Femme Q & A

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Cammie Scott

Cammie Scott

Күн бұрын

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@1995to2013
@1995to2013 7 жыл бұрын
it's especially hard to date as a fem lesbian who's only attracted to other fems :')
@HaraBoss
@HaraBoss 5 жыл бұрын
As a straight guy, I think that makes sense the most...
@thestarsandback4472
@thestarsandback4472 4 жыл бұрын
i relate to that 😔
@familychannel6160
@familychannel6160 4 жыл бұрын
yup.
@Tara........
@Tara........ 4 жыл бұрын
That describes me perfectly. I have friends who are, for want of a better word butch lesbians but I'm just not attracted to them.
@sydneybrooks6038
@sydneybrooks6038 4 жыл бұрын
Same here girl
@valoriharris1682
@valoriharris1682 7 жыл бұрын
So much Gay content from everyone lately. This pride month is such a *win*
@candydeca8
@candydeca8 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie is the prettiest femme I know. I feel like she is the main representative of the overall femme community on KZbin cus she does beauty and makeup videos and at the sane time she stands up for her beliefs regarding our femme struggles in LGBTQ+
@OKshesagail
@OKshesagail 7 жыл бұрын
ilo-ilo girl Ingrid
@1973InternationalKid
@1973InternationalKid 7 жыл бұрын
Jessica Kellgren-Hayes!
@franzi8678
@franzi8678 7 жыл бұрын
If asked who's the man in the relationship just say: When you're eating with chopsticks which one do you use as the fork?
@hannahbaron9354
@hannahbaron9354 7 жыл бұрын
Franzi hahahahaha you're my hero.
@Carriehammer718
@Carriehammer718 7 жыл бұрын
Franzi lpl yess
@nikkikiryubatman96
@nikkikiryubatman96 7 жыл бұрын
Lol my thought exactly
@JoeBloggs-lu9ss
@JoeBloggs-lu9ss 7 жыл бұрын
Someone can expland it for me pls I don't get it :(
@nikkikiryubatman96
@nikkikiryubatman96 7 жыл бұрын
nguyen linh when someone asks two girl or two guys that are dating who's the girl and who's the guy, they are basically asking two chopsticks which one is the fork. If it's two girls or guys then there's obviously not a guy and a girl.
@sarahxx4347
@sarahxx4347 7 жыл бұрын
omg I'm crylaughing. 'like gurl. that's the whole point of being gay. If there was a man in the relationship I wouldn't wanna be in it.' 😂 this is so on point. Ily😂♥️ I really need to remember this😂😂
@psychokinesiz
@psychokinesiz 7 жыл бұрын
I think they mean who plays the "dominant" role but their ignorant ass associates it with being a "man"
@Recordificatify
@Recordificatify 7 жыл бұрын
Well if you mean by "dominant"...dressing like a stereotypical male, acting and talking like one, having the "stud" hair and being anti- anything feminine...its not ignorant to be associated with a male when you fucking act and dress and talk like one and call everyone "brah."
@ZZ-wc4ql
@ZZ-wc4ql 7 жыл бұрын
Comfortably Numb doesn't matter, they're still a woman at the end of the day and calling them a " man " can be offensive
@unusunus4613
@unusunus4613 5 жыл бұрын
@@Recordificatify Thinking its not ignorant to call a woman a man just because they're masculine... That's definitely ignorant. Someone is still a woman even if they look and act masculine, their sense of identity isn't taken away from what you perceive as male.
@Igboman87
@Igboman87 4 жыл бұрын
@@unusunus4613There's a difference between calling a woman a man while being fully aware she's a woman, and one pointing out the hypocrisy of gender identification.
@melissajackson8686
@melissajackson8686 5 жыл бұрын
Being a femme that’s attracted to other femmes is so hard 😭
@lenilink7292
@lenilink7292 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@carolinespence15
@carolinespence15 4 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it. My life story
@jules4349
@jules4349 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr?
@萱萱-d4z
@萱萱-d4z 4 жыл бұрын
the femme girls I loved mostly love butch les😭😂
@sarahhawkinson
@sarahhawkinson 7 жыл бұрын
I identify as heterosexual but GIRL I'm loving all these videos. I related so hardcore on the "there is no male role in any relationship" idea because as a true feminist, everyone is and should be equal no matter the gender!
