answering questions i've been avoiding... | lets talk relationships, break ups, & turning 23

answering questions i've been avoiding... | lets talk relationship updates & turning 23 reflections..
hi guys.. this video is a little different and much longer than usual (its giving podcast episode) - but it was a video i felt needed to be made. this has been weighing heavy on my heart and i've been thinking of a way i can transform into the next chapter of my life in a way that feels authentic to me
i hope you enjoyed my reflections and got something out of the video. i love you all so so so much. this is really not easy for me to post but i'm trying hard to stay truthful, honest, vulnerable, and real
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[@fernandaraamirez]

please read the description of this video!!

[@brauliomendez4642]

Sweethearts 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@prettyscandigangster]

Ur so amazing Fernanda! ❤ Love u sm! ❤️❤️

[@killerv135]

Ferna, can i be honest with you? I feel that love energy you had for him will be channeled elsewhere, such as traveling, expenses, clothes, youtube career, but deep down you are a lover, and need a husband, and be a wife to a strong pure heart and loving man and have kids. Whenever girls do what you are speaking of, is that they are translating love energy into other avenues in their lives(The more powerful the love the more powerful/big the other self-focus avenues become in their lives), you are picking self exploration, traveling, and whatever else benefits you and of course friends. However this is short lived and expires quickly about 5-10 years after making a choice for this life change. Ferna, please dont not let this eat up your 20's, and dont let it stop you from finding a man with more or equal love than yourself, but i would suggest more love than equal, and you will know because kids will be on the table about 1-2 years into the relationship if all things are well and beyond expectations. I hope you well, and petition for your peace, protection, and clarity of mind.

[@burmakara]

I suggest reading a book 'Oliver Mercer: Hidden Manifestation' if you want to know how to manifest anything. Just follow everything writer suggests in there, it's one of the best reads I had in a while.

[@allex2220]

I think we did kind of assume you two broke up but we love you so much and now we are looking forward to this new era of you! 🫶

[@batyaslife]

why did they breakup/what were the signs??? (im slow sorry)

[@kasiajoy]

@@batyaslifeI couldn't tell before but a few weeks ago when she did her podcast ep + youtube vid on "healing" and stuff I immediately thought they broke up

[@Shiningsnow]

​@@kasiajoy same, I lowkey assumed because of her some latest content like the healing one u mentioned and also from his complete absence in her contents.

[@esrat359]

@@batyaslife I was kinda suspicious too bc she was posting herself a lot more than before, she was posting about her content normally but lately, it was mostly herself, mirror poses, etc. We all went through that phase

[@BreannaQuan]

protect your peace girl!! long term relationship breakups are brutal and i feel you soso much❤you'll get through it and take your time sharing, xoxo

[@Tessa-d2n]

Breanna.... I love your videos so so much. Lot's of love from India🇮🇳.

[@Horrorzeit]

In the end I was so happy when mine ended and I finally had time to really grow and found the most stable relationship ever.

[@mallorybrooks5760]

One thing that I will never forget is that being single is NOT the opposite of being in a relationship. They’re two separate things. They both bring different things. Good and bad. Sitting in the singleness and learning more about myself was the best thing ever

[@Horrorzeit]

Very well said and so true! When I was younger I was hyper obsessed with being in a relationship, but then I realised that being single is also a very good time for self exploration. I am in a very happy relationship for 12 years now - so it always works out in the end.

[@giiannnaa]

there is no right or wrong way to react! as a viewer, all we want is for you to be your authentic self. i wish you the best on your journey 💗

[@csantos1995]

I'm 28 & have now been with my fiance for 15 years (I was 13 he was 14). At 20 we decided to part ways to explore life without eachother. To this day, we both single handedly agree that it was THE best decision we made for ourselves and each other. We never planned on getting back together but it naturally happened. Idk where I would have been if I didn't give us/myself the opportunity to live life on my own. We're getting married next year ☺️Change is good, needed. I'm happy for you & your future self WILL thank you!

[@taylorwolfram3871]

AWWW I LOVE THAT

[@msack11]

Thats beautiful!! you guys found eachother again 🤞

[@user-zg4ld6kg4i]

Omg wowww

[@beatri2]

i cant believe i still click on your vids the same excitement as i did back in 2021 😭💕

[@fernandaraamirez]

you mean so much to me!

