Five Years Together, Planned To Propose, But When I Called Her During An Emergen.. .. Reddit Stories

[@Jacob6853]

Block = dump. Wouldn't be surprised if she was cheating while at it.

[@IzzyPR2010]

OP was told by his mother to not end the relationship because he's already invested 5 years in it, the sunk cost fallacy at work. Honestly if OP waits for 6 years he might not end up being alive.

[@cashmeoutside8646]

When someone shows you who they are, believe them. His ex girlfriend is unreliable and not wife material. Also, what kind of guy is ok with his girlfriend clubbing with her friends until 3am in the morning? She was drinking to the point of being drunk, that wasn't the first time or the last... If he's not there, how does he know she isn't hooking up with some random guy? She was already gaslighting him about being insecure because she was at a club and hanging out with other guys. Stop being a simp.

[@Themrine2013]

Nah she was cheating on him

[@johndavidson2365]

Story 2. Cheaters always blame someone else.

[@supern0is349]

This isnt about comunication.She went to the Club that a red flag dump her

[@jeremycapps2678]

I heard this story before but I'm glad. Op dumped that chick she ain't life partner material.

[@MrModamanReviews]

The fact that she blocked him is reason enough to dump her. She probably wasn't at the club she said she was at, that's why she didn't go home right away. This guy is a simp. Having your partner go out with friends for dinner is one thing, but going out clubbing?

[@showantd4688]

Clubbing without your bf or gf? Red flag from start

[@Hobbinski]

This story is nuts. She got really testy with you.

[@johndavidson2365]

He is torn. In the sack!😂

[@wickerwork_wesley]

from personal experience, i avoid dating girls who like clubbing. specially if they're a conventionally attractive person. too many drunken decisions you'll likely not be told about, mostly involving flirting with randos and drunken groping/makeout sessions. that's just not the kind of person you wanna marry. also assuming someone's joking about an emergency and blocking them when they're asking for help is a big no no. that's not only immature, but also dangerous. automatic breakup cos who does that?

[@educ.5633]

Going to the club and drinking is not an excuse. If that gets in the way of her being a good partner then she should stop doing those things asap. Of course she won't stop, she prefers going to the club with other guys before caring for her bf.

[@Ai-nz4bd]

Going to the club and dancing and socialising with other guys? RED FLAG

[@deadpatriot4437]

I have always disliked clubs, horrible environments and i have noticed guys and girls who like going to clubs in general are just untrustworthy attention seekers. Anytime my friends dragged me to the club when i was younger did not impress me any. So many people have to get drunk or high to enjoy themselves there. His GF likes the attention and validation she gets from guys in places like that. The only reason she had for ignoring the calls and messages was that she was flirting or hooking up with another guy. If a guy or girl likes clubs, they are not relationship material in anyway.

[@lynnjr457]

The moment my partner blocked me I would have ended it. The rest is irrelevant.

[@jiomaster6152]

second chance possible if she fails again INSTANT

[@MatthewRatburg]

Break up with her. Ya never did this before, than she’s incredibly selfish and ignorant

[@pookiesis1465]

You chose her. Next time choose better

[@johndavidson2365]

Never date a girl who goes to the club without you. Only single people should be going to the club. There is only one reason a person goes to the club.

[@rosebelcaraang]

Good for you broke ur ex gf....dobt deserve a second chance move on man and i hope you recover soon

[@stevereed5046]

Interesting story and very sorry that you had to go through so much but I’m afraid I would say ditcher she’s not worth the hassle. I thought that’s the only consideration she’s got from you more important to get pissed with the girls and probably mixing with lots of different lines as well get rid of her she’s not worth it, mate. 5:45

[@Waluigi7891]

Fake story. That's not how a 911 call is handled. That said, you shouldn't be clubbing when you're in a relationship. It's borderline cheating, because flirting with/getting attention from other people is the whole point to clubbing.

[@aenaen184]

he wrote that the quoted messages are translations. so this probably did not take place in the USA

[@matthewrafter5983]

She was at the club, obviously drinking. How did you expect her to safely drive you to the hospital?

[@divyanshsahai]

Bro he is in pain. How can he think that properly? All he could was contact someone who came first to his mind.

[@ThePicoTrain]

Clear and simple you’re a simp, the level of disrespect she showed you was disgusting, don’t marry her, leave her now as she’s defo cheating!!