FEELING GUILTY AFTER A BREAKUP?

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Cathia Sanchez

Cathia Sanchez

5 жыл бұрын

This was such a hard video to post. Leave comments down below. Tell me about your experiences? What feelings did you deal with after a breakup?
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@essen4502
@essen4502 3 жыл бұрын
I sabotaged my relationship with a partner that loves me a lot because i had an insane amount of unresolved trauma from previous relationships. No matter how much you love someone if you dont have self worth its incredibly difficult for a relationship to be healthy and to last.
@ba1354
@ba1354 3 жыл бұрын
I did the same thing
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 3 жыл бұрын
I've been in your shoes. He never came back. I learned a huge lesson. I had to find my self worth and battle feelings of rejection. I hope you find healing.
@eliyadaniela9394
@eliyadaniela9394 2 жыл бұрын
I broke up with him because I got tired of us. We were so different in many aspects but we were able to make it work for three years, until of course the continuous stress of making things fit where they didn't took its toll on me. He was such a great guy. All I needed was to say the word and he'd do whatever it'd take to change. But that's what I hated, because he shouldn't have to change himself so much just for a person. I know he said that I shouldn't think about it as a debt or favour but I couldn't help it because I knew that he was suffering. A bit after our breakup, I finally got together with my almost-the-one-that-got-away. Six years we waited for each other, never taking a chance in fear of the things we'd lose. But this time we took a chance and never plan on leaving each other again. This is why I feel so guilty. Because I left a person who was willing to do anything for me. Realistically, it would've never worked because of many factors, but I still can't help but feel all this guilt because in the process of finding my happiness, he lost his and I caused him so much pain.
@josierock968
@josierock968 4 жыл бұрын
After a month of the breakup. I’m feeling it, a lot I miss him and I look at old pictures and see how happy we were. He loved me and I ruined it, even though we were not at a good place in our relationship. I feel so bad about breaking up with him.
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 4 жыл бұрын
Josie Rock stay tuned for my next video I talk about exactly this. I too ruined it with someone. Guilt can be a debilitating thing but when someone is meant for you nothing will keep you apart. I strongly believe that. Learn from your mistakes and never give up on yourself.
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@Tooshortbex
@Tooshortbex 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for posting this! I'm currently going through the same thing and it's very challenging however, something I've learned is that you also need to think of yourself. As much as you care about their wellbeing you also need to care about yours. We can get this through this!
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 4 жыл бұрын
Rebeca Valencia thank you for watching... my new video goes a little more into it
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@lorenarobledo3032
@lorenarobledo3032 5 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏 🙌🏻I totally get you been through this after a 4 year relationship. Felt guilty for starting over for a long time. Wish you the best and I’m sure it will take time you just need to cut this person out completely.
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 5 жыл бұрын
lorena robledo thank you. I appreciate your feedback. I’m definitely keeping the no contact going.
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@deadislander
@deadislander 5 жыл бұрын
Im so glad I came across this video. You sound like you just got out of my relationship... My god was I manipulated. I agree with what you said. This whole idea of "if you really loved them you would've given them another chance" pisses me off. It completely ignores every boundary a person has. And in us breaking things off and acting out in response to our boundaries being crossed isn't "acting out in return and being just as bad as them", it's SELF RESPECT, it's calling attention to the boundary that has been crossed, THEY CROSSED OUR BOUNDARY FIRST
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your response. You are absolutely right.
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@TheDaisyhg08
@TheDaisyhg08 5 жыл бұрын
Sending you love girl. So proud of you for sharing this with everyone out there going through the same thing! You are so inspiring! XOXO
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 4 жыл бұрын
Daisy Hernandez I appreciate you
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@AdriTosta
@AdriTosta 3 жыл бұрын
This video... I haven’t been able to express how I feel about breakups. You basically did for me. I can relate to this so much. Thank you for sharing! Really nice video 💖 hope you are well!
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@supulisenaya5243
@supulisenaya5243 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god....I can relate to what you said on a whole another level.
@finding_beks
@finding_beks 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I am so glad I found this video and I’m not the only one struggling with this♥️
