Karma in Your Relationships - Astrology Lesson from AstroLada.com

[@FreeHeartDance]

Rahu and Ketu with: 3:32 Saturn 7:52 Mars 11:45 Sun 18:35 Moon 23:48 Venus 25:49 Mercury 27:45 Jupiter 31:09 Ascendant

[@divineknowledge9485]

Love your videos very grateful what about Pluto please?

[@Maggie22002]

The other person had their Keto in the same sign of Aries as my a Jupiter. We also have a CROSS Aspect between our North & South Nodes. He has Libra NN/ Aries SN. I have Cancer NN/ Capricorn SN. When you look at the Astrology Wheel you will see that forms a Cross. An Astrologer said that is also a Karmic Indication.

[@LadaDuncheva]

the Rahu person will teach how to do relationships(7th house) I have this position with my fiancee, so I am learning from him what it is to be in an equal relationship and make compromises

[@sivvaartsupreme4721]

So can I ask u a question

[@skagnihotri08]

You mean your husband rahu is same sign as your saturn.

[@anaayana2632]

I have rahu in the 7th house in gemini.

[@mimischroen9020]

Dear Lada, what it means if Anti Vertex of a Woman is on the Men s Moon?

[@MollyTheMoonchild]

Wow... okay... my moon is there on my 7th house and his Rahu... great 😊

[@LadaDuncheva]

North node with the asc is really a strong connection

[@catarinamarques2089]

And the south node with asc?

[@Nayarayan_1988]

Doesn't seem to work for me :( strong, but unrequited...

[@katerinaisolde9010]

I have been watching this video since it was posted in 2012. I think it is one of the best astrology videos in the world.

[@punsized2296]

@@venusbonjour9303 Ernst Wilhelm

[@TamFam-o3n]

I love watching your older content. Thanks for keeping it up.

[@LadaDuncheva]

Check the house positions of your north nodes. This is what you will help each other develop in each other's chart and get more of. Say his Rahu activates your 3rd house, it means he is in your life to help you become more initiative, corageous, experiment more, try out different things, develop your ability to communicate and have diverse interests in life. While if your Rahu triggers his 8th house, you can help him heal from trauma, learn to transform and welcome changes in your life. etc

[@elsabetgmicheal412]

What does it mean if each others rahu falls in eachothers sun? ( i’m asking in romatic realtionship)

[@LadaDuncheva]

friendships with conjunctions between well dignified planets and ketu, indicates positive past karma with this friend, they might have been there for you and the connection is very quick to grow, but unless there are some binding Rahu or Saturn influence friends might drift apart having helped each other again in this life. Negative or badly dignified planets: you had confrontations or difficulties between the two of you in past lives and now you will be working on overcoming these tendencies.

[@LadaDuncheva]

thank you Francesco! I shall keep making more and more of these self teach videos,

[@LadaDuncheva]

depends if you have only Ketu connection between the good planets: like Venus, Mercury, Jupiter and Moon, then it is likely for things to fizzle out with time, but if Ketu is with difficult planets like Sun, Mars, Saturn, then problems fizzle out with time between you, so it is good

[@LadaDuncheva]

strong past life connection-listen to the part where I talk about these connections

[@sunny74015]

How will Saturn Venus Conjunction do in 1st house in gemini sign ? thanks

[@LadaDuncheva]

They help you develop your 1st house-independence, ability to act alone, uniqueness in character, individuality, helping you find your path in life: sometimes it might be through negative stimulations or examples other times through positive

[@paythewittness]

2:44 in she explains Karmic relationships when Rahu and Ketu are in the same placements.

[@LadaDuncheva]

She highlights the Saturn and Mars in your: Mars is fighting spirit, assertiveness, and Saturn is perseverance, follow through, maturity. But these combination can be also tense due to the harsher nature of the stimulated planets

[@LadaDuncheva]

@missjaynelei obviously you will get the positive of the Sun qualities in the relationship and the negative of the Saturn qualities-but Saturn can also be disciplining and teach you self control. Check which of the two combinations is closer in degrees. for example: his Rahu at 2 libra and your Saturn at 4 Libra will stronger than the combination of your Rahu at 28 Aries and his Sun at 5 Aries.

