Steve Harvey Confronts Man In Audience Who Is Unfaithful To His Girlfriend

[@durellemouatcho6503]

This man has stressed this woman to the point where it is visible. Get out sis. Not healthy

[@ZardianoftheGalaxy]

She looks like she's going to shoot him.

[@notmebutyou8350]

Exactly. NOBODY'S stuff is THAT good!!!. NOBODY'S!!

[@DonCornelius366]

You women are all the same. Talking about "leaving". But when its you, you chicks do the same thing - you STAY. Everyone knows it. Or they you ACT tough to your friends, but when they all go home, you tryna holla at a brutha. smh Maybe that's her natural look. You don't know.

[@rosa273]

Tony De Boss man stfu

[@AlwaysSoldierOn]

It’s called old age doofus

[@sweetheartmegz]

She looks pissed & miserable! Move on sis

[@eternalyfeful]

Mae Michelle.....and she could move on with me!

[@vegalee8955]

Mae Michelle she gotta be just like my mother smh.My father cheated for over 30yrs and my mother finalky snapped and shot his ass

[@thearabiangigolo8559]

Mae Michelle __ You are gorgeous 😍

[@smeagole]

Mae Michelle u are so beautifull 😊 Like angel 😍

[@anthonyhoye9399]

She most definitely was pissed and miserable and thats not healthy at all and her previous relationship must of had some flaws also...

[@mscheez247]

Sometimes it’s better off being alone then to deal wit BS

[@murderousintentful]

💯

[@sweetbeauty2153]

Exactly!

[@cherrycola3793]

No BS

[@malaikapaul6315]

Yes

[@CerronPritchett]

All the time

[@dw1878]

"You have to love yourself more than you love him." Greatest advice. Said the same thing to a friend recently.

[@bellagrace9812]

Maya Angelo said it best, "When someone shows you who they are believe them". If a man cheats on you, he has told you all you need to know.

[@CJ_7519]

Same rule goes for women.

[@bellagrace9812]

@@CJ_7519 You are so right!

[@Tomara632]

True... Once the curtain and mask comes down.... Walk away.

[@ekp-g205]

OMG! You know it. The hardest part of this for me was watching the woman sit there 1min after what he did, and we all heard it from his lips...that he has no intension to stop doing. Aaaargh UGH!

[@rodneyplayer5785]

I don't get it this dude is a peice of you know what and this woman is still with him. Why is she still with him?

[@ashleylintez]

I feel so sorry for the fiance.She didn't crack not one smile yet. She's so hurt that she's numb. He doesnt love her.

[@falkyraizu3063]

she cracked many smiles

[@JF32304]

She's codependent.

[@zoelife7272]

SHE DOESN'T love her

[@JF32304]

He's a narcissist and she's hard codependent.... I've seen this before. She loves him more than she loves herself.

[@whisper2284]

His Fiancé is comfortable. She wants her man to do all of the heavy lifting, and to make the decision of leaving or staying up to him. He clearly has abandonment issues. He is unable to let go of past relationships and submit to sex to keep these women close. He is probably getting different things from each women. He probably can share intimate thoughts with one, feel desired by another, receive caretaking from another and get ignored by another. She is too comfortable being a passive, tragic love stricken victim. She is also irresponsible because is this man strapping up?

[@BRITTWOODNESHIE]

Please leave him girl. He's not gonna quit cheating.

[@PUNSHDRUNKBOXING]

Nesha Britwood who is cheating when she knows what he's doing and he acknowledge it?

[@nourishments]

Nesha Britwood you’re

[@LonjeMarie7]

Nesha Britwood true,as long as women will accept that behavior

[@shood35]

She said recently it was revealed. She did not know that he was doing it until she recently found out. So yes he was cheating.

[@MichelleMonet15]

You know she won't. She's gonna stay and just keep complaining abt it and foolishly waiting on him to change smh

[@nieceyfaye1194]

He was a project she thought she could fix. She put her heart and soul in him. Don’t lose yourself in a man

[@bronsonperich9430]

Some sisters need to start getting into fixing cars or real estate. Project men hardly ever work out.

[@treasurearhewoh327]

She discovered it recently, she didn't think she could fix him. She thought he was faithful.

[@LeMerch]

I feel sorry for her. But maybe he can WAKE UP and realise he has a real one and stop messing around because it will catch him in the ass.

[@ebonyk1646]

How a man treats you is how he feels about you.

[@ednaaugustino8735]

I love that

[@ang_ro]

Absolutely true

[@AuthenticallyTee]

Thank you.

[@jenaleefaith7160]

Amen sis

[@CaptainHernandez]

Ebony K that’s so true. Stay Safe 👮🏻‍♂️🚨🚔

[@BeNothingg]

I know this look. SHE IS NUMB she needs to leave. Theres no fixing this

[@amala.x]

Sakeena Khan hey sis, have you been through something similar? i’m going through this right now and I feel so numb I might as well be dead. are you muslim? I am too, i’d love to talk 😭

[@tanjahthompson1402]

💯

[@rayj.9568]

You ladies on this thread have a lot to live for. Seek counsel with a mature person that cares for you. Do not stay in a "helpless" state. You are not helpless. You only think that you are. Your mind is a battlefield. Learn how to heal it and control your thoughts. Your actions will follow. Be blessed.

[@Shabzana]

@@rayj.9568 What a sweet comment, it's crazy the affect men can have on women and the emotional pyschological torture we go through, was married to a narc for almost 8yrs, abusive as f*** and violent too. Shamed me in front of his mum, his sister in law and his whole family in general just chipping away at my self esteem.

[@CaptainHernandez]

I agree with you 💯Stay Safe 👮🏻‍♂️🚔🚨

[@Soychiki_]

She’s miserable and sad yet he’s sitting there smiling 🙄

[@JF32304]

She's codependent. Nothing more.

[@Laurore1000]

I completely agree... When a man is happy in the relationship he's filled with life, energy, a better outlook on life 👍🏿.... But Here comes old beta males try to put these men in the barn and keep them there... Simply put happy woman unhappy man happy man unhappy woman don't hate the player hate the game that's just the way it is

[@Laurore1000]

@MK912 🤔 you gave me a lot to think about..... Is what I would say if I cared

[@ladennayoung2939]

He's a narcissist! That is how you feel when you are in a relationship with them.

