SEXUALLY ASSAULTED AS A CHILD AND INTRODUCED INTO LESBIANISM. HOW I GOT HEALED

[@aguomauzoamaka]

As we talk about parenting, we should be aware that even parents who are present still have kids abused. Abuse can happen anywhere. What we should talk about is ensuring that we have valuable relationships with our children and talk about their day everyday. I have a cousin whose daughter tells her everything like when she comes back from school she starts downloading the event of the day. When i bath her she tells me she will wash her privates herself. Apart from her mum no one washes her private part and she was three then. I remember a day she did something naughty and i scolded her, she cried and i bought her somethings to calm her and she said she will tell no one but guess what she told her mum and said my mum is not anyone, she is mum. It was that day i knew that this type of parenting was unique. Listen out there, we need to change the parenting narrative. The world is now so wicked. Be your children's confidant. Don't let them get love from outside. Appreciate them when they do things well and correct them with love.

[@theuniversalore]

You're on point on this! Very correct, relationship is what really matters, not if the parent is physically available or not!

[@olarinretolachris354]

True!!! but we should also be talking about this too, the value of a present parent can never be OVEREMPHAZIED! parents that are not present can barely build a valuable relationship. so the two work hand in hand.

[@AdaKitchen-z5x]

Love all you said

[@EwonubariNissi]

Well articulated ❤

[@ebangahegbewatt6825]

So good,vulnerable relationships are required

[@aiwekesiena2983]

This episode made me appreciate my father even more. God rest his soul. I remember one incident where I went to a saloon and after making my hair, the hairdresser charged me a bit more than I had. I said “my daddy didn’t give me up to that o” and it became a big conversation in the salon. “Big girl like you still Dey collect money from your papa for hair.” I was just a fresher in the university. I remember vividly saying I will not ask a man for anything my father can’t give me. I was so loved and provided for even in the hardest of times. His willingness to give when he had made me understand when he couldn’t. Fathers cannot be overrated.

[@TorchBearerZenith]

God bless him

[@11Dreams]

This!

[@sholabirn5197]

Lucky you .

[@maurannebilogo7893]

Me too I have a good father . He’s still alive and he’s great

[@AhunnaIkenjoku]

This woman is extremely well spoken, and I don't know how to explain it. She is soooooo eloquent

[@stephaniechidiadi7149]

I have this amazing neighbour who is a great husband and father to his children.... there was this time he was playing with his kids outside, and I just burst into tears... you won't understand a person's story until you've been there. My advantage was that Christ found me early. The fear of God kept me, but I saw sege. My parents had me as teens and saw me has a mistake and reason they had a stagnant life. I saw Hell... but God kept me. Now, I have come to understand that they just had a lot of growing and healing to do, too. My mom is the best, and my stepdad is the sweetest... knowing God is the best. He will hold you, heal you, and teach you.

[@youmeandtherestofus]

You're wonderful.

[@benedictaomoruyi4364]

🫂🫂

[@stephaniechidiadi7149]

@@youmeandtherestofus thank you.

[@nwadikeimmaculate6929]

ThankGod for you.

[@Issie995]

This story exposes the serious issue of pedophilia in Nigeria. This is why a lot of Nigerian men who have recently migrated to the UK are being caught and arrested. What’s a 37 year old man doing with a 16 year old girl? I hope pastor femi will talk on this issue on day. It’s alarming and so rampant in Nigeria.

[@ruthagbozo5700]

Hmm

[@favourokeke9638]

Very alarming, almost every young girl has a story to tell including me.

[@mahrairene4142]

I swear, first thing that came to my mind. Paedophilia is way too common in Nigeria

[@oluwatosinadesokun8688]

She said she had sex with the accountant firstly at 14 years. Paedophilias everywhere

[@Healourtrauma]

I like how pastor Femi sits close to them like siblings giving them the confidence to talk about anything. God bless you pastor femi .

[@chiomaalade]

Psychologists call this 'hyper sexuality' it is common in victims of abuse worldwide. Thankyou so much 'anon' for sharing your story and Apostle for this incredible platform. So many 'fast' or 'promiscuous' girls need to be asked better questions about where their challenges orginated so we can help them faster.

