Finding the courage to truly be yourself

[@tanyacarlyle1422]

I’m reading Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents and it’s being a level of clarity I have not experienced. Thank you Dr Gibson!!

[@moniqueloupe8867]

I am so grateful for her perspective. I feel like my growth was at a plateau for quite a while until I found her.

[@iw9338]

I love the claim a moment of joy!❤

[@Discovery_and_Change]

49:55 they marry people who continue family dynamics 53:02 Marie Differentiation Scale 55:46 know what youre comfortable and not comfortable with 58:26 set the boundary in any way that works for you 59:00 repeat the boundary as often as needed

[@Discovery_and_Change]

5:00 Dr. Gibson says hello 7:41 still small voice inside 7:53 comes with a lot of energy 9:34 impulses from true self 26:34 are we looking for permission? 29:13 claim joy now 30:46 this is your time. Do it. Say yes 32:29 establish boundaries 38:52 if no one disapproved of you, what would you do that would be pleasurable 49:11 familiarity is part of bonding

[@iw9338]

I came up with the idea to interview people every time i got gas about their car and boy what an eye opener. I was able to talk with people from all walks of life. Recovering wll flower. Helpful 😅❤

[@Guddilove801]

What a great convo . Loved every second of it. Its so enlightening to be aware of how my EIP conditioned me and the consequences of it all. So good to know im not crazy all by my choosing.😅

[@iw9338]

Excellent thanks very much 😅

[@robertburatt5981]

If one thinks about it, the major tendency of commercials reflect emotionally immature people; the mindlessly conformist, "group-think" types ectsatically engaging in consumption. Same for sitcoms, movies, and dramas--they all reflect the extremely narrow range of this type of individual--the american! The fertile soil for fascism ALA (american type) "democracy " !!!

[@rashkehof2458]

Good observation, love it!

[@Alphacentauri819]

Yep…I’ve absolutely thought this. If you think in simplistic absolutes, you’re much easier to be triggered into things emotionally. Also, when brain scans were done on certain political types…those who were more likely to vote for an authoritarian (veering fascist) leader) have a larger R amygdala, which indicates they will react from threat, fear based, more quickly, more often, more intensely. While this isn’t cut/dry, all the time, it is interesting! Those who are less likely to vote in that way, have larger grey matter in the anterior cingulate cortex (which will help rein in impulse, be more empathetic etc). So…that also explains the divide that is near impossible to close. If you have to accommodate someone who thinks emotionally and impulsively, struggles with holding space for more/new info, you are accommodating for their profound limitations. We have people with emotionally maturity of young teens (or toddlers) who get to vote!!

[@Discovery_and_Change]

1:00:22 what do you really want? Real motivator?

[@alinamoskalenko1905]

Wow thank you so much this podcast, this open my eyes so much!!!💜

[@VegaBlondie]

Thank you