Finding Myself after Mental Health Issues, Brenda Edwards QVC Event & Homey Family Vlog

[@brihannonstrathern8801]

I love how open and honest you are with your girls about how you've been feeling and the importance of doing things that make you happy, that such an important thing to teach children. Darcy's answer was so sweet and really mature, Pearls answer was adorable as ever too. You got some great little humans right there Lou, they're such a credit to you ❤️

[@Louisepentland]

Thank you Brihannon, struck gold with these girls xxxx

[@Talesfromtorpet]

I'm an oldie but goldie and every time I watch one of your vlogs it feels like I'm catching up with an old friend. So happy to see that genuine smile again, and the ease of which you vlogged this. You've always been my comfort KZbinr, your videos have helped me when I needed it and entertained me when I haven't. Watching you and your family thrive fills me with such joy 🥰 Thank you for all that you do!!

[@mariaelenak7917]

This!

[@themfreemans]

That entire first part... About being mentally exhausted and having to make yourself feel good or happy or whatever... Instant tears. That's exactly what I'm going through and I couldn't find the words. Thank you for finding them for me. My therapist probably thanks you too 😘

[@TheMorgan21rose]

Same. She said what I haven't been able to say. It really is work. ❤️

[@sophierobinson6041]

That little happy moment with Darcy 😭 I swear I had a little flash back of her being a toddler on your lap ❤️

[@tierras760]

I loved this video because I found that after all I’d been through in my life, I was just so serious and wasn’t living in the moment! I’ve made my resolution this year to “act my age” aka let myself be more spontaneous, and do things simply because I love them. Seeing this really reminded me of that goal! ❤❤❤

[@arieldawson4358]

The whole beginning monologue was a bit of me. Heading out of 2 years of surgery/chemo/radiation and now I’m like… putting effort into a life outside of the whole medical bubble. Doing therapy and eating well and etc. and while it’s exhausting right now I know it will be worth it! That encouragement was just what I needed though! Xx

[@emmaliefmann9984]

"Finding myself again" I so relate to this! I've lost a lot of myself since my baby was born, and the effort of looking after two kids, the house, and working doesn't leave much energy for me!

[@gigilou]

This is why I just adore you and have watched you for so many years ❤️❤️ You're always so honest and open about how you feel and over the years you've made me feel so less alone. I totally get what you mean about finding yourself again and doing the things that spark joy for ourselves. I have struggled with CPTSD and severe depression for the last 4 years particularly but I have always struggled with my mental health. I have just turned 40 and my daughter is almost a teen now so I'm starting to find and do the things that make me happy. I've lost myself so much over the last few years and almost lost my identify. Thank you for being such a wonderful ray of sunshine ✨ Have an amazing Sunday beautiful ❤️ xxxxx

[@Janedoesit]

More chaotic vlogs please🙌 I absolutely loved this ♥️ have a wonderful Sunday everyone

[@Louisepentland]

Well, my life is a giant bag of chaos so there's plenty more where that came from ahaha xxx

[@MW-fm7lw]

So lovely to hear that your feeling much better in yourself Louise, you deserve all the happiness in the world. Your looking stunning. Keep smiling and feeling positive. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@mesouthseaand2404]

2023 does feel like the year to find me after concentrating on being a mum for nearly 9 years. Thanks for the chat! ❤️

[@meagnelhug9976]

That first little chat has made how I'm feeling so much clearer! Now I understand why I'm so hesitant to tell friends I'm feeling a bit better, because although I'm feeling less low, it's taking all my effort to function somewhat normally Sending you all the love 💕

[@julieh9010]

Louise, you have the sweetest family. I love both of the handbags you chose. I agree life is too short not to have fun and be silly. I would choose the fun and cheerful clothes and jewelry too.

