lets talk relationships, break ups, & turning 23 | answering questions i've been avoiding...

[@fernandaraamirez]

please read the description of this video!!

[@brauliomendez4642]

Sweethearts 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@prettyscandigangster]

Ur so amazing Fernanda! ❤ Love u sm! ❤️❤️

[@killerv135]

Ferna, can i be honest with you? I feel that love energy you had for him will be channeled elsewhere, such as traveling, expenses, clothes, youtube career, but deep down you are a lover, and need a husband, and be a wife to a strong pure heart and loving man and have kids. Whenever girls do what you are speaking of, is that they are translating love energy into other avenues in their lives(The more powerful the love the more powerful/big the other self-focus avenues become in their lives), you are picking self exploration, traveling, and whatever else benefits you and of course friends. However this is short lived and expires quickly about 5-10 years after making a choice for this life change. Ferna, please dont not let this eat up your 20's, and dont let it stop you from finding a man with more or equal love than yourself, but i would suggest more love than equal, and you will know because kids will be on the table about 1-2 years into the relationship if all things are well and beyond expectations. I hope you well, and petition for your peace, protection, and clarity of mind.

[@Jesuslovesyou477]

Happy birthday!! Jesus loves you!

[@Jesuslovesyou477]

Do you miss Allstar cheer??

[@BreannaQuan]

protect your peace girl!! long term relationship breakups are brutal and i feel you soso much❤you'll get through it and take your time sharing, xoxo

[@Tessa-d2n]

Breanna.... I love your videos so so much. Lot's of love from India🇮🇳.

[@Horrorzeit]

In the end I was so happy when mine ended and I finally had time to really grow and found the most stable relationship ever.

[@marievicsalarda4584]

I JUST FINISHED WATCHING A BREANNA VLOG AND THEN THIS...

[@mavis353]

Breannaaaaa 🫶🏻

[@nelixe1078]

Did you know that she doesn’t support Palestine ? :)

[@mallorybrooks5760]

One thing that I will never forget is that being single is NOT the opposite of being in a relationship. They’re two separate things. They both bring different things. Good and bad. Sitting in the singleness and learning more about myself was the best thing ever

[@Horrorzeit]

Very well said and so true! When I was younger I was hyper obsessed with being in a relationship, but then I realised that being single is also a very good time for self exploration. I am in a very happy relationship for 12 years now - so it always works out in the end.

[@allex2220]

I think we did kind of assume you two broke up but we love you so much and now we are looking forward to this new era of you! 🫶

[@batyaslife]

why did they breakup/what were the signs??? (im slow sorry)

[@kasiajoy]

@@batyaslifeI couldn't tell before but a few weeks ago when she did her podcast ep + youtube vid on "healing" and stuff I immediately thought they broke up

[@Shiningsnow]

​@@kasiajoy same, I lowkey assumed because of her some latest content like the healing one u mentioned and also from his complete absence in her contents.

[@nelixe1078]

She also deleted their pictures on her highlights

[@Robinbrown290]

@@batyaslifehow would we know??

[@csantos1995]

I'm 28 & have now been with my fiance for 15 years (I was 13 he was 14). At 20 we decided to part ways to explore life without eachother. To this day, we both single handedly agree that it was THE best decision we made for ourselves and each other. We never planned on getting back together but it naturally happened. Idk where I would have been if I didn't give us/myself the opportunity to live life on my own. We're getting married next year ☺️Change is good, needed. I'm happy for you & your future self WILL thank you!

[@taylorwolfram3871]

AWWW I LOVE THAT

[@mariam11s]

Thats beautiful!! you guys found eachother again 🤞

[@user-zg4ld6kg4i]

Omg wowww

[@antitocardemil6105]

You've been with him longer than you haven't 🥺💗

[@chantalpatton5169]

That’s so beautiful I’m 20 and I have never had a boyfriend just trying to find the right person plus finding a guy is hard

[@beatri2]

i cant believe i still click on your vids the same excitement as i did back in 2021 😭💕

[@fernandaraamirez]

you mean so much to me!

