FILIPINAS LOOKING FOR FOREIGNERS - Are You Being Targeted?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@marcthesilvershark]

I wish Pea would target me! LOL

[@louslack8176]

We all do Marc

[@gordonkistler4640]

Mr B is a busy old soul, he has no time for birth control and that is why in times like these there's so many sons of B's!

[@ronfindley2874]

@@gordonkistler4640 bwahahahaha

[@SeeLasSee]

But Pea, you target foreigners. You entice us with talk of your $3 dresses and your resourcefulness. ;)

[@saburabdul-salaam2418]

Four years ago I married a Filapina and after a year and a half of marriage we separated but after I watched a number of your videos and acquired a better understanding of Philippine culture, we were able to resolve our differences and now we are back together. Thank you your videos were very insightful and helpful.

[@secretagent86]

congratulations... another win for you and the pea... i hope you support her as a patreon. i do

[@flyingpigfarm1]

Congratulations! I hope it works out for BOTH of you!

[@craigsphilippines466]

I have been saying for years now that foreigners have to understand a Filipina culture before starting a relationship, what I know now compared to 9 years ago when I first arrived is completely different and if I knew then what I know now, my first relationship would have worked, and she was my greatest love

[@boracay12]

Wow , Ms pea is now saving marriages with her explanation of her county's culture ! Haha that's great . Im married 30 years from a woman from cebu and actually learned something's from her as well . Like the lying to avoid argument , confrontation or safe face thing . That used to annoy me . At least now I understand it .

[@laynefischer2021]

@@craigsphilippines466 me to ... I was head over heals, with no ideas 💡 that I butchered our relationship myself... if only Pea was about back then ..

[@gregorymacaleese6372]

My wife and I have been married for 13 years. We have two wonderful boys. We met by kismet while I was in the Philippines on business. I never felt that I was targeted, although there was some behind the scenes manipulation by one or two family members. I had plenty of opportunities to back out of the relationship but in a rare moment of objectivity, I realized I had the opportunity to be with an incredible woman for the ŕest of my life. I've never regretted a moment of our life together.

[@mrobo9037]

You have an OUTSTANDING UNDERSTANDING OF LIFE AND PEOPLE OF THE WORLD, PEA! 👍

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, MR! I live with eyes and ears open 😊👍

[@frankkluz9787]

@@TheFilipinaPea And you do it very well !

[@hg2.]

Absolutely. Ms. Pea is a 1-woman Philipines ambassador. 👍

[@sharhune2735]

Great video. There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. Just two imperfect people, who refuse to give up on each other. Nothing is black and white, only various shades of grey. Until next time.

[@prepperjonpnw6482]

I just found your channel yesterday and I have already watched a dozen of videos lol. You are obviously very intelligent and intuitive about all things Filipina and I want to say thank you. I married my high school sweetheart who was Filipino and Chinese but she was American born not from the Philippines. We were married for more than a dozen years and they were the best years of my life. She gave me an incredible son who is now a grown man. He was there as I cared for his mum when she was ill during the last 2 years of her life. Some people have reacted to that as if it was a great tragedy but the reality was much different. I was able to not work during that time and take care of her every day. I didn’t want strangers taking care of her and robbing her of her dignity. My son saw me doing her hair and nails, helping her with clothes, and he knew I was the one helping her with showering. He saw me pick her up and carry her to any place in our home that she wanted to be. I cooked and cleaned as well as doing the shopping. You see he had grown up seeing his mum take care of me and him as well as our home. So what he witnessed was how a real man takes care of his wife no matter what. He’s now married with 2 boys of his own and every year on Father’s Day she writes me a letter thanking me for raising a real man that she is lucky enough to have as her husband. It’s been quite awhile since I held her in my arms and according to my son it’s time I remarried. Of course he also told me I had better go to the Philippines to find a wife because only a Filipina is good enough for his father lol. So by this time next year I will be visiting the Philippines and will hopefully find that special lady. I might just stay there since my money there will allow me to give her an even better standard of living than I can give her anywhere else. After watching your video about maids I will probably leave that up to her lol. Cheers

[@aaronjohnson7175]

Guys, we gotta praise Pea's complete honesty here, she's not holding back anything, which is why she deserves the subscribers she has now and will have in the future. Let's push to 200k for her, guys!

[@budmadgey]

Pea that Star Trek spoof was hilarious! You’re the best!

[@DavidECoy]

It’s my favorite ending cos I love Star Trek but I love Pirate Pea too lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Bud 😂👍❤️

[@TravellingMan20]

An interesting perspective as always Pea. In an ideal world, maybe a relationship based purely on attraction and love would be great. Unfortunately, practicalities most often come into play, and the love can hopefully follow. In any relationship both parties need to gain something beneficial, the for better or worse needs to work one way. Girls get a better quality less stressful life, and guys get a better quality more beautiful and usually younger partner, than they would expect to get in their own country. It’s a win win for both of them.

[@jefftanasse6958]

Thats the unspoken "deal"

[@farmerfox99]

This is exactly my situation and as pea knows its pretty complicated

[@secretagent86]

@@farmerfox99 if we wanted fat women our own age we would date a western woman. always a price to be paid for your desires/fantasies... but worth it imo

[@billpeart4809]

@@secretagent86 nah f her beauty what is she bringing to the table and why would you give money to a random woman you don’t know

[@billpeart4809]

@@secretagent86 your just saying that to make yourself feel better I say that respectfully

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

My wife neither targeted nor pursued me. We met by chance, and I mean chance; I had happened to miss a flight, it was her day off, and we bumped into one another outside a convenience store in a remote part of Hong Kong. I treated her and her friends to snacks and drinks later that evening. The following day I literally bumped into her as I was returning from the gym and she was rushing off to catch a train. Now, 7 years later we live a comfortable life with our family in the Philippines. I don't believe in fate, but these circumstances have me questioning my lack of belief.

[@paengguin9381]

Wow, fate and destiny!! You are a lucky man!

[@dennisohara5293]

lol if you say so

[@walterpont2882]

Bs.