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@chrisg5352
@chrisg5352 4 жыл бұрын
I’m grateful I found this video. I broke up with my wife after being together for 2 1/2 years (married for almost a year but for the wrong reasons). It was a toxic and abusive relationship. She crossed a line that should’ve never been crossed, multiple times, but I also blame myself for letting it last that long. We broke up 6 months ago but have been living with each other because of certain circumstances which obviously doesn’t help. I tried moving on quickly and enjoy the single life but I now realize I was just masking the pain, confusion, and all other emotions. All that is catching up to me now and I feel regretful, depressed, jealous, etc. But I always try to remind myself why the relationship had to end. Thank you for your story and advice. It helped put more ease on my heart, no matter how temporary that may be. I hope you’re doing much better now and that you have a bright and happy future.
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@yolocito9703
@yolocito9703 5 жыл бұрын
This is pretty raw for you. Proud of you.
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 5 жыл бұрын
Yolocito I agree. Thank you :)
@mikeor9231
@mikeor9231 5 жыл бұрын
Yep. So difficult to stop ruminating. Doesn't mater what about, seems every thought leads to guilt. I'm 2 months in after breaking up with partner of 23 years. I find it helps by trying to remember something negative about her and the relationship each time I realize I'm ruminating. Your anger energy at the end of the video shows replacing the guilt with something else may help to break the ruminating cycle. Everyone says time heals all... they better be right :)
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 4 жыл бұрын
Mike OR anger and resentment helped me to move on initially but it can be damaging if you sit in those feelings for too long as well. It’s all a process and if you allow yourself some space slowly you’ll start having better days
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@arelivelazquez6927
@arelivelazquez6927 5 жыл бұрын
Love this! Thank you! You are a strong beautiful amazing women! Keep your head up with you the best you can over come this 😘🤗🙏
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 5 жыл бұрын
Areli Velazquez thank you!
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@manuelkamboykos3031
@manuelkamboykos3031 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video... this hit home.
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 4 жыл бұрын
Manuel Kamboykos thank you for your time. It’s sad ppl go through this but I don’t feel so alone in this. Thank you for sharing
@mzuniga72
@mzuniga72 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this ❤️
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 5 жыл бұрын
Michelle Z Thank you for listening. It makes it a lot easier to know that some appreciate it.
@jasminroman978
@jasminroman978 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!!
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 5 жыл бұрын
Jasmin Roman Thank you for listening. I appreciate any feedback
@nunuwazhere415
@nunuwazhere415 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I broke up with him 3 weeks ago and he keeps coming back into my life with roses etc and Ive been feeling guilty and so confused and sad. I still love him and I feel like Im forgetting why I broke up with him. But this video has helped me. Thank you
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 4 жыл бұрын
Under Construction watch my new video. I know the struggle of breaking up and making up.
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@krystaljane7109
@krystaljane7109 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much.
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 4 жыл бұрын
Krystal Jane Peguero watch my new video to see if you relate to that one. Thank you for the support
@shannonxu9656
@shannonxu9656 4 жыл бұрын
You deserve to have time to heal too.
@chrre09
@chrre09 4 жыл бұрын
He dumped me..its been 4 months now but i still feel reget because i feel like i had not given enough in the relationship he said that. I don't know what to do.
@joshuahopkins9871
@joshuahopkins9871 4 жыл бұрын
Explain numbness? My ex left me out of the blue & ghosted me . She told me she felt numb & just became cold to me . She never processed her feelings for her ex
@katrinabrewster7426
@katrinabrewster7426 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a spell caster who can help you get your ex back without any stress or delay. He helped me get mine back..Text Dr William on WhatsApp........ (+1 956-531-2406).you can also contact him via Email. doctorwilliampatrick01@gmail.com .He can also make your ex to listen to what ever you say.Please I advise Message him and be free.....,
@acorona7207
@acorona7207 3 жыл бұрын
Game killa...😅
@gracie3363
@gracie3363 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I know you made this 2 years ago, I just wanted to know how are you doing now? Just recently broke up with my boyfriend and I’m very upset :(
@Shnooosan
@Shnooosan 4 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now regarding the break up?
@CathiaSanchez
@CathiaSanchez 4 жыл бұрын
Shnooosan my new video explains how I’m doing now
@DAJOOCE_
@DAJOOCE_ 3 жыл бұрын
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