Fighting With Your Partner? Save Your Relationship! 🙌 II Steve Harvey

Is fighting out of control in your relationship? These tips and real-life examples might be the key to creating a healthier dynamic between you and your partner.
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[@MyWayWendy]

"I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you"..

[@stevenotieno4534]

So sweet

[@BajanBoo]

That is deep

[@Joshua_kojo]

Aye! 💯

[@nyamheria]

@@BajanBoo deep in what way may I ask

[@stevemunene4034]

"are we really in love?" that alone screams

[@M0chaJ0J0]

It sure does

[@valleymcwherter3891]

Steve, PLEASE start a relationship show or podcast!! You give great relationship advice!!

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

I don't agree, he's asking one of the couple to separate.

[@valleymcwherter3891]

@@YourRoyalHighness88 EVERYBODY HAS AN OPINION EVEN IF IT IS WRONG!!!!!

[@lola-zd9eh]

He is the greatest cheater . He was married and cheating to his wife with that marjory .

[@lola-zd9eh]

@@YourRoyalHighness88 he is an evil man and marjory too . Both destroyed a married person and that is why they are together

[@valleymcwherter3891]

PEOPLE NEED TO GET A LIFE!!! NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!! NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!!!!!

[@sunshinepeterson33]

Listen to Steve man , RUN

[@mattmurray7454]

She was the best co host on relationship advice giving. Totally agree with her! This is a big help. Relationships are built on how one were raised. By not learning how to be confident, respectful and courteous will damage any relationship.

[@annamc8228]

I appreciate the couples’ transparencies.

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@lihlezamisa9461]

I love how Steve and Spirit are doing the classic Good Cop-Bad Cop method.😂😭

[@mikemccune7647]

Dude runnnnn last couple

[@JRenee-Sings]

This Lady is off the chain!! She keeps it ALL the way 💯!!! 👍🏼

[@LeBrownGuy]

Thank you Steve for the king and queen advice for that first couple. They needed that more than the argument management.

[@senseimontenegro9703]

An unhealed person can find offense or fault in anything & everything someone does or says. A healed person understands that the actions or words of others have nothing to do with them. Each day, you get to choose which person you will be.

[@name9601]

Neither intend to resolve but to be right.

[@ReanellSelina]

😂😂 he said “ Break up Now!!!”

[@abigailolufunmilayophillip8705]

Excellent approach to sincerely heal in relationships. Love will always win !! Thank you dear Steve Thank you dear Spirit you are a lady with a beautiful spirit.❤❤❤❤❤

[@rolandoanes7596]

Silence has more power than words

[@aniekaniyoho9401]

When couples record their argument one or both of them isn’t keeping real. That person is usually acting composed. It usually is the one who’s recording. So we don’t get to see the full extent of crazy they really get when they get down to it.

[@7spider391]

I don't like it when couples record arguments that's toxic in my opinion

[@yahainHotPink]

Break up Now!! 😂😂😂😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@brianadejesus2966]

This episode was amazingly Funny!!! Steve Harvey got it man. Very talented guy with his words.

[@bestkksser]

I just wanted to say I don’t know what you might be going through Or what situation you’re in right now but I no god is there for you and he loves you God bless everyone who came across.🇧🇸❤️ ~Marcia~😊

[@user-bd9qe8wo8m]

Shut up. God loves you not everyone who goes to him.

[@MrMarimero1234]

Thanks Steve for being the King of your home. And your wife being Queen. That's exactly what I do with my Queen wife and we have a beautiful 30 year marriage with successful grownup offspring.

[@christinaca4681]

She has really good advice thank you spirit ❤️❤️🙏🙏

[@rakeshhuirem6061]

Love is not easy to ignore relationship can win the world

[@teresakelton8286]

I agree totally.