[@virgilbaal4993]

As a man, I love seeing strong women like Fernanda in this generation. It’s hard going through a heartbreak, yet she still manages to create videos for you all while going through a rollercoaster of low vibrations.

[@maryamel9408]

Usually, the person who decides to break up, can move on quicker and kind of « easier » even tho nothing is easy i know, but its always the other person who didnt want to end things who actually suffers for a while..

[@MariaRamirez-328]

being emotional is not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. you're putting your emotional wellness ahead of the need to be perceived as "strong and perfect" by others, but strength is actually expressing pain in a healthy way! :) thank you for sharing this with us fern, I'm sure it can be tough to be vulnerable in front of internet strangers, but you've created a super kind and supportive community! we are here for you

[@carmenstopanimaltesting7925]

When I tell you I GASPED when I heard you guys broke up. You are so very strong fern and we fully recognise that and respect the way you told us. I’ve been here for 2-3 years and you are such an inspiration to me. We’re all rooting for you to find out who you truly are in your new era!! You deserve every good thing that comes flying your way, and I know many more will. I’ll be here the whole time girl! 🫶

[@Jeon_mimikook]

The truth is that the change that has occurred in you is clear in the way you speak, it is spontaneous and profound. If this video was on your podcast channel, it would probably be one of my favorite video

[@fernandaraamirez]

this comment means so much to me! thank you💕

[@MeganNicolee1]

As someone who was in two long terms back to back relationship from 18-24 LET ME TELL YOU! It’s so important just to take time for yourself. I was single for a whole year learning who I was as an individual as a now adult and it was the best thing I could have done. Take time find what makes you you and learning to be alone in your own company and enjoying it will be something you will never regret❤

[@TashaAntoinette]

You’re so wise beyond your years girl, I’m 7 years older and I never would have been able to say “I choose me” at that age. Or even understand what you can learn from being apart. So awesome to see that, love your videos haha you inspire me in many ways! Don’t change a thing about yourself I’m excited to see where you go next 😊

[@fernandaraamirez]

i appreciate you so much! love yoy

[@paulinaa9205]

23:29 WTFFFFFFF i have never thought about this and now i'm like wow not gonna lie, at some moment i wondered if your and your bf's goals were aligned since you traveled a lot and always talked about moving to another country... anyways happy to see you doing well and motivated fern!

[@ikramsdigitaldiary]

you’ve changed so much in a very mature way I mean you keep glowing and you’re so eloquent,I love you so much fern 💞💐 and I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you🥹🤍

[@ikramsdigitaldiary]

@@fernandaraamirez i love you so much and I’m so excited for this new chapter of your life 🥹🤍🤍

[@SiennaTeeling]

fernanda, this felt like such a warm hug. I am the same age as you, and just got out of a 6 year relationship as well--leaving off on good terms but it is still such a weird feeling. your words are so comforting & encouraging.

[@fernandaraamirez]

You got this!🎀🤍

[@UnkownUsermeoqg]

U deserve the best. The most authentic, honest, sincere ,online person. As someone who is at the age of twice older than you, i can say you are very down to earth girl. Everything is happening for a reason, next chapter is as exciting as it should be. Go girl, live the best of your life🥰

[@fernandaraamirez]

i appreciate you!

[@stan4hellok1tty]

its getting difficult to find youtubers that are honest and relatable. fernanda is such a vibe and we love her for that. your channel is everything and you encourage and motivate me to be better 😘💗

[@dohafouda8590]

omg girl, i wish u the best on your healing journey take time to grieve but also i hope u see this as a new chapter in your life💗

[@dohafouda8590]

also whys the hair eating

[@Dearvioana]

Never clicked faster

[@thechoice_effect]

bro

[@ZonkeMntambo-ke2pd]

❤ i totally agree with you

[@lovelynanaxoxo]

Rightttt❤❤

[@aamani28]

LITERALLY

[@ruesiba]

Real

[@Naaaaat93]

holy fucking shit fernanda… I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman so authentic and so in tune with her gut and what she needs and what she wants. I’m not only so damn impressed but also sooooo inspired! I’m 31 now and I almost wish I had your videos back in my 20s because you would’ve changed my whole trajectory! but you inspire me so much to be more in tune with my soul and my gut and focusing on what I want. love you forever and can’t wait to see what’s in store for you! sending you all the love and happiness and well wishes! 💕💗✨💫

