Jesy Nelson on Finding Herself and Feeling Free After Leaving Little Mix | Happy Place Podcast

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@fearnecotton
@fearnecotton 3 жыл бұрын
We hope you enjoy this chat. As always leave your comments below ❤️Also, don't forget you have another episode of Happy Place available on KZbin this week - with Dave Grohl 😯You can find it here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/amKngKOEaJtphqc
@loveandpeace_totheworld
@loveandpeace_totheworld 3 жыл бұрын
You are really lovely Fearne!! 💜
@antonyfernandez9066
@antonyfernandez9066 3 жыл бұрын
I watched this because jesy is a hot topic atm but i found you to be the best part! i loved hearing all your stories and i could relate so much. Im so glad i found ur podcast now, iv subscribed! Btw i also loved ur documentary with Paris Hilton back in the day too :)))
@shabnamkhan5966
@shabnamkhan5966 3 жыл бұрын
Love this chat not watched all of but totally amazing 2 great women beautiful ladies. Tbh i hate negativity bullying is horrible been through it but the best thing is be confident say to yourself im beautiful be bold dont care what anyone else thinks. People that put you down are either jealous or have nothing positive . ❤❤
@aequanimitas
@aequanimitas 3 жыл бұрын
It's been very meaningful to hear people talking about deep seated and destructive self loathing. And also the struggle to get better and to be gentler with ourselves. Thank you for being so open.
@Dee-fu3hs
@Dee-fu3hs 3 жыл бұрын
Regardless of what people are saying, Jesy leaving a job that makes her unhappy but carrying on and finding something new that fulfils her is something many people struggle to do. Either out of fear of the unknown or of letting former colleagues/bosses down. She’s showing us that nothing is more important that your own happiness and well being and that you should always do whatever will make you happy.
@westonding8953
@westonding8953 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@Dee-fu3hs
@Dee-fu3hs 3 жыл бұрын
@@markkkk4740 wasn’t little mix a job? She left it to work with a new team, company and do something different.
@FAFash-wo9yg
@FAFash-wo9yg 3 жыл бұрын
You better speak on it! She did what was best for her mental health! Those of us that understand this support her!
@michellehorton8698
@michellehorton8698 3 жыл бұрын
@@markkkk4740 im hoping shes going to get new jobs after that music video and I hope there's a film coming
@Janeylou70
@Janeylou70 3 жыл бұрын
The trouble is most of us can't afford to take the risk of leaving a job. We have rent or mortgages to pay and children to support. Money is a huge factor for so many of us. But, ideally, I of course agree - we should all be able to do what makes us happy.
@mickiesconcertarchive
@mickiesconcertarchive 3 жыл бұрын
Putting herself first was the bravest thing she’s ever done. I am so incredibly proud of her.
@mickiesconcertarchive
@mickiesconcertarchive 3 жыл бұрын
@@helenwestwood7596 You need therapy, and a lot of it. Get well soon.
@iyanuoriakhi4794
@iyanuoriakhi4794 3 жыл бұрын
Innit
@Djamp1567
@Djamp1567 3 жыл бұрын
@@mickiesconcertarchive you said it better than i could
@amanda_x2670
@amanda_x2670 3 жыл бұрын
@@helenwestwood7596 you need sectioned
@thequeen3834
@thequeen3834 3 жыл бұрын
Right just goes to show and prove money doesn’t provide happiness.
@westonding8953
@westonding8953 3 жыл бұрын
You know, Jesy genuinely loved her band mates. She suffered so much for so long. We know her bandmates made difficult decisions as well. I hate that she went through so much pain and difficulties but you know there was true love between them. We are very proud of her and all well wishes and happiness to her!
@powergirl4736
@powergirl4736 3 жыл бұрын
@michellehorton8698
@michellehorton8698 3 жыл бұрын
They have all unfollowed each other its sad 10 years hopefully its because of fake fans. Jesy is away to the states I bet.
@sierrawinand
@sierrawinand 3 жыл бұрын
@@michellehorton8698 I truly don't understand why they did especially since Jesy has only been saying how amazing they are...🤦‍♀️Feeling weird about being a little mix fan right about now
@mariastar8437
@mariastar8437 3 жыл бұрын
More to her leaving than she’s making out . I believe the truth will come out and Jessy won’t be the victims she portrays herself to be
@sierrawinand
@sierrawinand 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariastar8437 Oh shut up. You don't know. Don't hate someone for something you made up.
