Wife Demanded a Divorce for Her Wealthy Lover, But Then He Lost Everything and She Wanted Me Back...

[@bratp4504]

Age is not an excuse to cheat, people need to stop making excuses for cheaters. It was their choice, no one else

[@T3n50r]

Although you're right I don't think he made excuses for her age for being a cheater. Just that when they met she was really young and don't really have a lot of life experience yet. There's a lot of growing as a person that happens in your 20s, and your brain ain't fully developed until about 25 years of age. Settling down may seem fine for a few years until people get hit with fomo or things they may have wanted to do/experience before settling down seriously.

[@awepossum1059]

@@T3n50r For tens of thousands of years in human history people got married young and did their duties. So, if you marry young nowadays you'll get cheated on, but if you marry older, then youre marrying a woman who'se been ran through by at least 20 men. whats the solution?

[@T3n50r]

@@awepossum1059 I'll get to your question, but first: For thousands of years life expectancy was about 20-30 years of age. Freedom in general wasn't a thing either, it was strictly survival. Hard labor to get through each day, and if you got sick you were shit out of luck and would likely die. Infidelity isn't a new concept either. The solution is to find someone you trust and go for it. No one can predict the future. There's a lot of people that find their soulmate and live happily ever after. If you don't like someone with a rather high body count just be honest about that part, there's a lot of women out there that are selective as well. Just don't be surprised if there's a lack of sex life since it probably isn't that important to them, and their libido may be on the lower end. Nothing wrong with going through 20+ or 100+ people in and of itself. It's only an issue if that isn't the type of partner you want, which is fair. It's who they choose to be with in the end that matters. If that's not enough or what you want, be open about what you're looking for and you might find someone who views sex/body counts the same way as you. Just make sure that it's genuine and not because you would have gone through 20-40+ women yourself but couldn't. Time and effort takes place to find relationships like these, and they often evolve slowly over time so you truly know the person before doing the deed together. Also, a lot of people go through life without finding that special someone, so the importance of your boundaries should be taken into account with that in mind in terms of what's ok and what isn't.

[@Abandoned2377]

@@awepossum1059they cheated more back then than today

[@lalalovengun]

Cheaters will always cheat, but I think in this case, the ex wifey seems lost and didn’t know herself well before marriage. She shouldn’t have gotten married in a monogamous relationship. OP deserved better.

[@crowfather0249]

Wow, your wife brings in 3 guys and casually tells you she's going out with them? Who'd of ever thought she'd be cheating?

[@Extebanx14]

One of them was Gay tho

[@xmoney-pb5uo]

@@Extebanx14 They be the one’s you can’t trust the most

[@crowfather0249]

@@Extebanx14 That doesn't mean anything. Ever heard of threesomes?

[@juliearmfield2634]

What do you say to someone that that naive. And in such denial of what is right in front of him.🤦

[@arcadius3257]

@@Extebanx14 I wouldn't even buy that unless I knew the gay guy in question like the husband in the story did. Plenty of straight guys nowadays who pretend to be gay to try and work themselves into a woman's life because women have this weird obsession with having gay friends.

[@kenyabrunson4985]

So wait... your wife comes home, at midnight, with three dudes, and says, "I'm going out with them on the town"? Yeah, she totally slept with them. I can't believe OP was so naive to think she didn't! Someone tries that on me, and they will come home to find their stuff out by the curb.😂

[@cafelatte1124]

He's a typical nice guy simp

[@MrYouMeYou59]

Well maybe he trusted her alot,but who knows?

[@yozarahirvi4750]

it's said later in the video that one of the three guys is gay and a mutual friend that OP knows quite well and trust. the three guys were the wife's coworker but OP worked at that place for a long time and he's the one that brought the wife to this job, so he knows most of her coworkers and is apparently well liked and still have some good friends in there, including the gay guy that was there. so he's friend with one of the guy, the 2 other guys are at worse aquaintances and he trusted his wife, it's not as bad as it sounded when he told us this part, still very shady though ...

[@JohnSmith-bs9ym]

It's not remotely okay even if they were three female friends, left alone three male "friends"...Wtf?