[@EugeniaBee]

After my heartbreak from a 7 year relationship, I was forced to deal with my childhood trauma and heal , i found myself but most importantly I found God. That heartbreak was a blessing in disguise

[@dearrene]

I'm 18 and felt the singleness. Everyone around me is in a relationship and I just feel so unpleasant and lonely. This video makes me want to leave all tgose feelings behind and become the best person I can be for myself. Thank you, Fernanda for this inspiring and very authentic video. ❤ and everyone giving their own advice and beautiful stories, thank youu!! ❤

[@serena_bee]

Breakups will always be a big deal, honestly. Its the swiftness whip lash and reality check a person can get all at once. Especially, as you rightfully said, when you've been in one for so long. It can feel so strange. Indeed, there are always lessons to be learnt in every season of life. You lived and fully immersed in love. Appreciate it for what it was. We love you, always and forever 😌❣️

[@meganmicha_]

I’ve always looked up to you and YOU genuinely make me feel so much more motivated and willing to move forward. Hope everything’s okay and you got this

[@forevermoresft]

Fernanda, I have been following you for years now, and despite being younger than you, I feel so proud of how far you’ve come like a mother watching her child grow up😭 doing this video must have asked for so much courage, and we, your listeners, love you so much and will always support you!!! sending you lots of luck for this new chapter 🍀

[@fernandaraamirez]

i love you so much!!!!

[@nailahrobb2888]

You are very right! Put yourself first in your early 20’s! You are figuring out who you are and evolving and being independent! Focus on your dreams definitely! I made the mistake of putting my partner first in my early 20’s and eventually we broke up on mutual terms but I realized that I had not had any real self love or independent experiences and that hurt me the most instead of figuring out who I was I was focused on someone else. You can only pour into something else when you are filled yourself. Make the most of it girly keep watering yourself and growing ❤ it will pay off!

[@irismariafigueiredo]

Girl you have no idea how much I am reflecting about everything you said, being single sometimes can make us sad but at the same time can make us learn new things, find out who we are without someone by our side... I have been trying to take care of myself but what I forget is about my mind, it's toxic rn how much my mind does make me a person who I am not. I love this version of you being just positive ❤

[@Influencer_NET]

I totally understand how you feel with not being able to address your relationship status because with how long you guys were dating like damn I was only dating a guy for a years and my Heart and my brain was just like so flabbergasted when me and him broke up but to see that your doing good and you still look as beautiful and glowy as possible is a good sign for you and your near future btw this is coming form a 16 year old still in high school

[@denisedeharenne1270]

Fernanda I met you this year and you inspire me to be the best version of myself. You inspire me to embrace my personality and work on myself so I can arrange my room the most aesthetically way, make meaningful decisions for me to feel aligned with what I want and just try my best and trust that everything will come in time. What you said in this video resonates with me a lot since I've been trying to find out who I am without talking to my friends as much, and it's been very difficult. With being chronically online you get so much fomo and I have been so dependent on other people instead of focusing on my goals and making my dreams come true. I don't want to be like that anymore and my 23th birthday is coming closer and closer, and what I want for this new year is to be more true to myself, hold myself accountable and respect me and what I want and what I feel first. I'll be watching every video you upload in this new chapter gladly! All the love from Argentina ❤

[@c9wboylik3me]

i genuinely cannot believe i’ve watched you for 4 years like whattt but it’s so beautiful to see you grow !!!💌

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you so much!

[@hellokitty-qz3zq]

This all happened a reason 💗. Now blast all those songs that describe your state, eat those ice creams and live through that feeling. But once you're done move on and enjoy your life.

[@Mr865501]

I have to say this video made me a little emotional. It’s so beautiful to see women have the option to explore themselves. It’s beautiful to see more women love themselves. I hope you know that you’re inspiring young and older gals. Thank you for being yourself hun! 🫶🏼✨

[@Yazminslife.]