[@LadaDuncheva]

that you were born in the same age group or 30 years apart, not much effect, but I will do a video on what house Rahu effects in the chart of the other--this will show what that person is in your life to help yo develop

[@LadaDuncheva]

@PsychoLogicalGrl He Ketu will diminish your struggles(Mars) and difficulties(Saturn) so she has a very soothing influence on you! Ketu diminishes and resolves old karma. While in the personal horoscope, Ketu is interpreted in a different way. Your Ketu is with its ruler Jupiter so it will act as a present karma rather than minimizing--so you will have to work on relationships and husband in this life(venus and Jupiter) and on your optimism and inner faith(Jupiter)

[@LadaDuncheva]

there will be strong connection, both ppl have a lot to teach each other when it comes to Sun matters(inspiration, following ones heart, self expression, self esteem, goals in life)

[@LadaDuncheva]

Jupiter will be more prominent in your relationship with time: which is about finding meaning and purpose together, u can also help him form a new improved believe system, more faith in life and it is conductive for improving wealth. The Sun Ketu influence indicates that this is not the first time you meet but you had a strong connection from past lives

[@LadaDuncheva]

@VenusAsABoyFilms they r considered "dark planets" in vedic astrology. I just call them also planets for more ease

[@LadaDuncheva]

it means you were born in the same year or close to each other-it is not such a big deal: just see which house it affects in your horoscope and then you will see what lessons this person has to teach you. I will make a video on this soon

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi the calculator use tropical zodiac and campanus house system, you might have seen your chart with placidus house system or with siderial zodiac, so the houses change and even the signs, but the calculator is professional and correct.

[@LadaDuncheva]

It means that you have definitely a past life connection-in which you were teach each other about affection, sharing and love(Venus) and about reaching goals and following your inspirations(Sun)> there was love(Venus) and respect(Sun) between you. In this life you are teaching each other about Jupiter-optimism, faith, wisdom,belief systems,meaning of life, purpose, tolerance, understanding. Jupiter also rules Children and fortune so you can help each other in those areas too

[@LadaDuncheva]

Rahu is the north node of the moon, and ketu the south I use these names as I have them like that on my chart and also because it is easier to pronounce. I use tropical, western zodiac

[@LadaDuncheva]

@Ev3c89 this is just an auxiliary tool that is supposed the accompany and give more insight to the major relationship compatibility which is based on the Moons, only sometimes it can overpower the main compatibility which I offer through my reports, and in this cases, the aspects must be very close--within 2-3 degrees

[@LadaDuncheva]

u have opposing ascendants then, this is good for compatibility usually. You can check all the above components between each other with my 14 dollar relationship compatibility report. The worst to have which ruins a relationship is Misfortunes or Obstacles, but it is all explained in the report from my website astrolada

[@LadaDuncheva]

@TheGabriela72 As I said I use a different house system--which was used when astrology was being created. I occasionally use also unequal houses but for determining the strength of planets. For topics I use whole sign system. you can google whole sign house sysem

[@LadaDuncheva]

these are slow moving planets, so it means that you were from the same generation-born within the same year or two, so it is not so importnant, what matters is if these planets are in the same signs as any personal planets of yours or his(Moon, Sun, Ascendant, Venus, Mercury, Mars)

[@LadaDuncheva]

a relationship through which you both can learn so much, because you have a lot of past karma too. Rahu with Moon-he will teach you how to be more in touch with your feelings. Ketu with your Sun-he will help you overcome ego, or strong indentification with the roles you play in life. Mars and Rahu-you will teach him to develop his Mars-assertiveness, will power, but this can lead to more and more arguments. Ketu/Ju, he will help you let go of many dated believes(Ju)

[@tinalilith]

Thank you very much, Lada. Your explanations were very clear (and accurate). I learnt a lot. I appreciate the time and energy you put into making these videos. Keep up the good work!