[@girlmellaceus]

God bless you for saying this. You are a blessing to this generation💖💖💖 May God bless Ms Anon and countless others like her

[@11Dreams]

I agree

[@danielodemuyiwa9951]

Also boys too.

[@ruthezekiel2545]

I have this friend back in uni, he will sleep with any female he meets..he was studying medicine and he's a med doc currently. So then I'll be like hope you know the repercussions of all these things you're doing to your health, mental wellbeing and all and he will be like he doesn't even know what gets into him. But everyday he must sleep with atleast one lady. He will always want to try to get me but I get strong head - it was mostly God sha. So we got talking about childhood and he said something about being molested for the longest he could remember by their house girl.. So we went on Google and there was the root of his problem. Well, I didn't know anything about this so as time went on we drifted apart. He is married now and I hope he got the healing he needed b4 marriage.

[@chiomaalade]

@@ruthezekiel2545 this is 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

[@preyepriscilla9944]

Parent is not a title ooooo. Its a job description! A job that requires sacrifice, suspicion of any and everybody around you, vigilance, information and knowledge; intentionality!!!!! If you never ready nor born abeg.

[@adajohn2750]

You spoke my mind.

[@maryjaneejianya4536]

Like you are on point

[@georginaajato1099]

How do I like twice

[@onyekesochima4057]

I just want to join my voice to those who have thanked you Apostle Femi for accepting your call on this aspect of Life to say thank you !!! May God bless and reward you sir… To those that have shared their stories, thank you so much for opening our eyes and mind to these things…

[@berniejaylea]

Anon(ymous), I love how your laugh/giggle, it is refreshing. I know it is frowned upon in certain cultures, but I love it! I see some aspects of myself in you, especially the giggling. Just be the beautiful soul God created you to be, hold on to His unfailing hand, He is faithful. Keep the joy, and may peace and prosperity be added to this. God bless.

[@Uyi_Mercy]

Her smiles and giggles are truly beautiful. I may be wrong, but I sense that her giggles have been a learned coping mechanism to cope with the pain that she has felt deep in her soul. My heart truly breaks for her that she's been through such horror 😢. I pray the Lord perfects her healing, deliverance, and restoration in Jesus' name 🙏🤍

[@davinauche3195]

@@Uyi_Mercyright ❤

[@inatonekespiff]

i cant wait to share my story. God would take the Glory! This series is a proof that God still heals the broken hearted. Bless you Apostle.

[@ifeoluwafola7726]

Kudos to the media team, asides blurring her face properly, they changed her voice.🙌

[@obaduyitemitayo7804]

Really....that's so tech and discreet

[@junalolo4534]

It doesn’t sound so oh

[@Uyi_Mercy]

​@@junalolo4534They did. You can even hear parts where the voice 'distortion' was accidentally placed on Apostle's voice.

[@miracleobimba5814]

Thank God for healing...God help us!

[@oluwanifemi1487]

She's sounding like a man, I was expecting that.

[@altinejohnson]

The boldness and the courage to share this testimony of your challenges and healing is simply mind blowing and I glorify God on your behalf. Thank you Apostle for answering the call of God….lives are truly being saved and transformed 🙏🙏🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@EmilyAbal]

This story is similar to mine,,but God is working out..parents should be close and open to their child ,and show them love,,thanks for the testimony

[@theaduke1]

Even with knowing that it’s masked it takes courage and strength to share

[@nizanawale]

She is bold.

[@ayobamioluyemi8464]

Thank you Anon! Thank you Apostle Femi Lazarus. Thank you media team. Thank you Sphere of Light Church. God bless you all.

[@atuanita9368]

A lady of wealth and great influence the devil saw this and tried to truncate her destiny. Thank God for deliverance and healing 😢

[@11Dreams]

What struck me most about this story is that in the midst of all this evil and her bad experiences with men, she met a man who decided to help her with her self-esteem without trying to manipulate and exploit her like previous boyfriends had done, and this set her on the path of healing. God is mindful of us. Secondly, like apostle said, there is the place of “personal responsibility”. The man who helped set her on the path of recovery by accepting her had come from a Christian home but chose a life of crime (stealing, cultism, dropping out of Uni and covering it up with lies). Thank God both are on their journey to redemption and recovery. Third, apostles messages literally help to transform lives.

[@OmowumiAkintayo]

Thank you sir and God bless you real well.