Damm I clicked on this video to hear the tea 🍵 and towards the end I did feel all of the emotions I cried 😭 because transitioning to women hood and wanting to do all of theses things and exploring new opportunities it got to me

[@ayoohparck9012]

Sometimes you need to be single because this can help you knowing yourself better

[@amanda.928]

you are such a beautiful soul fern🥹💖! you just radiate love and light, and I really both look up to you and see a lot of myself in you. I’m in the same exact chapter of my life right now, and it’s comforting knowing you’re there with me. thank you for sharing your life with us!

[@hildah_anyango]

I got heartbroken yesterday and giirrrl this video could not have come at a better time.❤❤❤Thanks for sharing. ❤❤ here's to a great and beautiful next chapter.❤❤

[@soraidacruz8693]

Relationships come and go. God has someone in mind for you. Be patient. True love will find you. We love you Fernanda ❤️

[@elsiewilliamson3340]

What you said about not liking people being empathetic towards you really resonated with me. I remember my therapist saying I can't accept compliments because it challenges the image I have of myself. I think the same applies with empathy; we don't think we deserve it so it makes us uncomfortable.

[@Sinthecity]

I’m 28 and the only piece of advice I could ever give someone younger than me is to not take anything too seriously before you’re 26-27. Your brain isn’t done cooking. Who you are before then is extremely temporary, and I now see my life prior to last year as basically my prologue. A lot happens and none of it is doing anything but setting me up for the real adventure.

[@kaylilipsey]

I saw on snap the TV falling and the comment about get a man and was like woah😮 I’m 23 and I just went through the HARDEST breakup physically my heart was hurting for months but there is no timeline in healing. We are here for you take your time beautiful and best wishes. Being single in your 20’s can be so funnn!! Love you❤❤

[@little.devotional]

Fernanda, you are an ANGEL 🪽girl your light is vibrating through my screen. You’ve give us so much wisdom beyond our years from just your own experiences and growth 🥹🤍 what a blessing

[@fernandaraamirez]

ahhhh I really appreciate you! Thank you love😭🤍

[@burcuw7047]

Fern, you are truly like a friend. You said you had to post on KZbin, but I hope you don't feel guilty when you don't upload a video because we are here like friends. We are people, friends, waiting when you need us, not like a job you have to do all the time. I hope I made you feel good, just as you made me feel good. I hug you from my heart and I will be watching the new chapter of your life ❤🎀🫂

[@hannahalba6770]

Fernanda, you have such a way with words. This video filled me with so much hope, and I just had to let you know how much your energy and positivity mean to me (to all of your subscribers!) I’ve been watching you for so many years, and it brings me so much joy to see how far you’ve come. You continue to grow and evolve into an even more amazing woman every day, and it’s such a privilege to witness that journey. Your videos inspire us in ways I can’t even describe, and I’m so grateful for all that you share with the world!

[@fernandaraamirez]

this means so much to me! Thank you for your kind words💌

[@ViviansLog]

You are so refreshing! We’re all just navigating through life and learning from each other and our experiences. As someone who is much older than you.. I still take away things and learn things from you that I may have forgotten or lost the habit of doing as I got older. So it’s nice to be reminded. Hearing what you have to say is kind of like my younger self talking to me and reminding me of all the great things I may have forgotten as I aged because you know, life happens.. so thank you ❤

[@PrincessJas24]

Your hair is sooooo gorgeous and goals here, you look beautiful! 💖 Also I’m in my late 20’s now and I’ve been watching you for awhile and I always admired how independent you are even when you were in a relationship. Proud of you making a choice that was best for you and I think you made one you’ll be so happy about later on ❤️

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you!

[@camroneszka]

I’m so happy and proud of you for coming forward and really letting everything out. I love you Fernanda and now’s your time to finally show yourself some true love 💞💞

[@sumaiyasamina]

You're such a beautiful soul and I really look up to you. I totally understand when you said you feel uncomfortable with people being empathetic towards you because I feel the same way. This is a great era for you to discover yourself and step into your power. You are seriously amazing and I always love your content.