@kats4741
@kats4741 3 жыл бұрын
Since I’ve been a child I’ve found it much easier to wallow in the sadness and misery because oddly enough, it’s comfortable. I’ve done in for so long that pushing myself to improve of feel better is alien and terrifying! It feels addictive to feel bad about myself. Love this talk. Thank you x
@RebelRoyaltyX412
@RebelRoyaltyX412 3 жыл бұрын
Hands down my favorite Jesy interview. I’m not familiar with Fearne but she was the perfect person to have this conversation with our Jesy. This was beautiful and I’m so excited for the new chapter.
@buttamilk3329
@buttamilk3329 3 жыл бұрын
Fearne is an iconic childrens/teenagers tv presenter that we (including jesy) grew up with, definitely a household name
@michellehorton8698
@michellehorton8698 3 жыл бұрын
2 icons
@jesyhuns6382
@jesyhuns6382 3 жыл бұрын
she truly deserve to be happy and I'm so happy that she's actually looking after herself now ❤️
@paulamangiola8492
@paulamangiola8492 3 жыл бұрын
Jesy is so brave and powerful for doing this. Her music is going to be epic
@westonding8953
@westonding8953 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@rowenar9272
@rowenar9272 3 жыл бұрын
Let's be honest, deep inside the rest of them probably wanna do the same thing but don't have the guts for it. I wish them all the best, but everyone really need to leave Jesy alone.
@paulamangiola8492
@paulamangiola8492 3 жыл бұрын
@@rowenar9272 🎯 🎯
@HA-kw7vq
@HA-kw7vq 3 жыл бұрын
These girls were manufactured and put together - when they auditioned, they auditioned as individuals. This is, as she said, her next step - to elevate and grow and do what makes you happy.
@tinaharris9782
@tinaharris9782 3 жыл бұрын
Go jesy..go be you live your life by your rules..leave lil mix behind its a new chapter..I'm proud of you.I know how insecure u felt bout being compared to skinny people..I love ya girl😍
@andray9415
@andray9415 3 жыл бұрын
Jesy honestly helped me start the process of leaving my job, I shouldn't feel this depressed in my job, and I shouldn't feel this way so after 7years I'm leaving to start my next chapter. Thank you jesy 😍
@oreo_orexx2232
@oreo_orexx2232 3 жыл бұрын
So happy 4 u
@Dee-fu3hs
@Dee-fu3hs 3 жыл бұрын
So happy you’re making a change to better your life
@EliasBunda
@EliasBunda 3 жыл бұрын
You’re gonna do great! Whatever it is you do :)
@michellehorton8698
@michellehorton8698 3 жыл бұрын
It's ok to look after you and its ok to be number one.
@dodo-e4x
@dodo-e4x 3 жыл бұрын
Go ahead, wish you luck my bud!
@christinarabb2729
@christinarabb2729 3 жыл бұрын
The way that this became a conversation that discussed vulnerabilities and struggles with insecurity...this is amazing !! I absolutely adore it !! The way you both discussed personal struggles and coping mechanisms and the journey from the darkest of places to the light or a place where you are able to embrace the courage needed to fight and seek the light....this conversation is inspiring but also unique and singular and more people should be encouraged to have this conversation. Regardless of the potential blowback that is somewhat inevitable from social media sleuths....
@romatravellergirl3530
@romatravellergirl3530 3 жыл бұрын
Jesy you are lovely, so pleased to see you are happier. Fearne, you amazing, thank you for all you do ♥️
@janicehales2958
@janicehales2958 3 жыл бұрын
Without social media we wouldn't hear what others/strangers thought about what we did or how we looked. We could do our own thing our way and if you didn't like it then don't watch it! I grew up in the 70's (yes I'm old) and I had the best time. I dressed the way I wanted, I never worried if I was to fat or to thin or if I was pretty enough for other eyes. Only mine mattered! Now I look I old pics and laugh at how I looked sometimes back then. But it's ok, because I was confident at the time I did it. It's breaks my heart now that people can be so mean and say so many hurtful things about someone they don't even know. I think they are just really jealous and pitiful. I still don't care what a stranger thinks of me, only the ones who know and love me matter to me. Motto to live by, You be you. and I'll be me.
@myatthirihlaing8983
@myatthirihlaing8983 3 жыл бұрын
Why she is so so cute like that. I can't stop love her. Can't wait for Boyz.
