Find a good woman

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Elisha Long

Күн бұрын

A good woman will make life sweet.
Join the brotherhood
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@abehall5527 7 ай бұрын

Elisha's women explained video kzbin.info/www/bejne/iZmbXnSti9F-fJYsi=PsthIJGot7SP-AZO

@ExTrimEast_kpop_lover 7 ай бұрын

What a cringe video lmao

@amcspaceape1580 7 ай бұрын

@ExTrimEast_kpop_lover says the K-pop lover lol you're the one thats cringe

@MetapaloozaShow 7 ай бұрын

If anyone wants to help me find and lock down a good woman, I’d reward that guy! My stuff doesn’t amount to jack if I don’t have anyone to share it with! Somebody help me, please.

@MetapaloozaShow 7 ай бұрын

@@ExTrimEast_kpop_loverwhat are you, a teenager? If you don’t care about trying to find a good woman who is wife material, you don’t have to listen, and change the video. He’s giving his best advice. These days good men are out there. But they can’t find a good woman. Because dating apps, higher standards and feminism ruined many women. Dating is at an all time low, and men are hurting so they’re going MGTOW, But there are still good women out there. Find a good church, high value women are going there!

@interesting2491 7 ай бұрын

@@ExTrimEast_kpop_loverDon’t ever throw shade at someone again with your channel name.

@AbandonTheMajority 7 ай бұрын

Good women are fewer and fewer nowadays, just as good men are. Many young men feel disillusioned by the state of society and their perceived prospects of women. At times, it is a bitter fight for those last few "good women" out there. If you want her, and there are less and less of "her" each year, what makes you think all other men don't too? If a good woman is the 10% of women nowadays (realistically much less), then you need to be a 10% man. Only a good man will attract and retain a good woman. The degenerate decline of Western society puts pressure on both men and women to become in the small minority of virtuous people. If you're going where everyone else is going, you're going in the wrong direction.

@shmoo1000 7 ай бұрын

Amen. Locked down a good one that I met at the gym right after covid. Now getting married Aug 2025. Keep your heads held high brothers. There are still good women out there.

@isaac1674 7 ай бұрын

Ayyyy😘😘😘😘😘😘😘congrats habibi

@stephenwilliams9628 7 ай бұрын

Enjoy her while it lasts

@isaac1674 7 ай бұрын

@@stephenwilliams9628 I am turning off my comment notifications if I ever see some gay shit like what you just said

@Dave-cm3pm 7 ай бұрын

She should keep trying to lock you down my brother,not opposite

@YouTubecontent998 7 ай бұрын

Congratulations brother

@titoslounge1946 7 ай бұрын

“How can you expect god to put a good woman in your life if you yourself are not a good man?” - John Doyle. If you want a good woman, ask yourself if you are worthy of her right now? Are you emotionally consistent, reliable, ambitious, interesting? Yes, it’s a lot to ask out of yourself to be, but what else are you going to do?

@anthonyvcamacho 7 ай бұрын

I was a virgin until 23. For the longest time I was stuck in the self-improvement trap. Watching pickup videos, NOFAP, you guys know the deal. Trying anything and everything to get laid. But then I met an incredible woman last year and we’ve been dating 14 months. Supportive, kind heart, doesn’t like to go out, doesn’t thirst trap, never makes me feel bad for working long hours, cooks when she’s off work, etc., Point is guys, if there’s anything I’ve learned, it’s that to take your time choosing the right women to spend the rest of your life with AND once you do find her, lock her in. And also, don’t feel bad if you haven’t been laid yet or aren’t having casual sex. When I was a virgin, I thought I was missing out on so much, but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized just how little any of that shit actually meant.

@bekabeka71 7 ай бұрын

Where did meet her? Any ideas?

@interesting2491 7 ай бұрын

This comment has been up for four hours, are you still together bro?

@Samzo2002 6 ай бұрын

@@bekabeka71I mean you can meet women everywhere. If you see a woman giving you choosing signals approach her, and take her out on a date etc. If you see a woman you like, talk to her

@ImReadyD151 7 ай бұрын

“Artful form of cutting yourself” That’s a good quote

@pjc7729 7 ай бұрын

I can't speak for other guys, but the reason I do self-improvement isn't for girls. I grew up having low self-esteem, and self-improvement let's me accept who I am. It allows me to have a sense of self-assurance that I am not completely lost.

