MY FATHER TAUGHT MY EX HUSBAND HOW TO BEAT ME

[@yvonneodul8291]

I like the way Pastor is allowing her to speak without interfering

[@suwakukoyi5765]

It's better this way, so it. An flow.

[@SamuelAgnes-di4rl]

Same here

[@emmanuelvictoria5039]

No matter what the world say No matter the imperfections in the church Church is my place of rest. I will never leave the church of Christ

[@EkeminiDOVM11]

This is why we need an effective Child protective system in Nigeria cos this doesn’t make sense at all! The bruises on a child and no one is held accountable?! Wow! Thanks for sharing this story Ma gives me more fuel to fight for innocent children 🙏🏾

[@ijeomaiheanachor6780]

I relate your comment are you a social worker

[@sandraphilip5149]

This woman needs a deep healing. Allowing her to talk without interruption was also a start process of healing

[@MissMumbuaKasyoki]

I know...May Jesus heal her.

[@Joy-yt7ek]

This lady is strength personified! See how calm, articulate, and logical she's analysing and recounting her experience without much emotions. Nah woman you be abeg!

[@tinaocheni2684]

@@Joy-yt7ek God bless you 🥰🥰

[@godlydabara7060]

If she broke down, would it change the fact that na woman she be?

[@Geneka617]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@godlydabara7060They are talking A you are talking Z. Honestly God really gave her strength to withstand it all. She’s amazing

[@onyedikaokonkwo6357]

Yes, she is a woman, but this have damaged her, i can see it in her eyes, she exhausted I wonder what gave her strength

[@MaguiM263]

This is not strength.....this is someone who is deeply wounded...

[@Anita-d3z]

How is she sharing such pains of her life and still keeping up with smiles........... God's mercies will not cease from you sis

[@tinaocheni2684]

Amen

[@bekkyamanda4646]

This story is the worst I've ever heard of. I have said it, and I'd continue to say it over and again, Children are gifts from God, but you must not have them. Parents are the first god that these children will ever know. Please, in the name of God Almighty. Young people, if you know you have not already laid out plans to do better, please do not have children. Stay single and focus on your God. For you to have a child, you must have the capacity to invest your time, finance, love, and patience in that child/children. Children are not furniture, they are flesh and blood, they are God's own. You have no business having children if you are not ready to invest in them physically, mentally, spiritually, socially, emotionally, and all. Every time I hear of how parents fail their children (this being the worst), my heart keels over. You can marry and choose to have no child, nobody will kill you. But I pray the wrath of God on anyone who only desires to have children and torment them in the name of being their father or mother. In all this, thank you God for being a Father, Friend, Comforter, Healer and all we ever need when we need You; because who can take this kind of pain and not curse their existence and lose it all together. Abba, My Good Father, thank you. Thank you because Tina's story is still being written, and it only gets better. I pray that her joy and laughter will multiply. I pray her business flourishes and that you give her all that it takes to raise David as a wholesome man (Your standard). From now on, Abba, let her be known for Joy, Peace, and Love.

[@blessingshugaba5050]

More reason why my husband and I have decided to have kids at least 4 to 6 years after our wedding. Its been three years now and still counting. I will not forgive myself if I allow my child pass through the preventable hardship I passed through as a child. It affected my education and now,my husband is the one sponsoring my education. Though my siblings and I experienced Love growing up.

[@MrsGiant]

Amen!

[@9icegirl555]

Amen!

[@narkiethemidwife]

@@blessingshugaba5050 i thought am the only one who has thought about this…I would rather not have a child than bring a child into this world to suffer the way I did. Hmmmm

[@sazaberg]

You said it all

[@ChaanaEjoga]

The way she laughs saying her ordeal is a sign of trauma. One can see from her gentleness that she's a loving person despite all she's been through

[@giftowhor283]

She’s traumatized already. The way she smiles helps in relieving the stress. That’s a coping mechanism

[@hetty_dips]

Your story is just like mine.. That man is not your dad. I later knew that mine wasn't. Even till date, they have not told me officially that he is not mine. He caused the distance between myself and my siblings... Till date I don't know my dad's family 😢 I wished my story was different. I wanted love affection from my family. But thank God for Jesus and the holy Spirit.. it's sooooo sweet to trust in Jesus.

