and prevent them from getting lost.

[@curriesis3]

So smart. So simple. So awesome. I so wish moms would realize all that they DON'T need. It just makes their lives so much more simple. Hugs from Maine.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Exactly Lisa! Completely agree. :)

[@jenniferwilliams906]

I agree. A lot of the items for babies are a marketing strategy to get parents to buy for their babies... and it works because we all want the best for our baby. Get items that can be used now and as your baby grows older. I think it's best to save the earth and your pocketbook.

[@u03agc4]

At last, an essentials list that is actually minimal and not full of gadgets! This is what we're planning for our little one in June and I'm so glad to hear that we will get by just fine with this list.

[@Joseph-c1w]

I love how straightforward she is, and yes all the other stuff we as moms buy it’s just because we think it’s so adorable but we don’t NEED them.

[@SJ8997]

Just found this by chance and it's by far my most favourite baby essentials list! I'm due in April with my first and have found this so reassuring that I don't 'need' all the recommended latest gadgets. Thank you!

[@redbone1286]

SJ Wood congrats ! My niece or nephew due in April and I’m due in May

[@medharai1151]

I'm due in April too with my first. 😍

[@RaybRay89]

Thanks for this! I am having by first baby, and people seem to think my low-key/minimalist approach isn't doable. I find it practical and calming! After years of taking care of other people's babies, I really want to keep the environment efficient and enjoyable.

[@abigailjones2365]

Expecting my second baby in January, and this video just brought so much joy to my soul! I tried to be minimal with our first, but really didn't know how to stand up against the societal norms for what was important to me. Thank you for being positive and sweet while holding fast to the standards that are important to you and your family!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Awe this is so encouraging! Never be afraid to go a different route because what’s right of other people’s families doesn’t mean it’s right for you!

[@powerpuffgirlsfan2446]

I am so grateful for your authenticity. My kids are 15 and 17 and they co-slept for at least a year when they were born. I love the comments too. So nice! Love your vibe.😁

[@brandi580]

Babies don't really need a whole lot. Just something to eat, something to keep warm with, something to potty in, and somewhere to sleep. What that looks like will vary depending on the family, but that's about it as far as needs. And a car seat. Everything else is extra 😉 I do like to have a swing just so I can do other things without baby (like take a shower) and baby is safe. I also like to have something handmade for each baby, those things are just special to have. We are expecting our 7th due in April. The only thing we're buying for baby is some new cloth diapers, because after 6 babies, you can imagine how worn some of our diapers are.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Totally agree Brandi! Someone else mentioned a bouncer or swing for them to sit in while you're taking a shower. That's a good point!

[@carmenc4926]

Brandi I’m also due in April, but this will be my first. I’m cloth diapering with prefolds/fitteds and covers mostly. I can’t wait to start that journey. I had a hard time with my registry because I felt so pressured to have certain things and in the end I ended up with a few key pieces for each category you mentioned. We’re not co-sleeping so we added a rock and play for the newborn stage. We still don’t have a crib but if we get one hope to find one our baby can grow with (convertible into twin hopefully). I live in a small house so we’re aiming for minimalism for space saving mostly. I’m still working on overcoming the clutter we have with just two adults and 3 pets.

[@megancoker6598]

Where do you get your cloth diapers from

[@emilymiller1787]

The Defono brand muslin burp cloths that I bought on Amazon, very soft and breathable. I used to wash my baby.

[@emilymiller1787]

​@@megancoker6598I use the Defono brand Burp Cloths that I bought on Amazon to treat it as cloth diaper.

[@Breannafaith95]

I’m a young mom of almost 2, you really DO NOT have to spend tons of money. I don’t even work. Babies do not have to be ridiculous expensive if you don’t want them to be.

[@ThisBraveHeart]

Agree!

[@theunscriptedsuccessstory8898]

I went baby shopping with my mom for my first and it was the best thing I ever did. She was able to tell me how much I really needed and it turns out it wasn’t much at all. Great video.

