Domestic Violence Against Men

[@condorsouthernlands4730]

Man this brings me back. I got beat up by neighbours and strangers twice because of “heroes” who think they’re rescuing a princess.

[@Zurvan101]

I've been the victim of a decade long smear campaign that went all over the city I live in, courtesy of the flying monkeys desperate to look like heroes.

[@condorsouthernlands4730]

@@Zurvan101 Happens to the best of us, my friend. It just sucks that it took a lovable celebrity being abused to shed light on this dark point in history.

[@MegaSpideyman]

I'm very sorry you've been through that.

[@yasheden]

Now I'm curious, what is the full context of the story? Just asking if you're okay with it.

[@dan13jb]

This is so simple and yet so powerful. I can't help but feel that a man's honour plays a part in this too, especially when it is taken advantage of.

[@dmoney1219]

Financially men have all to lose

[@dan13jb]

@@dmoney1219 From domestic abuse? Or are you going beyond that, and saying that the reason many men don't leave abusive relationships is because of what they may lose financially if they do leave?

[@dmoney1219]

@@dan13jb Somewhat yes. Depending on ones situation.In regards to men For example. If one in has savings, 401k, a home almost paid for. He could lose almost everything.To start over is very difficult especially if your in ur late 40s the laws cater for women not men. Men are beat / broken from the starting gate. At a glance is hard emotional difficult.But in reality its cheaper to keeper her. Sad but true..

[@frankdees507]

@@dmoney1219 Men oughta start being the lawmakers and see how it works lol

[@lj6079]

@@dmoney1219 why would he lose everything in domestic violence case?

[@sirb11]

it's a sad fact that the so called "victims" are abusers in disguise. I went through years of abuse and I am going to therapy to help with my demolished self esteem.

[@UltimateFeudEnterprise]

hope you're okay

[@nopcshere6097]

Oh man. I feel your pain. I am a man who recently escaped an abusive marriage myself (my wife never laid a hand on me in anger but was horribly cruel with words, silent treatment, viewed me as a slave, financial abuse so she could support her brother & mother). She also allowed her narcissistic mother & father to abuse me. I have been in counseling for some time to put my life back together again. I want to believe there is a woman who will not abuse me and will treat me as a person, not an object.

[@Blankfbuser]

Covert narcissism

[@Thestray187]

I go thru that all the time. She lives with her parents so they assume I'm the evil one then she would put me down just to say she's only kidding. We are no longer together I caught her talking to some guy she met at her job and when questioned what's going on her response is why u looking at my phone I'm not your property or ur not my dad. So now she's with some married guy and she claims his wife is ok with it.....I just laughed and threw the engagement ring at her telling her to have a good life Sadly we have a kid together. And she told me if I leave then my son is dead to me. But I couldn't take it anymore without physically wanting to kill her. So I walked away. This happened yesterday. 10 years of being yelled at and made fun of being talked down to and name called. Everybody thinks I'm the aggressor cause of my time of voice and history I had behind behind me. She told me at first that she was the victim of abuse with her ex so I swore I wouldn't be that. I held my end up but she did it to me. I should have left a long time ago and I did but to only return over and over. This time I'm done with her

[@vitkomusic6624]

Same situation here. Feel ypu bro

[@aramisy.cajigas744]

I'm sad to know this. Brother, how are you doing today? I really hope you're doing much better and have healed. Are you doing well?

[@dmc41987]

I went through this as well, I wasn’t allowed to see my friends and had to wear clothes that she wanted me to wear.

[@puscifer99]

I am not allow to see my mum because my wife hates her... I haven't been to an Xmas with my mum in 8 years

[@24rival13]

Yo, Jamie you deserve better

[@24rival13]

@@puscifer99 I'm sorry she broke the relationship between you and your mom

[@dmc41987]

@@24rival13 I ended it ages ago trust me that was tough to do with her still I’m happy now

[@XmatigX]

Is the 40% statistic based on men who report it? Because if so, then the number is probably a lot higher, as men are a lot less likely to report abuse, for fear of ridicule, and because they are more likely to be the ones arrested, even if they were the victims, as the law usually believes women over men in these issues.