[@lucyfp7030]

I love how chaotic Louise is when she’s not in ‘mum mode’

[@Louisepentland]

Mum Mode - Life is together, work hard to be organised, stay calm always. Louise Mode - Utter carnage!!! Hahahaha

[@kiracox9041]

I’ve been watching you for a long (long, I’m quite old) time now, and I appreciate you sharing your mental health journey with us so much! It’s so relatable and you’re so real about it. I’m having a tough time right now and it gives me the hope that things will get better and that one day I won’t be using all my energy to get out of it - thank you Louise 💖 I also cannot believe Pearl is FIVE

[@Louisepentland]

Oh Kira I feel for you SO much because I know how utterly exhausting it is trying to keep afloat. What I can say though is that is DOES happen. It's so weird because when you're in the thick of it, you think this is it forever and then one day you think, 'Hmmm that was ok' and then you have a whole 'ok' week and an 'ok' month etc and then....JOY COMES BACK!! Keep on keeping on my love xxx

[@amytinker]

I feel like mental health is such a journey, I feel like I go up and down and sometimes I just go with the ride rather than carving out time for me to really get into issues or just have self care. I have two daughters very similar ages to yours and I finally feel like the fog is lifting and there is less demand on my mental capacity for others. I’m finally tip toeing into self care and delving into what it is I need in this season.

[@harrieth7003]

Honeslty gives me hope that one day I will just FEEL WELL instead of putting effort into trying to feel well. So glad you're there!

[@LadyPatriciaT]

So wise for such a young woman. YOU bring joy to so many. Also your choice of lip color is spectacular; you look so lovely. Love from Lady Patricia across the pond in New England.

[@wordiebirdie]

I've only just discovered Call the Midwife and it is SUCH a good show!!! It really is a feel-good moment.

[@FamilyYohan]

So glad to see you back more!! Been watching forever!!

[@hayleycoulson2553]

Love this style of chatty vloggy vlog 🥰 the girls are so grown up too!! They’re just lovely xx

[@gabymcdonald5876]

Bless your girls are so cute and amazing! Pearl is an absolute sweetheart! "We make mummy happy" I struggle with London especially when you are there for a day then evening event - posh shoes in handbag, Great tip 1😊 Love your vlogs, keep it up xx

[@brogantatexo]

Such a lovely chit chat! Loved the new bags, can’t wait to see your cruise 🤩✨

[@isobelj8955]

I really relate. I’ve been feeling a lot better recently (because of starting antidepressants), and I’ve begun to get enjoyment out of the things that I like again, rather than just doing them to stay afloat. It’s an amazing feeling. Really glad to hear you’re doing better 💗

[@juliebroadhurst23jb]

I very much understand when you have been going through somthing and you have just lost yourself a bit and you just want to have the things that brought you joy once before because they are the real you 😊 xx

[@mjlvrforeva23]

Loooooove the chatty parts of your videos (& the rest!), makes me feel so cosy and relate as well. ⭐️🥰

[@hannahrattray4713]

Seeing other people’s chaos makes me happy because I realise it’s not just me who’s living a live circus sometimes. 🎪 💗 💎 😊

[@Louisepentland]

Constantly living in a circus round here Hannah haha xxx

[@rikkejensen4716]

Great vlog Louise, it’s so important to talk about our mental health struggles. I need to find a counsellor so I can start feeling like myself again, I owe it to myself and my little boy. Ben’s Cookies are the best, my favourite is the white choc and macadamia nuts😍 I remember you pretty dresses with novelty prints, they are gorgeous ❤xx

[@yadi5808]

Missed this types of blogs. Love it!

[@shashabmc1]

I have been leaning into the law of attraction and it's really helped me in my life! Do things that bring positivity to your life!

[@anjalibhat14]

I feel like, in a different mental state, the chaos of the day could have really flustered you, thrown you off, and perhaps even upset you (at least, it would have done for me)! But because you were with great friends and family and so intently focused on your happiness, you spun all that chaotic energy into something exciting, vibrant, and joyful! You should be really proud of the progress you have made with your mental health and the hard work you put in to get to a good place x

[@nero4995]

"Frivol: to behave in a frivolous way". Louise teaching me something about language today!