[@knarlisrocks]

Well Pea, I'm batting .500 in the Filipina Leagues with one strikeout and one homerun. Based on experience, I would have to say that both Filipinas and Foreigners target each other but for different reasons. Just as you mentioned in your video, most of them are in it for the right reasons in the beginning but as things change it tends to influence the relationship dynamics. Where there was love in the beginning, unfortunately this fades because of how each of them perceive the fulfillment of their needs. Don't take your Filipina for granted and always show her love. If you found a real diamond from the province you will be happier beyond your wildest dreams. One last tip for those still searching.... Leave the Bar girl where you found her, you can't save her no matter how hard you try.

[@DavidECoy]

Absolutely. How you looking for a wife in a bar? Then u are surprised when it doesn’t work out? Lol look at the mall and u will have much better options. U can even just make some Filipino guy friends who will be more then happy to set u up lol

[@GillsandGreens2024]

You can take the girl out of the bar, but you cannot take the bar out of the girl.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for that input 👍 And that’s a pretty good batting average 😂

[@paulatudor691]

I think we use each other as long as it’s not really that harmful no need to mention what they do. It is always been a give take relationship since time began. Cause if she doesn’t have something to offer your not interested in her. You may care but you will never move past that.

[@kingmaafa120]

Plenty have found none bars and ended up on the short end of the stick I know firsthand I met many so called good ones on many military bases I was stationed at Just facts

[@bishdizzle67]

I found a wonderful lady in the Philippines and I wasn't even looking for someone from there. We both have the same beliefs and that became our starting point.

[@DavidECoy]

Congrats my friend, it’s nice to know I’m not lone lol

[@awakening80]

Me too. Had to kiss a bunch of frogs but finally found my princess. She is a keeper.

[@MKPhilippines]

i like it when you mentioned that you two had the same belief, because that is very important for any relationship

[@andyincebucity6296]

You’ve always turned out a great product from the first video but lately you have really stepped up your game. Now that I’m living in the Philippines, everything you say is coming true right before my eyes. But I loving it all.

[@DavidECoy]

I have been coming here for almost 20 years and I have been married now for 6 years and I can honestly say almost everything she talks about is right on the money. Every once in a while she hits me with some thing I have never experienced here but not often.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Andy! It feels so nice to know someone appreciates my creations ❤️👍

[@Hammocktraveller]

@@TheFilipinaPea we are many to do so dear.

[@deannorman3391]

Well done Ms P, sitting at Auckland Airport waiting to board my flight, this time tomorrow I will be exploring Manila then off to Mindanao meeting this ladies family. Thank you so much for you quality posts you have made and put out for us foreign folk to get a better understanding.

[@PeaceCommando]

Hello Pea! Love this video, especially the ending where you said it depends on the individual. Some Americans tend to throw unfortunate stereotypes on an entire group of people, but honestly there's good and bad in everyone.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Very true, PC! Just find a good one 👍

[@krakerjak3]

Got nothing to do with being american. Everyone does that

[@boracay12]

@@TheFilipinaPea hello Ms pea .. hey do pinay use the fake pregnant test thing to. Get money ? In USA woman sell used pregnant test strips for narvarious reasons of course .. I guess here they could just take a photo of one and claim it's thiers ..

[@littlebootsxxiv6871]

Yay! I pointed you to that scene from Gentlemen Prefer Blondes a couple of years ago. Lovely to see you use it. You're doing a great job Pea, telling it as it is from both sides. 👍😀❤️

[@stub4958]

You covered that well. Like you said at the end, it depends on what a person has encountered that typically makes their opinion. There are good and bad people everywhere, and I though the Philippines has some bad people, I think it has more than it's fair share of good ones.

[@DavidECoy]

I’ll put it to u this way, u will find a lot more good feminine traditional women here in Philippines then u will in America that’s for sure. And u don’t have to be rich like an actor or sports player to get a good woman here.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

May you always find the good ones, Stu 😂👍❤️

[@stub4958]

@@TheFilipinaPea Thanks. May you do the same.

[@stub4958]

@@DavidECoy I agree. I've dated a few, two when I was working there and one back here in the US. They were all good girls.

[@CindysBisvlog]

David Coy my husband will agree with you because he dont have savings and house but here i am 😅😜,and now we got house and everything after 3years of being married

[@steveperyer4850]

Miss Pea, you are so spot on with this subject, as I have seen both sides of this issue from friends and family.

[@Paul-yk7ds]

Maybe I'm young and naive (34 years old), but I feel like it'd be much more meaningful to support and provide for a "desperate" Filipina than a woman from a richer country who could do fine on her own anyway. With a Filipina, you actually have the ability to transform her life (and her family's life, if you wish), without even being rich by western standards. Knowing that you did that for her and her family, especially if you really love them, might provide some pretty deep meaning and fulfillment.

[@DavidECoy]

The problem with western women is they don’t need us anymore so they treat us like they don’t want us even though they do. Filipinas don’t really needs us but certainly want us and treat us like they want us. Western women forgot we used to want them we never needed them and now more and more of us don’t want then any longer and they are starting to feel the loneliness

[@mixmatch608]

Hi Paul, the problem lies in the expectation and non-ending request for money. In some scenarios, you never know if your money is truly for the better such as providing college opportunities and food, or simply using it to gamble or wasting it on alcohol. Another detrimental impact of giving them money is the tendency to make them lazy. I understand the concept of supporting elderly parents who is unable to work anymore. What about the able-bodied relatives, cousins and siblings who may intentionally not work and wait for your monthly allowance?

[@CindysBisvlog]

@Paul i think you just have a heart ,its ok to be kind and generous but not too much because they take you for granted,,

[@Plough78]

@@DavidECoy 100% 👍 Western women will never be on my radar again beyond a one night lay.. 18 years with one enough for a dozen lifetimes... And then some. In my case that might go for all women truth be told. Just drill em here and there until I can no longer get it up. *Crap Game*

[@safetynetzero]

Your videos are impressive Pea! The attention to detail is noted and very much appreciated.

[@brentbackman2911]

My pinay has said many times to me, to her, she would be happy for us to be in a jungle together, so long as we are together, that's ok with her. Wherever I am is where she wants to be. We have a farmlot in Bataan and we are looking forward to developing it together. Like any relationship, we have our ups and downs. However, we have a solid relationship. She is very protective of me, like I am with her. We are blessed to have found each other. Our relationship started with her asking me a simple question, and our relationship simply grew from there...

