Fatphobic Comment Ruins Date

[@Michellemcd543]

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[@CareFreeNarcoleptic]

Yassss go Michelle. We need some more ✨*fat chick videos*✨🎶🎤

[@bunnyxxjay4189]

Hey girl, if you want some clothes for your doll I highly suggest AliceCollections or second hand off of Mandarake. Love you and your videos!

[@RehabWithRaeRae]

I like your energy. Keep being you, girl! 💫💫💫

[@chi554]

Would love your commentary on 90 day: the last resort! Your amazing

[@thekennys8000]

Michelle, I've lived in St. John's, Newfoundland for almost 50 years now, and I have had this exact experience multiple times. When I was very heavy, men would moo at me from cars. Once a taxi driver slowed down to yell "Jesus, missus, look at the size of you!" A man told my sister "If you could see your a** you'd stop eating." I am sure that was real. You don't have to set that stuff up here, you just have to go outside.

[@AngelofMusicization]

Staged or not, her reaction was definitely real 😢

[@gretchenkiley6615]

Yes, that was really mean 😢 Why would someone comment on a person's appearance? How cruel 😢

[@woadxqueen666]

The way the husband doesn't even try to make her feel better too. He looks like he's not understanding why she's upset

[@DeadLkeMe]

​@@woadxqueen666he attempted to hug her. I wouldn't say he didn't understand why she's upset but he doesn't know how to comfort her. As he says, he thinks she's beautiful but he doesn't know how to make her believe that matters more than some stranger's comment. They're both young (23) so it's really not that surprising.

[@amypetty5013]

@@woadxqueen666 That's not true. He did try, and he clearly understands WHY she's upset. The issue is that he's just not actually *good* at providing comfort.

[@amypetty5013]

@@gretchenkiley6615 I mean, part of the whole idea here is that it was staged; i.e. it wasn't some spontaneous reaction by a jerkwad, but something the producers deliberately set in motion.

[@eeevieee]

I always think these dudes come off creepy. Totally great to be supportive of your spouse and love them through their struggles, but encouraging them in their bad behaviors for your own fetish (at least that’s what it comes off like with the way a lot of these guys talk) is weird and makes the whole thing seem less genuinely supportive.

[@itsnotsupposebly6792]

EXACTLY

[@alessandrajackson3768]

Exactly! I think it’s normal to be attracted to bigger women or curvier women…but when men are attracted to severely obese or severely underweight women, it is a fetish! Humans can naturally be attracted to a spectrum of bodies, but unnatural bodies tend to fall into a fetish category!

[@JimiSparx-yw3gb]

These dudes ARE creeps. They aren't loving these women in SPITE of their weight, it's a damned FETISH, and what they actively WANT! BLEECH!

[@StationHereNow]

Any kind of chaser gets a little creepy

[@jzwalz51robin45]

In other words, the guy is always in the wrong.

[@frenchfry14595]

I lost 87 pounds, got down to my ideal weight, got the best heartbeat per minute (50), and I STILL felt fat. I STILL believed I didn't look good in certain outfits. I get you.

[@RustyShackleford051]

Body dysmorphia is a bitch 😮‍💨

[@sirpiddlefartiii]

I lost 140 lb and I still feel fat, Even though I'm almost underweight for my height now. You just never stop feeling fat I guess

[@KMcKenzie9]

I’m at 80-90 pounds lost and I struggle with seeing myself as and feeling like the fat girl.

[@ggg67265]

50bpm is considered quite low and borderline bradycardia, I’m really proud of you for achieving this amazing result tho! Just hope you keep an eye on your bpm as it can become a problem and can make you feel light headed or sick as it can’t doesn’t get enough oxygen to your body. Unless, of course, you have always had a low bpm since you were younger in which case it could be a normal bpm for you. Just be careful! Lower bpm doesn’t always mean better but all I hope is that you’re feeling ok and are healthy

[@twitchy_bird]

​@@pennyspamzlolit's always the pathetic people who refuse to even put up a profile picture who wanna talk shit. Keep your hateful to yourself, if you had a real life it'd be easier.

[@Imani73l]

I'm not gon lie I'm a childless single woman and when I heard him say no sex drive after hearing how bad her pregnancy was I literally stopped what I was doing and turned towards my screen with the nastiest look I could conjure because I know that bitch didn't just say that and I'm so glad u called him out on that!

[@jaezombie]

I’m glad someone else caught that too lol

[@frickfrack7075]

I'm currently 10 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. This has been my hardest pregnancy so far, already. I've been so sick since 4 weeks, and because I've been so sick I'm not eating very well, which makes me very weak and tired. On top of the energy deprivation that comes with any pregnancy. I've barely left my bed for 2 months and I've been experiencing a lot of depression and anxiety surrounding it all. With that being said, you'd think that it'd be obvious that sex should be the last priority at this point. But, my husband has been pestering me for the past couple of weeks and I finally snapped at him, basically telling him he should feel ashamed of himself. Luckily, that seemed to knock some sense into him. Needless to say, I was so infuriated FOR HER!

[@forestwizard1483]

@@frickfrack7075 unbelievable that your husband would pester you for sex. What a pathetic thing to do and borderline abusive too. I am currently separated from my husband because behavior like this. I couldn't stand it anymore.

