Fat Activist Catfish Situation is Wild

[@ObesetoBeast]

Check out first upload after my move! kzbin.info/www/bejne/o4baqqijZs6HptU Thanks for the support!

[@shilos9745]

saying “i hate dating in this generation” and in the same breath admitting your date is nearly a decade younger than you is crazy… babe whose generation? 😭 cuz he ain’t in yours

[@XxOrlenaXx]

Ffffs this comment had me dying 😂😂

[@TheModalia]

You won the Comment Of The Year Prize 🏆 You said what you said and we agree with it!

[@ClownCourt]

Genuinely the funniest part 😭 like of course dating zoomers isn't gonna be for you

[@BaDazai]

😂😂😂

[@imjustvi6279]

OH WAIT YEAH, HE'S GEN Z AND SHE'S A MILLENIAL

[@taylorhillard4868]

"I just think people have a problem with someone of my size being so confident" Confident people dont try to hide how they look henny

[@minnarosenqvistmr]

This exactly!!!!!

[@tuffguydoe7937]

omg so true. No full body pic or only from certain angles. Fat women have mastered the way of attempting to not appear fat. As you mentioned if you're confident don't hide the fat stomach.

[@mariusvanc]

Yup, came to say this exact thing. Confidence is "here is me!"

[@jenniferlounsbury2532]

She just posted pictures from a trip and stretched them all to appear smaller. She is not confident in the slightest

[@raaaaaaarr]

Also shes not acting confident she's acting arrogant..

[@sunnyxo597]

I got catfished by a guy who had a fat picture of himself on his profile ( turns out he lost a ton of weight and didn't update his picture) . It's 4 years later and we just got married 😂

[@RachelReduces]

This is TOO cute!

[@Otteal]

Congratulations 🎉

[@Pris.Cilla__]

I'm sorry like it's deceitful but so cute 💗 so in a good way deceitful 💀 did he explain why he did that??

[@NC-ij9rb]

That reverse catfishing. 😂 Congrats

[@tomwallen7271]

He 100% does that on purpose, and I love that energy, King.

[@swannyb1061]

Teacher here. She sounds like the most patronizing teacher ever.

[@Glitch0836]

That’s what it reminded me of too. The countless moments of shaming and guilt and belittling

[@AnnieMarie865]

Right. I was getting on here to say thank god she’s not a teacher anymore. 😂

[@Xenyaje]

WHOS fatphobia is it if you're actively choosing to look skinnier on ur dating profile......? ? ? LIKE DAYM

[@minnarosenqvistmr]

Yeah, she's actually making it worse for herself, and lying to herself about everything. I wouldn't go near her with a six foot pole,and have her as a Friend even!!!!!

[@kerribelleville7958]

I wonder how she’d react if SHE got catfished lmao

[@2735angel]

she's so annoying and insufferable and a hypocrite I bet she'd be mad and post about it

[@voiox]

She probably would say "I did not consent to be catfished".

[@Deebz9]

“His profile said he’s 6’0 but he’s more like 5’9 😩😩😩”

[@AllinSkiba]

@@Deebz9she has actually complained about this in her tiktoks and has referred to it as catfishing

[@danstan2579]

She has! Made an entire video about how upset she was and how catfishing was a problem lol

[@Kangamoos]

When I was online dating I was very careful to both mention I was fat and show realistic images of my size. Nothing worse that people finding out when they met me. It worked out! Met my spouse of 12 years and lost the weight.

[@Myprettybackyard]

congrats on your weight loss but most importantly your 12 years! you really won!

[@abinnohr6497]

This is something I needed to hear. Congrats!!

[@Mspoor70]

Woohoo🎉🎉🎉 I love a happy story, congrats hon

[@toddw.8277]

As a short guy I did the same! No way I would lie and show up and spend my whole date sitting on phone books or standing in my tippy toes!

[@livvlife]

Good for you ! You were honest and made a decision for yourself ❤ that’s the way to go: honesty is the best policy.

[@Oogieone]

I don’t think she understands that she is not proud of her current body if she refuses to post current pics of herself and only pics of when she was thinner. There are plenty of people that enjoy dating plus size women. I’m plus sized (although down 43 pounds since June 26th woo!) and have never had an issue. But there aren’t a lot of people who want to date someone who is obviously insecure and blames others for it and is so negative. Negativity attracts negativity.