[@sostrucking]

Stuff would be burning in the driveway while I'll have beers for the fire department showing up...

[@luizbezerra4373]

Great story, but misleading title: AP wasn't wealthy, and she didn't want her ex back because AP "lost everything". Disliked for the clickbait.

[@A_Frog]

Thanks for saving me like 20 minutes of my life

[@gokuxsephiroth4505]

Yeah, I was kinda waiting for that moment where AP lost his fortune and ex comes back to OP, to have that sweet moment of her crawling back and getting denied.

[@AMD7027]

Thank-you, this story just comes off as pretentious and made-up.

[@NamiConwelled]

Wow a stroy on Reddit might be fake who knew almost all stories on Reddit r faked but wrong with that its for entertainment​@@AMD7027

[@HamdanullahHussain]

@@gokuxsephiroth4505same

[@VT01]

OP's ex is living in his head rent free. OP stop being concerned about what's happening in her life, good or bad. Turn your back and move on.

[@frozenfresh6406]

Yeah was glad someone here said this. All he does is think about her. I bet every rep at the gym is fueled by the though of her dancing with guys at the club with her purple hair and medications.

[@doubleedge2422]

@@frozenfresh6406 OK the gym thing is it like actually good can we not criticize people for actually working out

[@OPPU73NT]

@@doubleedge2422He isn’t criticizing him for working out big brain. He is criticizing him for being stuck on his ex. If you aren’t going to the gym to be healthy but you are going to think about your ex while working out that is a problem. Fact

[@789blackops]

She is not upset that it had to be this way because she misses OP 😂 she’s sad her choice fucked her over and the grass wasn’t greener on the other side 😂😂

[@DeamonSorrow]

and OP is doing fine on the top of it. 😂

[@alonsogonzalez7539]

Is the wealthy lover in the room with us right now? I mean the story was interesting, nothing bad with it, but the title was suxh a bait and switch.

[@retrofeniks7635]

Agreed, the "wealthy" lover turned out to be just a dude working in transport as well, and him "losing everything" is just being depressed and without a job for a bit.

[@MrToubrouk]

Always let the garbage go. Especially if said garbage is leaving on it's own accord.

[@TheGosgosh]

>says she probably has a midlife crisis >dyes her hair purple Run, ma dude, run

[@juliearmfield2634]

She's only 27 yr old.

[@SimonPetrikov12]

Purple hair can be pulled off. Rarely, but it can.

[@rolandorban6248]

Honestly she sounds like someone who actually just lost her mind completely and OP actually kinda sees that as well so who knows? Maybe a weird long mental breakdown...well I guess actually mid-life crisis is the best description

[@rolandorban6248]

​@@juliearmfield2634yeah but they were married for like 8 years

[@TheGosgosh]

@@juliearmfield2634 so her life expectancy is only 54 years old 😆🙃

[@luizoliveira7595]

The dude is still a doormat, telling that the ex has control over their contact, and how he don't think they could still be together. The dude still hope to be with her.

[@jonasbrumley8184]

Ah yes the classic affair trope of "i felt something with him" only for it to backfire to an incredible and deserving degree

[@Heiura]

It's so hard to pity him viewing how much he yap about her again and again and again ...

[@kidm0bius190]

misleading title: AP wasn't wealthy, and she didn't want her ex back because AP "lost everything". Disliked for the clickbait.

[@Badger_VI]

Nah its kinda like that OP loses his mother and they both get depressed EX "goes to her mid life crisis 💀" and cheats AP loses his job becomes depressed EX starts regtetting, wants to return Which tells us she just lacks the basic thoughs of: *something bad happend we should get over it together* Instead she hops partners that means shes just stupid literally moving with her animal insticts

[@balazsfoldes4700]

Honestly sounds like a bipolar person in their manic phase. Bipolars swing between two "poles", they're either really down and depressed, or they have zero negative emotion. Quite literally. This is called the manic phase, because they don't feel any inhibitions either. This is when they randomly decide to sell their home to move across the country, tattoo "Idiot" on their forehead because they think it's funny, or buy a 100 kg St. Bernard dog in a 25 m2 / 250 sqft apartment in the middle of downtown. You know, things that you wouldn't do because it's stupid? Well manic phase bipolars usually think these are great ideas.

