HOW I SURVIVED THE TRAUMA OF A TOXIC BACKGROUND AND AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

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Femi Lazarus

Femi Lazarus

Күн бұрын

HOW I SURVIVED THE TRAUMA OF A TOXIC BACKGROUND AND AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

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@Godzymediastudios
@Godzymediastudios 2 күн бұрын
If you’re coming from instagram gather here
@VeRi-lb6xb
@VeRi-lb6xb 2 күн бұрын
From IG
@rae-v4j
@rae-v4j 2 күн бұрын
Lol I ran straight from the reel😅
@EllenEkuaOtchere
@EllenEkuaOtchere 2 күн бұрын
Yes ooo we are here
@humphreyjoyce8297
@humphreyjoyce8297 2 күн бұрын
lol from IG
@GODSWILLUCTV
@GODSWILLUCTV 2 күн бұрын
From ig i saw it yesterday
@offiongekpenyongTHP
@offiongekpenyongTHP 2 күн бұрын
The kind of podcast we need in this generation
@ekezielucaschiamaka4911
@ekezielucaschiamaka4911 Күн бұрын
Yes you’re making sense
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Күн бұрын
Absolutely
@bbjames5904
@bbjames5904 Күн бұрын
There is something unique about this lady, she doesn’t even look like what she’s been through. She has a lot to offer, I pray it unfolds faster than she imagine. Thank God for your healing.
@favourchimamaka
@favourchimamaka Күн бұрын
Honestly! My thought.
@OnTheTableWithHope
@OnTheTableWithHope Күн бұрын
Thank God for Her Husband
@ChiamakaOkpala-k5i
@ChiamakaOkpala-k5i 22 сағат бұрын
So so true
@mustieeykurfieey5730
@mustieeykurfieey5730 2 күн бұрын
Had to watched d full video all d way from tictok. I’m a muslim but this pastor is really wat all people want as their spiritual guidance
@bilkisuthomasmusa8633
@bilkisuthomasmusa8633 2 күн бұрын
To be honest
@cakpabio
@cakpabio 2 күн бұрын
God bless u.
@oduolaoluwakemisola8771
@oduolaoluwakemisola8771 Күн бұрын
Yes oooo He’s my therapist🥰
@ada0944
@ada0944 Күн бұрын
Wisdom no go kiii u
@omowumiaminat3656
@omowumiaminat3656 Күн бұрын
Same here​@@oduolaoluwakemisola8771
@DiamondChillah-zu6sn
@DiamondChillah-zu6sn Күн бұрын
If you come from a godly home you honestly do not know what God did to you. That's your first great blessing.
@EbereBenedicta
@EbereBenedicta Күн бұрын
Honestly
@mukoroelo6796
@mukoroelo6796 Күн бұрын
It's depends on what you refer to godly, some parents love God but don't give attention to their children.
@adebolaifeoluwa-h1x
@adebolaifeoluwa-h1x Күн бұрын
Yes ooo That's the first blessing they are enjoying
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Күн бұрын
And we owe it to perpuate the godly cycle and also to be emotionally available to our children.
@andrewoluwayemi7591
@andrewoluwayemi7591 19 сағат бұрын
So true 🎉
@charityijeoma
@charityijeoma Күн бұрын
She's literally telling my story. Thank God for growth and healing. No more wanting to revenge. My healing will be perfected IN Jesus name amen
@agbonikaberikisu3411
@agbonikaberikisu3411 Күн бұрын
Amen.. Note: please love yourself okay
@EbereBenedicta
@EbereBenedicta Күн бұрын
Amen
@EbereBenedicta
@EbereBenedicta Күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@olawumiolusunmbola5443
@olawumiolusunmbola5443 Күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Күн бұрын
Amen
@IfeoluwaJoyAdewumi
@IfeoluwaJoyAdewumi Күн бұрын
She mentioned earlier that she will tell her story without repeating lines. Guyyys, she was right! She didn’t repeat any. This woman saw a lot 😢
@nwikeemeka3692
@nwikeemeka3692 Күн бұрын
Honestly
@davidmanasseh2112
@davidmanasseh2112 Күн бұрын
That shows she's intelligent.. she take caution of every bit of her words coming out from her mouth.