[@davon_DaGod]

@@forestwizard1483I mean, men and women are just different. We have a much higher testosterone, so more than likely we are always gonna be horny. It’s up to the individual or man to control it. I’m not trying to justify his behavior, it’s just that we are wired differently from women

[@DeidresStuff]

​@davon_DaGod I have an endocrine disorder that causes abnormal levels of testosterone and I manage to not be an ass.

[@wifeofsauron1658]

If TLC staged that, shame on them. That is disgusting. There is a difference between acknowledging that being overweight isn't healthy and going out of your way to be hurtful to someone.

[@JasmineBrown-ud2yf]

The fact it is staged and it made her so upset, I am no actor but I genuinely believe that reaction was real. They definitely told people to go do that without her knowing at least

[@rashidareeves78]

I hate when we all have to pretend we don’t notice certain things. Sighhh 🤦🏾‍♀️ It’s exhausting. 😑

[@solarqueen2555]

What do you pretend not to notice?

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

What exactly are you talking about? Do you mean that he's keeping her fat? I'm genuinely asking, not being sarcastic

[@acm3047]

I mean as long your not rude about it, it not like plus size person doesn't know they're plus size

[@FullMetalB]

​@andreamonnar3047 yeah, there is a clear difference between "pretending not to notice" and constantly pointing it out.

[@ilickgrandmas2854]

I don't get this comment

[@emsies8116]

Actually, yes though. My best friend is a very large girl, and the amount of times people will drive or walk past us shouting obscenities at her is actually far more frequent than you'd think - Humanity is vile and nasty.

[@edayavuz1667]

Didn't think they'd have the balls to say that while walking past u

[@petty-davis]

yep, I'm someone who has been varying degrees of fat most of my life. And I live in a state where a LOT of people are fat - many fatter than me. Regardless, I have had rude things yelled at me from car windows, etc countless times over the years. People are just a-holes.

[@sadie8834]

Insulting someone much larger than you who can easily tackle you and break you in half does not sound like a good idea.

[@drawingsticks5333]

They know most women won't do that :/

[@blueStarKitt7924]

Well those humans are pathetic, they must deep down hate themselves, but yeah, vile and nasty.😡

[@SeanShimamoto]

I call it fat mentality...when you were once fat and then eventually lose weight, but you'll always see yourself as fat. I still suffer from it and it's been over 25 years since I lost 50 pounds.

[@maryamtara2934]

It doesn't have to you being fat in the past to have that mentality, i was underweight (severely) and liked how i looked back then even though i was sick and fragile AF! But now that I'm way fatter (not obese but a normal weight) and even though I'm healthier and more active and muscular now I see myself as a fat cow ngl! Even though my trainer is begging me not to lose weight 😂

[@haleymist09]

At one point I'd actually lost weight to a healthy weight (of course putting it back on again...anyway) and I still thought I felt back fat rolls. I called it "Phantom fat."

[@AmericanHorrorStory.]

I suffer from it every single day. Even at 5' 9" 132lbs i thought i was. Even when being compared and use as a thinner example, i think people are lying 😅i get it man. And im glad you worked on yourself. Best wishes

[@SeanShimamoto]

@@AmericanHorrorStory. Yup, I lost the 50 lbs back in the mid-1990s, when I was in my early 20s...and even now that I'm in my 50s, I still sometimes see myself as fat, and I still look like my profile pic, which I took just a couple of years ago. LOL. Anyway, thanks for the kind words. Sending lotsa love & aloha from Honolulu to you & your entire ohana! 😁🤙🏾 ♥️🌈☀️ (just Hawai’i symbols)

[@boopdedoop3764]

My boyfriend (and some other ppl on yt in my country) call it "professionally fat" like a retired salesman who never could let go of trying to sell products.

[@wellersonoliveira5334]

The thing about body positivity is that is an ultra capitalist moviment. You see alot of fat actvists promoting mcdonalds, burger king etc.

[@vmbay2212]

I just can’t get joyful about eating myself to an early death.🫤

[@arimiles6077]

That’s why we need to push for body neutrality instead.

[@FruitsChinpoSamuraiG]

That's why I sometimes have this conspiracy moment and wonder if this wasn't artificially created by those fast food companies. Maybe I'm wearing a tinfoil hat, maybe I'm onto something lolol

[@Egress00]

Or their overpriced clothing and music/merch *Cough cough* Lizzo *cough*

[@FlawlessImperfectionBeauty]

The American Heart Association has only succeeded in making us the worst in the world for heart health. They push processed foods, seed oils and anything other than meat, veggies and whole foods. They are bought and sold from selling the food they push, to being sponsored by the medical industry they create.😑

[@thatonemom2016]

Fun story. Before I lost 77 pounds and I was at my heaviest, I was minding my own business and pumping gas, a guy, who was most likely a drug addict who lived on the street yelled at me and called me a 'fat f@#%'. Now this traumatic event will go down in my mind forever as just TLC spicing up my life 😂😂😂 Thanks Michelle 😂

[@potatoflow536]

I don't think being a drug addict and living in the street precludes one from the hallowed halls of Being A TLC Producer. 😉 If anything, it makes them more ✨ in tune with the streets ✨

[@thegingercat146]

Lol I got called the same walking to work, 7 months pregnant. (It was 4 jocks at 11 am on St. Patricks day, so maybe they were already drinking, I don't know) I was so shocked I didn't even respond. Then I got to work and cried in the bathroom like the hormonal mess I was.