[@kresant1507]

Doesn’t mean she is happy

[@felicia-gb7ws]

I've been with my husband almost 20 years, we've been married for 7 of those years. I STILL love myself more than I love him....though I love him very much. He's been there for me through thick and thin. He's helping me raise my two grandchildren, one of which is giving us a lot of problems because he has mental health issues and hard headed on top of that. I'm crazy about my husband, we most definitely are a team. However, if at ANY given moment he tells me he wants to be with someone else, it will hurt. But trust and believe I CAN and WILL move on! I've lost my ONLY child due to domestic violence, so "losing" a husband is nothing. I can get another one if I want to if it came to that. My daughter is not replaceable.

[@andreab293]

I’m sorry for your loss. X

[@felicia-gb7ws]

@@andreab293 Thank you

[@jesstheromantic]

Sending love to you :)

[@queenp3087]

Him screaming out "i agree" when she said you gotta love yourself more than him ...hit a nerve plz girl run & run fast

[@tinebean116]

YES! Like she's on his D* or something & he wanna be left alone. He's tearing her down on purpose!

[@lynnerene]

I peeped that too! I was like OOP 😲

[@mac1bc]

Yep. That D must be too good to leave

[@roksesh4731]

Not oops that is manipulation, ‘if you can do better why are you here’.

[@amiablelampamiablelamp2245]

I think He was talking about himself. He probably thinks everyone is keeping him from self loving and that’s why he said I agree

[@913NUPE]

“Yo old ass need to be in the barn” 😂

[@mst1705]

Terrence Flowers 😂

[@babyboo3123]

Lol you funny 😂

[@preciousluv3922]

Kmsl😄😄😄😄

[@caveman357]

Nah...play on playa!

[@debramays6351]

Terrence Flowers LOL!! Your a hoot Terrence Flowers!!

[@lousunny5682]

“ You gotta love yourself more than you love him.” 💅🏻

[@sterry8895]

When he nodded and agreed that took me out!

[@favored6007]

Preach!

[@kathytownsend2758]

.. which is usually easy

[@ms.gracefullybroken8724]

PERIOD POOH

[@kathykennedy6746]

I was once dating a man and when I found out he was seeing another woman he told me he could not make up his mind between us. I told him I would make the decision for him by removing myself from the equation. So he married her and divorced her 2 years later. I had married someone else myself and felt bad for the other woman who was actually a good person. We became pals after that.

[@official_t5425]

If that’s u in the profile picture then I know ur lying

[@TabbieTales]

@@official_t5425 what a hateful unnecessary thing to say to a stranger. You don’t know her, her history, or the people in her life. Are you so damaged and bitter that you feel a need to hurt others so you are in some way or another not alone in your pain?

[@rachelmanavi4819]

Good for you. That sounds like a win to me

[@WouldntULikeToKnow.]

@@official_t5425 says the coward who doesn't even use a personal photo.

[@victortaylor7737]

I like that.youre a decent woman for that.you set the tone for her to see& even though she got divorced,she didn't need to be with him period.as a man,I hate guys who do that,sets a rotten example& makes the nice guys look bad.but you're a good woman & I'm glad you& the other lady are friends.

[@IconicBlueFlameMB]

I just love how Steve uses humor to lighten a tense and dark situation.

[@sharonmayo9664]

Tense AND dark...for sure!!

[@ilovechristmas985]

That man was mad!😡

[@deloreshowlett3160]

Oh yes he lick the nail on the the head

[@thebastardgift]

He is not going to change. She needs to change for her won well-being and change means, move on.

[@kymberlipomerants5520]

Steve was in his late age when HE cheated with his current wife, so he is a hypocrite.

[@kimmiet.8962]

As Maya Angelou would say, “If someone shows you who they are, believe them...” she was desperate & desperation isn’t worth dignity. I pray things work out for her.

[@solameencuentro]

Kimmie T Exactly!!👏

[@Fromme2yu2]

I completely agree.

[@SoSuave3]

Exactly, maya had 2 white husbands whilst trying to educate blacks on pride!

[@jerseynurse6878]

Kimmie T - amen.

[@michelemibelle]

Omg...so true!!!!!

[@lamirranee6997]

"You have lived longer than you have left" What an extremely intelligent statement from a man old enough to be my father...that I will never forget !

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Can you plz explain what that means?? I never understand that statement! I don't get it

[@myjourneytotruth]

Meaning one has lived most of his years in a lifetime & has couple more years before expiration 😕

[@deborahfairburn6585]

@@bluebellcrushedvelvet the man is 59. 59 years have passed. How many more years does he have? Less than the 59 years he’s already lived.

[@errndog]

intelligent and depressing as hell......just sayn

[@constancemayers4102]

Tell him Steve! His old ass needs to be in the BARN!!

[@J10098]

"you have lived probably longer than you have left" hard sobering reality and the guy's face showed that he felt it.

[@Felix-rising]

Nothing makes me sadder than my wife being unhappy. He has no soul.

[@xoxo-vp7ww]

Ahhh that’s so sweet 🙏 May God continue to bless your union.

[@saundracohen4032]

💕

[@margauxmaria3444]

That's beautiful

[@ilovechristmas985]

Steve was grilling into him! That man was mad!😡 I hoped he beefed up security once that show was over!😃

[@bjojosimpson]

His demeanor changed once Steve told him that he doesn’t have much longer.

[@truerealpearl7781]

Let him go! He's making excuses because his heart is not with this woman 💔

[@DJRenee]

EXACTLY

[@veritatyson6317]

Once she found out about his infidelity she should have left the relationship permanently.

[@back2the80s]

Yeah they ain’t married so why does she stay?

[@elim8792]

@@back2the80s Even in marriage, infidelity is never something to skim over, and accept. Married couples may more likely want to work it out, but it shouldn’t be an expectation

[@Koloviv48i]

I don't agree about her leaving that's why is goo to talk. Talk first. You just can't leave because of every little thing.

[@dani-mv8cv]

@@Koloviv48i cheating is not a “little thing”

[@joshuabrown6350]

But yet she stays 😂

[@MsJones2U.]