[@unclecreper]

The dog one was oddly specific...hmmm

[@zeekay3205]

She even has the impulsivity - she could easily have often been hypomanic and they wouldn't have known, plus the hypersexuality with multiple partners.

[@yeyosilver7067]

Sounds like a characterless and terrible person. It's pathetic how they put mental problems to justify everything

[@Badger_VI]

What kind of a liberal bs is this? I just call it natural selection and the idiot unfaithful genes doesn’t get to pass into next generations

[@Badger_VI]

​@@yeyosilver7067dude they're fr trying to make it seem sweet and out of her control by calling it bipolar bs Basic woke attempt at trying to disovle social ties tbh

[@phaethaya]

Only a simp would reconcile after the wife cheated and wanted a divorce 🤣🤣🤣

[@Shado_Zatarra]

I would have hugged the "BFF" and comfort her especially with her still recovering from a relationship

[@whitneymcclendon16]

She's 27 yet going through a mid life crisis lmfao 😂

[@megamania501]

He mentions hard meds towards the end but I suspected they were part of it about halfway thru, just by her actions.

[@Badger_VI]

I agree its a high probablity, like it might have started when she cheated. Because she was out with 3 dudes AT 5 AM

[@JohnSmith-bs9ym]

Man...I stopped watching at 7:25 mark...Wtf, she cheated on OP, but OP still kept talking about her with such warmth and fuzzy feelings...OP is simp incarnate. I'm feeling 2nd hand embarrassment just by listening to this shit.

[@Justin-A-Carter]

Simpin' aint easy.

[@DJprofessorK]

Naw bro, I would leave if my fiancée even suggested going out with just a single guy let alone 3. Guys know how guys are, you got to be smarter than that Anyone who puts up with cheating is a weak person. They don’t deserve respect

[@powermiller855]

😂😂 anybody else thought she died but then found out she dyed her hair 😂😂

[@eye282]

ikr

[@WTC-1990]

The "can you take me home" ridiculous, she can wait outside

[@shirokusanagi3901]

Bro 100% would take her back the second she returns.

[@ShiNijuuAKL]

@Huehue-qf1ri He doesn't, isn't it obvious how obsessive he sounds like? He is monitoring her, he wants her life to suck so that she comes back begging. He is not moving on

[@rinkydinky9348]

​@ShiNijuuAKL your coping brother. People were giving him info unrequested

[@chinaking918]

@@ShiNijuuAKLI agree the fact that he even cares that she’s having regrets is a hug indicator. Plus the fact towards the end it sounds like he’s definitely waiting for her to come crawling back to him.

[@chinaking918]

@@AlexanderTP90this. All of this. 🎯

[@lalalovengun]

He’s still in love with her and is denial

[@thenerdbeast7375]

Title doesn't really match what happens in the story. No mention of AP being wealthy at all and the Ex didn't want OP back at the end.

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

Of course whe will come crawling back after the grass wasnt greener. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 The moment he moved on she comes back shooooooooocking

[@ShiNijuuAKL]

If you think he moved on and that he won't take her back you are not paying attention xD

[@Skilledbruiser-tc3cc]

Imagine saying you’re having a midlife crisis at 27 💀

[@charlienoah5583]

I've been married 22 years. We got married after a month. I was 20 and he was 21. We couldn't have kids. But we decided to stay together even though we wanted kids. Our love and bond is stronger than ever. I would never go off or party with any guys without my husband. We don't do things like that. If one goes out the other goes too or no one goes.

[@ispguy2001]

He should have contacted a divorce attorney the moment she confessed at cheating

[@TheyCallMeVincenzo]

Lol, that's nearly the perfect age to marry.