[@Adebowaleeyyarts]

Yes, I understand what are talking about, I watch many of such stories from paternity court. The mother and supposed father have a secret to keep. Check well you will find out more.

[@priscillaamaka1527]

Hmmmm...I am glad you are fine now. Thanks to the Holy Spirit

[@daniellemuazu4246]

Lol una no know our northern fathers especially "Christian" ones.. you'd be shocked

[@mahershalalbaz]

That part about patriarchy and owning your children and lacking accountability is so true about Africa..thank you Apostle Femi for daring to dig into an area we don't talk about in Africa and thank you lady for being so brave. You deserve love..respect, care and safety from people you love. I know it will take a long time to get through the trauma.. may God help you in your journey.

[@adewunmiadebayo6775]

Thank God for this platform. It’s an eye opener and you know why some people behave a type of way. Abuse and pain is so deep in Nigeria. Now, I understand why a lot of people act a type of way.

[@tamarakeipreyedekpen1007]

You are right. Most families in Nigeria are dysfunctional

[@karoogoro]

This has made me realize dat marriage is not just about love but indeed background check is a must. I felt really broken hearing her story may God heal her completely 👍🙏

[@ogwuchemercy6761]

Background check is very important ooo

[@MiaAnena22]

My biological father's blessing is not for me and am okay with it. A man who has resented me since childhood, a man who denied me every basic right to the extent of thinking I would turn out wayward and worthless. I am glad I was able to stand up for myself at 19, told him to his face what I thought of him and walked out at 20. I am glad I made a life for myself away from all that toxicity. Cutting him off is still the best decision I have ever made in my life and for my peace of mind. Lemme hear someone telling me that nonsense of honoring and respecting such a parent

[@tinaocheni2684]

What have i don to deserve so much love

[@olufunmiqueenaarinola1766]

My prayers are with you sis oh Lord!

[@prettyozoza8608]

God will heal you in Jesus name

[@Being.Benedicta]

You are loved darling, always remember that you are precious in Abba's eyes...May the Almighty perfect his healing upon your life. Stay blessed and I wish you loads of happiness henceforth...I love you ❤ Isaiah 43:1-7

[@TheRefinersVesselsNetwork]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ We love you 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

[@victoryagara6146]

You deserve all the love sis 🥰

[@TheRefinersVesselsNetwork]

Excerpt she is currently married, could you kindly remove that MRS from her name, so a good husband can find her.❤❤❤ She deserves spousal LOVE again 😍😍😍

[@45media85]

She does and she's a beautiful lady.

[@jjabb]

He said Ms Tina.

[@TheRefinersVesselsNetwork]

@jjabb - Thank you for noting that. However, what I was referring to is What is Written on the Name Slide shown intermittently before, during and after the interview. People are carried away by the story that they may not hear the 'Ms' in the conversation but stick to the MRS they saw. SEEING IS POWERFUL.

[@olufemiadebayo2954]

My Jesus is still changing lives. Attending regularly a church where the word of God is being taught through the Holy Spirit is so vital.

[@imolearemilekun1472]

Parental favouritism is a big pandemic we’re not ready to talk about

[@g1stconsult]

Apostle femi Lazarus, please help us follow the lady for mentorship till she get a loving home. She deserves to be loved

[@tinaocheni2684]

Apostle Femi Lazarus and his wife Pastor Mimie are the best parents that any one could ever ask for 🙌🙌🙌🙌 God used them to help me heal...they have done so much and still doing a lot more behind the scenes.