If it took for them to be open with his cheating on the Steve Harvey Show….that’s to the extreme and he’s not going to stop. I see no remorse here. He’s probably thinking about how he can be more careful. SMH!

[@roxanneroxanne7425]

She looks tired. I can't imagine how tired her soul is. Yall need Jesus

[@SecretGerms]

jesus... the guy who cuts my lawn?

[@e.e9596]

@@SecretGerms a dude that cuts you lawn is named jesus?

[@SecretGerms]

Emmanuel enweliku yes

[@tommoore2012]

@mindset venom Prove it.

[@empiretvgh]

Yes they do need Jesus

[@JF32304]

He's a narcissist and she's codependent.

[@juliuscaesar756]

Every time ah man does something very wrong y’all automatically call them narcissist y’all are ridiculous all y’all women are narcissist but are in denial

@@juliuscaesar756 . ....are you guilty??

[@juliuscaesar756]

Florine Taylor are you in denial

[@juliuscaesar756]

Florine Taylor there is all kinds of narcissist what category do you fall in

[@juliuscaesar756]

Florine Taylor LoL 😂 you’re in denial

[@jungkooksmom6990]

She already accepted it by staying in a relationship for 3 years. Oh baby I would have left right after I found out Edit: I’m really happy to see you all discussing this I’m my comments and no one bashing one another . You all have my respect . It’s good to know sane people still exist in this cruel heartless world 💕

[@svnnfade4285]

It’s not that easy to leave someone who u love

[@jungkooksmom6990]

Svnn Fade shid. I loved the hell out of my ex but left cause he cheated . I wasn’t about to be that dumb ass girlfriend 😂 hell no. You cheat once we done period all it takes is one time .

@@svnnfade4285 ....TRUE, but the end result will be the same. He's that old and doing this bc there is no incentive. Bc she takes it.... You can love and still leave. You hv to care about yourself.

[@michaelrodriguez5642]

On baby

[@jmoney228]

@@svnnfade4285 it is when you realize if they don't love you

[@luv2travel2000]

Steve, you made me laugh when you told the story about when that man gets to the gates of heaven. Best way to communicate is with respectful humor and you do that! Blessings 🛐

[@jamedraa8472]

Apparently, she's the only one in a monogamous relationship.

[@mikejohnson6250]

Damnn her face tells 100 emotions & storys..

[@grettapaisley2077]

YES it does

[@wolfy4734]

I can't see that

[@Maricalo87]

Looks like she is emotional and losing so much weight of depression.

[@heyhuda56]

Mike johnson straight up man

[@kdeloris2225]

I love your comment❤

[@marfialennox2642]

When my marriage of almost 30 yrs finally hit its end, my then husband who cheated, disrespected and cheated, came back to pack. I sat on the bench at the foot of the bed, numb and lost, and I said to him, “the problem through all of this was, I loved you too much.” His reply, “I guess so.” I lost all words that day…but for the grace of God. After my healing began, he came asking me back, and I was able to tell him, with no animosity, “your wife is dead. I killed her. Now I’m here, and I promise, I am not the one for you.” Long story short, I hope she finds herself before it’s too late.

[@Biscuit9891]

Marriage yikes

[@marfialennox2642]

@@Biscuit9891 LOL. Nah! It’s not yikes. It’s a beautiful covenant. The problem is the man or the woman involved, sometimes both.

[@musicneurons7807]

I hope you get to enjoy everything you deserve!

[@marfialennox2642]

@@musicneurons7807 How sweet Thank you

[@supkirsten]

Good for you, Marfia! The only thing worse than being in a bad marriage for almost 30 years, is being in a bad marriage for almost 30 years and 1 day. 💜

[@nicolerrichardson]

Nothing hurts worse than seeing a woman who's going through something that I've already been through. Thankfully, I learned early. I just pray to God that this woman's eyes are opened sooner than later.

[@rickiaharrison4052]

59 years old and still cheating? Somebody pass this man some Centrum silver and a rocking chair so he can get somewhere and SAT THE HELL DOWN somewhere!

[@aneta5196]

Rickia Harrison 😂👏🏻 How about straight to a senior home!!

[@shyanmurray2748]

Oh please,older ass men still wish they could cheat if only they could sustain an erection.LOL

[@tonydeboss3838]

And you however old you are and still think you CUTE...you go sit yo azz DOWN and take that circus clown makeup off

[@DonCornelius366]

… did you say that to Steve Harvey concerning his SECOND (oh no, opps, I mean, THIRD) wife?

[@AlwaysSoldierOn]

Lol umad

[@aprilaries164]

She’s not a victim. She’s staying repeatedly hoping he’ll eventually choose her. She gotta choose herself

[@tiberiusedwards3968]

Right cause sia looks broken he ain't gonna change

[@randicarwell6230]

unfortunately she is a victim of her own fear and low self esteem.

[@blessed5545]

It's just like a drug addict, they have to hit rock bottom a lot of the time to stop. She hasn't hit her yet. Until then, she's going to keep being hurt. He's not going to change, but she can. I hope one day she hit her rock bottom at let that go because, you don't know the blessings you are passing up holding on to mess like that. I know, I've been there

[@lovelyhope2664]

Exactly,they've been allowing him for so long that he didn't deem it wrong. She's no different!

[@ChillPotatoChipz]

🙌🏾

[@TK-cw4yi]

He says, “ I agree” when she says “you gotta love yourself” Makes me believe that he sees she don’t love herself and that’s why he knows she’s not leaving him.

[@amazonwoman2747]

Bravo TK! Brrrraaaavo! 👏

[@sweetertheberry660]

Exactly!!!!! I hope she moved on , learned from this experience and is happy now.

[@aveidasimms3649]

Exactly when he said “I agree” that man knows she won’t leave so he will continue to cheat...

[@mercmouth1]

I was gonna bring this up and then I found your comment

[@andrabb4125]

Men like him purposely seek women like her because they know they are easier to manipulate because they lack self esteem and the ability to stand up for themselves. HATE MEN LIKE THAT😣😣😣😣

[@rifasheriffdeen9513]

Hit the nail on the head, loved every word the panel & Steve said

[@jigsaw924]

If you cheated with a person, they can't be your friend.