@gretep
@gretep 6 жыл бұрын
Sarah Hawkinson my god, I love your videos
@felisaa4590
@felisaa4590 7 жыл бұрын
ok i'm listening to you but I'm distracted by how your skin is like flawless
@lollipop3336
@lollipop3336 7 жыл бұрын
Ikr. Like wtf goals
@iridescent9501
@iridescent9501 7 жыл бұрын
She is down to earth and she handles things so good, I love it
@rosaagersnapbone1313
@rosaagersnapbone1313 7 жыл бұрын
Iridescent yes, couldn't agree more
@CammieScott
@CammieScott 7 жыл бұрын
what an amazing compliment thank you so much wow
@lilygreen221
@lilygreen221 7 жыл бұрын
Iridescent Is this the tower agbar from barcelona?
@sisseljuliana
@sisseljuliana 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a straight girl in love with my beautiful boyfriend, but I love bindge watching lesbian youtubers and educating myself on the lgbtq+ community. Everyone is so intelligent in their way of speaking, and also SO funny. I love it
@sydneybrooks6038
@sydneybrooks6038 4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@MissDaisyUeda
@MissDaisyUeda 4 жыл бұрын
I'm straight but I find this kinda video so interesting
@CammieScott
@CammieScott 7 жыл бұрын
Don't forget to join me for my live chat after this! Link in description box☺️
@Lop05051
@Lop05051 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie Scott everything you want my idol 😗😗😗
@SONE0515
@SONE0515 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie Scott ❤️
@Philipa0
@Philipa0 7 жыл бұрын
Wish you did your live chats on a platform available on Android too :(
@andreea1122able
@andreea1122able 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie Scott the app is not avaliable on android... 😕
@aleuriarteb
@aleuriarteb 7 жыл бұрын
App is not available in my country :/
@mariaderas9305
@mariaderas9305 7 жыл бұрын
Q: who is the man in the relationship? "There is no "man" in the relationship, if it was, I wouldn't be in it, that's the whole poin't of being in a gay-relationship"...... --Definately my favorite answer from this q&a. And so true!😅
@ebonyassassin
@ebonyassassin 7 жыл бұрын
I always say "Yeah, my ex girlfriend..." casually in conversation lol!
@berlinwall6674
@berlinwall6674 6 жыл бұрын
You're hot
@caylayoung5736
@caylayoung5736 4 жыл бұрын
That doesn’t phase most straight men their so tenacious
@sss40719
@sss40719 3 жыл бұрын
yeah my ex's guy friend used to hit on her A LOT even tho he knew she was in a relationship with a girl (me) because she's bi so he "atleast had a chance" like... he just couldn't respect her boundaries it pissed me off sm
@Someinternetuser
@Someinternetuser 3 жыл бұрын
ME TOO LMAO
@sadgirlhours222
@sadgirlhours222 7 жыл бұрын
2 videos by cammie in 2 consecutive days wow I'm loving my life!!😍
@ReinaJane
@ReinaJane 7 жыл бұрын
So this is kind of ridiculous, but sometimes I feel like I'm a femme just because I want to "normalize" what being gay looks like to my straight community. Like, I want to change their idea of what a gay person looks or acts like. I mean I like wearing dresses and makeup as much as the next kid, but sometimes I question my motivations....
@Sunflowers9191
@Sunflowers9191 7 жыл бұрын
Reina Jane Wow this is something I could have written.. I enjoy being feminine as well but sometimes I "femme" it up just because I don't want to look gay?
@doobeydoodahzzz265
@doobeydoodahzzz265 7 жыл бұрын
omfg someone said it!
@rosibruder
@rosibruder 7 жыл бұрын
Reina Jane omg this is so relatable to me!!
@sneekz07
@sneekz07 7 жыл бұрын
It feels like you are saying there is something wrong with being butch or 'looking gay'. Just dress however you are comfortable and let that be that. Pandering to straight people won't make you happy.