[@cheryljohnston8687]

Having my third child now and I always thought cloth diapers would be too much work for me to keep up with. But now thanks to your suggestion I think my husband and I can handle it. Thanks a lot. You just saved us hundreds of dollars.

[@ciannacoleman5125]

I have no plans of having kids for at least a few years but I love watching videos like this to reinforce my idea that a ton of stuff is not necessary for babies. Thank you

[@jeanne_guitton]

After I was done with family planning, I recently found out I'm pregnant again, and I will admit I freaked out a little. More stress, more clutter, less time... This video was so calming and really grounded my stressed-out mind :-). Glad I remembered you made this. Thanks so much!

[@lanalyamin1199]

I realized the more kids you have the more you realize how little "stuff" you really need..

[@mamabearjones5968]

lana lyamin so true! 😅 I’m due with my third in May, all girls! Literally the only thing we have bought is a mini crib because new big sister will only be 16 months old and not ready to give hers up, but both will convert to toddler beds then regular beds so they will last. Other than that we are a proud hand-me-down family! Other than that we already have everything we could want/need for a baby and even that is basic! My only absolute MUST HAVE is an automatic rock and play. Worth its weight in gold!

[@lanalyamin1199]

MamaBear Jones right???? I'm due in 2 weeks with #4 lol the only thing I bought so far was nb diapers and wipes lol still have everything left over from my 18m daughter.. my stroller has a bassinet attachment so we have that plus a bouncer.. and when my daughter gets a little older we will transition her from her crib to big girl bed this summer.. some outfits might be out of season but that's minor details imo o and some of my friends chipped in and got me a new Miss Fong diaper bag and bath towel and reusable baby food pouches lol

[@babyim-baaqeel6342]

So as an experienced mom, should I go all out on my baby registry or just streamline it to be more minimalistic? First time mum here.

[@randimatthews8092]

this is my first and i've been down sizing myself for a year.. now im 24 weeks pregnant and dont really want to have a house FULL of pointless baby stuff. I just want what i need because as a single mother it will make my life so much easier.

[@xradelox]

Let people know you're wanting to have just the few items that you actually need and you don't want anything else (it doesn't matter if THEY think you need it) and just tell them what you really need is cash. Then you can buy what you need and have savings left over for baby.

[@phenomenalgirl]

I was a minimalist with my babies too and it drove my siblings and extended family crazy. They wanted to give us so much stuff. One of the items I really loved is a sleep sack for winter when they outgrow swaddling and want their arms free. I like the Aidan & Anais muslin version. Each wash makes it softer.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

I will check those out. I do like the Aidan and Anais brand. :)

[@hannahscott6604]

phenomenalgrl -- I know I’ll be minimalist when I have children and I know it’ll drive my parents bananas.

[@emilymiller1787]

I do like the Defono brand.

[@ehunter9635]

LOVE this! My husband and I like to keep things minimal and I’ll be delivering our first baby tomorrow(!). I’m so happy to hear your positive review on the Solly Baby as I have one waiting and ready to use!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Oh my goodness tomorrow?! Congrats! That is so exciting! I already busted out the Solly Baby yesterday for our first outing and it was perfect. :)

[@ehunter9635]

Farmhouse on Boone Thank you! Hoping to go into labor naturally of course, otherwise induced this week. Just found out may not be tomorrow but definitely this week before Friday (when turning 42 weeks). I’m so ready!!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

I hope all goes well!

[@kori_in_the_spotlight]

I’m a novice minimalist we bought a very small house and have 2 boys. We are having our third. And I HATE THINGS laying around everywhere we just don’t have the space and CLUTTER it stresses me out sooo much. I told everyone not to get me toys and a ton of baby gadgets for this baby because we can’t store it and I don’t want to store it I want to be clutter free, baby will just need me for first 6 mos as you said. So one bouncer a carrier car seat stroller we did bye a cosleeper bed and the rest we get as needed I feel so less stressed with this baby then first two. As I said learning to simplify and be minimalist and hoping to get my husband on board but I feel so great about it 😊 thank you for this video

[@sophiagray3191]

By far the best baby essentials video I have come across. Simple, affordable and sustainable, thank you for sharing your experience as a mom of five!