[@melodyjane630]

Not even cheating with them, you don’t have sex with your “friends”

[@lukundamimi1875]

U know

[@amberpace4016]

That part

[@dindjarin559]

Exactly!

[@deeward729]

This. man. is. Disgraceful. Leave. Lady

[@AngelicDiva1988]

This man still bout to cheat 🤣🤣🤣

[@missb6064]

It's not funny.

[@nikkitrice5808]

Exactly smh

[@teena5723]

Yep

[@Bubblegumbananawamma]

With every bone in his body 😭😭

[@ljanicelee5870]

With his old ass....

[@silverdropstang]

“You teach people how to treat you”... She should kick him to the curb asap and never look back

[@melsop54]

As a married man...I no longer have female friends. For me, for us, we don't even want the perception of infidelity. We are friends with plenty of couples and I hang out with the dudes all the time, she hangs out with the ladies, and we all hang out together, but when I said "I do", my individual female friendships ceased in the shape they were in before. And no reasonable man or woman would be opposed to that.

[@Account-br9kc]

beautiful

[@Kiahnni]

Ugh the stress & pain on this woman’s face is so visible. I hope she chooses herself. ♥️

[@sharonedwards7600]

I saw it as well🥺

[@gretawandrick1902]

I know that's right

[@purpledancerbmw5279]

She won't

[@dmariots]

Don't choose a man that's a player that's been sleeping around. 30% of men are childless and don't get sex those are the men that would appreciate you.

[@Kiahnni]

@@dmariots Based on your comment, I guess you fall within that 30%. I hope the heartbroken woman in this video finds your comment & seeks you out so you both can have everlasting love! Best wishes to you both! ☺️

[@doclenkaz923]

3:21 - Garcelle: “Cathy, I also feel like you have to love yourself more that you love him” 3:27 - Geoffrey: “I AGREE” Right there! he already knows her weak point and he’s unapologetically exploiting it! He will continue to do so until she wakes up.

[@anniemarie2044]

Doc Lenkaz I thought the same thing!

[@sexyma12345678910]

Right ofc he knows shes weak and juss uses her as men who chronically cheat do , he dnt care he knows shes a doormat and doesnt have respect for her or women in general but seeing how the women he has sex with act n how they all accept sleeping with the same man , he has no real reason to stop

[@natalieblack6192]

Sociopathic behaviour

[@AishaDiane]

He’s a narcissist! He has no intention to do right by her. She has to make a decision to love herself and want better for herself.

[@musicneurons7807]

4:38 i notice He doesn't rush to agree with Steve about how he wants his 3 daughters to be treated in relationships. And I don't think its because he wants his 3 daughters to find a man like him. I think he holds a straight face because he believes he'll never let his daughters get dogged the same way he treats his fiancé. Idk why, but to me, that is the most wicked cold hearted part of his actions. Because she's someone's daughter too! And one day she WILL love herself. Noone accepts this crap forever.

[@cperterpan6860]

She looked so happy when Steve said your old ass need to be in the barn.

[@OffgridAz]

🤣

[@sandrajackson9893]

😂😂😂

[@tanjahthompson1402]

🤣🤣🤣 She Did

[@Kammycreationz]

🤣🤣😂😂🤣

[@modenam9046]

Steve, you are a righteous man. Your wife (and yourself) are blessed, thank you for using your platform for good!

[@tetgirlnxtdoor]

The question is... *WHY IN THE HELL ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM?*

[@ednaaugustino8735]

Still wondering 😔😔

[@traceyramdehal8227]

Exactly!

[@LBPHealing]

Even worse, for three years?!? 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@JF32304]

Codependent.

[@gmanmajor5079]

Its female nature

[@FantazomiXroma]

The man is wearing a fedora. Let him goooo 😂

[@TrinaBinaBaby]

😂😂🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂

[@MortarMike]

facts! Fedora aren't red flags, they're red parades lol

[@eclectica1]

Hey, don't bring the hat into this.

[@gypsyhermitishtarot]

aahahahahahahaha.... That's funny. Yeah, hoes are not for marriage. smh

[@SwEtchinmusic]

@@eclectica1 oh man, you're one of them too.

[@user-tp3yj2iw6h]

The woman looks really broken and sad

[@fayepatrice1672]

H He has an evil look about him. I bet he took all of this out on her after. I am not saying he hits her but emotional abuse will shred your soul.

[@Misssixty510]

Faye Patrice yes, you can sense it on him, that bone deep unbothered stillness like a psychopath. He knows that he has her joy, happiness and zest for life in a mason jar under his kitchen sink - and he clearly enjoys it, it affirms his ‘superiority’. I hope she ran for her fking life.

[@juellzzdrizzy]

RUN!!!!! YOU CAN'T FIX HIM.. HE DOES NOT THINK HE IS BROKEN.

[@whitneyrideout4553]

She is beautiful. There are plenty of men that would be willing to treat her right

[@khaledalhamad9657]

I bet there aren't. Why is she not married? What happened? She's old and ugly and she has little to no options. Now look I know I'm not being a charmer by any means calling her "ugly" but looking at her face is not super pleasing you see. Now she can be the most kind sweetheart on the planet but men her age that are able to connect with her are going to ignore her because most men her age are married or are in relationships with women with the same situation as her. So moral of the story is that she can't be as picky as all of you think she can and she knows. What do you think she would do if that man cheated on her when she was 20? Huh? She would've probably dropped his ass. But now, she doesn't. Because she's old and that's life sometimes. I'm sorry if I triggered negative emotions but I'm not the creater. I'm not God. And I also feel sad for her and I hope that she finds her peace.

[@chocolatenikki]

Khaled Alhamad I know everyone has their opinion, but you’re straight up lying. That woman is not ugly. Although she does fail at using discernment, low self esteem while being a pushover, overall she seems like a good woman.

[@chocolatenikki]

Khaled Alhamad Also, why is it her fault for not being married?? As you said, “most men her age are married or in relationships with women with the same situation as her”, so who’s really on the losing end here?? Marriage doesn’t equate to commitment. So that means nothing. LoL

[@UFAGear]

Nah beautiful my ass. She is staying because Jeff pays the Bill's. He shouldn't change anything... other than dumping her.