@hannahkeating97
@hannahkeating97 20 күн бұрын
You hit so many points that I’ve been seeing my sister go through. She also has depression and she’s been on antidepressants for 10 years. It’s such a touchy subject with her even if I’m coming from a place of love. I just keep praying for her to come back to church and I want her to be healthy and happy ❤
@patrickcleary6315
@patrickcleary6315 3 жыл бұрын
Jesy is so open and honest and has nothing but LOVE for the girls. I can't wait to watch this new chapter of hers.
@dansmusic978
@dansmusic978 3 жыл бұрын
Another wonderful conversation Fearne. You already know I’m a massive fan of you and the positive vibes you put out into the world. Jesy has been very brave to do what she has done and has absolutely made the right decision. I think many of us continue in our lives without dealing with underlying issues that are making us unhappy. Jesy should be commended for doing this under the celebrity spotlight. ❤️❤️
@JoeeM
@JoeeM 3 жыл бұрын
Everything She said was very true and so relatable to so many of us, Sometimes it takes different situations to make you think that it’s time for a change when you don’t feel happy doing something anymore ✌🏼❤️
@sammurray327
@sammurray327 3 жыл бұрын
This was absolutely wonderful Fern. I felt a real connection between the two of you and a sense that you both felt really seen and heard. It's insane that lovely women like you and Jesy get/got so much abuse, but I think a lot of it is them wanting to be seen and acknowledged, no matter how low they feel they need to go, to get that acknowledgement. I think what you did was clever, when you addressed that one person who was being mean. Speaking to them on a human level, with kindness, rather than counter attack, disarmed them. I've seen that happen a few times on Twitter. Not that it will always work, but as long as you stay classy you can keep your head held high. Thank you for this.
@auroramarieclaire4898
@auroramarieclaire4898 3 жыл бұрын
I almost cried when you mentioned that you noticed Jesy's face lighting up and just beaming with joy. And then she laughed so genuinely I don't think I've heard her laugh so gladly before. After being unhappy for a long time she definitely deserves all the joy, freedom and happiness. Love her!
@PerrieXO
@PerrieXO 3 жыл бұрын
Regardless of what anyone is saying, Jesy prioritizing herself is a good thing and even if it might hurt not seeing her being a part of Little Mix her mental state was in a crisis and the LM team not caring enough for her well being was making it worse. We could've lost Jesy to a freaking overdose years ago, I'm glad she is still here and is feeling a lot more happier now. I can tell she is genuienly excited and happy by looking at her face...so so PROUD of you Jesy
@scattered9brain
@scattered9brain 3 жыл бұрын
This is got to be one of my favorite interviews of all time I came here for Jes but the interviewer was vulnerable as well Love you both
@ivanaa5808
@ivanaa5808 3 жыл бұрын
I say the same thing a million times but I really feel so proud of Jes, she's a really brilliant person and brave, I mean, put herself first is so so so powerful, well done. ❤️❤️
@midnightsky9985
@midnightsky9985 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for doing this episode, and discussing such an important topic. We can never talk enough about mental health especially in this modern world. The fact that all of this is happening now, the amount of hate, bullying, death threats....makes me afraid of the future. Because if this is what's happening now, what will happen in the future?
@westonding8953
@westonding8953 3 жыл бұрын
You know on a much smaller scale of thought, when I was younger, I was in a classical choir where we only sang “classical” or folk music. I can’t say I liked it and I definitely don’t think I have any “incredible memories”. Either way, when I left and found the world of pop music and culture, I realized how much I had missed and was mad with them and their views. Today, I just can’t bear the thought of excluding pop culture and music from someone’s experience. I don’t think this compares in any way to Jesy’s experience given that she does have some incredible memories that changed her life but it is something that came to mind.
@tomryann86
@tomryann86 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that jesy says no one supported or cared about her is crazy. The last few years when her mental health was bad, her band mates more often times Leigh Anne of all people took over her parts. She even admitted in several interviews to being jealous of them at times. No one is perfect I'm sure in a group there are times when people get on your nerves but she also talked about her ideas and songs getting dubbed but each member said as a group each one of them experienced that. Let's also talk about the fact that in both their sides of the story they all agreed they tried to get her to stay and went to therapy to try to work things out. I find it hard to believe they didn't care about her at all.