[@giiannnaa]

there is no right or wrong way to react! as a viewer, all we want is for you to be your authentic self. i wish you the best on your journey 💗

[@Jeon_mimikook]

The truth is that the change that has occurred in you is clear in the way you speak, it is spontaneous and profound. If this video was on your podcast channel, it would probably be one of my favorite video

[@fernandaraamirez]

this comment means so much to me! thank you💕

[@Naaaaat93]

holy fucking shit fernanda… I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman so authentic and so in tune with her gut and what she needs and what she wants. I’m not only so damn impressed but also sooooo inspired! I’m 31 now and I almost wish I had your videos back in my 20s because you would’ve changed my whole trajectory! but you inspire me so much to be more in tune with my soul and my gut and focusing on what I want. love you forever and can’t wait to see what’s in store for you! sending you all the love and happiness and well wishes! 💕💗✨💫

[@fernandaraamirez]

ahhhh thank you so much😭😭😭😭😭

[@TashaAntoinette]

You’re so wise beyond your years girl, I’m 7 years older and I never would have been able to say “I choose me” at that age. Or even understand what you can learn from being apart. So awesome to see that, love your videos haha you inspire me in many ways! Don’t change a thing about yourself I’m excited to see where you go next 😊

[@fernandaraamirez]

i appreciate you so much! love yoy

[@cleomaxinemohamed]

I felt the exact same way watching this. At the age of 23 you’ve inspired so many people already just living authentically. Big ups to you for putting a personal side of you out there too. That’s brave!

[@fernandaraamirez]

@@cleomaxinemohamed🥹🩷

[@gracesaxman107]

This break up is the definition of “if you love someone set them free” 🥺

[@carmenstopanimaltesting7925]

When I tell you I GASPED when I heard you guys broke up. You are so very strong fern and we fully recognise that and respect the way you told us. I’ve been here for 2-3 years and you are such an inspiration to me. We’re all rooting for you to find out who you truly are in your new era!! You deserve every good thing that comes flying your way, and I know many more will. I’ll be here the whole time girl! 🫶

[@MeganNicolee1]

As someone who was in two long terms back to back relationship from 18-24 LET ME TELL YOU! It’s so important just to take time for yourself. I was single for a whole year learning who I was as an individual as a now adult and it was the best thing I could have done. Take time find what makes you you and learning to be alone in your own company and enjoying it will be something you will never regret❤

[@EugeniaBee]

After my heartbreak from a 7 year relationship, I was forced to deal with my childhood trauma and heal , i found myself but most importantly I found God. That heartbreak was a blessing in disguise

[@SiennaTeeling]

fernanda, this felt like such a warm hug. I am the same age as you, and just got out of a 6 year relationship as well--leaving off on good terms but it is still such a weird feeling. your words are so comforting & encouraging.

[@fernandaraamirez]

You got this!🎀🤍

[@MariaRamirez-328]

being emotional is not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. you're putting your emotional wellness ahead of the need to be perceived as "strong and perfect" by others, but strength is actually expressing pain in a healthy way! :) thank you for sharing this with us fern, I'm sure it can be tough to be vulnerable in front of internet strangers, but you've created a super kind and supportive community! we are here for you

[@ikramsdigitaldiary]

you’ve changed so much in a very mature way I mean you keep glowing and you’re so eloquent,I love you so much fern 💞💐 and I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you🥹🤍

[@ikramsdigitaldiary]

@@fernandaraamirez i love you so much and I’m so excited for this new chapter of your life 🥹🤍🤍

[@Isaplaysberryavenue]

Yeah, this content is sooo good, I love youuuu. It helps me a lot. Who is fan of Fermanda Ramirezz???

[@UnkownUsermeoqg]

U deserve the best. The most authentic, honest, sincere ,online person. As someone who is at the age of twice older than you, i can say you are very down to earth girl. Everything is happening for a reason, next chapter is as exciting as it should be. Go girl, live the best of your life🥰

[@fernandaraamirez]

i appreciate you!

[@stan4hellok1tty]

its getting difficult to find youtubers that are honest and relatable. fernanda is such a vibe and we love her for that. your channel is everything and you encourage and motivate me to be better 😘💗

[@fernandaraamirez]

Thank you so much!!

[@serena_bee]

Breakups will always be a big deal, honestly. Its the swiftness whip lash and reality check a person can get all at once. Especially, as you rightfully said, when you've been in one for so long. It can feel so strange. Indeed, there are always lessons to be learnt in every season of life. You lived and fully immersed in love. Appreciate it for what it was. We love you, always and forever 😌❣️

[@soraidacruz8693]

Relationships come and go. God has someone in mind for you. Be patient. True love will find you. We love you Fernanda ❤️

[@dohafouda8590]

omg girl, i wish u the best on your healing journey take time to grieve but also i hope u see this as a new chapter in your life💗

[@dohafouda8590]

also whys the hair eating

[@fernandaraamirez]

@@dohafouda8590THANK U

[@c9wboylik3me]

i genuinely cannot believe i’ve watched you for 4 years like whattt but it’s so beautiful to see you grow !!!💌

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you so much!