@sarahachi-xi1th
@sarahachi-xi1th 2 сағат бұрын
😢all under 18.. omoooo
@el-zino4292
@el-zino4292 Күн бұрын
Truly the devil is in trouble!!! This woman is emerging and there's nothing that loser can do! Thank you Jesus ❤
@ValleyOfBlessing
@ValleyOfBlessing 2 күн бұрын
Since God delivered me from an abusive relationship 5years ago, I can say Jesus is still working on me, he's still healing me, ohhhh the trauma, anxiety is a lot, I'm from a loving family but a strict christian home, so I was scared to speak up because I'm not supposed to be "dating" in the first place, oh I suffered in silence for 4years, I almost ran mad, but Jesus is so good, the only part that is difficult is for me is to forget everything, I just want God to wipe the memories off.
@favouregbe7299
@favouregbe7299 2 күн бұрын
I pray God surrounds you with His love 🎉🎉 Keep feeding your mind with God's word. And just believing He loves you.....the memory fades with time.
@ValleyOfBlessing
@ValleyOfBlessing 2 күн бұрын
​@@favouregbe7299 Thank you so much
@michaelopeoluwa9447
@michaelopeoluwa9447 2 күн бұрын
God will perfect your healing
@ValleyOfBlessing
@ValleyOfBlessing 2 күн бұрын
@@michaelopeoluwa9447 Amen 🙏
@victoriaaniedo6437
@victoriaaniedo6437 Күн бұрын
I pray God comforts your heart and fill your heart with his love ❤❤
@stephaniechidiadi7149
@stephaniechidiadi7149 Күн бұрын
You'll never understand her pains if you've never been in this position... I vowed to never give birth outside marriage because I had a terrible childhood. Lord we thank you for healing. Thank you Apostle.
@diamondpearlify
@diamondpearlify 2 сағат бұрын
Right
@aralolaakinyemi2723
@aralolaakinyemi2723 2 күн бұрын
She's seen a whoooooole lot! I mean, she's not even tearing up. I'm all teary just watching this.
@rhudodusengenalondwa231
@rhudodusengenalondwa231 Күн бұрын
Cried a whole river
@davidemmanuel6173
@davidemmanuel6173 Күн бұрын
She don cry finish in this life...Tears don finish😢
@DARAMOLAADEOLA-l3c
@DARAMOLAADEOLA-l3c Күн бұрын
Feels like she is telling a lot of people's stories.
@DARAMOLAADEOLA-l3c
@DARAMOLAADEOLA-l3c Күн бұрын
I prayer we experience and also encounter the healing we deserve. Amen
@Jenniferschronicles
@Jenniferschronicles Күн бұрын
Honestly, how won't you tear up with this kind of story?
@godinspired4980
@godinspired4980 2 күн бұрын
I need this healing ,like my comment so I come back here .Thank you ❤
@ruthuwa2470
@ruthuwa2470 2 күн бұрын
I pray God give you the strength to push through. Love n light ❤
@caryneezerioha589
@caryneezerioha589 2 күн бұрын
Desiring it is the first step, God will perfect it all . Amen 🙏
@Azira1617
@Azira1617 2 күн бұрын
May God heal you Speedily ❤Amen
@Favourgirl
@Favourgirl Күн бұрын
A lot of girls go through abuse and live with the trauma without proper healing.
@bridgetimande9678
@bridgetimande9678 Күн бұрын
May God heal you
@Evang.Mike_Onyebuchi
@Evang.Mike_Onyebuchi Күн бұрын
The battle you have faced is because of the grace you carry. It's a dangerous grace, it scares the kingdom of darkness. But your light has come! They've thrown their best punch, but now is your turn: SCATTER EVERYTHING, MAKE THE DEVIL CRY! SHINE FOR GOD'S GLORY!!!
@UfedojoyYahaya
@UfedojoyYahaya Күн бұрын
Ohhh thank you!!! I receive it in Jesus name 😢
@EberechiFavour-do2gl
@EberechiFavour-do2gl Күн бұрын
I shine for God's glory
@cospacdtutor4824
@cospacdtutor4824 Күн бұрын
Best comment. Pls like, I must come back for this revelation
@dikrojoseph5886
@dikrojoseph5886 Күн бұрын
@aralolaakinyemi2723
@aralolaakinyemi2723 2 күн бұрын
Dear Pastor Femi Lazarus, Thank you, sir for saying YES to the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ.
@UchechukwuOnu-l7m
@UchechukwuOnu-l7m Күн бұрын
Thank God for him truly😢
@victoryotuya10
@victoryotuya10 Күн бұрын
He picks the broken, mends it lovely and use it for His Glory.