[@LadaDuncheva]

really strong karmic connections in this relationship, It will have man issues to solve and work on. Find out which is the most close conjucntion-between which planets-those that closest in degrees in the same sign: this will be the major karmic lesson of the relationship.

[@LadaDuncheva]

hi because he has more Ketu connections with her, it is an indication that he had to complete the karma with her in this life, so if he stayed with her, he will eventually let go of her or she would, because Ketu empties Venus(Love) While because you have Rahu connection(future) you are to get more of each other. But it is always hard letting go of karmic relationships, but is meant to end now in this life time

[@LadaDuncheva]

if your Mars is in good dignity and well aspected then he will stimulate the Mars in you or you will activate such more positive masculine energies in him: courage, desire, assertion, competitiveness. If your Mars is in a bad dignity(cancer, Gemini, Virgo)u will stimulate more and more the more negative Mars energies in your life: arguments, competition between each other, irritability, etc. The positive Sun qualities u can trigger in each other r self esteem, career, goals, ambition, creativity

[@anabellecoddington]

This is such a go to video for 7 years of my life ❤️🙏🏼

[@LadaDuncheva]

yes, count the positive and the negative, but having Rahu and venus is pretty positive indication and binding karmic connection

[@MisizMyah]

I really love this video, Lada! I think I probably watch it everyday and I STILL learn something new every time. It's like the perfect reference video anytime I'm curious about a relationship. Thank you so much for sharing your insights with us. I really appreciate you! :D

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi Myah, thank you so much for your appreciation! Will start doing more such videos once I get to move to my new place where I will have a studio! :)

[@LadaDuncheva]

I will do video about that soon

[@LadaDuncheva]

@seegreeneyes you will both work bring out the Saturn energy in your life more, but you are used to these energies because you have them natally(in your birth charts) so you will push each other further into working on Saturn issues

[@LadaDuncheva]

hi, just look if rahu or ketu r in the same sign as the planets of the other person. do not count aspects. If there are a few rahu and ketu connections it means that this relationship is deeply karmic, and will most often be transformational for both and will challenge and make both sides grow a lot.

[@LadaDuncheva]

@missjaynelei the Sun is really strong in Leo while Saturn is really weak, so hoping that here Saturn will be overcome by the Solar energies and they will prevail between you. But you can also say for yourself: do you get more awe and inspiration toward him(Sun), or do you get more pain and difficulties from him(Saturn)? His Saturn can also teach more self reserve and discipline

[@LadaDuncheva]

it just means that they were born 8-9 years apart usually, you will trigger each others' house positions and the two ppl will be developing the houses(life areas)they fall in

[@LadaDuncheva]

then they will help each other develop the houses that rahu falls in. I will make a video about that

[@LadaDuncheva]

Such connections indeed indicate a karmic relationship and both feel hooked to each other and have some karma to resolve and work on till runs out.

[@LadaDuncheva]

u can of course but then the man is thrown into the receptive role and the woman in the leading, so they need to feel happy with these on both side. Usually one might be ok with the swicth of role while the other is not. It is much more rare to have both side happy with reversed roles

[@LadaDuncheva]

it means she will stimulate your house where your Ketu is and you will stimulate the area of her life(house) where her Ketu is. You need to know the meaning of the houses

[@LadaDuncheva]

then disregard the sex related connections: for example Rahu/sun/Moon will be very bonding in the long run. Ketu Moon/Sun will be about letting for of the Ego or of the emotional attachments to each other

[@LadaDuncheva]

if the rest of the compatibility is good, then the Karma is also good, because you will be getting less and less of Saturn(obstacles, suffering, hard work)This what your past karma was about--hard work, discipline, authority, difficulties, perseverance and this is how the relationship will start initially probably, but the more you are together the less of this you will get

[@kalashrestha3251]

She should get award for teaching us valuable lesson.

