FASHION NEWS | BHM EDITION | THE GOOD, THE FAB, AND THE ICKS

[@3thechicway]

Omg yes circling back on the issue of giving credit to the wrong group for an “aesthetic, can you believe they credited Taylor Swift’s football player boyfriend with the “fade” haircut?!?!?!?! Like are we being serious right now, a haircut that black men have been donning for forever, is because of Kelce?!?! You were spot on with all of your icks, thank you for the backstory and thorough research as well 🍪

[@ITSCAROLYNGRAY]

WAIT A DANG ON MINUTE!!!! they gave Kielce credit for a fade???? OH HELL NOOOOOO!!!! I've silenced as much Taylor and Kelce talk that I haven't seen anything about them in a while and im glad I didnt see that LMAO omg. that is horrible! I truly do not understand the obsession with either of those people.LOL

[@3thechicway]

an entire MESS @@ITSCAROLYNGRAY 🤣

[@user-ik1bk3go1e]

This is a love, Bravo Pat McGrath!!! Thank you Carolyn! Magnificent informative Super enlightening discussion!

[@dinjolins]

As someone who is white, but from a culture where our moms, aunties and big sisters dressed like "mob wives" (i'm eastern european), i think it's really silly that anyone calls that either culture or anything to do with appropriation. They're to make us feel sorry they married murderers?😅 Before the mob wife, we had slavic bimbo (same thing, just the beginning of fur coats getting in trend) and that one was insulting and a stereotype, but again, not cultural. Just a passing view of what is generationally inherited or popular in some countries (the usage of fur). Anyhow, amazing video. I was brought here via the yt algorithm, and I love the channel. Really fresh and amazing. ❤

[@daphnejackson4348]

YES to all of it!! ❣️❣️❣️💯💯💯

[@ruthcoby2425]

It’s the education for me…I love your channel so much! It’s great mixture of fashion & fashion education which I live for & you funny

[@briaunalasean4204]

I genuinely enjoy your videos! You really are helping me unpack and heal a lot of hurt and trauma I have. I ran away from home and you are reminding me of why I loved NYC and fashion in the first place! Thank you Auntie Cookie! Lol

[@birdeez]

So HAPPY for “THE BOSS” Ms. DIANA ROSS!!!

[@awesome4life772]

Carolyn….that show literally had me in my living room Clapping and screaming Bravo Bravo…I mean literally it stirred emotions in me I have not felt around Fashion darling in ages…I made 50 in December…Chef’s Kiss…It will be in the History Books

[@barrieladipo7783]

You spoke PURE FACTS and KILLED ALOT DELUSIONAL with your icks! Keep on talking your ish!!!! I’m here for it!!!

[@lenav5365]

I think it's important to give the mic to the marginalized group when it comes to determining if something is cultural appropriation or not. And from what I have seen, the majority of Natives are not happy with the collab. Pharrell and LV didn't even tag the Native designers they worked with. There was hardly any mention of them in press releases or subsequent pr after the show. Regardless of what we view is or isn't native american appropriation, I think we might all be able to see how Pharrell and LV could have given more props and limelight to the creatives behind so much of what we saw at the fashion show.

[@rodneybrown9580]

Excellent information messaging and platform for Black History Month and how it relates to fashion. I don’t think it would be fashion without the creative input of Black fashion.

[@ITSCAROLYNGRAY]

Exactly! Fashion cannot exist without black people period!

[@hairdresser1300]

Thank you for educating on what the company of Levi is doing

[@MsAntoniaNY]

Hi cookies!!! Carolyn!!! I LOVE these Fashion News Videos!! Love the BHM edition... it's nice to get a recap of fashion from your viewpoint. Looking forward to your Fashion Month News in Feb and your collection reviews! ❤❤❤

[@reetaholmes623]

Sis.....thank you for the vid and the education! I was taking notes and googling while you were talking. Let me tell you sumthin"...you are probably, IMO, the most educated person on the tube regarding fashion. I love fashion, it is my passion but I totally was so inspired by your knowledge. Anyway, I read WWD and other articles but I was blown away with your know-how! You are more than an influencer...you are an educator with depth! Thank you so much! Glad you're feeling much better, continued prayers for you and Carlos and his mom.

[@ITSCAROLYNGRAY]

OMG thank you so much. Sometimes I get so overwhelmed and excited with what I want to say that I stumble when I talk so Im just glad I make sense LOL!