@Glamby_becky
@Glamby_becky Күн бұрын
Amen
@Glamby_becky
@Glamby_becky Күн бұрын
Amen
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Күн бұрын
Glory to God
@ronnycrown
@ronnycrown Күн бұрын
Healing is a vital part of a dysfunctional life. This story made me realise that I also need to heal from my dysfunctional background. Now, mine is not as worse as hers, but I thank God for helping her heal at the end of the day. Thank you Apostle Femi Lazarus. You are indeed a blessing to this generation.
@mekeruche
@mekeruche Күн бұрын
This young woman is obviously gifted and talented and the devil tried to take her out early . I see her wining multitudes and to Christ
@Blemosky-c4q
@Blemosky-c4q Күн бұрын
This lady really went through alot 😢, from a shattered family down to an abusive boyfriend 🥺. God Abeg ooo
@adeolaoke4165
@adeolaoke4165 Күн бұрын
….. that’s very likely except by God’s mercies. Low self esteem etc.
@AVfittings
@AVfittings Күн бұрын
This lady said if she start talking she will go on and won’t repeat herself, truly she has been through a lot I hope she finds the healing she deserves
@triumphantakobi3485
@triumphantakobi3485 Сағат бұрын
She's literally literally telling my story! Almost lost my husband due to trauma. Kai! This lady is saying how healing story! I just don't even have words. Thank you Jesus for healing, thank you Apostle for teaching on this
@renablaze548
@renablaze548 Күн бұрын
My God!back in lokoja(phase 1) I knew her as a kid, I’m friends with her elder brother. Even at a very tender age she showed strong signs of being a very very strong woman one that is full of potentials❤ I pray you completely heal.
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Күн бұрын
Wow thank God
@greatmindstudios
@greatmindstudios Күн бұрын
If you're coming from Facebook, gather here🎉
@mrnatha
@mrnatha Күн бұрын
She has not completely healed😢. But she has come a long way and is healing.❤💪 It would be nice she gets therapy
@victoriaeshiet4244
@victoriaeshiet4244 Күн бұрын
She is getting therapy. The Word is therapy.
@mrnatha
@mrnatha Күн бұрын
@@victoriaeshiet4244 Yes sis,I agree with you. However it would be nice to seek a medical professional trained in helping her thorough her healing process.
@mrnatha
@mrnatha 4 сағат бұрын
@@victoriaeshiet4244 Yes i agree. However,there is a place for medical professionals who are trained to help people through their healing process.
@OlaJulien
@OlaJulien Күн бұрын
And one thing I really love about this lady is that she is so real in everything she says. She does not try to hide some aspects of her in the past. That is a thing to congratulate
@bernicejoy3038
@bernicejoy3038 2 күн бұрын
I saw a piece of this on Instagram and came right here ❤ ... This is so deep and to hear the girl put all these things into the right words takes tons of healing. Glad she made it .. Thanks to the pastor who brought this out in a beautiful 🎉 way with healing 😍..
@hansiaessuman3188
@hansiaessuman3188 2 күн бұрын
Same here! Patiently waiting
@okonkwochinenye1224
@okonkwochinenye1224 2 күн бұрын
Even me too​@@hansiaessuman3188
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Күн бұрын
True
@That-Benue-Chef
@That-Benue-Chef Күн бұрын
I didn't know when I started crying. I could relate with many of the things this lady talked about. Imagine getting to the point of simply accepting ill treatment and abuse from people as part of life, just because those who were supposed to protect and set the standards failed us. A man once told me that I am too masculine and defensive to be a lady😂😂. I laughed it off because I know he would not understand if I told him that being like that is the only way I know how to protect and defend myself. Unfortunately, not ever on is emotionally intelligent enough to identify or understand trauma and the effect it has on an individual. Thank you pastor 🙏. May God bless and you because this generation needs you. God bless you my sister, I have learnt so much from your story today and I pray that someday, I will have the courage like you, to share mine with others.
@Nurse_MO_
@Nurse_MO_ Күн бұрын
How she said all these without a single tear is really strange. God!…she’s become so strong from everything she’s been through! 😢
@AdekoyaKehinde-r2x
@AdekoyaKehinde-r2x 19 сағат бұрын
She wanted to cry but she control her emotions
@kenifad2466
@kenifad2466 Күн бұрын
Thank you for allowing her to tell her story without punctuating it with questions. Your questions on this video were well timed and it gave her the opportunity to pour her heart out. Thank you for making the change from the other woman Evangelist video. God bless you brother for what you are doing.
