Fiancé's Late Wife's Sisters Destroyed My Car and Harassed Me for "Replacing" Her

Fiancé's Late Wife's Sisters Destroyed My Car and Harassed Me for "Replacing" Her - I'm Taking...

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3 ай бұрын

Fiancé's Late Wife's Sisters Destroyed My Car and Harassed Me for "Replacing" Her - I'm Taking Legal Action and Gave Him an Ultimatum to Go No-contact or I'm Gone.
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@c.a.2945 3 ай бұрын

That fella is a keeper, those sisters, while grieving, had no damn excuse, and the dad needs to stop excusing their bullshit.

@yeahyeahyeah3724 3 ай бұрын

Apparently, though, it's not about grieving. The 24 yr old is into OP's fiancee. That's why they hated her.

@c.a.2945 3 ай бұрын

@yeahyeahyeah3724 no shit. thats why its not an excuse.

@yeahyeahyeah3724 3 ай бұрын

@@c.a.2945 yeah, no sht either. 🙄🙄🙄

@yeahyeahyeah3724 3 ай бұрын

@@c.a.2945 what are you even saying? I'm not even saying that it's an excuse cuz her harassing a woman because she's interested in her dead sister's husband is so much worse. I'm pointing out that they are not grieving. One of the sisters wanted the guy for herself. And neither of those are excuse for their actions. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

@c.a.2945 3 ай бұрын

@yeahyeahyeah3724 You really don't need to over explain the obvious, especially when I agreed with you. Ergo "no shit". Its not that hard.

@Deedoof 3 ай бұрын

'We committed multiple felonies with threats to commit more, but it's OP's fault if we go to jail!" Sure guys.

@penguinpingu3807 3 ай бұрын

Both need to go into a mental asylum.

@likemikevr 2 ай бұрын

Ngl he may be having an affair with the therapist but that’s just a theory a Reddit theory

@thepungod6614 3 ай бұрын

“You aren’t angry that he replaced your sister and he’s moved on to me, you’re angry that he didn’t replace her with YOU” is something I would have said

@penguinpingu3807 3 ай бұрын

This sounds like a comeback I would make in the shower after getting insulted.

@thepungod6614 3 ай бұрын

@@penguinpingu3807 honestly same here. I say it’s something I would have said but I highly doubt I’d have the motor skills to say something like this in the moment

@mrlag7532 3 ай бұрын

Same honestly but I’d be in a shower feeling annoyed I missed the chance to say it

@alext9320 3 ай бұрын

Refreshing to see the OP's fiancé actually turn out to be sane. You can tell reddit was pushing for her to dump him and calling her a doormat because he didn't immediately blow up. Seeing someone you thought you knew well just turn on a dime and be utterly vindictive can be shocking, and it's totally understandable to just be stunned in the moment. He did the right thing once he processed it though.

@Maninawig 3 ай бұрын

True. Because of their strong ties to his LW, their betrayal could also be felt like a betrayal to his memories of LW as well. So I do admire how quickly he was able to gather himself.

@onlittlecatfeet 3 ай бұрын

When you ask something in reddit you will get various reactions from other redditors, good advice or bad advice, legal or illegal, the decision is yours and reddit is not responsible for all outcome

@christophernoble76 3 ай бұрын

Reddit is always ready to cut people off on behalf of other people

@Olimar92 3 ай бұрын

"So she won't come and see us?" ignoring the harassment and the damage done to the vehicle I see. They never got over the death of their sister, and I don't think they ever will. What caused them to even attempt to get to know her is finding out how badly they fucked up. Good on the fiance for getting his head on straight with his Late Wife's family. Yes they are close, and lost someone close to them, but such a violent reaction is not cool.

@Mernom 3 ай бұрын

Also ignoring the fact that she ALREADY DID come to see them, even willing to drop the charges, yet they threw it in her face at the time. Only when the amount of money and the threat of jailtime came did they change their tune.