[@emilybach]

We live in a travel trailer and for our 3rd (and now 4th) child we used a travel bassinet that folds up for the first couple of months since we don't co-sleep and then a pack and play until they outgrow it (between 16-18 months old for my kiddos). It has worked out so well for us. We've never owned a changing table or regular crib and our babies have never had their own room where they didn't share with siblings. We buy only one car seat for each child (so no infant seat) and babywear the littlest one until they graduate to riding in the cart. We have one baby seat so that the baby can watch his siblings play and sit up a little for a change of scenery. Also recently discovered the extra large muslin swaddle blankets and they are amazing! They function as my nursing cover, floor mat for tummy time, travel blanket in the car, and of course a swaddle.

[@shannonfoster5509]

I wonder if you've ever heard of using a floor bed (a mattress on the floor) rather than a crib. Keeps things even more minimal and helps develop independence! You can maybe google Montessori floor bed for some inspiration and the reasons behind it. Cloth diapering is super!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

I haven't heard of that.

[@pinds83]

Yes! I'm pregnant with my first and my husband and I plan on purchasing a Sprout Kids floor bed for our little one.

[@leenoah1505]

The best use I found for the flannel swaddle blankets was to cut them up and use them as washcloths for diapering. Thank you so much for sharing all of your insights! There is so much marketing that tells mamas that they have to have all this gear. I always remember the very, very long period of time time that humans were having babies before the industrial revolution and realize that less is more.

[@fuckthesystem2590]

You're awesome. Everyone keeps telling me "You need more THINGS." When I ask what they suggest either they're unsure or list a slew of random "things" that sound more like a waste of money and clutter to make me anxious.

[@cherahsBroll]

This is *_JUST_* what I was looking for. I’ve always hated the idea of a room-full of stuff you won’t even use after 6 or so months. I’m so excited to get pregnant! Lol

[@mamabearjones5968]

I’m due with my third girl in May! Literally the only thing we have bought for her is a mini crib, because the new big sister will only be 16 months old and not ready to give hers up! But both will convert to toddler beds then regular beds so they will get their use! And a double stroller, second hand $100. We also cloth diaper, which will come in handy with two in diapers. And plan on nursing. Babies really don’t need much BUT I will say the automatic rock and play is a MUST HAVE. Such a life saver!

[@katieness7071]

I appreciate your video. I'm a minimalist and have been a bit freaked out by everything people say you "need" to buy for baby. This being my first pregnancy, people share a lot of advice. People often don't understand my minimalist philosophy to begin with, so when you add baby into the mix, people think I'm crazy to want so few items. Your video is reassuring and helpful. Thank you for sharing.

[@foragingfootprints6509]

I am right on board with you, such a simple list thank you. With regards to the high chair my preference is the bumbo with insert and tray which changes for size, is so good at holding them up and then works as a booster seat in the car once they are out of the car seat. My first son and I did a lot of little road trips and I could easily carry it around anywhere and we could just pull over for picnics and he always had a secure spot to sit. Thank you for all your knowledge.

[@cassandralawrence7281]

Great baby list! As a soon to be mom of two I definitely feel like we had so much stuff the first time around! I would just remind cloth diapering moms to never put the microfibre against babies skin, as it’s really bad directly on their skin.. stick to cotton, bamboo, hemp, etc :)

[@jadebethj4807]

I hoard and own thousands of books. I won't get rid of them! But evening else I want to cut down and minimalize. My baby is due in 2019. So I'm hoping to glean all I can in getting exactly what I need. This is a great video!