[@silent7563]

65%

[@jesipohl6717]

Where did you get the idea that cops/courts believe women over men on these issues? The exact opposite is usually found: "police were also more legalistic in the application of the statute to both female victims and female suspects. " from: www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15564880600798681

[@jesipohl6717]

More legalistic means adhering harshly to the law without considering extra-legal factors. Laws put the burden of evidence on the victim in most cases as such this means female victims are more likely to be left in the lurch whereas female perps are more likely to be arrested. Actually, there are plenty of articles about men killing women abusers and getting off on self-defense, but when women in similar situations do the same they end up in jail: www.penalreform.org/resource/women-who-kill-in-response-to-domestic-violence/

[@njay6494]

@@jesipohl6717 It is super obvious that the court favours women over men. Stop being in denial

[@Symos]

Disturbing yet sadly true

[@calebstephens6059]

This is one of the biggest reasons why I'm staying single/celibate im not risking it

[@erod1109]

For years I said I could not understand why a woman would stay in an abusive relationship. I couldn't wrap my head around how they would not only profess their love for their abuser but would find excuses for their abuser's behavior even going so far as to blaming themselves. I never understood this behavior until I found myself doing these exact same things. I feel totally helpless because I have no one to talk to. I don't feel comfortable opening up to anyone I know. I have no friends of my own. All of friends were her friends first. I feel humiliated that I am actually afraid to stand up for myself. I can't leave because she controls all of the money. I don't want to be a burden on anyone. My family member have their own problem. I have seriously considered suicide but I couldn't hurt my family that way, but I do feel like I am reaching the end of my rope.

[@tFighterPilot]

Is there any update? Have things gotten better?

[@snoddyification]

Respectfully, i find myself understanding what you said. I trust you are well enough within side yourself to survive. This is very strange times indeed. FIND YOURSELF. Cyberspace allows all people to connect. It's a poor substitution for reality, granted, however, it's what is available. GET AWAY FROM HER AS FAST AS YOU CAN. Don't lose your SELF in all this .

[@snoddyification]

Hi there. Just wanting to send you some encouragement. I trust that you have already or soon will realise your true value. YOUR worth cannot be something YOU measure based on externalities. Your worth is something you attain by loving yourself...............it seems counter intuitive There are many things i would like to say, here is probably not cool....so........ I just wanted to say how your honest comment has resonated deeply with me, many others too i suspect. I just hope acknowledging that gives you an encouragement boost.

[@jacquelynpowell7964]

I would try to find a male psychologist and ask your mom for a loan to pay him. Then ask the psychologist how to find mental health that you can go to and pay on a sliding scale.( that means pay as much as you can). Or call 911 and tell them you feel suicidal and tell them your situation and most likely they'll help you.The longer you stay in your current situation the worse it will get. Trust me. I know.

[@marcpedrerol6825]

This video is amazing. Subscribed. Thank you!

[@TheShinySnivy]

Edit: Some of my views have changed since I made this comment 3 years ago, primarily the not calling myself a feminist thing. I'm leaving this comment up for posterity, but my current beliefs are in the replies. I told my best friend that I did not consider myself a feminist, and that I thought men's rights are becoming more of an issue in the US than women's rights. In response, I got into a mostly one sided argument where she chewed me about women's rights, as well as everything that feminism stood for. She said that feminism was about equality, and that the people that made me turn away from the movement were a minority. She said that once she was catcalled on the street, and that it made her fear for her life... I wanted to bang my head on the wall. The discrimination that men are facing socially and legally is getting crazy, and hardly anyone seems to care. Men are receiving almost no support when they are abused, male rape victims are paying child support... and she is upset because she was catcalled and overreacted so much as to fear for her life...

[@TheShinySnivy]

Edit: why was I so cringe By the way, I am a girl. Third wave feminism disgusts me.

[@roskichan3001]

@@TheShinySnivy hmmm interesting...... Don't get caught up

[@NoNo-jj1ic]

I swear I'm just ashamed to have my gender being like this God I hate having to deal with the feminist crap

[@Roam-de-route]

@@TheShinySnivy Feminism doesn't care about men. Not the avg men anyways.

[@doodleoffice221]

You are right. It pains me to see such ignorance towards the violence towards males. I had argued with so many of them. They completely deny this fact and say it's worse in women's case. This is just frustrating. Also, it's nice to see a snivy pfp.

[@ramdashwant2024]

If You Are A Victim, Speak Up Today Otherwise It May Not Ever, Ever Go Away

[@Kodeeni]

It happened to me, it wasn’t until a counselor told me that Domestic violence laws protect me to that I got out, sad thing is all but 2 of our friends sided with her and because i divorced without church permission I got kicked out. It’s been 15 years and I still couldn’t go back even if I wanted to.