[@lparrish89]

Not to get into the nitty-gritty of it, but I think it’s okay to like two “conflicting” things at the same time, as long as they both bring you joy then I wouldn’t give a woolly wotsit what anyone else thinks

[@cross_stich_happy_alena9035]

I just put your video on telly and my daughter said 'that's the lady from Tesco isnt it?' 😊 I came up to you to say Hello couple of months back at Mereway Tesco ,sorry if I shouldn't have come and say Hello,but I couldnt help if ,I've been watching you since 2015 and it was like meeting a celebrity 😊

[@mazie3426]

You are so beautiful! I also dealt with mental health issues, & it’s been a journey. :’) I struggled to reach out for help, but honestly when I asked for help it was the absolute decision. I’m much better now, it gets better. 💗 I’m so grateful there’s much more resources & awareness to mental health. We got this 🫶 God bless! Sending you lots of love, light, & prayers. 🥰 “May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace.” - Numbers 6:24-26 🤍

[@Louisepentland]

Thank you Mazie, same to you too xxx

[@spiritintheskyblue]

Hi Louise, It's so good to hear your not stuggling to be happy, I think alot of people go through that, I know I have, it's sad to see when someone isn't able to break the cycle. I'm of older age now and realize, all that truely matters is to love and be loved, you have a wonderful family. I love the clutch purse you got it's so pretty. I've been watching you for so many years and I'm so proud of you Louise, I would believe your mother was beside you the entire time guiding you to be the angel you are. Thank you for all you do on youtube, I just love watching and you've helped me without even knowing lol Blessings to you and your family 🤗🤗

[@dawnyarrow3795]

Loved this, the chaos, the fun and frivolity and the happiness of it x

[@laurawestenra]

You look so fresh and beautiful in your blue and white ensemblle! It is so true to your style. I love your colorful sequin bag too, it's so playful and fun.😊🌼🐇 Ballet flats are classic.

[@Justme_elizabeth]

Was having such a low mood day and this just brightened it for me. Thank you ❤

[@lmyoung94]

I don't know if this helps..? I just found the perfect quote on Pinterest... " Witches call it spells, Christians call it prayer. Spiritualists call it manifestation, Atheists call it the placebo effect, and Scientists call it quantum physics. Everyone has a different name for it, Only no-one is denying "it" is out there! " Keep having fun with your crystals if they keep you happy 😊

[@abeamzn1898]

This is a great quote.

[@Dairymilkdiva]

Such a lovely way to start a Sunday with Louise🥰🥰

[@lillivioletgirl]

Regarding mental health I know exactly what you mean. Glad you're feeling better!

[@aprilplenderleith8846]

Hey lousie! you rock!!!! your positive vibes and energy really set me up for the day❤

[@hannahprentice10399]

Aww I'm so happy you feel better. We all deserve to be happy. I'm so happy that you are trying to get out more! Also Brenda has done absolutely amazing recently when she's being going through so much. You also look beautiful💙 I love that you vlog pineapple dance all the time when you are in London always makes me smile as it's Darcey's favourite place💕 I love the chaos those Bens cookies look so good my god💛 I literally got stuck in a lift at school once and I was so scared but I got out obviously x

[@samistrying]

the bit about mental health recovery recovery reminds me of the song rainbow by kacey musgraves! 💕

[@bnjenk]

Thank you for this, Louise! Felt like catching up with an old friend. From, An Oldie but Goldie

[@creativereindeer]

This was cute! Self aware chaos seems organised. glad you enjoyed making it, that’s what I’m here for. Take care of yourself and happy creating.

[@ellenawhitaker2046]

I know what you mean about finding yourself again! I’m still on the counselling journey and love finding me. She is really fun! Love your Sunday vlogs and your girlies are so gorgeous ❤xx

[@katiebalman899]

Love the joules top!! Love the bags!! Love the chaos! 🎉😊 can't wait to see the cruise vlogs 😍 xx

[@roxy5759]

Those moments of nearly weeing yourself whilst laughing with your friends (over the dumbest things) really are the best 😂💗 So glad you had a day to just exist and be happy...and get a Ben's cookie 😉

[@lifeofnicolefamilyof5]

I dont know why but I feel like I've only just seen the new bathroom loooooove it !!!!!! I totally get you on the mental health you keep yourself going then one day your like oh I actaully feel better.