[@DavidECoy]

Wow awesome man. I love hearing other guys finding love with a Filipina. I’m not alone lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well that just sounds like … Paradise 👍

[@ericbown1551]

Filipina’s love for life and care for life …blessed to have ours.

[@paengguin9381]

CONGRATS sir! It is very difficult to find a wife(soul mate) that we can be compatible with in this life but when we find "the one", stick with her for life. You are one lucky man.

[@brentbackman2911]

@@TheFilipinaPea Don't forget, even paradise has the occasional typhoon. We have learned how to weather storms together. It's not an easy life, but an awesome end result we are working on. Government red tape has been our main problem. She is slowly learning patience. When she believes something is taking too long she has learned to let me step in. My favorite part is her curiosity. She is always asking questions. She listens and applies what she learns. She is truly amazing!

[@serenityssolace]

Very nice video Pea. It clearly shows how wise and experienced you are on so many subjects!

[@MrSlm1982]

Honesty is the best policy. It's not always pretty, or kind... But in the long run it is the best for all parties. Love your star trek post ending 🤣

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Always, Mr Slim - always the best 👍😊

[@Dana-ie2bh]

Honesty is the best policy. I used to think that too, I'm old now, I've changed my mind.

[@tangelbahn]

Great video, Pea! You have incredible insight for someone so young. Perspective is everything....you brought that out beautifully.

[@joedirtracing1462]

Well said and well done!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks, Joe 😂😊❤️

[@Time2Live.online]

I loved the Star Trek piece at the end, so well done, and funny. Great job Pea!!

[@hillardfoster4130]

I've been in relationships in both the Philippines and the United States where the person I was dating was dishonest and deceitful. I've also been in relationships that were honest and open. It depends on the person not their nationality. I suggest being honest yourself and demanding nothing less from your partner. That means you both have to be willing to discuss difficult subjects honestly. Remember that Life is a two way street with ups and downs.

[@alfredopampanga9356]

Try not to use homilies

[@theodethomasa6358]

@@alfredopampanga9356 homilies? A religious discourse intended primarily for spiritual edification rather than doctrinal instruction; a sermon. Is this what you mean?? I'm just trying to understand your meaning because I've never heard of this word before. I had to look it up.

[@poiqweee]

@@theodethomasa6358 Use of Homilies are primarily part of Catholicism and orthodox religions during worship, not Biblical Christianity.

[@theodethomasa6358]

@@poiqweee Thanks. But now, I'm more confused. I didn't know there are differences between Catholicism and orthodox religions or Biblical Christianity.

[@eigobike3929]

Your presentation of reciprocal perspectives is a smart argument mode.

[@derrillevans1519]

Hi pea - your videos are great you have great insight into people and you really are wise beyond your years. I'm one of the lucky ones I met my wife here in California after my divorce this is her first marriage and my second. We are truly soulmates even though we grew up half World apart we have the same values and we really enjoy each other's company. Had she been looking for riches she would not have looked at me twice. I've been retired for almost 2 years now and I'm taking care of my mom will be 100 next October. My wife retired last month and now we're looking forward to a beautiful retirement together

[@patricklever6106]

Oh heck Pea. LOVED the Star Treck scenes. You are just getting better and more betterer. (Is that a saying? Well it is now!)

[@Leonard369C]

If I were in a developing country, experiencing extreme poverty, and a relationship with a certain segment of people could change that, not only for myself but also my family, I would likely target that segment of people for a relationship as well. According to one Filipina vlogger, families urging Filipinas into these types of relationships is not uncommon.

[@pattskatoey3139]

I think most people would. Which vlogger is that you are referring to?

[@Ampman-wp5uv]

I agree Leonard, no judgement, just need to walk with eyes wide open.

[@CryptoGodUK]

Yes Leonard as we all would I suspect But there is nothing wrong with wanting a better life for yourself and your family

[@matthewfriedewald8551]

I enjoyed hearing your perspectives... and that was a brilliant ending. safe journey

[@KasperKali]

Firstly, your editing skills have come a long way. Congrats 👏🏻 Economics plays a role in finding a mate for most women and in some cases wimpy guys. I'm ok with it being a factor, so long as it is not the PRIMARY factor. Let's face it, it's no joke being broke. When one is married, you become one flesh. Whatever one does, be it good or bad affects the other. Which is why it's so important to know each other well prior to such a serious commitment. Personally, I have no issues sending a set amount of money on a monthly basis to my girls family once we marry. I understand the culture and what is expected of her and I'm cool with that. Again, one flesh. Open and honest communication is key to a truly happy, loving, transparent marriage. Those are my 2 cents worth. Thanks for posting Pea. Stay safe girl.

[@davidfisher5140]

Great job as usual Pea! You are dead on "target." For me it all boils down to integrity. NTEGRITY is IMPERATIVE in dealing with others. Some people use your integrity & your other values against you, so learning to spot snakes is also important. Yet most people are as honest with u as with themselves. The trouble is, most people lie to themselves at some point, in some way. To avoid pitfalls, you must learn how to increase another person's self-honesty by watching for details the indicate their internal dissonances. Where they fool themselves, you can aid them by subtly bringing things into a more clear focus. Many people espouse two values as very important, yet those 2 values war with each other (tolerance vs morals OR tact, manners & face-saving vs brutal honesty, for instance). Very often, we see what we wish to see. We miss contraindicators & warning signs because we choose to overlook them for "the bigger picture." Yet, if we force ourselves to watch for indicators of future challenges, then we can prepare for them & maybe even have a solution waiting for the problem once it finally rears its head. >> When I was with a Filipina single mom, I did all I could to learn about her surroundings, physical & social. It took a few months, but she finally admitted something to me I had already prepared for ... her sister's son called her "mom" & she would feel bad if she left PH without him. Thanks in large part to your videos (but also thanks to Calvin & Old Dog) I knew to look for things like that ahead of time & told her I had merely been waiting for her to mention it. I had actually expected to take in not just her 1 kid, but both of the sister's kids (disabled sister).

[@Ron-oe7hg]

A person should NEVER go anywhere "looking" for love. You're only setting yourself up for heartbreak after heartbreak. Why not just find a country that really suits you and let love find you.