[@priscillaspets]

when i was 16 a lady yelled at me “skinny bitch” while i was sitting there like😭😭still repeats in my mind every time i put on a bathing suit

[@blueStarKitt7924]

​@@potatoflow536🤣🤣🤣👍

[@blueStarKitt7924]

​@@thegingercat146Sorry about that .😔🙏❤️

[@lalayastill610]

my biggest eating mistake was eating candy instead of food when i was hungry, so i'd end up seriously overeating bad stuff

[@Nakia11798]

I'd agree. My issue wasn't candy, but salty foods like chips and fries. It's SO good to have your supper planned in advance because then you just make and eat that and you're full for the evening(hopefully)

[@KreeZafi]

I definitely do that a lot too! Now what I'm doing (for the most part, I have bad days) is that when I decide to treat myself to something nice I make sure to have something healthy and filling before, so that I'll have a better ability to stop after just that treat and not turn it into a binge. Downing a protein shake or whatever before having a treat really has helped me a lot!

[@myliza700]

I’m a size 8, medium top and I have been called fat. A cow. Piggy. Etc etc. when I’m average sized. The reality is people are nasty. They will tear down ANYONE to make themselves feel better. I mean people are calling Margot Robbie “mid”. So. 👀 point is people are going to be gross to you no matter who you are and what you look like. Focus on YOU. If they are not contributing to you or your household then their opinions are irrelevant. We should be open to opinions and criticisms that doesn’t mean we have to allow disrespect

[@ninibaby7496]

I gained lots weight during the C. I felt horrible but more men we’re approaching me and saying how I look good “thick”. I had never felt so bad in my life. I started walking and getting more active and dropping pounds to feel better and men who approach me often say if I gained ten pounds I bet you would fill out nicely…. We can’t win in the eyes of the public. Sorry you had to experience such rude behavior. I’m sure you are beautiful and stay healthy and feeling good for you! Huggz ❤

[@jzwalz51robin45]

AND: Tests Holliday identifies as anorexic.

[@nikolefinger1747]

Very true. I've been called skinny, or even too skinny, but I was talking with my friend about body size expectations for women, and he was really confused when I told him my body size would have been considered fat by early 2000s standards. Of course, now I'm being told my chest is too small, even though they are big enough that they sometimes get in the way. I decided long ago that I'd just worry about if I like my own body, and that has saved me a lot of stress.

[@tinker651]

😂I broke up with a guy and he promptly got pissed and said I needed to be on Jenny Craig 👀 you weren't saying that when these cheeks were clappin 😂🤣

[@jzwalz51robin45]

@@tinker651 that is because a lot men are just going with their hormones (e.i.: a hole is a hole). you were a convenience

[@candaceshook5313]

Last August 4th I weighed myself and saw 255 at 5'6 and knew I couldn't do it anymore! I have worked and I hit 168 this morning! I feel better and have endless energy to spend quality time with my kids. I do pilates and walk 1.5 to 2 miles with my dog every day. I just want to be in a health bmi. I don't have a goal weight per se, but my mom is giving me crap about getting too skinny. How do you keep celebrating your body when everyone isn't happy that you're happy? (My husband and friends are super supportive)

[@_weasel]

This sounds suuuper similar to myself! I reached 250lb at 5'9" and decided enough was enough. I am 158lb now and my mom ALSO kind of concern-trolls about my weight??? I think the best thing I've found is just reassuring her that I'm doing it the right way, that I'm eating healthy, I'm not skipping meals, and basically that she needs to trust me that I'm handling it in a healthy and balanced way. Congrats and good luck!

[@chiberjuberdourado2487]

Great job both of you! 🎉

[@hannahbanana2224]

Tunnel vision, friend. Focus on the opinions of those who have your back.

[@candaceshook5313]

@_weasel I love the "concern trolling" phrase!!!! That is the best way of putting it!!!!! Congratulations keep up the good work!!!!!!!!!

[@00MzAngel00]

I am married, have a child, and have a husband who loves my body. And I STILL get self conscious getting undressed, it’s all in my head but it doesn’t seem to go away completely.

[@OMAR-vk9pi]

That’s called emotional scars 😂

[@NvrDieNvrSurrender]

Yes, you totally get it! Once you have carried some weight on your frame, it messes with your confidence even after getting fit. Also, the being able to control what we eat without being on the endless binge and punishment cycle is so important. I'm in the middle of working on that, which will, in turn, help my overall fitness and health. The dating part isn't even on my radar right now as a 40 something year old divorced mother of two. Fun times.

[@mrs.w8193]

It didn’t mess with my confidence. I lost 180 pounds from 340-150 pounds. I wasn’t always obese, maybe that’s why. I got morbidly obese with pregnancies.

[@EmberFlames_Jag]

Yes i am a 17 yr old biological male and I lost over 70 pounds and reached a 19ish BMI after being at about a 30 BMI. People at my school assumed I have anorexia because I lost so much weight (I definitely have disordered eating to some extent). It's almost as if I can still feel the weight on my bones and I almost crave hunger pains like I was when losing weight cause it gave me so much euphoria to have control over my looks but now it's like I don't really have any weight left to lose

[@desertdaisymarie6951]

So does MATURITY!! If you learn to deal with your feelings like an adult, then you learn that more often than not, you're just butt-hurt..