[@lucietigger1641]

I was thinking that - in the tik tok response she mentions including a picture, and she thought she looked cute and happy with her dogs..... sooooo that means she has zero other images in more recent times where she feels she looks cute and happy with her dogs? For goodness sake, we all love our pets, so I assume she would have a 1 year old pic of her and her animals. To be so confident in herself yet not use any recent images, imho one or both of- not actually confident and doesn't like seeing herself in pictures/she is using a false representation of her inage to get a first date yet can't see that if she uploads an image she gets judged by it.

[@minnarosenqvistmr]

I agree with this. I was smaller when I started dating my husband,and gained a lot of weight,when I had our kids and now I've lost 20kg's ,since the beginning of the year,and feel great!! I just came from my mother in-laws home,and she was shocked that I was smaller then her now . But we love each other,and she always supports me,and I was diagnosed with diabetes last year, so I have been having a hard time loosing weight because of it.. now I'm finally getting in shape!! I feel small, and yet, in my mind, I'll always feel a bit bigger then I am actually..

[@Courtney_Lorr]

if she’s so worried about running into shallow men on the Internet, why wouldn’t she just post pictures of the way she actually looks currently and weed them out before it even becomes an issue??

[@frostnova2144]

Simple, the guys she likes are stereotypically attractive, they are in shape and best believe the want the same. Those pictures are the only way she can trick those types of guys into talking to her and she knows it.

[@GigglewithFelix321]

🎉🎉🎉

[@sarahh_99]

THIS!! 😭

[@emilysometimes]

I don't know this person, but judging from this video, it AIN'T her looks that is turning people off, it's her personality. It took me years to learn that you attract what you throw out there, and she is NEGATIVE.

[@sed6657]

I mean, to be fair, if I knew all my dirty laundry was going to get aired out on TikTok by a stranger as soon as the date was done, I wouldn't really be too interested in following through with the plans. That's kind of the drawback of posting your whole life online - it usually scares off any good people who don't want attention from strangers online.

[@EroticInferno]

Yep. I “make content” but my husband wants NOTHING to do with that. So I don’t post him, I rarely talk about him unless it’s in relation to me and he consents. That’s how you can be healthy in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want the same things as you do.

[@RaspBerryPies]

@@squidratt Damn that sounds like it would suck being stressed and walking on eggshells all the time. I don’t think I could do that mentally, but also due to my job. I am allowed to have a social media but they still made me sign stuff about if I post anything controversial I need to state this is my own opinion and not a reflection of the company. People don’t realize how much your social media presence can affect the type of work you can do or who will hire you. It makes a cycle then because as you said social media was her income she couldn’t stop and already doing what she does stopped her from some other types of work.

[@brightknight1965]

Yeah if I found out I was about to go on a date with someone who posts everything about their dates on TikTok for criticism I would ghost too

[@xtinkerbellax3]

Right? What mentally and emotionally healthy person is going to want to date you?

[@paulk8924]

Psychologically, this is a cope of their deep rooted insecurities hence the need for constant online attention and validation.

[@MsGlitterBombz]

The DV black eye thing pisses me off. I hate people making a joke of it

[@luisataylor8089]

This made my blood boil! But she probably wouldn't understand that either 😕

[@RaspBerryPies]

It’s very frustrating

[@nothing-jl2dz]

i wouldn't call it a joke, more like more grifting for attention

[@Nero_Jero]

Her little spiel about "consent" is so obnoxious

[@Maieveryday2]

She really thinks only her consent matters. She blasts guys, shares their texts, and stuff, and yet only her consent matters. R-word behavior

[@RaspBerryPies]

@@Maieveryday2yeah makes me sort of worried like the way she dismisses guys consent can def translate into other areas of their relationship. She gives me the “guys can’t be raped” type of thinking tbh but maybe im looking too deep into it

[@ximar0ckstrx]

People using "consent" to deflect from genuine criticism of atrocious behavior is mind blowing to me!