@sophiaisabelle0227 3 ай бұрын

Oh, shit. You see, that's expensive. You don't even know if insurance gonna cover all that. Good luck to you. I'm sure you'll figure that shit out soon enough.

@flyboy6392 3 ай бұрын

most policies if they haven't paid off the car, require comprehensive coverage, and totaled like that, you NEED a police report

@Maninawig 3 ай бұрын

Given that there is things like engine issues, even the mechanic said it might be a writeoff.

@hollywu7768 3 ай бұрын

Doing something to the engine is an murder attempt. In the worst case scenario, OP could lose her life driving broken vehicle. Those girls need to go to jail.

@archon7105 3 ай бұрын

Not just her other people. Unkown substances in the engine can turn it into a literal bomb

@eaglewarrior7979 3 ай бұрын

Honestly I’d think the guys dead wife would want him to find love again I know I would if I died I’d want my significant other to find love again.

@minustheone80 3 ай бұрын

Bruh it's like the same of bs on the level of Being mad at your ex for leaving after you cheated Like it's so bs and someone with basic knowledge of this shit can easily tell who's in the wrong

@DatOneSwedishBoi69 3 ай бұрын

@@minustheone80 the way you worded this sounds like how lyrics are worded

@lalaalaaalaaaa 3 ай бұрын

Yeah and he was only 22 FFS. Do they expect him to be single for ever?

@epimetheaus1214 3 ай бұрын

Now this story needs an update, I wanna see how the court proceedings play out.

@Vordun 3 ай бұрын

Everyone is saying that the dude is a keeper. In my opinion OP is a keeper, I don't think many women could handle this situation so well.

@emily.letsendbslintheuk554 3 ай бұрын

Those sisters gave majpr issues, my cousin sadly died of cancer when she was in her mid 30s and left behind 3 young kids and a hisband, the family have kept in touch with her husband and were very encouraging when he started dating again and really like his new partner. Yes they are still grieving (it has been nearly 20 years now but the pain still exists but they know that my cousin wouldnt want him to stay alone for the rest of his life xos age loved him and so would wish him to be happy.

@BrownLove7562 3 ай бұрын

Thank you. That’s how you move on and let someone be happy! It’s really sad how they’re not letting him move on. He can pay his respects to his LW, but sitting around moping and not dating anyone for the rest of his life is what’s gonna hold him back. It’s never good.

@emily.letsendbslintheuk554 3 ай бұрын

@@BrownLove7562 exactly, I could sort of understand the younger sister being upset (although not to this degree) but the middle sister was getting on him, it's like she had in her head he can't move on with anyone else unless it's me and that's some weird shit to me, tbh I could never ever see any of my mates ex's being in a relationship with me let alone any of my sisters, if they cared about him even a tiny tiny bit then they would want him happy

@JBTFan124 3 ай бұрын

The fiance is surprised that the meet up didn't go well? After they trashed OPs car? But he's, in OPs words, calculating? Dude has no spine

@josephskelatin3943 3 ай бұрын

Why is everyone on the internet so cynical and pessimistic? You can't just accept that he'd assume the best from 2 girls he's known for years even after they mess up, no, he just has to be "spineless". He handled it better than 90% of people ever would.

@JBTFan124 3 ай бұрын

@josephskelatin3943 "Even after they mess up". You mean commit crimes? Go grow a spine as well.

@JBTFan124 3 ай бұрын

@josephskelatin3943 Assume the best? He hid his engagement because he knew this would happen. He knew his old spouse's family were 100% not cool with this. He didn't defend his fiancee after his old spouse's family vandalized her property. Couldn't stand up to them when they were insulting his fiancee to her face and cried instead, forcing the fiancee to drag him out. If this is handling things well, I'd love to see how you handle things. If there are two parties you love, but one party is acting psychotic, and emotionally, financially, and legally harming the other, you are a spineless whimp not standing up for the clearly wronged party. You'd rather be a yes man and have everyone like you than standing up for what's right