[@juliette7776]

@@tinaocheni2684God bless you sister

[@adeyemiadenusi2105]

​@@tinaocheni2684Our prayers and thoughts are with you..Thank God for healing. He will also perfect that which He has started. What the devil planned to use to break you, God will use it to make you. Thank you for hanging on❤❤❤

[@Seun4Jesus]

Hallelujah ​@@tinaocheni2684

[@dival9605]

​@@tinaocheni2684❤❤ God bless you and continue to keep you.❤❤❤

[@olorunfemijoshua7753]

I don't want to say this, but i need to say this, her father must and her husband must be jailed.

[@motolani.0924]

I thank God for churches like this and Pastors like Pst Femi Lazarus. I can imagine if she was in church that day ad aall the pastor was preaching was give give give, people like this will not mind pouring out their pockets and still going home to execute their suicidal plan. May our pastors be true shepherds that will be sensitive and genuinely concerned for their flocks. God bless Ms Tina and heal her completely in JESUS NAME. Thank you sir, Pst Femi for being a true leader

[@oyewumiaderonke1183]

Narcissistic father 😊

[@oyewumiaderonke1183]

Your ex was a narcissist too

[@oyewumiaderonke1183]

God bless you PST. Femi Lazarus

[@agadamary3841]

Her Dad must be an Igala Man. Igala Men will not change. They are the same. They have good women( Their women can submit to any length) but their Men??? They are hostile, not loving, very proud people. My Father has that hostile spirit with pride too. The funniest part is that, they go to church more than pastors! Till now, I can't do full 48hours under my parent roof because fight will break out on the 3rd day between my Dad and I. Infact, I blocked her on my phone and my husband's phone because he will cause a fight between us. He's always happy when you're sad. I blocked him straight. Since 3years plus (after my wedding day) i haven't gone to visit them because there's no reason to do that. I thank God i didn't marry from them. Affliction will not rise the second time and God compensated me with a good Husband (Yoruba guy in whom I found a father and husband in him. He's Godsent). I celebrate you my sister, you're a warrior. You have won.

[@tinaocheni2684]

It's true about most Igala men.. But we can change narrative by raising our kids differently....

[@sarahekundayo9421]

@tina, the love of Christ flows through you

[@grace2.026]

@@tinaocheni2684The cycle can only change if the men also change. Unless it’s a 1 parent household the father has great influence on his children

[@angelaenyo4303]

My dad was good but my mom had Favorite and wish my immediate kid sis was the first daughter and I’m the first daughter I’m also igala also my siblings checked my glory and have been after my life spiritually hmm it’s a long story I receive spiritual attacks every day and my mom is telling me to come to the village that’s their plot o so they’ll finish me

[@happinessogbuinya5194]

​@@angelaenyo4303are you for real

[@ogarjoshua6433]

Kai😢 God will completely heal you my sister , telling this story without been emotional you are a strong woman, you went through a lot

[@mrnatha]

At this point we need a website or page dedicated to evil families to avoid! May God keep us safe and guide us right, May we be led by The Holy spirit and full of discernmet

[@akwachi7217]

Agreed 💯

[@minad8206]

Like a Facebook page, that says should I marry this family?

[@ngozijessyca9921]

She provided for them and fixed things, as she unconsciously sought their acceptance and hoped for them to finally like her. Just like any toxic relationship, they will still remind you that they didn't ask you to do all those things

[@ruthuwa2470]

She wasn't really giving for them to like her, she is naturally a good person......she have a good heart n a giver.

[@mariaclement5964]

She does not owe them anything

[@priscillaamaka1527]

She needs to priorities herself. Self love is very crucial. They can never love her even if she dies for them. They are evil. She needs to focus on God. Her true healing comes from Him and also take care of herself and boy.

[@Whoisthatgirl2121]

Sounds like a narcissist She sounds like the family scapegoat

[@leonaugbo4396]

I thought I have seen life ooo but this one is beyond crazy. Thank God she is alive, so painful to watch.

[@lovenwanna6018]

She is so beautiful…may God continue to strengthen you. You will excel and your story will bring hope to people.