[@Dearvioana]

Never clicked faster

[@choice_ee]

bro

[@ZonkeMntambo-ke2pd]

❤ i totally agree with you

[@lovelynanaxoxo]

Rightttt❤❤

[@aamani28]

LITERALLY

[@ruesiba]

Real

[@forevermoresft]

Fernanda, I have been following you for years now, and despite being younger than you, I feel so proud of how far you’ve come like a mother watching her child grow up😭 doing this video must have asked for so much courage, and we, your listeners, love you so much and will always support you!!! sending you lots of luck for this new chapter 🍀

[@fernandaraamirez]

i love you so much!!!!

[@sophiemacfadyen997]

I'm almost 26 and would've paid thousands to have this knowledge at 22. You are so strong and so mature and have so much light in you

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹🥹🥹🥲😭thank you

[@dearrene]

I'm 18 and felt the singleness. Everyone around me is in a relationship and I just feel so unpleasant and lonely. This video makes me want to leave all tgose feelings behind and become the best person I can be for myself. Thank you, Fernanda for this inspiring and very authentic video. ❤ and everyone giving their own advice and beautiful stories, thank youu!! ❤

[@antoniadian3346]

as a soon to be 31 years old woman. i would to say thank you to you cause, its okay to embrace change and feel discomfort when we're in uncertainty era. and believe about my own perspective even when its feel weird or unreal. love love , xoxo

[@apokaylpse3691]

fernanda, the way you talk about your relationship even after the breakup is so beautiful. im only 19 but i got out of a year long relationship last year. this is the first time i have been single for so long and it feels so uplifting. i hope you take this time for yourself and really get to know a new version of yourself. you are an inspiration to us all

[@paulinaa9205]

23:29 WTFFFFFFF i have never thought about this and now i'm like wow not gonna lie, at some moment i wondered if your and your bf's goals were aligned since you traveled a lot and always talked about moving to another country... anyways happy to see you doing well and motivated fern!

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹💕💕💕

[@nailahrobb2888]

You are very right! Put yourself first in your early 20’s! You are figuring out who you are and evolving and being independent! Focus on your dreams definitely! I made the mistake of putting my partner first in my early 20’s and eventually we broke up on mutual terms but I realized that I had not had any real self love or independent experiences and that hurt me the most instead of figuring out who I was I was focused on someone else. You can only pour into something else when you are filled yourself. Make the most of it girly keep watering yourself and growing ❤ it will pay off!

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹🤍

[@oliviamadridd]

I just got out of a long term relationship from being 16 years olds ending when we were 20/21 and its so nice to relate to you and i was crying about it and have so much self doubt but listening to someone in a similar situation is so refreshing. And you're my #1 favorite youtuber so thank you. sending positive vibrations and white light.

[@fernandaraamirez]

you got this girl!! we’re so young🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@Influencer_NET]

I totally understand how you feel with not being able to address your relationship status because with how long you guys were dating like damn I was only dating a guy for a years and my Heart and my brain was just like so flabbergasted when me and him broke up but to see that your doing good and you still look as beautiful and glowy as possible is a good sign for you and your near future btw this is coming form a 16 year old still in high school

[@AgataSzczesna]

I’m feeling better when I’m listening to girls that are talking about their problems, because it’s proving that nobody is perfect. Take care❤

[@subarna5453]

I know you just said it was cringe when people show you empathy but I truly think you’re doing an amazing job of being authentic, holding your values, and being open-minded. You are so mature for how you are dealing with this breakup and I know you will grow and blossom to a better version of yourself. It’s such a beautiful experience to be alone and living only for yourself. Not saying that having a partner is bad but imo I think breakups help you grow so much as person and learn more about yourself and that’s quite a beautiful experience especially in your 20s. Thank you for this video and being open with us. Wishing you all the best love ❤

[@sadieloureiro]

"because i don't know yet..." so i actually really love and relate to this so much. it is okay to not know yet because we are still so young and have a whole life to live. we have the rest of our lives to figure things out and find out who we are. right now, all we can do is just try our best and go through our days with love and confidence. thank you fern for recognizing and addressing this!