@josephskelatin3943 3 ай бұрын

@@JBTFan124 He'd be spineless if he let it continue on and on and on. He hid the engagement because he knew they wouldn’t be cool be with it, but how can he assume they'd start vandalising property or making threats? They hadn't done anything like that before, so how can he just assume they would now? He likely assumed they'd be irritable or petty, not downright criminally insane. He's known them a long time, it only makes sense he'd give them the benefit of the doubt. That's not a fault within him, most people would do the same. Once he acknowledged how bad it was he immediately went on to put a stop to it. He tried to be civil and tried to appeal to their rationale, and once he realised they had none, he escalated. I promise you this is one of the most normal and realistic responses to a situation you'll ever see on reddit stories like this. What would you do in his situation? You need to remember that in real life, there are other things to take into consideration, not everything is one-dimentional and most people don't drop their affection for people they've known a long time at the slightest provocation, no matter how looney it seems.

@JBTFan124 3 ай бұрын

@josephskelatin3943 After they vandalized her car, that should of been it. Going there to try and reason with them, then crying as they insulted his fiancee to her face is spineless. What would I have done? If anyone from my family, who I love dearly, vandalized my wife's car and wrote "Whore" on it in paint, I'd call the cops immediately, I'd message them and tell them they were cutoff effective immediately until they remedied the situation. Any meet ups with them would be at my house, and the second they said 1 word of insult to my wife, they would have a police escort out the door. The idea of sitting there crying while people called my wife the things they called OP is insane.

@mxandrew 3 ай бұрын

this is just tragic, wish the sisters could take responsibility for their emotional immaturity but i guess not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

@MrJello8bw 3 ай бұрын

How do you make that shrug thing is it like facemoji

@MrJello8bw 3 ай бұрын

Nvm

@Maninawig 3 ай бұрын

The eldest is 24, OP is 25. We can see the maturity one year can make _/¯(ツ)¯\_ (sarcasm)

@mxandrew 3 ай бұрын

@@MrJello8bw i have a keyboard shortcut for it lol

@morganleanderblake678 3 ай бұрын

ew. Homeboy is not your slave, sisters. He gets to make a choice.

@arthries 3 ай бұрын

Dude's a keeper.

@andrewthomasprism9388 3 ай бұрын

This dude's a keeper.

@Gray567 3 ай бұрын

Ok not really have to do with the story but when she said she was gonna call her friend who is a mechanic Tom. It reminded me of my dad (his name is Tom and he was a mechanic before I was born)

@hdawes816 3 ай бұрын

Finally a story of a decent couple.

@BloodRawEngine89 Ай бұрын

If LW was half the person OP's fiance remembers her as, she'd probably be absolutely ashamed of her sisters after hearing this. I think that's something they deserve to be told.

@lawsonallen7741 3 ай бұрын

They went after your car & your waiting. Waiting is bad.

@AbhishekKumar-dc3xi 3 ай бұрын

In 3 min,i watch this video

@Owl_bee 2 ай бұрын

I bet the poor wife is spinning in her grave at the horror show her sisters are playing.

@ThePawerStation 3 ай бұрын

Oh yeah, I'm going to confess a crime and state publicly a threat when Ex-BIL is telling me about the charges that are pressing on me. 10/10. PERFECT DAUGHTER. Father failed so bad as a parent.

@dragula131 3 ай бұрын

The only situation I find issue with for the story is how the managed to put something in the engine

@nomechepiaceame 3 ай бұрын

It could be pretty easy actually

@dragula131 3 ай бұрын

@@nomechepiaceame without breaking the latch on the hood it wouldn't be easy. And if that's a piece of info that was left out it still shows a huge continuity error.

@dragula131 3 ай бұрын

@@gonzalez83 But she says it was a volvo. How easy is it for those to be tampered with?

@dragula131 3 ай бұрын

@@gonzalez83 I know. I try not to read too much into stuff with these but sometimes little things just make me wonder why they do some of the things they do

@lillia2479 3 ай бұрын

OP clarified this. They didn't put something in the engine itself. It was in the engine oil.