[@faithelekong6394]

I'll share my story one one day, by the grace of God 🙏🏻 God bless you ma❤

[@bamidelebukola4934]

God I pray for healing Thank you for sharing this story. Thank you Apostle for this section as well. More grace sir

[@adebunmitimi3695]

Oh my God! I feel like someone gave this person my story to narrate…I love the fact that you expressed yourself so well to be understood and it’s now that I know how to express myself. Though we have some differences like my parents are still together and I never slept with anyone till I got to uni but sexual assaults from family and neighbours really made my childhood miserable… I was always jumping from relationship to relationship because I could not even stay without fantasizing about loving someone. I depended on men for emotional stability! God will heal us in Jesus name 🙏🏾

[@monicaonobun]

Amen

[@kyenpiyanyabam9122]

God has really healed her.She is talking with so much grace.God is good wowww

[@reginaihotuameh2696]

This is so touching 😢. Thanks for sharing your story Anon😢. It will help some of us who just started a parenting journey🎉 😢

[@akunnaanikpe5891]

This story is very sensitive and delicate. Thank You ma for being so courageous to share this story and i know that God will perfect your healing. God bless you sir and hopefully when God is through with me, i will share mine. Thank you Apostle, this is why God made the Church

[@bensonblessing6813]

I also experienced this while growing up , my mother never loved me , she would say derogatory words at me ,, the story ehn , it is well

[@praiserichard2002]

Kaiii Parenting is so vital so so vital, it’s so important that we really need to take it serious.

[@lamsym6827]

When she said “I was so happy yet so lonely.” This hit home so hard because I lived in this reality few years ago . I was dead in my mind,crushed in spirit ,defeated and severely depressed.Thank God for healing.🙏🏾

[@paxygifts398]

Sending love

[@osamafaith9335]

😢😢😢😢😢

[@callmemaey]

All I can say is thank you lord for making this lady share her story And thank you Pastor Femi for bringing her on A lot of us her this stories to share but the fear ,the discrimination,the pain to face people especially our loved ones or friends after sharing it is a lot Ma your story has motivated and taught me to forgive myself ,God bless you really good .More Grace sir 🙇🏻‍♀️

[@oseevbuomwan974]

🙏

[@blessingoreri]

Parenting should be and is INTENTIONAL... A healthy family can not be overemphasized. You can't give what you don't have

[@michaelderick5041]

God Bless You Sir.... It takes courage to share such a testimony and I thank God for healing

[@abieyuwairabor1452]

God bless you so much Apostle!! Your messages are deeply healing. Thank God for Light Nation and the love they show, people are testifying to the love and it's healing ❤️ 💕

[@oyenolababbs]

Thank God! I'm so happy to see this pop up in my notification. I was viewing it yesterday, and then it just disappeared. Thank you, sir!

[@erianna2243]

The Lord is near to the broken hearted. He is faithful to save us. My dear beautiful sister. The Lord is able. Hold on to God and don't leave him.

[@narinjerry]

i love that amidst all of this she’s still so unserious and she’s still laughing😂😂😂she’s just like me fr🤣🤣 may God complete what He has started in her life!!

[@ademolaalitemitope9679]

I really enjoy this episode, i learnt alot , thank you so much sir , more grace

[@FavourAbel-ur1bi]

All of this teaches me something, never to jugde people or condemn them easily. And also teaches me that parents should be really intentional and be there of their kids. Don't just provide food and the rest for them. Be there. God will help us.

[@French_with_Pia]

Jesus Christ, people go through so much and still manage to put up a smile on their face.

[@thewealthyteacher]

As in eh😢

[@taniaogaje6776]

Sending you all the hugs and love that I can muster ❤️ I’m so sorry you had to go through all this and I love you very very much.