@gemmaanderson5605
@gemmaanderson5605 3 жыл бұрын
Jessie is so beautiful, I'm so glad shes putting her own happiness first, I love her new song and cant wait to hear more
@danielvillasboas1464
@danielvillasboas1464 3 жыл бұрын
It’s just amazing to see how happy Jesy is now! And I am sooo excited for this new chapter of her life
@theKocka
@theKocka 3 жыл бұрын
What a great conversation, from start to finish, on both ends! And Jesy...she knows how much love I have for her and no matter how hard it was at the breaking point, for her, us and the girls...it was the right decision.
@dani_hmd_228
@dani_hmd_228 3 жыл бұрын
what an honest conversation! enjoyed every bit of it 🤍✨
@rashad4144
@rashad4144 3 жыл бұрын
Isn't jesy such a queen ? I literally wanna give her the biggest hug 💕
@LileLoveIt
@LileLoveIt 3 жыл бұрын
I really don't understand how people can sit there and wanted her to stay in a job that makes her unhappy and causes her trauma. I never read the first statement like she wouldn't continue music. And even if that was her mindset then that doesn't mean she cant change her mind when she sees wow that career can actually work for me. As the "fat" friend in my friend groups since Im younger I understand her so well with all the comparing. When I took a picture with people I was always sad because I wasnt as skinny as they where. Also being able to make the music you truly want to make is amazing for her. Im so happy for her!
@KB-ey9qi
@KB-ey9qi 3 жыл бұрын
Had a good cry on and off listening to you both, feel like you both are reading my mind at times and feeling the way I feel. You are both amazing talented and such an inspiration and I felt ur pain iv been through pain and just thankyou for this. Much love to you both x
@fiercegifs
@fiercegifs 3 жыл бұрын
This was a great watch, not only as a Jesy fan but also the dialogue on mental health.
@itsjustjordaann
@itsjustjordaann 3 жыл бұрын
This woman is so important I hope she knows this.
@dodo-e4x
@dodo-e4x 3 жыл бұрын
I love you my love. Go ahead. Success is yours, nobody can take that from you.
@kaceyrayhauerkingvevo
@kaceyrayhauerkingvevo 3 жыл бұрын
Strong Beautiful Jesy I Can't Wait To Hear Your New Music, JN1 Is On Top Of My Christmas List
@mikeythorley5029
@mikeythorley5029 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing interview. Thank you for talking about mental health we need more people like you in the world to spread the message that mental health is just as bad as physical health . 💓💓💓
@daniellerobertson9687
@daniellerobertson9687 3 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing interview. Probably the best one I’ve seen with Jesy so far! The fact that she is so happy now and can be her true self makes my heart happy 💖
@rachaelfry7780
@rachaelfry7780 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this conversation!! When fearne spoke about being so self critical and negative towards herself, I totally related to that, it’s what I do! It helped me not feel alone!
@Justsomebody009
@Justsomebody009 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine being in a relationship for ten years, it’s so so hard to leave because it’s been that way for so long, you don’t know who you are without them anymore. This is how I imagine jesy felt. And it’s nothing bad about the other girls it’s just simply wasn’t doing it for jesy anymore.
@honeydew1678
@honeydew1678 3 жыл бұрын
People keep saying she’s blackfishing but she’s literally the same colour as this other woman. It’s crazy how much people want to hate on her. They even make things up now. So sad. Amazing woman with a great heart. I wish her best in her career!
@michellehorton8698
@michellehorton8698 3 жыл бұрын
She's darker than Nikki in the video but its not just colour im not hating im just saying what the article is saying but I think its the grill ( I don't know what one of them are) and then saying she didn't get this in little mix she did. She just needs to say ok hands up im sorry but she didn't say sorry. Again im not hating I hope she does well I don't like how shes saying little mix haven't done RnB but that's the only thing.
@michellehorton8698
@michellehorton8698 3 жыл бұрын
Again im only picking at the article and peoples posts im glad her team are removing them.
@grandmabaddie
@grandmabaddie 3 жыл бұрын
@@michellehorton8698 grill for video only. lol she dont wear it on a day to day. your just not getting the whole concept of the track and video . Just watch diddy's original music video. she is paying homage to the era of music she so loves . what is wrong with that? she got approval from both Puff and Nicki . To have both in video on your debut single is incredable and props to Jesy .
