Feminine Energy Is Chaos

[@Dru2maBoii]

It's so crazy. Once you finally see the way relationships really are, you can never unsee it. Truly is an unplug from the matrix experience.

[@StuntTriple]

As long as you get your reps in. Repetition is the mother of skill.

[@FelipeEscobar86]

I’m just so grateful it only took one bad relationship to disconnect from the whole dating sim

[@cactusjackhausen8508]

The transition can be brutal

[@Dru2maBoii]

@cactusjackhausen8508 it definitely was. All for the better, tho.

[@planeguy95]

Yep, absolutely. If only we were all taught it from an early age, the world would be a better and less complex and mysterious place. After all, human relationships are the literal fruit of life that determine your happiness probably more than anything else

[@practicaldreamyr]

Corey, I just have to say that all you say here is SO TRUE! I'm a 40+ woman, and looking back on all my previous relationships w/ men this pattern pops up again and again. Whenever I had doubts and/or needed space, the guys who panicked, got insecure and continued to message pushed me right out the door. I felt overwhelmed by them and like I was losing myself in the relationship. Trust me fellas, this guy knows what he's talking about. Focus on your mission, be secure in your masculinity and you will be infinitely more attractive to the women you want to be with.

[@craig8304]

Thank you. It's nice to get confirmation from a woman.

[@sourcecreator2222]

Your perspective is valuable! I agree, Corey wouldn't spend decades of his life doing this if he didn't get some real wisdom out of it.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

As a guy with the same woman for decades- I concur. A woman should be an asset to your life, but you should have the ability to fly solo. I am willing to forgive mistakes and the occasional bad day. The way I relate to people is to be 1) polite, honest, & direct. 2) my words & actions ALIGN. This means I will say 'no,' (point 1) when appropriate. And I have the spine to either stand my ground, or leave when appropriate (point 2). I don't trash others, and I put myself first. People respect strength.

[@jroll5858]

"I was annoyed because you didn''t buy all my drinks on the first date". Even if that was just an excuse that is a huge red flag to me. He ignored it & went to her house with flowers & apologizes

[@yungdynamic471]

Right. It's like if a woman really liked you, she wouldn't give two shits that she paid for some drinks because she's enjoying his company.

[@tendoukiryu6989]

Exactly, as Corey would say “it’s the illusion of action” modern Media and feminists have indoctrinated the masses into thinking we have to “fight” and prostrate ourselves for a woman’s affection. Never again.

[@youwilllaugh3136]

Yep it was a mistake right there. If I was him I would treat her like a kid

[@theautodidacted]

Yeah. Why would he ever overlook that?! Crazy.

[@theditto69]

I’m back after 6 years from listening to you and applying your 3% framework. Life is so much better and makes so much more sense. Just need some reminders is all. Shit works guys.

[@CoachSteveJandS]

Widowed at 40 , I'm sorry to hear that...

[@chrisfreund1524]

“Like every other goofball that’s seen too many movies” hahaha that cracked me up but it’s true. Yes those movies and TV shows have completely twisted our society. I’ve never sent a girl flowers like that but I’ve had the same kind of mindset before so I admit I was one of them

[@mister-zen8491]

As Atlas carries the world on his shoulders, so too do we men!

[@planeguy95]

Corey has done many great videos, but this somehow is one of his most brilliant summaries of the philosophy he teaches. If anyone ever wanted my advice on relationships and women, I think I may just send them this video

[@malonjehhutsonhachuma8420]

AMS talks highly of you Coach. I now see why. Your advice is so on point. Much love from Lusaka,Zambia. Africa is watching.

[@youwilllaugh3136]

Care to give me the title of that video cuz I am a fan of ams

[@fredflinstone9774]

When a woman tells you whats wrong in plain english is over! Even if you change or fix the problem she is gone.

[@joechard8783]

Thank you Corey for making this video after emailing you. I appreciate it. I needed to hear that. Things are going alot better and as I write this message I am in Madrid (spain) visiting friends with my kids and she called me saying she misses me and can't wait until I get home tomorrow. Take care.

[@jl4260]

We just don't like men who are needy and clingy it's that simple. Just be yourself, and if 'yourself' is the smothering type, be 50% of yourself.