[@yaseenelsokary6809]

I love teh way she talk the way she walk like what buddy Kendrick will coem for you

[@redson8441]

Well South Korea used to have law that in a marriage husband or wife who was caught in a cheating will be sentenced 2 years in jail 😌😌😌

[@fethicha3113]

In my country 10 years in prison

[@fethicha3113]

@JustAReader2050 Algeria: If you divorce without children, then she is the one who divorced, you do not get anything, and if he divorced her, you get a small sum of approximately 15k in your currency, depending on your living situation. If there are children and a woman marries after a divorce, she leaves your house or the house that is rented and you get all your children. If it is treason, there is no playing around with it. Although most women in my country, Algeria, do not cheat, they are afraid that their husbands will kill them because they do not care. Even the prison sentence for him after a murder due to treason is reduced from five to seven years.

[@headhunter3744]

W south korea

[@adnanorochi3761]

In Muslim countries too

[@itsmini6175]

Of course the title doesn’t match

[@zirconia1205]

Half of the post is just dude yapping

[@jordanwardle11]

Well, people do use those subreddits as a cheap therapist

[@crowfather0249]

​@@jordanwardle11 And then wonder why their lives become worse because most Redditors aren't psychiatrists, they're a bunch of self righteous basement dwellers who's last relationship was in Middle School and they still haven't gotten over it.

[@a_noelles]

Yeah, he was spiraling there for a while for sure. Dude needs therapy.

[@SpankDMunky]

Midlife crisis?! She’s 27! Does she have a lifespan of 54 years?!

[@jenniferbaumann4467]

26 and 21 is not to young to marry. I was married younger than that. She cheated because of whatever reason.....nothng to do with age.

[@slyph63]

What is all this BS about marrying too early? There is no age limit to getting married or starting a family except the legal rules that try to protect against child abuse. For instance my mother in law knew her husband from the age of four. The married at 16. They lived through WWII together while her husband was in the RAF. He died when he was 74. And his wonderful wife lived another twenty years.i often wonder how she coped. I now know as my husband her son died nine years ago. I will never love again like that. Its not about money or having a house or how many cars you have ffs. Its about love.

[@slacksviii9824]

I still dont get how it isnt illegal to cheat on your partner, if it can be proven you 100% should be able to sue or at least have them put on a list to warn others about them

[@stepheniddon1482]

The same 3 to 4 "poses"😂. The fact he calls them poses tell me the sex was trash

[@RxePlaysMsp]

Nah fr dragged it tf on just say your sex life was shit and move tf on

[@tgoodfella]

Dude says he's over her but then says I can work on it with you. Dudes a simp move on and don't comfort her she left you and manipulates

[@nuclearnadal4601]

The one conclusion I got is that, the dude's a Simp. And I'd not be surprised if he takes his cheating Ex back. Seems like a spineless guy, no wonder his Ex cheated on him.

[@vgkrazie]

This thing draaaaaaagged! All over the place. Could have made this a simple 30 second video, wife cheated, wanted divorce, so we divorced.

[@Masaki-9982]

Found the TikTok brain

[@KilroyWasHere83]

"In The Netherlands, there is no law against cheating" Well, remind me to never ever live in The Netherlands

[@tytoalba605]

Shes a budget gold digger the ex she left op for a better lifestyle (in her head), and is equally the ap for persueing a married woman, but the fact she came back says she did it for $ and not for love and she doesnt love op she was useing him.

[@quinntinsmith7363]

Getting married young is not the issue. It's her commitment to other things beside her marriage.

[@RashidAli-fb3se]

Half of this post is op expalning and justyfying why he is right to be a dormaat and not divorce his wife

[@DaShikuXI]

"I didn't like it but couldn't stop her". Yes you absolutely could.

[@narsilthefreak6171]

How?

[@uh4875]

Even if you stopped her she clearly wanted to. Relationship is already shot and ruined at that point

[@osandro2k]

To be honest, this entire channel kind of feels like that one tumblr story that ends with "And everyone clapped" but it is very binge-able ngl

[@MattJDave]

I think with reddit stories in general you have to engage in a little bit of kayfabe, because ye, chances are the majority are fake lol

[@christianschulz1443]

@@MattJDave also the very pro therapy stance all the time just cringe

[@MattJDave]

@@christianschulz1443 What exactly is wrong with therapy? There can definitely be bogus and bad therapists, but therapy is overall a force for good.