@chinenyenwankwor8761
@chinenyenwankwor8761 23 сағат бұрын
Kudos to the man who took to walking you through this healing. I wish there are more people like that.
@loretta.o1806
@loretta.o1806 7 сағат бұрын
Those were powerful words "your experiences doesn't define you, it is what you make out of it" Glory to God
@uzohovictoria4693
@uzohovictoria4693 2 күн бұрын
I literally cried watching her speak. This is a lot, coming from a functional loving home is a big win. May the Lord help us to be better and be the best for our kids. Amen
@olushanuonasanya5276
@olushanuonasanya5276 Күн бұрын
Her story truly resonates. I suffered the same, but I am thankful for God's Grace and to the man I married who sees beyond all my flaws. I pray that God continues His healing in all of us.
@charisclifford9556
@charisclifford9556 Күн бұрын
When God save you from an abusive relationship, never think of going back to an abuser...Being an abuser, it's not just the bullying aspect....A man who insult you and rate it as a joke is also an abuser...
@Allofndueso
@Allofndueso Күн бұрын
This lady has not said more about her life like she mentioned. For some it sounds like folktales but for people like us me in particular. I sincerely understand what she’s talking about and more. Trauma is real. For me my church helped me go through it a bit more easy. I love this man even when am not his member, he talks about real life situations. I repeat again childhood trauma is real. I pray we all heal from all childhood traumatic experiences. God bless my husband and all men that sees beyond all flaws
@saviashley
@saviashley Күн бұрын
Having a baby by yourself is enough to traumatize anyone. I can see how that can escalate her mother’s mental state
@lindaforetia8624
@lindaforetia8624 Күн бұрын
Yea. Post partum psychosis.
@SGofLagos
@SGofLagos Күн бұрын
💯
@rhemarhodahchukudimma3020
@rhemarhodahchukudimma3020 12 сағат бұрын
That woman went through hell😢
@olayorijumoyinoluwa9525
@olayorijumoyinoluwa9525 6 сағат бұрын
My mum had me by herself …she’s very fine now and I’m fine too…the woman has been going through a lot …having a baby by yourself if ur sane can’t traumatise you
@ayodelemary
@ayodelemary 2 сағат бұрын
@@olayorijumoyinoluwa9525everybody's experience isn't the same. No one is here to compare. One minutes you can be fine and the next something can happen. Postpartum mental illness is a real thing, I work with the neurophysciatric hospital. Happy for you and mum though.
@BumafrikFashion
@BumafrikFashion 12 сағат бұрын
Many interviewer needs to learn from pastor Lazarus Listen more and let your guests talk God bless you sir
@faithikusemijupraises
@faithikusemijupraises Күн бұрын
Please don't rush her to part Two. Help her heal before the wedding. So the guy will not suffer. The guy is her strong point. Thanks to you Pastor for being her Father. Please don't leave her.
@tinycoloredmiracle
@tinycoloredmiracle Күн бұрын
I agreeeeee
@Earnflair_official
@Earnflair_official Күн бұрын
One of the reasons Apostle will always be my favourite. Always digging to the root, rather than just judge blindly. Thank you so much for such an amazing time. Thank you for bringing us this opportunity, thank you so much for sharing, my beautiful sister. May God perfect your healing. God bless you, ma and sir❤
@Etuajie
@Etuajie Күн бұрын
Dear Pastor Femi Lazarus sir, Thank you for pick your call to ministry. God bless you sir.❤
@bimpedaniel3706
@bimpedaniel3706 2 күн бұрын
Dear Lord let me and my husband be there for our children.
@OghenetegaEdith
@OghenetegaEdith Күн бұрын
I pray God heals every woman passing through things like this 🙏
@drinkswithsplendour4387
@drinkswithsplendour4387 Күн бұрын
I’m happy she met a good man, God is good.
@ideasflows
@ideasflows Күн бұрын
Thousands of women or ladies are in abusive relationships and marriages. Coming from a dysfunction home sometimes both parents are together and the children can't see them in love. It is not only a female child that needs good upbringing, for our society to be fine male child needs to be trained as well. Thank you for sharing your story.