[@debbiemcclure9142]

One thing that you don't do is go to sleep without telling your partner that you love them because♥️ love ❤️is the number one think that's in your marriage love conquers all Amen🙏

[@tlp1160]

That sounds great wonderful cliche love does not conquer all that were true the divorce rate would not be over 50% people do go to bed and don't tell the other person that they love them I think if that works for you that is beautiful so happy that you have found a partner that you can do that with and continue to be the example for others for the majority most people don't know how to be married and most of it is based on mindset selfishness money too many people look at other people's lives and would rather have the Optics of being happy and being in love than actually being in love and fulfilled not understanding what forbetterforworse for sickness and in health till death do you part it never says anything about being happy you have to put in the work marriage is very difficult if you don't work at it I love your optimism continue to believe and never give up love conquers all if you have two people with the same mindset who are willing to push through all of the bull crap and understanding the end result will be love conquers all

[@YusufJolly]

Hello

[@KINGSU2U]

Wow this is great advice.

[@gamingpro6329]

First love from Afghanistan ❤

[@luganoessom1464]

Are you for real man?😲

[@christycapers4715]

*“So why am I hollin’ at the queen”* 👑✨

[@walelu777]

Me and my husband have been happily married 9 years and together 13. This is really good advice

[@lucyferreira7595]

WHY IS IT GOOD ADIVE IF UR IN A "HAPPY" MARRIAGE

[@walelu777]

@@lucyferreira7595 because we do this stuff?

[@minimedical]

​@@lucyferreira7595 a happy marriage is one in which both seek to grow and be better. Wouldn't you want more wisdom in your pocket to help your relationship, not less? I watch people talk about dating tips, I'm married, why would I do that? Because I never want to stop learning about my husband so I want to treat him like you treat a new date. I never want to stop dating my husband.

[@teresakelton8286]

My husband is sometimes dismissive. Counseling helps.

[@ayannalewis8470]

Love the quotes

[@mellowlemon1556]

They are all ACTORS YALL. Great video tho❤

[@teresakelton8286]

My husband is stubborn to. He is like that too. You have to tell them how you feel when he does that.

[@jeanwilson3752]

Please go get some counseling

[@tinaali3686]

Saving this video, Definitely for when I get married soon ❤

[@tamudefoe7115]

🗣MORE PLEASE🔥🔥🔥🔥💞💞...

[@COCOCHI143]

Correct and awesome advice. Enjoying this episode..THANK you Belinda Snyder and COCO Chihuahua.

[@whitneymccurdy7981]

One thing ik is when you have an argument try to resolve it b4 it's too late don't go to sleep without talking to each other I did that three years ago and my boyfriend died it was sooo hurtful cause I didn't even talk to him or tell him I love him and I forgive him😔😔

[@stevenotieno4534]

Don't beat yourself up dear, you learnt your short fall, it's time for you to make up for things.... deeply Sorry for your loss

[@whitneymccurdy7981]

@@stevenotieno4534 well I still do but I think I am trying to get over an thanks thou

[@teresakelton8286]

I have done that and it works with my husband.

[@HyPNoTiCMaN1]

10:36 Steve living his life

[@deborahfreyre3252]

In both videos the woman were the boss, in the second video they're not married. (RUN as fast as you can and don't look back dude) 😳

[@jeanwilson3752]

I agree with you Steve them to need a break it all they can love each other but that doesn't mean that they're good for each other and that's what they don't understand people make excuses for oh I love you and this is an excuse for putting up with stupidity and and getting & being upset 😭 ET Go Home, Now!

[@enochtrust7662]

Nice one

[@keyquestions]

No. 3 is so prevalent in many relationships. Mine included.

[@kwizeralajoie3619]

Appreciate 🔥🔥👍

[@ayannalewis8470]

Also in marriage domestic chores is to share always and compromize with each other

[@NiskaMagnusson]

note how reluctant the husbands seem to be in this situation xD

[@GlendaClarke-ir2cd]

His T-shirt speaks volumes!👕

[@kathylopez1336]

Don't take it to the head you hv to earn respect

[@nathans9090]

Hey Kathy , Apologies for dropping this here I came across your you Tube channel and I would love to know more better if you don't mind, I'm guessing you must be an honest person, because I always found your comments to be a nice and respectful person.if it's okay with you, I'd love to be friend with you, but if it sounds odd or embarrassing in any way please don't embarrass me by replying.hope you're having a wonderful day with your family may God bless you all..

