Female Orgasm: Loving Muslim Marriage Episode #8

Have you ever heard the myth that women only need to orgasm every 3-5 years, if at all? If you heard it packaged as "Islamic" advice, then you're neither the only one. Cultural myths sometimes make their way into mainstream Muslim culture disguised as wisdom, only to create problems for men, women, and marriages across the board.
Loving Muslim Marriage aims to clarify misunderstandings and misconceptions regarding marital intimacy and female sexuality. To learn more, visit muslim matters.org/LMM
If you have a private question to send the LMM team, email privatequestions at muslimmatters dot org. Our guest in this episode is Usman Mughni, a Licensed Family and Marriage Therapist.

[@habibi435]

anyone single and watching this

[@tabbimalik3298]

Sarah Khalil Yes I am single and watching this to gain some experience ☺️🙂

[@muritalaakande69]

Am single and watching it to prepare myself.

[@damansti]

Im actually divorced, alhamdulilah.

[@tabbimalik3298]

@@damansti are you looking for true relationship

[@damansti]

@@tabbimalik3298 inshaAllah

[@mushalsstudio4487]

Amazing topic , this education is primarily important before marriage

[@purplerocket4300]

Great topic. Keep up the good work!

[@RahatTheKiller]

Please keep up the good work. May Allah reward you, Ameen.

[@drkc4u]

Thank u for sch an important topic👏🏻

[@lilyrosesoul0077]

This topic is important for married couples.

[@ranoo3441]

i know you are soo right that married cpls should watch this i struggle with few things and wife is unhappy

[@S.Tihami]

Excellent questions

[@omsarr02]

Salaam Thanks a lot. Very informative. Good job. Jkkhair

[@lasvegasraider244]

that guy looks uncomfortable

[@sumeya1923]

Well he’s a man....he should probably grow up lmaoo

[@LLLadySSS]

I'm uncomfortable and I clicked on this video... Lol

[@ifrsmasterclass]

The lady as well. Stupid to have a conversation among na mahrams about orgasms

[@bigrahizzle]

They need to advise what to do in this situation to fix the problem

[@zeeshawn15]

Lol they just said it's best that they only learn from "islamic" source xD which made no sense

[@paradigm007]

What the heck? What the heck? I don't have words!!

[@gsb433]

This discussion is very awkward when they directly ask the male therapist. Better the panel is all women.

[@irisjaye2265]

There is no shyness in the religion

[@gsb433]

@@irisjaye2265 The point is there are female specialist available for every field of knowledge. What is the point in bringing a male when it's possible the other way around. And it's not ur normal casual talk. But it's a very sensitive and emotionally arousing discussion.

[@mohammed_wafi]

honestly

[@sarazia3397]

Non mahrams shouldn't be discussing this topic.

[@shanaazabrahams1319]

Why not. This is how the species grow.

[@mogroot5790]

What's Non mahrams?

[@michelemaio8399]

Be a good human. Way more important than being a good religious person

[@ameenahsani-muhammed3528]

But how can she handle it? If she becomes distance due to lack of intimacy he gets married to a second wife. Her situation because worse. She cannot force him to be intimate with her? Someone reached out to me and ask “ I play with my hubby, ask him to lay in bed with me nicely,I play with him sexually put my hands on his private part,it becomes hard and he does not respond,he will just lay there & sleeps of or get out of bed to answer a call “ then ignores her and take his bath or be on his computer. he talks to her nicely and is kind especially when around people …doesn’t he understand she wants intermarcy? Or is it a sign he does not desire her or love her anymore ? Since he has a back up for a second wife??

[@YehZindage]

Same issue I have heard from a friend of mine, he is the one who is suffering, his wife keeps herself busy watching dramas, reading online books or goes to sleep while making kids go-to sleep or dodges by sleeping in a way that he doesn't gets chance to even touch her. poor chaps keeps boiling from inside, craving to have good time with his wife. She becomes active when touched but never takes initiative to start, he complained to her multiple time but no change till yet. I told him maybe they gotten married in about late age or maybe lack of interest in partner or in sex.

[@Bell-wh4vm]

Women don't have sexual desires

[@Matt-jc2ml]

​@@Bell-wh4vmfalse

[@zakiyamcabdulahi516]

​@@Bell-wh4vm are you sure explain please??

[@rojaktar3509]

​@@Bell-wh4vmwhat century are you living in????????

[@nabeelimam]

Is it possible to talk about how young muslims should address these issues before a woman and man marry each other?

[@LLLadySSS]

I think it's better to talk about this after marriage. There's no need to bring up this topic BEFORE marriage...

[@deedeee6271]

@@LLLadySSS so apparently they are to know exactly what to do w/o every talking about it? Like right after before the wedding night?

[@umar9174]

@@deedeee6271 no

[@shahfibre]

Wow na mehrams in this video discussing this topic

[@freehajavaid636]

is it permissible in Islam for a woman to have orgasm before sex during physical intimacy with husband like suppose in pregnancy or periods ? or sometimes when you are just feeling shy with husband and suddenly orgasm happens

[@EsHaQ2024]

Why would you feel shame with your husband? It's halal for you to do anything with your husband. Except during the period. Other then that your husband is lucky to feel and sense that you have orgasam and be intimate with you. There's no shame at all.

[@xSunnyDaysx]

Ofcourse she can orgasm without penetration. As long as it is with her husband and she doesn’t use her own hands. She can even orgasm while fully clothed during foreplay. It happens to a lot of men.

[@1eV]

of course. What's wrong with that?

[@EsHaQ2024]

Fore play between 2 individuals/ man & woman will help both partners to satisfy each other.

[@JunaidSalehHayat]

Are these two women married to this man to talk about such a topic so frankly??