[@Auxanolight]

I used to think that I was going through this alone and nobody could relate but it’s amazing how a whole different person has exact situations as you . Dear lord, perfect this transformation and start a new thing in my life. Amen

[@loismeshi5512]

Amen

[@Godfrey_Powell]

Amen 🧎

[@juanitamoonkua4247]

I resonate with this lady’s story. It’s been an eye opener for me.Lack of love from parents can lead children astray and personally I am a victim. Thank you to the Lady and Apostle Femi for this show🙏

[@peppyesu9094]

This story is very similar to mine 😢😢low self esteem 😢 Thank you apostle for this

[@Zoe_light_love]

A girl needs a father.....i didn't have that growing up, i didn't even desire it, i didn't know what it feels to have one, never saw the need for one, never even saw the need for a mother. Just grew up with family relatives and didn't desire anything. I'm all grown, and i really feel bad about my childhood. I could have been more if there was a FATHER OR a MOTHER'S LOVE growing up. Trauma is real o😢

[@eniolamichelle8905]

God will never forsake you He loves you unconditionally

[@gloryojudo3000]

Same here with me dear I lost my mom 1996 it was after my secondary school I stayed with my dad

[@Uyi_Mercy]

🫂🫂🫂

[@emmanuelladaniel-ck7fg]

😢me too

[@eniolamichelle8905]

@@gloryojudo3000 Heavenly Father have always been with you

[@WasangFuencisla]

Please heal me Lord from childhood trauma.

[@juweaugusta9410]

Amen

[@Balae23]

Amen

[@ajokuchiamaka3596]

Same here

[@smithkiseth864]

Amen 🙏🏻

[@adebunmitimi3695]

Amen and me too

[@RealityTalkTv]

Wow things are happening, lord have mercy… Apostle is such a versatile man, when it comes to knowledge

[@praywithesty557]

God bless you, Lady and God bless you Apostle Femi.

[@blssing118]

God bless you for sharing your story with us and thank you Pastor Femi for allowing God to use you in this generation.❤

[@sindialbert7628]

The lady must be pretty she has good shape too but I thank God for her life you will go through this and come out like a gold.Thanks pastor for the platform

[@Flo4Keeps]

Thank you for blurring her face and her voice...the way people especially in 🇳🇬 are unforgiving and judgemental it's not funny at all...thats why people end up lying and pretending to be who they're not- until they're caught red handed...which is sad. People have stories, experiences and very dark horrific ones...May God help us to be compassionate and show people true empathy, things aren't always rosy.

[@john-paulumeaku1841]

Thank you Apst sir for the healing and deliverance (of the mind) that God is using you to conduct in many lives and destinies. We can't thank you enough for the sacrifices and labours sir 🙌

[@obaduyitemitayo7804]

Thank you for sharing your story. Truly you are great as you believed. Brighter and glorious future await you even beyond your highest imagination

[@senchangfogha9214]

Thnk You pastor Fermi ... The kind of stories have watch here... I can say going close to God is vital❤

[@thewealthyteacher]

I’d love to meet this lady. I love her laughter and positivity. Strong woman❤❤❤❤❤

[@inioluwaelus2452]

Thank you, Anon, for sharing your testimony of transformation. God be with you. Thank you, Apostle, for the good work you are doing. God bless you

[@callmeabaka_]

Most u call her name

[@bbjames5904]

@@callmeabaka_I guess d person meant anonymous

[@MordecaiMusa]

Jesus Christ! People are going through alot. Parenting is a calling

[@halftimepromiseswithneibert]

Thank you so much for sharing your story! Thank you, Apostle, for your life-giving stories and messages.

[@donguemaladolesline7923]

This is a lot😢😢😢I bless God for your healing and restoration dear sister, I went through what you went through, it's unfortunate none of my parents know about it even till date but Jésus saved me, he helped me, at times not certain if am completely healed but I'm much more better than before... Parents no job is worth the lifes of your children, no business is worth sacrificing the future of your children

[@praiserichard2002]

Kaiiii The word of God cleanses. The word is life

[@charlotteayima3890]

Praying for complete healing. Its good she deletes those messages from previous relationship its also part of rhe healing process. Thank you Apostle.

[@yourspiritualguard7812]

Thank you Jesus for preserving this precious soul 🤍🤍🤍 God truly wants everyone saved and restored. Your healing is complete and beautiful in Jesus name. Thank you AFL, Thank you Anon for this Episode. And to the Relationship coach,hmmmmmm may he find Jesus soon in Jesus,Amen.

[@Balae23]

Amen

[@odoroomololu3147]

Bukola demon fryer is here😊😊😊😊

[@chisomuche6624]

Thank you Apostle for your preachings that has gone far.

[@titilayooyewo]

Thank you Apostle Femi Lazarus. Your messages are like the way the Lord speaks to me. So kind, so in touch with our feelings.