[@NatureForce37]

1st couple: I find it weird when a grown man wants acknowledgement for doing what he's supposed to do (chores), and it's weird that he doesn't pick up his own clothes. 2nd couple: 25 years dating? That's the longest date in history! Shacking up for 25 years is wiiiiild. However, I guess that's why they have no rings or kids; if one of those arguments gets too heated, they can both just pickup and leave, no strings attached.

[@joshua2954]

Steve

[@digthewarmth]

Not her mimicking her man. 🤦‍♀ That is so disrespectful. I'm glad Steve said something. That's definitely not going to work.

[@deathbystereo-]

That first couple. He dresses like a kid and acts like a kid. The guy who says his woman throws stuff against the wall etc. grow some balls and self respect and leave her

[@jasminerobertson4913]

What do you say about a woman who has a man throwing stuff ?

[@deathbystereo-]

@@jasminerobertson4913 the same. But this video wasn’t about a man through anything. It was about the woman. Keep your agenda

[@delconteeallmyharmon5526]

When your stalker think youre in a relationship with them way past delusional!

[@twebazejoseph2128]

Break up now 🤣🤣🤣

[@creating1_c1999]

The first couple is toxic AF. I'm not sure this relationship rolled into marriage simply because they were bored with being single. But she's ALPHA and he's beta. That relationship is not going the distance without taking some souls to hell with it. Second couple...see first couple. They are not in love. They are infatuated with an idea. In order to be in love you have to like the person. And if a person gets you to rage like that, when they do something wrong, what is it about them that doesn't make you bicker...sex? Steve never lied...they are sexually attracted to each other and think that makes it work. both DOAs

[@name9601]

I would agree but I'm shadowbanned .

[@AkireMaru]

Both women are alphas. Both men are betas.

[@dragonfish888]

With the last couple, Steve was right, and Spirit was wrong. They should just break up. Every pot has a lid. It’s way too much work with the wrong person. They should break up and keep looking for someone more compatible. If they don’t, Spirit just got some long term clients.

[@sangeetharavindran87]

True. That guy is like he can't even speak a full sentence in front of her. If he continues the relationship, high chance he is totally going to be treated like a doormat.

[@o_m8717]

Breaking up will not help either party grow. They have independent conflict resolution issues, and even if they were not dating each other, they would still have that same issue. It's something they can work through. And since they want to be with each other, they can get better. The woman just has to learn to be more respectful to the man and let him speak, stop being Betty about things that don't matter, accept her partner, and accommodate his mistakes. And he needs to learn to ask for that.

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

The title of the show is save your relationship, what have you to say about this Steve Harvey?

[@AkireMaru]

It’s a marriage 🙄 Why are people so quick to say “break up”

[@bokarmangane8198]

@@AkireMarulike for real 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@diyallthings]

The last couple should break up!!!!! Run!!!!!!

[@lilianwangui1077]

As a couple 💑 if you forgive your partner at a particular time ⏲️ when you have an argument you should not re -carry the mistakes he/she did to the present forgive and forget When communicating you should not raise your voice talk normal shouting to each other don't prove a point come up with a solution for the problem don't swallow the anger

[@yawscripts3096]

Cohost got any relationship talk channel??? I wanna listen to her some more.

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@ayannalewis8470]

When both spouse are having a disputes is to trach it out on the situation reasoning it out like to both spouse come to solution and keep it goimg

[@aalihadesiree3932]