[@esthermoundi3057]

Be strong sister. Your smile is a strength. You will never lack, David your son will never lack, be healed , remain healed and continue healed in Jesus name! Please an advise, from this moment, be far from what you call your family. They are not at all. Be strong daughter of the most high!

[@eseosaabbe3251]

How does one heal from all of these? Please Lord heal her completely 🙏🏾

[@ogwuchemercy6761]

Only God knows how I would have been dealing with each and everyone of them now olune

[@Gift-eo7hy]

Jesus only when i thought i have been through hell and carrying my tramua like bags only for me to listen to this and see that she has really been through a lot When she was smiling and telling the story i was almost tearing She is strong, beautiful and great God will bless her with a better husband Jesus!!! At least i know my both parent love me so much even though they failed in many ways

[@janetinnocent870]

The man isn’t her biological father and her mother had to agree to whatever he asked her to do before he married her. He’s a monster and her mother is an accomplice in the evils done to her. I salute her courage and tenacity not to be broken by the trauma she went through. I pray for complete healing and recovery for her in Jesus name.

[@tamiausten873]

Even biological father's can be like this. My father casually says my husband will beat me over food, I've never even dated before. It just shows that if I get beat up in a relationship, my dad will not side me. This year, he beat with the curtain rod and gave me a scar on my right shoulder for no good reason. I'm 23, you'd think I'd be allowed to make my decisions. I just said I didn't want to make my hair where he wanted me to and he thought I meant something else, he proceeded to beat me with that rod. Last week he said he regrets sending me to school; the only thing I can point to that he did well as a dad. The reason for this was he came back late at night and asked me to carry some that is quite heavy, I'm a lady of course it would be challenging. I was even shocked, I had to ask "where to"? He got offended by my question, even as I carried it. I almost fell down due to the weight. That night I decided I won't let him say his usual unprovoked nonsense and I defended myself. He asked if I was offered a job, that's how I will say no 😂😂😂 gaslighting is his go to (I've already done the thing he asked me to do😮😮😮). I told him I'll only say no if I can't do the job 🤷🏾‍♀️. He got angry that he was abusing me and I had the guts to respond. I had to pause because he acts different in private and it was too late for me to escape. He has also accused me of prostitution because I don't like cooking 😂😂 (I was like 16/17 then, no make up, deeper life dressing, what was the reason 🤦🏾‍♀️). He also said it's because I don't always sleep at night 😮, so insomnia is due to promiscuity? He told my cousin that I joined a cult (I was in Jss2 then, I allegedly joined in jss1 in my previous school). After this, I was possessed and needed deliverance (all this while I was 9-11). Meanwhile, I've made a lot of money for him as a Chess youth champion. Now as an adult, I realize that the crumbs he gave me, including the job he got for me are my right and not just because he's my dad. I went to public school, I did well in school, I made money for him, I didn't have good clothes (my mom was managing to buy), he asked me to return the one I bought and criticized the ones my mom got. I've suffered self esteem because of the necessities I lacked growing up, so the phone he bought for me last year is just a repayment of dept he's owing. I've just realized for real that my father doesn't like me and has just been using me, he wakes me up at midnight to type letters for him like a PA, but I get no payment. I don't think he can stand when I look good, never heard a compliment from him about my looks, just him castigating me for wearing random items or polishing my nails. He gets so triggered over me making certain styles of hair and I noticed I looked my best then.

[@adeyemiadenusi2105]

​@@tamiausten873I had a very hard time reading through this. I pray that God will continue to strengthen you to be strong and to succeed in life. What was meant to break you, God will use it to make you ❤❤

[@zizibelle2753]

@@tamiausten873omo! This is a lot to take in. Praying to God for your strength and your success in life. Ensure you never end up with the same man coz sometimes the patter continues. You must be different from your mother who allows abuse of her innocent child. This is terrible

[@joannaikhanoba4165]

​@@tamiausten873 It's so surreal that people like this really exist and carry this mindset.