[@chriskazkatieandellathecat9349]

New bill in Scotland on Domestic Abuse includes coercive control on a former partner male or female and includes demands for cash

[@nopcshere6097]

Chris,Kaz,Katie, and Ella the cat Oh wow. If that had been the law in Canada my wife & her mother could have been charged. The question is how does one prove it.

[@EdwardWallaceTechTalk]

Thank you for sharing this video. There are so many things we need to change about the way we look at domestic violence, especially in regards to the discriminatory policies, and how alcohol is associated. On one hand we say learned behaviors or patriarchal view (feminist) is the cause of violence, but alcohol is only an excuse. I just wrote a self-published Book "Domestic Violence, The Forbidden Truth and released it on Amazon. I am trying to encourage everyone to share this book with as many people as possible. I take a hard look at feminist, societal beliefs, religion, causes of domestic violence, advocates, and especially discrimination against men. The book also asks the question, is alcohol a cause of domestic violence, or is it still just an excuse that exacerbates an already tainted person? Please, I encourage everyone to at least read the ebook. It is available now, but at the end of the month will be available for 99 cents for a short time.

[@mysterypotatocat]

Poor guy! :(

[@spudypuddy7236]

Same us to me when i get call from friends she start moning and winjing so I give up stay home watching what she want even I go to bedroom stay on myself start calling me what are u doing there Been abused for 3 years and finally i got depression and I'm on medication everyday

[@EnFyr]

Anyone else wondering why these videos doesn't get any likes compared to domestic abuse towards women?

[@southshaolinfistkhaldun4265]

Because anything exposing misandry especially when said acts of misandry are by women, the subject is immediately glossed over because in first world societies like U.S., U.K., Canada, etc., the narrative is heterosexual men are inherently "evil", "abusive", "homophobic", "sexual predators" that can't be trusted. Meanwhile, all of the female(women) sexual predators and the women that are abusive to their husbands or children are COMPLETELY ignored by mainstream society. 🙄

[@SimplyDuker]

The answer is rather obvious.

[@user-mw3ej7rq6k]

It's 65%.

[@umbra014]

Please provide source

[@marinvidovic763]

@@umbra014 Here it is : kzbin.info/www/bejne/jXnGgpKdrZqVmM0

[@spudypuddy7236]

I did left the house now and look what she did , she go to my work and she try to damage my friendship with my team

[@saturncrush]

Damn. That twist..simple yet effective!

[@synyster5299]

wtf the 1 dislike femenist

[@themr.wchannel7687]

Plus 15

[@Miss_bankes]

Thank you for this video 😇😇

[@johnmachesky4185]

I reported it, the police came, asked.ME to find a place to go for the night, if the roles we reversed I probably would have been arrested.

[@cameronspalding9792]

I don’t hate feminism but I do hate how feminists portray this as an issue that only affects women

[@smokey7927]

I think I'm going through something similar

[@maxpearson9234]

Can anyone link that 40% statistic to a study? Thanks if you can.

[@marinvidovic763]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/jXnGgpKdrZqVmM0

[@BeanOnTheFlipside]

www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence

[@stevearizona521]

My wife pulls this shit and I give it right back to her.

[@Bluecollar711]

I'm going through it to

[@billwebber5208]

In the UK in Wiltshire at least, it is not possible for Men to report domestic violence because the Police won't take the complaints against Women. I have been forced to live like an animal in a garden shed for the best part of nearly decade. There is NO help for Men who suffer this kind of emotional abuse, no help whatsoever. All the agencies ever do is signpost to each other.

[@THRverssaille3376]

I'm sorry for you but i don't understand you, you mean you really lived in a garden shed or it's just a metaphor?

[@lsonofjohn8034]

Speak up. Right. To who? Who gonna listen.

[@m.hstudioproductions6642]

Well, let's think about that. If you've got friends and family who are close and actually care about the situation, they'll actually listen. But there's also MGTOW as well if you want to take it to the extreme.

[@metalpig3518]

men or WOMEN NO ONE has the right to sexually or mentally assault ANY ONE ANY TIME ANY PLACE

[@alvaroalas2450]

why do women always go with women even if it's a man who is the victims that pisses me off

[@NotKewl]

Idk they treat men like shit these days

[@alvaroalas2450]

i know today's girls are such spoiled brats that they think they deserve the world

[@Sarvagya4]

victim mentality..even my mom constantly narrates about how she does this and does that and she does so much when she's just lazy...and my dad works all day everyday and he's never come home and told me how much work he had to do..

[@alvaroalas2450]

it's sad how today's women undermine and dismiss the work that men do

[@guillaumveilleult9595]

I'm not sure women were consider like shit in the past. I'm pretty sure it is the feminist's narrative that make us believe this.