[@clydekimsey7503]

I agree, but as in any country, the man is the one that pursues, just don't try so hard, right?😊

[@DavidECoy]

I think u can’t just sit back and wait for anything in life. If u want something u have to go get it. Women are no different then that great job u wanted or that nice car u wanted. U have to live ur life for sure but if u want love u have to work to find it then work to keep it when u do. Nothing in life just falls into ur lap.

[@brian_atc]

@@clydekimsey7503 noooo, not in the Philippines. Lol Even after I had a Filipina girlfriend I still got "offers" from other filipinas. That's why it's really important to make sure you're truly ready to settle down or make sure she knows you are not looking to be serious. You will be tested. 😂

[@homebasebelgium359]

Letting love find you is an excellent idea, but is it really LOVE that will find you or the best scammer? As Pea says: "Not all Filipinas are scammers", but it will take you some time to find out if yours is or isn't. My best advice would be: don't jump the broom too soon! Make sure she understands that your relationship has an extendable trial period ... which is as much to her advantage as it is to yours!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And it’s almost guaranteed to happen here 😂👍

[@motechabe]

Great video Pea!! Really liked your Star Trek clips and your ears!!!!!

[@lunchbox6576]

I was on KZbin yesterday watching a documentary on modern feminism in China because I was wondering where the culture was at. The documentary showed me how universal all people around the world are. As soon as China's economic status changed in the world the Chinese woman's traits that she's looking for in a husband, went straight to the same traits that Western women look for he needed to have an apartment a job and his own money then he would be considered boyfriend material. This is an instinctive part of the brain this is why female birds are attracted to male birds who can make the best secure nest for their young. The desire for security is just human nature and you're right all women are drawn to security.

[@CindysBisvlog]

My husband dont have that security ,no house ,no money so not all women are looking for stable or financial security

[@tilapiadave3234]

And aren't we suppose to have moved beyond being animals?

[@flyingpigfarm1]

Au contraire, mis ami! My husband spent our 20+ year marriage being MY cheering section - I made the money, and he stayed home on the couch playing video games. We should ALL have the option of making our OWN security; but in the Philippines, good paying jobs are rare and social constructs tend to heap a LOT on the single woman to support her family. As the world evolves and changes, so should we!

[@mixmatch608]

@@flyingpigfarm1 Love the story and agree with your statement. Just curious, is he at least helping with the household chores and taking care of kids?

[@mixmatch608]

I find nothing wrong with that. However, most Chinese women are independent working adults. Unlike the utang na loob culture, most of them priorities the kids, themselves and the husband before their family when forming a new family. Most of their family members work hard and not expecting to seek a handout from foreigners. It more of a teamwork whereby both couples work together to have a better quality of life in their newly formed family. In addition, there is once a "1-child policy", which also reduce the risk of poverty due to inefficient child planning.

[@robertwalter1219]

Great content pea as always. You really know what content to bring to the table Thanks for all you do pea.

[@christopheripsan9327]

Amazing wisdom and insights, and viewed from a variety of perspectives. I love how you break things down Pea, and you just keep getting better at this. The Star Trek bit at the end was just the icing on the cake for me, and I salute both your creativity and many diverse talents. You are the hardest working Filipina in cyberspace!

[@secretagent86]

agree. the smartest gal i have ever met in my life.

[@TOPIKTOAD]

Pea....your Star Trek parody was great. I loved the editing and how you made your point with Captain Kirk.... Thanks for putting a smile on my face. My filipina wife and I love your content....keep up the great work

[@pnr9730]

The last part was epic Pea 🤣. Love your work from Australia 😍😘🙏

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Jase! One of my favorites, too 👍😂

[@brandonboand]

Great content!!!!!!! Thank you for all your hard work

[@johnmurphy8791]

Right on Miss Pea. I can't say "we all target" because therefore men & women who just don't want to get involved. The rest of us are targeting. It starts with gender. First we go for the opposite, or the same sex. Then we target other traits that we are attracted to. We do the same with friends. We're not going to hang with people that we aren't comfortable with. As you stated, it's all about perspective. Change a word here or there & you appear to change the intent. You are wise beyond your years. Salamat.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for that, John! You always ‘get’ me ❤️

[@paengguin9381]

You are a keen observer. You also have common sense and keep it REAL. I enjoy your videos!

[@atwarb]

My wives family thinks I am an ATM or free money tree at times. After 20 years they still try but I have learned to never give them money without get something back. You are simply THE BEST source for true information on the Philippines! 😘

[@BarnabyBarry]

To prevent that-What I did was I gave my ex Flipina 50% of our house and 25% each to our daughters so they can keep her in line (BTW they both love the Philippines but can’t understand why I am leaving the USA-paradise)for Asia -an irony I marry their mom in Cebu then I leave the USA and they stay here in the 🇺🇸!

[@acornsucks2111]

I've been there. And when you cut back on the giving you are likely called selfish behind your back. So I'm told.

[@mixmatch608]

@@BarnabyBarry If you don't mind, can you share why is she an "ex" now? Is there something that relates to money which is initially suggested by the poster? Thanks for sharing.

[@yoyojoe9240]

( ?Wives? )......Out of curiosity...How many do you have?

[@jonathanbillingslea1262]

That star trek outro is worth the follow! Glad I stumbled across this channel. Wasn't even looking. But one of my best friends is a Philippina so this will make for great discussion

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Jonathan! I’m glad you discovered me 👍❤️😊

[@erikgeorge3770]

aren't foreigners targeting filipinas? so nice to see you Ms Pea ❤ I think a few of us have our sights on you 😏😏🤭

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Oh yes, I think you guys are hunters, too! 😂

[@Mr-Clark]

Westerner men who have taken the Red Pill target Filipinas. 😉

[@thudor1]

Nature does beg balance!

[@faranger]

You're too young for Pea! You have to have one foot in the grave. LOL

[@DavidECoy]

Probably more then a few especially after those bikini shows lol

[@carlredmond3642]

The outro section was brilliant !!