[@NikolaPasic-is9pu]

So much about her is obnoxious but that part is actually mad. It's like me posting a video of a server in a restaurant telling me to leave and saying how bad they are and how that restaurant sucks, etc. and then, when someone shows a video of how I started throwing tantrums there beforehand and how they were calm and polite before I started offending them, I say 'you violated me and I didn't consent on this'.

[@XhumpersX]

@@Maieveryday2 100% she is completely R-worded.

[@lyra2282]

Also, it's not that she looks thinner in her profile photos, it's that she looks a lot younger. So it's not surprising that 20 something guys are matching with her - they assume that she looks like that at over 30. Using photos that don't look like you now isn't a sign of confidence, it's a sign of insecurity. It also makes one think - what else is she lying about? It's bad vibes all around.

[@prismaticcromatic3962]

I was thinking that too. She doesn't look that much fatter, but she definitely looks much younger. I'd assume those pictures are from 5-8 years ago for sure.

[@riaglitta]

"I feel violated because I was exposed as a catfish."

[@alexiswsmbuermann1782]

this person's attitude is exactly why dating on the apps is so sketchy. she is the problem.

[@SimmyKenz]

Thank you for understanding that just because an age gap is legal doesn’t mean it’s NOT WEIRDDDD

[@Mspoor70]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@NikolaPasic-is9pu]

That's the least annoying part. Her whole personality is basically - I can say and do whatever I want, regardless of how bad or immoral or anything it is and you can't call me out for that and if you do, you are an awful person. However, whatever the other party does, regardless of their motives, intentions and what made them do it, if I perceive that in a negative way, they are an awful person. While me, oh me, I am the best.

[@WobblesandBean]

People who defend that as "but it's legal" terrify me. Like, ma'am, you're 32, he only just became legally able to drink.

[@latheist-j9l]

​@@WobblesandBean I don't see the big deal. It's only 9 years difference and he has been legal to drink for 2 years. I don't consider anything under 10 years either way much of an age difference 🤷

[@skyegroome223]

I like to say, "Just because it's legal doesn't make it right." In other countries, it's legal to have child brides, but that doesn't mean its right to have them. Some people just don't get the difference.

[@juliekring7574]

24:43 NOOO please.... Please stop using misogyny to deflect criticism. As a feminist its makes feminism look like such a joke. Prosecutors ignoring DV is misogyny. People publicly stating women are not capable of holding high powered positions is misogyny. Hell, even saying a woman has no value if shes fat because she's not sexually attractive is misogyny. People criticizing you for lying about your appearance on a dating app is not misogyny. Please.... Stop.

[@SolitaryGem]

She sounds like a terrible person. She's violating people's privacy by sharing people's information/conversations on Tiktok while misleading people into thinking she's thin.

[@OOhlUkaTmEImGanSTa]

And she has the AUDACITY to cry about consent and dating apps being ruined for her. The fear and sadness she is feeling is actually just embarrassment for getting caught.

[@extraterrestrial3502]

If someone walked in and looked vastly different than their profile, i wouldn't be upset because they look heavier. I think it's a major red flag to lie. It shows that you aren't ok in your skin and are probably insecure, too. If you can lie about how you look, you may be hiding or lying about other things.

[@Loud2013]

Yes! I came here to say that exactly!! And she's delusional if she thinks people on dating apps don't look up your social media, come on now. If your whole life is public, do better or take the consequences 🤷🏿‍♂️ and since when are dating apps akin to a human right 😂😂😂😂😂 if you say dating sucks everywhere but your dating app, it's bound to catch up with you. The Internet is no joke 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@BronzedBeast]

Tbh I would be outraged if they looked different but exactly for the same reason you said. Like if I swipe right on a heavy girl and see a skinny girl I would be outraged I was lied too. I wanted a connection with a person and that was immediately smashed. Plus I don't understand the mentality. Isn't it more embarrassing when the date shows up and questions you on why you lied? Cause obviously you can't change your shape over night.

[@filbert910]

It’s a huge red flag to start a date or relationship off on a lie.

[@cassieloser2907]

And it's such an easily disproven lie once you actually meet up with them. It's like they're hoping to find someone who will just be a doormat & won't call them on their obvious lies

[@Rosskoflex]

You don't feel violated dear, that feeling is called shame, and it's natural to feel that way when called out.