[@Nadia-du8vb]

Khaled Alhamad you are an embarrassment to Arabs. Grow up! She’s not ugly and I would rather be alone than have someone treat me like this

[@jasminerobertson4913]

I love that line. "You have probably lived longer than what you have left."

[@1232-e7b]

Especially with that gut. I sense a heart attack

[@obie4366]

More like twice as long as he has left!

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

What does that mean though???!!

[@Issy7511]

@@bluebellcrushedvelvet it means he doesn’t have that long to live. Let’s say you pass away at 100 years old. If the man is 59 years, he already passed the half way mark and only has 41 years of life left, meaning he lived longer than what he has left :) I hope that helped

[@AM-xe4iq]

1. That’s not even her husband. 2. Men would NOT tolerate this from any woman that they’re with. 3. Ladies, stop tolerating this bs. If men expect fidelity from us, we can damn sure expect that from them. 4. She needs to leave him anyway for disrespecting her like that in the first place.

[@nickchemist3722]

She stays cause he likely pays her bills. Usually the way it works

[@donmart1082]

A lot of women cheat to.. nobody should stay with a cheater.. once found out it's a wrap..

[@deficator750]

3 years. She ain’t leaving.

[@sapphireb8385]

zadose love this 🖤

[@amirkhan-fp7qc]

am a guy and i agree.

[@suzanne1430]

She needs to take off those fishnet socks...looks like a Halloween costume...lol..3:22

[@clients26]

this man is very disrespectful and evil , smh very bold , woman leave this man , he would not make you happy

[@RamiSimmons]

Evil???

[@brishaberries0101]

He doesn't want to make her happy. He's selfish.

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

Exactly he's a loser.

[@RamiSimmons]

He's not evil. Evil is something else. He just being an immature man. She silly for trying to be with a man like that. Walk away, she KNOWS he isnt right for her. Wtf? To say he's evil is a bit too much.

[@J-Stuy]

benjamin T&Tpaidfighter evil???? Shut up you dragged it

[@ConsecratedToGod3383]

He is so disrespectful and she is disrespecting herself by staying with him. He's clearly lying about wanting this relationship to work because u can't do bad and expect good results.

[@DonCornelius366]

You women are all the same. Talking about "leaving". But when its you, you chicks do the same thing - you STAY. Everyone knows it. Or they you ACT tough to your friends, but when they all go home, you tryna holla at a brutha. smh

[@marlyb176]

@@DonCornelius366 So why do you 50% of marriages fail. With women leaving? With one of the top reasons being infidelity. Women do leave

[@rhoduskal-cious3243]

He thinks he’s still young lol. Mid-life crisis!

[@jewelsselflove2325]

😭😭😭😭😭Childdddd

[@JaiNanette]

The ONLY thing that shut him up was when they started calling him old 😂

[@tantawandaniels3427]

He beyond a mid-life! Lol

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

Rhoduska L-Cious Nah he's just a loser.

[@queenV73]

He is lucky to have a woman that gorgeous she can do better

[@glendamcgaughey3898]

Myyy Mother always said, "Don't no man wants done to his daughter, that he's doing to someone else's daughter." Food for thought ‼️

[@TheRAH1]

His little smirk makes my skin crawl. Run girl!

[@alethiamillner5603]

He's a narcissist this is fun for him!

[@alethiamillner5603]

@Kirl C i know the smirk im seeing I've seen it a million tines in narcissistic family members and ex boyfriends. All i see when i look at this man is one of them so i know what i see, even if you don't see it but thanks for trying!!

[@alethiamillner5603]

@Kirl C please hush! If i could be right you should have left it at that but enough with the back and forths, ever heard of freedom of speak? Go find someone else's comments to put your two cents into! Mad people commenting but once narcissism was mentioned you got vocal! Triggered much?(

[@alethiamillner5603]

@Kirl C finally! Thank God!

[@datphoenix1972]

@@alethiamillner5603 actually the other dude is right here. You just seem to project you experience on this Situation. While you could potentially be right (and no, there is no reason to be quite if that is a possebility since that is only one scenario that could be right and you stated it as a fact as well as went for a Defensive arguement projecting that this scenario is the only possible one) there are plenty of other things that could be right as well. Can't Call it out if you don't know the context. Also everyone has the right of free speech but then you should actually voice or opinion as such and not as a fact like you did since otherwise it ain't gonna work with the "freedom of speach" Argument. Also a little advice: never be like "hush now". That kinda makes your own Argumentation beforehand invalid since you ain't engaging in a proper Argument and you Show that your own Argument isn't stable since you fail to defend it with proper facts. Have a good ond though :)

[@jacquelineramphal1911]

He is not committed! The relationship is not a "committed relationship" !

[@larrysteele9603]

Yeah she wants somthing from him that he isn't capable of doing , let him go he's clearly telling her in so many words he don't respect her enough to be faithful and has no intentions on letting the others go..smh

[@prncessbaby16]

Yeah I don't think she really understands the meaning of what a committed relationship is.

[@kimberlyjade4094]

I wish Todd Chrisley had been there for this one.

[@peacheskong2245]

Yes he would have told her straight and that man too

[@ruckes13]

Yes!! he would have cut him up lol.

[@tayrenees.j7198]

Omg yes he needs to come back

[@AB-qv9ku]

Okayyy sis would've got him AWL the WAY together!! Lmao😂

[@emanomer2288]

Yeeessss🤣

[@allanmwangilwa]

The big guy is dying to get out of there with all the ladies Clapping 😂😂🤣🤣

[@sararomero7090]

“Why do you do this, Jeffrey?” Because he knows he can get away with it 🤷‍♀️She’ll stay and he knows it

[@kirkslayden834]

But it's so bad weather a man does it to a woman or whether a woman does it to a man it goes both ways if you want to be happy don't cheat God bless

[@PedraamJam]

You said it

[@carmenm.478]

Yep

[@rachelmanavi4819]

Facts

[@janinecox256]

Then she needs to decide when she had enough and leave that pig in the dust!

[@MakeupTiffany]

She’s in a committed relationship. He’s not. Speaking from experience, it’s not worth! Don’t end up on an episode of Snapped over this trifling senior citizen!

[@darkhairedbeauty2382]

Tiffany S 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

[@sweetbeauty2153]

Amen!