[@bigbrojoe1352]

Love your videos!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks so much, Joe 👍❤️

[@bigbrojoe1352]

@@TheFilipinaPea thank you more! ❤️

[@neillynch290]

Always keeping it 💯, and always a pleasure to watch your channel. Keep up the good work.😊

[@Crazykid949]

Pea, as always you go where no reporter dares to go, and do what no reporter does. You cover topics that are uncomfortable for some people go through, or even think about going through, in a way that becomes comfortable with your ability to create a train of thought that allows the viewer to see the whole story that you present, "the good, the bad and the ugly". And you do this in a way that is not dogmatic to one perspective or another, you treat all angles of the story with professionalism and respect. This is the main reason your channel continues to grow. Another reason for your channel to keep growing is that you give the audience a light hearted approach with you uncover all the truths about your content. Ever since I started watching your channel I've enjoyed even the tough topics that you respected by not adding any humor into, it shows your audience that you have undying respect for those affected by hardships, and crisis, while still bringing all the information to the forefront so they can see the reality of the situation. You never cease to amaze your audience with your knowledge backed by your research of the western cultures as you compare them to the culture of your homeland. I personally hope that your channel will continue to grow as more channels from different countries take hold of how you are doing things and run with it in their countries. This way people from around the world can learn about traditions and cultures of the people in the area before they head out on vacation or retirement and respect the laws, customs and traditions before they make a mistake and end up on a blacklist or worse. I believe that the format of your channel should be the industry standard for introducing people to their countries as visitors, or long term retirement residents.

[@lray6945]

I love your straight forward way of painting reality in the Philippines. You make a very pretty Vulcan by the way.

[@kendonius4928]

So relationships involving sex, money, and love are complicated in the Philipines. Who knew!!!!! A lot of honest communications between the Pinay and foreignor needs to take place. Patience please.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Patience and honesty 👍👍👍👍👍

[@kendonius4928]

@@TheFilipinaPea So how do I romance, court, and seduce Lucy w/o having her screaming and running back to the provinces?🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MrThailik]

A great video full of common sense ! Well done Pea .

[@jeffreymore6799]

I’ll be straight forward I’m looking forward for my retirement. I worked very hard my whole life for this. If I get a good Filipina she can live a more comfortable life with me for whatever that means. My heart is still healing after 31 years of marriage and I’m gonna be extra careful no matter where I retire to. ( The Philippines). I’m sure that the most beautiful woman (Pea) is already spoken for and I’m old enough to be her grandpa anyways so I’ll just keep watching and learning from her. Sincere thanks Pea I can remember a time I was in lust with lieutenant Uhura you add to her beauty also

[@TheFilipinaPea]

The original Uhura? Interesting … 😉

[@kingmaafa120]

Facts For that matter worldwide The good ones taken All that’s largely left is only fans and other social media ones

[@acornsucks2111]

You and many others have worked hard, made good choices and you are not broke. But the reality is, almost all the people you will meet in the Philippines will think you are a millionaire who has had everything handed to him, and you never had to work hard.

[@parabiology1014]

@@kingmaafa120 - NOT true; there are still lots of good ones in the Philippines! I found one myself, and we’ve been together about 3 years now. Unlike Western wahmen, who start out seemingly pretty good but get worse and worse the longer you are together, my Filipina continuously surprises me with how great she is! She seemed very good at first, but the longer we are together and the more we go through, she has shown herself to be absolutely AMAZING. I had honestly given up hope and dreams that women like her even existed. Through my own bad experiences and the general consensus from men online, I had “realized” the things I wanted from a woman were just a fantasy. I was wrong. My girl is living proof that women actually are capable of loving a man and being good to them.

[@Imold774]

Jeffery what do you mean a Filipina can live a more comfortable life with you. Filipino people think about their family as their number 1 priority. She will not be interested in living in a nice condo in a Philippine city with only you away from her family. She would love for you to come live with her in her province on her family’s land where you can support her entire family. Including buying land, building a house, paying for a start up business for her family. Remember her culture…..family first

[@jimharris8172]

LOVED the clever Trek ending!!!

[@captainmango1355]

It sounds like the "Moms" are the ones who have the foreigners in the crosshairs... I love that dress!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Oh yes, we have a large segment of single mom assassins too!

[@captainmango1355]

@@TheFilipinaPea Actually I was thinking more of the Moms who encourage their daughters to "snag" themselves a foreigner, I guess we need to be wary of both! :)

[@jejunamja]

Hey, thanks for the video. Really insightful on changing the intent changes everything.

[@p.c.kipmerriman9409]

I’m quite alright being targeted 🏹 I have been learning to dodge and weave lol. I think that like you said it is the options aspect and the money/stability of an older foreign guy or at least the perception of having the later. Keep up the good work Pea an honest view from a local is very refreshing over some of the expat channels that only cover the bars.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

(I hate bars) 😂

[@p.c.kipmerriman9409]

@@TheFilipinaPea Pea I’m right there with you, though I do miss watching people be stupid some days. Hope you have a good night and a good week.

[@TravellingMan20]

I’m happy to be targeted by Filipinas. It’s far preferable to being completely invisible in the UK. You can still choose which girls hit your target.

[@Dana-ie2bh]

@@TheFilipinaPea Some bars are like "Cheers" Pea, can be quite therapeutic for some people.

[@jackwest3282]

You make a cute vulcan Pea, You always do a great job with your little end sketches. Such a good balance between educating, informing and understanding the people and subjects you share with us each day or week. cheers keep up the good work Pea!

[@steveokahn7249]

Pursue and preference are good terms IMO. After all, how many Western guys are there to pursue their preference? The key, as always, is basic honestly and if their goals compliment each others. As always, a thought provoking discussion (why I am a fan).

[@DavidECoy]

Me to my friend she’s the best.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Steveo! I like to take a new look at an old topic 👍😊

[@ianmccoy4657]

Pea, you're awesome and your videos are very well made...entertaining and informative. Thank you

[@brewerfam5223]

For me personally. I have had honor of having several relationships with Filipinas all different. I have learned from them something different also. All of them born and raised in the Philippines which makes a difference here in the states. They all had certain quality of caring about you and not your wallet. I am blessed to married to one. Is all the Filipinas the same no. I totally agree with you all Filipinas are different! Aren't we all!!