[@anuoluwapo.falarungbon]

Thank you for sharing this story, it gives perspective and gives me empathy for people who come from dysfunctional homes and act in ways that I sonetimes cannot comprehend and sometimes honestly annoys me. It also makes me appreciate intentional parents, leaders, and change agents more❤ Thank God for healing and deliverance, I pray for healing and deliverance for persons who have been negatively impacted in their upbringing, who need to heal and shine their light bright 🌞

[@praiserichard2002]

Wow thank you ma for sharing your story. Thank you Apostle for yielding🙌

[@ohenusimarvelous]

May God continue to use you to reach the unsaved,ur light will never go deem In Jesus name 🙏

[@Balae23]

Amen 🙏

[@santanovo2956]

Thank you apostle. Some of us can learn from this. These things and more are happening in real life. God is helping a lot of people through this channel and stories. Thank God for the lady

[@ChimfumnanyaOrizu]

Apostle I thank God for your ministry everyday thank you so much❤️

[@ewangsinclair16]

Daddy Femi may my God bless you for what you’re doing for humanity. You’re a blessing to me sir. May God bless you immensely

[@blessingnnennaonah8283]

I like the way her faced was blurred. Nice and good bless you

[@senchangfogha9214]

Yes even her voice

[@ebunolusola3658]

This is deep. Thank you Apostle for your Ministry.

[@allegramoukilou1528]

Thank you for your testimony, I can relate to that, and we all pray for healing in the name of jesus.

[@EspoirAminu]

Thanks for sharing it’s been educative may everyone get a chance to listen to this.

[@Victorae1.]

Thank you Apostle ❤🙏💯. You are shaping minds. God bless you Ma for sharing your story. I pray that your joy be full. Your life is indeed a testimony.

[@maryube815]

I appreciate the way apostle used to chip in the biblical truth when the guest speaks about their ungodly opinion

[@SerahOdusina]

Having been following this channel and listening to different life testimony, ive come to thank God the more for the kind of father i have. Thank you jesus for me dad. Oh Lord please preserve his life and that of my wonderful mother and please bless me enough to take good care of them.amen. thank you apostle

[@lucyadelle2009]

This boils down to what St Augustine said.. our hearts are restless until it rests on the Lord.

[@ImageofgodKainos]

Your message is unique, there are so many hurt in the world and the church needs to cover that and you are doing great...

[@symplyann1364]

This is a proof God can bring us out of anything, thank you Apostle for yielding to God.

[@VictoriaAkpomuedje-cg2yk]

I'm not the only one who practiced lesbianism as a child,most times I sit back and remember all the naughty things I did at a very tender age I was so addicted into lesbianism as a child I lured alots of people into it .I really enjoyed it thank God I didn't grow with it

[@hannahsorpuruchi6539]

Same with me sis😢..

[@VictoriaAkpomuedje-cg2yk]

@@hannahsorpuruchi6539 I'm so happy I'm not into it anymore I still don't know how mine started ,but I remembered when go for holiday my aunt's step daughter would ask me to do something to her . I can't remember everything this lady said it was if she described me here

[@monicaonobun]

Right now do you feel remorse about it.? Whenever you remember it do you ask God for forgiveness..? The people you lured into it are they still in it and do you still pray for their deliverance.. Please do this. This post is not complete

[@monicaonobun]

​@@hannahsorpuruchi6539may God deliver you completely sis..

[@monicaonobun]

Sending much Love

[@ElizabethJoel-q1x]

You see that love at home, it's very necessary 😢

[@elizabethchapo9323]

extremely necessary

[@Rachaelosato-dh7mt]

Very very.... especially from the father it's why Joseph was different from the rest brothers,it's why he was able to thrive in Egypt... if a child should be born into this world, he/she should come into a family, a very lovely one whether biological or not. If we have love the world would be better

[@BaMoAmin]

Absolutely! Having both parents who are present as well is quite important.

[@SefiatToluAzeez]

May God perfect her healing. I’ll advise she spends time by herself without being in any relationship with a man. She needs to heal, reflect, discover her true self before she can handle a healthy relationship.