@michellehorton8698
@michellehorton8698 3 жыл бұрын
@@grandmabaddie I don't know what a grill is. I feel for the lass I reckon shes always going to get something shes made herself a easy target and you find that people that don't stand up for themselves and hide then come out and stand up for themselves are first to get hurt shes a soft soul all little mix girls are that's why the record label don't brake America
@sierrawinand
@sierrawinand 3 жыл бұрын
AGREED THANK YOU I'm pretty sure she's even said she literally doesn't even fake tan... this is beyond insane
@alano857
@alano857 Жыл бұрын
Love Fearne, she just seems a genuine down to earth lovely girl
@reginesamuels2953
@reginesamuels2953 3 жыл бұрын
I’m completely proud of her she so brave ,confident she took care of herself first and still keeps doing what she loves . Glad we on this journey with her in this new chapter in her life excited for boyz excited for more music to come she going incredible it’s going be a great journey she deserves nothing but love snd happiness she been through some difficulties an inspiration her honesty love her so much 💜💚💜❤️💙👑👑👑👑💙❤️❤️
@katherinemyers1964
@katherinemyers1964 3 жыл бұрын
I am so incredibly happy for her and for the happiness she has finally found for herself! Just need to say, I am in love with her hair!
@jillypants9135
@jillypants9135 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this conversation! I love Jesy and love that she is in a better place. I totally empathise with both of you as i am exactly the same mentally but its amazing that she has put herself first and living her dream. You are both amazing humans and your truth has helped so many people get help. You are both so beautiful inside and out. We have to learn to love ourselves and brake this stigma that loving ourselves is egotistical. I am doing that now with the help of meditation and i am doing courses to help others do the same. Anyway thanks for such a raw and honest conversation. Beautiful humans 😘😘. Love and light ✨✨✨✨
@kentanggoreng9937
@kentanggoreng9937 3 жыл бұрын
Her LAUGH SO SOFT I MISS YOU SO MUCH JESMINDA
@jimmycordero8584
@jimmycordero8584 3 жыл бұрын
I literally watched the entire interview, thing I have never done before! And it was just pretty amazing, this makes me love Jesy more and more because she's not just a beautiful face! She is a beautiful person and got feelings like all of us and as she says all we have to care about is it to be happy ✨
@bookwormswriter1078
@bookwormswriter1078 3 жыл бұрын
Fearne you and jesy inspire and remind me to be more open and speak out. Be authentic. Love your books speak your truth and calm. I do have quiet but I still am reading calm.
@ttp436
@ttp436 3 жыл бұрын
Great interview ladies. Just to touch on the topic of people liking you or not. I am exactly the same. It gets to me. Because I try to treat people how I like to be treated. It just comes naturally to me. When its not reciprocated back I just don’t understand and it hurts. But I am slowly coming to realise that not everyone is going to like me and that’s ok. I just have to keep it moving and surround myself with positivity. Easier said than done. But hey we are all a work in progress.
@chiara6612
@chiara6612 3 жыл бұрын
It's the same for me. It's sad but i'm trying to get better. Up until a year ago i was always blaming myself and i was miserable. :(
@sammurray327
@sammurray327 3 жыл бұрын
@@chiara6612 There's nothing wrong with you and it's not always a matter of liking or not liking someone. Not everyone is going to be compatible. We all have preferences; food, music, films, taste in clothes, books and decor, etc, and that includes preferences for other people. It doesn't necessarily mean we don't like that person, just that we are more compatible with others.