[@DavidECoy]

Here here my friend sounds a lot like my story

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m so glad you found a keeper, Jim - you deserve it 👍😊

[@bobbruce4135]

Good for you. I had the opposite experience. My 2 cents is to never marry or procreate just go for fun if you can find it on mutually suitable terms. But, I'm not interested in having babies anyway. Peace.

[@littlebear1520]

Pea you hit the nail right on the head there are good and bad people in every group doesn't matter what nationality gender sexual orientation or whatever. There is just good and bad in every group. In my experience I haven't met various filipinas online and usually they wait till a certain point if they're going to ask for money at all. But me being someone of very few means I explained to them what my situation is and they're usually very understanding of that especially older filipinas. I don't believe anyone can say that anyone group targets another group because that's a blanket statement and you can't cover everyone with the same blanket. Thank you for the great work that you do and all the great people that you interview. You have brought some very educated women and intelligent women on your show and enlightened us various ways thank you for that keep up the great videos and keep up the pea-way because I have to admit you sure are doing something right.

[@seththompson939]

Pea, you definitely have the best vlog in the Phil's. You make me look forward to my twice a week shot of Pea. As a fan of S/T you ending is hilarious. One last thing. You are right it is all about the preference. The females here in the states are worse than you know.

[@DavidECoy]

And getting worse by the minute.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Ohhh I’m so sorry to hear that! Time to escape 😂

[@TexasT-Bone1970]

I recently retired and am planning to move to Philippines in September. Spent many years in both law enforcement and social services. Retired as a federal officer with DHS. Never opened a Facebook account until April 2022. 100% of all Filipino women that have communicated asked me for money within 3 days. As soon as they asked for money or suggested they provide "special explicit shows", I blocked them. It didn't surprise me, it disappointed me. Enjoy your informative and entertaining videos. Keep up the great work.

[@amossnowdaharleyman9179]

Pea: my wife "researched" you (side note,you should do a video about Filipina jealousy) and she relayed to me that you've lived in several other countries. That allows you to offer your very spot on observations about many different cultures.Side,side note: after explaining to her I've gotten married for the last time and I'm faithful as an old hound dog she got past her jealousy. To me that was just too funny to comprehend: you're 8000ish miles away,30ish years my junior,and she got jealous.Honey puhleass!!!!!!

[@peterbrittain1963]

your wife got the tampo ... lol

[@DavidECoy]

U are so right. They are very protective of u and very jealous if u do anything for another woman. I’m taking my wife and her niece who is only 20 and like a daughter to us since we are taking care of her and paying for her college on vacation to Boracay island next week so we were out shopping for things for our trip. I bought my wife a nice outfit and found a nice one for her niece and she got a little jealous cos the outfit I got for her niece cost a little more then the one I got for her. I was like come on are u seriously jealous right now? Lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well at least I know one thing for sure about your wife - she IS a Filipina 😂❤️👍 (Just make sure she doesn’t see our private emails)

[@globalwanderer360]

🤣🤣🤣

[@willardpinson1197]

@@DavidECoy every wife i ever had has been jealous of me.. and there white.. i think ladys are jealous no matter where they come from...

[@AbogadoMichaelBlack]

every video I watch I become more impressed with how well you speak English. ...and where do you find the old movie clips to perfectly fit in your videos at the right moment? Nice work!

[@mypov4343]

With age, I've become more interested in "being" vs "having"...and most Filipinos live by "being" with a strong desire to "having" more. So it is not a surprise to see "targeting" on both sides for a mutual benefit. My question is...would Filipinos be the happy people they are if they became westernized? I think not...crazy, right?

[@acornsucks2111]

Well, there is a long line of them trying to come to the western countries.

[@thebigmann81]

They not always happy. Good people doesn't necessarily mean always happy. Many are homeless and who could be happy in that situation? They can be stressed out and depressed but they keep trying to do better.

[@parabiology1014]

@MyPOV - if they become “Westernized”, the answer is no - they would be just like all the wahmen in the West. That does NOT mean they can’t come to the West though. They don’t magically become “Westernized”, it is a (tragic) process that occurs over time, one small step at a time. This process can be slowed greatly or even halted, but unfortunately can **never** be reversed. If they do become Westernized, it’s over. The great girl you knew will never come back. There are many things you can do to slow or even potentially halt this process though, like returning to the Philippines often, and particularly you have to be careful about who you allow around them. NEVER let single women from the West, and PARTICULARLY feminists around your Filipina, as they are agents of corruption, misery, and Westernization. There are many other things that can slow it down, and there are many things that cause it, but unless asked I’m not going to list them all here as it would take quite a bit of time 🤷‍♂️

[@andei_]

Interesting meditation. As I perceive it, the West is doomed. The government, the elite and academia has systematically eroded all the valuable traditions and customs that made the West the cultural pillar of the world in the first place. Religion went out the window, marriage has become a laughing stock, morality has become subjective and personalized, and the cultural is rather stagnant and decadent. By contrast, most Filipinos in The Philippines are simple, conservative and traditional. Most have some fear of God in one way or another, religious or not, marriage is still valuable and appreciate it in most circumstances, there are strong moral values, and culture is still prevalent.

[@andei_]

@@parabiology1014 Sure thing. Radical feminists and the men that allow them to get what they want are great factors in the downfall of the West. Feminists and feminized men are a bad cancer slowly but surely corrupting the entire Western body.

[@blackmaninamerica2000]

I met a Filipino woman at a place that I used to work she was very loving and understanding and help me understand some of the things in her culture and it was something that she said that I thought was interesting that some of the Filipino women prefer men of color to produce beautiful children

[@DavidECoy]

Everyone wants a better life. Americans want a feminine woman who takes great care of them and treats them well. Filipinas want a good husband that also treats them well and takes good care of them financially. When the two find each other it’s usually a great deal for both of them. That describes me and my wife. She takes great care of me and respects me like no western woman ever has because I’m not the best looking or in shape man. I work very hard to take care of her financially and love her and respect her also. Most of the time I actually want to help those around me who are less fortunate and my wife makes sure everyone including her family dose not take advantage of my generosity. Which makes me love her even more. With the way I look, I could have never found a woman to love and be loved by in America and having a loving relationship is worth almost any price. I have had many Filipina girlfriends over the years while looking for the right one to marry so I know all to well how Americans are targeted both by bad and good Filipinas. It’s up to you to take your time and find a good one. Once you do, she will be worth all your money and then some. Good luck and happy hunting fellas. Great show Pea and keep helping lonely average Americans find good looking and good hearted Filipinas to have long lasting loving relationships where both feel like winners.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, David, I learned a lot about you today - thanks, and I love to hear a success story 👍❤️

[@DavidECoy]

@@TheFilipinaPea I said it before and I’ll say it again, I really wish u had this channel when I started looking for a good Filipina. I had to learn all the scams and scammers the hard way but it was all worth it cos I’m very happily married. It’s not helping me but I love the content of ur shows and just want to help u help my fellow Americans find love like I have and also help the good Filipinas find a good guy by sharing my story and by continuing to support u and ur takes. American guys will take u more seriously when one of their own says up she’s right.