@bananbanan6520 7 ай бұрын

Same

@TLife369 7 ай бұрын

Why is low self esteem bad? Bc woman don’t like it

@pablogats4627 7 ай бұрын

Same, even when I was a loser I would still get female attention somehow so yea I only work for myself

@mikemckenzie4016 7 ай бұрын

@@TLife369no, because one can’t achieve what they can when they’re self esteem is high. I’m talking about inner peace. By one’s own standard, for one’s own life, it all improves when you don’t punish yourself just for existing. And there is no good reason why you would be worth punishing just for being you, that belief comes from a myth people are told about themselves in childhood.

@rustyshackleford6637 7 ай бұрын

I am going to go into a self-improvement phase not out of self-hate but out of interest in becoming who I am capable of being

@districtavarice 6 ай бұрын

I found the best one, and I just hurt her really bad. I’m so disappointed with myself. I hope she doesn’t leave and I have to restart. But if it happens, I’m more prepared than ever to do big things again

@Stackmodechris 6 ай бұрын

May God bless you and your loved ones, I pray it works out 💪

@districtavarice 6 ай бұрын

@@Stackmodechris thank you brother we’re back to buisiness

@mariusk5360 6 ай бұрын

Agreed. Finding a good woman will make you WANT to become the best version of yourself. Since the day I met my fiancee two years ago, I have improved in every aspect of my life. Turned my career around, got a lot more jacked, moved into a much better place with her, et cetera. Part of the reason for my working so hard is that I think she deserves the best, so I want to give it to her.

@alexanderlarsen3569 7 ай бұрын

I agree with you on the dual income so far as you do not have children. Children need someone at home raising them. They need that structure and support. The chaos of a home with children and no one home with them is not worth the extra money.

@baldviking3 7 ай бұрын

Wives should not work outside of the home. Jobs actually makes women less fertile because of the stress. And splitting the bill makes her see you as less of a man. A man should provide for her and their children. Pimping her out to the workplace to save a bit of cash is feminism.

@danielw9424 7 ай бұрын

Absolutely! You summarized it well. Daycare is too expensive anyways. My wife and I decided that well before having our first child. Making probably $6.00 an hour after taxes and daycare expenses to pay someone else to do the job of the parent, makes no sense. Plus the developmental and emotional issues that come from daycare and formula feeding. And getting sick every two months from all of that.

@mikemckenzie4016 7 ай бұрын

@@danielw9424you also have to trust total strangers to look after your kids and just hope they do a good job, which to me is unconscionable.

@joellemartin4466 6 ай бұрын

100% my mom was a full time mom. Huge blessing.

@punec 6 ай бұрын

Man this is a great message. You put into words something that has been on my mind. With all those red/black whatever pill nonesence and self improvement stuff. Just try and be a good man, be responsible and reliable, have fun and be genuine. That's all you need. Thanks man

@Rojomanzana438 7 ай бұрын

First video of this channel I watched... Great solid advice and message that I came to realize with my own experience growing up and maturing( getting close to my 30's now).

@jooely 7 ай бұрын

always got a great message to say man love this

@joellemartin4466 6 ай бұрын

He’s so right about ambition. I’m a girl and dang it’s so attractive.

@Fm38877 7 ай бұрын

Just at the right time brother. I was thinking about this as well cuz things are looking that way for me now. Just in time. Amen

@officialthomasjames 7 ай бұрын

Im finally putting myself out there, going on dates and being more social than ever…It’s only a matter of time.

@CityTalk01 7 ай бұрын

Crazy this comes up😂I was thinking about it all day and I wasn't sure, but this confirms its👍🏽thanx man

@ryxnmichxel2 7 ай бұрын

Broke up with my gf three days ago. Meeting someone new soon, and taking it slow this time. Going for personality & future value this time

@Asilentlearner43 6 ай бұрын

Why not remain single sorry for asking?