[@ballen0360]

This woman is not interested. Guy needs to stop wasting his time. This is desperation

[@JohnSmith-ij4xe]

This is so true and women that are really into you will be blunt and tell you what and what not to do so they don’t lose attraction. Most guys don’t listen to a woman and don’t back off so then they lose the woman because they care too much what they think. Women like it much better when you treat them normal even if they act like they hate it. I have the gift on reading people very well so once I know a woman I know what’s happening in her life without even asking her. This is a blessing but I also have learned to not tell them I know as it freaks people out. I have learned to be more of a listener and just say a few words then as she warms up and gets more into talk more but make sure she’s still talking more. Also don’t care what they think of you as they will like you or they won’t.

[@MrJabbothehut]

Not trying to be a mssive nerd here but when you look at it from an evolutionary standpoint, what Corey says makes sense. The reason men and women get together is to have kids (biologically speaking). Women need to carry the child and are in an extremely vulnerable position whilst doing so. The man's job is to use the skills, that nature has provided him with, to create a safe and consistent environment where the woman will be happy to give birth and raise children. This is why women tend to be more sensitive to negative energy and to be all over the place and emotion based. It's nature's way of keeping them safe. If a man can keep his centre because he is sure of himself and his ability to protect and care for the woman, then her hissy fits and fears should be irrelevant and will eventually fade if he shows that he is capable. Playing along with women's emotions will suck you down the rabbit hole of never ending problems.

[@AvocadoBee]

"If you can't figure it out, figure it out!" -Coach What a troll. That made me laugh!

[@rashunr1]

Coach I've been waiting on you to bring this up this is a new social topic created by social media

[@treefrog1962]

Keep up the great work Corey, we're all ears here in Ireland!

[@anthonyjacksonjr4812]

Much needed advice, Coach.

[@domenicoscarangella5375]

I have a hard time working out while listening to you brother because your sense of humour is so good 😂

[@patriciaquintanilla1329]

All men all ages need to read this book! As a woman 53 met a man 57 had two dates and had a great connection and I liked him. It's only been a week and he is smothering me! Good morning good night texts, calls me right after work, calls me sweety and darling and mentioned if we "lived together" he would make me dinner. I've already told him he's moving to fast too much too soon. I'm so overwhelmed and have lost attraction for him. He doesn't seem to get it and back off...to the point that I'm already done with him. One week! Corey is on point how do men not know NOT to do this it kills all attraction. We need time and space to process our feelings and emotions take time to assess if he's someone we want to get to know better. He's not giving me any space to do that. Over pursuing being needy and pushy is such a turn off and so unattractive 😢

[@gopaulsalick507]

Thanks for always putting things into perspective for us Coach Corey

[@scrolltestimonial]

Great material as always. Ty.

[@Mauler35]

Wise words as always but he def roasted the shit out of this guy 😂 literally had me dying laughing

[@ClassicShortChronicles]

Follow The Rules In The Book Dude it’s So Much Better When You Do

[@Ahey333]

Am chaos, can confirm. 🐈‍⬛

[@craigr1966]

If your love interest doesn't text back for the love of Pete don't text her again...

[@evanhiggins7298]

I'm halfway through the video with "her interest dropped". Corey is right 100%. I went on a date Sunday where it's reasoning, but her interest really dropped. Since it was over and when I was messaging her later her "reasoning and logic" were flawed. It can be frustrating dating with knowing more. Just makes it easier for you even if it takes longer.

[@kylesomerton3236]

Women have so many options. They need space to grow in their feelings and emotions. They are so use to men over pursuing. It's so similar to being a typical salesperson coming across as salesy, you just turn off the prospect from buying and they go into fight/flight mode. Women are the same.

[@Justbeloving]

I always ask this question to myself whenever my wife Pisces me off. what will Coach Corey do in this situation. I try to find a way to calm the situation from escalating. They are like weather, unpredictable. Thank you, coach, for all you do.

[@OLDPEDOJOE]

Going through this right now, chick was hot and heavy for me, always initiating affection, couldn't go more than 1-2 days without texting me, all over me, etc. I would spend the weekends with her, doing fun things like going to eat, the movies, beach, you get he point. This has been very consistent for about 4 months, yesterday I was supposed to see her for the weekend and we talked and I told her I'm just getting packed, I'll be on my way shortly and asked if she wanted me to pick her up some food on the way. I get a text about 5 minutes later saying: "Don't come, I'm just going to go to work instead." She has never done this before, it really destroyed me emotionally, but we probably have been spending too much time together and she feels smothered, so I'll just back away. I'll update if things turn around.