[@mattietriplett5313]

You vocalized and shared so seamlessly…thank you

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹🤍

[@gisellea4958]

girl i just got outta of a break up too !! and also haven’t been single since i was 18, so seeing you someone’s who my age and someone i look up to is also going through something similar (actually really similar scarily) in a selfish way, it feels a lot less lonely. so thank you for opening up about it. we love you and we’re so happy to see how far you’ve come. we got this girl. this too shall pass.

[@elsiewilliamson3340]

What you said about not liking people being empathetic towards you really resonated with me. I remember my therapist saying I can't accept compliments because it challenges the image I have of myself. I think the same applies with empathy; we don't think we deserve it so it makes us uncomfortable.

[@jacquelinelainea]

honestly so proud of you 😢🩷 this video was exactly what a breakup should look like. a lot of breakup videos center around the other person when in reality it’s about yourself. you made breaking up look like it’s something you can go through! i love this video sm :,)

[@BelenMacias-52]

I've watched your videos since 2019, I am so happy to see the person you have become and the things you have accomplished Fer. Every time I watch a video of you talking about life, it makes me be more positive, believe in myself and see the good things that life brings us. Love u and wish you the best cause you deserve it. ❤❤

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you🥹

[@luvpillls]

ur literally like the only reason why i still watch youtube ❤❤

[@sadieloureiro]

i totally agree! it always feels nice to have someone by your side, but it is very important to grow by yourself sometimes. you have to love yourself to be able to love others

[@sinaruss9493]

Fernanda, I have been (silently) watching you for many years and you continue to inspire me like no other youtuber, actually you’re the only youtuber I follow this actively. I don’t know if this is appropriate to say but I kind of saw this breakup coming months ago. I could tell that you needed time and space to be your own person and I’m so incredibly proud of you for doing what is best for yourself. I know you’re going to handle the transition into this new chapter so gracefully. Sending you so so so much love!!!

[@oliviadalma8918]

Hearing you talk about how you have problems managing the attention you recieve when something bad happens to you really spoke to me. I can relate to that a 100% and its rare to find people similar to me in that way. I've even had problems with people before because of just that, having a weird time recieving and even sending this type of texts. I've failed to read other people's needs in that specific area, just because I always figured that if I didn't want a reminder, if I needed my space, that's what I should give to others. For the past 11 months I've been struggling to get over a situation that I can't make better. The only thing I can improve is my mindset about it, but I still haven't found the right resources to fight it. Luckily, I've had a couple people by my side through this, but I went months without really asking for help. So consuming this type of videos, where people just talk about their experiences and the lessons they learn, and where they touch on some of their struggles makes me feel warm. Makes me feel understood in a way, and it reminds me that if other people can get over their struggles and can live with them, I can do it to.

[@hellokitty-qz3zq]

This all happened a reason 💗. Now blast all those songs that describe your state, eat those ice creams and live through that feeling. But once you're done move on and enjoy your life.

[@overnightoatty]

being an independent woman with balanced energy is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. ilysm!!

[@ayoohparck9012]

Sometimes you need to be single because this can help you knowing yourself better

[@simjayla]

I can’t believe it’s your 23 birthday already 😭😭 I still remember your 19th bday vlog🥹 Also thank you for sharing this with us, you are so strong and amazing!. I’m so excited for your new era and for what’s more to come. So proud of you 🤍

[@fernandaraamirez]

i know whattt😭😭😭😭thank you for sticking with me 🤍

[@nenenenei]

Hey fern, I’ve never left a comment but i swear I’ve watched almost every single video of yours. I still remember when i first discovered u in 2020 with the viral room transformation vid, i liked u sooo much that i went back to your page to see if u got more content, only to find out that you were a new KZbinr, which made me wanna stick with you and see how much you’ll grow, and you did not disappoint, four years later I’m still here and you have grown into a wonderful independent woman i feel so proud, thank you for giving us such a sincere statement, I definitely felt really weird when i noticed how he appeared less and less on your socials, and being a silly teenager it almost made me think love ain’t real, you guys had a beautiful teenage love and even though my naive self would’ve hoped to see a happy ending, i respect and totally understand your decision, all the words you said inspired me so much and gave me a totally different perspective of things, continue to live your dream life fern, we’ll still be here, supporting you. ❤ PS, i am a spanish speaker, and I’ve improved my English thanks to your content, even though it’s still really bad