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Күн бұрын
Very true
@rhemarhodahchukudimma3020
@rhemarhodahchukudimma3020 11 сағат бұрын
This babe has cried all the tears in her, she has none again to shed. That is why she can say all these without a tear, while i the listen is filled with tears
@doulineothusitse7306
@doulineothusitse7306 9 сағат бұрын
honestly 😭
@princessnelson1998
@princessnelson1998 2 күн бұрын
This just reminds me of the gracious Father we have🤭🥰 People may look and say, "is this one a Christian? This one that curses at the slightest provocation or this one that is so bitter, bla bla bla", but that's not how our Father sees us, He's so loving, so patient, waiting for the perfect time to fix us 🥹 When you think what you're going through is too much, and then you hear someone else's experience 😂😂😂 My God!! I have drawn strength from this 😌 Thank you so much ma for sharing your experiences with us and thank you Apostle for hosting this❤️
@_adenike
@_adenike Күн бұрын
I was going to just scroll by but I'm glad I didn't. You have no idea how this comment has touched something in me
@AnidiMercy
@AnidiMercy Күн бұрын
we see people out there looking beautiful but we don't know what they have gone through in life 😢☹ I thank God for u🙏
@samueldyaji001
@samueldyaji001 Сағат бұрын
I just discovered weeks ago that a lot of people didn't have a "normal" upbringing and it plays a major part on how they turn out as adults. Lord have mercy 🙏.....I honestly pray that people get to heal from all this experiences.
@icon12legacy17
@icon12legacy17 9 сағат бұрын
Hallelujah, this is a very powerful story..ufedor has gone through somuch in her young life, gracefully she is very brilliant and amazingly expressive. She has such a bright star and the hands of God upon her life. I became very emotional listening to this(in my 30s) knowing I have not seen or heard my father's voice in four years and dont know where he is, not seen my kid sister in almost three years..Only God can totally heal and take control over the horror wev all had to face. It will continually be well with you young lady(ufedor) it is well with you and may God continue to give Mr moses the grace to grow in the love of God with you.
@oyemakinniyi6237
@oyemakinniyi6237 Күн бұрын
If u are coming from Facebook like & Gather here for our sister joy story
@YemiSholly
@YemiSholly Күн бұрын
If there's something I've always wanted is to have a mentor, God fearing mentor. God help everyone who has a lot to say but doesn't know who to say it to and then heal. God bless Apostle, This video is not a preaching/ sermon, but I've learnt alot
@AKANJEMIMAH
@AKANJEMIMAH 2 күн бұрын
Please o as you're watching, remember to like!!! It helps the video spread faster. I know you're blessed by it, bless another too. Thank you and God bless you
@NdubuokwuRejoice
@NdubuokwuRejoice 2 күн бұрын
I can relate what she's saying, I also suffered the same plight but I'm healing now by the grace of God and christ in me, thank you sir this is what this generation needs.
@bridgetimande9678
@bridgetimande9678 Күн бұрын
I pray that you heal totally
@nikkyshamz2696
@nikkyshamz2696 Күн бұрын
❤❤
@cygwanfogbe246
@cygwanfogbe246 Күн бұрын
“I don't like phone calls. They give me anxiety.” Sometimes that's me
@adegokeblessing5204
@adegokeblessing5204 11 сағат бұрын
I thought I was strange phone calls give me anxiety too
@yetundeomole4500
@yetundeomole4500 4 сағат бұрын
Same here. I prefer you message me rather than calling me
@MaryKingsley-x4x
@MaryKingsley-x4x Күн бұрын
Who else is coming from TikTok 😢
@ak3leni7688
@ak3leni7688 Күн бұрын
Mee!!
@KelechiOnyekwere-r9k
@KelechiOnyekwere-r9k Күн бұрын
Me o
@maluleketsundzukanisharon2038
@maluleketsundzukanisharon2038 Күн бұрын
📍
@PromiseOmoruyi-sd5jc
@PromiseOmoruyi-sd5jc Күн бұрын
I rannnnnn
@felixotuodung9037
@felixotuodung9037 Күн бұрын
😆😆 we re here
@chimaogbonna1630
@chimaogbonna1630 Күн бұрын
Everything you've been through is not to destroy you. There's a purpose in it, a lot of people are going through this. Become a deliverer to millions. From this platform, open your own platform and start reaching millions. Start teaching people ways out. May your healing be perfected.