[@thebowandbullet]

I know, right?! This is a major pet peeve of mine with movies, shows, and unfortunately, IRL people too: you know how babies are made, you know how to prevent that, you know you didn't prevent it, so why oh why are you shocked and surprised you got pregnant? 🙄

[@e.6328]

The only thing that makes sense is she might not have even been on any kind of prevention bc ceasing of menses is common when you become 0bës3 or underweight. That being said, idk her situation and it’s always best practice to be on at least one form of BC if you’re not actively TRYING to get pregnant.

[@jessica5470]

Tbf I'm shocked she's pregnant, I'm only 140 pounds and yet been told I'm probably infertile and weight loss is the only thing that'll help, it really is shocking to me women that size can carry babies and I can't, I don't want to, but I wish my ovaries worked properly just for health reasons

[@vault29a]

@@e.6328 can you just write "obese" like a normal person? its a medical term, not a slur.

[@e.6328]

@@vault29a I’m trying to not get my account flagged. I know it’s not a slur, but YT flags some wild stuff.

[@DeadLkeMe]

Lol when my brother and SIL announced her pregnancy to the family, she legit said she wasn't sure how it happened....she's had 3 children at this point and neither used protection. Apparently she thought you couldn't get pregnant again in the first few months after giving birth....🤦‍♀️

[@Atonement23]

I was running one night, weighing about 180 at 5’2, and a group of guys moo’d as they drive by. It wasn’t a great feeling. Another time running outside during winter and someone threw a cup of ice water at me. I was a good mile from home. That time I got their license plate and called the cops though.

[@mocuishle1028]

I heard a great phrase: “If I tell you that I felt bullied, you DON’T get to decide if I WAS bullied.” Respect the person’s feelings!

[@cute.sheep.]

being upset and being bullied are two different things

[@adamjuneau6287]

your feelings about it are irrelevant to what happened

[@cyberspace7208]

​@@cute.sheep.exactly

[@wintermoon7003]

But a lot of the time people's perspective on things is skewed and might think that they were bullied when they weren't. Sometimes people think I'm upset even when I'm not because they read me the wrong way ALL OF THE TIME! It's rather annoying.

[@mirsumm8431]

I disagree. Just bc u feel some kind of way doesn’t make it true. I’m not going to respect a lie.

[@maryamtara2934]

I'm 25 and been struggling with my self image for a while, I'm not the skinniest woman ever but I'm in a healthier body than when i was (underweight) and had all my bones sticking out, however the weight gain is causing me to see myself as obese (even though I'm in a normal weight according to my dr), I can't imagine how a 23 yo woman who is mortally obese must be feeling. When she said she's only 23 i felt sad and I'm currently tearing up for her.. i hope she can get healthy and lose the excess weight 🤲🏻

[@edayavuz1667]

*morbidly obese

[@reagan13579]

Just wanted to say, you're basically my gossip news channel, and my 1.5 year old little boy loves to watch you too. Whenever he hears your voice coming from my phone he runs over to watch you, its so cute 🥰

[@maryamtara2934]

Awww that's adorable

[@chiberjuberdourado2487]

So cute! Michelle has fans of ALL ages!! 😊

[@emma-sk3jw]

your son is SO ME

[@everydayrenewed]

Awh a vibe. Michelle radiates cool aunt vibes.

[@parkerisles7256]

I don’t even care if the “moo” was scripted or not because people make out of pocket, inappropriate remarks about the weight/appearance of others without prompting all the time. I’m a size 2, in the 120s and have never been overweight in my life. Earlier this year, a family friend told me I shouldn’t be eating 2 pieces if pizza if “I wanted to keep my figure” instead of just asking me if there was more in the fridge. I was extremely agitated by the comment because I had finally gotten back to my normal weight after my undiagnosed illness caused me to lose 20lbs within several months back in 2021. It literally took me a year to overcome severe nausea and vomitting every time I ate, drank, breathed wrong, took a shower, brushed my teeth, etc.

[@michaelbarnard3636]

The worst thing anybody can learn (and the hardest lesson to accept) is that you aren't good enough naturally and you have to work to improve yourself, no excuses necessary...

[@emilyavery5970]

my aunt had a "surprise pregnancy". She was 44, no period (was entering menopause) and didn't have any symptoms. A lot of women are told we can't have kids after 40.

[@C0d0ps]

Most women in America doesn’t have menopause until age 55. That is what the recent studies says. Whatever man that says “no kids after 40” needs to get smarter.

[@emilyavery5970]

@@C0d0ps Everyone is different. Some women enter menopause sooner than others. Some women have infertility problems. The man who told her she was too old for kids was her OBGYN who has access to her full medical record.

[@C0d0ps]

@@emilyavery5970 That is true. The avg doesn’t mean all women hit menopause at 55. The vast majority fall into 45-55 - google

[@purplelove3666]

Wait,no period? And she got pregnant,are you serious???? Wow, amazing

[@miunya]

When I was heavier I do remember being called fat slurs or whatever when I was walking home with my thinner friend at the time. I ignored them and kept walking but that night when I got home I thought about it and then started crying because I just couldn't believe how cruel that was when I was doing absolutely nothing wrong other than existing 💔 I've luckily lost some weight since and always working on more.

[@owliria_sage]

Love you Michelle, you motivate me to work out and make funny jokes and cartoon references while at it. I lost 15 lbs in 2 months and am looking forward to losing 10 more. I hope you get to 700k soon❤

[@bw1615]

Congratulations!