[@randomipersonn]

You are so well-spoken and genuine⭐️💕YOU'RE MOVING TO NYC!!??!?! Can't wait for the vlogss there!!😱💕⭐️✨️

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you love! hopefully next year?💕

[@mangafan5190]

You are my literal inspiration. I was in a hard time in my life. I was so detached from myself that I almost felt nothing, suicide thoughts would creep in but they weren't that strong and on 22 December 2022,. I watched your videos and I loved your energy. I connected with it, the creativity, the love, the friendships and inspiration. I wanted to be that, I took baby steps just copying you until I figured out what I wanted. Watching you makes me happy to see how far you have grown. If this is who you are its, okay. I just want you to know that your voice is soothing, your adaptability and how strong you are. Honestly your parents did such a good job. Your such a lovely person all round, even if you have shown us 1/4 of your life. 🥺🥺🥺🥺😍😍😍💝💝💝💝💝💝

[@Princessm2025]

Your hair is sooooo gorgeous and goals here, you look beautiful! 💖 Also I’m in my late 20’s now and I’ve been watching you for awhile and I always admired how independent you are even when you were in a relationship. Proud of you making a choice that was best for you and I think you made one you’ll be so happy about later on ❤️

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you!

[@anayakaursidhu]

As a viewer hearing your take on the breakup, it’s so refreshing to have that positive long term outlook on looking back at your life and seeing the choices that you made, whether they were easy or hard. Sending you lots of love and I can’t wait to see what is ahead for you and your channel 🤍

[@podcastmah]

Girl you have no idea how much I am reflecting about everything you said, being single sometimes can make us sad but at the same time can make us learn new things, find out who we are without someone by our side... I have been trying to take care of myself but what I forget is about my mind, it's toxic rn how much my mind does make me a person who I am not. I love this version of you being just positive ❤

[@meganmicha_]

I’ve always looked up to you and YOU genuinely make me feel so much more motivated and willing to move forward. Hope everything’s okay and you got this

[@katerinamelissari8192]

Honestly I've said it and I'll say it again. No other person has ever made me feel more comfortable with myself and life. Espessially now I'm going through a hard time (break ups as she said) and honestly after this video I felt that I have actaully done something with my life and I'm not longer in the same place as I used to be. Thanks for sharing something so private, I hope you're doing fine, xoxo

[@fernandaraamirez]

❤❤❤❤

[@evananaa]

THE WAY I JUMPED OF HAPPINESS WHEN U SAID U WERE THINKING ABOUT MOVING TO NY!! THAT ERA WOULD BE SO ICONIC OMG

[@Ms.A_O]

Thank you for always considering your community and being open, quite very open in my opinion, and transparent with your life. I could feel your apprehension in sharing some information but what I found most inspiring was that "you did you!" You shared what you wanted and kept what you wanted (cheers to boundaries👏🏽🥂)... Now community, please leave little Fern alone, everyone is entitled to whatever privacy level they deem for themselves.

[@hasmikasatryan2947]

I'm in my early 20s myself, and sometimes it feels so hard and scary. Up until this point in my life, I've always known what I was going to do next, but now I don't-like, what am I supposed to do after graduating college? What do I truly want, just me, without any pressure or influence? Change is scary, but the way you talked about it in this video made me realize that it's normal to feel this way. Letting go of some things to move to the next chapter is part of the process. Change really is the only constant.

[@SamaraPaacheecoo]

Girl we completely understand that you don’t even know how to say it, it’s been almost 5 years! We are here for you Fern🩷

[@Mr865501]

I have to say this video made me a little emotional. It’s so beautiful to see women have the option to explore themselves. It’s beautiful to see more women love themselves. I hope you know that you’re inspiring young and older gals. Thank you for being yourself hun! 🫶🏼✨

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹🥹🥹🫶🏻

[@little.devotional]

Fernanda, you are an ANGEL 🪽girl your light is vibrating through my screen. You’ve give us so much wisdom beyond our years from just your own experiences and growth 🥹🤍 what a blessing

[@fernandaraamirez]

ahhhh I really appreciate you! Thank you love😭🤍

[@ananyaanna958]

I love your podcasts so muchhh it's so relaxing and fun to listen to while I write my school record ( which is very long) and I could sit for hours hearing all of ur podcasts and not procrastinating LOVE IT!!