[@2CoastGirl-xd8hl]

Ha! Great point.

[@darksoulenvoy932]

When you hate dating in this generation but you’re looking in the wrong generation. 🥴🥴🥴

[@googleuser2480]

😂

[@eeen4119]

Most likely cuz she has limited options. My likes went up so much when i lowered the age range to 18-25. I tested it just to see because i was getting barely anything with the 45+ range. Im in my mid 20s. But the hardest age range ive noticed is the 30s and I have no idea why. I got ZERO with that.

[@pubsam397]

I was overweight until my early 30s and tried online dating twice. The first time I was 22 and absolutely terrified to post a picture of my actual body. So I just put up a face pic, men would message me, but I was too terrified to actually meet them because unlike this lady I was self-aware of what I was doing lol. I tried again at 29 after the end of a long relationship, but this time my sister helped me set it up and she suggested a bunch of photos I should use - photos I would have NEVER picked myself because they showed my whole body and I thought I looked fat in them. But a small part of me knew I should just go with it, and guess what? Men still messaged me! But this time instead of panicked, I felt SUPER confident because these guys know I was fat, and were still interested. It was such an awesome feeling, like I don't know what I thought I had to lose by hiding my weight 7 years earlier? Just post yourself as you are and be interesting and SOMEONE will like it (advice for females maybe, lol).

[@nikkibleh8045]

Theres no way shes putting "skinnier" photos of herself on her dating profile JUST bc she "likes her outfit and her dogs are in it" if she thought so highly of herself, she post photos of herself as she looks NOW in an outfit she finds cute, with her dogs in it lol

[@beverlysipe801]

As an accountant, if someone is was going to go out with for the first time, wanted me to do their taxes...... yeah I would ghost them too. Well maybe not ghost, but I would Def be washing my hair that night lol.

[@MerryWidow420]

She's a little obvious. "If this works out I can use him for a lot of tasks."

[@acaciatheaussie]

I’d like to kiss ya, but I just washed my hair. Bye!

[@Jan74]

It's always the fatphobia. Not the catfishing, not the clickbaiting, not the general unhinged behaviour. Nope. It's the fatphobia. I came across a TikTok by a guy she blasted online and he seemed very genuine.

[@luisataylor8089]

Why is she scolding us? Why does she have this dreadful attitude? Why can't she admit she's being shady? So many questions 😂

[@keropi193]

Agree. As a 31 year old, dating a 23 year old would feel like robbing the cradle oooof. Also he didn’t come up with the tax thing on his own... She definitely dropped hints she wanted them done and even if he was trying to be overly helpful/polite no person should accept that on a date where you should be getting to know each other.

[@OOhlUkaTmEImGanSTa]

My sister always liked older dudes. I don't know why, and I definitely don't feel the same attraction when I see someone 10+ years older. But everyone is different 🤷‍♀️ The ONLY age gap relationship that worked for her is the current one with her husband. He is 12 years older. The reason it worked...she had a fully developed brain, and my BIL didn't want a younger person they could control, he wanted a functioning, stable adult. She learnt she wasn't going to get away with bratty and toxic behaviour she defaulted to in previous relationships and ended up much happier and stable because of it.

[@VampireGecko19]

Dude, I tried to get on a dating app after 108lbs lost and even my photos from 10lbs heavier look so different from how I am now. I didn’t have any current photos of myself that I liked but I also didn’t feel comfortable posting old photos because that doesn’t represent me now. As someone whose weight presents mostly in the face, Molly needs to understand that she looks so different from her pictures taken at a lower weight. Obviously she won’t, as she’s a queen of making everyone else the problem.

[@BronzedBeast]

You should post the old pics with brand new pics. I think that would be so cool for you. Like "Look at my transformation." I think that would attract health orientated people (gym rats and such)

[@kimicope_]

I'm 33 and the thought of dating a 23 year old would disgust me 🤢 the older we get the less and less attractive younger people get. It's not natural to find youth attractive

[@DiMagnolia]

I’m 28 and can’t even date someone that young 🥴 I think my limit is 25, I need that brain fully cooked hahaha

[@brightknight1965]

This! I have friends who are in their early 20s and it’s so clear we are in different generations and completely different stages of life.