[@sofiacusin8615]

Thank you so much for opening up and explaining yourself with such good intentions, authenticity and honesty. I really appreciated it and it also made sense to me as well in some way. I actually felt connected to what you were saying, and I also wanted to say that I am so proud of you for your growth, for trusting yourself and doing what FEELS right, and for the way you have approached and are continuing to evolve through this! It is actually so beautiful that, as humans, we get to experience different life stages, feel such a wide spectrum of emotions, shift our perspective, find our purpose, live in our own truth, and continue to both discover ourselves and growing, all at the same time! Love you so much Fern and wishing you all the best for this new chapter💌 a

[@rabbithole475]

I had been struggling with the biggest breakup, but watching you talk so positively about the future really inspired me to actually get up and live my life!! thank you so much and i love your videos

[@laucarrelli]

What you said about entering a new era and how change isn’t a bad thing just healed something in me and I’m so grateful to watch your videos 💗💗

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹🤍

[@tanyasingh9490]

Fern you’re very inspiring I love the way how you respond to things happening in your life I love how you always truly find the better side of things 💕 I love you fermanda I have been watching your videos since 2021 and I genuinely appreciate your kindness and how you respect everything the universe has given to you all the very best for this chapter of your life my love and happy bday in advance !!!🥰❤️

[@CourtneyNoble]

You a very thoughtful, intuitive, smart girl and you inspire me even being 31! I love your presence online and how you continue to share your experiences and your wisdom with us. You were meant to be an advice giver, someone who sheds light on very important topics and help us learn from your growth. I think how you present yourself and the way you have positioned your career is very inspiring to me because I don't think anyone has ever explained with your knowledge all that we need to know about life! You are young, but at the same time very bright and you have a long career ahead of you! I love your podcast and your channel. I want to grow my channel to be similar to yours in a way that is authentic and true to who I am. Thank you Fernanda

[@antonialeal4119]

Fernanda thank you for share this with us, is not a easy thing talk about our feelings, our thougs, and open our heart, I can´t even imagine all the emotions you are going thru, but I send you a lot of love and bleesing. Talk about this things helping so much for heal, you´re an amazing woman, and this new chapter of your life is going to be amazing!! I send you a big hug from Chile!! lov u!

[@overnightoatty]

being an independent woman with balanced energy is the thing that’s ever happened to me. ilysm!!

[@randomipersonn]

You are so well-spoken and genuine⭐️💕YOU'RE MOVING TO NYC!!??!?! Can't wait for the vlogss there!!😱💕⭐️✨️

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you love! hopefully next year?💕

[@katelynbaez1400]

I’m wishing you the very best during this new chapter and era in your life. Watching you grow in real time has been so incredibly inspiring 🩷 I’m so excited to see what’s next for you!!!

[@starlight7716]

I honestly have too say that you already inspired me so much. I found you with your first moving video ever and since then you truly changed my outlook on life. Thank you for teaching me so much and being who you are💗💗

[@fernandaraamirez]

Thank you so much!!

[@ReeseJadeHerron]

you are such an inspiration as a content creator and as a person!! you truly inspire me to live my life authentically and with love!! so proud of you Fernanda!! love you always girl!! 🩵 HAPPY BIRTHDAY BTW!!! 🩵

[@josephkustra1644]

ok bc this video is gonna be so good. i’m so proud of you for being real and knowing that we all love you and have your back ❤ even though that chapter of your life has come to a close i just know that you are going to be able to continue through and i am so proud of you 🤍also if in fact you move or nyc that would be ICONIC. like girl this new chapter of life for you is going to be so so so good and i just LOVE your energy so much ❤❤

[@viktoriyaromaniv2147]

I love this video! Honestly, usually I don’t comment any video. But here I want to say even if you change your mind in the future, for now it’s a truth. We are for the first time in our 23/25/30… eras, in our youth era and it’s okay that we can make mistakes, we don’t know how to live it exactly (I don’t believe that this “exactly” even exists), we live how we know, how we feel and it’s amazing!😻 You’ve told really good things - our 20th are for discovering who we are and we have to use this time for ourselves! Good luck! We support you as you do for us!

[@SamaraPaacheecoo]

Girl we completely understand that you don’t even know how to say it, it’s been almost 5 years! We are here for you Fern🩷

[@celinaad5592]

we’re all so proud of you and how you’re coping with everything. Everyone heals in their own way and you’re doing great!❤️‍🩹 sending you lots of love fern💕

[@juanitabrown5145]

Goodness. My heart goes out to you and him. There’s no “right way” to handle breakups. But, your well thought out response/position on this was damn near perfect.⚖️👌🏽 It was beautiful, and profound. I am a slightly older sub, but to me your talks are just as insightful as those of an older person. So proud of you, Fern! Wishing you the best for this next chapter.