[@ddjjss]

The Star Trek scenes at the end were great - you put so much work into your vlogs. You just might be the absolute best flogger from the Philippines. And there are a lot.

[@ivanskirchak4935]

You pursue a Filipina until she catches you. ☺️

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha

[@chrisphillips9377]

Awesome and brilliant Star Trek reference at the end!

[@mahad813]

Both Foreigners and Filipinas "target" each other😂

[@DavidECoy]

Absolutely and that was my point as well. Good Americans and good Filipinas target each other and make great long lasting relationships. So happy my wife and I targeted each other lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Agreed 😊👍

[@racerguy500]

I love your honesty. I love Filipina women and have been on both sides. Still searching currently.

[@JayB-JayB]

I would LOVE to be TARGETED by a cute Filipina! 😍

[@d.k.1394]

Same

[@rocketranger1000]

Be careful what you wish for

[@DavidECoy]

Buy a ticket and get here then take a walk through any mall. After about 30 seconds you will know how Tom cruise feels walking through a mall. It doesn’t even matter what you look like. I love my wife and I hate walking through the mall now alone cos every single woman walks in my path trying to make me bump into them so they can go home with me. Lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

No problem! Just get here, I’ll let you loose in a field, and give you a ten minute head start 😂👍

[@JayB-JayB]

@@TheFilipinaPea 🤣🤣🤣

[@treasuresofthepast3208]

Hey pea ! ❤️ thanks for being you!

[@bradbowers352]

I married a Filipina about a month ago and I had to leave a week ago return home to work to make money. Since I've been gone her family's been mistreating her . They demands money and access to our vehicle and house. He said they even suggested that it was her job now to pay their bills so the parents can retire. Is this a normal situation?

[@clydekimsey7503]

😯😪

[@DavidECoy]

Sadly it is my friend for most of them, but not all. Her family feels like they just won the lottery and expects u to find their new wonderful life style. U have to be the one to put ur foot down on them and protect ur wife and ur wallet from them. I’m a generous guy and have had to deal with both kinds. I walked away from every girlfriend who had family like that even if she was a good Filipina cos it’s just too much of a headache. Once I found a good Filipina who was a little older and her family actually abandoned her I have had no problems with that. The family came running back to love her after she married me but they know after abandoning her they have no right to expect or demand anything. She lets me help them when they really need it but makes sure they don’t get a single peso out of me more then they need.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It is an unfortunately common attitude, especially among the more impoverished families here. Say no, stand firm - or it will Never end 😔

[@bradbowers352]

@@TheFilipinaPea I'm okay with helping a little bit but I told my wife we're going to set a very strict budget and after they reach that budget every month they get no more. Also I'm trying to cut them off from using my property in the Philippines. Her father thinks he has the right to use my brand new motorcycle all day everyday

[@mixmatch608]

That's my biggest concern over having a relationship with a Filipina. In many scenarios, the problem doesn't lie in the Filipina but her self-entitled family. Nowadays every time I hear Filipina say about being "family-oriented", it automatically triggers my mind as :"family is the top of my list, you need to support them financially if you want to be with me"

[@dugfriendly]

The Pea's galactic adventures series! I'm in 🤗

[@amossnowdaharleyman9179]

PESOnality: alive and well. But let's keep it real too: new to PI 65 year old white guy arrives and finds "love" with a 21 year old Filipina. It's all great till the money runs out or he gets tired of supporting her clan. Same here in the U.S.: old guy gets his trophy wife and after 5 years she's on to the next sucker with a bank account full of his money.

[@fekalistagrzybowory7619]

Exactly at point, dude

[@DavidECoy]

That’s why u can’t get a young one if u are that old. I’m 44 and my Filipina is 47 and we have been happily married now for 6 years. I spent a long time with the young and beautiful ones having my fun but when I was ready I found me a good older woman who had a lot in common with me and it’s been awesome.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I don’t think PESOnality will ever change - it will always be desirable 😂

[@Dana-ie2bh]

@@TheFilipinaPea True, but ALL women are controlled by their FEELINGS, even LOGICAL women Pea. And you don't need money to illicit feelings in a woman.

[@mixmatch608]

There is always a risk when it comes to marriage. it either works out and you create a new family with kids to continue your legacy or incur huge losses that undo your money that you work painstakingly for the past 30-40 years. As pointed out by David, finding someone with lesser age gap do reduce the risk. If you are really worried, being single is actually not so bad. You work hard for your life and deserves to enjoy the fruits of your labor. You could also join many social gatherings with other people if you are bored.

[@victorhicks1962]

You look exceptionally well in this video Ms. Pea. ❤

[@nathanielsimpsonsr.1327]

Well, for me I would not mind being targeted (especially if it's a Pirate P. hahaha). Everyone targets people they want, it's the way we spread our genetic sequence in the world and find companionship for our older years. Where I am, I would love to find a Filipina but I am surrounded by others that do not reveal their feelings or frown when you are interested, which makes finding a relationship difficult. If it wasn't for your videos I would have rather lived single for the rest of my life. So if you are a Filipina target away. hahaha (especially that Pirate) hahaha

[@DavidECoy]

I was just like u my friend and once my marriage ended and I felt destroyed, my best friend brought me here to just have a vacation to cheer me up. I’ve been coming back almost every year for almost 20 years. I was always honest and had my fun for a while, then I was ready and found a good Filipina and have been happily married now for 6 years. Don’t give up and just take a vacation here every once in a while and ur belief in life and love will be restored.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’ll tell Pirate Pea that you’re ready to be plundered! 😂

[@edlearned460]

Just be careful she doesn't cut off your jib.