[@Orkeanos]

I disagree. I find women in their twenties also attractive. And I’m pretty sure I’m not alone with that.

[@yourlocalfatshionista]

​@@Orkeanosoh lord, no

[@user-rz9rq7pp2b]

I think you mean immaturity, not youth.

[@amycnews1593]

23:08 - That makes her a LIAR. The fact that she doesn’t get it is mind boggling. 🙄😒💯

[@Loud2013]

She knows, she's cat fishing to get content to monetize on her channel and she's just angry she got caught when she had a good money making formula going. It's giving narcissist. Look how her eyes keep shifting when she's addressing the issue. 🙄😳👀 Lol

[@danstan2579]

This is crazy. When I was on the dating apps, I purposely posted photos I deemed as “bad”and current. Not on purpose bad photos but ones that would show that double chin, those uneven eyebrows. NO good angels. No joke, my boyfriend of three years now was gobsmacked at how pretty I was in irl. It was a major confidence booster on that first date too! Tbh, I recommend it. You weed out those who wouldn’t be interested.

[@tomwallen7271]

"Because of you, I no longer feel safe on the dating apps." Damn, that's not great. Maybe you shouldn't have put your entire dating life on the internet. So wild that you lost some privacy.

[@gillebro]

Ok but John you yelling HELLO!? THAT’S INSANE!! Gives me life. Because yeah. That’s absolutely nuts.

[@notyourchauffeur]

Imagine lying to someone and then being upset they don’t want to date you…..

[@n.8883]

Absolutely not. Anyone leveraging terms like 'violating my consent' for bullshit like this can piss off.

[@Mspoor70]

👏👏👏👏

[@juliekring7574]

YES. Thank you. It waters down the meaning.

[@wambo5743]

I’m wondering if she genuinely doesn’t perceive herself to look dramatically different to those pictures on her profile. When I was losing weight, I didn’t realize how different I was starting to look until my phone recognition stopped recognizing me. I think it can be easy to not fully realize how much weight changes your appearance.

[@RaspBerryPies]

That’s true! Doesn’t excuse all the other shit she’s done and said but def could be her not realizing it especially if the weight gain was slow.

[@cclee6987]

@wambo5743 i didn't realize how different I looked to other people after I gained weight because I was so focused on healing from an ED and self-love that I wasn't noticing the physical change in the same way i was noticing the spiritual change. I've never met up with a man and him look like his profile because the photos tend to suck but I never considered it catfishing. Nobody talks about men using photos from a decade ago or not even using photos that genuinely show what they look like. But if a woman uses a photo that doesn't show double chins and rolls she's "catfishing" tbh she looked like her profile to me but maybe I wasnt looking hard enough.

[@BronzedBeast]

​@@cclee6987I felt that. My dating profiles have pictures when I was smaller vs now when I'm noticeable more jacked

[@xtinkerbellax3]

She doesnt seem like she has much self awareness in general.

[@Mick_IRL]

That’s literally me rn. I’m 80 pounds down and I can’t see it. But everyone around me can’t stop mentioning it. It makes me feel so visible and it’s weird. If my phone recog declines I’d be flabbergasted

[@mandymckk]

So she thinks she deserves to have her consent respected but her dates don’t? Hmm she must love the taste of hypocrisy

[@watchmenaenae3938]

Yep!

[@MacyPooh196]

I get incredibly annoyed when people purposefully miss the point to avoid any responsibility for their stupid actions.

[@imjustvi6279]

Okay, here we go. Double standards. "I didn't consent to having my dating profile viewed by millions of people." When you put something out to the public, you are consenting to it being viewed by everyone. In addition, it is incredibly hypocritical to cry about consenting to things being viewed when she showed private messages to her entire audience. Congratulations lady, this will take a toll on your reputation.

[@AprilTheRockStar]

The idea of using the phrase "my haters" as a grown woman gives me serious wiggins. And yeah, dating now sucks. Hardcore sucks. But, like... So does she 😬 I'm 41, never married, no kids, no dates in 2+ years. I've chosen to leave dating apps because where I live, there's very little to choose from. And I've built a life where, finding someone who fits into it or someone I'm willing to change it for, is going to take a lot. But if I matched with a dude, planned to meet him, and walked in to see a guy who's shockingly different from the person in his profile, I'm going to be annoyed. She can't possibly be so ignorant to that idea. It's not fatphobia or misogyny. It's not liking being mislead.