@FavourBeloved
@FavourBeloved 3 сағат бұрын
I cried from the beginning of her story to the end. I wish I have the courage to tell my story now. I am always telling myself that a day will come that I will tell my story to the whole world. Apostle I am one of the beneficiary of your teaching. I'm healing gradually.
@AjokesCorner
@AjokesCorner 20 сағат бұрын
I didn't go through 1% of this , and i regret not being able to have a voice and to be bold enough to say no to the choices of my past. Im glad you are standing strong
@TaiwoAdetola-pn7yg
@TaiwoAdetola-pn7yg Күн бұрын
I was so engrossed watching this story and what amaze me is she didn’t look like what she go through. Grace has found you and God will expand you. Thank you PASTOR FEMI LAZARUS
@tosinodede2794
@tosinodede2794 2 сағат бұрын
The fact that she shared all of these without shedding tears amazed me. She has cried alot in the past truly.
@augustinaoluchi1902
@augustinaoluchi1902 2 сағат бұрын
She has been healed,that is the sign.Crying and shedding of tears is a sign that the pain is still there.
@ellianadimond3656
@ellianadimond3656 Сағат бұрын
My dear, I am here doing the crying. My thoughts too
@tosinodede2794
@tosinodede2794 Сағат бұрын
@@augustinaoluchi1902 Hmmmm that might be true.
@tosinodede2794
@tosinodede2794 Сағат бұрын
@@augustinaoluchi1902 You know sometimes we cry not Because we are not yet healed, we cry because we remember what we passed through even though we have been healed.
@adetounadekanmbi6619
@adetounadekanmbi6619 Күн бұрын
It is today that I know that some parents deserve to be honestly without children. Why why and why again should children go through this much trauma, when they didn't beg to come to this world????
@taiwoadeyinka9505
@taiwoadeyinka9505 3 сағат бұрын
As in I keep thinking about this everyday.....I am traumatized......I never lived with my parents it's a bad experience
@TobiOnome-e5y
@TobiOnome-e5y Күн бұрын
This is the kind of podcast we need 🥺a very educative and positive one 🙏🏿
@gkimbi706
@gkimbi706 7 сағат бұрын
Her beauty is something else like there is this aura❤ around her. Feels like everyone have got to know her. You are blessed my dear. May God heal you and heal your relatives too
@preciousehikhuemen2041
@preciousehikhuemen2041 Күн бұрын
It takes a lot of courage to share something so deep like this 😢 May God perfect he’s healing in ur life
@afroafolagboye4903
@afroafolagboye4903 2 күн бұрын
I think the dad is a narcissist who abused the mum until he run her mental. This is what happened when you stay in an abusive relationship and say it because of your children and now the children are suffering
@simplepapai4832
@simplepapai4832 Күн бұрын
Exactly narcissistic people aren't easy at all
@areoyemisi3913
@areoyemisi3913 Күн бұрын
Hmmmm
@priscillaamaka1527
@priscillaamaka1527 Күн бұрын
I wish some day someone will throw more light on how people become narcissistic, if they ever get to become normal again, and what victims of such relationships can do. Living with one is terrible, speaking from experience
@grace2excell
@grace2excell Күн бұрын
True
@jacklinejoceline3070
@jacklinejoceline3070 8 сағат бұрын
True, only that abuse feels familiar because the father is abusive, that’s why they stay in abusive relationships, so stop judging and help.
@shuaibmariam
@shuaibmariam 2 күн бұрын
The childhood of every child matters in their lives
@gladysmuthoni424
@gladysmuthoni424 9 сағат бұрын
This is amazing ... knowing that am among those people who received healing from Apostle's teaching. May God bless him. Much love from Kenya❤
@Ladydecency11.