[@adebimpeadetunji9732]

Hmmmmmm, I can tell you most Nigerians are going through a lot, especially when it come to the issue of LOVE trust me. You can not give what you don't have.

[@theprintperfect]

Very right!

[@funkeoloko4892]

YES!!!!

[@justinaoruekpeti7727]

This story makes one emotional. It shows the power of God's grace and love. It's well with you my sister

[@NiaXai]

Jaw dropping testimony, thanks Pst Femi for creating a safe place for people to share, learn and be encouraged.

[@rebeccaekanem6396]

This story is sooooo pathetic. If I watched it in a movie, I would have cried from beginning to the end. What a life, what a family, what a father, what a marriage. You are the strongest woman I've ever seen. God will help and keep you and your son.

[@smartkidsandlearningacadem5662]

I cried watching your story 😭 May you find true healing in Jesus mighty name 🙏

[@JesusIsKing2677]

May these people watch this and see the pain they’ve caused someone. 😢

[@45media85]

They are narcissists. Narcissists have no empathy. Her mum is a victim of psychopathic abuse. The abuser being her dad. This is why I fault the unbalanced "submission" message. When it comes to marriage, I really avoid most Nigerian preachers, bar a few. I listen to men/women of God with a marriage where there's a healthy balance not foolish submission. Like apostle said in this message, the patriarchy in Nigeria has no accountability and l don't understand how women submit to a man who has no accountability in his life, abuse will be inevitable. So many women submitting to abuse, which is sad. It is not biblical but the Nigerian church has made it sound okay.

[@precious5596]

Goodness! I remember when she gave her testimony and how she said Pastor's message 'Breathe' prevented her from committing suicide. Then Pastor asked the congregation to contribute for her if they felt led to. Thank God for the gift of God's servants oo. Omo. This story be like Nollywood movie. The trauma is too much. Only God can mend and heal from this.

[@FaithOtokhile]

Thank God for the gift of Apostle Femi Lazarus to this generation. God heals and mends broken hearts

[@diskood6123]

Thank you Apostle for this interview. Tina, you are a beautiful soul and I wish you all the best in life! Super proud of you girl, you’ve got this👏🏾 God bless you both.

[@chikanzevinepath6606]

6mins in I was already in tears, nobody should ever suffer like this not from your family 😢. I thank Abba for your healing sis, this is just the beginning of happiness in your life. Thank you Apostle for obeying every instruction of God.

[@Eoet_2027]

I just noticed that she has a KZbin channel, where she advertised her business. The name of the channel is Tina Ocheni.

[@ameniconnecttoallthetestim5831]

She is actually someone I know

[@ini2108]

Pls can you share a link, I search and couldn't find

[@ini2108]

Searched sorry

[@lindaschreuers1700]

From the moment she started talking I could hear the secret tears pouring from her inner spirit. It’s the baddest of all when the heart begins to shed tears because it’s invisible. I feel your pain Tina ! But please see the bigger picture that God has destined you for greatness and even the demonic altar from your household knows this!!! Gods hands will uphold you!! His eyes will continue to watch over you and David! You are a conqueror!!!! Pray and forgive ur family 0:10 but keep ur distance until Jesus says so❤ Just did a transfer to your account, pls accept our token. Love you ❤

[@ewenedeojevwe2316]

Awwnnnn God bless you ❤

[@NGWESENNGAAJEJR]

Just finished listening from Cameroon 🇨🇲🇨🇲. I believe i am encouraged 🙏, going through life isn't easy especially when your background is faulty but through your story and testimony i KNOW God is still faithful...