[@bikefax8177]

Strange. Some other guy might be in the picture

[@OLDPEDOJOE]

@@bikefax8177 Could be, if she jumps to another guy when her interest goes low, then she deserves the heartbreak when I walk the fuck away for good. ✌🏻

[@youwilllaugh3136]

Please let us know

[@OLDPEDOJOE]

@@RarelyCheck Thanks, this is pretty much exactly what happened, we aren't exclusive but we were treating each other like we were and we got into a fight about it; I looked very weak and she knew she could have me. We've also been pretty much inseparable since we started seeing each other, I go over and spend the weekend with her, so I'm sure she just needs space. If there's another man, well good luck to them both, she's not a high quality woman, she's just fun to be with.

[@Rose_19911]

@@OLDPEDOJOEfair play anyway man, you seem strong willed & a high level man

[@Tach_H]

This is spot on what I'm like. A cat 💯% 😂

[@BeastMode-oz8qc]

Good thing us men like cats.. of a specific kind 😂

[@Tach_H]

@@BeastMode-oz8qc ahahaa 😂 honestly most of what Corey was staying about how women behave - I can fully relate! Although I personally don't like to message/call daily as I like to catch up and have loads to talk about when we meet up! And can live my life in the meantime haha.

[@BeastMode-oz8qc]

@Tach_H I am the exact same, I'd rather get to know a girl in person on a date, instead of knowing all there is to know about a person on the phone. I'd also rather have a date asap as it is a much better way to gage a person, and if it doesn't work out, then you've saved much more time than pointlessly texting on the phone. Flake rates would also be decreased as texting too much definitely lowers attraction.

[@Tach_H]

@@BeastMode-oz8qc couldn't agree more! Yup exactly how I see it! Get off your devices and spend time with people in real life. You learn and get to know people so much better that way!

[@BeastMode-oz8qc]

@Tach_H my type of woman haha if KZbin was a dating site, I'd set something up. I am going to the mall today and hitting up some women in person to see if I can set up an insta date, this is especially scary for me since I have social anxiety.. BTW do you mind guys approaching you? What's your take on that

[@coldbeing5420]

My girlfriend has bipolar and gets into different states. Whenever she's depressed, she will flake but she reassures me that she will make it up to me and she does. However, these past couple weeks, she's been very distant. We had a pregnancy scare and she was freaking out about it and I reassured her that I'll stick around if it happens. She is happy and tells me I'm very supportive. We hung out 2 weeks ago, did a haunted house, she met my aunts/uncles at a party, treated me to arcade, she took me out for sushi, etc. Very fun weekend. The next day, she said she'll cook me dinner at her place. I text her what time she wants me over and she says nothing. After 3 days, I asked if things are good and she said they're great! I said let's facetime and she doesn't reply. 4 days later, she updates me that her period came a few days late but she's not pregnant. I told her that's great, etc. and sent her a meme of our fun weekend and no reply. So after 3 days, I dropped off flowers on her doormat and told her that I can tell something's different but I'm here for her, etc. She replies thanking me and that they're beautiful and her favorite. I told her to let me know when she wants to hangout (because I'm not chasing no more) and changed the topic to see if she bites on it. And nothing. I'm not going to reach out, but I just don't know if this is bipolar or just a lack of interest. I did all I could and am ready to just be done. I'm just confused, she implied moving in w/ me in the future during that weekend and now she doesn't want to talk to me? I try to be understanding and give her space, her other ex's would freak out on her over small things so maybe she needs drama if things are too perfect?

[@fergalbad]

Correct.... women need drama in their lives. If you don't build on that tension and create some, she will. Trust me you don't want that.

[@coldbeing5420]

@@fergalbad So you're saying, once she has enough space and I'm not reaching out or giving her attention, she's going to come back around?

[@fergalbad]

@@coldbeing5420 Not necessarily... she may or she may not. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter. You should be focusing on your goals and what makes you happy. Also take into account the fact you were monogamous with her before reduces the chance of her coming back but this does not mean it is set and stone.

[@kyleatherton88]

Mate how old are you? I spent 12 years off my life with a woman with bi polar, who also came with a lot of past baggage from a previous failed but long term marriage, i was very young and getting good 😺 🤣, we didnt have all the info we do these days readily available back then and i also didnt grow up with my father in my life until my late 20s so obvs that played a huge impact on me, i learned the hard way! Having said that i do have a beautiful daughter with her also, but i wont bs you it was seriously hard work i aint gonna lie. When it was great it was great but when it wasnt fuck me it was ww3.

