I from Malaysia cant write in Chinese. Just wonder is it I wrongly understand financial independent? I just thought both ppl earn and spend on their own, like some house wife no financial independent caused they had no income source. But still they are funny to discuss whether couple should disclose their financial spending to other? I feel it depend, some ppl if become lazy they better dont let them know. So far I know some guy, they not willing to put efforts on earning as long as enough to use.