[@christianschulz1443]

@@MattJDave i would strongly dissagree with that therapists have a financial insentive to keep you there. But im also not against therapy what im against is running to therapy for every little thing.

[@MattJDave]

@@christianschulz1443 I agree there's a perverse incentive but... I mean, you can say that for any professional that takes appointments. It's the nature of the game in a capitalist world. What's a therapist to do, not get paid?

[@haruwiseceo]

I’m not gonna lie, purple hair is badass

[@praisethesun9434]

She tried to jump ship but the new one sank and now she will drown 😂

[@jessicathompson236]

NTA. Let her go as she chose. She chose to cheat. She chose to leave the marriage. No contact after that, unless you have children obviously.

[@johnarredondo7259]

Yeah brother she cheated on you with more than just one guy. You need to move on.

[@tommybell4850]

Never understood why ppl want someone back when they want to leave. Let them go.

[@thabihotboy9376]

Haha 😂 SuperTrans Sounds like a superhero in a Pride Villain movie 😂😂 who's the villain? LGB?

[@cree878]

You need to file for divorce , if you get back together she will drop you the next time someone else comes along

[@Allie_phelps]

I married young, have been married 22 years and love my husband more everyday. It doesn’t matter when you get married, it matters the character of the person you’re married to. My husband and I have always been open and honest with each other, if we ever feel there’s any kind of problem we openly discuss them and work through them together. OPs wife wanted the money because she thought it would automatically make her happy and as soon as the money was gone she knew she made a mistake. The only mistake she made was leaving a loving relationship for money and karma caught up to her

[@Fallgrim_Taykhart]

im glad everything worked out for everyone important 😂

[@Scaryvideos2268]

I loved the part where " Her Wealthy Lover, But Then He Lost Everything and She Wanted Me Back..."

[@Oblivionwolf38]

the part about the divorce laws in the Netherlands pissed me off, like how does the fact she cheated not matter. hell marriage really is just an evil contract regardless of where you are.

[@doncjack5913]

Too bad he didn't report marital neglect to the HR department to get them fired.

[@idostuffs7043]

There is no Too fast to divorce to cheater!

[@Akarshit_Dawra]

Stop with adding the constant turning in Minecraft to the video. It's making my head dizzy!!! 😂

[@Monoriss]

Another fun screwed up reality fact. She was never your woman, it was just your turn.

[@dereck377]

1st Mistake: Allowing male friends to exist in your relationship

[@brenscott5416]

Got married too young? Ya no. Everyone said the ex wasn't unhappy, she was just a shit person in the end

[@SelflessHero]

OP kinda felt simp-y

[@lozzipop4025]

It sounds like the ex wife is battling with some serious depression (maybe even showing early signs of suicidal tendencies) but can't explain why she would be this way, so she sabotaged her life to have a reason for her feelings.

[@Epickgamet37]

Love these kinds of stories. The karma hits hard

[@presterjohn9088]

I'm not excusing the cheating at all. However these people are young yet have sex about 2 times per month. OP also said their sex life was "ok" at least for him, however he wasn't sure how his wife felt about it. If you don't know how your partner feels about your sex life then you are not in a good relationship and your partner probably doesn't feel that you care about their sexual satisfaction.

[@kylerdrake7276]

I'm not surprised he got cheated on. You can tell by the way he types that he can't bench 100kg.

[@jessicathompson236]

A midlife crisis in her 20s? Uhuh, yeah sure. Ok.

[@Im_Just_Here248]

Ummm there is no such thing as marrying to young. It’s complete garbage to even try to reason that. I’ve seen people who marry at 18 last long than those who marry at 40. You chose a terrible partner and that’s all it is

[@jasminerobertson4913]

Yes there is! My God🙄 a lot of young people don't want big responsibilities. Marriage is one of them.

[@arhael3594]

After two other stories I listened, I am glad in this story wife admitted to cheating after mere 1 week and there are no kids involved. The guy after being stupid for a bit was able to move on pretty easily.