[@LindaMorton1973]

Hello Louise. I enjoyed this weeks video alot. I've been like you where I've thought I need to be serious as I get older, but I chose not to care anymore and just be me and do things, and own things that make me happy. Looking forward to your next video. Have a great week. ❤️

[@Acipification]

Actually laughing out loud watching this!!! So nice to see you confident and enjoying yourself! Xc

[@APinchOfBecky]

I’ll tell you what makes me happy - YOUR VIDEOS! 💖 Can’t wait for cruise content. Ps LOVE the Union Jack bag! So fun xx

[@Louisepentland]

Ahhh thank you Becky!! Can't wait to bring you all that sweet, sweet cruise content! xxx

[@planetaryg0]

ahhh yes i agree vinted is awesome!! i get alll my things there and it feels so good being able to get high quality clothes etc for cheap

[@barbarawesley8219]

Love the chatty start... Oldie but oldie here 🙂

[@caitlinboard429]

Loved this vlog so much and can totally relate. I just had 2 babies in 2 years and just now feel like im getting back to 'me' again ❤️

[@wonderfulrainyday]

Your intro message, so spot on, I relate to that very much. You out sth into words for me here

[@jenniferhenderson6154]

Lovely vlog. Really loving these bags I’m after a Kate spade bag. I buy of vinted a lot for both myself and boys x

[@kerryharding5587]

Hey Louise- such a fun visit. Really had a laugh with you and the non bendy shoes 😄 was rattan ( as in the bag) the word you were searching for? Darcy and Pearl are precious 🌟🧡🌟🧡 Love hearing their thoughts 🥰

[@Louisepentland]

YES Rattan!! Thank you!! xx

[@punchlinelibby9999]

This was such a lovely vlog! Thank you!

[@deemarie8647]

Thanks so much for this. I was honestly crylaughing 😂

[@laurawoodall9086]

I am screaming at the Mayfair Shoes Crisis Louise hahaahaahah, the way Lara said open up when you were showing your blazer and the high kick 🤣

[@meganreid7901]

Can I recommend danceworks to Darcy for ballet classes? I find the floors of the studios so much better and the atmosphere really lovely! It’s near Bond Street and is the same drop in vibe as pineapple dance studios x

[@MicheMunro]

Well I’m watching this now for my quiet and restful Sunday morning, but yesterday- you better believe I was in Hotel Chocolat in Glasgow yesterday treating myself to several items!! ✨💖

[@17GleekDanielle]

That British sequin bag would be perfect for if you are attending the Eurovision Song Contest in Liverpool this year.

[@lindamarricfilmcritic]

The vlog was already chaotic and then you went and got stuck in a lift. Classic. 😂

[@zincwell6503]

The sequin handbag is giving me major Spice Girls vibes in the best way!

[@thedenimk]

Love your jolly mood and self :)

[@brihannonstrathern8801]

You make SUCH sense in your chat about your state of mind and mental health. That really resonated with me. I've had this realisation recently that I've been allowing myself to get so lost and caught up in my relationship with my partner (we don't have children). I was just getting so invested in everything and we'd argue SO much because of how intensely invested I was in everything he was doing as an individual that I forgot about myself. I forgot that I am allowed to be an individual too and do things that I like and want to do just because they make me feel good. I NEED to live my own life too as well as love my life with my partner. I definitely did get lost a bit and swept up in my relationship because I had very little other focus points in my life but I realized if I want them, I have to make them. They disappeared for a reason and that reason was I just stopped trying to make them happen because I was SOOOO focused on my relationship. Being focused on and invested in your relationships isn't a bad thing, I care so much for my partner, like you said Louise, I'd lay down my life for him. But that doesn't mean I have to wait around until he needs me to do that - I can and more importantly, NEED to live MY life too Xx

[@Louisepentland]

YES! Sounds like you've decided, quite rightly, that you need to make time for YOU as well xxxx

[@okayheykae]