[@AmberSunny1]

I’m with you on all of this. I’m Italian and Mexican and have been doing that mob wife look foreva Eva. Lol P.S. Maison Margiella and Poor Things are my inspiration right now!!! Obsessed. I am blown away by your beauty and intelligence with every video. Thanks for making excellent content. ❤

[@JaciraDeMatos]

You said “ that boy good”😂 I fell right into coming to America 😂

[@msb1005]

Love the content . The talking point were spot on. Yes we are wearing our pieces, eating healthy , and eating fried chicken on Sundays. Love it sis. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@MaryDavisBrown]

I absolutely love the way you presented this information. You are showing us with every video that you are more than just someone who puts on clothes. You have a point of view in regard to fashion and I love it!!! I’m also loving your IG posts. You are hilarious 🤣Carolyn, I wish you continued success in all of your ventures!

[@deidrabenson361]

Happy Black History Month Cookies! Thanks sooo very much Carolyn for sharing all this information! Loved the video!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@ms.wilson_5164]

Great content Carolyn ❤️ very informative!

[@salomeha4804]

Appreciate your posts. However, LV is appropriating Indigenous prints and fabric. LV are known for doing this on more than one occasion - Kwele Tribe, Mexico, Indigenous prints, Palestinian keffiyeh to name a few. Prints are distinctive designs, meaning and symbols and have significant importance. While LV did hire Indigenous artists, LV & Pharell did not name them publicly and even wrote in the PR "inspired by Native American Culture" - hence tokenization. Having a few Indigenous faces doesn't dismiss appropriation. Just like having a gay friend doesn't mean you can't be homophobic. LVMH is a luxury brand - wearing luxury or patterns appropriated into luxury goods completely dismisses the historical and present-day oppression groups face for wearing their culture. By definition it's appropriation. If LV was collaborating authentically and bringing attention to the disparities of Indigenous people then it would be presenting a new relational avenue for reconciliation, but we know that would never happen in the pursuit of capitalism. Capitalism is about extraction for shareholder gain. Even if it looks pretty to some for a season, even if it is palatable because they have a few representatives of that group - really it's to tokenize them. Fashion sometimes perpetuates colonial tactics - the money doesn't benefit those communities. People should buy directly from Indigenous/Native, and not "Native inspired."

[@lenav5365]

It was really disappointing to see the Native American designers who worked on pieces for the collection not even get tagged on single post. Louis Vuitton/LVMH has so much money, I'd like to see them invest in these communities in a REAL way in order to see this as an actual equitable collab. I have a feeling those designers were also disappointed in how things worked out but they just can't express it openly.

[@lifealtaring]

Great work Carolyn…. I love that you are highlighting BHM and people of color’s incredible contribution to the fashion industry. There is a long rich ,historically profound legacy .This month would love to hear your take on a few past and present and up and coming iconic creatives and their indelible impact. Also can we honor a few First World designers ..thanks❤

[@pinkladyEle7487]

Yes CG You are The Greatest Fashion Formula One Thank you for sharing❤️🙏❤️

[@styled4me31]

Happy Black History Month, Carolyn! 🌟 Wow, you gave us an informative and insightful review of BHM Fashion. 🌟 Loved it all!! Thank you for putting the spotlight on and sharing the PM and MM show info, the 15% Pledge, the Diana Ross collab with YSL, and Pharrell's latest LV runway collection. Of note, black cowboys rode the range in the West, and they were Buffalo Soldiers for the US Army. Reclaiming our history is a beautiful and powerful thing. Thanks again for sharing with us! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Neema150]

Good point about Mark Jacobs's show! You are a natural fashion journalist!

[@teezy8736]

I loved every minute of this video!!!! Thank you Carolyn 🤎

[@pigeon51]

Mumford and sons are a British folk band 😂

[@honeybdream]

Happy BHM Carolyn! I agree with all that you said.

[@kerringtonvaughn9517]

So good! Thank you for highlight important topics like the “Levi’s” situation…. ❤️

[@Kynadi01]

Yasss I likeeee, i love the fashion news but especially your ability to niche down to BIPOC communities. i feel like you should make this a series, BHM every month

[@sharonmcdaniel6321]

Hey, Queen Cookie. You look wonderful! Your light beat is “beating!” So glad you’re feeling better. Thank you for centering women and men of the African Diaspora in today’s video. Yes, “we want all the things- the makeup and the bags!”Regarding DEI, unfortunately, boards of directors in all sectors remain virtually non-BIPOC. Thank you for elevating the conversation around your “icks and side-eye.” It was very educational and “spot-on” on so many levels. Remember the adage: “Last hired, first fired!” The layoffs will impact the BIPOC community first. Loved the video. I will look for your daily “fits” on IG. Stay well and blessed. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ITSCAROLYNGRAY]

Hi there !! thank you so much! I've really lightened up on my makeup application so thank you for noticing LOL! thank you so much for watching the episode and that adage is so freaking true. smh makes my skin itch!