@ReinaJane
@ReinaJane 7 жыл бұрын
Elle Keener hey man, I prefaced with acknowledging that it was ridiculous 🤷🏻‍♀️ I can't help how I feel
@ilaria911
@ilaria911 7 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love these Femme videos.I am still trying to understand myself better and you're helping me a lot. Love you Cammie💙
@emjeirawks
@emjeirawks 7 жыл бұрын
"who's the "man" in the relationship?" -- omg, thisss i feel ya cam
@xPLLxTVDx
@xPLLxTVDx 7 жыл бұрын
I'm having a really hard time accepting the fact that I am bi.. but watching these kind of videos are really helping me to get more comfortable with myself.. soo thank you Cammie :) much love from Germany
@annagrabenhorst314
@annagrabenhorst314 7 жыл бұрын
xTheRealMex96 still, i don't feel comfortable answering that question. It comes with time and small achievements. You got this! :)
@now_andthen_
@now_andthen_ 7 жыл бұрын
*isn't a femme lesbian * *still watches because lesbianism *
@charlize841
@charlize841 7 жыл бұрын
This would be so much clearer if you used subjects for your sentences.
@ZLink0692
@ZLink0692 7 жыл бұрын
lol I know I'm bisexual not even lesbian but I'm still watching
@ryanakesson4338
@ryanakesson4338 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a gay man watching this.. Idk how I got here
@lilyasbury6949
@lilyasbury6949 7 жыл бұрын
Luciana Magalí same😂 I'm a stem but I'm still here bc lesbians. 😂
@indigoberrypie
@indigoberrypie 5 жыл бұрын
@@ZLink0692 Same
@PrinCezZ1998
@PrinCezZ1998 7 жыл бұрын
I don't even know femme lesbians exists so I wanna thank you for this because I'm learning and understanding more about how I am. I used to think maybe I was confused because I look like a girl not like a boy, because all the people was like "mmm no you're a girl, you don't look like boy" and I was so confused with myself so thank you, srsly thank you.
@emilysteinberg6524
@emilysteinberg6524 7 жыл бұрын
"or just casually throwing in there 'oh hi I'm gay'" lol. love you cam. also makeup on fleeeek.
@lexirey430
@lexirey430 7 жыл бұрын
"Force yourself to show the rest of the community that we're here-" Me: AND WE'RE QUEER
@underbakedfruitcake3941
@underbakedfruitcake3941 7 жыл бұрын
my thoughts exactly xD
@The-Bee-Hive
@The-Bee-Hive 6 жыл бұрын
I LITERALLY CAME OUT A FEW DAYS AGO BY SAYING "IM HERE IM QUEER ANd girls are cute.."
@Hello2omegator
@Hello2omegator 7 жыл бұрын
girl, get a hold on your phone 😅 RIP cammie's phone
@CammieScott
@CammieScott 7 жыл бұрын
🤦🏼‍♀️
@mercysegen9453
@mercysegen9453 6 жыл бұрын
4:10 Yessss! My mom was saying to me "how is your relationship even going to work when you get married to another woman? You are going to have to find a more masculine woman since you are feminine! Because if you are both feminine, then who is going to do things like mow the lawn or repair things around the house?". Just... what
@miranda6986
@miranda6986 7 жыл бұрын
you are literally such an insperation to me... you are the person who literally helped me discover my sexuality, i always had the trouble with dating boys and then avoiding them and then i was always like i really like this girl i must want to be her friend, but i started watchig your old videos about 3 years ago and i realized i actually liked girls.. i also used to look very feminine and then i actually changed how i looked and started dressing more masculine bc i thought that was what i had to do to be accepted as gay, i'm finally starting to really understand who I am and i want to thank you for taking the time to upload videos💖
@anahidiazs
@anahidiazs 7 жыл бұрын
3:05 this question is so important, i feel glad that now we have people like you who represent us and make us feel safe and normal. you are amazing💖
@okayokay6963
@okayokay6963 7 жыл бұрын
just discovered you. gunna binge watch all your vids now lmao. I like that you make it clear that gay couples can be as innocent as straight couples. there doesn't need to be a hyper sexual thing around it.
@---so7bq
@---so7bq 7 жыл бұрын
i like it when cammie talk too much about lgbt cause i like it when she talk i love her voice and when she talk about lgbt it make it more better😍😍😍
@94fantastico
@94fantastico 7 жыл бұрын
is your phone a femme lesbian? it seems to get a lot of rough treatment too :) (loved the vid Cam!!)
@jourdanblancett7137
@jourdanblancett7137 7 жыл бұрын
Omg literally I can't even count how many times saying I'm gay... to a guys at bars And then he and everyone else says. 'Bet I can change in that one night'. Like ew barf no.
@patriciaxgomez
@patriciaxgomez 7 жыл бұрын
I hate the question "who is the "man" in the relationship?" too, I think it's so ridiculous 😪
@Bailey_-rw4ti
@Bailey_-rw4ti 7 жыл бұрын
Patricia Gómez yeah for real, I hate it.