[@coldbeing5420]

​@@kyleatherton88 Late 20s. Was she super interested and then the next day flip the switch and ignoring you? We've never argued. This has been going on for 2 weeks. We had a pregnancy scare (kinda similar to what triggered her bipolar. She has had it for 2 years) and I reassured her I would be around, so after that weekend, she ignored me and then a week later reached out to me that she had her period and I responded to her and then she went back to ignoring me. That's when I gave her the flowers. I read that they can detach from their SO and cut contact, did yours ever do that to you?

[@flower_7890]

I felt smothered listening to this😅

[@DavidW-ux2gc]

I am 30 and never asked a girl out in my life.

[@baconcraving3259]

Try asking a guy out

[@Rcknrll666]

@@baconcraving3259lmao

[@BeastMode-oz8qc]

This is so sad mate, I was basically 25.. but I know I could've had plenty of fun times with woman 10 years prior due to all the signs woman have shown me over the years, i just never had the cahones to approach. That's the only way you'd get into a relationship man. Start cold approaching and reach out to guys with similar goals, like myself.

[@DavidW-ux2gc]

Women only want perfect men.@@BeastMode-oz8qc

[@indoalivio9239]

It’ll get better my guy

[@Openheimer49]

It's not worthy. It's funny that maybe the best way to go about women is to be relaxed and hook up with as much as you can. Women do that all the time so...

[@dillonbentley3832]

Congrats on 500k subs Corey

[@araydog]

This is soooooooo true

[@mike.pittsburgh3466]

I just finished my eighth reading. I had slowed down because I was going through the Google look up recommendations, and listening to some of your other coaching sessions. What are your thoughts on pursuing a long-distance relationship? why is there so much focus on initiating an intimate relationship? One of your coaching sessions talked about dating 15 times. I’m in my 50s and I’ve never dated 15 times, and haven’t dated anyone in the last 25 years.

[@fredflinstone9774]

If you have the girl you dont need to text anymore. Phone or personal.

[@Awesam3rd]

Coach we witness it all our lives I don't know how we have to keep being taught some men just don't get it????

[@caesarprice3252]

It not even worth it. Why can't adults act like adults? I feel we giving women an excuse for bad behavior because their women.

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

Well, you don't have to be with a woman.

[@Truf-teller]

Go date men then 😂

[@caesarprice3252]

​​​​@@Truf-tellerwhat if a man was for no reason in a bad mood and left his family because "he doesn't feel like being a father?" Is that justified? If not, why are women allowed to go by how they feel?

[@Malitubee]

@@Truf-teller Such dumb logic .

[@zoraster3749]

It can be worth it. If you vet properly and understand this work you can minimize the BS and strife and just accept it for what it is.

[@aspe434]

Interesting that the woman actually came out and told this guy what he was doing wrong, that usually doesn't happen. Also, I have my doubts that this woman is in love with him, I think she said that to bread-crumb him to keep him around for some other reason; her actions aren't those of a woman in love.

[@earthpart3]

like every other goofball that's seen too many movies lol women being like cats is true, f those people who want to complain about the animal/woman comparison. those people are just looking for something to whine about.

[@ruelfunelas9389]

Great reminder! Awesome vid coach, thanks!!

[@cowboy_bob7474]

Even if the IR and NIR light doesn't boost your T like advertised, sunning your balls still feels pretty great.

[@Bigpeeshy]

Damn, Coach actually said his name instead of Bob

[@lionthepretzel]

Besides Corey's book, I would also recommend the books he mentions in his book like Dale Carnegie's "How to win friends and influence people". Also another good book is Atomic Attraction. Just highlights everything Corey explains about relationships etc. Also, Corey WAYNE like Bruce Wayne aka Batman? Batman would be another great example for being a man with a purpose! haha. Thank you Corey for all your work! It immensely improved my life and relationships

[@DStewart521]

Five finger Rose never gives me trouble. She serves me cold beer, nice steaks, and doesn't say a word about my growing belly. Man, I love Rose.

[@jeromebranchetti6002]

Am one of those guys 😂

[@fruitloops3718]

Omg his 13 year old needs a baby sitter? I think he's socially incoherent. No wonder he doesn't know how to behave in a relationship.

[@joechard8783]

That was a mistake in my email her eldest is 13 years old. My kids are 11 and 6 years old 😊

[@johnmooney4983]

Bad choice going on group dates. Her friend s maybe. Sandbags you

[@ChrisRy]

Complete Chaos, & not worth it