[@quessiabuhinja]

Thank you for being honest and open with us❤️❤️ You are like a big sister that I never had and your videos make me smile. You deserve the best❤️

[@khyativermaa]

you're like the most authentic and real creator I've even seen/ known on youtube and i love you for that. much love to you fern, you inspire so much

[@juh_virreto5354]

girl, you’re like the older sister i never hadd. loved our chat, sending you love🩷

[@kseniya.biryukova]

I love your honesty and energy ❤️‍🩹 it is my favorite video on your channel now! want more ✨️

[@mattietriplett5313]

You vocalized and shared so seamlessly…thank you

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹🤍

[@barbara20214]

Thank you for being so real with us. This really hit home for me as I’m going through something similar ❤ Congrats on a loving relationship, just bc it’s ended doesn’t mean it wasn’t a successful relationship! cheers to your next chapter!

[@fernandaraamirez]

this is so sweet 🫶🏻 thank you

[@noramuffincake]

Thanks for opening up with us fern ❤ I really respect the way you’re talking about it, with such maturity and wisdom. Proud of you for making this choice for yourself, since it’s such a hard choice to make

[@fernandaraamirez]

I appreciate you🤍

[@hannah.fionaa]

Love you Fernanda, you‘ve got this! Thank you for your authenticity and being honest with yourself and us❤!

[@sthandwasibandze2216]

I never really comment on videos but Fernanda you really spoke to me with this one. ive been a subscriber of yours for 4 years now and every one of your videos is so so so inspiring to me. like everything you have said in this video is inspiring me to take charge and control over my life, embrace change and be more optimistic towards my future and really put in work to build the life I want for myself. If this is how your podcast is like, I'll definitely be tuning I because I love the energy you exude with your words. I felt boost of good energy from you. sending you love!! 💗🐞

[@fernandaraamirez]

ahh thank you! this is exactly what my podcast is about🤍 hope you tune in!

[@drishijain7922]

I just got out of a long term relationship over month ago too, and I have a tattoo that says “555” too. I’m 22 right now and in a similar phase as you. I really connected/realted with you there. This entire video resonated so much! Thanks for sharing and making us feel less alone. Sending so much love and healing your way❤️

[@fernandaraamirez]

omg i love that!!!!🥹🤍

[@ayanouri8528]

You have been my inspiration for so long and I feel like I grew up with you. I'm happy for you & so excited for your new journey, love you 💖💋

[@caramel9495]

I met my husband when I was 19, we didn’t get together until I was 22 and he was 24. And waiting all that time as we grew apart is what’s needed. He is now my husband and the father of my child and I never would have imagined that. When I was 19 I thought totally different to now being a 25 year old woman

[@tifanverah]

Am 28 now and from the day I started following you I really adored your journey and wish I choose myself more in my early 20s...fern your on the right track just embrace every chapters of your life make it a beautiful novel book💖

[@Zeyna_wow]

I really love the way you handled the situation and am very proud of you as a person who watches you for like over years I love to see you growing and changing indifferent aspects of your life I appreciate who you are fern love you 😽

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹🤍🤍🤍

[@aislinnvegaa]

This video felt like when I got together with a friend to catch up on each other's lives. I love that I feel that connection with Fernanda, as she is my inspiration. I was shocked by some things, but I love that she is willing to talk to us like this. 💗

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹😊

[@LeaMertens-zk6ey]

For me it's not that different. I just moved into my first apartment at the age of 26... and today, October 13th, I'm sleeping alone without my dog ​​there and I've never been "alone" before. It just feels so good, especially because I I'm currently in a phase where I like to be alone and don't want any noise around me. I'm not in a relationship either, I'm still trying to find myself and accept it, it's very difficult in any case, but you're slowly making progress, it will take time❤

[@folkI0vermore]

you’re the only youtuber that i never get bored of and still feel the same excitement every time she releases a new video. so many people also feel that way and we’ll always be here supporting you through the ups and downs 🩷🩷

[@marsro.3443]

Aww fern you got a whole new aura glow to you and i love it you are exactly where you’re meant to be, this video related to me so much in my time in my life right now and I appreciate you so much for posting this.