[@LadaDuncheva]

more of karmic relationship with more responsibilities, tests and hard work, but can be very lasting because Saturn has a very binding influence

[@LadaDuncheva]

@magicatcat you will get from them more of a martial energy--you will stimulate their martial energy, while they will make you more mellow-it is somewhat of a cancelling influence but you are working on Mars issues(will power, courage, action, competitiveness, resolving conflict, tackling problems) with them in this life-there is mutual teaching of this.

[@LadaDuncheva]

@magicatcat When the energy flows form his you to him--it is just one of the blesmishes which can be overcome if there is no "Obstacles" and No "Misfortunes" in the compatibility. But if these exists even the rahu conjunctions cannot keep it too long but will create these strong attractions you have for each other. If Obstacles and misfortunes are not there then the rahu conjuctions will guarantee a much longer and intense relationship

[@LadaDuncheva]

he will help you let go of self interest(ketu in 1st house) and learn and develop your partership and sharing skills (his rahu in your 7th)

[@emiliachavdarova9498]

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[@LadaDuncheva]

The ketu connections with Mars means that these quarrels and anger must get less and less over time! Unless Mars of one is on the Ascendant or Descendant or Saturn on the other, which can keep up the martial energy kicking for longer

[@LadaDuncheva]

It means the difficult karma and negative experience(Saturn) will diminish (Ketu)more with time in this life.

[@LadaDuncheva]

If his Moon is growing then it is good--because there will be growing emotional connection between you. If the Moon is waning there will be decreasing emotional connection between you. While the Ketu Moon connection is really binding initially due to a feeling of familiarity usually due to a past life emotional connection, and it has to be completed in this life.

[@TemajTarot]

Another question: With so many people feeling incomplete with the Rahu/Venus connections, why do astrologers write it off as "it is difficult to let go because of the Rahu 'hook'. Shouldn't a person feel relieved once karma is resolved? Just like the body feels relieved when something bad comes out. Our body doesn't want to hold on to the bad/ill feeling and when it does, it's because the sickness has not left our bodies. So maybe this lingering feeling of not being able to let go is because the karma has not been resolved.

[@eboli7146]

TemajTarot I’ve experienced this twice- it is difficult to let go of, and there is definitely a sense of a hook, and both times the relationship was severed abruptly. I felt both times there was unfinished business. whether there’s more karma to resolve I don’t know, time will tell.

[@SaikouJenny]

I agree 100%

[@SaikouJenny]

Eboli or maybe the situation is saying to be proactive and try to resolve on your end, if it isn’t then I think their action of not being receiving should be indication of the closure.

[@myqueenimagivemydumassopin6841]

@@eboli7146 were you the Rahu person or planet person?

[@eboli7146]

lalaboo grey I’ve been both. When I was the planet person I was less of the “chaser” and it was easier to let go of, compared to being the Rahu person. However I was also a bit older and wiser so that might’ve been a factor.

[@sarahrose7173]

Ugh! I wish this to be my last incarnation lol, I'm over these karmic relationships. Lol haha just kidding. That makes perfect sense. Having the same Rahu and Ketu justified our karmatic pull towards learning lessons and evolving, eventually leading us to clearing the karma and living harmoniously in dharma (with each other or with someone else). Thank you SO much for taking the time to write back! You've inspired me to learn SO much about astrology. Every person who ever has a question about astrology I send them right over to you! It's beautiful to see you serving your life purpose and mission to help the collective better understand themselves, as the natal chart is the blue print to our souls. ❤️ Have a WONDERFUL week, keep on keepin' on gorgeous. Xxxx

[@LadaDuncheva]

not necessarily, it is just that the two will not have many past issues to work on, but Rahu Ketu will stimilate the house of the other person, Ketu will show the area of life of the house it is in which was stimulated for you in your past life and now this person will help you let go of this area, and Rahu's house position-the area the person will stimulate in this life for you

[@LadaDuncheva]

@qcasj Check what houses your rahu affects in his chart--you will stimulate the topic of this house in his life and viceversa