[@superkalafragilistic8289]

😭😭😭

[@johnnyblaze4991]

So if she was cheating and he killed her you would still have this same energy ? Pathetic

[@MakeupTiffany]

Sure would!

[@rashadlamar5624]

That woman is super hurt. He doesn't love this woman

[@jj425jj]

Steve hit it on the head when he started reflecting his behaviors on how that sets examples for his daughters! 💯💯💯💯

[@angelabozeman8761]

I like what Garcelle said, that woman need to love herself more than her man, because if she did she wouldn't put up with this bull

[@carriewright6640]

Amen

[@Confusedbluebear]

Jesus! Jesus! Why u even talking to this man?!😠😟😤

[@fvrrljr]

Exactly, thats why I threw away my Player Hat! that was a very funny line. I Like, OLE!

[@tipro1333]

Adrian Phillips lol

[@dewanmdurnto3592]

Adrian Phillips women also cheat

[@drphil4ril161]

Dewan M Durnto you can’t possibly have a sister or daughter or mother. The issue at hand is this old man that is cheating and not owning up to it. Still trying to blame his ex and even threw his children in it. Sad case. Only the power of Jesus can help this old fool.

[@brendamilburn6280]

Grow up man she deserves better

[@ivyrodriguez8468]

The reason he knows its ok to do her dirty is because she allows it. Remember your worth, set high standards and strong boundaries from day one. If he runs for the hills, let him go so you have room for a King.

[@cookingandconversationwith3606]

Yes ivy i definitely and unfortunately know the road she is on i allowed a man to lie and cheat on me until i finally left his sorry ass I waited entirely to long to do so we didn't have any kids or get married I was a fool but not a full blown jackass I hope she dumped him

[@blackbutterflymagic6195]

Amen !!! Amen!!!

[@geremymason5936]

Hes not doing her dirty. She got with him knowing he messing with other women. He's just living his life. She don't get to come in and tell him how he should be living just because she doesn't like it. She's taking offense to something that has nothing to do with her and that's on her.

[@wiwikasri]

The commitment in marriage is from both side, not just yours

[@zivaughn]

If you have to bring him on a show to convince him to treat you right, then you shouldn't marry him. You're too beautiful for that. What you should be saying is, "Next!"

[@malcolmparkins1935]

Maybe she is done... and just wants to let others see him for what he is...

[@pialove3988]

I dont blame him for confronting this man. Somebody has to stand up for decency.

[@darrensheffield5826]

Steve Harvey has cheated on literally all of his wives and says it was their fault

[@marcieprettyazahpeach8091]

Yeah u right SHE DOES

[@mehrusheikh8139]

@@marcieprettyazahpeach8091 I think he meant Steve Harvey confronting the guy that's why she/he said "him"

[@kennyhills4458]

Well it shouldn't be a man who was married three times how can he give anyone advice.

[@coachobispersonalworkoutti2223]

You Take Advise from a Man who been married 3 times🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@TheMissionOfSubmission]

0:37 I'm sorry, but she shouldn't have dated him in the first place. He was already behaving poorly before she was in the picture, According her statement.

[@joeydoherty368]

Jireh A. I bet that's the case when most men cheat. That's why I don't believe men cheat, they just play women. A man ready to commit is very unlikely to cheat I would think.

[@linahorn2797]

I got the vibe that she didn’t know and I bet he explained it that way to her after she found out he was cheating. I could be wrong, idk🤷🏽‍♀️

[@oliviah.4741]

Exactly

[@angalenetaylor6013]

He was probably cheating with her on somebody else .

[@dyaw2801]

Sona Jae she cant control his actions, but she can control her own. If she wasn’t being treated the way she wanted, she should have addressed it. Sounds like she did. If it continues after that, move on. That’s obviously not what she wants/needs in her life.

[@Kaniz3000]

Steve always keep it real, he keep the same energy from the radio in yo face 😂💯

[@deroyaltymerceda5984]

He don’t love her, when a Man loves you he’ll never cheat, might glance at some ass, but says to himself she’s badd but mines badder...

[@browniegreen1090]

I think it more about maturity. Once a person, not only men, grows up, they won’t do the same things they did in their youth. Not mature according to the number of years but mental maturity. He’s silly in the head and still playing childish games. She should bid him farewell, and find someone who is on her level mentally.

[@virgodiva2811]

DeRoyalty you really believe that?!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@spazz-ok9nr]

It has nothing to do with maturity nor saying to yourself mines is badder ? It's simply a decision to stay loyal or not

[@sexyma12345678910]

@@spazz-ok9nr maturity level is what forms that decision

[@spazz-ok9nr]

@@sexyma12345678910 untrue knowing right from wrong and understanding how u want to be treated control that decision

[@farhiamohamud5811]

She looks miserable 😩tired. This life is toooooo short to be living like this. Just move on, is it that hard? 🤦‍♀️

[@elainegomillion978]

Yes, sometimes it is that hard, but its not impossible. She has to get tired of the constant pain and disrespect. The longer you are with someone, the harder it is to leave, and now she has to do the work of accepting that the relationship is over, and he's not going to change, and begin to love herself again. She needs to take a break from dating, in my opinion and start her healing process. I speak from experience. I know how much it hurts.

[@missnlahi]

Yup it is. Unfortunately we are taught how to hold on and not how to let go. This LIFE is not easy.

[@AbsolutelyJamaican]

I feel so upset. She is so miserable. Never cracked a grin. Get rid of him and move on.

[@ZardianoftheGalaxy]

She looks so crushed and sad. I could never dog someone out like that. What's wrong with him?

[@DonCornelius366]

You women are all the same. Talking about "leaving". But when its you, you chicks do the same thing - you STAY. Everyone knows it. Or they you ACT tough to your friends, but when they all go home, you tryna holla at a brutha. smh

[@gladytorres836]

It's not that easy

[@zackprussman3703]

Cough cough 3:50😁

[@gavinwells6911]

News flash any actual Man is miserable from maturity forward because men learn real lessons about life coming upto and after becoming a man, American women are so privileged they don't ever learn the same lessons as even women in other countries

[@paralegalkc]

Jeffrey is a whole fool sitting up there like a stuffed bear. I’m glad Steve got him together. I’m hoping she left him. You are way above his level.