@Ladydecency11. Күн бұрын
You're really a conqueror You will never know pain again God bless you, Pastor Lazarus
@stanleyuche934
@stanleyuche934 Күн бұрын
She is indeed
@oluchiokoronkwo992
@oluchiokoronkwo992 Күн бұрын
I wish I can air my own story like this, this is profound and life touching. Thank you for sharing 😢
@princecouragebanini6388
@princecouragebanini6388 Күн бұрын
Thank you, Apostle Femi Lazarus 😢❤. Thank you for accepting the call of God and staying true to your calling. You're healing a generation 😢😢😢
@JA-dr9pd
@JA-dr9pd Күн бұрын
I Have never been this EMOTIONAL in my life, I watched this and felt it in my soul. Thank you for sharing your story and a big thank you to pastor Femi. I am grateful 🙏pls don’t stop continue to restore and heal. you are touching millions of life’s thank you sir❤
@adeleyeyetunde8920
@adeleyeyetunde8920 Күн бұрын
Hmmmm, if you come from a broken home please make sure you don't give your children a broken home too. Trust God for healing and God help us all.❤❤❤
@RoselineEnebua
@RoselineEnebua Күн бұрын
You’ve said it all😢
@babatundeayomipo5389
@babatundeayomipo5389 Күн бұрын
Amen
@claudiaaiyudubie5428
@claudiaaiyudubie5428 Күн бұрын
Exactly
@abioyetimileyin251
@abioyetimileyin251 Күн бұрын
That’s why I’m working very hard to make more money and I pray I will marry right
@timothyayoola3244
@timothyayoola3244 Күн бұрын
​@abioyetimileyin251 Not just about money. Pray and keep praying. Many people didn't wish it happened.
@preceyshow6803
@preceyshow6803 8 минут бұрын
She had cried so much that she no longer has any tears left in her eyes. I mean how could you not shed a single drop of tears, narrating this story? Thanks to God for His healing power.
@Mena_chibaby
@Mena_chibaby 23 сағат бұрын
For the first time in my life I saw someone is went through the trauma, the family background, the sorrows, the tears of going to bed and waking up with it, the thoughts of and taking my life countless times but never died in all my efforts. Imagine growing up with so much hates for my parents and siblings for letting me start fighting for my life at the age of 6 within them being present in my life, going through sexual harassment, passed the pain and hate to people around me. It feels as if last borns are the people that go through the most pains in life. God am sorry for many times I have try taking my life that I never owned, sorry for questioning you of why am going through so much pains and sorrows in life that has affected my relationship with people and friends around me. I want to heal from the pains, the sorrows, the tears everyday and recover just like this lady that went what am going through in life and healed from it and forgive my parents for leaving me at a very young age of my life. So much hates and pains in my heart from a young age and grew up with it and let it build, see people around me as wicked human beings. A lot of stroy to share and heal from.
@lifestyle-uncensored
@lifestyle-uncensored 4 сағат бұрын
Sending you hugs 🫂
@olayorijumoyinoluwa9525
@olayorijumoyinoluwa9525 3 сағат бұрын
Sending you love ❤️❤️❤️and hugs 🫂 🫂 🫂
@dazz_ling3703
@dazz_ling3703 2 сағат бұрын
I'm sorry sis❤
@hadizalawan1493
@hadizalawan1493 Күн бұрын
Thank God for her finance for been a good man and his parents that raised him up properly. God bless you.
@go-to-Maria-Goretti
@go-to-Maria-Goretti 2 күн бұрын
Joy has always been a strong girl and I’m happy she is an overcomer. God bless you ❤
@greatmindstudios
@greatmindstudios Күн бұрын
You know her?
@kyautaezekiel9526
@kyautaezekiel9526 5 сағат бұрын
How she did not drop a tear😢😢😢while sharing her story 🥺🥺hmmmmm Such a strong woman…God will continue to heal you ma🙏🏾🙏🏾🥹
@mabelumanah
@mabelumanah Күн бұрын
I now understand me now listening to this lady Haaa I need to speak up too These old her she talked about is just me This is how I'm God of my father I need this healing 🙏 My heart is so heavy And it makes me so abusive Always cursing Bad mouthing Been through a lot God pls heal me like this I'm happy for u sis ❤ Take ur flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
@priscillaamaka1527
@priscillaamaka1527 Күн бұрын
She has really suffered. Hearing her story, i knew she needed to take time off to heal first before pursuing her foundation. And that God she is doing so faster. God bless you Pastor. Many of us need mentors like this. Your true and permanent healing can only come from Christ. Speaking from experience. No man can help you more than Christ. Try to draw more closer to Him. Read His word always and tell Him your pains. It has always helped me. Wishing you speedy and more recovery, amen
@DanielApalowo-e6s
@DanielApalowo-e6s Күн бұрын
Your experience doesn't not define you its what you make out if it that defines you 💯💯💯☑️☑️☑️☑️☑️☑️☑️
@gbonjubolaoyegbami8831
@gbonjubolaoyegbami8831 7 сағат бұрын
Thank you sir AFL, the kind of podcast our generation needs to listen to!