[@luvpillls]

ur literally like the only reason why i still watch youtube ❤❤

[@amara734]

We love and support you no matter what 💗 it’s totally understandable if you’re feeling down or just want to take a step back and focus on yourself for a while 🫶🏻

[@simjayla]

I can’t believe it’s your 23 birthday already 😭😭 I still remember your 19th bday vlog🥹 Also thank you for sharing this with us, you are so strong and amazing!. I’m so excited for your new era and for what’s more to come. So proud of you 🤍

[@fernandaraamirez]

i know whattt😭😭😭😭thank you for sticking with me 🤍

[@brookebergum7962]

You truly are in your healing journey. I love watching you no matter what you are going through. You help people more than you know. Love you ❤

[@ikramsdigitaldiary]

Ive been also dealing with many friendship breakups and so many other major changes in my life and I’ve been trying to find this type of video and yes I love you Fernanda and. I’ve watched your episode about change and I just appreciate you I’m glad I found you !!

[@juliavirtanen4884]

The timing of this video is insane. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4-years around a month ago as well. We started dating when we were 16 so I relate to this video so much🫶 This really made me feel like it is going to be okay and that I am not alone. And it makes me feel better that I can follow my favourite youtubers healing era as well as enter my own and sort of be on the journey together. Thank you fern🥰

[@Horrorzeit]

Thank you sm for sharing with us. Wishing you everything you are dreaming of! I am so incredibly happy of the role model you are to all those young girls out there. So many focus on their partner, move in with them directly, drop their career, maybe become mothers and regret so much later. In this world where there is so much pressure on women enjoying your life to the fullest is the only way to prepare ourselves. Its amazing you figured that out so young! When it comes to age always remember that you are probably gonna be atleast 90 and how far away that is from your 20ies. Even with 45 you have only reached half your lifetime.

[@inesvdiaries]

so proud of you 🤍 your energy is everything and I’m sure 23 is going to be AMAZING for you!!!

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you!

[@inesvdiaries]

@@fernandaraamirez :,) idk why I got emotional watching this and your healing video!! the fact that we’re the same age and I completely resonate with everything you say!! sending love

[@anawasfound8479]

You're a huge inspo for many and I'm so happy for you and all your new upcoming ventures

[@fernandaraamirez]

Thank you so much!!

[@her7450]

I know you said you feel pretty good now and proud of yourself for picking yourself back up but just remember that healing is not a linear process. You’ll feel happy for like two weeks straight and then randomly crash down and cry about it again. Just remember that’s it’s all part of the process. You’re strong and you got this! TIME HEALS ALL 🫂🤍

[@fernandaraamirez]

🤍🤍🤍

[@maopinkismylife]

It must be so hard to make decisions for your life. But you did!! I'm so proud of you and always here for you!!😍 You're always my role model and I wanna be like you! I'm so excited for your new era! We're the same age btw, so enjoy being 23 years old together! Let's make the most of it!!❤Love youu

[@manalmanal1289]

know everything. It is a mixture of mixed thoughts, but remember that we are strong and we will overcome this only We just work on accepting and releasing our feelings and we will be fine.The sudden departure of close people will hurt us, but eventually we will heal and learn lessons to grow and develop. We love you I hope you are well 🥹💓

[@ikramsdigitaldiary]

It’s okay if you need time to be alone on your own I’m very proud of you fern take ur time to gather ur strength 💕,everyhting happends for a reason even if it might seem so harsh at the moment but that’s the reality

[@kb__lee]

the fact that you guys broke up is really sad 😢 but i’m so proud of you Fernanda! you’re inspiring and you teach many of us who can relate. break ups really suck but i know we will be okay. 🥹💚

[@noorliscious]

I am so glad im not the only one who feels like this, we're here for u fernanda

[@GraceA]

i can't wait for what this new season has in store for you !! love you tons and will always support you and your transperency

[@fernandaraamirez]

You're the best!

[@fiona_jis_nnie_ose_isa_8816.]

I was listing to this while i'm studying, and i am so proud of you, you look pretty as always, we love you ✨🤍