[@boomerang905]

If a man is at the advanced age of 59, he is not going to change. Its embedded in his personality. Nothing to do with her "beauty", its a about his insecurity. Good men don't cheat or lie. His game is really lame but he marks his prey well. How is it described "committed"?

[@reneecollin8825]

🏖 as a woman, I'm often embarrassed at the actions of other women! He cheats ONCE he's history - case closed!! Stop holding on to trash!! I really don't understand why this is so difficult to do ?? with all the good/respectful and evolved men out here - why would I hold on to garbage- are u kidding me???!

[@ms.gracefullybroken8724]

EXACTLY….

[@breezeh1127]

Not everyone has the same values or thought process as you. Also, nit evyone who cheats is a repeat offender. It all depends on individual people and their individual relationships. Sometimes forgiveness pays off. Sometime it doesn't.

[@reneecollin8825]

@@breezeh1127 nope ! Sorry, but that's one boundary he would NOT cross (with me), or if I cheated, I hope he would have enough respect for himself that'll he would cut me loose also!! Here's the thing - when you "sleep" with someone other than the person that you're committed to - you're sleeping also with the other woman, her man, his side piece (maybe), and who knows whom else??! and that's germ filled, and also he broke his promise to me. I always put down boundaries from the get - go, and I tell him (upfront) that I do not under no circumstances allow "running around/foolishness" in my life (and if you're this type of person that don't think that you can adhere hos respectful sentiment, then there's no need going any further". I say it politely, but with confidence! and if I find out that you broke your promise - there will be no arguing, crying, why me etc et, it's just over. No hate, and of course I would probably forgive (for me sake & soul), however just because I forgave, still doesn't mean that I would want him any longer ! I just prefer to keep it moving. Life's too short for this nonsense, and by continuing to "hang on"", is just blocking a really good/decent man from coming into the picture.

[@breezeh1127]

@@reneecollin8825 Like I said..I get it. But that is your perspective and YOUR rules. I'm glad that is what you have and that works for you. I'm just saying not everyone has that same feeling or the same kind of marriages. Giving second chances and forgiveness is big in churches and sometimes people find themselves walking a Godly path and change completely. That's their life. Not everyone is going to have your feelings on this. My personal experience is leave..but Im not everyone and so I don't judge/blame others when they don't.

[@reneecollin8825]

@@breezeh1127 well good for you*

[@ShermanBMason]

The audience jumped him afterwards.

[@tonybryant2243]

😂😂😂

[@way108]

3rd Sherman I was sipping tea and almost spit on my phone when I read your comment 😂😂😂

[@idomagirlabahi7786]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@reasy1978]

LOL

[@LRog87]

😭😂 I wish they had. Pure comedy.

[@marcymiller3287]

Steve deserved a standing ovation.

[@britpugtaylor9488]

Sleeping with an EX is worst than sleeping with a stranger. He has history with them and that will never change thereby him continuing to cheat. No matter how many years go by he will always dip in with other women..

[@loblg88]

Soul ties.

[@ritadiez3317]

He's only doing what SHE is allowing him to get away with.

[@arp5546]

Preach. Women need to grow self esteem n walk away from disrespect worse at that age

[@s.sally.368]

Okay but that also sounds like it's her fault rather than his.. Nobody forced him to cheat on her. Notjing can excuse his piggy behavior and to me its not something you can erase. You can't work on that and move on and still expect that relationship to grow into something healthier..

[@christinalucas1002]

Sorry but, he is a GROWN man. She doesn't have to stay but it is never her fault that he cheats. If he wants to leave the relationship, then he needs to LEAVE

[@hhbrown4564]

Amen👏🏽

[@lauracam5558]

She claims she found out recently. If she coming forward in a public way for help, then how is she allowing this? Secondly, its his actions we should care for not hers.

[@running730]

Damn I ain’t seen Keri Hilson since 2009 My GAWD she’s beautiful!

[@trinacamacho9982]

Running yesssssss

[@LoveAlways1002]

I was trying to figure out if that was her 🤔🥰

[@craig2469]

Ain't she though? 👀

[@jjj7383h]

i didn’t recognize her and i was like oh boy she beautiful

[@june.solomon4592]

She's another 1😍😍

[@jordandouvartzidis1745]

“Cheating” is so much deeper then some simple explanation. It stems from childhood trauma, lack of worth, lack of self love, it’s not about not being able to resist the physical temptation. It’s more about not loving yourself enough so you can recognise the love for others. Love is only a feeling, respect is the bonding part of the relationship.

[@lebhotshorty]

Ladies really need to raise the bar a little! Damn I’d be long gone!

[@shesonyoutube]

Ocean lights FACTS

[@klai6671]

Exactly

[@masannajohnson7037]

Ocean lights agree

[@vegalee8955]

Ocean lights she need to come see me and i can provide some great vitamins for that thin hair and she is beautiful so yea I'll change her oil any day

[@chem1913]

100 thumbs up!!

[@Ro-InStyle]

The fact that she brought him to this show is telling of her self-esteem. She looks embarrassed and stressed.

[@elainegomillion978]

She does look embarrassed and stressed out, but he's the one that should be embarrassed. EVERYONE has a breaking point!!!! U will reap what you sow. He's going to wish he had done right by her.

[@carlosmoon5026]

Why is she still with him??

[@alim4803]

Carlos slim he work hard on bed

[@MHWM2014]

Some women can’t get over being in love. I don’t get it. Why stay with someone that clearly doesn’t love you.

[@Maricalo87]

That women is so in love with him.. And she in engaged with him too..

[@carlosmoon5026]

I'd understand the inlove part...you need to have some respect for ur-yourself

[@carlosmoon5026]

slevinlindsay AMEN

[@debbieryan2768]

That was a great way of explaining it to the bro...Love u Steve n th panel of Women... I enjoyed that...

[@muzikmintify]

Keri that hair, Chile!!! 👏👏👏👏👏

[@IS33U]

kandi mcneill I was like, who is that? She looks great!

[@kharactertheguru5104]

MISS KERI BABY 😍😍

[@muzikmintify]

dymplez Yes! She looks amazing!