[@Pinkypromise8812]

@@Thegaminglunatics Exactly! We need to put shame aside. There are many couples who are suffering.

[@Mohdzaki4389]

why Thursday night is specially for muslim couple???

[@EsHaQ2024]

When the wife feels good, everyday of the week sex feels good. Regardless of Thursdays or Fridays.

[@xSunnyDaysx]

Never heard if it. Maybe because of the Friday prayer were all the muslims gather at the mosque. So both husband and wife are satisfied and don’t get temped by the opposite gender. It’s usually recommended to do that on Friday before going to the mosque.

[@duniabhy3199]

Ookayyy. This is awkward.. Maybe just have the 2 women or 3 or 10 women discuss it but with another brother.. That's next level... Maybe would be better to have the brother be give his comments on a video call at the enddddd of the video....?

[@parkerflop]

That’s good advice I think.

[@sh-mg6vq]

Agreed, he shouldn’t be there, mans stuttering and all sorts loooool 😂so awkward I’m sure this is wrong🤣🤣

[@sanji546]

Literally no haya

[@shahbazkhan9381]

I simply don't accept this.and agree with u.

[@syedabdulrehman4374]

Totally unacceptable

[@abuyusufsherakhmatov]

Wa alaykum assalam

[@ifrsmasterclass]

Young people would see this and think it is okay to have face-to-face conversations among young na mahrams about sexuality and orgasm. And is not an act of shamelessness... Your sexual frustration argument for seeking satisfaction elsewhere is flawed as this could mean if one of the spouses is not physically attractive, the other could have similar dissatisfaction. If a husband is stupid and does not understand his wife's sexual needs does not mean it is excuse enough for her to reject Islam or do zina.

[@Mazen_2016]

But is Female circumcision is involved in this ? Since it was very common as statistics show in the Middle East

[@muslimmatters]

Female Circumcision is a cultural practice central to Africa, not a religious practice of Islam. It may of course affect a woman's ability to enjoy intimacy, but it is not covered in this video. www.who.int/reproductivehealth/topics/fgm/prevalence/en/

[@msleemastyles7452]

Not the Middle East....Africa.

[@Mazen_2016]

I didn't mean by saying the " Middle East " that it's a religious practice in Islam , i should've chosen my words carefully. I apologize for the confusion and the provided link gave me some better understanding , thanks alot.

[@llonfolosakko2488]

that's illegal and haram

[@samirsha6762]

@@Mazen_2016 it's not female circumcision...it's hoodectomy

[@Pakidesivlog]

THE DUDE IS SO UNCOMFORTABLE

[@mashfikatasnim3868]

Is it okay for women to talk about this topic to a male person face to face?This is weird.

[@shanaazabrahams1319]

It is not okay for women to to about sex with a man present unless the women are not having sex with men

[@karobarisarah]

Then if women's sexual desires are equal to men then why can't women have four husbands like men who are permitted by Allah to have four wives

[@Bell-wh4vm]

Women don't have sexual desires

[@arkaazizul6673]

How can u know that your wife had a climax or not??

[@LLLadySSS]

Just ask...

[@khalidhmiftha3389]

Liquid

[@arkaazizul6673]

@@khalidhmiftha3389 what liquid?

[@arkaazizul6673]

@L Drago That’s not true

[@arkaazizul6673]

@@unapologetic7281 fake reaction

[@lawrenced4749]

Yep! it's amazing to make her eyes roll back while she shudders in joy, it’s mind-blowing, I tried what I mentioned not too long ago and now she can’t let go of me, I learned it all by go’ogling the latest by Merle Winestol and now she’s dragging me back in for more all day long.

[@ranoo3441]

what if husband struggles to satisfy his wife even when he does his best? but he provides everything else food shelter everything. can woman get a divorce and marry someone else?

[@lilyrosesoul0077]

If she is unhappy yes - sex is a mutual right & she can go to a muslim court to ask for divorce.

[@ranoo3441]

@@lilyrosesoul0077 she is unhappy in bed yes

[@gumnamaparichit1174]

Yes she can take divorce if husband is unable to satisfy her

[@ranoo3441]

@@gumnamaparichit1174 what should husband do then? if he is nto good

[@ranoo3441]

@L Drago are u muslim

[@khadija_thebard]

That man is very obviously uncomfortable. Perhaps the need for including a man face to face in the discussion needs to be re-evaluated.

[@shanaazabrahams1319]

If he is uncomfortable he needs to get over himself

[@khadija_thebard]

@@shanaazabrahams1319 What an extremely disrespectful and unintelligent response to a mere observation. With complete disregard for the gentleman.

[@shanaazabrahams1319]

@@khadija_thebard why? Sex is the means by way any species grow in numbers. We are all products of sex.

[@thedudehimself4447]

@@shanaazabrahams1319 Can you share your OF sis? Would love to check it out. I love to meet open minded muslims.

[@mustno3]

@@shanaazabrahams1319 Way to go sister. I love open minded muslim women. May I ask for your OF link? I would like to check.

[@3milyScales-ee3oq]

Most men when they finish they don’t bother to make he’s woman climax after he has finished lol. Accept for my ex partner

[@Days6281]

Guys, when are you going to start the muslim-only onIy fans? Also, is it permissible in islam?

[@khalidhmiftha3389]

Wonder is how he stopped his Lough 😂😂😂

[@romaisa6076]

He is mature, unlike you.

[@bullywood]

Watch Ex muslims like Adam Seeker.

[@72aftab]

Thers a qurann right behind u guys

[@shabnamajj]

The Rasool saw said do not talk about what u do in ur bedrooms let alone go public with opposite gender n debate... what kind of publicity stunt is this???? shame on u guys ....