@ttp436
@ttp436 3 жыл бұрын
@@chiara6612 People can be cruel
@ttp436
@ttp436 3 жыл бұрын
@@sammurray327 Yes be people can be cruel if your different
@badboyj373
@badboyj373 3 жыл бұрын
I love Jesy,she was my fav in Little Mix and now she's solo.Omg I'm about to scream when I wake up on this Friday😍🎧🔥🔥
@deehazleton9276
@deehazleton9276 3 жыл бұрын
Made my morning was so good to see Jesy so happy and doing what’s right for her agree with everything around mental health
@millieboon
@millieboon 3 жыл бұрын
I think any on can be upset and disappointed of what has happened with little mix and jesy. And it completely fine to either support both of either or but the hate and awful comments in seeing on line is not on. Just let them be there is no need to be hate full to any off them
@jesynelsonfan9775
@jesynelsonfan9775 2 жыл бұрын
She is so brave so strong woman I’m so proud of her ❤️❤️💕
@dionnestonebridge5563
@dionnestonebridge5563 3 жыл бұрын
I've always loved jesy,she's so relatable,down 2 earth n honest putting herself out there n doing what makes her truly happy brave beautiful women ❤💯
@Justsomebody009
@Justsomebody009 3 жыл бұрын
I saw Jesys post about stopping yourself from crying and it actually made me think, your right. I’ve never actually dealt with what was making me so upset I was just pushing it away… when your sad sometimes you just have to sit in it and deal with it
@angelanicolesajul1178
@angelanicolesajul1178 3 жыл бұрын
we love you, Jessica ❤😭
@zoemanning7477
@zoemanning7477 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this so much, I love happy Jesy it makes me so happy, I genuinely felt anxiety when jesy wasn't OK, you could see how unhappy she was u only had to look in her eyes to see that n now real jesy is back n she's doing her thing on her terms n the happiness in her eyes & smile n its beautiful to see😊i love jesy so much n she deserves this happiness🙏🏽😁❤
@jesyhuns6382
@jesyhuns6382 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of her 😭❤️
@molls.d11
@molls.d11 3 жыл бұрын
i love this so much!! so so proud of you jesy, your amazing angel 🤍🥺
@anihovsepyan888
@anihovsepyan888 3 жыл бұрын
And the interviewer is so sweet! Everyone should be like her!❤
@originalindiechick7999
@originalindiechick7999 2 жыл бұрын
Love this interview! I can relate to the self-loathing spiral. When you’re in that hole it’s so hard to get out of it x
@channelofberry
@channelofberry 21 күн бұрын
Jesy we support you
@maddiemover5894
@maddiemover5894 3 жыл бұрын
What an amazing interview. Such a real discussion about mental health.
@AespaOutsold
@AespaOutsold 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of her🥺❤️
@rhythmictiger
@rhythmictiger 3 жыл бұрын
@42:40 that is absolutely mental that she had an overdose and then they had her do a music video the next week.
@grandmabaddie
@grandmabaddie 3 жыл бұрын
thats how much the team cared for her 😞
@LoL-dc7vm
@LoL-dc7vm 3 жыл бұрын
Ughh she's so adorable
@pearlr5701
@pearlr5701 3 жыл бұрын
I get jesy feeling cus when I was in high school I was bullied by some classmates. And when I went into the room, I could feel the negative energy like I could feel it that people didn't want me to be there except my close friends but that wasn't enough to cheer me up.
@littleblondie1990
@littleblondie1990 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this! Strong women supporting eachother and telling their truth! Love to see people spreading positivity instead of hate! ❤️
@Lubyforever1805
@Lubyforever1805 3 жыл бұрын
I chose the best member to follow out of Little Mix. And even though, it makes me sad that they are no longer together, seeing her this happy, makes it all worth it! I love you, Jesy!! I love when you show your vulnerability and makes me feel less awkward myself. YOU ARE A QUEEN 👑
@geraldinecowden2533
@geraldinecowden2533 3 жыл бұрын
This is probably only temporary. Probably around the end of the year, she will have something else to complain about. My opinion.
@Lea79109
@Lea79109 3 жыл бұрын
@@geraldinecowden2533 I mean you don't say in a whole interview what you went though for 10 years
@katjaxxx7353
@katjaxxx7353 3 жыл бұрын
Jesy suffered far too much in Little Mix. so happy for her now, you go girl
@abbyyyy41
@abbyyyy41 3 жыл бұрын
this narrative that j is pushing that LM always had the ‘time of their lives’ & the ‘perfect bodies’ mindset is so damaging. leigh has been so open about racism, jade on her ed, and perrie on her anxiety. stop it. just stop perpetuating this narrative that only you had it rough.
@Renee77
@Renee77 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. There’s definitely a self inflicted issue here. She feels victimized because in her view, everyone was out to get her, but in reality I believe she was the one out to get herself. Social media definitely didn’t help that at all, and amplified those doubts. Hopefully she’s able to realize that those dark thoughts don’t leave simply by changing your career/ temporary situation. There will always be negative words spoken online, regardless of solo or group status as well. The industry is the industry, She’ll realize that soon enough.