[@tinaocheni2684]

God will do yours soon 🙏🙏

[@gracepeter6592]

Abuse and pain is so deep... To think that I was in the same class with Tina all through secondary school and had no clue.. She's one very strong and resilient lady i know...and always keeps up with the smile.. I celebrate your courage and the love of God flows through your heart sis.. Much love❤

[@Chadash12]

God bless you Pastor Femi. God also brought healing to my life through your ministry. I still have issues to treat but I know it will be well. When hearing her story, I felt she needed much more than emotional healing. She needs a financial support to end this cycle in her life. She needs to be more wise she has to eat first before giving to anyone. This World is a wicked place... 👂🏾

[@hannahaluko6131]

This is wow, I couldn't just hold back tears Thank you so much Apostle for what you are doing for this generation I love you Sir

[@atueyivanessa4528]

So sad you were the scapegoat in the dysfunctional family. I admire your courage to share.

[@OlufunmilolaImamOtubu]

But as a witch, he didn't need to tell you jack. You would know nao. Mumu man. 😂

[@ChidinmaNwamara]

Sister Tina, im happy for the salvation of your soul which is most important Is so unfortunate we cant choose our families but we can always choose our outcomes .. Please focus on yourself and child for now till you heal completely May God strengthen you 🙏

[@GraceMagaji-zl9or]

Glory be to God for what he has done🙌for apostle to preach that sermon that got you, your healings it means our GOD IS A GOOD FATHER 🙌 though our earthly fathers may fail but GOD NEVER FAILS 🙌🙌. Thank God for your life apostle, God continually keep You Amen🙌

[@modupeahmida3252]

God bless pastore Femi, the 1st time a friend talked about the hatred her dad had towards her, i thought it was a lie, until the father did some things, bringing these stories here is really good for people to know things happen, and people that experienced this, to know they are not alone.

[@TheDinma1]

Everyone involved in this should be arrested!!!!!

[@safehaven83]

I agree

[@elizabethmichael1392]

Real ooo

[@ChisomStellaAgu]

This lady has experienced so much in this life. I pray she pray find a good spouse to show her the true meaning of love and happiness

[@ewenedeojevwe2316]

God bless your uncle, he will never lack help❤

[@azunnaebubechi4969]

No apology, your younger brothers ARE DAMAGED. Future apologies to the women who will be their wives. Sisters you both are in for a big war.

[@adedoyinbadejo679]

By God's grace, they will find Christ and become new creatures

[@ogwuchemercy6761]

​@@adedoyinbadejo679I pray so because of they are idoma, they will continue with the same character of their father. Am an idoma and I can tell this Lady is idoma from the way she's talking

[@nkechianyaoha4146]

Jez I still have goose pimples hearing this story. I am in for the last part. You truly deserve it. A super Woman indeed

[@dreamyflowevents7029]

This is so disheartening to hear. I pray Tina that you will be completely healed and enjoy a beautiful life. You will live a full and fulfilled life. I don’t think I have ever heard parents especially a mother treat their own child like this. Even if your father hates you, how about your mother that carried you for 9 months? I’m speechless and short of words, it is well

[@stellachinyere2170]

One man, destroying four children by himself plus his wife😢😢😢😢😢

[@Shaded01]

My sister and I were discussing, and we concluded that if we were to unpack the level of dysfunctionality in African homes, there would be serious MH crisis

[@jjabb]

Yes

[@wiotpodcast]

You are absolutely correct. The trauma is real. This lead me to starting a podcast where real stories meet real opinions.

[@ejirodafe2187]

I've never heard of wicked family like this, even animals treat their children much better than what this beautiful woman went through. I'll advise her to face her life, focus, make money and take care of your Son. God is there for you, you can do it my dear. And as for your wicked father, Hod will judge him. Your mother and siblings are the weakest humans ever, FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND MOVE ON

[@ucheMo]

It's her smiles for me against all odds

[@JulianaOluwole]

Honestly.