[@nathanielsimpsonsr.1327]

@@DavidECoy that is a good and happy ending bro. I plan to do that

[@nathanielsimpsonsr.1327]

@@TheFilipinaPea I didn't know you had to ask Pirates to plunder you. hahaha. Don't they just do it?! hahaha. Well, permission granted captn' ! hahahaha

[@mikeroetker2749]

Great video Pea! Wonderful insights and perspectives, really helps!

[@mikeroetker2749]

Also LOVE LOVE LOVE the Star Trek ending...GREAT JOB!!!

[@clayramsey8051]

Great video Pea. I have been on both sides of this! I’ve had girls use me to better themselves and their families and I have found the one for me now. “She’s a keeper” we’ve had that talk and she said that’s her responsibility to provide for her family not mine. She not asking me for anything and she’s spending time with me whenever she can. I tell her the truth and shes the same to me. We care about each other and we really like each other as well so I really think we were made for each other. As I told you before I don’t care about sex and were taking our time to know each other for sure. She’s definitely a keeper to me as we grow stronger each day we’re together.

[@dennisohara5293]

update me in 3 months

[@davidsmith1225]

Always fun and informative.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks David! I always appreciate your support 👍😊

[@gregd.88]

You gotta watch out for those Filipinas! They can be deadly. You might end up married before you know it. : )

[@DavidECoy]

Ya it’s the moms u have to watch out for. U think u are coming over for a bbq and that pastor is just a friend of the family and then all of a sudden everyone is congratulating you. Lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

We have a whole bag of tricks - and we know how to use them 😂😉

[@gringogg1780]

You could talk me into almost anything Pea... Love your videos!

[@BarryFerguson33]

Hey Miss Pea, I’m one of the unlucky guys who married the wrong Filipina. Yes, it took years before I finally discovered I was being scammed but that doesn’t mean all Filipina’s are bad. I know there are good Filipinas out there. I’ve seen many here in the states who love their husbands and treat them with respect. When I come to the Philippines I will have learned about all the scams and will be able to avoid being targeted. I don’t need a Filipina I want a Filipina. The difference is, I’m not going there for the women but because I love your country so much. I will be using the head on my shoulders to make the right decision regarding what Filipina I go out with instead of the little head that will get me in trouble. If I’ve learned anything from your videos over the past two years it’s this: Don’t just jump into a relationship, get to know the Filipina before you commit and don’t act like a love sick puppy. If you can do these things, you should be able to bypass the scammers and the ones who aren’t serious and find someone who will care about you and has your best interests at heart. So, Miss Pea, are you still available? If I’m going to find a nice Filipina I might as well go for the best!!! Lol… Take care. You always hit the nail on the head when it comes to good information and I know you’ll never steer me wrong. Thanks again.

[@CindysBisvlog]

Simple tip ,dont involve money,dont offer any money and you will find the right filipina with a good traits

[@flyingpigfarm1]

Good point, Pea! For every ex-pat “She done me wrong!” story, there’s a “He loved me and left me!” tale of heartbreak, abuse, or an extra mouth to feed. It takes two to tango, after all - Mind your dance card!

[@JayB-JayB]

You're a HOT spy Filipina Pea!🔥😍😂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s double-o Pea to you, Jay (00P) 😂

[@JayB-JayB]

@@TheFilipinaPea 🤣

[@joeyd4364]

Pea has the best English speaking voice if any filipina I've ever heard. 👍

[@clydekimsey7503]

Im always astounded by your grasp of the English language and the subtle nuances of words such as targeting, preferences and persue. You excel at this even better than most Americans. The stereotypical motives of foreign ladies is prevalent here too in America. The few times that I have brought up that I view videos here are met by people that say "all they want is a green card". Little do they know that most pinays want the foreigner to stay in the Philippines. Lastly, your breast comment had me laughing out loud😅 Good thing for me that after a pretty face, I prefer a slim midsection over big breasts 😊😁

[@copperbear8310]

I have been texting and video chatting with a Filipina woman for approximately two years. She has entered a work program and will be in the United States shortly. Having just found your videos, I intend to sit down with her and watch them and discuss them so that I can learn more about her. Thank you for what you’re doing. Salamat po!

[@IanMShooter]

Which work program? I recently went through the immigration process with a lawyer and they told me it was basically impossible without marriage/family sponsorship - she must have a very in demand and specialized job. I hope you haven't been sending money "for processing and application".

[@ldrcoupleinlove910]

This foreigner is meeting his filipina in Thailand, because the Philippines has way too many restrictions against unvaccinated foreigners. So it's off to the land of smiles. I am seeing a lot more of this type of reuniting, it's a shame the Philippines is losing out on the full potential of tourist income. After all of the hardships your country has seen, you would think your government would lighten up.

[@DavidECoy]

The Philippines government has their heart in the right place. They are just doing what they think is best for their people. U are right though it’s too bad u can’t come here. Never been to there but always wanted to go and will go some day but if they ever do let unvaccinated people come here I shud b on the 1st plane here lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I sure hope they lighten up soon 😳😔

[@ldrcoupleinlove910]

@@DavidECoy I hope you do get on that plane it's a really great experience. Wish you all the best. It shouldn't be long.

[@jong.5508]

You are the Filipina Bomb. Super content. I lived in Manila as a child, with father there with US corporation. We all loved the PI. I'm now on Guam, retired Navy officer, considering a permanent move to the PI. You're the best FP!

[@mlrussell1]

Very even-handed take on a difficult subject. No matter how one words it, all relationships ARE transactional.

[@asams8467]

Spot on Pea. You are exactly right. It is about honesty and intent.

[@nicholasjones9163]

Ha Pea, in this one I decided to hang and examine every word, even down to the inflection of your voice. And you passed with flying colours. Your choice of words and completely honest presentation. Brilliant. Probably your best video ever. Damn your good. No wonder your channel is so popular. 😊🥰😁

[@HBP2]

DR. Pea you are right I just found a LDR is like having a gf with all the stress and pressure of a gf without any of the fun parts