[@jadebethj4807]

this is so funny because i've sense gotten rid of many of my books. And now I'm about to have my second baby and i can use most of the stuff from my previous pregnancy/infant but i want to cut down on everything else i need to buy

[@bethleblanc6522]

Thank you SO much, Lisa!! I'm pregnant with my first and always find your videos calming, encouraging, and majorly inspiring!

[@viviantoci5543]

Co-sleeping is the best! And so appreciate the cloth diaper recommendation.

[@kristenmartin137]

I'm about to be a first-time mom and have been looking all over for advice about what I'll REALLY need (I'm a minimalist), I've also been searching for the best affordable cloth diapers and this is by far the most helpful video I've come across - I love you by now! I feel that every single thing I've been wondering about has been answered! THANK YOU!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Congrats on the new baby coming! 😊

[@ValOjeahHtown]

I agree with you on the zippers. and we didn't cosleep, our baby stayed with in her crib from the first day we got back from the hospital and it definitely helped cos she started sleeping through the night at 3 months. 12 hours long sleep. super appreciative

[@barbarawoodsjean1741]

Val Ojeah n

[@alexistrotty9201]

I needed this. This is my third baby and I am just beyond overwhelmed. I’m 35 weeks and have not purchased one thing to avoid overspending.

[@allisonbutler7168]

I am pregnant with my 4th and this is definitely my goal ! We are cloth diapering and definably going minimal with gear!

[@dorikahcooper2377]

I have watched tons of minimalist baby essentials and this video really does fit the title. Thank you for this video💕

[@prescillagcon]

I wished I’d watched this sooner! I’m a first time mom due in 5 weeks and clutter stresses me out. When I saw how much baby stuff I need I got overwhelmed! I’ve also de cluttered and donated clothes. I got it down to very minimal. Skipping crib and got the bassinet/co-sleeper/playard in one instead and going Montessori method from there (floor bed). Skipped infant car seat because I’m petite and on a skinny side and worried I won’t be able to carry the car seat for when he gets heavier anyways. Not buying clothes because I’m pretty sure we’ll get a lot from baby shower. 😱 and probably just go from there. 😁 watching this video made me feel like I’m on the right track!

[@babybluehashyo]

Second time mom soon. I completely agree with all of this, but it's always nice to check other people's opinions especially with such small lists you feel like you're missing something when you're not lol. My first never liked soothers and didn't like swaddling so swings were a must for me because the only other thing that soothed him was being held and/or nursed, but that's all I would change. I wish I had cloth diapered him but maybe I will be able to with this baby. Great video

[@SG-wu8eh]

I’ve been a minimalist for a few years now. It’s one of the best things I’ve ever done. I pregnant now with my first and I’ve been stressing over what I’ll need. I definitely don’t want to go overboard or not get enough. It’s so hard to know with your first. Thank you SO MUCH for this video.

[@christinapaulin1692]

As an old Mum of 6 and now Granny to 7 your list is great. I love that you are thinking of your baby and other little ones and keeping things simple. Bless you all at this wonderful time. I am looking forward to meeting your newest addition.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you so much Christina! Sounds like you have a lot of experience with babies. :)

[@christinapaulin1692]

Haha the thing I learnt was the more children I had the less I worried and the less I knew. Children are a true blessing, enjoy every day.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Isn't that the truth!!

[@van_full_of_richards]

Hi Lisa, I watched this video 3 or 4 times during my pregnancy with baby #4 and it was a huge help!! Between your suggestions and just minimizing things in our lives in general, I have been able to maintain a certain level of sanity. Thank you for helping me be realistic about how much I truly need. :)

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Hi Rosana, You're welcome! I am so glad I could help give you some ideas and encouragement :)

[@victoriahimes7063]

Those muslin wraps are a godsend. Swaddle, burp cloth, car seat cover, breast feeding cover, changing pad; those things do it all!