@abbyyyy41
@abbyyyy41 3 жыл бұрын
@@Renee77 totally agree and this may be the reason why she was blocking fans when they were asking if she can apologize to the offensive things she has said and done I think when she sees a comment that’s trying to educate her on why what she did is bad I think she sees it as an attack and blocks people right away
@annabelle2538
@annabelle2538 3 жыл бұрын
i’ve seen so many times her saying to jade ‘u eat so much how are u not fat’ when jade has literally been in hospital for being so ill with anorexia. and when she said she knew the racist abuse affected leigh anne but didn’t say anything because leigh was better at coping with it. as if jesy’s experience even compares in the slightest to what leigh anne went through and leigh has always said how alone she felt
@galileodos4329
@galileodos4329 3 жыл бұрын
I think she was referring to how the girls loved being in a girl group and what that meant for them, more than what they struggle individually, although I also feel the narrative of victimism when she speaks about her experience, but it's a really hard topic to put into words and there's like no perfect way to express it so that it's completely understandable for everyone while also not portraying yourself as the only victim from all the negative aspects of the context, at least while you're still not quite over them. Maybe one day she'll need to see that knowing the root of the problem is key to a better understanding of how to find true healing.
@meagantrippleton1431
@meagantrippleton1431 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. In my opinion it kinda seems she to an extent is blaming Leigh-Anne Jade and Perrie for her being unhappy in little mix and that’s not fair to them because they’ve probably had to deal with that kind of stuff too not just Jesy.
@MegaJordinary
@MegaJordinary 3 жыл бұрын
Love Jesy so much 🤍 the bravery she shows is so admirable , I love to see people follow their dreams & live their truth 🤍 I’m so excited for her new era 🤍🙏🏻
@gemsibob
@gemsibob 3 жыл бұрын
Came across this video cos I'm a Jesy fan but this channel is AMAZING. 🥰
@donnythedasher811
@donnythedasher811 3 жыл бұрын
Jesy is a pure, beautiful, Angel 🤍😣! I hope life gets better for her and her future is more healthy and successful!
@Janeylou70
@Janeylou70 3 жыл бұрын
The thing is so many of us do have to get up each morning and go into work even when we feel like it's the last place on earth we want to be - due to it being stressful or boring or not getting on with colleagues or us having confidence issues etc. I know being in the public eye must bring a whole load more stress that most of us will never understand, but the truth is v few of us have control over our working-lives. We simply have to work to pay the bills. I do of course feel pleased for Jesy though as it's so clear she's much happier now and clearly being in a band just didn't suit her personality. I just hope her happiness continues. x
@Laurakate_xo
@Laurakate_xo 3 жыл бұрын
I really related to this. I felt that with my partners family. When my anxiety was really bad I would really go in on myself & cancel events & parties because I couldn’t face them at that time. But they would get so angry, upset at me & take it really personally. They could have had 10 parties & I would have gone to 9 but they would still pull me up on the one I didn’t go to. There was an element as well of not caring about what I was going through because it was an inconvenience to them, to their parties or them having fun. I can understand it’s hard for someone to understand if you’ve never experienced that. But it’s not fun for the person suffering either. I can completely relate to that feeling of people not liking me or that feeling of people not wanting me to be there. I would literally feel the energy shift when I would walk in to a room. People never talk about the stigma that’s attached to you when you have mental health problems. The guilt you already feel letting people down, the guilt people make you feel, the labels you’re unfairly labelled with! Hard work! Drama queen! Awkward! crazy even. They would sooner you shut up & suffer in silence because it’s a downer to them, or effects there fun, pocket etc. Jesys really lucky she has loving, supportive people around her that genuinely care now. Because it’s rare. People want to be there for the highs, but never the lows.
@samandres304
@samandres304 3 жыл бұрын
Instagram clouding headspace is so true.. life without it now is utter bliss!!
@TheDeadofNightAmbience
@TheDeadofNightAmbience 3 жыл бұрын
What a lovely conversation. So real and deep. I love this place!!
@Emma-sk7ge
@Emma-sk7ge 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ladies for addressing such important topics. Really enjoyed it :) I'm glad Jessy has found happiness again 😊
@jesyhuns6382
@jesyhuns6382 3 жыл бұрын
she's so adorable ❤️
@Tyler_Reacts
@Tyler_Reacts 14 күн бұрын
I only recently discovered Little Mix but I really enjoyed this interview. I do think it’s really interesting that Jesy feels America celebrates being confident. As an American, I feel like we constantly criticize each other for being too confident. It’s such a cultural issue, even here in America.