@NeedlessPower
@NeedlessPower 7 жыл бұрын
OMG Thank you so much for using my question ♥ I have struggled with the whole "having to look gay" Thing ever since i started to question my Sexuality. I have always been more the Tomboyish Type of Girl for the simple fact that i never liked wearing dresses or heels or any of that. I always wanted to look like the other Girls but i also was Body Shamed a lot in School so i would simply just never wear "girly" things. And where i live Lesbians would either be portrayed as Hardcore Butch ( like OITNB Boo Butch ) or as Porn Actresses and i didn't like as either. When i knew i was gay i was kinda really relieved because i didn't had to worry about that anymore because i could just look like a Tomboy and actually have a reason for it. But especially when i was online shopping and i would see nice dresses i always thought " oh if i wasnt a Tomboy i would try this" and it made me really sad because i knew that there was a Femme Side in me and i just never dared to really explore that because of this stigma of Lesbians having to look a certain way. I'm soon turning 20 and only now in these past few weeks i decided to explore myself in sense of fashion more and i'm actually sitting here in a dress and feeling comfortable with the way i look . I realised that i can be both. I won't start only wearing dresses and nobody could ever put me in heels but i like the way i'm becoming more myself everyday and actually being much more certain with my Sexuality than i ever have.
@okkmelissaa9153
@okkmelissaa9153 7 жыл бұрын
this sounds like me so much!! I have days where I'm a tomboy in a tshirt and days where I look super girly in a dress. it took me so long to grow guts to wear more girly stuff though, because I didn't feel "gay enough" if I did for the longest time. the struggle is real
@NeedlessPower
@NeedlessPower 7 жыл бұрын
melissaax Glad to hear I'm not the only One !! I'm coming to a point right now where i just don't really care anymore what People might think. If i'm visbly gay or not lol. I don't need anyones approval to be myself and feel like myself. Cheers to the Tomboy Femmes :)
@okkmelissaa9153
@okkmelissaa9153 7 жыл бұрын
moodynat saaame! if I wanna wear a dress I will. and have been a lot lately. haha i've kinda lost the mindset of needing to prove my gayness to people. it took a long time to be like "I can look girly and be gay at the same time" idk
@juliakeiran64
@juliakeiran64 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Cammie, Thanks for getting us more representation "on screen". You ARE making a huge difference on people's lives, I'm sure you are on mine. Although I'm a bit older than you, and coming from a very religious family in a small town from SouthAmerica it really took me too much time to acknowledge and embrace who I really am. But this also gave me the opportunity to thrive in other aspects. Because I went on undetected, under the radar, so I never suffered discrimination or whatsoever in my teen or college years, nor at work... So being a femme really helped a lot in the beginning WHEN I WAS STILL SO CLOSETED. It was almost like "denial-feminism". But after I came out, by that time, I had also embraced the fact that sometimes I do like to do goofy-boyish stuff or I even boyish up my looks at times wearing a hat or a woman suit, and I feel totally comfortable with it. When I'm not wearing a dress, I can be wearing shorts and a cap and It feels so good to allow myself just to be. But now, sometimes I do get the "eyebrow-look", and many other ways of discrimination even at my job. I still don't care what they might think, I just do my job, wait and let them get to know me better, and eventually it always work out fine. So, I haven't completely got rid of the high heels, but I just wear them because of a certain "image" I need to project at work meetings, but I still feel like a Femme Lesbian and I love being one... also just to prove so many people wrong.
@jessiebogoni5438
@jessiebogoni5438 7 жыл бұрын
i swear, i dont know how it is possible to someone be so fucking pretty
@starlight1228
@starlight1228 7 жыл бұрын
Girl there is just something mesmerizing about your voice
@Emmiieful
@Emmiieful 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! What you said about feeling like you had to change how you looked to fit the stereotype. I went through that. It was so confusing and confronting...but eventually, much like you, I learned that I could be into girls and femme. But how you said it was EXACTLY how I felt.
@fumbled44
@fumbled44 7 жыл бұрын
watching this kind of vids gives me so much hope and just reassurance. I'm bi (although I'm more into girls) and I come from a country where being anything-but-straight is still perceived as a taboo or just something that blows people's minds. Even though, I couldn't really care less what others think of me, my issue with being out and just hitting on girls is with the fact that whenever I do that, other people get crazy and treat me like they were in a zoo and I was some kind of exotic animal they've never seen. And I hate being in the centre of attention. Ghhhhhhhhhhhrrrrrrrrrrr. It's so frustrating!!