[@susannehiller6077]

I am expecting my fifth baby any day now. I love your video and think it is ver self-controled to live so simple. I have to admit I could not do with just white and greay! I love seeing my kids wearing different colors. It just brightens the day. Also I think I enjoy the "hardships" of newborn & baby stage more, when some cute things are around me, just for the sake of their cuteness, not because they are really needed. So even though all you say makes total sense to me, I am glad for all the fun baby stuff I am blessed to have!

[@fabiolaarauz4439]

Wow! Finally, a mom similar to myself!! I am on my 4th baby, also unknown gender, and although I am not a minimalist, I keep clutter at bay and do not buy stuff we do not really need or will use excessively. Sifting through vids of people buying and buying what I will not, I will check out your other vids! And yes, we cosleep and have with all of our kids! They are alive and well!

[@officiallyjz597]

This is refreshing to watch, I like how simple everything is. Also people always gift babies things so stuff like toys and extra outfits will always be gifted at some point! I’ve kept all my newborn clothes/muslin cloths/bibs in 4 small baskets, told myself if anything exceeds over a basket then I’m buying too much which I won’t end up using!

[@jennah5390]

LOVE love love your mindset! I am the same way. Keep it simple. Stress free. Ppl think I’m crazy for not wanting a crib right away. This video was very helpful. Thanks!!

[@Homeandthimble]

I LOVE Burt’s bee clothing!! I have found that they were always the pieces I would grab first. I also love cloth diapers!!! Covers and prefolds/inserts/whatever you have on hand are my favorite too. Oddly, my expensive all in one is the only one that leaks!! I won’t use microfiber though!!

[@jadebethj4807]

I love that i'm watching this again for my 2nd baby. I also wore my baby pretty much all day after i had her. I plan to do the same for this one. i had a moby wrap and loved it.

[@PraymoreMinistries]

QUALITY video ! You are an ACTUAL minimalist like my wife and I! All babies really need is mama milk and love 💗

[@ah5721]

And clothes 😉

[@PraymoreMinistries]

Amanda H Hardly. My babies have always been in my open shirt (bare breasted) or under my blanket with me. Babies don't actually like fabric/cotton. They have Always preferred my warm skin and the oxytocin we get to share as a result.

[@PraymoreMinistries]

Amanda H Hardly. My babies have always been in my open shirt (bare breasted) or under my blanket with me. Babies don't actually like fabric/cotton. They have Always preferred my warm skin and the oxytocin we get to share as a result. Oxytocin is extremely healing and you get The Best night's sleep of all time! I sometimes feel like I have babies in order to get such good sleep lol There's nothing like it.

[@Piscoandmartinis]

And a car seat and a SAFE place to sleep and diapers and formula if you dont breasfeed and music and books for stimulation and clothes cause not everybody lives in climate controlled homes😔

[@emceeourtney]

I love these ideas, my husband and I are moving into a 20ft camper at some point soon - No kids yet, but when the time comes this will great advice for us!

[@musikluver]

LOVE muslin swaddle blankets! I find them so much more versatile than the smaller flannel ones. I loved having the convertible baby bathtub because it works until they can go in the bath themselves with just a mat but I also used it if I was getting washed or washing the bathroom then he could be in the bathroom with me

[@jessyhughes9948]

Who else is a childless teenager just trying to get some more info for the future

[@roselove2983]

Wow, this video is amazing. I'm about to be a first-time mom in 3 months, and I'm someone who likes to keep things simple. This video was very insightful and helpful, thank you!

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Thank you! 😊

[@YunJaeGDLuv]

I love this so much... so many people on KZbin have a gigantic list of so many things I feel like I won’t need. I’m a first time mom so this was super helpful!! Thank you! I love minimalism

[@MelanieSquires]

I am glad I’ve watched this video. This is very helpful for as a first time mom. I am sorting the things for my baby and I like to be minimalist.

[@cindyasselin4732]

Love your video! Most difficult part was to explain to our family we dont want to much stuff... they always said we understand but you nees this or that!

[@denisejones7780]

You will still need a good car seat and stroller and crib and high chair, let them give money towards those.