[@cclee6987]

In my dating experience, men catfish their personalities, beliefs, and honesty to get what they want from women. I'd much rather have someone not look like their profile so I can directly see the deception.

[@morebs8458]

That is one of the best comments on this subject I've ever read. Very sadly true.

[@teijaflink2226]

That definitely is a problem too, people acting and pretending to be much nicer and kinder and then when you start to fall they show up being huge narcissists or even mentally abusive. A way of catfishing too to pretend you are something else than you actually are.

[@NigraeLegiones]

Only a small subset of men actually get matches on dating apps. If youre continuously coming across these men then youre getting exactly what youre looking for.

[@BronzedBeast]

Ladies do that too lol. Guaranteed this lady's profiles also she's fun, sweet, etc and not how entitled and rude she is.

[@loiracitr]

If someone lies on things you can immediately double check, what makes you think they won't lie on things that are harder to detectl?

[@OhWell307]

If she didn't care, then why doesn't she have current photos in cute outfits out having fun with her dogs 🤔🤔? Who's more fat phobic: people pointing out that your photos are not a true representation of what you look like, or someone who claims to love themselves and their confidence yet doesn't show it to people on the dating app?

[@yourlocalfatshionista]

Help, catfishing has been taken away from me

[@JS-mg1mk]

"I didn't CONSENT to you having an opinion about my public videos!" 😂😂😂 Girl, stop.

[@user-cm8hx8mi5m]

She’s gaslighting her audience 😂

[@RaspBerryPies]

Good thing some of these young men don’t actually show up 😂

[@brightknight1965]

I recently dyed my hair purple and even that kind of change I would expect to be surprising if I didn’t have a picture with that right?

[@DANIxDANGER]

It's recommended that you add photos of yourself from the last 2-4mos on your profile. It's a big deal because you're 100% representing what you look like to people who don't know you, on an app that's based on 1st impressions.

[@makenzienohr4105]

I totally understand the desire to only include your top tier pictures, but you really really do not want someone to be disappointed the first time they meet you.

[@morebs8458]

Yes, top tier pictures, but if you're more than 10 pounds over/under what you said, 10 years over what you said, 5" shorter than what you said, you are an insecure person and a liar. It's the lying part that I don't want to walk into. They've already proven who they are. Done.

[@Kiwi_TaylorsVersion]

Aside from the fact that it is such an overstep to have someone do your taxes at a first date. I wouldn't want to share all of this information with a stranger and rely on them to do it right

[@sauceissilly]

I’d love to know what she set her age range to for her profiles💀 if u want someone “as mature” as you Don’t date someone a decade younger

She implied consent when she did it to others and had all her stuff on public. What a goof.

Her using extreme language like “consent” and “violating” to try and make people look like abusers is wild

[@til-cd6ty]

I was kinda hoping "doing my taxes" was a weird euphemism 😂

[@DiMagnolia]

Is that what they’re calling it these days 😂

[@BronzedBeast]

​@@DiMagnoliayou mean "Back in her day" she's old enough to use that phrase 😭

[@margomargo985]

Oh no she’ll be forced to actually go out and meet people in real life

[@notimportant123]

where she can't catfish people so don't be surprised if she doesn't get dates

[@ljperry570]

I’ve been avoiding the Molly discourse but I like your takes on topics so I’m excited for this

[@stumpolicious]

Love how blunt you are in this video. Spot on in every observation

[@catherinespaczynski1288]

“The fact of the matter is I have fat under my chin and I’m not ashamed of that”. Wow thank you so much Molly! Thank you for addressing the issue!