[@mamososomapolanka3697]

But the pain from her voice

[@ucheMo]

@@mamososomapolanka3697 yea, the pain is obvious, but my dear, na to burst cry from beginning to the end. It’s not easy smiling and sharing her story, these kind of people are extremely quiet

[@narkiethemidwife]

I was wondering how she wasn’t crying whilst narrating her story only for her to say at the end that she’s completely healed….that really explains it cos if it was me I can’t finish the story cos tears will take half of the time….shes really a strong woman. I pray God will bless you so much that those people will come back begging for your forgiveness.🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@tinaocheni2684]

Amen🙏

[@THEIFUNANYACHUKWU]

This lady is nice oh. I would have cut off from my family for years just to heal.

[@justinaoruekpeti7727]

Your testimony is changing lives. God bless you

[@sarahokwulehie8068]

Thank you Jesus for this woman , she's such a brave and a strong woman, she's been through so much but thank you Lord it has ended in praise. Lord please strengthen her the more.

[@iyanuoluwaadeniran3280]

If it means anything sister, Happy New Year to you, i will say it a million times if you want. You are not alone, i also went through a similar case, but by the grace of God even though every day may be a struggle, we will hold on to the Hope of glory in Christ , that if He is for us everything will turn out good. Much love to you and to David

[@ekpebalogun7852]

You are a strong woman. Thank you for not taking your life.

[@onifadebolajesutito4519]

Thank God Jesus, who heals us from all hurts. Church is a place of Restoration. Apostle Lazarus, more impact and relevance. I love and celebrate you dearly. This is another dimension in the Body of Christ that find healing to the Soul of men. Thank you sir.

[@eseosasarahosahon7506]

I must say the truth, you are a strong 💪 woman. I went through a similar story. Just that, I had a good, and strong family who backed me up. Today, God has remembered me, and I'm outside the country teaching. Most of the time I come across Pastor Femi's teachings online, it boasts my faith in Christ, and it has also helped me to discover myself, and I'm still discovering myself. Thank you, sir, and God bless you for your good works. To Lady Tina, women like you, go through storms, because you have a whole lot in you that the devil 👹 doesn't want to come to reality. Keep Being Strong 💪 the Lord will see you through.

[@Adeola.Alaka.]

Come be like Nollywood movie wey Patience dey😢

[@theskincarefixer]

Her father is clearly a narcissist & decided to make her the scapegoat in the family. The gaslighting & other forms of abuse directed specifically to her is just heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you had to go through all this. I know what that feels like. I pray that God heals your heart & gives you the courage to live out your purpose in full.

[@ogwuchemercy6761]

If am the one, I would have been dealing with that man call Father

[@gloryokoh4712]

Seriously i will Seriously deal with my dad and ex husband ​@ogwuchemercy6761

[@AdeyinkaAdegbaju-o1g]

I’m grateful to God for reaching her with light. Her story is so intense, no one should pass through such. God be with her. Our government needs to do better to protect children and vulnerable people

[@yaya4302]

Such a beautiful woman..only God kept her indeed

[@BoluwatifeAgboola]

Your story is really touching, ever since have been listening to *stories with Apostle* yours is incredible I want to ask are you now in good relationship with your siblings Nd parents? Father importantly God has helped you Nd will help you more❤❤❤

[@4cubed22]

Tina your mom is included on this abuse oooo forget all that quietness also i would like to know how ur siblings are doing now after all they did to u nne.

[@ogwuchemercy6761]

I think the mother did something and the father was using it to punish her that is the mother was acting that false humility and submission to her husband

[@4cubed22]

@ogwuchemercy6761 it's possible my dear.

[@evifaithokpu-enyisan]

True. That's what I suspect too. Her mum is hiding something. Seems like a pay back ​@@ogwuchemercy6761

[@adenikeadeoye1685]

Haaaa Ma, I'm not done watching You are the definition of strength Because what is this bayi

[@Alajoketia]

I cried over this woman’s story. It’s well with her.

[@familyoffolami]

Sent my token of love. We love you sis Tina. Stay alive because you are truly a source of strength to many. God bless Apostle for using this platform to heal!