[@Jennifer722011]

Idk before I lost my 130 lbs some guys rolled down their window hollered insults at regarding my weight even asked me if I ever heard of the gym. Happened on campus in front of lots of people. People are cruel

[@esme_melody]

YES thank u for pointing that out 6:45 . my biggest pet peeve is those husbands who moan about how their wife going thru some health change (pregnancy/weight loss/diet/whatever) will affect their sex lives 🤢 it's just so gross and selfish and shows what they *really* care about and prioritize

[@asiriperera7735]

Thank you for your videos Michelle. The past year I have been emotional eating due to personal issues and and gained a lot of weight in one year. Lately I've been getting motivation by watching you. Slowly taking steps in the right direction with re-evaluating my relationship with food.

[@s.d.703]

Aw, I started tearing up seeing her cry. That is so messed up

[@e.6328]

3:30 - I feel this so hard. I am skinny, objectively I know this. And my husband is obsessed with my body. I know this, and I believe him. BUUUUT, there’s times when my BD is bad, or it’s that time of the month, and I’m bloated af and feel gross and STILL will change in the bathroom. We’ve been married for over 5 years. So irrational lol

[@catrinacrystallina]

Yay! I’ve been loving the frequency you’ve been uploading videos. I listen to them while working out. And your hair has been looking amazing!

[@hannahmiller6178]

I've lost 30lbs over the past year and honestly I still feel like I'm just as heavy. It's a weird mental game. I still feel like I need to wear super oversized t-shirts and loose pants. I'm slowly starting to try and branch out in my wardrobe, mostly with the support of my husband. It's honestly crazy to me how different you can see yourself vs how everyone else sees you.

[@oluwatimahwise6859]

I’m so glad that you mentioned you still have those thoughts even now when you change in front of someone. I recently lost a bit of weight. I’ve gone from 190 to 113 pounds. But yet I still feel very chubby when I look in the mirror. I wasn’t sure if that was normal so it’s comforting to hear other people experience it.

[@nuggs9999]

how tall r u

[@dronesclubhighjinks]

I had assumed the boyfriend would be the one making the fatphobic comment. I thought the relationship sounded fake ah and then you said you checked her Instagram and told us the updates. Thank you for the video!

[@lanky_annie]

As a person on the leaner side, working in an office I got a running commentary every time I ate something - I would find it embarrassing and certainly not something I would do to someone of any size

[@MrsBadBlackie]

Jeeeez just write down the license plate and report that guy for harassment.

[@Beeperoni]

I’ve had people yell at me from their cars that I’m fat. It legit does happen. Especially when I’m with my skinny husband

[@melissamoonchild9216]

what posesses someone to do such a thing. good lord.

[@petty-davis]

@@melissamoonchild9216 The same thing that possesses people to be a-holes in the comment sections, I guess. Some people genuinely seem to get some kind of thrill out of making people feel bad. When I was in my teens and early 20s, it happened often and it would always really hurt my feelings. Now, I just wear my headphones when I walk around and if anyone has something to say, eff 'em.

[@thepfoneguy9470]

love ur content Michelle! It's stopped me from gaining any more weight from habits you have struggled with and broken and it really inspired me! keep it up!!

[@kittyfriend9888]

a long time ago when I was kind of overweight this actually happened ha, me and my husband were walking down the street in lake placid with beers (we were on vacation and it was a party vibe) , I was so uncomfortable about my weight the entire trip, I felt disgusting, but tried to put on a dress and look nice for a night out, suddenly these guys rolled past in a car and said “you know she’s pregnant bro!” because I was drinking and fat I guess? idk at the time it made me cry, but it’s so dumb looking back lol

[@esmee6308]

Definitely been there as well, on a bad day the silliest can push us over the edge. I have it quite often when my pain is really bad and I try so hard to present myself as well as I can and then getting a comment on the way I walk just really gets to me. Even though some people are just worried about me, on a better day I don't care about my disability at all. Many days I carry my 'fit' body as a shield and times that falls away a little (I always train, but had a really bad two years so I put on a bit of weight) I feel so fragile.

[@Salem_Witch_Trial_Logic]

Yelling insults at people while driving away will always be so goofy to me. 😂 “Yeah! You! You suck!” *Nyooooom!*

[@naomifunk181]

You look amazing, girl! You inspired me to get back into shape after being skinny shamed into gaining a copious amount of weight. I'll never listen to the haters again. I'm prioritizing my health, losing weight, and gaining my confidence back! ❤️

[@jessicad6889]

“I really wanna go drive down the street, until I find his car and pull him out of his car” “well then do it.” That’s why I love you

[@altaego2748]

Hard to believe the insult wasn't staged. Lots and lots of people in Newfoundland are big. Especially in the outports.

[@Lion08888]

Exactly. I’m from Newfoundland and it’s not very uncommon to see someone who is overweight or obese

[@sarahuher8358]

"you're beautiful but..." worse thing you can say to someone. On par with "you're a good person but..." both have been said to me and im at the point in my life that the moment those words come out of someone's mouth i write them off.

[@lizwatkins1995]

Michelle brought up a great point that always confuses me: I wouldn't ever wanna make fun of anyone who suddenly finds themselves in a desperate situation but why , when couples consensually and continuously "do it", are they SO SHOCKED to find it resulted in a pregnancy? I mean, we all know how babies are made, right?? Why is it so shocking when an act that often results in pregnancy, results in a pregnancy?? On another note, I feel better that Michelle admitted that she's capable of putting down more food than her boyfriend, cuz I'm the same way with my man. 😅

[@نجمة-ت8د]

I’m not sure if this is the case but maybe her gyno said that she wouldn’t be able to get pregnant because of her size. which is an issue that can result from obesity. So that could explain why she was so shocked.