I speak to my boyfriend in the way that either of these two women spoke/argued with their men and I know I’m getting a SMOOTHHH “We are *not* doing this, Aaliha. Knock it out so we can knock this out.” That is *IF* he don’t just call things off right there for being childish and communicating like neanderthals. These men need to put on they pants and LEAD and these women need to chill tf out respectfully lmao. That second relationship is *not* gunna work AT ALL. She walks ALL over him and he lets her, and she said the quiet part out loud “like are we really in love?” Honey, WHAT?! Nuh-uh. I’m with Steve baby, they need to break up and the first two need to start with some basic ground rules. If a man going out for most of his day to provide and he truly takes care of and loves on his woman, which that first guy seems to be very loving, then why the hell he walking into a house where the dishes aren’t done? I mean like that’s the *first* issue I noticed is wait a minute 🤔 He came home from work to do dishes AND get nagged at?! It is really not that hard ya’ll 😭. Make me your wife, make me a mother, provide for me and our children, be faithful, lead our family well in Christ (that’s #1), buy me some flowers from time to time or something thoughtful, and pay for the things we do/support us and our lifestyle and guess the heck what… I will cook, clean, raise our lil humans well, take your jacket off and hang it up for you when I kiss you hello back from work, you’ll never have to touch laundry ever again, and I am screwing your brains out every 👏🏽 day 👏🏽 like that marriage bed is really undefiled point blank periodttt. You take care of my needs, I’ll take care of yours. Men are SIMPLE creatures dang it. You just gotta make him some good food and run your finger down his spine and he’s happy lmao. Do them damn dishes sis and kiss him with a simple “thank you babe“ for taking out the trash. It’s not that difficult/serious. It’s called ✨compromise✨. My gosh 😭

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@christianmukeba9646]

Steve 🤣🤣🤣

[@jaidenchuwa6055]

Steve: are you two married? Couple: no Steve: break up Lady: no no no no no no Steve: why are you trying to help them? 😂😂

[@LakshaDeirwa]

i will take the stave's advice

[@joshuatekobo98]

Hmmmm

[@missnickelbee7789]

first time here. last time here.

[@imagegotbeats]

She doesn’t respect that man. End of story

[@madboyreadynow28]

The first thing couples need to understand in a relationship. Your man is not your father and should never act like your father and a woman is not his mother and should not be acting like his mother. That is a turn off for both. If your mans clothes are laying around and it bothers you, you should have never married him. Just pick them up or ask if he can pick them up. You shouldn’t wait until marriage to decide this is something that bothers you or that you want to fight about. Learn that everything should not bother you. Not everything has to be an argument. Remember you love this person. So why are you irritated y everything they do? These are things you work on before marriage. If these are deal breakers do not get married. My wife is not the clean one in our relationship. I often do most of the cleaning and ai don’t complain and I don’t care. There are times I remind her ai need her and that’s it. She will help out. I don’t need to argue and fight about simple things. If I found her cheating that’s something to fight about. If she disrespects me that’s something to fight about. I don’t think of my wife as my child. She is my partner. Don’t spend too much time complaining to your partner about everything. They are NOT you and that’s fine.

[@beemonique8466]

Communication skills probably should have been resolved before saying I DO!

[@Krizadh]

Break up.! Good advice😊

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@distorbia20]

Second couple I feel for the boyfriend . Gosh she seems like she needs anger management. Is good they are not married

[@kubuligal2431]

And marriage is not going to make it better. You ca see the rage monster in her. He will be an abused husband

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@neeluphukan7532]

Hey Steve!! My question Is Is it too much to expect flowers and some small surprises from ur boyfriend and to expect him to pay the bill when he made a plan to go out??

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@dayoadesina634]

​@@rosevenus7243I need your advice on my relationship

[@elietc3725]

Yesss that last couple gotta break up

[@betsyhull3733]

He did not intentionally add damage. Can't she acknowledge that he was Trying to help.

[@markmiller7529]

last video they do seem like they could make it happen which is crazy love. i really think the lady is the problem though

[@halidhatim8618]

Only 8 months you guys are arguing already?

[@justjoan4010]

Did they know each other before they got married?

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@carmencitadavis9043]

I'm curious why did they do a video of these people arguing about a car showing the real couple in the video, but the first video they did another couple arguing about clothes on the floor when it was supposed to be an example to the first couple how they are arguing with one another and they're not listen to each other's conversation why didn't they use the actual couple in that video

[@adaughtersheart]

It was same couple. They just look different in the video.