[@ArinzeNwekoyo]

Apostle God bless you for this episodes

[@babajidemercy]

Hmmm it is well A lot of people has gone through a lot I pray you find someone that would value and love you genuinely

[@toscopresh4020]

Amen

[@kelechiike843]

Things dey happen ohh... This is a story that anyone can come out of anything. Help Us Dear Lord to be Better always in our lives...

[@Balae23]

Amen

[@TosinAyomikun-wj3ub]

God bless you apostle You are a blessing to this generation

[@tolu_oke]

Thank God for her transformation. Thank God for the gift of Apostle Femi.

[@hannahsorpuruchi6539]

Why do I feel somehow listening to this😢😢 I grew up with both parents around but I experienced almost all that this lady went through in form of validation from men and seeking for love anywhere there seemed to be love😢😢..ThankGod for listening to these stories, they gradually reveal a better way to grow with.

[@emmahkinang2095]

I was unloved from when I realized my environment. I remembered when I was five or so , I was from a large family and things will be bought for others but my mum won't include me . I grew up hearing people asked is she your child too? But this was why I refused to be wayward. Because I felt that was what my mother wanted me to result to. So I wasn't without few friends but I wasn't sleeping around . It was torment but I build a moral around myself that my only dignity was my body. And those I should give it to should be worth the time. It's well and I pray all those in difficult situations finds love in Christ because he's the best lover . And if one is not mentally settle ,I don't think procrastinating should be for such person's . Jesus lifted ,Jesus glorified. It's well

[@TitilayoOluwadare-n3o]

Thank you so much ma for sharing your story, it's relatable Thank you apostle for all the stories share, am learning a lot from them. God bless you!

[@donguemaladolesline7923]

Thank you Apostle Femi for availing yourself for this work, you are helping a whole lot of us, am grateful

[@afolabioluwadamilola6986]

Thank you so much sir. Now I know what prompted some of my actions and I thank God for healing. Thank you for sharing you story ma. God bless you.

[@Unwashadow]

But who was he coaching gan gan?????? Lord have mercy 🥹 This story is so relatable to an extent. I thank God for her and May the Lord perfect her healing in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen🤍

[@chikaowabie267]

That your question is the main question on my mind! Coach Keh!

[@mariamyashim3264]

​@@chikaowabie267and so many young ladies will fall victims of this coach. I am afraid for them.

[@thewealthyteacher]

I’m telling you 😢

[@OkoromaFavour-kh3il]

I wish I will be you that doesn't take things to heart or serious,a little thing breaks me down, you went through all these yet you are happy,i pray that God should see you through and even all of us listening to this.

[@emmanuelvictoria5039]

Thank you so much sir for the message of the gospel that you bear. God bless you sir. Thank you for sharing your story my dear Sister in Christ, the Lord perfect all that concerns you. Keep shining for the Lord.

[@The_ladylois]

The fact that she’s probably between 25-27 and under breaks my heart even more. I’m suggesting that because she entered uni at 17 and was still in school in 2020. An inspiration! May God perfect her healing ❤️‍🩹

[@NoremawaIdeba-Oleghe]

Kai! Una sabi analysis oo😂😂

[@Uyi_Mercy]

Amen 🙏

[@OluwadamisiAgosu]

Amen

[@NaomiZakka]

She is well spoken and articulate. I almost mistook her for the writer and public speaker Ngozi Chimaamanda. She is so gifted

[@olubunmiadewolebabatunde4769]

Only the message of the Cross can totally heal the mind. ❤❤❤❤❤❤Candid truth

[@Williamsdoris1]

God bless you for sharing your story sis

[@adekunleifeoluwa9215]

this one weak me oooo, marriage counsellor ke

[@tolat3446]

May God perfect your healing in Jesus Name, and make you a deliverer to those going through such.

[@ijeomaigbokwe687]

Thank you Apostle for being a vessel honor, thank you for listening to their stories.

[@philehi4780]

I think the enemy strategically caused this kind of atmosphere around her life since childhood because she was created for a purpose and destined for greatness. The recurrent pattern of sexual escapades around her life looks like something orchestrated purposely by the devil to derail her destiny. The enemy knows us before we even know who we are. The recurrent pattern is already a red flag, can't be a coincidence May God perfect His healing and plan in her life. God bless pastor Femi for all he does

[@anuoluwapo.falarungbon]

The enemy does not know us, he can only have an idea, God is the one who truly knows us, even before he formed us, and that's what His Word says