[@sarabennett6295]

On the other hand, some skinny influencers like Zoe Unlimited are unhealthy and cannot get pregnant, because she hasn't had her period in years. It depends, just because you're skinny doesn't mean you are fertile and obestity doesn't always equal infertility. But it helps to be a healthy weight to be able to get pregnant.

[@onyxgothicc]

I'm friends with a really obese girl and dudes have shouted obscenities out their window when we were walking downtown. It definitely happens.

[@toffiet3347]

I think its ok to love someone irrelivent of their body as long as your aware of whats going on and want them to get healthy and not try and keep them sick

[@alexandrasimon7191]

These couples are the exact same dynamic as if an alcoholic was living with a social drinker who was sexually (maybe exclusively) attracted to the physical signs and consequences of alcoholism in others, and they'd regularly drink together, except one partner could drink in moderation and the other could absolutely not. It's sick to the core.

[@bunnyxxjay4189]

Being pregnant right now, I can totally relate. My body hurts so much!

[@Rachelief]

Loving the amount of channel growth recently, Michelle! You deserve it🎉❤ You’ll be at 1 million before you know it!!!

[@MalloryHasCats]

"That cow over there is ten times the person you are." I want that embroidered on a pillow.

[@CatherineB554]

😂😂😂

[@YouKilledFritz]

😂😂😂😂

[@AllyCakes12]

I love to eat and my problem with eating out... Is that people always tell me I'm ordering to much food and cut back my food orders. Piss me off.

[@elizakey9157]

Your outfits are always on point btw. Love your cosplays of course, but your personal style is *chef’s kiss* ❤

[@ridita5221]

Alternative storyline: It's happened with her in real life and they reenacted the scene to educate the viewers, that saying things like that can hurt people's feelings. The problem is, that those assholes already know it.

[@kpoppy9635]

Yeah they know it and they are proud of it. They even think they are making society a better place for it, that's how big their ego is.

[@sarabennett6295]

It's never ok to do that...they are no better than racists

[@camillarich]

Weighing 160 makes my feet hurt. I keep walking and trying to lose the weight anyway. I remember my mom walking regularly when I was young and her feet getting worse over the years and she quit walking and kept gaining more and more weight. I'm so scared of turning out like her.

[@UfaAms]

I’ve been watching you for literally years. Always excited for every single video. Hello from Maldives 🇲🇻

[@lamppuu1]

Hello from Finland! 🇫🇮 Maldives sound like heaven! 😍

[@UfaAms]

It’s a blessing to live here. The ocean is my home 🤙🏾

[@lamppuu1]

​@@UfaAmsthat sounds like heaven! 😍 Finland is like 70% of forest so forest is my home ❤🌲

[@chiberjuberdourado2487]

I’d love to visit both! Both sound wonderful!

[@TheMoonlightSong]

Once I was driving with a "friend" and her ten year old son. We passed by a running overweight girl. She decided to roll down the wind to scream something awful like "running won't help you cow". Mean people are everywhere. Btw after that we argue about it and asked why she wanted to ruin the day of a random girl and set the perfect example of a bully for her son

[@twistedalicemcgee]

That may have felt scripted but it's also something that genuinely really does happen

[@AmiaRenee]

When he called his wife a fat cow I hollered 😂 I knew what he was trying to say but it didn’t land the way he probably thought it would 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@SCSilk]

In 2001, at my oldest friend's house for thanksgiving, her aunt (who hadn't seen me in 20+ years) exclaimed loudly to me, "Didn't you used to be fat?" Well, damn. And that aunt will probably be there this year... Update: she was there, and she has forgotten me. Dementia is cruel. But we had a nice chat and I told her where to find good earrings.

[@logisticsnerd76]

I'm usually defensive about anti-men stuff online but I gotta hand it to you Michelle, your targets deserve it. These guys are an embarrassment.

[@mandykiwi]

As someone who was mooed at during highschool, I know how she feels. This is terrible 😢

[@alicialittlejohn6542]

In primary school all the boys in my class would write “wide load follows” on notes and stick it to their backs and walk in front of me. Or go “beep beep beep” when I walked around It was honestly so relentless my entire primary school experience I wasn’t even the biggest girl in my class It’s so hurtful

[@haikuoflife]

I was mooed at when I was a size 8-9 because I developed young and had curves in high school...Most of the girls were still stick straight and size 2 though.

[@licensetochill4992]

Meanwhile we had this one fellow who would burp behind girls she thought were 'whores', ie. girls who wore makeup or anything else. He once did that behind me and my friends and boy did I give that shithead a piece of everyone's mind.

[@kimsvisualdiary]

The part where she threw her ice cream out after that asshole taunting her hurt. It took me back to the time in middle school where I had starved myself all day. That afternoon when we had a break I got one of those chocolate cake popsicles from the canteen because I was hungry and the kids in my class gave me so much flack about how I didn't need it and it was fattening that I threw it away and cried in the bathroom for the rest of break. That's how much these comments can hurt. Even though that popsicle was the only thing I was planning to eat that day (I was neck deep into a binge/restrict cycle at that point) kids decided it was best to make fun of me. Nobody has any right to do that to someone else. I don't care how fat she is. To publicly mock her while she's just minding her business out with her love is disgusting.