[@CHK12319]

I've been with my fiancé since I was 18 (10 years). We had breakups at 22, 24, and 26. They were SOOOO GOOD for our personal growth and ultimately made our relationship way better. We all need some independent time in our 20s to explore who we are and what we want. And sometimes, that brings you right back to your first love! Wishing you all the best :)

[@mariamirau8106]

fernanda you are so freaking pretty. youre hair suits you❤

[@MikaylaWold]

Hey Fernanda! I've followed you for a while now and completely understand how you feel. You don't want to feel your leaving people in the dark and brushing over things, but don't also want to have every little detail out on social media. Know matter what you do or don't want to put out into social media we will always support you. We love you Fern!

[@folkI0vermore]

you’re the only youtuber that i never get bored of and still feel the same excitement every time she releases a new video. so many people also feel that way and we’ll always be here supporting you through the ups and downs 🩷🩷

[@camzcamera]

I’m so happy and proud of you for coming forward and really letting everything out. I love you Fernanda and now’s your time to finally show yourself some true love 💞💞

[@sumaiyasamina]

You're such a beautiful soul and I really look up to you. I totally understand when you said you feel uncomfortable with people being empathetic towards you because I feel the same way. This is a great era for you to discover yourself and step into your power. You are seriously amazing and I always love your content.

[@kaylilipsey]

I saw on snap the TV falling and the comment about get a man and was like woah😮 I’m 23 and I just went through the HARDEST breakup physically my heart was hurting for months but there is no timeline in healing. We are here for you take your time beautiful and best wishes. Being single in your 20’s can be so funnn!! Love you❤❤

[@burcuw7047]

Fern, you are truly like a friend. You said you had to post on KZbin, but I hope you don't feel guilty when you don't upload a video because we are here like friends. We are people, friends, waiting when you need us, not like a job you have to do all the time. I hope I made you feel good, just as you made me feel good. I hug you from my heart and I will be watching the new chapter of your life ❤🎀🫂

[@justinevirtudazo1]

I've been watching you since 2020 and knowing about this saddens me. I hope you both find your way back to each other. I love you🩷

[@juanitabrown5145]

Goodness. My heart goes out to you and him. There’s no “right way” to handle breakups. But, your well thought out response/position on this was damn near perfect.⚖️👌🏽 It was beautiful, and profound. I am a slightly older sub, but to me your talks are just as insightful as those of an older person. So proud of you, Fern! Wishing you the best for this next chapter.

[@fernandaraamirez]

i appreciate you!!! thank you

[@ahlexiahuerta1939]

i loved this video so much i feel so validated 🥹🫶🏻❤️

[@Q_orel]

hi love! i normally don't comment but i've been seeing your vids for so many years now and i just want to say as much as it is sad, honestly something i didn't even think was possible, i am also so happy for you. as you said it is a new chapter and you are now rediscovering yourself as an individual and there is so much beauty in this. i follow you basically everywhere and it has been a pleasure to grow up with you. i will miss your content with him but we are here for you and you only! and i am more excited for this next year of you! happy to see how this chapter will grow on you :) whishing you the best always

[@denisedeharenne1270]

Fernanda I met you this year and you inspire me to be the best version of myself. You inspire me to embrace my personality and work on myself so I can arrange my room the most aesthetically way, make meaningful decisions for me to feel aligned with what I want and just try my best and trust that everything will come in time. What you said in this video resonates with me a lot since I've been trying to find out who I am without talking to my friends as much, and it's been very difficult. With being chronically online you get so much fomo and I have been so dependent on other people instead of focusing on my goals and making my dreams come true. I don't want to be like that anymore and my 23th birthday is coming closer and closer, and what I want for this new year is to be more true to myself, hold myself accountable and respect me and what I want and what I feel first. I'll be watching every video you upload in this new chapter gladly! All the love from Argentina ❤

[@fernandaraamirez]

love you sm!! wishing you the best🎀

[@noramuffincake]

Thanks for opening up with us fern ❤ I really respect the way you’re talking about it, with such maturity and wisdom. Proud of you for making this choice for yourself, since it’s such a hard choice to make

[@fernandaraamirez]

I appreciate you🤍

[@Xxcalzzxx]

I really needed this video right now cuz I’m on the same page in life and it’s making me feel a little more assured it’s the right decision 💕

[@ChhayaRabari-no9zq]

I'm really sorry to hear about your breakup, Fernanda. I hope you're taking care of yourself during this time. Sending you lots of love and strength as you move forward. 💖

[@fernandaraamirez]

Thank you so much!