[@mack7963]

That brought back some pretty painful memories, idid however find a way to stop any reoccurence of such incidents happening again, to write off all women when it comes to romantic involvement, yes i'll die alone but at least i'll die in peace, and thats worth it.

[@jpmurdablok9924]

Michael Mackinnon no don’t say that come on, I mean yes there are some women are really shitty but there are a lot more women that are nice, kind, beautiful, and friendly so for those few shitty women out there we tell em to go fuck themselves

[@Roam-de-route]

Same here man. Its better to avoid them altogether , they can easily destroy your life

[@calebhendrickson2067]

Happened on my bday August 9th

[@christopherwinstanley1348]

It's lould voices, that dominance. Relationship because some men are passive.

[@meawblackcatmeaw]

I'm searching for videos like these because I need them for a Psychology project. I was on the female Domestic violence add and every comment was about how the males have the same problem and how we shouldn't make males look bad, On here it's the same, some people are dumb enough to comment that the guy is a pussy, while the others say that this is due to Feminism. I think we're all missing the point on both sides. Domestic violence isn't a Sexist thing. It's a form of abuse on any Male, Female, Child or anyone involved in that household. Please stop making this an argument about Sexist or Feminist. Make this about ending Domestic abuse.

[@marinvidovic763]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/jXnGgpKdrZqVmM0

[@trickydicky7868]

Really p##### me off when some people come out with comments such as "he's a man and he is able to defend himself against the female aggressor" and " Why dont he just leave" People who come out with these comments probably have never experienced domestic abuse to know what its like. Have experienced mainly emotional abuse (with belittling and controlling behaviour and one or two threats) with my now ex girlfriend I can tell those people that just leaving an abusive relationship is not as easy as you think.

[@notthething9531]

Feminists gave gone out of their way to pretend this is exclusively a women’s issue and have even shut down men’s shelters with harassment campaigns. Don’t be deliberately dense

[@debrasmith3841]

She became what she saw or experienced

[@ScaramouchedaVinci]

Thats more than 40%!

[@MrVirkMedia]

went through serious DV last year from wife & yet no support vs what support the wife got telling lies from the law

[@starsofaheartattack6286]

No More Feminism!

[@guardianangel4444]

It's not about feminist 😕

[@starsofaheartattack6286]

@@guardianangel4444 feminists push that woman are always the victim and men are horrable. They ignore men's issues and some even thing men deserve to be abused.

[@kf8575]

Trudi knight down to a tee

[@scottclark1123]

Not a very nice wife

[@JohnFRambo]

No wife is nice in these times!!!

[@CorzIlla]

16 feminists dislike this video.

[@jacquelynpowell7964]

I'm a feminist and I believe men are battered, belittled and threatened too. Feminism means a fair situation for ALL. Not just women. People are confused about the definition of feminism.Equal rights for women and men are the goal.It's to let each gender be all they can be regardless of what society thinks is the "norm".

[@predragdjuranovic8039]

Woman amazing psihophysicall respect

[@prasannarane7220]

Shame on feminism fake women empowerment

[@MichaelJohnson-zh9df]

Dang lady you ain't that man mama

[@Bluecollar711]

203

[@ReyBanYAHUAH]

Always remember we must repent of our sins (sin is transgression The Law Of Yahuah The Father in Heaven. The Law are The Books: Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, & Deuteronomy). We must repent of our sins and Have Belief On Yahusha The Messiah. HE Died and Rose three days later so that we can be forgiven of our sins! Come to HIM🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@kellyedwards5727]

I would tell her off big time

[@valentinnagat7729]

💪👍👊🤪🤣🤣🤣

[@nolongerhavetowork]

Rubbish

[@stephjuhler999]

Sorry but I don't see any kind of 'domestic violence' in this video at all or even emotional/psychological abuse. Just a bunch of childish, bickering grown-ups. This is normal behaviour even for healthy relationships.

[@deadman3986]

Peace for Paris it would've been kinda hard to notice but if you look closely the guy had a black eye.

[@stephjuhler999]

Yeah, I noticed it when looking closely but it's not obvious.

[@deadman3986]

Peace for Paris they probably made it obvious on purpose. To show that you don't always see it

[@joshbrucks]

Queen of Kekistan her completely controlling him isnt psychological abuse? taking his phone telling him what he can and cant do who he can and cant hang out with? sorry but that most definitely is abuse...

[@carljohnson2194]

You definitely are a fucking feminist

[@kryptik99]

Spot on