[@sharonmcdaniel6321]

@@ITSCAROLYNGRAY You are so welcome. Thank you as always for taking the time to respond. I can't imagine how busy you are. Your makeup always looks beautiful. I'm not on TikTok, but see you had a shouting good hallelujah moment- Politics and Fashion tagged it. Loved it! I’m a COGIC girl and you get 10 out of 10 for the shout. 😭😭😭 ❤️❤️

[@dianafromcanada516]

Yaaasss, Carolyn on fire!🔥🔥🔥 I'm here for it! Can't wait to see what's next in February!

[@CharisseKenionYT]

Yessss Pat is the QUEEN. The live attracted more than 17K at its highest point - there were actresses like Jodie Turner Smith - influencers like Hailey Bieber - BRANDS like Fenty, Milk Makeup were watching. It felt like magic and it was absolutely history. I also learned a lot about the difference between IG and TikTok from her Live. It's clear IG is an engaged fan base, and I've been cussing it for a while now!

[@Neema150]

I did not know until I watched this video that Pat McGrath did the makeup for John Galliano’s fashion show! Thanks!

[@pricellaspalette]

Reading everyone their rights! I agree with what was said. I understand that we live in a capitalistic society but it will never cease to bother me that the people that are assisting in creating profits for these companies are always the first to be let go. Our system has prioritized money over people is so many different sectors and I hate that for us. Thank you for highlighting the fashion trust, I''ll need to do my research on the nominees so I can support. Also, your jacket instantly reminds me of the Prada FW 2022 runway with all the appliqués...very beautiful

[@bald.the.beautiful1571]

Love it!!!!

[@lenav5365]

Mumford & Sons is a British folk band from London. They ARE NOT Native American.

[@ITSCAROLYNGRAY]

I will go in an re edit because it was them and Native American artist performing with them.

[@lenav5365]

@@ITSCAROLYNGRAY Thanks for making that correction. I also think that's another example of why so much of the native american community is upset. The song features native american drumming but the official video only credits Pharrell and Mumford & Sons. No mention of any Native American musicians.

[@mallorylyday5831]

You Know this was Grammy week in L.A there's luncheons, Balls, parties leading upto today's show Busy week for the music industry. it's like the pace of fashion week. I agree with you about the hairstyle for show . The Jacket you're wearing is beautiful #Black history month

[@CharisseKenionYT]

Ha ha just saw you addressed the Chuckie news - but yes he actually did it in 2010. That 2020 post was a repost

[@Divinenubian]

. I'm glad you feel better every since I saw Pharrell latest collection I been rocking my western boots 👢

[@MyGabbayTx]

And having fried chicken on Sundays! Because that’s our business

[@jeanellreynolds7291]

Happy BHM Carolyn, I’m interested in that Pat McGrath and this glass product. 😊

[@jojoc60961]

New subscriber here, and I'm glad I found your channel. Thank you, Sis . This video was educational and informative. I loved it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@kearstenw3855]

Also I'm totally with you on the 15% pledge. $200,000 annually is a lot of money and it seems extremely far-fetched. Hoping that the requirements for annual sales becomes a bit more reasonable and achievable.

[@Gohardchick]

I love Pay McGrath. I use her products and they are top tier.

[@socialitenoel]

Wait a minute. I didn’t know that Christian Louboutin looked like that. 😮 Also, Cowboys were always Black or indigenous. The white men were called Cow Hands not Cowboys.

[@ITSCAROLYNGRAY]

ahhhh come on and teach me something !! COW HANDS!!! ....but why am I a little bothered now. Why the people of color have to be called boys ? I love learning our history but then I also get so bothered by it . Either way, I love you for sharing that for me.

[@socialitenoel]

@@ITSCAROLYNGRAY You’re Welcome. Thanks for sharing your opinions on the current state of fashion ❤️

[@Boymom2012]

WHERE have I been??? New subbie for sure !!!! Loved the content. Sent over here by Simply Kura or Shayla.