[@dailygemini111]

as a 15 years old teenage girl, i really hope to have your emotional intelligence when i grow up. it just makes me so happy seeing a beautiful woman like you knowing her worth and how to treat herself 🥲💗

[@juh_virreto5354]

girl, you’re like the older sister i never hadd. loved our chat, sending you love🩷

[@Sofa.TraSh.01]

thank you for sharing! take ur time girlie! loving urself is what i need too🩷

[@ledalavado2532]

You’re such an inspiring and wonderful woman ❤ I really hope you get the best out of your healing journey 🌸

[@camillepayne2448]

I am so excited to keep seeing your journey Fernanda. Your videos have been such a bright light in my world since I began watching them as a teenager. Now I'm at the beginning of my 20s and I feel so lucky to be inspired by your authenticity! You make the world feel like a less lonely place for so many people (trusttt). Wishing you the bestest vibes and energy and whatnot💗

[@fernandaraamirez]

love you sm!

[@emilysmith8066]

you are such a beautiful soul fernanda! you are so inspirational and im so grateful to be able to watch your videos!

[@fernandaraamirez]

Thank you so much!!

[@her7450]

I know you said you feel pretty good now and proud of yourself for picking yourself back up but just remember that healing is not a linear process. You’ll feel happy for like two weeks straight and then randomly crash down and cry about it again. Just remember that’s it’s all part of the process. You’re strong and you got this! TIME HEALS ALL 🫂🤍

[@fernandaraamirez]

🤍🤍🤍

[@drishijain7922]

I just got out of a long term relationship over month ago too, and I have a tattoo that says “555” too. I’m 22 right now and in a similar phase as you. I really connected/realted with you there. This entire video resonated so much! Thanks for sharing and making us feel less alone. Sending so much love and healing your way❤️

[@fernandaraamirez]

omg i love that!!!!🥹🤍

[@momof3sallah808]

the way i jumped on the sofa and grabbed a drink and a snack when i saw fernanda posted🤭🤭ahhhh fernanda you are such a woman of wisdom and i am always so happy when you post🎀🤍you are so good with handling change and encouraging people who aren’t. love youuuu😘😘😘

[@fernandaraamirez]

🤍🤍🤍

[@annamactal]

From the earliest videos, you’ve always been an amazing communicator and storyteller. You’ve always inspired me and brought nothing, but peace, passion, and motivation to my life. I am so proud of you and excited for more adventures! Love you :)❤️

[@fernandaraamirez]

thank you so so much!!

[@tifanyverah]

Am 28 now and from the day I started following you I really adored your journey and wish I choose myself more in my early 20s...fern your on the right track just embrace every chapters of your life make it a beautiful novel book💖

[@tackywacky5654]

so proud of you fernanda youve grown so much! thank you for sharing this information with us

[@fernandaraamirez]

Thank you so much!!

[@pamelanicoletv]

Thanks for opening up Fern ❤️

[@laucarrelli]

What you said about entering a new era and how change isn’t a bad thing just healed something in me and I’m so grateful to watch your videos 💗💗

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹🤍

[@hannahalba6770]

Fernanda, you have such a way with words. This video filled me with so much hope, and I just had to let you know how much your energy and positivity mean to me (to all of your subscribers!) I’ve been watching you for so many years, and it brings me so much joy to see how far you’ve come. You continue to grow and evolve into an even more amazing woman every day, and it’s such a privilege to witness that journey. Your videos inspire us in ways I can’t even describe, and I’m so grateful for all that you share with the world!

[@fernandaraamirez]

this means so much to me! Thank you for your kind words💌

[@ReeseJadeHerron]

you are such an inspiration as a content creator and as a person!! you truly inspire me to live my life authentically and with love!! so proud of you Fernanda!! love you always girl!! 🩵 HAPPY BIRTHDAY BTW!!! 🩵

[@aislinnvegaa]

This video felt like when I got together with a friend to catch up on each other's lives. I love that I feel that connection with Fernanda, as she is my inspiration. I was shocked by some things, but I love that she is willing to talk to us like this. 💗

[@fernandaraamirez]

🥹😊

[@deepmalikabajgain971]

I loved seeing you both together i thought you would end together but I'm very excited for your new era ❤ go on!!!

[@fernandaraamirez]

Thank you so much!!

[@KennaMarie]

proud of you

[@fernandaraamirez]

💕💕💕