I'm always relieved to hear that I'm not the only one who's confused about directions! Google Maps is so helpful but I regularly stare at it and have no idea what it means or where to go. I usually end up saying "okay I'll start walking this direction and if I get to Road A that means I'm going the right way and if I get to Road B then I need to turn around 😅 Also if someone wants to open a "crystals and chips" shop that is my dream and I would promise to visit as often as I could - eating potatoes while looking at pretty rocks sounds amazing! And I tried to get into the LoA a few years ago and I couldn't figure it out and I decided it wasn't working for me, but recently I've been realizing how big of a difference just being in a good mood makes! People are friendlier! Nicer things happen! I feel better! I notice the good stuff! I think I was making it too difficult, and it's nice to hear that things are getting brighter for you, too! 💜

[@lizjones6946]

Ah I’m hoping to go on a P&O cruise in September so will look forward to those vlogs! 😊

[@elizabetha9630]

Your girls are so lovely it makes me tear up ❤

[@tatersprecious5827]

Honestly, if you didn't apologize for the chaotic energy, I wouldn't even have noticed it. It was just a vlog with a lot of bits and a lot of happy moments. If the pandemic has taught us anything, it's that we should enjoy our time here while we have it. And what makes us happy doesn't have to make sense to anyone else and doesn't require anyone else's approval. 🥰

[@heyheyhey89100]

Oldie but goldie here! Loved today's vlog. Where is your comfy pullover from?

[@Louisepentland]

Thank you! It's from Joules xxx

[@lifewithatouchofsparkle6717]

Louise you are honestly so beautiful! Sending you all the love from a friend from the beginning (the blog days!) xxx

[@Louisepentland]

Thank you old friend xxx

[@bonjouritsizzy3405]

the purse around 26:00 that you showed is definitely fun & I love it :)

[@emilyf5066]

“This one time at band camp“ 😂

[@Louisepentland]

Yesss! Hello fellow millennial haha!! xxx

[@brendastthomas9921]

Enjoy the crystals for their beauty.

[@SunnyGlade]

9:38 😂😂 What is happening here? I randomly found myself laughing with you

[@Louisepentland]

Ahahaha that alley was the most putrid, rancid smelling place we'd ever been in our lives and I felt that was worth sharing, without context ahaha

[@lyla_m4949]

youre awesome louise :)

[@katherinecollins4685]

Louise is amazing

[@cobaltbluecava]

I was like that too. Took so long for me to go do normal things

[@rhiannondorman]

Have you been to the new Hotel Chocolat shop in Northampton on the A45 near j16 M1? 🍫 8:03

[@amylockwood6552]

I know what you mean, mum of 3, eldest is 13 and youngest has just turned 4 x feel like I’m not myself/don’t even know who I am anymore x seem to be lost and just be mum x wouldn’t change it for the world but it’s just hard to catch a breath sometimes xx

[@Louisepentland]

Time for us to discover who we are again xxx

[@emmabarnes609]

hey louise

[@liz1599]

I remember sprinkle of glitter

[@AwesomeMandy]

Louise 😂 you crack me up

[@LaraJoannaJarvis]

Oh I LOVED re-living our chaotic day!! Loved spending it with you and can’t wait for more ❤️❤️❤️

[@ClarkeLife]

I feel like my kids would have had a very different answer if I asked them what made me happy! 🙈😂

[@lynnemaree8346]

I'm so desperate to know what the horrible smell was, it was making me cry laughing.

[@katiehill2500]

Hi Louise , where is your bed throw from please . Looking for something similar

[@Louisepentland]

John Lewis xxx

[@katiehill2500]

@@Louisepentland ❤

[@karentompkins4115]

Always loved your eyes…..what lashes would you recommend ? ❤️😎

[@Louisepentland]

Thank you! I love Eyelure demi wispies xxx

[@nicoleralston2837]

Podcast time????

[@rubyhunt2551]

Has the shirt dried out now? 🤪

[@Louisepentland]

This was the first wear, when it was dry. Then it got washed and thheeennn, dampy damp Fashion Friday ahahaha xxx

[@hannahedwards520]

First