@kaeruuup
@kaeruuup 7 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love this series Cam!! As the only gay girl in my friend group, it's so nice knowing people relate to things I normally feel very alone with. I would love to see this topic revisited😊
@ic7118
@ic7118 7 жыл бұрын
Subtle hints: Oh hey, i'm gay. 😂 Best role model ever haha 👑💕
@amyle1408
@amyle1408 7 жыл бұрын
Cam, I appreciate how down to earth you are about everything. It's people like you who make me feel more comfortable about sexuality.
@justpaigem
@justpaigem 7 жыл бұрын
Love that you went off on the question I asked 😂 even my "friends" that say they 100% support anything LGBT ask this & ask me if I think I'd be the "man or woman" in a relationship & it's so annoying to have to explain something that should be so simple! I'll forever just link them this video now 😜😂
@alexl4085
@alexl4085 7 жыл бұрын
So my day is complete as Cammie not only put out 2 videos in 2 days but also letting me relate in the struggles of being femme 🙌
@sophiamatus2962
@sophiamatus2962 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Cammie! Watching your videos has played a huge role in my life. I've accepted myself and came out to a handful of friends and my family. Thank you so much for sharing your stories! You inspire me & ily
@aleuriarteb
@aleuriarteb 7 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna tell my story. So I was in a night club in Peru (im from there) with my girlfriend dancing, it was obvious that she was my girlfriend and this guy comes and tells me if I wanna dance and I said no. So he went back to his group and starts screaming saying that "he's better" and showing me his muscles so angry and I'm like....??? So we went some other place. It's terrible :(
@marissacosaert5682
@marissacosaert5682 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie! Thanks for representin for us Femme ladies! All this resignates so much. Thankfull for role model in the media like you.
@jparrish6751
@jparrish6751 7 жыл бұрын
cammie the content you've been making has been great! please don't stop with this kind of content.
@Kayla-ze4ix
@Kayla-ze4ix 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie and Rosie, the Femme Lesbian queens.
@bensonrosenstein3521
@bensonrosenstein3521 7 жыл бұрын
omg YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this video covered all the things that bug me.whenever anyone asks me 'who's the man?' i go: 'i don't understand the question...? we're lesbians....what are you talking about?' it usually shuts them up. or another good one is ' who's the man is *your* relationship?' so stupid *rolls eyes* i love that you brought up the appearance thing because when i was first coming out i thought i had to look a certain way too. i'm super femme but i do have a butch-ish hair cut, yet i wear dresses and colorful makeup...so fuck the stereotypes....you do you. whatever look that is....just be *you*.
@alyy2tonee
@alyy2tonee 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie I love hearing you speak I would love to see more sit down videos touching on the topic of lesbians and your own personal experiences
@kathleenpage8703
@kathleenpage8703 7 жыл бұрын
I am so happy I found you. For years I thought well I have to be bi because I like "girly things" and lesbians don't like that kind of stuff. And I did very similar things that you spoke about in this video. It took me time to realize that just because I like those things it doesn't make me any less gay. It just makes me, me. I love to see people that I can relate to and I'm so happy that I found you and I've been binge watching your videos!
@kelsey_roddyy
@kelsey_roddyy 7 жыл бұрын
I just watched your video about being gay as a teenager and you mentioned not having anyone in the public eye that you felt you 100% saw yourself in. I'm here to tell you that you, Cammie, are that person for me. I related with everything you said. Feelings coming about in middle school, making up excuses saying "I'm straight but you're the exception" so thank you so so much for being who you are. I am still going through my personal journey, and although some days I feel like I have no idea what's going on, I know that I'm going to find my way. Thank you a million times again. I hope to meet you one day because you are an extraordinary individual.I wish I could know if you ever read this, or ever see it but I hope it makes your day, you certainly make mine.
@elizabeth_loves_music
@elizabeth_loves_music 7 жыл бұрын
Love your content, from one femme lesbian to another! 🌸
@joeyl2453
@joeyl2453 7 жыл бұрын
Honestly this was amazing from personal experience of being a femme lesbian it actually made me feel more comfortable with myself.