@nqabakaziviwelufele9422
@nqabakaziviwelufele9422 3 жыл бұрын
she said "some songs in my album"yes! i can"t wait🙃🤗
@jaystel2381
@jaystel2381 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing interview! Great questions and Jesy was so damn honest. Love it ❤️
@grandmabaddie
@grandmabaddie 3 жыл бұрын
OMG i love this interview, kudos to fearne . Jesy is getting there. i am so proud of her. ive pre-ordered and paid for Boyz cd . cant wait for friday. We have to try and get it to no1 guys 💗
@janjannn05
@janjannn05 3 жыл бұрын
So excited for ur solo career. Hoping one day u reunite with lm
@zaris-q3p
@zaris-q3p 16 күн бұрын
I would agree that it might be Biritsh thing to be so hard one yourself. I am Persian and you don't see so many negative comments about anyone in my culture. like Liam Payne passe away and he was one of the most successful people of that society. He still received negative comments and he was flawless.
@lubnaalhakeem3401
@lubnaalhakeem3401 3 жыл бұрын
I am sitting here smiling from ear to ear like a proud mother I am so proud of this queen and where she is now
@catherinewardle5478
@catherinewardle5478 3 жыл бұрын
These conversations are so important! Love listening to other peoples stories especially two open and authentic women. Thanks Fern and Jessy🙏
@NickName-di3wp
@NickName-di3wp 3 жыл бұрын
She looks and sounds great!
@lubnaalhakeem3401
@lubnaalhakeem3401 3 жыл бұрын
I love Jesy whoever she is wherever she is whoever she wants to become be you queen
@krsnamercurio2453
@krsnamercurio2453 3 жыл бұрын
she's adorableee
@Sarah.mc1612
@Sarah.mc1612 15 күн бұрын
I don’t think being in the group was the problem causing her unhappiness, it was her insecurities. Band or solo she will continue to be compared to other female artists-especially her band mates who also have solo careers. Reading all the negative comments when in little mix could have been solved by doing exactly what she does now- not reading them. I wish her well.
@beautybybecci7788
@beautybybecci7788 3 жыл бұрын
So lovely to see her happy ❤️
@midnightsky9985
@midnightsky9985 3 жыл бұрын
Making her shoot a music video a week after her suicide attempt is disgusting and heartless. Are they even human beings???? I'm really shocked.
@littlemixer5629
@littlemixer5629 3 жыл бұрын
Whattttttt!? Really, can u put the time stamp!!!
@Dee-fu3hs
@Dee-fu3hs 3 жыл бұрын
41:40
@littlemixer5629
@littlemixer5629 3 жыл бұрын
OMGODDDDDD!!!!!
@lory1974
@lory1974 3 жыл бұрын
They're really disgusting
@sammurray327
@sammurray327 3 жыл бұрын
That's the music business for you. Actually, a lot of the entertainment business is like that. I read an interview with an actor who said someone collapsed on a movie set. An ambulance was called but filming didn't stop and they even asked the paramedics to work quietly, so they could keep filming. Another one said some of their colleagues regularly got urine infections, because they weren't allowed enough bathroom breaks. It's a pretty abusive industry.
@ReginaRecords
@ReginaRecords 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the interview! Although, it makes me wonder who on Little Mix’s team/collaborators made her feel unwelcome in those situations. I just feel like changes should have been made to accommodate her considering she was one of the four bosses.
@jesclifford88
@jesclifford88 3 жыл бұрын
They're not the bosses, they're in the simon cowell machine :(
@grandmabaddie
@grandmabaddie 3 жыл бұрын
@@jesclifford88 they wasnt when she left
@tacita8453
@tacita8453 3 жыл бұрын
I love her so much!! 💕 I'm so glad she made such a hard decision, I love that she prioritized herself and above all, I love that she recognizes Little Mix and how grateful she is about everything the group gave to her I wish her the best in her career, I'm looking forward to more music from her 💗
@estivrep2417
@estivrep2417 3 жыл бұрын
I literally loved this, felt so identified
@gorillanotion1024
@gorillanotion1024 3 жыл бұрын
What an incredible interview. She listened to herself. Done what she needed. Left the rest. Awesome. Good for her! 👍👌
@homedesigninteriors-course1053
@homedesigninteriors-course1053 3 жыл бұрын
Life is so much easier when your aligned with your truth, and foing what you love. Great interview..
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