[@LadaDuncheva]

one way is enough to indicate the connection of both from past life. Sometimes in might not even be a past life: it can be that this person is teaching you or you are teaching them to let go of sth if it is a ketu connection or to learn do to sth better and develop it, if it is a Rahu connection. If it goes both ways, then both of you teach other the same lesson, one way, one is more the teacher, the other the student about sth

[@LadaDuncheva]

that you were born within the same year or so, it is generational. He activates and helps you develop the house of Rahu

[@LadaDuncheva]

yep, it does apply to gay couples too. You will stimulate each other a lot for growth in this life! Determining sexuality is a difficult thing in astrology, but basically for a male having more male planet influences(Sun, Mars, Jupiter) on his 7th house of parterships can show such indications and for women, Venus, Moon influences (aspects) to the 7th house can give that, while at the same time having male planets affect the 1st house(self)

[@LadaDuncheva]

@kierbaud this is synastry--comparing positions between two people...

[@LadaDuncheva]

Compatibility is determined by the Moon signs mostly, this with rahu and ketu just gives more detail

[@LadaDuncheva]

Whatever house the other person triggers with their Rahu, he will help the house person develop this area of life, for Exmaple his Rahu in your 10th, will stimilate you to develop more of your leadership abilities, career, responsibilities. (the easy or hard way). So will your teach him something new in regards to the house which your Rahu triggers in his horoscope

[@LadaDuncheva]

@MST82 Hi having the same Rahu and Ketu, means you were born within the same year or close. Anyone born in the same year or around the year you were born will have these in the same signs, and also Saturn and Jupiter--as they planets move very slowly-so this is not very telling about the relationship, just generational

[@LadaDuncheva]

@darrenandbutterfly I use whole sign system-other astrologers use placidus house systems. The one I use is the oldest type of house system but it differs a bit from the modern one hence the difference. I have noticed that the older type describes life topics better

[@LadaDuncheva]

@manokhan007 does he have any planets in Cancer or Capricorn? And do you have any planets in Virgo or Pisces?

[@LadaDuncheva]

@Hollywoodrags it means that you are helping each other work on each other's own natal Rahu Ketu issues: what you need to develop(Rahu) and what you need to let go of(Ketu). You will need to examine what houses your Rahu and Ketu and are: and it means he will help you develop this area of your life.

[@LadaDuncheva]

it is a very karmic past life relationship! Usually you have to resolve some old karma to do with Solar qualities: inspiration, activity, personal power, self esteem, goals and career and then the relationship dissolves and you are free of that karma. One could have been a father or authority figure to the other in a past life

[@LadaDuncheva]

Ketu person affects the person with the Moon to lets go of emotionalism and other more female, passive qualities, but it is a sign of a strong past life connection for the couple

[@LadaDuncheva]

@DreamPreview not at all! Both Saturns are on ketu! Nothing better than this! Ketu hides Saturn(difficulties) And his Moon is on your Rahu--which one of the strongest connections for marriage/long trem relationships

[@LadaDuncheva]

if there are many negative connections it can, but not always

[@LadaDuncheva]

you will teach each other more assertion and will power through Mars Rahu-for which you will have to get more fiery around each other, and at the same time you teach each other Venus-affection, sharing, enjoyments, love--so it will be one one passionate relationship-can be a yo-yo or more balanced if both people are more aware

[@LadaDuncheva]

it is a very strong connection from a past life and initial attraction but it gets less with time

[@LadaDuncheva]

@NTowersBest15 yes ppl from this age group will tend to activate your Jupiter and Lunar qualities-for better or worse

[@LadaDuncheva]

see what house his Rahu activates in your horoscope--that will be the same as the house your Rahu activates--this person will help you develop these qualities in your life through positive or negative means

[@larsnilsson4010]

I was married a woman for 28 years, ended last year. I had my rahu on her ketu on the same degree. What kind of karma was that?