@jennrodrigu
@jennrodrigu 7 жыл бұрын
.... I'm a girl who likes to dress girly sometimes but also loves wearing a lot of stylish workout gear... some days I like to dress super girly and pretty while other days I like to be more of a tomboy... but the part I'm most confused about is that I'm sexually attracted to men but not so much romantically because I know how it ends (you're never on the same page with them, and they're never ready for what you're ready for).... My first love was a girl even though I've never been intimate with a woman at all... but honestly when I'm with men I feel like I do it more for show, like I like it when people comment and call us a cute couple etc, like I like making people jealous... but when I'm attracted to a woman and into a woman, I don't care what other people say, it's almost like no one else matters... I think I'm gay...
@stuff1784
@stuff1784 7 жыл бұрын
I love how real you've been with your videos lately.
@maybesilent5605
@maybesilent5605 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie you are loved 💕💕💕 And it's pretty obvious you keep growing every day, and you really seem to be at your best!! 🌸 Now, about the video, you spoke the truth out loud. I'm a very happy bi girl, wearing completely girly outfits - 90% dresses and floral patterns! - and that apparently means for some people that " I'm just experimenting " ...well, I actually think that flowers can be as gay or bi or everything as they want! 🌺 🌼 🌻 🌹 🌸
@selfdeprecatingsushi4234
@selfdeprecatingsushi4234 7 жыл бұрын
I just started watching your videos and I am in love with you channel. You are so open and honest, and smart and funny and you just seem like such a lovely person! I can't believe I haven't found your channel sooner! As a 15 year old lesbian/ questioning girl, having these sorts of videos to watch is extremely beneficial and useful to me! Thank you so much! I SO look forward to continuing to binge with every single one of your videos lmao
@Sophiasebok
@Sophiasebok 7 жыл бұрын
You're so gorgeous pleeease keep up with the amazing content ❤ i love it sooo much that there's such a beautiful girl doing beauty vids and stuff AND she stands up for the gay community as well!!!
@alexevans3054
@alexevans3054 7 жыл бұрын
I love these femme videos so much!! So many things about myself that can get me worked up you talk through and explain and I understand myself better. Big love cammie 💗💗
@annagrabenhorst314
@annagrabenhorst314 7 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. Your channel is not overflowed with lqbtq stuff, its just you and i like that. Showing the real point of acceptance, that everyone has his own life and is not just defined by sexuality, so go and like or love people for who they are! :) Greetings from cologne!
@Fluffy-to8ns
@Fluffy-to8ns 7 жыл бұрын
It was really interesting to me to watch these two videos. I don't really think of myself as femme, but just as a lesbian. But I know other people see me as femme and I can totally relate to what you are saying. For years I thought I could not be a lesbian because I was too feminine. When I was a teenager youtube did not exist, so I had no one to look up to. So good to see how things change.
@julko181
@julko181 7 жыл бұрын
THANK GOD 2 VIDEOS IN 24H I LOVE YOU CAMMIE
@theeclecticanimist4415
@theeclecticanimist4415 6 жыл бұрын
speaking as a very fem woman who, for the most part, has always been very bi, I have to tell a story after these videos hehe I've watched a few of yours now Cammie... and also have to say thank you!! But.. to my story.... :) I was in a local bar and noticed a very unassuming woman (buzz cut, flannel, black jeans lol) sitting alone with her beer, and for whatever reason, she *really* caught my interest. Over the next year, I spent a lot of time talking with her there, engaging in conversations, inserting comments that I thought were obvious that I was into her.. to no avail *sigh* including leaning over at one point and telling her (because i do present very fem aka 'straight') that "just so you're aware, I'm what you might consider to be situationally bi" STILL nothing (good grief! LOL) but.. to cut an entire year of changing my outfits 50 times before leaving for the club.. just in case she was there.. and a looooot of wondering wtf do I have to do to make her see I am definitely interested in her...we have now recently celebrated our one year anniversary, and honestly could not be happier! And no... I do not still see men, and am not 'missing' anything.. in fact, I have been nothing but enriched in all facets since. Literally cannot picture my life without her in it :) She claims that her first thoughts of me were (and I do understand) that I was simply an older woman (twice her age actually!) who likes hanging out in gay bars.... and that she was simply being 'respectful' in not taking me up on any of my offers LOL me.. and most of the people we know agree that she was more along the lines of oblivious than respectful (love you Steph!) sorry for the long-windedness.. but this video reminded me specifically of that time, and how difficult it was not only in my own brain (she's so young.. I do definitely enjoy men.. wtf am I doing??! hey.. wait.. I looooove her!) but reactions from strangers.. not so much family, thank goodness.. they have all been very accepting, and are very happy I am very happy :)
@jenniferperez3350
@jenniferperez3350 7 жыл бұрын
Gosh I love Cammie so mucho I don't even know her personally. I just love how she uses her platform to speak out. it's amazing.