[@glenmassey3746]

She's not going through anything she just feels the approach of the wall.

[@BrownLove7562]

Whether this story is fake or not, it’s really funny that she thought she was gonna run off into the sunset with her AP. We won’t know when or how, but Karma will always strike back. She went from a wife to…. Nothing basically. She only “regret” because she got exposed. 🤷🏾 Tough shit lady, take the L and move on.

[@k-boy1909]

This sounds like discord mod and even tho I hate this word a SIMP, like how can you go thru all that and still 6months later hope that she comes back? Probably a fake story but come on now

[@ruokuojaden3690]

Dude instead of complimenting your wife divorce her.

[@changefullstew3649]

BRO ON MINECRAFT WAS NOT COOKING!

[@pkroninverse7307]

And that's how kids stay away from B

[@andruyscha]

Why do people say today that you are too young for monogamy? this sentence, enjoy your life first... Shut up, that's what I want, don't tell me what brings me joy in my life. if you need 20 STDs to find the right woman please do that. This isn't my life. Celebrating drinking alcohol and living like a child doesn't appeal to me

[@nahnitoblox]

Update 5: we didnt sign the divorce papers

[@Sincerely_confused]

I would like to point out that she was 19! And he was 24! WHEN THEY STARTED DATING, i get when they are older it won't be a big age gap but it's still weird

[@altercard5389]

I'm going to call it, I think AP took advantage of OP and EX's mourning of OP's mom's passing to get with EX. I think EX is responsible for cheating but it wouldn't surprise me if AP was to blame for inflencing her judgment considering OP and EX had a good marriage before this as EX's BFF comfirmed. I'm willing to bet EX is going to come back crawling to OP begging to be back with him soon considering her visit and how those who gave op news of her described her situation. Weather she fesses up and admits to her fault or tires to pin it all on AP I'd say is what would truly define her character. In any, case EX doesn't deserve OP as she cheated on him and no matter what mental state she was in that doesn't excuse her behavior.

[@lawsonallen7741]

Divorce her you sad doormate.

[@pkroninverse7307]

At 5:06 best line by this guy

[@yassinkf]

This guy is such a simp. I'm pretty sure if she comes crawling back he will definitely take back.

[@treoui8739]

... This guy has no clue... Even in the end... Relationships aren't complicated, they just often are impossible

[@anjanieghisai9384]

wow he is to soft.... nice netherlands greetings from there as well

[@jayjay854-l7d]

the title is wrong

[@Thaddius0]

imagine a wife chilling at home and her husband shows up at midnight with 3 girls and says theyre gonna go out and party in the city.

[@TheGreyParse]

As soon as she came home in the middle of the night with 3 other guys saying she was going out for the night with them, the only thing OP should have done at that point was tell her to take her shit with her because there wouldn't be home waiting for her there afterwards.

[@Ren-ps6re]

age of empires? say less I already know what kind of personality this dude is with this, must be a cool guy to hang around with.

[@dogwithsunglasses4051]

Barely any country has laws against cheating. Divorce is a civil dispute and can be at max be an indicator for who is responsible for the divorce

[@edwardstrudwick9851]

Damn the title of the story doesn’t really even come into effect until the last two minutes.

[@rerolol]

i ate spicy foods if ever going through tough times to release my stress.

[@Monoriss]

Bro still loves her... Lemme tell you one screwed up reality fact. Doesn't matter how happy a woman you can make, there will always be one Chad out there who can make her happier just by existing. I guess she found her Chad, cut ties move on.

[@beeniecat9411]

Theres a level of pettiness like exposing the truth of what happened that should be given a pass.

[@caelanho420]

The fate of all broken hearted men: becoming gym bros 😂

[@asingha94]

Bro begged to a cheater 😂 You've the issue bro

[@beatsnopinions]

Okay few comments - but yk - 1. when she asked whether u would drive her, say yes, let me get the car, then speed off, letting her know that you were not here for this crap.

[@juandp3862]

Anyone has the link to the actual story?