@ryxnmichxel2 6 ай бұрын

@@Asilentlearner43 Don’t be sorry. It can make life better. One of my goals is a family. Might as well try

@ryxnmichxel2 6 ай бұрын

@@Asilentlearner43Don’t be sorry. One of my goals is a family and might as well give it some effort. I could but a woman can make life better.

@MIbra96 7 ай бұрын

Exactly what my parents taught me and my siblings.

@evxnmusic 7 ай бұрын

06:30 had me dying bro. you're a funny dude

@ryan_the_overlord 7 ай бұрын

LMAO

@cristianv7253 7 ай бұрын

Thank you, this gave me some hope and i feel quite identified with all that you say and where you are coming from, thx again

@rain_24 5 ай бұрын

this video made me reflect more on this woman i was dating. Lovely woman and i threw it away for being in my head and letting my anxiety get the best of me. She was one that loved me for who i was and the ambition i carry yet i thought otherwise of myself. To "self improve" and let fear consume me. I wish i never let myself and her down.. and to add on top of that, i always attracted the woman with tattoos and drama and i was a fool for falling for those types, always pushing away the good ones but my recent experience was a lesson and I'm glad i can reflect on it and heal.

@DrJohnsun 7 ай бұрын

Love your talks bro . So real and true

@bigsasquatch44 7 ай бұрын

Great video! Got dumped recently because I got fat and lost a good amount of ambition. Your videos are helping me turn this around. Thanks Elisha.

@phoenix_54c 7 ай бұрын

Gigachad vibes, His mindstet is at the right place.

@geogenocide 3 ай бұрын

I'm in a rough spot. I found a great woman with good values and a similar mindset. She picked me up when I met her when I was in a dark place. I latched onto her and I love her. However, our upbringings were very different and her family has expectations and strong religious views. She is very marriage minded at this point. It will be 2 years this Fall. I am not ready, and feel like I have been backed into a corner where I'll be forcing an engagement and I feel like running. The lust has also died and I might not have gotten enough "rabbit" out of me in my teens and twenties. Just a rough spot where I gotta make a decision.

@user-mq1od7fx5l 7 ай бұрын

Based. We need to make basedbies.

@vegardbacke 7 ай бұрын

This is too good man, too good. keep it comin

@Sam-by3kk 7 ай бұрын

27 and never really had issues finding both the good and the bad women alike. The problem I still have is maintaining polarity and feeling excited/attracted when relationships get comfy when living together. This is the stuff where there is literally no content, because most of the men talking online are single or in new relationships where they're not living together yet. That's the end game, and where most of the time things break down

@petya7105 7 ай бұрын

paradoxically, male ejaculation is the attraction killer in relationships -- it basically demagnetizes you so the polarity is gone. see for example "cupid's poisoned arrow" by marnia robinson.

@Sam-by3kk 7 ай бұрын

@@petya7105 definitely agree with that, but even abstaining from sex purposefully to rebuild that doesn't seem like a totally effective strategy either. Especially if the womans sex drive is high, dissatisfaction may creep in..

@steveg2277 7 ай бұрын

It’s hard. We’re literally breaking our biological imperative when practicing monogamy. It’s a head game. You have to want to want it brother. There are no instructions. Just you and your woman and communication. Good luck.

@petya7105 7 ай бұрын

@@Sam-by3kk you drew the wrong conclusion that i was advocating abstinence as the solution. it's better for the man to learn non-ejaculatory copulation techniques like karezza or tantra. _the tao of love and sex_ by jolan chang is a good introduction to this, as well as the awesome medicine story _the orgasmic roots of pronoia_ by rob brezsny. separately, i've noticed religious couples often stay in love for years or even for life, even when they don't practice such techniques. simply having a partner who has the same higher goals as you will make polarity last longer. i think what often happens there is that lust is offered up to the higher power, and thus gets more easily transmuted into love.