@French_with_Pia
@French_with_Pia Күн бұрын
Apostole Femi Lazarus, God is going to bless you for this platform. I cried so hard watching this. One day I’ll tell my story and heal completely.
@B-Excellence2
@B-Excellence2 18 сағат бұрын
Praise God for her healing... This story has really blessed millions of people round d globe.. Thank you my darling ❤
@mercylifted5243
@mercylifted5243 Күн бұрын
Hmmm people wear clothes and look beautiful on the outside, but deep down in the heart, the unbearable is going on. O Lord, have mercy on this young woman, help her live a beautiful and glorious life in Jesus name.
@Annieeee877
@Annieeee877 Күн бұрын
Her closing remarks ..👏👏👏 When you come under the Lordship of our Lord Jesus Christ.. Yes the anger is justified but you no longer have a right to it
@deborahtomi6757
@deborahtomi6757 6 сағат бұрын
Some churches would have conducted deliverance for her or said she had a Jezebel spirit. It's supposed to be a place of healing but has become a place of accusations, it's sad. Thank you Apostle Femi for this
@nenaalu758
@nenaalu758 2 күн бұрын
Did you say, you were smart?? No, you weren't smart, YOU ARE GREAT, greatness lies in you girl, God bless your path
@toyinolulowo2362
@toyinolulowo2362 23 сағат бұрын
This is indeed a eye opener for many that there is healing in Christ. Thank you for sharing your story to heal many Can't wait for the party 2
@oravbierejessica5768
@oravbierejessica5768 Күн бұрын
Why am I crying 😭 I feel her pains , why ?? God please heal everyone on of us going through a lot . Amen 🙏
@bridgetimande9678
@bridgetimande9678 Күн бұрын
I pray yhat God perfects her healing. Ive had my fair share of trauma but thank God for healing. A standing ovation to her fiance, we celebrate his upbringing, support and his patience
@laniyanadenike3372
@laniyanadenike3372 Күн бұрын
I can relate very well. I really need to tell my story while I'm alive. The trauma of my childhood really affected my relationships in every area
@nathaliebokandjo5428
@nathaliebokandjo5428 Күн бұрын
Merci à ma fille de m'avoir connectée à ce Pasteur. Je suis bénie et notre guérison s'effectue de jour en jour. Merci Apôtre Femi LAZARUS !!!
@Cee_tee1
@Cee_tee1 Күн бұрын
Apostle has really touched a lot of lives
@Snowhitejulie
@Snowhitejulie 4 сағат бұрын
Thanks for sharing. You don't know how many people you have given hope to. I'm a Catholic, but I always listen to you, sir.
@komoAkin
@komoAkin Күн бұрын
The first stage of healing is discovering there is a problem. The pain will hold one captive and can't be explained with word - can really relate. Thank you apostle.
@ChinasaOkoro-l2g
@ChinasaOkoro-l2g 3 сағат бұрын
You're a voice the devil could not silence,woman a of grace thank you for finding the path of Christ which is life of peace and progress.❤
@jdujrjjfjf2313
@jdujrjjfjf2313 Күн бұрын
This exactly my story..and still sticking the face of God for my healing..so God help me 😢
@austinamokogwu3894
@austinamokogwu3894 Күн бұрын
I intentionally came to KZbin to look for this video. The confidence that a person has after being able to successfully come out of of a dark place and face your demons is unmatched, you can feel the emotions as she talks about it. See ehh no matter how bad your situation is , God still performs wonders.
@StephanieOdili-ys6ey
@StephanieOdili-ys6ey 2 күн бұрын
Y'all dysfunctionality is a very serious thing but it's never the end. There are proofs that God still heals.
@helenpius9069
@helenpius9069 Күн бұрын
Your story 😢 is something else I feel heartbroken alot your story is saving someone out here I pray that you heal more than this, and this healing touches me as well,I might not have gone through half of what you been through but I know pain as well God has been here for me Praise God you're doing much better today
@akonobaratuaipre3402
@akonobaratuaipre3402 Күн бұрын
One thing I realized about life, is it that God place some kind of people in dysfunctional life to experience difficulties in their early background to know the basic reality of life and healed them and the same time turns their mess into messages also to courage those who are in similar situations. Like myself also but today I am a leaving testimony to the environment and the society, all these are the hand work of God 🙏
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