[@kimicope_]

No it's hard for me to understand that she thinks she's entitled to get a partner with her old photos. Definitely delusional

[@Nothing-sn9nc]

Hilarious that in Buffalo what it takes to be a “finance bro” is knowing how to do your taxes

[@maruwinchester67]

4:08 I thought you were gonna say "am I the drama???" 😂😂

[@bonnieweyandt384]

I tried to listen to the whole video but her voice is nails on a chalkboard....love what you do Dr. John

[@Nero_Jero]

The vocal fry combined with the upward inflection is a combination I didn't know existed 😂

[@SudemABACI]

The start of the video is way too funny without the context 😭💀

[@vegasa2067]

Omg ikr I had to restart the video because I was like “wait what did he just say” 😂

[@Alicia-Rene]

If she isn’t shallow herself and doesn’t think thinner is better, then why does she insist on using photos of when she’s smaller? Hmm 🤔 ETA: she’s also ignoring _their_ consent in a way. They didn’t consent to a date with this version of you.

[@Jem4u90]

This person isn't confident. I was like a 5x when I was online dating and I posted recent pics in several angles bc I never wanted anyone to questions my body. Then again when I went down to an xl I did the same. people are not nice we have to be honest in that way because you could actually put yourself at risk. Hope everyone dating is being safe ❤

[@thedroxxxx]

she uses a lot of the same language that amberlynn reid uses when she’s lecturing her community. “this was taken from me”, “this was ruined for me”.

[@vegasa2067]

8:33 that top picture is edited so bad it’s approaching the uncanny valley

[@mariabui2969]

Ahhhh the old pesky "misogyny and fat phobia"....i was waiting for them to show up😅😅😅😅

[@OhWell307]

Why do people feel the need to put every inch of their life online.

[@paulk8924]

Deep rooted insecurities make them cope to get attention and validation from similar minded people. They were like this before social media, but now we get front row seats.

[@Micklerheather]

Like Obese to Beast, I lost a lot of weight but unlike OTB, I had skin removed. I always warn guys about my scars.

[@cookiedough641]

The “hello” at the start made me jump 😂

[@RachelReduces]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ihzzi]

same omfg

[@pinklatte4655]

the pause made me think I did something wrong 🤣

[@arrij-99]

Calling Molly “popular” on tiktok is a little misleading 🤣 she more of a laughing stock it’s kinda sad

[@RachelReduces]

popular for all the wrong reasons 😩

[@thisaccount765]

It’s called a bait and switch and it’s a lousy thing to do. I don’t appreciate it in retail, at work or in dating 🤷🏻‍♀…… also if she was confident, she’d post recent (where she’s heavier and older) photos.

[@rabidrabbitshuggers]

It’s a shame that being a perpetual victim doesn’t burn calories, because this seems exhausting.

[@CyanideMeatball]

😂

[@francescaverdi2555]

😂😅😂

[@ampdarts850]

whats crazy is that this girl is drop dead gorgeous ALREADY. She'd be a total knock out IMO if she would drop the act and get healthy. love the bob, bangs, straight brows, eye shape and color, nice full lips, light make up and her cute button nose. But being deliberately obtuse is hurting no one but herself.

[@AmandaAverell]

I wonder if these dudes googled her, saw her content and were like, “welp, I’m out.”? Either because of her looks (which oh well) or because of the content she creates. Knowing they’re just going to be used for views- no thanks.

[@sarahannh7734]

There’s a lot of problems with this lady… but it’s interesting she feels so ‘violated’ after making light of DV…

[@Ploots21]

What an insufferable hypocrite. JFC

[@B-Real-Pshh]

I as a female never use filters or old photos on dating sites however EVERY guy I've met has posted really old photos or photos that hardly resemble them. I also don't always post a photo on my profile, I will happily share one if a guy is interested in my profile

[@NigraeLegiones]

Ask them for an updated one. For most men it isn't intentialonal we just don't take pictures of ourselves often. Most profile pictures I use will be in use for years before I decide to change it.

[@BronzedBeast]

Cat fishing isn't a gender specific thing. Both sides do it for what ever reason. So please don't take John's video as "women catfish" it's just about this person catfishing

[@catkit354]

It's the dishonesty for me

[@Noxtrust]

As someone who has online dated while fat and dating after losing a lot of weight I agree!! When I was bigger I knew I needed a good face picture as well as good body pictures that represented how I currently looked!! Beyond that I would also explicitly tell the people that I was overweight/losing weight. Etc. I would be so mortified if someone saw me in real life and felt conned.