[@Tammissa]

Lol, I just love your sense of humour. That intro “Another fat chick video.” You have a great personality. But seriously, every woman no matter the size deserves someone who loves them for themselves. Nobody should insult anyone in anyway. That’s just cruel.

[@AllyCakes12]

I love that you post so much more videos now that youre more healthy and no longer in pain from PCOS. ❤

[@haunted_lunchbox]

If it was staged.... that's just so cruel & uncalled for.😢

[@saiyurikanda17]

This makes me hopeful that there is someone out there for everyone.

[@FruitsChinpoSamuraiG]

I'm not sure THIS is what you should be feeling hopeful about though... He doesn't love her, he loves her body and on top of that, he cheated on her while they had TWO babies. I can easily assume that he cheated because no sex once again (remember, he complained about it on cam) and he couldn't handle it, so he just kept following his dick and that's how their story "ended".

[@sabinemarie2159]

My dad called me a fat cow once so I'm inclined to believe it could happen. People are awful. Not saying that TLC definitely didn't do it, but I could see it happen organically too. This world is fucked up smh.

[@bethanymorgan8673]

You are absolutely one of the funniest, down to earth KZbinrs I know😂😂😂 thanks for making content. You’re just so funny😂

[@adamjuneau6287]

telling someone the truth is love. lying to be kind is selfish and cowardly. its tragic how so few see that.

[@Blubes23]

This entire relationships is a big bright red flag as one can get on its own before the public bullying.

[@smashingmolko]

That was just so humiliating regardless of whether or not it's staged. I think there's having these discussions in media in a way that actually encourages health and well being then there's just TLC trash that really distorts both sides perspectives and discourages people from feeling good enough about themselves to want to try. I think that's important, it's not 'You're perfect as you are!" it's "You are worth giving yourself love and care, you are worth the effort" and having the desire to love yourself and put in effort to make yourself healthy and happy will get people a lot further than seeing a stranger down the street and screaming 'cow!' at them.

[@Stillpril]

That comment made the whole relationship seem like a fetish

[@amandab8433]

I have unfortunately spent most of my life on the other side of the eating disorder spectrum. I'm 52, and have had an ED since I was 14. I STILL get the side eye, and the "Eat a Burger" comments. There were many many YEARS that I wouldn't use public changing rooms because of this. For my mental health I learned just to ignore them , or flip them off.

[@HWkitty]

Please cover "Fit to Fat to Fit"! Since you're a trainer, I'd love to hear your thoughts.

[@heavymetalkendra]

Yes!! Great idea!!

[@sylvee2]

The Pt usually pushes the client too much when they just started exercising again, it's hard to watch at times.

[@AA-wn1ed]

Omg yes!! Ive asked her in thr past too to please cover that show. Its really interesting insight to the personal trainer mentality for the ones who never had actually been fat ever in their lives. They literally dont understand the pain/struggle till they put on the weight themselves and see how the diets affect their moods. Its such a fascinating show

[@Jay-Jay-Jay88]

I wished there was a role model in my life who would tell me straight up if something is wrong instead of dancing around the truth- or coddle me. I think it is inportant to tell people straight up when their weight is unhealthy (not in a rude/judgemental way of course) and try to give them motivation to lose weight. I feel like if I had that kind of role model in my life when I was younger- I wouldn't have the weight issues I have now. I am losing weight right now, almost 5lb so not that much; but my current goal is to drop 20lb :D

[@Salem_Witch_Trial_Logic]

Yeah, mad respect for the direct and honest people in my life that tell me the truth because they care!

[@venomg5799]

​@@Salem_Witch_Trial_Logicsometimes i hurt people's feelings with honesty. But it's like, if you ask, I'ma be real...

[@Rachel-hv5im]

When I first watched this, I really didn't think he did an adequate job of comforting her. Sure when someone drives by like that you can't really confront them. But after the incident happened, he just kinda lingered there and watched her reaction. He didn't immediately say anything or reach out to hug her. To me it was all too slow and dispassionate. But he did say that type of thing happens a lot, so maybe he is desensitized.

[@pizzaraccoon8202]

i think it’s strange that even if he’s used to her being shouted at in public that he wouldn’t see her crying and feel upset about it, i cry an awful lot but my boyfriend would still never let me do it alone

[@politicaljunkie1967]

Don't know where to leave a message to say thank you for your content. Being a morbidly obese person listening to your message is not an easy thing but you are right. Don't have a gym membership right but when I get my first paycheck (just got a job ) I will. The elevator has been broken in my building for the last 2 months so I have been walking up and down 3 to 4 flights of steps everyday at least twice a day. It's helps with so much, my anxiety, depression, adhd you name it.

[@khunkaska]

I misread this upload saying 8 months ago and thought no way I missed a Michelle video. Glad I was wrong ❤

[@studiosandi]

I'm so glad I was allowed to choose not to have children.

[@TotalContemplation]

Well, in a culture that values feelings over truth- are we surprised?

[@myliza700]

Way to tell everyone in the comments that you missed the entire fcking point homie.

[@Jkjoannaki]

Yes queen, this culture is so obsessed with feelings, like homeless peoples feelings we give them a pat in the back and say "I'll pray for a home to come your way" instead of put them in jail to work for free. Empathetic culture, the culture of neoliberalism. Retard.