@Lifeishard237 7 ай бұрын

Hmm I’m a woman but I found this comment interesting. I think there is such a thing as getting “too comfortable” and I think that’s where your issue lies. You might need somebody that’s always pushing you to do better. Boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and also living together (long story) but we’ve never gotten fully comfortable because we stay on each others asses. So far that excitement hasn’t really gone away and we’re still very much sexually compatible. I think you need to really find someone whose personality you find enticing and the rest kind of follows. Always try to learn new things about your partner and be open to the same. Kind of hard to lose attraction if you’re always being completely honest even when it’s uncomfortable. My bf and I just had a heated conversation about sexual needs and we’ve been at it like rabbits because we both like the challenge too be better. Trust me with the right person that excitement doesn’t really go away, the unpredictability of that has to be worth it to you though.

@Killorbekilledofficial 7 ай бұрын

It’s really refreshing to see an opinion that’s not bitter and crossed from past experience that makes guys think all girls are the same, because I recently just got done really wrong by what I thought was a good girl but really a narc who had her mental issues after trauma etc, and all these opinions saying bro you just gotta grind and say fuck all these girls they’re all the same you gotta just deal with the fact that life is shit etc, it’s a really dark way to think.. cuz you’re right and I find it really funny about how all these effort guys are preaching we should do nofap gym purpose etc etc etc, like bro you’re literally doing that because it makes you the best version of yourself for someone whose their best Version why else! I’m not saying that’s what will complete you or that it’s the only reason you do what you do, it really should be for you and from a place of self validation and fulfillment instead of looking outside of you for some chick that’ll soothe your ego. But come on the thought of doing your life the best you can only to be alone but at least you’re “stoic” is super depressing for no reason, women are awesome I honestly just believe the good kind are far and few between and rare but no guy should give up just cuz he hasn’t found that real self aware healed truly feminine girl yet.

@demven04 6 ай бұрын

Thanks for speaking up about tattoos. I felt like it’s just me who cares that a girl doesn’t have tattoos.

@cultofhercules 7 ай бұрын

I'm 28 yo. Trying hard out there. Can't find a decent woman so far. I'd rather be engaged and proactive in the hobbies + social groups I'm involved in while being single.

@ajmosutra7667 6 ай бұрын

You really get us, women

@Sierramarla6144 7 ай бұрын

I completely agree especially with the women with tattoos thing. It is incredibly concerning and so unattractive and downright weird. Too many women now don't want to be feminine.

@user-sl4sx6dp4c 7 ай бұрын

so? why do you care? let other people express themselves how they want

@yellow_airman 7 ай бұрын

@@user-sl4sx6dp4cit’s not expression, it’s a cry for help and a sign of no impulse control. That tat is gonna look terrible at 80

@user-sl4sx6dp4c 7 ай бұрын

@@yellow_airman you sound so insecure

@thatoneguy1741 7 ай бұрын

lol speak for yourself I love tats

@thegaslightneverends 6 ай бұрын

it's subjective, i find women with tattoos to be so hot

@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 7 ай бұрын

For you younger guys you do need to pay attention to the family because you will be connected to them.

@WhatsThePoint01 7 ай бұрын

I’m too old to be playing this game man 😂. Gotta start all over in this game

@sessh9600 7 ай бұрын

God bless brother, means a lot

@mineis3andhalfinches865 7 ай бұрын

Hey Elisha, could please make a video about breaking up with girl. Knowing a girl isn't good for you and how to break it off. I noticed this problem I had with my dating experience. I find it more easier to get in a relationship than to break it off. Thank you and hope you see this

@fumiao 3 ай бұрын

Hey Elisha, I just felt the desire right now to agree with you about tatoos, so I commented :-)

@ALCAPONEOFINDIA 7 ай бұрын

Nailed it with a point on women having a good relationship with her parents . This is the most visible green flag and a red flag to be seen in a women accordingly,

@francoschiappapietra3821 7 ай бұрын

We gotta frickin talk

@Kamal_AL-Hinai 6 ай бұрын

Brutheer

@AnthroGuitarist 7 ай бұрын

This is amazing advice. I had an open relationship with my ex-gf, closed on my end and open on her end and the more guys she saw on the side, the less she respected me. She went from adoring me and being excited to see me to hating the way I walked and breathed and talked until she finally just left me for one of her boyfriends. Don't be me

@ElishaLong 7 ай бұрын

What did you think was going to happen when you willingly cukc yourself

@AnthroGuitarist 7 ай бұрын

@@ElishaLong Looking back it was insane, I told myself that sex is just sex and that it wouldn't change anything in the relationship if she saw other dudes, that she would still just love me for me and they wouldn't change her

@oldyelir919 7 ай бұрын

@@AnthroGuitaristgood thing you learned your lesson

@baldviking3 7 ай бұрын

@@AnthroGuitaristhope you change your ways and tell your future wife no to her stupid ideas

@steveg2277 7 ай бұрын

I’m halfway sorry about your stupidity. Now never do that again.