[@senseimontenegro9703]

Yup! It was the same couple. 😆

[@jeanwilson3752]

Steve had said it was them in the video having an argument. Listen....it was them

[@joanneclarke4226]

I'm seeing both of these wife/ women treating and speaking 🔊 😌 to their husbands as though they're children....STOP or else marital breakdown and sadly divorce.....

[@amelaamcovic2647]

Whats the name of the women in the yellow dress? Shes soo wise and smart and confident 😍

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@pimkobben5363]

Who’s the therapist?

[@antonialovesyou4462]

Don't act like a girl be a Woman don't act like boy be a Man. #powerangelattitude #besaved #whenwepray

[@rosevenus7243]

Are you depressed due to the separation with your partner or misunderstanding between you and your partner?

[@pugscaniche7866]

"My feelings "... me me me....... so selfish

[@nancysherry9088]

marriage does not give you permission to become who you truly are after you did everything you could to get that guy into your web, without facing the truths about yourself. or him.

[@Elguasonmorado]

Is she his daughter?

[@colourqueen22]

Same thing I'm trying to figure out

[@kubuligal2431]

No.

[@Catloudan]

Wonder how “funny” it would be if the man was described as a “rage oholic “. So dysfunctional and abusive. Glad they were really real with that couple. Seek help lady!

[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@evelyinipaja7022]

Dating for 25yrs ? The second couple.

[@999SOLOHELIX]

2.5 years

[@stephaniedent6862]

I had to replay the video after I saw the comments. It said 2.5years 🤓

[@damienkeene8000]

Trying to make men soft smh...I'll pass ✌🏾

[@jessicasgarden]

Sorry but she wants out. If a woman complains about every damn thing she wants out. If a man shows little to no interest after the honeymoon stage he wants out. Listen to Steve and go through the heart ache now and eventually someone else come alone the way.!

[@whitneymccurdy7981]

And what the hell would I be doing with a dam man for 25 years and we ain't married 🤔😒 like this is unreal u been living together and doin nth everything a married couple does except the marriage 😅😅😅 this is funny and sad as hell

[@AkireMaru]

2.5 years. Not 25 🙄

[@susannefitzpatrick9955]

I hate the way Steve keeps reading from cue cards written by a Producer. I'm sure he can think up his own questions - come on!!!!

[@juanventura6752]

You are beta Matthew

[@SportAce_]

Lol Steve break up now😅

[@Dr3amUntilYourDr3amsCom3Tru3]

I feel like the angry couple could have got a better advice than that, just saying. :/

[@healingpath4876]

Both of the wives in this video are very control freaks and rude/disrespectful to their spouses. Both marriages don't seem to have a chance to last that long.

[@dennoz2936]

Why is it always women have marriage issues those creatures are terrible if she doesn’t respect you she is not yours

[@jacklineyego5560]

wait did this man just like humble himself and shrink ....ok my husband can leave dirty clothes on the floor I have delt with that for years but he picks me from the couch to the bed...Idk why men have an issue with picking up clothes but..... whatever..,, they are the best....

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[@rosevenus7243]

Separating with your partner is not the best decision, do you need help with your marriage or relationship issues?

[@11marchand11]

both couples are petty... still children.. good luck

[@rolandoanes7596]

So Matthew is a crybaby he doesn't know how to lose to become a champion

[@ebilimmiri]

Don't raise your voice at me, yet do things that trigger me to raise my voice? That's suffocating. I won't comment on their relationship.. yall clearly don't have jurisdictions between men & women in America. Goodluck with that

[@Bianca-sw5id]

I'm sorry it's not his place to wash the dishes it's yours

[@tabitha1821]

Yep if he’s at work all day

[@Bianca-sw5id]

@@tabitha1821 the thing is he should pick up after himself always and she should provide the home environment because these are the gender roles

[@PrincessToad]

Dang I wish I was married to you, you’d make an excellent maid

[@Jangkajere]

@@Bianca-sw5id damn im already in love with you 🥺

[@jonscott234]

@@Bianca-sw5idwhere are you from?

[@jessieeyy908]

25 years? No ring hell with that

[@kubuligal2431]

2.5 years not 25.😢