[@TotalContemplation]

@myliza700 actually, I think you did- babe.

[@TotalContemplation]

@myliza700 here, let me spell it out for you: Michelle made the point that we treat fat people with a kind of "compassion" by telling them they're beautiful, and that their bodies are perfect just the way they are, and that it's so sweet when a man loves his fat girlfriend's body. Yet, we all know that obesity of this level is lethal. It's extremely unhealthy. It's a bad thing. Yet, for the sake of peoples' feelings, we insist on not telling it like it is, and some have even gone as far as to claim obesity is perfectly healthy. Right? So, are we surprised that we have an endemic of obesity, and the value of health is taking a backseat to feelings when we have a culture that values feelings over truth. Do you get it now? Homie?

[@eeveum]

@@TotalContemplationOR cutting out the culture war bs speak, most fat people know they’re fat, and most know that it’s unhealthy… and these people arent going to be helped by unsolicited advice or insults by strangers. You can’t shame someone into losing weight, you can barely even ask someone to lose weight for themselves. The change has to come from within. You DO realise that fat acceptance people are literally a fringe group right? They are a tiny minority. Most fat people dont want to be fat but its very hard to loose weight. Compassion is a good thing to have.

[@oogiechannel]

Hearing his comment about her low seggs drive made me not want to date men 💀

[@juliodufflarjr.7064]

No kidding, the yelling out the window thing happens to heavy people very very often. It happened to me a lot growing up. Really sad, but its very common

[@jjp024]

Found this channel like a month ago and I've been binging these videos like Netflix

[@squirrel_disaster]

I haven't watched your channel in almost 2 years, I missed your videos, I had a period where I started working out, lost all the ambition, and got worse for almost 2 years now. But in April I decided I'm done with this and started again, I have been working out for the longest time yet and my arms have become incredibly defined, my rib cage is starting to be visible above my (almost) abs and my legs have gotten really beefy. I feel much more confident now yet I'm still not where I want to, I was at 120+ kgs before and now I'm down to 97 kgs. Thanks for the inspiration!

[@chandrajohnson5908]

Thank goodness for Michelle's videos to get me through my cardio sessions!! You're the best!! ❤

[@lawofattractionsandmirrors]

He said he likes "a little waist and wide hips"? Little waist WHERE?!

[@clarissaisawesome]

Love your balanced views 🤓and no nonsense vibe 💪🏾and of course the pups are the little stars 🤩 Here's to 700k it's coming so says I 😜

[@lesliemason6016]

Im an over-eater but took everything away from the bedroom like chips to stop the pattern and replaced it with a 2.5lb shakeweight and 2lb tiny weights that i use while watching tv on ny butt for 11montgs. I went from 10min to 2hrs. Loat 49lbs in 5months! Now sit on yoga ball and bounce for maybe 45min. And do 2lb weights. I have to do very slowly because of high blood pressure uncontrolled with meds.

[@alyssinclamp]

I'm here for the tea and, as always, I wasn't disappointed.

[@pengu6162]

Never been this early but all I'm gonna say is I already know I'm going to enjoy this video as always

[@acaciajacqueline]

I love your big curly lovely hair. So jealous. Good stuff. "2 Weeks after Ricardo moved out here I found out I was pregnant"🤦🏼‍♀️

[@jadabadabee]

Whether that person yelling Moo from the car was staged or not (totally does look like it btw), this woman definitely reacted in a very real way. The hurt was clearly real. My Mom told me in the 90s when she was pregnant with me, she gained 50+ pounds, which is considered too much weight in a healthy pregnancy. She was crossing a crosswalk in Brooklyn heavily pregnant when a man in a car with his wife pulled up to the stop sign and yelled out "Move your fat ugly ass out the way!" My Mom said she got home and cried the rest of the day. She wanted to yell that she wasn't fat she was just pregnant. And my Mom has always had weight insecurities since she was a child whether she was heavy or not. She still does to this day. Very uncalled for comments like this can very easily have a lasting impact on someone.

[@Peacepeacelovelove]

Your body is bodying ♥️♥️♥️ty for your authenticity 🙏🏾

[@theredheadwiththread1275]

I laughed at your parenting comment. I'm one of those parents who loves their kid to bits but will admit he makes me nuts sometimes. But I love being a mom and wouldn't trade the little goblin for the world.

[@irishcajun85]

My weight fluctuates drastically due to weight issues, but when I’m thin I never feel thin enough. People will ask if I’m ok because I start looking skeletal and I still feel big. I’m a lot better now that I’ve gotten mental health. I look at pics from when I was my thinnest and I look like I’m about to collapse. I still wanted to lose weight. It definitely sticks with you mentally.

[@bluejayhunter]

I love love love this channel ❤ raw and true content and absolutely hilarious

[@JennyzaS]

Something similar happened to me on the subway in Mexico City: I was with my boyfriend and I was very very overweight. So he kissed me and another couple started talking about us and the woman started doing like vomit movements and just like that laughed at me. So yeah, those things do happen in real life.

[@JennyzaS]

@@Hello.Meditate thanks

[@omnium_gatherum]

5:55 is so true lol... Like, adults will act shocked that they got pregnant from engaging in *baby making* activity 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

[@Baghart]

True hurts… it touch a nerve. By pretending there isn’t a problem her boyfriend is not helping. Good he is healthy because he will have to look after that baby when she is gone