@frescobarmusic 7 ай бұрын

gentlemen, any idea to where can I find a good women? I mean specific places, I already got some ideas but let's collect and maximize our chances, I'll start : -Library - community fundraising events ( remember to be authentic, be genuinely intrested, don't go with the sole purpose to knowing your future spouse) - Volunteer Organizations ( be authentic, if you don't give a shit about volunteering just don't go. and btw if you don't give af about volunteering there's a problem) - Dog parks (not valid option if you have a cat or a pet-crocodile)

@daddy3484 6 ай бұрын

Don’t look for them man. Get like 1 or 2 girls to talk to but don’t expect anything from them. You need women to talk to so you don’t become schizophrenic like me. Now the next step is crucial. But for the most part you need about 6 good friends to create an environment of value. So just join a gang, or Bjj gym, or the AMA, or maybe like a police department in some rural town. Women flock like flies to shiet wherever there are groups of men A) men with money Or B) Men who can create social status at venues (basically a tiny gang or frat that goes out a lot) Even the most traditional of women are drawn out to go partying so they fit in. And you will inevitably run into these women at degenerate places like clubs. Trying to meet women in their own environment is just a waste of time tbh. Create your own attractive environment (charter a yacht every few months and split the bill with friends)

@magnusstilling3204 7 ай бұрын

i agree, my girlfriend totally changed my life for the better. She made me richer and happier, and now we have a son 3 month old. She helped me renovate my appartment, and helped with financial desicions that have made me about 200k.

@aidanmeans5344 7 ай бұрын

This message needs to be broadcasted everywhere, but it wont because society doesn't promote happiness, it promotes achievements.

@moredatesmoreplates2312 7 ай бұрын

BROTHER, we GOTTA talk

@hansblitz7770 7 ай бұрын

There's about 1% out there worth anything if they aren't already taken. The best are going to be wifed up before 25, and they're going to stay married. If she is even decent looking, and for some reason not married by 28, there's probably something wrong with her.

@bekabeka71 7 ай бұрын

That’s why I won’t settle for an average looking girl, the looks are everything for me

@rdx3614 6 ай бұрын

Bruh… let me tell you this about the dual income. Forget about the dual income. Man’s job is to be the bread winner, you make the money, and you get to tell your wife to stay home and take care of the house and the kids and you get the say so all day. If you’re not on that level yet as a man, you have no business being with a woman. Period

@speedracer7022 6 ай бұрын

Keeping it real brother

@henrybp797 7 ай бұрын

In my opinion a man makes a good women the way you carry yourself, the way you make her feel, and the amount of time you spend with her, matter in order to keep attraction and her feeling influx. A women likes to dress in cute clothes and you have to let her embrace her femininity to the world you have to be strong enough to not get jealous and do ur own thing. A women is very intelligent and observant and she will know the balls of steel you carry.

@henrybp797 7 ай бұрын

I learned the hard way and I will never fall in love but I will still love a women with all my heart if she respects me even if it means a possibility of getting hurt in the future because what’s the point of not loving hard

@BookOfAdiel 7 ай бұрын

Their relationship with their parents is paramount. Everything else is secondary.

@Tr055 7 ай бұрын

It seems it all boils down to universal religious beliefs. All we have to do is humble ourselves and accept that the ancients got it all right with their common sense.

@missup23 4 ай бұрын

Am Kenyan, a very good woman but nowadays men just want to sleep around with many girls and its not a flex, am going to be single till God aligns me with a genuine and focused person. Goodluck to everyone!!