@onemillionpercent
@onemillionpercent 7 жыл бұрын
My second video of yours. I watched the previous one about the struggles of being a Femme Lesbian as well. Love your personality and you seem like such a sweet and intelligent person and you are so beautiful! I also was then led to your ex girlfriend and a "why we broke up" video, and then one other sweet video of you guys together and I had got so quickly emotionally invested in that relationship lmaoooo 0 to 100 real quick. Idk why. But anyway, this made me sub because ahh you seem like a great person, and you mentioned Ingrid but I haven't watched her in so long but, I just love her. I'm subbinggg & I love this so much!!
@rimamartens
@rimamartens 7 жыл бұрын
sooo good to see a cammie video that is high quality, informative and positive!
@SamTakesCle
@SamTakesCle 7 жыл бұрын
I seriously love this topic, thanks so much for standing up for us Femme's !!
@becca92900
@becca92900 7 жыл бұрын
I feel your struggles. Thank you so much for posting this little series Cammie. It really means a lot to me. I wish I could meet you, but I'm nowhere near NY or California.
@breedster1933
@breedster1933 6 жыл бұрын
I relate and share these struggles. Unfortunately because I'm a pretty private person I can't be as forthright as you but I admire it!
@lenacarey2333
@lenacarey2333 7 жыл бұрын
You're so well informed on struggles within the LGBT+ community, it's such a refreshing change to see someone on KZbin who knows their shit and wants to help educate others.
@shagwellington
@shagwellington 5 жыл бұрын
We all have struggles Cammie. No one should get angry or yell because they perceive rejection and not honesty. I find it hard to believe how insensitive and stupid people can be with their questions. You are educating people. I wish all men would be more mature and be graceful with you.
@d0mesticbliss
@d0mesticbliss 7 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh. When she touched on not looking like a stereotypical lesbian (which there is nothing wrong with looking like), I finally realized that that was what I was going through. I thought that I was bi just because I'm a femme. Thank you so much for making this video! You are the representation that validates who I am! Much love to you!
@valeriava1952
@valeriava1952 7 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of myself for being this soon❤️
@Nat-re2he
@Nat-re2he 7 жыл бұрын
I love this, everybody should live by these words! (Especially the entire "man in the relationship" part)
@MamaSwole
@MamaSwole 4 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and subscribed! You’re seriously soooo beautiful girl😍
@samanthagarcia923
@samanthagarcia923 7 жыл бұрын
Love this! Queer looks different on everyone and that's what's so beautiful. I'm truly a mix of feminine and masculine. I love makeup and dresses but I also own more flannel than I can count. The way I feel and want to dress changes daily and that was something that was kinda hard to accept. But you just gotta be you and not give a fuck ❤️
@nidzc.1427
@nidzc.1427 7 жыл бұрын
When It comes to telling guys that I'm gay at a bar or someone I'm having a conversation with. I just mention "my girlfriend" between the lines. They're a bit confused at first as to what kind of girlfriend haha but get it right after :) great video Cammie! This is SO relatable
@ntilshan1713
@ntilshan1713 7 жыл бұрын
Great video Cammie. Your answers to these questions were perfect and true.
@Choleygrace
@Choleygrace 7 жыл бұрын
I feel like it's so hard to find other girls who are lesbian and femme. I relate to you so much it's so refreshing! 😊😊💕
@RubyAnnRodriguez95
@RubyAnnRodriguez95 7 жыл бұрын
I love it when you make long videos! So don't feel bad😄
@midnightcontrol
@midnightcontrol 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Cammie! I really liked your video, because I have the same struggles all the time. As a femme lesbian, attracted to femmes as well it's so hard to explain yourself to the world all the time... I would never change myself just to be "visible". So nobody should do that. Acceptance is everything. By the way, you are so damn beautiful! :) Greetings from Germany
@YesNoMaybe789
@YesNoMaybe789 7 жыл бұрын
Your giggle is one of the most angelic things I've ever heard💕 and thank you for talking about this topic bcs I relate to this sooo much
@SkeleLynXCordakXGara
@SkeleLynXCordakXGara 7 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I get caught up in relationship roles bc I'm a femme and my gf is smaller than me and for some reason when people say I'm the boy in the relationship for that reason or bc I'm clingy, it makes me mad but this video made me feel good. We both have factors of being the 'boy' and 'girl' in it as does every couple. :)) Thank you, I subbed immediately.