[@kathleenharris8824]

Hi Carolyn, some people just can’t give credit where credit is due when it comes to us. It’s getting so old. I completely agree with you on everything. There needs to be more accountability inclusion at all levels in fashion. Loving the Instagram posts!❤

[@shelsgyal4305]

Chokes on my wings! Yes Carolyn i got the memo lol

[@nabeehahbrown4681]

I agree with on fhe trends and more options to buy what i already like ofherwise the thirsty trend followers have no style. Mob wives are gaudy or frumpy! And my ick are super cool fashion people with lackluster looks at big events! Jenee slayed that Hanifa bridal dress!!!

[@user-qx1rk7lu2n]

I thought the same thing about Pat Magraf.

[@FashionFoodieBUM]

okay but when i first start seeing cute and gold jewelry i thought lil kim lol

[@opaljohnson4762]

Love the show

[@misssinister7936]

My new “ICK”. Thank you

[@hotdot10]

So amazing to see native indians so beautifully represented in Pharrell/LV show. I can't believe people would be so petty, jealous & scream appropriation when thats not even the case. Native indians are almost mute & invisible in their own country which prioritises everyone else in the DEI. Stunning show, so happy the brand is doing well 👏💯👑🏟💖 Also people need to get off their high horse about appropriation of aesthetics - its so self centered. Running people down for the mob wife aesthetic is just as crazy as running black women down for using light makeup, straightening & dying their hair blonde. Enough with the icks people, its bordering on narcissitic - lets accept each other whether you like how people look or not & be better people! 🙏🙏🙏

[@officialnicholas1]

RIP Big Ang!!!

[@FashionFoodieBUM]

lol we gotta talk Pyer Moss LOOT OUT

[@kearstenw3855]

Totally off subject, however your hair is always so beautiful. Just curious if you have a relaxer or are you natural. How do you Keep it looking so amazing 🤩🤩🤩 Do you wrap it at night? Thank you!!!!

[@RationallyMe]

Carolyn mentioned in a previous video that her hair is natural. She has a previous video of her doing her own hair, but admitted that her hair tends to frizz by the second day when she does it herself.

[@ITSCAROLYNGRAY]

omg thank you so much. I am natural however my hair at the ends have heat damage that im growing out and will hopefully cut off soon. I do sleep with a silk pillowase so I dont wrap it unless I have a photoshoot / content shoot to make sure I dont wake up with a random bump in the hair lol . I use olaplaex oil as well as bread hair oil on the tips of my hair 2-3 times a week.

[@kearstenw3855]

@@ITSCAROLYNGRAY Thanks so much! 💗

[@kearstenw3855]

Also just one more thing, I've been trying to find the dupes that you found for the Tom Ford sunglasses on Amazon. I checked for the link but I didn't see it and I must have them!!!! Can you please link them 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Thank you!!!

[@JoanneFrancillon-md5dd]

Don’t forget the credit the kardashians got for “boxer braids” forever known as cornrows.

[@scfavores4274]

Christian louboutin does say that he is black.

[@chenesehenderson5194]

The mob wives look came from Peg Bundy from a TV show its definitely a cheap look

[@deniseoates7147]

First runway you mention what you showed looked weird and made me feel uncomfortable but that just me. So, hooray for Pat's artistry but I am not a fan to see just regular people walking around looking like that. Pharrell runway was always my existing vibe because that is why I said western fashion would never be obsolete because denim jeans it from the western genre and I was and will always totally in love with western/tribal fashion. I am curious to see what the fashion shows will have coming down the runway You and your icks be cracking me up

[@michellehill6166]

What also bothers me about the Mob wife aesthetic is that Mob crime is glorified in pop culture but in the black community it’s considered thuggish. I understand that it’s fun trend to dress in full glam but it’s still smacks of double standards and racism in our society.

[@ITSCAROLYNGRAY]

Totally agreed! omg!

[@michelle_pw]

Take care of yourself.

[@michellel6851]

Agree, I saw that influencer’s TikTok and was immediately, IMMEDIATELY turned off by her micro aggressive commentary…No ma’am give credit where credit is due, especially if the designer has specified Ms. Ross was his inspiration. I just can’t with them.

[@CharisseKenionYT]

My ick over Marc was the fact that Chuckie Loves Hair (a MAJOR black hairstylist) did that hair in 2010. If they weren't gonna give him the job at least try and give credit. ESPECIALLY as it's BHM...

[@MsAntoniaNY]

Just got to the Marc Jacobs piece. ...feel like 2020 all over again when brand had controversy over the Dredloocks cultural appropriation hairstyles...smh.

[@maxdminimalist715]

Right?!! I have side-eyed him ever since. He got super defensive when called out and then doubled down by saying, well black girls wear blonde wigs!!?! 😬 Boy bye ☹️🙋🏾‍♀️