[@Samsammiesamantha]

So she’s literally saying she feels her most beautiful at a lower weight then calling US fatphobic? Ma’am

[@xtinkerbellax3]

Any adult who uses the term haters unironically is emotionally and mentally immature at best.

[@jukeboxxx11]

Craziest thing about her intentionally misunderstanding why people call her out on catfishing, is that she completely understands it when the shoe is on the other foot. She’s called out men who put a taller height than they actually are on their profiles! Yet for some reason her gasts are flabbered when confronted about her own misleading profile 🤔 ok miss girl lol

[@minirth.maggie]

Her gasts are flabbered... 😂😂😂

[@projectjupiter5523]

"gasts are flabbered" is the best thing I've read all day, thank you so much 😂😂

[@Koeninn]

By putting something online you're consenting to it being viewed publically if it's on a public setting. If your tiktok profile and dating profile are both public then that's consenting to having them viewed. Put them private if you don't "consent" to it being viewed...

[@mantistoboggan2676]

News flash, most people dont find obesity sexually attractive and there’s nothing wrong with that.

[@roses8573]

I’d say the larger takeaway is that people dislike false advertising.

[@mantistoboggan2676]

@ yeah thats definitely the specific message here you are right.

[@amycnews1593]

13:13 - if she doesn’t want this to happen, she should NOT be online then. 🙄😒💯

[@laurasc84366]

Throwing up a picture with 20lb weight difference is WAY different than throwing up one that is 100 lbplus different

[@michaelthompson7217]

agree. 20lb comes and goes, everyone has a weight difference like that some point in their life around their set point. 100 is something else

[@marguaritetherese3156]

Mystery solved, it's her personality. Complete lack of empathy, completely full of herself. I don't think we need to dig further.

[@Skittlemonster92]

Can we talk about how crazy it is to have a total stranger you met on the internet that you are flirting with do your taxes? Like, having your social security number, full name, address? Unless they are a tax professional and even then like keep that stuff separate until you get serious and are together awhile.

[@italiagrl70]

So she’s pissed that she was called out about her dating profile, well, how do you think these guys feel when they think they’re going to meet one person and when they show up she’s about 100 pounds heavier. It’s not that these guys didn’t show up for the date, they showed up they seen her and they left.

[@Nicamkam]

The number of friends, brothers, cousins, etc that have asked me if they were in the wrong for honestly telling a girl they were not attracted to her after she catfished them is insane. These women threaten them, stalk them, harrass them, gaslight them. It's crazy. There is nothing wrong with not being attracted to a person. It's great that you have those pictures of when you felt great about yourself but that's not what you currently look like. It's dishonest. Have some integrity.

[@gloriousapplebees]

I know it's just absolutely none of our business... But I'm very curious about the guys she accepts/rejects on these apps... Very often those same body standards they don't want to be held to are the same that they're holding all potential partners to Also at ~31:55 "I don't care I just think this is an interesting talking point" When earlier just a couple minutes back in this video she said she doesn't know why this keeps coming up and she doesn't think it's interesting at all... So full of cope

[@michaelaf6580]

Don’t mess with those young guys. 23 and 30s is ridiculous.

[@gloriousapplebees]

Yeah that's a big gap. But just don't mess with anyone if you're going to lie about yourself/how you look.

[@DarbysPlanet]

I was catfished by a man… he was at LEAST 40lbs heavier in person and put in very little effort into his appearance, it gave the worst first impression and immediately it was the biggest turn off and I felt like my time was wasted so much.

[@JakeJake2021]

I met my husband on Plenty of Fish. We have been married for 8 wonderful years.

[@koifishdude]

I really enjoy hearing your take on things. Glad I found your channel!!!

[@juliannasimon1050]

I found my bf on hinge. But what did we do? Not catfish and come late to our dates and I did not make him do my taxes ...y'know? She's the online dating nightmare tbh

[@kelseyf2619]

People who basically livestream their life disturb me so much

[@jimbo573]

Beware the ghost accountant.

[@jmrpco2001]

I don't understand why she would even go for a twenty three year old for a date. I'm in my early 30s and men in their 20s are basically like babies to me. I couldn't imagine dating one.