[@1309neha]

Only video that has made sense so far out of the 100a I’ve seen! Simple and to the point 21 weeks pregnant I’m from India and like someone said here babies sleep with mum initially we don’t know any other way! So it was very hard relating the million videos i saw until this one. Been living in UK for a while now and with the amount of stuff they advertise you to buy it’s crazy. Glad to have found this video >>> subbed!

[@amalac5914]

Montessori nursery is what I would do (no crib but a floor bed after baby turns 6 mos), my pink nike gym bag will be my diaper bag, everything will be used and from FB marketplace, only thing will be new is a mattress and a car seat.

[@letangokeibunor7661]

Expecting my first baby in a couple of months and I've always known I want to be a minimalist, cloth diapering mama. This video was absolutely PERFECT! Thank you.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

So glad to hear that! :)

[@whateverfloats]

Only have one baby but I'd agree with pretty much everything. Only thing I'd really add is a bouncy chair but if you are really committed to baby wearing I suppose it's not necessary. I wore my daughter a lot when she was a newborn but it was nice to have somewhere to put her when she couldn't be worn (eg I was in the shower).

[@PhoebeWood]

I love this, best I have seen. I am enjoying going minimal even just after one child. Lol, one due any day

[@zng3111]

This is my first video of Farmhouse on Boone to ever watch and I am already SMITTEN

[@Ray-pt5bi]

Good idea in the few Pieces that get trashed and tossed After each babe. We've been stocking and rotating huge boxes of baby/Kid clothes between Friends for five Years. One thing I can't wait for After the baby stage is getting rid of all those boxes. Forever. Gift the pump, the cloth diapers, the changing pad, the rocker, the clothes...

[@corana2029]

Co-sleeping is the best for me! Have had sooooooo much flack from people, but my babies were so much more happy with me. And let's face it....... People have slept with there babies for thousands of years! It's great to see it works for you too!

[@nadiadima9449]

I did that quite a lot when I was little and I am single child as you said.

[@tianqiabel6692]

My baby is 4 months old, cosleeping is the way for us too. Both of us sleep significantly better. May I ask your advice?? When and how do you transition baby to crib? When you're on the same bed, what safety precautions can ba taken?

[@music-by-storm]

Babies have also died from co-sleeping. I don't understand why you would risk losing your baby when there are much safer options. I just don't think it's worth the risk.

[@stephenporinchok1260]

@@music-by-storm there is a risk associated with everything in life. If its not for you and you are uncomfortable that is fine but dont try to shame others.

[@editzone6003]

Will someone enlighten me, when you let babies cosleep with you, do you guys put some kind of barrier so you don’t accidentally rolling on them? I guess you can say I’m one of those people who are concerned of risking possibly hurting my baby if I accidentally roll on them. But I wonder, how do you guys remain conscious of your little ones while asleep?

[@brittanydumoulinful]

I absolutely love the organic burts bees baby clothes. The newborn sleepers and shirts run on the smaller side of sizing witch was great for my newborn because they fit well. My muslin swaddlers are still an essential

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Yes, I agree. I found the 0-3 months size was perfect for my newborn. He was pretty big at 8lb 11ounces.

[@jessicaagatino231]

Great video! I have twin boys and kept everything minimal when they were babies. One thing I used a lot was a boppie which came in handy for feedings etc. I also primarily used onesies and zippered sleepers everyday until they were several months old.

[@meganbracy2974]

This video was so helpful to me for my last 2 babies. Im expecting #4 any day now and so im rewatching this to get my mind right. I sent this to my cousin who is expecting her first❤️ i know she'll find this helpdul

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Congratulations!