[@Ms-Jones]

For real!!! Beautiful!

[@dorothygreene2890]

msjones2831 , caw I nd t

[@valoriegordon7362]

She looks so broken. Like she feels he's her only option. And the fact that he places his arm around this beautiful broken soul because he's been continuously readmitted into her life is the root of her sadness. I pray a light has turned on for her and shes kicked that old horse, with the stomach and sway in his back to the curb. She will blossom without him.

[@purpledancerbmw5279]

He's a slick abuser

[@sheepytimeb58]

Someone of yall missed it... Listen to when Steve said, "You have lived longer, probably than you have left." That just hits different. That goes for almost anybody. Cherish each day.

[@geremymason5936]

And that's exactly why he should be able to enjoy himself. He's too old to be sitting up listening to these people try to tell him how to live his life. If she doesn't like how he chooses to live, she can leave.

[@zoenicholson1776]

@@geremymason5936 you're very ignorant. How old are you? 12? Isn't it Past your bed time, go to sleep.

[@geremymason5936]

@@zoenicholson1776 hahaha. Is that the best you can come up with? Kindergarten insults but ironically insinuating someone else is childish and ignorant. Classic tactic to try to disregard an argument that you can't address by invalidating the person making the argument. Try that with someone else.

[@amiablelampamiablelamp2245]

@@zoenicholson1776 can you share your wisdom

[@fredericksharon6908]

Word.

[@LoveAngel333]

What? This man old ass hell? What y’all gon tell him? LMAO 😂

[@kg7032]

🤣🤣 EXACTLY!!

[@kimberlycollins3864]

Mr. Dusty and his double standards. Honey run fast from this dude.

[@CB-br9jc]

Kimberly Collins 😂😂😂

[@dior7228]

Kimberly Collins i wouldn’t say double standards but he is hypocritical

[@h.s.6269]

@@dior7228 how is it not double standards? He thought it was ok to cheat on her but wouldn't tolerate her doing the same.

[@inthezonenews]

I'd rather be by myself then put up with any nonsense!!

[@prettyslim2010]

My ex husband tried that bullsh*** "I still want to be friends with her" ok, I'm out✌️

[@Nobody-xr9xz]

I dumped my ex because of him wanting me to be okay with him being in touch with his exes and women he had flings with or even with those he fancies or had fancied. Despite cheating with them, he wanted me to allow him to continue being their "friend". Bye boy! Don't need your stupid ass in my life

[@zeldahm5110]

I also broke up my engagement with the father of my kids because of the “friends” I’m not crazy

[@collegegrad2235]

I like that. An honest conversation between men and women. In which women give me advice in a loving non-malicious way. And stand up for other women without having to downgrade the man. Men are free to do what they want to do just like women are free to do what they want to do. If they enter into relationships it’s between the two of them to decide. This is a really good segment Done with class with no one was name-calling or belittled

[@purpledancerbmw5279]

Let's she what guys like him do now that a portions went bye bye

[@mel-a-nin]

Her self esteems in the TOILET

[@bellefemmekenisha]

Tia H it honestly really isn't I'm in a similar situation. Very similar I can't prove he is having sex with these woman but I feel it. He is an amazing man to me I mean amazing. It's this one issue. Sometimes we just don't want to expose our children to someone new or start over with the chance that the next man is the same or worst, not so much s issue of being alone because I'm beautiful i have other men at my coat tail, it's the commitment and hope for change. Probably sounds crazy, but true. I love the man but not his choices

[@MysteryUnfold]

If you make it acceptable for one man to cheat on you, you make it acceptable for all men to cheat on you.

[@norekoescada3202]

T E foreal

[@tianamiller6820]

Belle Femme what about his behaviour is making you think he is cheating because you said you can 'feel it' ? Do your research and make a final decision based on that. You shouldnt stay with someone purely because of convenience because in the long run its going to make you unhappy. Regardless of if he makes you hapoy if he is cheating then he clearly doesnt respect you. With love you have to take chances, if you find someone else you dont have to introduce them to your kids straight away make sure that you are committed to one another before taking things further. A man will change because he wants to change not because the woman in his love wants him to. Better to get out early than spend years more with him only to be down and out.

[@GodsDe]

Unfortunately, he probably will not change, but she'll stay with him. I've seen this kind of story time and time again with family and friends. It's very sad.

[@daysrays3987]

Raytooreal L you and your mom are two diff people though

[@zettatakem5414]

Leave him

[@haircculture195]

Inspiration Station yep

[@qman313]

Inspiration Station Sad part is i bet it was good dudes that wanted to date her and treat her right but she rejected them to stay with oldschool.

[@deedeeaz90]

I was in a relationship with a man for 3 years, thinking he was the love of my life. But little did I know that he was still seeing his ex gf whom he was with for 8 years. And I caught them in the shower. I was 24 at the time .. I'm 29 now. Let me tell you it's not worth your mental health. I dealt with alot anxiety, depression and I have ALOT of trust issues because of that. I feel better now. But I hope she moved on. His ass is too old to play that with her.

[@violetlove1893]

I hope you know that you did nothing wrong. He and his ex are messed up. And you deserve much better. Keep the Lord first and He will heal your heart and bless u with a great man. You are priceless

[@gold-in-melanin7488]

You're too young to have a bunch of trust issues! You have a lot of years ahead of you live your life and don't let this situation put a damper on your experience with love!

[@vinhix]

@@violetlove1893 I mean, the guy is a dumbass and a jerk. Still, he would only want to have sex with the ex, if the sex with the gf is bad... Someone has to say this, some girls don't even do oral, or move or anything. If sex sucks at home, jerk guys will look out. I'm not defending guys that act like that, I find it disgusting, I'm just explaining sometimes you should step up your sexual game, so stuff like this won't happen in the future.

[@trollwayy5981]

VinhiX that’s just showed.. 126 people how weird you are..

[@erica8332]

God bless you, for not being resentful. I went through similar hardships, but healed me .hope you get healed soon your memories should not torment you but act as reference to learn or judge character . This is why we must look for man or women with high moral character and strong family values.

[@carmay3600]

5:45 It’s the ladies at the gates questioning Jesus for me! 😜You can’t tell Jesus who to be friends with! 😂