[@tinaocheni2684]

God bless you and replenish your pocket

[@gbadebofunmi6019]

This story is so touching and a reminder to be kind to people because you really have no idea what they are going through. Thank you AFL for Stories.

[@hey_winifred]

Omooo This is a lot! Sorry you went through all this. Its either you had a good heart, ir it was a coping mechanism to gain acceptance. Nobody is supposed to go through this, especially from a parent. May God heal you. Please love your parents from afar Forgive them but don't go too close. And tell your father to tell you the actual reason why he hates you. There must be something!

[@loini12]

People go through a lot😢only God can heal and bind the wounds

[@toyeen2247]

Dear Sister, I pray, GOD gives you a crown beauty for all the ashes you have been through, a joyous blessing, instead of all the mourning you have experienced, a festive praise instead of despair you have been through. Your little man, will know and serve the LORD in righteousness, he will be a great oak that the LORD has planted for HIS own GLORY. All the ancient ruins of your life will be rebuilt and repaired. You will be revive to HIS life, to the full, and you are no longer alone, you have a family in all who call on GOD'S Name. I speak SHALOM into your whole life, IJMN, afflictions will never resurface again, IN JESUS'S MIGHTY NAME! AMEN!! ❤

[@OlusolaHappiness-g9r]

Amen in Jesus name 🙏

[@ElizabethOluwatobiloba-et4ug]

Ms Tina, you are strength personified, I thank God for you and I pray He will continue to strengthen you. Thank you Apostle Lazarus for yielding to God. Thank you Sir for creating this platform called Stories, I am so blessed🎉

[@WealthyKayla]

Apostle Femi is a good listeniner . God bless him ❤

[@omololaololade4379]

Nigeria needs a working social system, a functional system would have taken her from her parents, and even at the hospital, no one could reach out to social workers to rescue her.

[@faitie6970]

Thank you Father for this testimony. For as many that have similar struggles, ABBA, bring them to you Father, bring them home to healing and You.

[@awelejessica5723]

My God! thank you Jesus for helping this lady, thank you lord for healing in Jesus christ name. Amen

[@AdaobiMaureen]

The kind of heart you have this woman... God will heal you deeply You've actually gone through a whole lot.. May God grant you total healing in Jesus name Amen 🙏 The tears behind your words, oh Lord please..

[@titidavid3795]

May your healing be permanent. God is your strength.

[@adebisiorioye5460]

Your mom's loyalty to your Dad needs to be studied. May the Lord heal you completely. ❤

[@bawajoy-i7z]

Sir you are a good listener, and is rear, thank God for grace

[@onengiyeoforialamina2807]

Thank you so much for these Testimonies Apostle I'm so inspired..... God bless y'all.... Amen

[@bruceruby8596]

This is my kind of story but this one it's my mother who beats me up and my father lays the curses on me but God have been merciful to me he didn't disappoint

[@faithmutheu1954]

Wooooow that's all I can say. I was shocked by the story but the end,I was soaked in worship. Of Abbah..Elroi indeed what God cannot do does not exist 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌. Thank you so much Pastor Femi you a mighty blessing to the body of Christ. 🎉🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

[@toyeen2247]

9:56 This Lady's story is heart wrenching 😢, LORD, JESUS!

[@Purityadvocate]

Kaiii… I’m so sorry for all you went through.

[@Oshuaregloria]

This emphasizes why I urge people to be genuinely kind to other people. For you truly don't know what people people are dealing with

[@OluOgbobine]

My sister congratulations, no looking back. Continue to shine ❤

[@nnennaorji]

Hello Tina ❤. I am sorry mama ❤❤❤. You are a star girl/ woman ❤. You will do exploits. I am doing well now; who would have thought? But after my own phase of troubles I am able to do a lot for myself ❤ You will too; have faith and trust Jesus!

[@chinecheremruth3318]

Thank you so much sir for answering the call of God upon your life, God bless you 🙏 everyday this stories gives hope to continue living. When I thought mine is worst 😂😂 it's nothing to compare.