[@sweetpie7919]

I keep it simple with my babies too. All those cutesy outfits are usually not as soft or comfy as a cotton sleeper onesie. I've had people make comments about taking them in public in baby PJs instead of a dress or baby pants and shirts but really, what baby wants to wear jeans? I wanted to mention I have always kept my babies in bed with me because I nurse all night and it just works. However I had a scare with baby #6, my then 3 year old woke me up because he had to pee and I saw my infant had rolled onto his stomach. I quickly flipped him over and it scared the hell out of me. If my older child hadn't woken me up, something really terrible could have happened. I switched to a bassinet next to me that night. I already had it but it's always just been used for extra baby blankets or my girls put their dolls in it. I love co sleeping but I think sometimes a mom can just be too tired. I'm not telling you, or anyone, what to do. Just sharing my experience.

[@jessdodge5177]

Yeah I agree. I co slept a little bit but the first time I realized my exhaustion was too much to ensure the baby would stay put, I decided against it. It's so much easier and safer just to place the baby in a bassinet.

[@theophanial9432]

I feel like I finally found my tribe. I tried cloth diapers on my first four kids, but this time around I'll try the simple covers, I'm with you on the only essential item is a wrap. and a car seat.

[@mombythec]

Hi Lisa,I was wondering if you could share your maternity wardrobe? I'm expecting #5 but didn't plan on more so I'm having to start over but just want a simple minimal wardrobe. I love what you have on in all your videos ❤️

[@ll6559]

I just love your simple ways, so inspiring and such a wonderful reminder to keep it simple. I might even diaper clothe this next one 😬

[@Golf2foto]

Cleaned up my registry after watching your video. Thanks!!

[@mezza2920]

I'm due 01/01/2019, I'm a first time mum and have been having so much anxiety about all things baby like what's needed and what's just junk. Your videos are helping me figure things out a bit better so thank you!!

[@SoCalLoanMatchmaker]

Less is more!! I love your minimalist list and the fact that you use ORGANIC essentials. Thanks for sharing.

[@evakoole376]

Love it! Thanks for sharing :) I would definitely add a waterproof changing mat to this list, you can put it anywhere and it replaces the need for a changing pad or special changing table, you can just put the mat on the floor or the couch and off you go. Love you choice of diaper though! I love using flats with a comparable cover, cheap and works like a charm. Thanks again for the vid!

[@isabelmartinperez4235]

I just found your channel and I entirely fell in love ! You have such a calm voice, your surroundings make me really happy and you just have that kind of careless aura !

[@megcampbell7096]

Love it. Could you do a video on how to use/wash/maintain cloth diapering?

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Yes its totally on the list! :)

[@ClanofClarks]

Farmhouse on Boone What laundry detergent do you use for cloth diapers?

[@NouRa1234510]

Would you also add tips on how you go about cloth diapering when you are out? do you use disposable diapers then?

[@EamonWill]

@@NouRa1234510 I'm planning on having disposable diapers for when I'm out of the house and cloth diapers at home. The idea of having to carry around a dirty diaper and risk the mess or smell of it is just too gross for me. Plus, it's not like babies really leave the house that much anyway. (At least, not for a while.) You can also bend this rule for short trips vs long trips. Also, you can keep a cloth diaper in the bag in case you are almost done with the trip and the diaper needs changing. Why put them in another disposable if you are about to head home anyway? Ultimately, it's personal preference. I know some parents who never use disposable. In that case, disposable diaper liners become essential. Really, they are great to have no matter what, but I would say you need them if you are cloth diapering outside the house. Just keep in mind, they only work when your kid is old enough to have solid poo. Basically, it's a very thin sheet that goes on top of the cloth diaper pads. It keeps the solids separate while letting the liquid pass through to the cloth pads.

[@edenolson9817]

This is my first baby and I’m going to take your miminalist way all to heart even for myself when baby is new! Thank you for this list it is now my list! It would be fun to get a total on all the items needed for babies first day till 6 mos! I love this thank you !

[@DW123a]

Loved your list. FTM due shortly and due to space restrictions this video was truly very helpful and made me feel less stressed about what we have bought and what I still need ❤️ thank you

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Congrats on the baby coming!