[@LadaDuncheva]

A waning moon is the softest malefic because it just diminishes emotional attachment but I dont think this can make or break a relationship

[@LadaDuncheva]

@CrazzyShiv This is a very karmic reltionship with some really string bonds! You might be getting less of his Solar qualitie but the connection between Venus and Rahu and Ascendant is really strong and overpowers the rest

[@LadaDuncheva]

Ve and Ketu shows that you were connected in past live in a romantic way and Rahu and Venus shows that you have to carry on in this life too and that you can activate venusian energies in each other. If it is not a love relationship, then it is Venus qualities which you were activating in each in past lives(love, affection, kindness, comfort, pleasure, and in this life you will continue due to the Rahu connection

[@LadaDuncheva]

@chr1stw It means you were born 9 to 8 years apart from each other. I wouldn't give Ketu+Rahu combination too much importance-it is generational, unless there are other planets in those signs

[@LadaDuncheva]

that is great, someone who can become an important part of your path in life(ascendant)

[@LadaDuncheva]

@TheGabriela72 I use whole sign houses, while many other websites use unequal house system like placidus. I use both but for different astrology techniques. And the whole sign system is the older one

[@LadaDuncheva]

@TheGabriela72 9th house in whole sign system is the place from the ascendant(you)--it is an easy and positive place for the expression of the Venus energy, but if Venus is with in the 8th house according to the unequal house system, then you will express easily(9th place) the energy of the 8th house. It is a bit complex, I know

[@LadaDuncheva]

the rahu ketu connections are not the definitive judgement for compatibility just one of the things to look at for more indepth

[@LadaDuncheva]

Hi Lana, indeed I learned the technique only with the 7 visible planets as was given in the past. Very few people resonate to the higher octave of the "new" planets or can even feel these. I prefer working with the more personal planet from Saturn down, because the outers are way more generational and non personal

[@LadaDuncheva]

hi, you need u check first the overall compatibility to see if this relationship is blessed to exists first and then rahu ketu karmic connections can just give you more indepth insight about your past and present connections. I do not see planets conjuctions between your Rahu or Ketu, so their positions are not very telling about the karma

[@LadaDuncheva]

no, just the opposite, you have more chance to be with him than she, because you have new karma to create with him(Rahu) while she is ending karma with him (ketu)

[@LadaDuncheva]

@serocki80 you are more likely to help him resolve his Mars issues and he will bring out more your Mars side.

[@LadaDuncheva]

I am not a vedic astroler--I use tropical zodiac as I have seen it work much better to predict details like colors, places, etc

[@LadaDuncheva]

it is much harder to let go of relationships where there is Rahu/Venus connections, because it is a hooking influence, one of persons cannot get enough and wants more and more of Venus-love, affection, etc. The longer two such ppl stay together the more then love each other, but if your overall compatibility is difficult(you can check with it my compatibility report) then Rahu Venus can make it hard to let go of a doomed relationship

[@LadaDuncheva]

Works the same way. The soul changes sex in different lives

[@LadaDuncheva]

not doomed, but a strong connection from a past life(most possibly marriage from a past life, and the attraction is very strong! But he might be pulling you in some old patters of behaviours which are better to be outgrown

[@saharali66]

his rahu and jupiter with my ketu, venus, mercury and sun... my rahu with his ketu and mars

[@LadaDuncheva]

@Adray07 it does

[@LadaDuncheva]

it is more good and connecting than separating

[@LadaDuncheva]

it means they will help each other resolve mars issues: anger, frustrations, impatience, competitiveness between each other and in their life on the whole

[@LadaDuncheva]

if the rest of your compatibility is good(no karmic ropes, obstacles or misfortunes) then having Rahu with Ascendant is very binding

[@justjess986]

What about Uranus and Neptune and Pluto? Do they not count? Or did I miss them?

[@pukavypora]

JustJess I have Pluto with his Rahu and viceversa. It’s an intense transformational relationship. Sexual attraction at max.

[@mizdebi1]

I have the same question

[@suchetanamitra6762]

They're generational planets, so their effects are comparatively mild.