@liatal7421
@liatal7421 7 жыл бұрын
Cammie Scott I love you so much!!! Thank you for everything! And 2 videos in 2 days?! You are amazing! 😘😘😘
@teambellavsteamalice
@teambellavsteamalice 7 жыл бұрын
Just watched an episode of orphan black, and when the "man in the relationship" thing came up, i thought of Alison and Donny! 😄"I may be a bitch, but i'm Alison's bitch" Donny said once lol.
@elliasuna3910
@elliasuna3910 7 жыл бұрын
Omg like you said, i couldn't really relate to most coming out stories but this changed like my whole point of view....wow i am getting emotional
@oliviayerico-piazza1550
@oliviayerico-piazza1550 7 жыл бұрын
WHY ARE YOU SO BEAUTIFUL?! It's like an angel is shining light on me!
@birdsfairytales
@birdsfairytales 6 жыл бұрын
Girl I am so grateful for your videos. You have made such a difference for me!
@todayis_Rachaa
@todayis_Rachaa 7 жыл бұрын
2 interested videos about femme lesbians . wow wow wow Cammie loveeeeed it.. it was great to watch it and know about you more. love ya
@ht-rb9yv
@ht-rb9yv 7 жыл бұрын
My now wife, is pretty feminine, so when we got engaged, she proposed and everyone was so taken aback that I didn't do it because I'm the less feminine one in the relationship. Gotta love ignorance!
@micaelakessel338
@micaelakessel338 7 жыл бұрын
Omg cammie I love you so much! You're so inspiring! ❤️❤️❤️also I HAVEEE to know where you got that heart lamp. I NEED IT 😍
@sanneveldman7223
@sanneveldman7223 7 жыл бұрын
YESSS BEST WEEK EVER. Love both videos. Makes me feel like I'm not the only one. Love you cam ❤️
@true_loveseeker6505
@true_loveseeker6505 7 жыл бұрын
Hi...its midnight here n I'm glad u uploaded as promised...
@jendamh2033
@jendamh2033 7 жыл бұрын
did you know that you have fans also in the middle East 😍😍❤❤
@awkoh1361
@awkoh1361 7 жыл бұрын
Jenda Seraj yEs exactly
@jendamh2033
@jendamh2033 7 жыл бұрын
AWKOH oh hey 😂😂😍😍
@aliceandrews9665
@aliceandrews9665 7 жыл бұрын
Jenda Seraj do you live in israel?
@jendamh2033
@jendamh2033 7 жыл бұрын
alice andrews Nup I live in Syria
@oringrossman2762
@oringrossman2762 7 жыл бұрын
I live in Israel 😊
@joana123joan
@joana123joan 7 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that you know exactly what to say! Please keep making more videos beautiful!
@mc.smil3y795
@mc.smil3y795 7 жыл бұрын
Who else just enjoys listening and looking at cam, she's just amazing ☺️
@GR3Yproduction
@GR3Yproduction 7 жыл бұрын
Damn i missed the livechat. So many lovely words in your videos @cammiescott ❤️
@viktoryjak9875
@viktoryjak9875 7 жыл бұрын
You are so prettyyyy 💁🏼☺️ And your videos are so funny and authentic😄 Wish you more success in future! ❤️
@areasco13
@areasco13 7 жыл бұрын
Another Cammie video! This day couldn't get any better
@INeverMetaphorIDidntLike
@INeverMetaphorIDidntLike 7 жыл бұрын
i LOVE what you said about stereotypical traditional gender roles. my boyfriend and i joke all the time about how i'm the "man" and he's the "woman" in our relationship.... even though he's very "manly" looking and i'm very "femme" looking. emotionally - we're just very in tune with that "other" side of us, and it REALLY comes out in our relationship. i'm more goal orientated- and he's more emotional orientated. it's a lovely switch up for me - which is why i'm gonna marry the crap outta him ;D
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