[@hannamiller4466]

Thank you so much for making this video! We are expecting our baby very soon, and clutter is so so stressful. I feel like this is one of the main reason most parents feel overwhelmed with kids; it's not necessarily the kids but rather the chaotic and disorganized environment they live in. With that being said, thank you for the recommendations! I was also was wondering if you co-sleep with your baby, what do you use in the bed? Like a mosses bassinet? co-sleeping is my preference. I've heard from others this is what they use to sleep with the baby in the bed :) I would be so grateful for your input because people are SO afraid to talk about this and then secretly so many people are co-sleeping with their baby! thank you!!

[@esmeviljoen5362]

I can relate my self so mach white you.from bilding my one house of stone, making drop cloth close selling them at the flea markets .That was in 1990 ,my second child was abused by a maid,I resign from work and strart my own home business, I can write a book ,my kid's also had cloth diapers , simple living ,thrift shops i done my whole life and still is but in South Africa every one jumped on the antique bandwagon. But I still find shops in deep back street .Love watching your tutorials and just passing them on to my daughter , Thanks

[@jennisipari3093]

Could you make a video on what kind of things you need with a baby after 6 months.

[@DynamiteTrujillo]

I am so happy I found this video, and your channel. I am pregnant with my first and really crave keeping things minimal. I found some great direction here, thank you! xo.

[@FarmhouseonBoone]

Congrats!!

[@mariakara2419]

this is a great video!! organic is amazing :) my sister is having her first baby in 3 weeks & im finally going to be an aunt so i’m super excited!!

[@jilliana4701]

We only have 3 kiddos right now and I never could find a good cloth dipe I liked so I've not clothed much with our third. Definitely going to try out this brand. All in ones and pockets just don't keep our heavy wetters from leaking. I can't believe I haven't seen this video yet when I've seen a lot of yours.

[@laphoenixnaomiwarner-mcdon3437]

This was so so helpful!! Planning for my first baby. Im single momming it so budget friendly planning is a must!!

[@deborahfont8697]

Think about montessori baby room

[@sahithyaghattamaraju2275]

Thanks for the amazing info. Very helpful! :) Please make a video on what strollers you use or how you carry babies when you go out.

[@sumasu4496]

Thank you. Everything i planned intuitively you have covered and now i will cross off a few things from my list which I will not need until after baby is here. ♡

[@debsmad]

I'm well past having babies (my sons are 28 and 25 now, lol) but I still found this video fascinating. It totally makes sense! I cringe at all these young moms who have more than anyone will ever need, closets full of little outfits, toys for days. I get it if you're a first time mom and have no real idea just what's going to work for you but still... How were you when prepping for your first? ~Deb

[@Meelany261095]

I bought about 10 t-shirts of light cotton and she wore them since birth with her cloth diapers 14 months later she is still using them haha and I just bought 1 toy the rest were gifts from grandparents and aunts :) the play yard was a gift from 4 aunts and she used it the first 2 moths then I cosleep after learning how to finally breastfeed while laying on the bed. the play yard for now is just simply a place to accumulate toys and pillows haha

[@EamonWill]

I am pregnant with my first and am hoping you can help answer a question for me. I have considered breast feeding while laying on my side if I'm too sleepy to feel safe holding the baby. My idea is to have my husband keep watch so if I doze it will be ok. Will this actually work? Do I need to be awake to keep the boob in properly? Maybe this would work, but only at a certain age? I know most people will probably want to respond by saying just let dad bottle feed, but there are like 100 reasons why I hate bottles, so that's just not an option. Either it's ok for me to lay on my side and doze or it's not, in which case I will sit up and force myself awake. I just want some advice from someone who's already done this.

[@hannanatalisa3282]

I'm the same minus baby chair, crib, and soap. I don't bathe my babies with soap. Just water is enough. Sometimes pure sodium bicarbonate, but that is rare. All the best for you and family

[@blondgirl81]

Yaas! My husband and I are minimalists expecting our first baby and we do not want a shit ton of stuff cluttering our home.